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Superpowered Mind with Clare Dimond — 1501 episodes

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067 Create

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066 The Three Pillars of Life in Form

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065 Why Doesn't It Change?

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064 Real Self Care: 5 Factors for a Flourishing Life

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063 The Seven Questions

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062 Needs and Boundaries in Relationships

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061 The Seven Principles of the Mind

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060 How to Be More You

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059 Identity and Gender

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058 The Impact of Exploring Reality

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057 The Benefits of Problems

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056 Regret

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055 Problem Solving

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054 Don't Let Go of the Outcome

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053 The Direct Path

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052 Find Your Why

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051 Boring

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050 Five Quotes for Life

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049 Being Seen

20

048 Nice Eyebrows - What Compliments and Insults Reveal

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047 What is the Benefit?

22

046 What is My Equivalent?

23

045 New Year, New You?

24

044 The True Gift of the Holidays

25

043 Peace and Alignment

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042 You Create Your Own Reality. Why That is a Problematic Phrase

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041 Efficiency

28

040 Healing

29

039 What is Alignment?

30

038 How to Make Better Choices

31

037 Should I Stay or Should I Go?

32

036 What is the Ego?

33

035 Will and Intention

34

034 What is Gained?

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033 Cause, Symptom and Effect

36

032 The Brick Wall

37

031 Home Truths - 5 Questions of True Power

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030 How Can I Be More Motivated?

39

029 What Are Healthy Boundaries?

40

028 How Can I Have More Focus?

41

027 Burnout or Re-Energised: Understanding Capacity

42

026 Is There Such a Thing as Constraints?

43

025 Spiritual Maturity

44

024 Self-Esteem is the End of Self-Reference

45

023 Showing Up for Someone

46

022 What is My Equivalent?

47

021 Confidence

48

020 Impersonal Purpose

49

019 Why is This the Only Conversation to be in?

50

018 The Future

51

017 What is the Past?

52

016 What is a Healthy Ego?

53

015 Resilience

54

014 The Role of Psychology

55

013 Is There Free Will?

56

012 What is Reality?

57

011 What is Security?

58

010 What is Peace?

59

009 How Do I Get Rid of the Shame?

60

008 Why Can't I Get What I Want?

61

007 Is My Personality My Fault?

62

006 How to End Your Addiction

63

005 Fear and Insecurity

64

004 How Trauma Influences Your Perception

65

003 The Struggle and Your Unhappiness

66

002 What is the Superpowered Mind?

67

001 What is the Mind?

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000 Welcome to the Superpowered Mind Podcast!

69

Last podcast for a while: lab and field

70

Doing the work

71

Climbing - failure and reality

72

Anger and flight: listener comment

73

Is anger justified? Listener question

74

Fear and panic: listener question

75

Projection and reality: listener question

76

Motivation: listener question

77

Disgrace Land. A description from Kerry O'Connor

78

Amy, Helen and Clare conversation

79

Free will and awakening: listener question

80

Choices: listener comment

81

What’s the difference between having boundaries and going deeper into discomfort?

82

‘Going deeper into the reality of someone’ listener question

83

Watching myself : listener comment

84

You need a calm mind - bad advice wednesday

85

1 minute 3 questions on Resentment

86

Fear and shame : listener comment

87

Real Peak Experiences

88

What is your awakening journey Clare?: listener question

89

Is there such a thing as a healthy ego?: listener question

90

Listener response to Protection podcast (2nd Feb)

91

All about the me: listener observation

92

Mooji quote: listener question

93

Connection and experience of being: listener question

94

Boundaries

95

Gaslighting and ghosting: listener question

96

Protection: listener question

97

The being document : listener question

98

Human design: listener question

99

Energy and capacity: listener question

100

Feeling wobbly about no reality: listener question

101

Do you think we can ever be truly free of seeking love validation and approval: listener question

102

Is there such a thing as a nourishing relationship? Listener question

103

Overwhelm: listener question

104

Personality

105

Where do thoughts come from? Listener question

106

Avoidance or simply a way to clear the mind? Listener question

107

Fear of judgement : listener comment

108

How do we know if it’s a genuine search for truth?

109

Anxiety, its effect on the body and reality: listener question

110

War and despair: listener question

111

Grind to flow? Listener question

112

Free will

113

Desperate for things to change: listener question

114

What is the mind? Listener question

115

Creativity: listener comment

116

Comment and letter from Missy Maiorano

117

Unlocking the next level of the game: listener comment

118

Is it true there is no objective reality? Listener question

119

Ethics and objective morality: listener question

120

Health and symptoms : listener question

121

Mental health and fear: listener question

122

Fear and expansion: listener question

123

What are we doing here?

124

Truth: participant question

125

Discomfort: listener comment and book chapter

126

Happy New Year x

127

With Helen Amery discussing the Enlightenment Summit and Series, Sunday conversation

128

Does insight possess healing properties: listener question

129

What does 'you are not broken' mean?: listener question

130

Is the aim to not go into the mind?

131

Personality change: listener question

132

Progress: Listener observation and question

133

Seasons greetings and thank you x

134

The origin of a business with Andrea Prickett, Sunday Conversation

135

Resonant truth or the Field

136

How do I get rid of sadness? Listener question

137

Parties and no parties: listener comments

138

Fear: listener comment

139

"You cannot stop negative thoughts from coming into your mind, but you can make sure they leave as quickly as they enter." Bad advice wednesday

140

Home and the mind: listener comment

141

Does the narrative needs to be silenced bracketed ignored ? Listener question

142

Your habit is not you with Amy Johnson: the Sunday conversation (from the archive)

143

Values follow up: listener question

144

Duality: listener comment

145

Insecurity about facial features: listener question

146

'There is absolutely nothing in the past that you can change. That's basic physics.' Bad Advice Wednesday

147

Be of service bad advice follow up question

148

Conditioning: listener question

149

Dominic Scaffidi: the Sunday conversation

150

Sapiens by Yuval Noah Harari : the Saturday book

151

Letting go: listener description

152

Happy birthday to my Mum - Professor Bridgit Dimond xx

153

Be of service: bad advice Wednesday

154

'I was in the room with every relationship I had ever had': participant comment

155

Being triggered : listener question

156

Sara Priestley on human design: Sunday Conversation

157

Designing the mind: Ryan A Bush; Saturday book

158

One piece of advice: listener question

159

Values: listener question

160

"Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice... Choose wisely." Bad advice wednesday.

161

Mind and world: listener comment

162

'It doesn't matter...'

163

Jim Larkin and the truth in discomfort: Sunday conversation

164

So good they can't ignore you: Cal Newport. Saturday book

165

Anger and what to do about it? Listener question

166

Personal criteria and conditioning

167

Bad advice: Prioritise your mental health by...

168

'Delicious sadness in my victimhood' Listener comment

169

How do I know if I'm using my energy and determination for the right thing? Listener question

170

With Piers Thurston on Free Will: The Sunday conversation

171

The Expectation Effect by David Robson: The Saturday book

172

How beliefs shift: listener observation

173

Self and other: listener question

174

Is there such a thing as freedom? Listener question

175

Resilience : listener question

176

Curiosity: listener question

177

Wisdom and thought: listener clarification

178

Web of separation comment from Tia Ho

179

Rejection and beliefs: follow up question to 4 November podcast

180

Is there a role for antidepressants and anti anxiety medication in this conversation? Listener question

181

Cutting people off: listener observation

182

Warmer - colder game : listener question

183

Why do we suffer in rejection: listener question

184

What is the shadow? Listener question

185

how can I stop the negative thoughts about war? Listener question

186

Saying I love you: listener question

187

Burnout: listener question

188

What is an awakening? Listener question

189

Chronic fatigue: listener question

190

Existence: listener question

191

What to do about suicidal thoughts: listener question

192

But the projection looks true? Listener question

193

what is physical health? Listener question

194

Is courage required? Listener question

195

Is god the doer? Listener question

196

Staying in suffering: listener question

197

Why can't we just look at HOW to be rather than the mechanics of what we are? Listener question

198

Can identity dissolution look like mental illness? Listener question

199

Trust and decision making: listener question

200

Grief and non-duality: listener question

201

Stoping vaping: listener observation

202

End of war: listener follow up observation to 14 Oct podcast

203

What is your definition of mental health? Listener question

204

What about forgiveness: listener question

205

Being the 'tube' and mindfulness: listener question

206

Being upset / taking feedback: follow up to a call in Ask, Offer course

207

Can you say more about how circumstances are created from within? Listener question

208

What is the connection between trying to find home in separation and retraumatisation? Listener question

209

Can you tell us the difference between true and real: listener question

210

What is accountability: listener question

211

Violence in Israel and non-duality: listener question

212

How do we end abuse? Listener question

213

Teacher and student: listener question

214

Who are we? Listener question

215

Agenda, resistance and witnessing space (follow up to 20 Sept podcast) : Listener comment

216

Navigating a troubled relationship (follow up to 16 Sept podcast) : listener comments

217

God: listener question

218

Changing other people's conditioning: listener question

219

How does conditioning change? Follow up to 28 Sept podcast

220

What is the nature of being? Listener question

221

Feeling purposeless: listener question

222

Being true to myself: listener question

223

Will you describe an experience of insanity / sanity? Listener question

224

Is separation upheld in numbing? Listener question

225

Parenting inner child: listener question

226

Validation follow up question (to 15 Sept): Listener question

227

Being true to myself: listener question

228

Please can you give a definition of separation? Listener question

229

Are healing interventions necessary for some people?

230

Peace: listener question

231

Regret: listener question (Follow up from navigating a troubled relationship podcast)

232

Navigating a troubled relationship: listener question

233

Grandmother and the lottery example: listener question

234

Separation: listener question

235

Validation and home: listener question

236

Membership and why those topics for Sept-Dec?

237

Intuition: listener question

238

Faith : listener question

239

Existence and the body: follow up question

240

Accountability vs personal responsibility: listener question

241

What if I am thinking stressful thoughts on purpose? Listener question

242

Overwhelm: listener question

243

Intelligence: listener questions

244

Body, existence and identity

245

Why oh why does it have to be so hard? Listener question

246

Mirror: listener observation

247

Safety: listener question

248

The mind: two capacities, one truth

249

How do I make myself believe I'll earn £500,000 next year? Listener question

250

Beliefs and food: listener question

251

Being looked after: listener question

252

Seeking validation: listener observation

253

Going into the feeling (Follow up on 23 August podcast)

254

Sensitivity : listener question

255

Safety: listener question

256

What is a reason to be happy to be alive: Question from Beauty Q&A with Tatyana Sussex

257

Do we have to go through the discomfort? Listener question

258

Anxiety: listener question

259

Is it possible to have a relationship with someone who has experienced a lot of trauma? Listener question

260

Can you talk about FOMO? Listener question

261

The body is the judge : listener question

262

What is love for another person? Listener question

263

Mirror - kids activities: listener question

264

Attention and reality: listener question

265

What damage am I doing? Listener question

266

Perfection of the design on a macro level : listener question

267

Unconditional love, boundaries and limerence: listener question

268

Shame from other people's actions: listener question

269

Doing what we love: listener question

270

Coping mechanisms for anxiety: listener question

271

Not enough time / energy / money / capacity...

272

In times of crisis: listener observation

273

How to make the right decision

274

Stopping the cycle of retraumatisation for others: listener question

275

Past and future : listener question

276

Relationships and what to do about disagreements? Listener question

277

The mind in protest: listener comment

278

Is that actually true though? Listener observation

279

Everyday insanity and mental illness: listener question

280

Sensitivity and feelings

281

Small talk. I hate it!: Listener comment

282

Ending generational confusion

283

Improving your situation : follow up from 9 July Physical Limitation podcast

284

Guilt and shame

285

Making the right decision: listener question

286

Helpless and hopeless : listener question

287

Self esteem: conversation with a therapist

288

Humiliation and distress: listener question

289

Experiencing the absolute: listener question / comment

290

Using the mind to escape: listener comment

291

What do I do with my reactions? Listener question

292

What is freedom? Listener question

293

Purpose: Listener comment

294

cutting people off: listener observation

295

Insanity and shame: listener challenge

296

Vulnerability in relationships: listener question

297

What about recurring circumstances? Listener question

298

Personal criticism

299

People not interested in what I have to say: Listener question

300

Isn't the numbing perfect? Listener question

301

What changes do you look for in a client? Listener question

302

Eating and no-brainers: Listener questions

303

boundaries and no boundaries: listener question

304

Extreme physical restriction : listener question

305

Is there such thing as conscious choice or is it only subconscious? Listener question

306

7. Capacity

307

6. Will

308

5. Compassion

309

4. Attention

310

3. Money

311

2. Energy

312

1. Time

313

Intro to a 7 day mini series looking at resources

314

Comments on subliminals

315

Grief, death and reality: listener question

316

hyper vigilance and presence : listener question

317

Reality, experience and truth

318

No-brainers and no-doer: listener question

319

Purpose: Listener comment

320

Manifesting: listener question

321

Levels of consciousness and intelligence

322

Resistance interspersed with connection: Listener comment

323

Why do we need to know who we are? Listener question

324

Restriction to over-eating: listener question

325

How to stop acting on cravings: listener question

326

What can I a GP say in ten minutes to help a patient with anxiety / depression: Listener question

327

Why do we simultaneously crave and avoid connection? Listener question

328

How do we get through periods when ALL areas of the identity are challenged: listener question

329

how can the identity be 'core' and yet not exist? Listener question

330

'Easy way to quit emotional eating' Allen Carr (the Sunday book)

331

Nothing to do

332

Money and how to get it: listener question

333

Stressed by the news: Listener question

334

Lab work and field work

335

My daughter has anorexia: listener question

336

Jealousy and envy: listener question

337

Enquiring into the self: listener question

338

What the f**k is the mind for? Listener question

339

Illness and rumination: listener question

340

Any tips to stop intrusive thoughts? Listener question

341

Karma

342

Not liking people: listener question

343

Healing vs re-traumatising: listener question

344

right vs optimum action

345

'I have nowhere to go, nothing to gain, no attachment' Listener question

346

Are you saying don't use any body practices? Listener question

347

feeling emotions creating more separation: listener question

348

The body: listener question

349

Stress, victim blaming and bypass? Listener question

350

Feeling hurt: listener question

351

Is this a mirror? Listener question

352

Signs of progress? Listener question

353

Regret and the right decision: listener question

354

Narcissism: listener question

355

What is the value of feelings? Listener question

356

The feelings went away. Does that mean it is spiritual bypass? Listener question

357

Feelings and health anxiety: listener question

358

'No do-er' and 'do the thing' - how do they fit together: listener question

359

Mirror and information? Listener question

360

Is it spiritual bypass not to visit the original trauma? Listener question

361

Is nothing ever good enough? Listener question

362

Inner yes and no: listener question

363

Vigilance and indifference: listeners question

364

No-doer and source accountability follow up: listener comment

365

How do 'do doership' and 'source accountability' exist together: listener question

366

Thoughts, feelings and what's the point?: Listener question

367

Numbness, healing, feeling and triggers: two listener questions

368

"F**k you Clare Dimond" : listener protest

369

The shift: listener question

370

What is truth?

371

Non-duality and children: listener question

372

Bypass or contentment: listener question

373

Clients and non-duality: listener question

374

Hormones and reality: listener question

375

Sadness and navigation: listener question

376

Random emotional release: listener question

377

Reality: listener question

378

Losing weight: listener question

379

Control and responsibility: listener question

380

Is taking CBD oil for my anxiety spiritual bypass?

381

'Myself' - the big confusion: listener comment

382

What about medication? Listener question

383

How does attention shift if there is no do-er? Listener question

384

Why explore reality if it's not real? Listener question

385

Loss and separation: listener question

386

Psychosis and chronic fatigue: listener question

387

Writing and positive comments : Listener question

388

Regret: listener question

389

What do you mean by 'our healing sets the whole world free?' Listener question

390

Clare - do you have everything you want? If not why should I listen to you? Listener question

391

What about autism? Listener question

392

Specificity and the ask: listener question

393

Does self reflection increase ego? Listener question

394

Mind saying one thing, body doing another: listener question

395

Why don't you stick to one description?: listener question

396

Change and conscious experience: listener question

397

Forgiveness : listener question

398

Confused... Listener question

399

Evolutionary advantage to the ego? Listener question

400

inner child and approval: listener question

401

Feelings and vigilance: listener question

402

Pinning the mind down: listener question

403

Responsibility and accountability: listener description

404

Curiosity: Listener comment

405

Shame - two emails from course participants

406

Resistance and experience: listener question

407

When we heal do we get everything we want? Listener question

408

How to Do the Work by Dr Nicole LePera: Listener question

409

Is this victim blaming? Listener question

410

what was your most intense spiritual experience this year? Listener question

411

I don't understand a word of what you are saying. Can you tell me the basics? Listener question

412

Non-dual therapy: listener question

413

Cycle of retraumatisation: example from social media

414

'I doesn't exist': listener comment

415

Self recrimination in the mirror exercise : listener question

416

I would like to be "love", "hope", "freedom", "peace", "joy", and me. How? Listener question

417

It doesn't feel right now that suffering = healing: Listener question

418

Going into the body revs up the mind: listener question

419

So here I am SANE. Now what? Listener question. Follow up to 16 March podcast.

420

Is it bypass to focus on the body? Listener question

421

The mirror exercise and my teenager: listener question

422

I got a new client after listening to the subliminal: listener comment

423

What is going on when I do something but my heart isn't in it? Listener question

424

Changing another's behaviour: listener question

425

Reality and perceiver: listener question

426

How do you approach discrimination through a compassionate non-dual lens? Listener question

427

What is love?

428

Change and conscious experience: listener question

429

Changing others: listener question

430

Friendships affected by my realisation: listener question

431

The past and brain damage: listener question

432

What is healing? Listener question

433

What is the difference between Byron Katie turnarounds and positive thinking?.

434

Non-violent communication. Marshall Rosenberg. Sunday book

435

Confusion reigns. Who is sitting with the feelings?: listener question

436

Motivation: listener observation

437

How do I deal with overwhelming emotion?

438

Words and meanings: listener question

439

How can I stay in touch with what is going on but still stay in this conversation? Listener question

440

Do vegans really care about animals? Listener question

441

Becoming more emotional : listener question

442

Is there a centre to experience? Listener question

443

Unconditional love or people pleasing? Listener question

444

What about psychosis? Listener question

445

Gaslighting: listener question

446

Hypnosis: listener question

447

'All conscious experience is a healing place for us'...?? Listener question

448

Desire? Listener question

449

Relationships aren't meant to be fun? Listener question follow up to 11 Feb podcast

450

Bodywork and healing - an introduction and explanation from Tia Ho

451

Conditioning and intelligence: listener question

452

Shame and no-doer

453

Decisions and inner child: listener question

454

What is the secret to changing patterns that seem set in stone? Listener question

455

Controlling thought: listener question

456

What is there for me to learn here? Listener question.

457

Bullying at work: listener question

458

Where do I go from here? Listener question

459

Perfect system? Listener question

460

Insight - a listener comment/question

461

'What do you mean 'no self'? Listener question

462

What do you mean when you say 'there is no such thing as separation'? Listener question

463

Health anxiety: listener question

464

Who is doing the parenting and why doesn't it happen immediately? Listener question

465

Abandonment: listener comment

466

Healing techniques and non-duality: listener question

467

Who is accountable?

468

What about pop music? Listener question

469

Absolute, relative, illusory... where does the body fit? Listener question

470

Should I be friends with my ex? Listener question

471

Do you listen to subliminals and does your voice make a difference? Listener question

472

My subliminal isn't working: client question

473

Shame and motivation: listener question

474

Shame and readiness: listener observation

475

Source accountability: what is it? Listener question

476

So Good They Can't Ignore You by Cal Newport: Sunday Book

477

Resistance and safety: listener question

478

Are thoughts, words and actions the same? Listener question

479

'But I love the 'me'...' Listener comment

480

What about the good things that we create or do...?

481

The job begins here...

482

My fear of loss: Listener question

483

What is new seeing/insight made of? Listener question

484

How do I convince myself I am just a story? Listener question

485

I can't see the illusion...

486

What is enough? Listener question

487

Retraumatisation: Listener question

488

Healing: Listener comment

489

How do I grow my empathy? Listener question

490

Needs...

491

Stress: Listener question

492

Is the course exacerbating the problem? Listener question

493

Virtual reality? Listener question

494

Why do other people appear differently? Listener question follow up to 'What do we do about the world of form' podcast

495

Ease or suffering?

496

Hypnotism? Brain-washing? Listener question

497

Happy New Year xx

498

I am in a dark pit, begging for help: listener question

499

I am so lonely. How do I make friendships and end the pain of being alone: listener question

500

World of form follow up: Listener question

501

What do we do about the world of form? Listener question

502

'Everything that is not now is imagination' Interview question

503

Telling it like it is: interviewer question

504

Christmas gifts x

505

Two words for 'I'? Listener question

506

What do you mean by 'separation'? Listener question

507

Apologies and no-doer

508

Is the 'I' necessary? Listener question

509

Boundaries: listener question

510

Bliss if its just about the other?: listener question

511

The Complete Book of Awakening. Interview with authors Helen Amery and Sara Priestley. The Sunday Book.

512

Hoʻoponopono practice

513

Isn't bypassing just a concept? Listener question

514

Why does it have to be us doing the work and not the other? Listener question

515

Sensations and resistance: listener question

516

I see your mouths moving and I know you are speaking English but I cannot understand. is that normal? Listener question

517

I want smaller size jeans! Listener question

518

Connection: listener question

519

Does God want me to suffer? Listener question

520

Find the narcissist in you: Listener question

521

Why bother exploring reality?

522

How do we know when it is our wounding or them overstepping boundaries? Listener question

523

Exit and entry

524

Brilliant minds

525

What about conflicting wants? Listener question

526

Sitting with feelings: listener question

527

Fear and the mind : listener comment

528

Birthday podcast! Listener comment and question

529

Why 'dwell' on suffering? Listener question

530

Overload at work: listener question

531

Origin of fears: listener question

532

When the teachings make you feel hopeless or thinking 'what's the point?'

533

The truth will set you free. Wonderful words

534

Mind and body: listener observation and question

535

Relationships: Listener realisation

536

What does it mean 'the phobia is on its way out'? Listener question

537

Subliminal doesn't have any effect on me: listener question

538

Parenting the programme: listener question

539

No man's land: listener question

540

Changing another's behaviour: Listener question

541

Why do the bad things stop when there is no resistance? Listener question

542

How to help my son? Listener question

543

What does it mean to be safe for other people? Listener question

544

Feelings and sensitivity: Listener question

545

Motivation and knowing: listener question

546

'The body knows what it is doing': Wonderful Words. Listener description of stillness in response to subliminal reaction

547

Wanting more from someone: reflection on friendships and romantic relationships

548

Changing the world: listener question

549

Non duality and the Three Principles: listener question

550

Getting what you want and no longer wanting it! : Listener question

551

Belonging : listener question

552

Learning : listener question

553

What creates reality? Listener question

554

Multiple personalities: listener question

555

When the system is against you

556

Past behaviour: listener question

557

intelligence : listener question

558

'I got drawn to non-duality because I don't like myself' Listener question

559

Common sense: listener question

560

'Want, desire and need' Wonderful words with Piers Thurston

561

"To agree to do the speech or not..."

562

Desperate to get rid of phobia: listener question

563

Unconditional love and suicide : listener question

564

I'm ugly: listener question

565

The other: listener question

566

Should I ask my father if I was the reason he left (Follow up to Oct 13th podcast)

567

"...they are there because we resist them." Adyashanti - Wonderful Words

568

Byron Katie turn arounds : listener question

569

Beautiful feeling: listener question

570

Self, suffering and body: listener question

571

Faith and trust: listener question

572

Abandonment triggers: listener question

573

How did you come to be teaching the way you do? Listener question

574

'We have tried everything to get rid of suffering'. Gangaji. Wonderful words

575

Feeling stuck: listener question

576

Shall I ask my dad if I was the reason he left? Listener question

577

Living enquiry: listener example

578

'What was your revelation of no free will?' Listener question

579

Going round in circles : listener comment

580

The Myth of Normal by Gabor Maté (part 1) Sunday Book

581

'Why head into suffering? Why not just look for happiness? Listener question

582

'Who f**king cares?' Listener comment on a post about free will

583

Using my free will to change my thinking... Listener question

584

Witnessing and separation: listener question

585

Calling in sick - listener question

586

Doing the thing - part 2

587

'It's not you... and it's not me.' The Sunday book

588

How to navigate?

589

"A rat in a maze is free to go anywhere..." Margaret Atwood Wonderful Words

590

Do the Thing : Listener question

591

Is what we are talking about dangerous?

592

Indecision : listener question

593

'If only I could be clearer...' Listener comment

594

Fear and stress: listener question

595

What is the point?

596

"Many spiritual people are involved in a radical denial of what is happening." Adyashanti. Wonderful Words

597

Accountability in other people: Listener question

598

If there is no doer how does anything get done? Listener question

599

Resistance, acceptance and choice

600

Feeling our thinking? Listener question

601

What do you mean when you say ‚remove or put in the barriers‘. Listener question

602

'There’s no such thing as overreacting' Terrence Real

603

"We’ll continue to lose what completes us until we realise we are already complete. " Mark Groves, Wonderful Words

604

'Remove barriers to the no-brainers'

605

The body

606

No-self / impersonal accountability : Listener question

607

Should I walk away? Listener question

608

What shall I do next? Listener question

609

Grief and immersion in life. In tribute to Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II

610

Service and dignity. In tribute to Queen Elizabeth II

611

Mind reading other people

612

What makes us ready for enlightenment?

613

How can I feel safe when a relationship becomes unhealthy? Listener question

614

Good week then bad week and feeling discouraged: listener question

615

All suffering? Listener question

616

Projections and discomfort

617

'Nice feelings?' Listener question

618

Capacity

619

Why would I put myself through that? (Super power part 2)

620

Your super power

621

What other people think

622

Being wrong

623

Unwanted emotions

624

JOY bubbling up... listener email

625

Identity under threat

626

Why bother exploring what is real?

627

Control

628

Constriction: listener observation

629

'What is your enlightenment experience?' listener question

630

Confused and overwhelmed: listener question

631

"Reality is nothing but a Rorschach ink blot, you know" Alan Watts. Wonderful Words

632

Why do editors scaremonger? Listener question

633

Will a subliminal recording take away the pain of believed separation? Listener question

634

Other people's behaviour: listener question

635

Triggers

636

Mistakes and discomfort - live example...

637

Conversations in non-duality: twenty six awakenings: Sunday book

638

'What relation this has with freedom I cannot understand at all' Einstein. Wonderful words

639

Should I forego therapy with someone who doesn't understand non-duality? Listener question

640

What does it mean to be HOME?

641

Why?

642

No mountain and discomfort: listener question

643

Crying: listener question

644

Language: listener question and Sunday book, 'Language vs Reality, why language is good for lawyers and bad for scientists by Nick Enfield

645

Conditioning and parents : listener question

646

The need for a friend to listen to us: Listener question

647

Hopeless : Listener question

648

'Courses...' Listener question

649

Parenting the small child: listener question

650

Is the self, I, me, just a habit I've (we've) fallen into? Listener question

651

Is it universal? Listener question

652

'One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light...' Carl Jung. Wonderful Words

653

Grief and self: listener question

654

Thinking and reality: listener question

655

Had to happen? Listener question

656

The patriarchy: listener question

657

Needs: listener question

658

'Us' by Terrence Real. Sunday Book

659

'The real you is...' Deepak Chopra. Wonderful words

660

Psychedelics Listener question

661

Friendship over: Listener question

662

'Looking for home in the other' Listener observation

663

On-line dating and feeling rejected Listener question

664

Being heard: listener question

665

'HOME The return to what you already are' by Clare Dimond Sunday Book

666

'To travel a circle..' Neale Donald Walsh Wonderful Words

667

Change... Listener Question

668

Longing and desire: listener question

669

'Life living through us...?' Listener question

670

Where does the understanding happen? Listener question

671

Determinism : Listener question (part 2)

672

How about somatic exercises to calm the nervous system? Listener question

673

The body-mind, the system, the robot, the unit... Wonderful Words

674

Determinism - listener question (part 1)

675

'How does the shift take place?' Listener question

676

'How does stoicism fit with non-duality?' Listener question

677

'If there is no doer does that mean there is no doing?' Listener question

678

'How do I change my thoughts?' Listener question

679

'How do I access truth?' Listener question

680

'No-brainer' . Wonderful words of the week

681

'A whole new level of panic attack' Listener question

682

'Trauma, illness and medication' Listener question

683

'When does this become fun and light?' Listener question

684

Is there free will? Listener question

685

'My behaviour is out of control' Listener question

686

'Will everything become devoid of relevancy?' Listener question

687

'Our greatest contribution to humanity is our awakening' Adyashanti. Wonderful Words

688

'What should I do?' Listener question

689

Learning how to do relationships: Listener question

690

'What do we mean by 'no separation'?' Listener question

691

'Why does experience change so dramatically?' Listener question

692

'Reputation...' Listener question

693

The Power of Us by Jay Van Bavel and Dominic J Packer. Sunday Book

694

"...alive and fleshy and sexy and juicy and immediately this." Tony Parsons. Wonderful Words

695

Are 'the programme' and intelligence the same thing?' Listener question

696

'How do you listen?' Listener question

697

'Is this what you mean by 'getting real'?' Listener question

698

'Food...' Listener question

699

'What is the purpose?' Listener question

700

Act like a leader, think like a leader by Herminia Ibarra. Sunday Book

701

'This is the fun of waking up' Chris Niebauer. Wonderful Words

702

'Your speaking pace has changed' Listener comment and a look at where behavioural change comes from

703

'What to do about deep depression' Listener question

704

'Where does understanding take place?' Listener question

705

'Language and approach' Listener feedback

706

'I understand this intellectually but I don't experience it in reality' Listener question

707

When I feel the pain, judgement, worry, fear rising is that where I look? Listener question

708

'Emotions and suffering' Listener question

709

'Can you give pointers about feeling the feelings?' Listener question

710

Readiness: listener question

711

How is it for you? Listener question

712

Friction between thought and feelings : listener question

713

Triggered by friend - listener question

714

REST by Alex Soojung-Kim Pang. The Sunday Book and listener question

715

'The notion of a separate organism is clearly an abstraction, as is also its boundary.' David Bohm, Wonder-Full Words

716

The pattern of domestic abuse is an ancient one in my family. How can I be part of the healing?' Listener question

717

'What do you mean by feel the feelings that arise? How do I do that?' Listener question

718

Overwhelm and getting sick: listener question

719

'I can control what thoughts I focus on, can't I...?' Listener question

720

'How do I trust that giving up the 'do-er' will be for the greatest good?' Listener question

721

Humankind by Rutger Bregman. The Sunday Book

722

No-self Accountability - words of the week

723

'How do I listen for what is true?' Listener question

724

'YOU need to change YOUR thinking!' listener question

725

"Please describe the difference between 3Ps and Non-duality by using a metaphor" Listener request

726

Does therapy fit alongside this exploration? Listener question

727

Needing to understand: listener question

728

Think Again by Adam Grant. The Sunday Book

729

'Trojan Horse' words of the week

730

"Am I stuck with this robot?" Listener question

731

Identity, conditioning and behaviour: listener question

732

"Why do I object to being slapped awake by my identity?" Listener question

733

Separate, lonely and isolated: listener question

734

Spiritual bypass and the body: listener question

735

Numbing or falling away? Listener question

736

'A mind at home with itself', by Byron Katie. Sunday book

737

"Anything that is not now is imagination. Categorically." Wonderful Words

738

Truth and thoughts Listener question

739

Health and food, a clean action plan? Listener question

740

Identification. Listener comment

741

Why would I do this to myself? Listener question

742

How should I listen? listener question

743

'See what you made me do. Power, control and domestic abuse' by Jess Hill. The Sunday Book

744

'Clean': Wonderful Word of the Week

745

Recalibration: listener question

746

'All or nothing?' listener question

747

What is the difference between 3Ps and non-duality? listener question

748

'What about Hitler?' listener question follow up to April 22nd podcast

749

What to do with repressed feelings? Listener question

750

'Are we smart enough to know how smart animals are?' by Frans de Waal. The Sunday Book

751

Instructions for Living a Life by Mary Oliver, Wonder-Full Words

752

Judgement of self and other: listener question

753

I don't know what I am asking: listener question

754

Are you saying there is a purpose to our lives? Listener question

755

Desperation: listener question

756

Parenting: listener question

757

How Not To Die by Michael Greger MD. Sunday Book

758

'The images of the unconscious place a great responsibility' Carl Jung. Wonder-Full Words

759

I want an end to suffering and a sense of direction: listener question

760

Anger triggers: listener question

761

'Yucky and double yucky' listener question

762

Healing past trauma: listener question

763

Healing and emotions: listener question

764

When The Body Says No by Dr Gabor Maté. The Sunday Book

765

"Should you really open your eyes and see..." Khalil Gibran

766

What is 'it'? : listener question

767

Manifestation: listeners question

768

'Struggling with attention deficit disorder' listener question

769

Hold. On. Pain. Ends. Why this is at the heart of the mental health crisis.

770

Reaction to subliminals: listener question

771

Story by Robert McKee. Book of the Week

772

'The River' Sara Priestley, Wonder-Full Words

773

"But hope is all some people have.." Answering comments on an article exploring the hopelessness of hope

774

Helping others? Listener question

775

'Two selves or all illusion?' Listener question

776

Prayer? Listener question

777

Desperate to understand: listener question

778

Stealing Fire by Steven Kotler and Jamie Wheal. Sunday Book

779

"...who we are is never broken...' Rohini Ross. Wonder-Full Words

780

Innate morality: Listener question

781

Attachment and fear: listener question

782

Appearance and criticism: listener comment

783

'Why use the words non-duality?' Listener question

784

'I feel I'm going crazy' Listener question

785

Frientimacy by Shasta Nelson. The Sunday Book

786

"We're not human beings having a spiritual experience." Teilhard de Chardins. Wonder-Full Words

787

Acceptance and allowing: listener question

788

High stakes and overwhelm: Listener question

789

Trapped by lack of money: listener question

790

'How can a person develop insight into madness and sanity...?' Listener question

791

Changing the programming: Listener question

792

What is true? Listener question

793

The Mind-Gut Connection Emeran Mayer. The Sunday Book

794

'We are dragged towards wholeness' Marion Woodman, Wonder-Full Words

795

Authority, behaviours and truth : Listener question

796

Wisdom and decision making: listener question

797

'I'm damaged by thought' listener question

798

'My social anxiety is getting worse' Listener question

799

Death, aliveness and suicide : listener question

800

The Choice by Dr Edith Eger; The Sunday Book

801

"If you want love, you must speak it into reality, every day. If you stop speaking it, it will disappear.” Steve Hardison. Wonder-Full Words

802

Intensity and duration of reaction - listener description

803

Fear at current situation: listener question

804

What is the use of the mind? Listener question.

805

What is the difference between enlightenment and grounding? Listener question

806

Identification: listener question / comment

807

'Cracked' by James Davies. The Sunday Book

808

'The mind is its own place...' John Milton Wonder-Full words

809

Coaching and grounding: listener question

810

Shame and numbing: listener question

811

Mountain. No Mountain. Mountain. Listener question

812

Evolution of self identity: listener question / comment

813

Writing and beliefs - listener comment / question

814

No teacher, no pupil? Listener question

815

The Body by Bill Bryson, Sunday Book

816

"Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found." Pema Chödrön. Wonder-Full Words

817

Overwhelm... Listener description

818

Connection and disconnect: listener question

819

'Where should I keep my attention?' Listener question

820

'The 'dream world' is painful - how do I loosen it?', Listener question

821

'Your response was harsh and cold' Listener comment

822

Ready for Anything by David Allen. Our Sunday book

823

"What if... love is just the beauty arising out of feeling the here and now." Steve Chandler Wonder-Full Words

824

'Planning?' Listener question

825

'Why does it look like there is a chooser?' Listener question

826

'What about enneagrams and human design?' Listener question

827

'Why do I shut down?' Listener question

828

'I don't exist? What does that mean?' Listener question

829

'Work Clean' by Dan Charnas. The Sunday Book

830

'...we wake up inside a world of dreams' Michael Neill, Wonder-Full Words

831

Healing past generations? Listener question

832

Shame and discouragement: listener follow up to 15 Jan podcast

833

'If everything originates from me why do I have different reactions to different people?' Listener question

834

'Spread too thin or stagnant and bored' listener question

835

'The Expectation Effect' by David Robson. The Sunday Book.

836

'The image of yourself is obviously not real...' Alan Watts, Wonder-Full Words

837

'Will this course help my eating habits and am I good/eloquent/confident enough to be part of it?

838

'Will other people disappear?' Listener question

839

'Is this exploration OK for someone who has experienced trauma?' Listener question

840

'Is it ok for those at the start of the exploration?' Listener question

841

'What is the aim of this conversation, course or books?' Listener question

842

'Busting Loose from the money game' Robert Scheinfeld (The Sunday Book)

843

'Your habit is not 'you'...' Dr Amy Johnson [Wonder-Full Words series]

844

'Money, pay, belief and acceptance' listener question

845

Overwhelm and desperation - what to do?

846

Fear and avoidance - listener question

847

Are we gaslighting ourselves? Listener question

848

'ADD labels and self' listener observation

849

'How to intervene?' Listener question

850

'Why are the sensations so dramatic?' Listener question

851

'Shame at my life' Listener question

852

'You mention Ho'oponopono how does it fit in this conversation?' Listener question

853

'What is this heavy sense of guilt and wrongness?' Listener question

854

'How do I break this habit?' Listener question

855

'Algorithms To Live By' The Sunday book

856

When someone says I love you... Listener question

857

Can spirituality have practical implications? Listener question

858

Listener question: do we need to be enlightened to help people?

859

'Isn't my spiritual well-being completely irrelevant?' Listener question

860

Collective manifestation - listener question

861

'Can you say more about 'custody'?' Listener question

862

'I am sensitive to negative energy' Listener question

863

Happy New Year

864

Happy end of 2021 and a look at 'endings'

865

'Innocence or a terrible thing?' Listener question

866

'Who does the transcending, and what prompts the idea to observe, to transcend?' Listener question

867

'I can't not resist' Listener question

868

'What is the identified mind?' Listener question

869

'How can one NOT end up in a form of bypass in order to stay in flow? Listener question

870

'I'm desperate for change' listener question

871

'Am I ready for a subliminal?' Listener question

872

Intense suffering: listener question

873

'I'm lonely' Listener question

874

'I want magic' Listener question

875

'Who is doing the helping if not the self?' Listener question

876

'Is this a mirror? How? I've been cut off by my family.' Listener question

877

'What is the ego and what am I if not that?' Listener question

878

Problem solving and wisdom - listener question

879

'I want to be nice' Listener question

880

'How can I stop his aggression?' Listener question

881

'When / how do we know it's enough?' Listener question

882

'Are gender identity and sexual orientation before conditioning' Listener question

883

'How can I take a break without letting the ego, the fears, the wanting to hide at home take over?' Listener question

884

'I want to heal and I don't know how' Listener question

885

'Why is self criticism an ego trip?' Listener question

886

How can I be happy despite pain and fatigue? (Listener question.)

887

Listener question: it's just my thinking

888

Listener question: how do the 3Ps fit with non-dual teaching?

889

Listener question: why do I put my head in the sand about money?

890

Listener question: but I am choosing...

891

Listener question: is this a cult?

892

Listener question: we shouldn't waste time on spiritual stuff

893

Listener question: what questions reality?

894

It's my birthday so we're all having a Mary Oliver treat xx

895

Listener question: I want her to talk to me

896

Listener question : money, identity and creativity

897

Listener message - things got quieter

898

Listener question: self sabotage

899

Listener question: criticism and self criticism

900

Listener question: how does healing happen?

901

Listener question: who or what decides?

902

Listener question: am I just an AI robot?

903

Listener question: choice but no chooser

904

Listener question: obstacles

905

Listener question: a break-up and I can't get a grip

906

Listener question: do we have to reach rock bottom?

907

Listener question: moving into the world

908

Escapism

909

Listener question: identity

910

Listener question: curious about guilt

911

Listener question : speaking up

912

Listener question: how does a subliminal work?

913

Listener question: how do you reconcile the end of the search with using subliminal recordings

914

Listener question: what brings about change?

915

Listener observation: there are no people involved in conversation...

916

Clean communication - the dissolution, not an attribute, of the self

917

Listener question: investigating beliefs

918

Listener question: sensations and story

919

Listener question: Can NLP be useful alongside an exploration of non-duality?

920

Listener question: how does healing happen?

921

Listener question: why do I do make 'bad' choices?

922

Listener question: I'm scared I'll get stuck in the story

923

Listener question: what is honesty?

924

Listener question: participation

925

Listener question: 'no-self' accountability follow up question

926

Listener question: how do I not make this a technique?

927

Listener question: what is the difference between comparison and judgement?

928

Helen Amery research question: How do we know the outside world is a creation of the inner world?

929

From the Heart by Nicola Drew - anniversary podcast!

930

Listener question: I've been lied to

931

Listener question: present no self accountability

932

Listener question: will my symptoms get worse

933

Mini-series 'Clean communication' Day 3 of 3

934

Mini-series 'Clean communication' Day 2 of 3

935

Mini-series 'Clean communication' Day 1 of 3

936

Listener question : insights and good feelings

937

Listener question: do I need to release the physical energy of trauma?

938

Listener question: how does healing happen?

939

Listener question: what now?

940

Listener question: how to help my daughter

941

Listener question: The first agreement and clean questions

942

Learned 'helpFULness'

943

Listener question: what is happening with fear and the thought I'm going to die?

944

Outside-in

945

Listener question: denial and bypass

946

Listener question: what does 'localisation of being ' mean?

947

Listener question: Where do I draw the line (part 2).

948

Listener question: how can this conversation help me lose weight?

949

Conditioning, behaviour and choice

950

The rules of the dream

951

Listener question: where do I draw the line?

952

Listener question: uniqueness

953

Resistance and behavioural change

954

What is going on with confusion?

955

Listener question: what is the difference between the concepts of true self?

956

Listener question: who are we?

957

Why notice behaviour patterns?

958

Listener question: the desire to hide away

959

Listener question: what can a participant expect on a course about reality?

960

Listener question: what do I expect to see change in someone who is doing the courses?

961

Listener question: am I too sensitive for this environment?

962

From our archives: A reminder for the 3 am wake up

963

Listener question: can you talk more about experiencing emotions without identifying with them or becoming them?

964

The computer mind

965

Listener objection: This is chilly, abstract and off-putting

966

Listener question - what are we doing on the courses?

967

Listener question: What should I do? I hate my job.

968

Listener question: I don't like subliminals

969

Listener question: the effort to be aware

970

Listener question: why did I tell them I'm going biking (clean question follow up)

971

Listener question: how do I tell him what I want?

972

Listener question: how can I stop my daughter suffering?

973

What is a clean question? And why does this matter?

974

Listener question: should I contact my estranged friend?

975

Listener question: what helps the mind to settle?

976

Listener question: what are the pros and cons of the COVID vaccine from the 3P perspective?

977

Listener question: I'm afraid of my subliminal...

978

Listener question: evolutionary disadvantage of the self concept?

979

Listener question: how can I stop being self-conscious in work meetings?

980

Listener question: can cells heal?

981

Listener question: how does this fit with traditional coaching of intention and choice?

982

Listener question: does anyone know or share the ultimate truth?

983

Anxious, inexperienced writers obey rules. Rebellious, unschooled writers break rules. Artists master the form. by Rober McKee

984

Listener question: how does the self disappear?

985

Listener question: how do I ask for what I want when I don't feel I deserve it?

986

why does the mind ramp up when exploring reality?

987

Listener question: what is the point of life?

988

What is this 'YOU'?

989

Listener question: how can I create from freedom?

990

Listener question: how to release the iron grip of old conditioning?

991

Listener question: how do I heal?

992

Balance and flow

993

'The unexamined life is not worth living' Socrates

994

Shift of perspective vs attaining a specific mental or emotional state

995

The gift of fear

996

Being right...

997

Exploring personality - introversion and extroversion

998

What is a clean offer?

999

Listener question: follow up to scattered mind podcast

1000

The ultimate logical paradox

1001

Wanting

1002

Listener question: understanding depression

1003

Listener question: listening to others

1004

Listener question: is there a risk of turning off the alarm?

1005

Listener question: I have a scattered mind. How do I calm it down to do boring tasks?

1006

Listener question: how do patterns of selfing change?

1007

Listener question: this exploration makes my head busy

1008

Listener question: I feel I am less than them

1009

Trust

1010

Self blame is an ego trip

1011

Listener question: anger

1012

Listener question: what insights were in your evolution?

1013

Listener question: how do I become happy in myself?

1014

The super power mind

1015

Listener question: are there separate pieces of learning?

1016

Listener question: what is separation and the mirror?

1017

Listener question: moving forwards or backwards?

1018

Listener question: two steps forward one step back

1019

Listener question: coaching others

1020

Resentment

1021

Listener question: what can I do about my children's mental health?

1022

Listener question: I work in the NHS, what to do about work overload?

1023

Listener question : how does the cleaning up happen?

1024

Listener question: I am worried about my mental health

1025

Listener question: what and where is the self?

1026

Listener question: self obsession

1027

Listener question:what is freedom?

1028

Listener question : seeing and honouring the lens

1029

Listener question: causes of stress

1030

Listener comment and question: what do you mean by 'cleaning up the doing'?

1031

Listener question: stuckness and motion

1032

Listener question: oneness

1033

Listener question: sabotage

1034

Listener question: is the design wrong?

1035

Listener suggestion: you should focus less on mind and body

1036

Listener question: food, eating and stress

1037

Listener question: categorisation

1038

Listener question: self compassion

1039

Listener question: I can't find the awareness

1040

Listener question: overloaded brain

1041

Listener question: pain

1042

Listener question: resistance and reality

1043

What is stress?

1044

Listener question: What can the mind know? What is real?

1045

Listener question: can you say more about what you mean by 'mind body system'?

1046

Listener question : religion and the after life

1047

Listener question: free will

1048

Listener question: is my bullying boss just my thinking?

1049

Listener question: motivation and confidence

1050

Listener comment: risks of exploring / dismissing stress

1051

Listener question: but my circumstances are actually stressful...

1052

Listener question: what's at stake?

1053

Listener question: suffering

1054

Listener question: choice

1055

Listener question: doing and creating

1056

Listener question: teaching and coaching

1057

Listener question: debilitating fear

1058

Listener question: going deeper makes things worse

1059

Listener question: state of flow?

1060

Listener question : helping others and building bridges for them

1061

Listener question: conspiracy theories, belief and behaviour

1062

Listener question: what do you mean by 'going into the body?'

1063

Listener question: what is driving behaviour?

1064

Listener question: thoughts

1065

Listener question: Did it happen?

1066

Listener question: how to take away this intense emotion?

1067

Listener question: can you give an example?

1068

Listener question: anxiety

1069

Listener question: boundaries and relationships

1070

Listener question: I'm ill and I hate it

1071

Listener question: what about positive emotions?

1072

Listener question: can we escape ourselves?

1073

Listener question: What is insanity?

1074

Listener question: loss and grief

1075

Listener question: how does addiction fit into this conversation?

1076

Deep authenticity and integrity

1077

Listener question: illness, symptoms and exploration of reality

1078

Listener question : so is there choice but no chooser?

1079

Listener comment : 'meddling'

1080

Listener question: individual responsibility

1081

Listener question: what is the experience after realisation?

1082

Listener question: boundaries

1083

Listener question : accountability for feeling wronged?

1084

The end of the cycle

1085

Trance

1086

Listener question: fears, where to begin?

1087

A new orientation

1088

Listener question: health and not knowing

1089

Listener question: will a subliminal recording help with my public speaking phobia?

1090

Listener question : what is the other person?

1091

Listener question: but panic attacks are real...

1092

Listener question: choices

1093

Listener plea: make the suffering stop

1094

Listener question: what about doing and distraction?

1095

Listener question: what is happening?

1096

Listener question: how can I get this to change?

1097

Listener question: relationship

1098

Intimacy and protection

1099

Listener question: suffering and the intellect

1100

Listener question: suicide

1101

Listener question: how do I know?

1102

Listener question: denial or healthy response?

1103

Listener question: what is the advantage of this understanding

1104

Listener question: jealousy and envy

1105

Listener question: how to bridge the two worlds

1106

Listener question: but what about...?

1107

Listener question: no man's land...

1108

Listener question : climate change anxiety

1109

Listener question: triggers part 2

1110

Listener question: cutting people off?

1111

Listener question: triggers and reliving the 'unsafety'

1112

Listener question : what can I do about shame?

1113

Listener question: what about the harmful actions and words?

1114

Listener comment: all I know to do is cry and breathe

1115

Listener question: are the subliminals and your teaching more advaita vedanta or Syd...?

1116

Listener question: what is wholeness?

1117

Listener question: should I do anything?

1118

Listener question: marriage?

1119

Listener question: what about the victims? Part 2.

1120

Listener question: what about the victims?

1121

Listener question: discipline, accountability and no self

1122

Listener question anger and the 'back room'

1123

Listener question: disproportionate fear - will subliminals help?

1124

Listener question: catch 22

1125

Listener question: what is love? - follow up to 8 April podcast

1126

Listener question: how do we know awakening is not just a product of conditioning?

1127

Listener question: what about violence ?

1128

Listener question: I want what she's having...

1129

Listener question: why do anything if we are sitting in mental health?

1130

Listener question: how to understand betrayal?

1131

Listener question: how do I get rid of resentment?

1132

Listener question: I'm ok if you're ok

1133

Listener question: what is love?

1134

Listener question: guilt and resentment

1135

Listener question: hormones

1136

Listener question: unfairness and tragedy

1137

Listener question: follow up to 'should I stay or should I go?'

1138

Listener question: is this unspiritual?

1139

Listener question: doing well and now... fears

1140

Listener question: people pleasing

1141

Listener question:should I act on my idea?

1142

Listener question: how does narcissism fit into conversation about self and reality?

1143

Listener question: what do you mean by back room?

1144

Listener question: what does 'give itself up' mean?

1145

Listener question: waking up

1146

Listener question: randomness and cause and effect

1147

Listener question: can you say more about watching the behaviour?

1148

Listener question: what about injustices and protesting?

1149

Listener question : how can I stop people from taking the vaccine?

1150

Listener question: should I stay or should I go?

1151

Listener question: are we saying people shouldn't be punished?

1152

Listener question: what about culpability?

1153

Listener question: where do decisions come from?

1154

Listener question: are events random?

1155

Strength and destruction

1156

I'm choosing this

1157

Listener question: what does 'going into the problem' actually mean?

1158

Listener question: real life

1159

Listener question: If I could lose a few pounds that would be a great side benefit...?

1160

Listener question: jealousy and inspiration

1161

Listener question : vision statements

1162

Listener question: are we affected by others?

1163

Listener question: how do I let go of the thinking?

1164

Listener question: how to make the suffering less convincing

1165

Listener question: how to live with someone who doesn't like people?

1166

Peacefulness

1167

What is the motivation for listening to this podcast?

1168

Rumination and mindfulness

1169

'This too shall pass'

1170

Living spirituality

1171

Listener question: scared my foundation will be shaken

1172

Listener question: 'But we can choose our thoughts...'

1173

Identity, behaviour and change

1174

Enlightenment and the hot air balloon

1175

Capacity and mental load

1176

Listener question: Why is the identity so painful to lose?

1177

Thought: suppression or realisation

1178

Comment: but my reality is real...

1179

Listener question : How can I not identify with the mind and the body?

1180

Law of attraction

1181

Listener question: Ageing and appearance

1182

Shadow integration

1183

What is a 'good' ending to a relationship?

1184

How does the mind work?

1185

Why explore reality?

1186

Reality

1187

Listener question: how can we make this as simple as possible?

1188

Listener question: has yoga helped you to see more?

1189

Listener question: fear of physical harm

1190

Naïveté

1191

Listener question: potential

1192

Listener question: is thinking the enemy?

1193

Listener question: resistance or doormat?

1194

Listener question : severe diagnoses

1195

Listener question: mirrors and resentment

1196

Impact

1197

Listener question: vulnerability

1198

Listener question: disorders and trauma

1199

Listener question: Bullying

1200

You need to love yourself...

1201

Listener question: why does criticism feel so bad?

1202

Listener question: hopelessness

1203

Listener question: is there any truth in thought?

1204

Listener question: dilemmas

1205

Listener question: annoying person...

1206

Listener question : when boundaries get challenged

1207

Listener question: Can you talk about boundaries?

1208

Listener question - define self

1209

Listener question: can you say it very simply?

1210

In a world where you can be anything, be kind...

1211

Listener question : oneness and uniqueness

1212

Listener question: competition and confidence

1213

Listener question : objective reality?

1214

Listener question: how did it happen for you?

1215

Listener question : denial

1216

Listener request for comment

1217

Listener question : control and responsibility

1218

Listener question: what are thoughts, feelings and emotions?

1219

Listener question: please describe separation and no-separation

1220

Listener question: fate and destiny

1221

Listener question: what is doing the doing?

1222

Listener question: control

1223

Fundamental aggression...

1224

'Your task is not to seek for love'

1225

Integrity

1226

4 representations of inside / outside

1227

Outside In

1228

Happy New Year!

1229

GIFT

1230

Stories

1231

Peace on earth, goodwill to all men

1232

Unique expression

1233

The secret to The Secret

1234

Different experiences

1235

Happy Christmas

1236

Listener question: loneliness

1237

Mastery

1238

Tantrums

1239

Fear

1240

Listener question: can we choose the pattern?

1241

Listener question: is this understanding a vehicle for denying form?

1242

Information

1243

3 steps to getting on with anyone

1244

Activism

1245

Listener question: sensations moving through

1246

Slavery to live in the mind...

1247

Desperation

1248

Listener question: how do I stop repetitive thinking?

1249

Listener question: How is conditioning seen and undone?

1250

Conflict

1251

Decision making and intelligence

1252

Intuition

1253

Decision making

1254

Listener question: trauma, therapy and reality

1255

Gifts

1256

Integration and wholeness

1257

The 'editor'

1258

Readiness and unconditional love

1259

Listener question: is it my fault?

1260

The conundrum of 'there is only this' / seeing this is the end of suffering as we know it

1261

Listener question: is life a continual unfolding of seeing more of the self arising and then it dissolving as more of the truth is seen?

1262

Listener question: Is it possible to have shift and the self dissolve without the hopelessness?

1263

Listener question : why are 'wants' not met?

1264

Listener question : I don't know how to stop the control and let life get messy

1265

Listeners' question: why look at behaviour?

1266

Listener question: the hopelessness of no free will

1267

Listener question: why is there a magnetic pull to heaviness, overthinking and unhelpful patterns?

1268

Listener question: safety

1269

Listener question : perfection or change?

1270

Listener question: feeling great and the self

1271

Listener question: how do I help my wife accept her pain?

1272

Listener question: how do we know awakening is not just a product of conditioning?

1273

Listener question: what now and why?

1274

Parenting values, beliefs and rules for living

1275

Asking for what we want...

1276

Body, mind, space, self

1277

How can there be no such thing as rejection?

1278

'Rules'

1279

Listener question: What am I?

1280

Listener question: How do beliefs get believed?

1281

Listener question: self fulfilling prophecies

1282

Who is Trump?

1283

the 'motivation mesh'

1284

'No self accountability'

1285

This should not be happening

1286

'Selfing'

1287

Escapism and transcendence

1288

Listener question: How would you explain this to a ten year old?

1289

"We have tried everything to get rid of suffering..."

1290

Recognising who you really are, will destroy you and your whole life as you know it.

1291

"This image of yourself is obviously not real..."

1292

"Being is totally whole just being.."

1293

"The real you is the field of intelligence.."

1294

Navigating a hall of mirrors

1295

Listener question: Can you explain the film metaphor?

1296

Listener question: how do you free yourself from this?

1297

"I need to get out of my own way"

1298

Question: If reality is made of thought then how do I change it?

1299

It is what it is...?

1300

Circuit breakers or fixes?

1301

Experience - to be controlled or simply a revelation?

1302

Listener question: What about Auschwitz?

1303

Solipsism and immersion in reality

1304

There is no such thing as rejection

1305

Withdrawal and immersion

1306

Snake eating its own tail

1307

Defence and open space

1308

What is the difference between stress and pressure?

1309

Listener question: How did you start this work?

1310

Sleep

1311

Listener question: self enquiry

1312

Seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it

1313

Listener question: Judgement of emotions and self

1314

Listener question: Is it important to have a purpose?

1315

Mind, Intelligence and self

1316

The struggle of thought vs thought

1317

Pattern interrupter

1318

Living a RICH life

1319

Listener question: fear and poverty

1320

Listener question : fear and behaviour

1321

Listener question: is there a difference between non-duality and 3Ps?

1322

Listener question: friendships ending

1323

Listener question : working with trauma sufferers

1324

listener question: how can I be with my partner's rage?

1325

Listener question: how can I act from true nature?

1326

What does it mean to live a RICH life?

1327

Listener question: is it necessary to pin point each individual belief?

1328

Listener question: discipline

1329

Fear and problem solving

1330

Listener question: how do I get back to that ultimate peace I once experienced?

1331

Listener question: body sensations and reality

1332

Listener question : fear and relationships

1333

Listener question: Can we ever know another?

1334

Listener question: how can I stop memories of trauma creating fear

1335

When 'accepting' makes it worse

1336

Is this understanding enough to unravel physical visceral memory? (listener question)

1337

The ramping up of fear

1338

Looking away from ME vs honouring ME

1339

The suppression of fear and suffering and their appearance as something else

1340

Cold turkey on avoidance rituals?

1341

Doing what makes sense

1342

Self care, the body and fear

1343

Expansion, contraction and fear

1344

'Feel the fear and do it anyway'...?

1345

What does fear protect?

1346

Fear and self loathing

1347

The key to understanding fear

1348

The irony at the heart of fear

1349

A month exploring safety and fear - intro

1350

Reality, thought and denial (listener question)

1351

Mental health exercises? (listener question)

1352

Connection and rejection (listener question)

1353

Damaging patterns of behaviour / response and what to do about them (listener question)

1354

How do I find where I belong? (Listener question)

1355

Loneliness in marriage (listener question)

1356

Sin series: #9 Conclusion

1357

Sin series: #8 Sloth

1358

Sin series: #7 Greed

1359

Sin series: #6 Anger

1360

Sin series: #5 Lust

1361

Sin series: #4 Gluttony

1362

Sin series #3 Envy

1363

Sin series: #2 Pride

1364

Sin series: #1 Introduction

1365

The 'real' world #12: conclusion

1366

The 'real' world #11: a dangerous world

1367

The 'real' world #10: altruism

1368

The 'real' world #9: responsibility

1369

The 'real' world #8: relationships

1370

The 'real' world #7: creation

1371

The 'real' world #6: material objects

1372

The 'real' world #5: impact

1373

The 'real' world #4: money

1374

The 'real' world #3: career and jobs

1375

The 'real' world #2: success

1376

The 'real' world #1: introduction

1377

morality and right and wrong

1378

Self, mind and body #8: conclusion

1379

Self, mind and body: #7 illness and acceptance

1380

Self, mind and body: #6 CBT, hypnosis and NLP

1381

Self, mind and body #6: diagnoses

1382

Self, mind and body #5: medicine and drugs

1383

Self, mind and body #4: therapy

1384

Self, mind and body #3: mind and mind management

1385

Self, mind and body: #2 diet

1386

Introduction to mini series - the dynamic of self, body, thoughts and beliefs

1387

Self, mind and body: #1 exercise and body work

1388

The mirror of self and other

1389

Loss of self and understanding

1390

Detachment

1391

Responsibility and free will

1392

Resolution

1393

Talent, ability, the self and reality

1394

Morality and reality

1395

Gaslighting and reality

1396

Fear # 7: of liberation

1397

Fear #6: triggering, avoidance and limitation

1398

Fear #5 Phobias

1399

Getting out of your own way

1400

Fear #4: the fear of circumstances

1401

Fear #3: fear of harm to or death of another

1402

Fear #2: the fear of death and physical harm

1403

Fear and threat to self / body

1404

Toxic people

1405

Heaven and hell

1406

Grief

1407

Abuse and honouring

1408

Sovereignty

1409

Competition

1410

Needing to be liked

1411

Contraction and expansion

1412

Desire

1413

Relief

1414

Being

1415

Acceptance

1416

Forgiveness

1417

Goggles

1418

Unconditional love vs. doormat

1419

Anger

1420

Success

1421

Maturity of understanding

1422

Wrong behaviour and misalignment

1423

Changing other people's behaviour

1424

Instructions

1425

Taking offence

1426

Resistance

1427

How do I share this with other people?

1428

Jealousy

1429

Confusion and no man's land

1430

Immersion

1431

The end of lying and manipulation

1432

The end of identification of self with body

1433

What is in the way of a goal being achieved?

1434

The end of hatred

1435

What creates behavioural change?

1436

Shame and embarrassment

1437

Solipsism, the other and oneness

1438

Taking a stand

1439

The world of people, things and places

1440

Love: impersonal and unconditional

1441

Rejection, approval and the self

1442

Does this understanding change us and the world?

1443

Confidence

1444

Cause and effect

1445

The easy life

1446

Defence

1447

Finding our bearings

1448

Vigilance and honouring

1449

Three realities

1450

A better dream..?

1451

Are there toxic people?

1452

Control or no control?

1453

Self blame, responsibility and free will

1454

Potential

1455

Pets and unconditional love

1456

Insecurity

1457

Triggering and readiness for something else

1458

Desire

1459

The conditional self

1460

The lightly held I

1461

What's the point?

1462

Where is the centre?

1463

Discomfort and resistance

1464

Let's be realistic...

1465

The limits and possibility of a teacher

1466

The unimaginable

1467

Somewhere to get to? Nowhere to get to?

1468

wisdom

1469

Dissociation

1470

Does anything exist?

1471

Intimacy

1472

Nothing is personal

1473

The story-less self

1474

The eternal sunshine of the spotless mind?

1475

The body

1476

When the going gets tough

1477

Purpose

1478

Enlightenment and the onion

1479

The search for okness

1480

Beyond values

1481

Could illness be impersonal?

1482

Feeling stuck?

1483

What does it mean to flourish?

1484

Fear... but what is being protected?

1485

Suffering and other people

1486

Evidence and navigation

1487

The future - insanity or simplicity?

1488

It is what it is... and it also isn't

1489

Peace

1490

Behaviour and habits

1491

Acceptance

1492

Flow

1493

Freedom

1494

Panic and reality

1495

Characters in our story

1496

The roller coaster

1497

What if I run out of ideas?

1498

How do I know what to do?

1499

Beyond limitation

1500

Concepts, sanity and freedom

1501

What is real about Coronavirus?