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Sounds Fake But Okay — 397 episodes
Ep 395: Enforcing the Patriarchy from Under the Queer Umbrella
Ep 394: Things We're Afraid to Admit as Aspecs
Ep 393: The World Cup Sex Boom and Sex Bucket Lists
Ep 392: Reddit Rabbithole pt. 25
Ep 391: Why Do the Straights Hate Yearning?
Ep 390: Listener Lore pt. 9
Ep 389: Body Trends
Ep 388: The College for Tradwives and MRS Degrees
Ep 387: Therapy and Asexuality feat. Ashley Koch
Ep 386: Fuck, Marry, Kill (But Aspec) pt. 2
Ep 385: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 24
Special Report: Live from the AroAce Capital of the World
Ep 384: The Overlap Between Trans and Aspec Identities
Ep 383: Can I Still Be Asexual/Aromantic If...?
Ep 382: Listener Lore pt. 8
Ep 381: Sex Toys
Ep 380: Birth Order Determines Sexuality?
Ep 379: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 23
Ep 378: Heteropessimism
Ep 377: Dating Tips for the "Libido Crisis"
Ep 376: Winter Olympics Recap
Ep 375: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 22
Ep 374: Aromantic Art feat. Zachary Trebellas
Ep 373: Aplatonic
Ep 372: Listener Lore pt. 7
Ep 371: Queerbaiting
Ep 370: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 21
Ep 369: Heated Rivalry
Ep 368: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Sixth Year)
Ep 367: Aromanticism and Asexuality at Work
Ep 366: Writing Aspecs
Ep 365: Sex in Horror Movies (feat. Stepdean)
Ep 364: Are Single Folks Punished Financially?
Ep 363: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 20
Ep 362: Listener Lore pt. 6
Ep 361: Tops, Bottoms, and Queer Heteronormativity
Ep 360: True Love's Kiss and the Science of Kissing
Ep 359: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 19
Ep 358: Sexualized Music
Ep 357: Aspec Smut Writers
Ep 356: Hot Takes
Ep 355: People in Relationships are Treated Better
Ep 354: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 18
Ep 353: AI Relationships
Ep 352: Listener Lore pt. 5
Ep 351: 8th Birthday Q&A
Ep 350: Pride 2025 and Biphobia
Ep 349: Could Changing for a Crush Be a Good Thing?
Ep 348: Choose Your Own Adventure
Ep 347: Can Womanhood and Aspec Identities Coexist?
Ep 346: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 17
Ep 345: Pets Boost Wellbeing More Than Partners
Ep 344: Portalmania by Debbie Urbanski
Ep 343: On Queer Women Loving Boy Bands
Ep 342: Listener Lore pt. 4
Ep 341: Trans Aspec Solidarity
Ep 340: Making Assumptions
Ep 339: Doing Things Alone
Ep 338: Reddit Rabbit Hole pt. 16
Ep 337: Beauty Standards
Ep 336: Non-Allo Major Life Events
Ep 335: What to Give Up for Lent
Ep 334: Reddit Rabbit Hole pt. 15
Ep 333: Inclusive Sex Ed feat. Dee Whitnell
Ep 332: Aro Week feat. AUREA
Ep 331: Emophilia
Ep 330: Gen Z Dating Slang
Ep 329: Listener Lore pt. 3
Ep 328: Google's Year in Search
Ep 327: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Fifth Year)
Ep 326: Reddit Rabbit Hole pt 14 (Kids Edition)
Ep 325: Hallmark Christmas Movies
Ep 324: Listener Lore pt. 2
Ep 323: The 4B Movement
Ep 322: Conjugal Visits
Ep 321: "Hear Me Out" Cakes
Ep 320: Listener Lore (AITA)
Ep 319: Would You Rather - Aspec Edition
Ep 318: Public Displays of Affection
Ep 317: Reddit Rabbit Hole pt 13
316: Unconditional Love
Ep 315: Cishet Men are Homoerotic
Ep 314: The Don't Should Philosophy
Ep 313: Sexuality is Fluid!
Ep 312: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA 12)
Ep 311: Trad Wives and Ballerina Farm
Ep 310: Yapping
Ep 309: Do Romance Tropes Actually Work in Real Life??
Ep 308: Aspec Origin Stories
Ep 307: Am I The Asshole pt. 11
Ep 306: The "Medium Ugly" Phenomenon
Ep 305: Boy Moms
Ep 304: Dating App Marketing
Ep 303: Rating Historic Dating Customs
Ep 302: Are Kids Growing Up Faster? Ruminations on the impact of the internet
Ep 301: Am I The Asshole pt. 10 (Tiny Man Edition)
Ep 300: Government Recognition of Asexuality feat. Ash McCullough
Ep 299: Gold Star Asexuality and "Actual Asexuals"
Ep 298: The Rise of Smutty Books
Ep 297: Body Count
Ep 296: Am I The Asshole pt. 9
Ep 295: Couple Privilege
Ep 294: Q&A - aspec activism, friendship, the allos, & more!
Ep 293: Can AI Help You Date?
Ep 292: Separating Aromanticism from Asexuality
Ep 291: Am I The Asshole pt. 8 (Asshole Edition)
Ep 290: Hating Your Partner
Ep 289: The Other Significant Others feat. Rhaina Cohen
Ep 288: Compersion
Ep 287: Celebrity Sexuality Speculation
Ep 286: Am I The Asshole pt. 7 (Aspec Edition)
Ep 285: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Fourth Year)
Ep 284: This Author Loves Butch Orcs
Ep 283: SFBO the Audiobook Sneak Peek
Ep 282: Am I The Asshole pt. 6 (Wedding Edition)
Ep 281: Being Ace feat. Madeline Dyer
Ep 280: Romanticizing
Ep 279: Aspec Quizzes
Ep 278: The Ick
Ep 277: Cuffing Season
Ep 276: Dating Later in Life
Ep 275: Dating Coaches
Ep 274: Microlabels pt. 3
Ep 273: Am I The Asshole? pt. 5
Ep 272: Aspec Shark Tank
Ep 271: Accidental Flirting
Ep 270: The Barbie Movie
Ep 269: Compulsory Heterosexuality
Ep 268: Sex and Romance Trivia
Ep 267: Love Languages
Ep 266: r/RelationshipProblems
Ep 265: Free From Desire feat. Aline Laurent-Mayard
Ep 264: Just a Silly Little Q&A
Ep 263: Gender Detachment
Ep 262: Celebrating Pride
Ep 261: Aces in Racing feat. Michael Klein
Ep 260: Microlabels Pt. 2
Ep 259: Asking ChatGPT About Asexuality and Aromanticism
Ep 258: Am I The Asshole? pt. 4
Ep 257: The Friendship Recession
Ep 256: I Have Beef With the Moon
Ep 255: We Are Changed to Deer at the Broken Place feat. Kelly Weber
Ep 254: Ace Notes feat. Michele Kirichanskaya
Ep 253: What's In and What's Out?
Ep 252: Sex and Romance Mad Libs
Ep 251: Trans Rights
Ep 250: Alcohol Consumption & Aspecs
Ep 249: The TikTok Algorithm
Ep 248: Sounds Fake But Okay Book Preview!
Ep 247: Thinking About Sex & Romance (Or Not)
Ep 246: Taking Up Space as an Aspec
Ep 245: Nudity in Art
Ep 244: Amatonormativity in Small Talk
Ep 243: Signs We Were Aspec
Ep 242: Catfishing
Ep 241: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Third Year)
Ep 240: Kink, BDSM, and Asexuality feat. Evie Lupine
Ep 239: Are We Soulmates???
Ep 238: Aphrodisiacs
Ep 237: Reading r/Confessions
Ep 236: Aspec Microlabels Pt. 1
Ep 235: The Split Attraction Model
Ep 234: Aspec Culture Shock
Ep 233: Writing Gay Porn feat. Dalton King
Ep 232: Relaxcast pt. 2
Ep 231: Ace Voices feat. Eris Young
Ep 230: Rating Bad Pickup Lines
Ep 229: Refusing Compulsory Sexuality by Sherronda J. Brown
Ep 228: r/AreTheStraightsOK?
Ep 227: Are Soulmates Real?
Ep 226: Allonormativity and Amatanormativity
Ep 225: Libras Are Obsessed with Romance
Ep 224: Ghosting
Ep 223: Pet Names for Partners
Ep 222: 2022 Corporate Pride Roundup
Ep 221: Femcels
Ep 220: Aspecs Describe the Difference Between Hot, Sexy, Pretty, and Cute
Ep 219: Breath and Sexual Arousal??
Ep 218: Reacting to r/ShowerThoughts
Ep 217: Weddings
Ep 216: Aspecs Explain Romantic Tropes
Ep 215: Being an Aspec Outside Observer
Ep 214: On Being Biromantic Demisexual
Ep 213: Am I The Asshole? pt. 3
Ep 212: We're Back!
Sounds Hiatus But Okay
Ep 211: Analyzing Romantic Christmas Songs
Ep 210: Why Is Christmas Romantic?
Ep 209: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Second Year)
Ep 208: Reddit Questions and the Statue of Liberty
Ep 207: Playing Mind Games While Dating
Ep 206: Asexual/Aromantic Joy
Ep 205: Reddit Confessions
Ep 204: Why Vampires Are Asexual/Aromantic
Ep 203: Ace Week feat. Basil Langevin
Ep 202: Parasocial Relationships and POVs
Ep 201: Social Bonding with Sex and Romance
Ep 200: 200 Ways We've Changed
Ep 199: Am I The Asshole? pt. 2
Ep 198: Having a Type
Ep 197: Turning Love Songs Into Death Songs
Ep 196: Dear Luke, Love, Me (Aspecs in Film!)
Ep 195: Aesthetic Attraction & Gender - A Manifesto
Ep 194: Google Autocomplete
Ep 193: The Perfect Aspec Birthday Party
Ep 192: BTS, Fandom, and Queerness feat. Padya Paramita
Ep 191: Giving Relationship Advice to Reddit
Ep 190: Relaxcast
Ep 189: Evolution, Sex, and Romance
Ep 188: Sure Sex is Cool But...
Ep 187: Asexuality, Autism, and Comedy feat. Eliott Simpson
Ep 186: Am I The Asshole?
Ep 185: Pride Month Q&A
Ep 184: Kink at Pride
Ep 183: Mental Health and Sexuality
Ep 182: Fuck, Marry, Kill (But Aspec)
Ep 181: Accessibility and Asexuality feat. Liam O'Dell
Ep 180: Aspec Headcanons for Game Characters
Ep 179: The First Gay Bachelor and the Pressure to Conform
Ep 178: Asexuality and Drag feat. Venus Envy
Ep 177: International Asexuality Day
Ep 176: Answering Questions for Couples
Ep 175: Incel Culture
Ep 174: Discovering Demisexuality feat. Chantel Houston
Ep 173: Pre-Date Rituals
Ep 172: Being an Older Asexual/Aromantic feat. Barefoot Backpacker
Ep 171: What Is Aromanticism?
Ep 170: Romantic Activities To Do Alone
Ep 169: The Perks of Asexuality and Aromanticism
Ep 168: Asexual Parenting feat. David Jay
Ep 167: Things that Aspecs Don't Owe You
Ep 166: The History of Bi/Ace Solidarity
Ep 165: Boyfriend vs. Best Friend
Ep 164: The Medicalization of Asexuality
Ep 163: Choosing the Allo of the Year
Ep 162: Dungeons and Dragons and Gender and Sexuality feat. Perry Fiero
Ep 161: Rewriting Songs About Romance and Sex
Ep 160: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The First Year)
Ep 159: An Asexual Perspective of No Nut November
Ep 158: Rating Your Aspec Vibes
Ep 157: Aspec Activism feat. Gentle Giant Ace
Ep 156: Ace Week Celebration feat. YOU!
Ep 155: Revealing Victoria's Secret
Ep 154: How To Be Ace feat. Rebecca Burgess
Ep 153: Having Confidence in Your Sexuality
Ep 152: Being Non-Binary feat. A Friend
Ep 151: Anti-Gender Reveal Parties
Ep 150: Sex-Repulsed vs. Sex-Averse
Ep 149: ACE by Angela Chen
Ep 148: 46 Unsexy Things to Do in Bed
ANNOUNCEMENT! Sounds Fake But Okay Goes to UK Ace Con
Ep 147: Asexual Representation feat. Repl(Ace) the Media
Ep 146: How Babies Are Made (Wrong Answers Only)
Ep 145: Sounds Fake But A OK! feat. Courtney Lang
Ep 144: The ~*~Two~*~ Genders
Ep 143: Loveless feat. Alice Oseman!
Ep 142: Reasons NOT to Have Sex
Ep 141: The Ace Ring
Ep 140: Reasons to Have Sex
Ep 139: Sexual Acts Do Not Equal Sexuality
Ep 138: Things to Put in Movies Other Than Romance
Ep 137: Asexuality Does NOT Equal Heterosexuality
Ep 136: Weird Sexual Innuendos
Ep 135: BLACK LIVES MATTER
Ep 134: Navigating Virtual Pride
Ep 133: Wikipedia Rabbit Hole pt. 2
Ep 132: An Interview with Daniel from Slice of Ace
Ep 131: Our Relationship With Our Bodies
Ep 130: Reclaiming Romantic Songs
Ep 129: Being AroAce is a TALENT
Ep 128: An AroAce Review of Sexy and Romantic Things
Ep 127: Aceness in the Time of Coronavirus
Ep 126: We Wrote an Aro Ace Movie
Ep 125: Your Questions Answered by Our Allo Expert
Ep 124: What To Do While Stuck at Home
Ep 123: What If We Had Different Sexualities?
Ep 122: Aros and Aces Need Safe Queer Spaces
Ep 121: What to Do When Someone Comes out to You
Ep 120: Dating in High School???
Ep 119: Unromantic Activities to Do for Valentine's Day
Ep 118: The Demisexual Experience
Ep 116: DON'T OUT PEOPLE
Ep 115: Little Women, Aromanticism, and Asexuality
Ep 114: A Decade in Review
Ep 113: Our Favorite Things - Forgiveness, Games, etc.
Ep 112: Pet Peeves of Asexual People
Ep 111: Sex Shouldn't Be a Social Taboo
Ep 110: Dealing With Family During the Holidays
Ep 109: How to Find a Mate
Ep 108: Self-Partnered
Ep 107: Crushes vs. Squishes
Ep 106: How Witches Represent the Asexual Experience
Ep 105: Asexuals Play the KFC Dating Simulator
Ep 104: National Coming Out Day feat. Sarah's Sister
Ep 103: Dating While Asexual
Ep 102: Word Association
Ep 101: The Bachelor From an Aro Ace Perspective Pt. 2
Ep 100: 100th Episode Extravaganza!
Ep 99: Relationship Anarchy
Ep 98: How to Not be Aphobic
Ep 97: Asexual Culture and Community
Ep 96: Everything is Fake
Ep 95: Reviewing "Sexy" Things
Ep 94: Matchmaking for Asexuals
Ep 93: Characters Who Are Definitely Asexual pt. 2
Ep 92: Mental Health and Sexuality
Ep 91: 36 Questions to Make You Fall in Love
Ep 90: Why Are Millennials Having So Little Sex?
Ep 89: Reactions to Pride and Taylor Swift's Video
Ep 88: Reading Sarah's Childhood Novel
Ep 87: What Is Asexuality?
Ep 86: It's the Year of, like... Realizing Things
Ep 85: Queer Education in Schools feat. A Friend
Ep 84: Wikipedia Rabbit Hole
Ep 83: Personal Growth and the Future
Ep 82: Feminism and Research
Ep 81: Sexuality Quizzes
Ep 80: Queer Women In Positions of Power
Ep 79: Queerness and Gaming feat. A Friend
Ep 78: What Do You Assume?
Ep 77: April Fools' Day
Ep 76: Aces in Space
Ep 75: Unhealthy Queer Relationships feat. Sarah's Sister
Ep 74: The Bachelor From an Aro Ace Perspective
Ep 73: The Burden of Explaining Asexuality
Ep 72: Passing as Straight
Ep 71: Hot Takes
Ep 70: Valentine's Day
Ep 69: MicroACEgressions
Ep 68: What to Do Instead of Being Aphobic
Ep 67: Advice for Asexuals
Ep 66: Parenting Queer Kids feat. Sarah's MOM
Ep 65: New Year's Resolutions
Ep 64: Family and Sexuality During the Holidays
Ep 63: Finding Your Place in a Community
Ep 62: Bisexuality feat. A Friend
Ep 61: How to Dress Queer
Ep 60: Answering Questions Posed by Songs pt 2
Ep 59: Thankful for Asexuality
Ep 58: Social Media and Sexuality
Ep 57: Queer Issues in Politics
Ep 56: Sexy Halloween Costumes
Ep 55: Smash or Pass, But Ace pt. 2
Ep 54: Non-Inclusive Groups
Ep 53: Breakups
Ep 52: Astrology
Ep 51: Being Heteroromantic Asexual feat. A Friend
Ep 50: Answering Questions Posed by Songs
Ep 49: Being Queer at School Dances
Ep 48: Romantic Comedies, But Platonic
Ep 47: Polyamory feat. A Friend
Ep 46: Smash or Pass, But Ace
Ep 45: Dating as an Asexual Person
Ep 44: Women's Viagra and Sexual Desire
Ep 43: Living Up To LGBTQIA+ Stereotypes feat. Sarah's Sister
Ep 42: Aromantic
Ep 41: Are You Faking Your Sexuality?
Ep 40: An Asexual Experience at Pride
Ep 38: Everyone Feels Shitty Sometimes (or, Being Jealous of Non-Ace People)
Ep 37: Questioning Your Sexuality
Ep 36: Sexual Games pt. 3
Ep 35: Male Expectations and Masculinity feat. A Friend
Ep 34: Asexual People are Part of the LGBTQIA+ Community
Ep 33: Dress Codes
Ep 32: The Gay Agenda
Ep 31: Hooking Up and Kissing
Ep 30: Asexual Representation
Ep 29: Catcalls as Compliments
Ep 28: Bridging the Generational Gap feat. A Mom
Ep 27: Sexual Games pt. 2
Ep 26: Hate Playing a Sexual Game
Ep 25: Sextiquette
Ep 24: Pluto is Asexual
Ep 23: Billboard Top 10 from an Ace Perspective
Ep 22: Reacting to Sexualized Media
Ep 21: Shipping Real People
Ep 20: Porn
Ep 19: Accepting Your Sexuality
Ep 18: Asexual People and Kids
Ep 17: Characters who are Definitely Asexual
Ep 16: Sex Positive Asexuality
Ep 15: Where Do You Put Your Dick?
Ep 14: Virginity
Ep 13: Periods
Ep 12: Mental Health and Relationships feat. A Friend
Ep 11: Sex in Weird Places
Ep 10: Little Ace in a Big, Big World
Ep 9: Different Types of Attraction
Ep 8: Online Dating
Ep 7: Labeling Your Sexuality
Ep 6: Awkward Flirting feat. A Friend
Ep 5: Queer Platonic Relationships and Marriages
Ep 4: How Long Does Sex Last?
Ep 3: Shipping
Ep 2: Romantic vs. Platonic Relationships
Ep 1: Dick Pics
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