All episodes

601 - Polyamory as a Political Movement with Dr. Kim TallBear

600 - So Your Hinge Sucks at Hinge-ing

599 - What Do I Do When Both My Partners Want Marriage? Listener Q&A

We Made History. Let's Do It Again: The 2026 OPEN Community Survey

598 - Over-Functioning in Relationships: Why Taking On More Makes It Worse

597 - What are Asexuality and Aromanticism (with Patrick Bex)?

596 - Relationship OCD and Non-monogamy (with Sheva Rajaee MFT)

595 - Does My Metamour Owe Me Their STI Results? - Listener Q&A

594 - Open Up Your Relationship in X Easy Steps

Summer Break

593 - The Lost Science of Flirting

592 - Intimacy When Sex Is Off the Table - Listener Q&A

591 - Shift Anxious Attachment with Your Body, Not Your Brain (with Orit Krug)

590 - Is Non-Monogamy Worth the Struggle?

589 - This Too Shall Pass: The Science of Acceptance

588 - Bridging Financial Gaps in Polyamory

587 - Discomfort Around Sex: Listener Q&A

586 - How to Support Your Partner Through a Breakup

585 - The First Study on Relationship Anarchy with Dr. Nicole Thompson

584 - Buddhist Perspective on Compersion with Dr. Marie Thouin

583 - Is It a "Me" Problem or a "We" Problem? How to Know What to Bring to Your Partner

582 - Long Distance Relationships: Are They Worth It?

581 - Humor and Attraction with Dr. Paul Eastwick

580 - Actually, You Should Be Testing Your Partner

579 - Polysaturation vs. New Poly Energy: Listener Q&A

578 - Getting Back Together with an Ex: Great Idea or Terrible Idea?

577 - Should You Push Through the “Ick”?

576 - In Praise of Indirect Communication: Is Directness Actually Superior?

575 - I’ll Never Be Their First Priority: Listener Q&A

574 - How to Make Calendaring Not Suck

573 - Is the Non-Monogamy in Vicky Cristina Barcelona Realistic? Film Critique with Love Factually

572 - Building Commitment Off the Relationship Escalator

571 - They're Unwinding from Monogamy. Should I Wait Around? Listener Q&A

570 - Play as Resistance: featuring Gary Ware from Breakthrough Play and Normalizing Non-Monogamy

569 - Why is Everyone So Tired of Dating?

568 - When You Want More Time But Your Partner Won’t Give It

567 - Is Toxic Individualism a Real Problem?

566 - More Than a Numbers Game: Dating Truths from Feeld's Data Team

565 - Results Are In: The Largest Non-Monogamy Study

564 - Help! My partner's dates are difficult to endure! Listener Q&A

563 - The Episode to Share with Your Parents: Remastered

562 - Polyamory in a Red State with Stacey McLarty

561 - Level Up Your Polyamory: Common Newbie Mistakes (and How to Fix Them)

560 - I'm Solo Poly, But I Want More: Listener Q&A

559 - The Struggle of Loneliness

558 - This Is Your Brain on (Jealousy) Drugs

557 - Is Sexual Rejection Hurting Your Relationships?

556 - How Much is Too Much Information About My Other Relationships? Listener Q&A

Let's Have Some Fun For a Change! See You On The Foosball Court - Relationship Recess 2026

555 - Reclaiming Spirituality as a Queer, Polyamorous Person with Brian G. Murphy

554 - Persuasion or Coercion? Navigating Polyamory Under Duress

553 - What Can Swingers and Polyamorists Learn From Each Other? With Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast

552 - Why Your Partner Doesn’t Plan Stuff (And What You Can Do About It)

551 - My Partner Dates People Just Like Me: Listener Q&A

550 - We Still Play Medieval Dating Games

549 - What's Really Driving Your Love Life: The 8 Worldly Concerns

548 - Conversations to Have Before Moving in Together

Help us make history: The biggest non-monogamy study ever conducted!

547 - Help! My Partner is Dating My Best Friend: Listener Q&A

546 - Therapy Myths That Hurt Your Relationships (with therapist Joe Nucci)

545 - AI Relationships: Ethics, Intimacy, & Algorithms with Dr. Julie Carpenter

544 - Are You Sabotaging Your Relationships by Seeking Security?

543 - My Metamour Refuses to Meet Me: Listener Q&A

542 - Is Emotional Intelligence the Key to Getting Out of Our Own Way?

541 - Make Agreements with Yourself, Not With Your Partner

540 - Banish the Ghost of Relationships Past

539 - Introducing My Polyamorous Partner to My Monogamous Parents: Listener Q&A

538 - When Knowing Better Doesn't Mean Doing Better

537 - Breaking the Cycle: Releasing the Grip of Control

536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control and Taking Back Your Power in Relationships

535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A

534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)

533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?

531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex with Multiple People? Listener Q&A

530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your Feelings (Sometimes)

528 - The Art of Stepping Back: De-escalation

527 - Why Your Search for Closure Isn't Working

526 - How do you make space for a primary relationship while keeping a non-primary one? Listener Q&A

525 - Your Metamour is Not the Villain with Alex Alberto

524 - From Worried to Empowered: Taking Action for Relationship Rights with Experts Diana Adams and Brett Chamberlin

523 - How do I cultivate polyamorous community? Listener Q&A

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522 - The Power of Denial: Are You Lying to Yourself?

521 - Finding Fairness in Non-monogamy

520 - Do You Treat Your Partner Worse Than You Treat Your Friends?

519 - Competing for Attention: Why Your Partner's Distraction Hurts

518 - Talking to Kids about Non-Monogamy (with Evolving Love)

517 - Breaking the Approval Cycle

516 - Is Solo Polyamory Right For You?

515 - Romanticization: Friend or Foe?

514 - My Metamour is Convinced I Hate Her. Help! Listener Q&A

513 - Our Body and Brain are Not Always on the Same Page: Remastered

512 - Before, During, and After Opening Up Your Relationship

511 - Protecting Your Relationships from the News

510 - Don't Let Envy Ruin Your Relationship

509 - Frank Smith Gets Real about Queer Polyamory

508 - Four Steps to Stop a Conflict Spiral

507 - Putting Your Values into Action with Jaime Gama