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The Connected Life — 367 episodes

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372: The Fantasy of Fixing People Pt. 3

2

371: The Savior Complex Trap Pt. 2

3

370: Growing Up Codependent Pt. 1

4

369: Emotional Immaturity in Relationships Pt.3

5

368: Emotional Maturity: Letting Love In Pt. 2

6

367: The Key to Emotional Maturity Pt. 1

7

366: A Nervous System Reset

8

365: The One Thing That Changed Our Marriage Pt. 1 - Greatest Hits

9

364: There's Hope for Your Relationship - Greatest Hits

10

363: Love that never fails - Greatest Hits

11

362: Bouncing Back from Betrayal - Greatest Hits

12

361: Why You Push Love Away - Greatest Hits

13

360: A Guide to Expressing Your Emotions - Greatest Hits

14

359: Overcoming Emotional Hurdles in a Relationship Pt. 1 - Greatest Hits

15

358: Toxic Empathy Vs Healthy Empathy - Greatest Hits

16

357: What to Do When Your Partner Won't Change - Greatest Hits

17

356: When Intuition Opens the Door

18

355: How I Started Trusting Good Things

19

354: What Chronic Sickness is REALLY Like

20

353: The Key to Relational Resilience

21

352: The Expectation Hangover

22

351: The Missing Piece to Trauma Healing

23

350: Is Therapy a Scam?

24

349: Is Emotional Health Your Religion?

25

348: How to Get What You Want

26

347: Why Success Nearly Broke Me

27

346: When to Walk Away

28

345: When to Lock it Down

29

344: The Cure to Relationship Drama

30

343: Become a Badass at Dating Pt. 2

31

342: Become a Badass at Dating Pt. 1

32

341: Staying Connected When Life Gets Stressful

33

340: The Courage to Rethink Your Faith Pt. 2

34

339: The Courage to Rethink Your Faith Pt. 1

35

338: Hormones: The Relationship Plot Twist

36

337: Boundaries in Romance Pt. 2

37

336: Boundaries in Romance Pt. 1

38

335: Overcoming Emotional Hurdles in a Relationship Pt. 2

39

334: Overcoming Emotional Hurdles in a Relationship Pt. 1

40

333: Toxic Empathy Vs Healthy Empathy

41

332: Why You Push Love Away

42

331: There's Hope for Your Relationship

43

330: A Guide to Expressing Your Emotions

44

329: What's Shaping Your Sex Life?

45

328: Fire Up Your Sex Life

46

327: The Magic of "Now"

47

326: Opening Your Heart After Loss

48

325: A Secret to Fueling Attraction

49

324: What to Do When Your Partner Won't Change

50

323: Bouncing Back from Betrayal

51

322: Church Hurt: Rage, Grace, & Everything in Between

52

321: The Silent Killer of a Great Life

53

320: Green Flags—What to Look For in Relationships

54

319: Bridging Faith and Emotional Health Pt. 2

55

318: Why We Compromise What We Want

56

317: Bridging Faith and Emotional Health Pt. 1

57

316: Creating the Life You Want

58

315: The Essential Ingredient for Growth

59

314: Reclaiming Your Power

60

313: Stop the Resolutions and Start the Transformation

61

312: Love That Never Fails

62

311: Hope for Chronic Pain and Sickness

63

310: Is Your Body Hijacking You

64

309: Relating to Humans 101

65

308: Body Based Healing

66

307: Becoming Your Greatest Advocate

67

306: The One Thing That Changed Our Marriage Pt. 2

68

305: The One Thing That Changed Our Marriage Pt. 1

69

304: Honoring Your Capacity

70

303: Creating Relational Safety Pt. 2

71

302: Creating Relational Safety Pt. 1

72

301: Boundaries with Kids

73

300: Just Do the Next Right Thing

74

299: Great Minds Don't Think Alike

75

298: Loving the Fantasy of Someone

76

297: It Begins with Boundaries Pt. 2

77

296: It Begins with Boundaries Pt. 1

78

295: The Compassion Cure

79

294: How to Win at Marriage

80

293: The Power of Facing Yourself

81

292: Revolutionize Your Relationships with Honesty

82

291: I Hate These Emotions!

83

290: Restoring the Masculine Soul

84

289: Create Healthy Connection with Your Emotions

85

288: Reparenting: Healing and Growing as Adults

86

287: Identify Your Trauma Response Pt. 2

87

286: Identify Your Trauma Response Pt. 1

88

284: The Fantasy of Fulfillment

89

283: Marriage: What We Wish We had Known

90

282: Developing a Healthy Sense of Self

91

281: Creating Stability in Uncertainty

92

280: Making Peace with the Dead

93

279: Believing in a Good God in Trying Times Pt. 2 of 2

94

278: The Healing Impact of Reflecting on a Loving God Pt. 1 of 2

95

277: Steps to Conquering Codependency

96

276: Navigating Relational Losses

97

275: Identifying and Overcoming Spiritual OCD

98

274: Attachment - A Guide to Human Connection Pt. 2

99

273: Attachment - A Guide to Human Connection Pt. 1

100

272: Justin's Near Death Wim Hof Expedition

101

271: A Vulnerable Conversation About Trauma

102

270: The Secret Sauce to Connection

103

269: Connecting to Your Intuition

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268: The Power of Childlikeness

105

267: Justin and Abi's Fight

106

266: A Life Well Lived

107

265: Processing Church Scandals

108

264: A Fundamental Step to Healing and Repair

109

263: One of the Greatest Communication Hacks Pt. 2

110

262: One of the Greatest Communication Hacks Pt. 1

111

261: Reflecting-The First Step to Dreaming

112

260: Love is Never Wasted

113

259: God with Us

114

258: Failure-Life's Friendly Mentor

115

257: Repairing Family Connections

116

256: Divine Pivots in Life

117

255: An Eternal Perspective of Gratitude

118

254: Saying Yes to the Mess!

119

253: Fostering Faithful Friendships

120

252: Experiencing Radical Love Through Safe Community

121

251: Eradicating Chaos and Creating Peaceful Lives

122

250: Creating Clarity in Relationships

123

249: Creating a Lifestyle of Success Pt2

124

248: Creating a Lifestyle of Success Pt1

125

247: Rewiring Your Money Foundation-Pt 2

126

246: Understanding Your Money Foundation-Pt 1

127

245: Relational Attraction with Doctor Ruth

128

244: Setting a Foundation for Relational Repair

129

243: The Art of Curiosity

130

242: From Rags to Riches-A Tale of Triumphant Grace

131

241: Thriving Through Sickness with a Loved One

132

240: Hope for Your Future

133

239: Miracles and Emotional Health

134

238: The Power of Acceptance

135

237: The Price of Freedom

136

236: Building a Thriving Family - Part 4

137

235: Overcoming Anxiety in Your Family - Part 3

138

234: Developing Emotional Resilience in Your Family - Part 2

139

233: Creating an Emotionally Healthy Family - Part 1

140

232: Finding Fulfillment Now

141

231: A Mother and Daughter's Road to Repair

142

230: Grace in Suffering

143

229: Healing Your Body and Mind Through Safety

144

228: How Our Theology Impacts Our Psychology

145

227: Childlikeness vs Childishness

146

226: Creating a Life of Confidence Through Connection

147

225: The Power of Accepting Reality

148

224: Buying Her with Abolitionist and Filmmaker Benji Nolot

149

223: In One Year Things Will Be Different

150

222: Identifying Goodness in Your Life

151

221: The Distracted Life

152

220: I'm Sad, It Doesn't Make You Bad

153

219: The Impact of Friendship

154

218: The Redeeming Power of Love

155

217: Subconscious Beliefs Keeping Us From Our Desires

156

216: Help! My Brain's Been Hijacked

157

215: Fostering Love - A Story of Redemption

158

214: Little Moments That Create Big Impact

159

213: What to do When Our Partners Don't Change

160

212: Creating a Lifestyle of Fortitude

161

211: Life After Loss

162

210: Stories of Fulfilled Dreams

163

209: Keys to Get Vision and Live Inspired

164

208: The Abundant Goodness of Life

165

207: Divorce, Disappointments, Desires, and Dreams Fulfilled. Pt 2 of 2

166

206: Divorce, Disappointments, Desires, and Dreams Fulfilled Pt 1 of 2

167

205: The Journey of Connection as You Grow

168

204: Making Sense of People

169

203: The Power of Sharing Your Story

170

202: A Compassionate and Powerful Approach to the Holidays

171

201: A Practical Tool to Conquer the Holidays

172

200: Becoming a Magnet for Love

173

199: Conquering 9 Common Fears

174

198: Offensive Love

175

197: Cultivating Resilience

176

196: Creating Connection

177

195: Life Lessons

178

194: Wild Courage

179

193: Steamy Sex You Always Wanted

180

192: Understanding Our Connections

181

191: The Disconnected Life

182

190: Harnessing the Power of Influence

183

189: Secrets to Romantic Attraction

184

188: Finding Hope Beyond Healing

185

187: Ownership: The Foundation to Reconnection

186

186: The Path to Remembering Who We Are

187

185: Having Successful Conflict

188

184: Resolving Pain With a Father: A Live Healing Experience

189

183: Repair: Creating an Atmosphere of Love

190

182: The Messy Journey to Repair

191

181: What Am I Feeling?

192

180: Rejection and Redemption: A Live Healing Experience

193

179: 8 Keys to Life with People You Don't Like

194

177: Powerful and Compassionate Parenting

195

176: The Power of Serving Others

196

174: A Redemptive Love Story

197

173: Showing Up to Life

198

172: Loving Those in Need

199

171: Loving the Unloveable

200

170: The Messiness of an Affair

201

169: The Power of Embracing Your Messiness

202

168: Creating Long-term Friendships

203

167: A Road to True Happiness

204

166: The Power of Dependence

205

165: The Humanity That We All Share

206

164: Codependency and Faith

207

163: Love Your Neighbor as Yourself

208

162: The Case for Emotions in Faith

209

161: Finding Connection in the Silence

210

160: How to Prepare for Being Confronted

211

159: Redemption: The Hope for Justice (Part 3 of 3)

212

158: Finding Beauty in Pain (Part 2 of 3)

213

157: The Healing Power of Compassion (Part 1 of 3)

214

156: Vital Steps to Dreaming for Your Future

215

155: Christmas Nostalgia

216

154: The Hope of Christmas

217

153: A Fulfilling Approach to Christmas

218

152: A Practical Guide to Self-Care

219

151: Rewiring Our View of God

220

150: 10 Signs of Wholeness

221

149: The Power of Disconnecting

222

148: Connecting to Your Story

223

146: Learning to Nourish Your Soul

224

145: How to Approach Decisions

225

144: The Power of Embracing Change

226

143: Finding Empowerment and Healing through Triggers

227

142: Parenting in a Powerful Way

228

141: The Pathway to Freedom

229

140: Letting Go of Your External Battles

230

139: Shamelessly Owning Your Part of the Story

231

138: Making Sense of Relational Messiness

232

137: Brutal Beginnings for Newlyweds

233

136: Stepping Back in the Church

234

135: Finding God Outside of Church

235

134: Restoring Humanity in Religion

236

133: Shedding Light on the Mystery of Singleness

237

132: Becoming the Captain of Your Own Life

238

131: Thriving After Shipwrecks and Sufferings

239

130: Building Connected Masculine Friendships

240

129: The Redemption of What Wasn't

241

128: Grieving the Loss of What Wasn't

242

127: The Children We Won't Have

243

126: Key Ingredients for a Success Cocktail

244

125: Healing Pain, Shame, and Sexual Addiction

245

124: Pornography is not the Problem

246

123: How You Attach to the People in Your Life

247

122: Renovating Your Life

248

121: Contagious Courage: A Live Healing Experience

249

120: The Power of Facing Your Fear as a Family

250

119: The Top Secret Truth to Transformation

251

118: An Intimate Look into the Healing Process

252

117: Hearing God for Your Future Pt2

253

116: Hearing God for Your Future Pt 1

254

115: Reconstructing Your Faith

255

114: Loving Yourself in Religion

256

113: Deconstructing Your Faith

257

112: 6 Key Phases of Faith

258

111: Misconceptions We Learned From Religion

259

110: Faith and Emotional Health

260

109: Eradicating Performance in Your Faith

261

108: The Beginnings of Faith

262

107: A Behind the Scenes Look at Pornography with Benji Nolot

263

106: Creating a Lifestyle of Intentionality

264

105: An Awakening of Acceptance

265

104: Hindsight is 2020

266

103: A Fundamental Key to Living a Connected Lifestyle

267

101: Restoring Sexuality with Paul Young

268

100: Connecting to Yourself, Others, and God: Live-Celebration

269

99: A Guide to Political Discussions During the Holidays

270

98: Conquering Life Through a Can-Do Attitude

271

97: Dreaming Like Royalty

272

96: Two Vital Keys for Every Relationship

273

95: Creating a Lifestyle of Fun

274

94: Discovering Purpose in the Nothingness

275

93: From Crappy to Happy

276

92: Creating Victory Over Our Body Battle

277

91: Justin's Surprise Birthday Interview

278

90: A Surefire Solution to Feel Connected

279

89: Unearthing, Understanding, and Eradicating Shrouded Shame

280

88: Connecting to Eternal Power

281

87: Redefining Justice-The Path to Healing

282

86: Finding Hope in the Present

283

85: The Power of Celebrating Yourself

284

84: Restoring Our Childlike Wonder

285

83: The Power of People Centered Purpose

286

82: Making Your Dreams a Reality

287

81: Creating an Anti-Affair Plan

288

80: Rebuilding From Rubble with Paul Young

289

79: Tub Talk- The Naked Truth About Marriage

290

78: The Journey to a Dream Fulfilled

291

77: Seeking to Understand: A Time to Listen

292

76: Finding a Firm Foundation in Trying Times

293

75: Building Bridges Through Compassion

294

74: Recalibrating Your Relational Role

295

73: 12 Green-lights to Relationship

296

72: Sorry-The Cuss Word of All Cuss Words

297

71: What Are All These Feelings?

298

70: The Dog is Not Our Problem

299

69: Becoming Empowered in Relational Conflict

300

68: Stop Playing the Game

301

67: From Falling Apart to Falling Together

302

66: Shattering the Secrets that Shame Us Pt 2

303

65: Shattering the Secrets that Shame Us Pt 1

304

64: Thriving through Corona

305

63: The Journey to Healing-Finding Your Fight Pt 4 of 4

306

62: The Journey To Healing-Justin's Sadness Pt 3 of 4

307

61: The Journey to Healing-Revelations From Pain Pt 2 of 4

308

60: The Journey To Healing-Abi's Sickness Pt 1 of 4

309

59: The Ebbs and Flows of Friendship

310

58: Relating Powerfully to Your Partner's Family

311

57: How to Master and Win at Dating Pt 2 of 2

312

56: How to Master and Win at Dating Pt 1 of 2

313

55: Keys to Becoming a Great Friend

314

54: Vision- The Key to Relational Momentum

315

53: Breaking Barriers and Building Bridges to Connection

316

52: How to Win in the New Year

317

51: Becoming Loving and Powerful During the Holidays

318

50: Spirituality and Boundaries Pt 2 of 2

319

49: Spirituality and Boundaries Pt 1 of 2

320

48: The Power of Living a Life of Generosity

321

47: Creating a Lifestyle of Thanksgiving

322

46: 7 Steps to Overcoming Breakups and Betrayals

323

45: The Lifelong Journey to Great Sex Pt 2 of 2

324

44: The Lifelong Journey to Great Sex Pt 1 of 2

325

43: Understanding and Embracing Your Season

326

42: The Healing Power of Nurture-The Mother Series Pt 5

327

41: Stumbling Blocks to Connection-The Mother Series Pt 4

328

40: The Courage to Own Your Life-The Mother Series Pt 3

329

39: Courage, Confrontation, and Compassion-The Mother Series Pt 2

330

38: Facing the Reality of Our Childhood: The Mother Series Pt 1

331

37: Understanding a Woman's Sex Drive

332

36: Breaking Horses and Building Hearts

333

35: Justin and Abi's Victory Over Suicide

334

34: Creating a Lifestyle of Adventure

335

33: Overcoming Trauma

336

32: On the Road to Restoration: Surviving Family Vacations

337

31: Creating and Keeping the Romance Alive

338

30: Creating Rules to Live By

339

29: Beginning a Healthy Relationship

340

28: A Blame Free Life-Style

341

27: Redefining Dating

342

26: Ending the Gender Battle

343

25: 6 Keys to Successful Dating

344

24: Finding Life in Grief with Laura Duncan

345

23: How Our History Shapes Us Pt 2 of 2

346

22: How Our History Shapes Us Pt 1 of 2

347

21: Redefining Your Weakness

348

20: Finding Connection Through Clashing Cultures

349

19: Sex, Sex, and More Sex: Creating a Sex Life You Love

350

18: Looking Back to Move Forward

351

17: Learning to Have Realistic Expectations of Yourself

352

16: 6 Keys to Winning a Woman's Heart

353

15: The Power of Adding Fun to Your Life!

354

14: A New Approach to Parenting with Pietze Duffield

355

13: Anger- The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly.

356

12: Abi and Justin's Explosion

357

11: Your Story's not Finished: Finding Miracles in the Mundane.

358

10: Shattering Shame and Creating Connection in the Bedroom Pt 2 of 2

359

9: Foundations for a Great Sex Life! Pt 1 of 2

360

8: Redefining Success: Married Life Year One Pt 2 of 2

361

7: Facing Our Greatest Fears: Married Life Year One Pt 1 of 2

362

6: The Battle with Our Bodies: Diving Deeper into the Root of The Problem. Pt: 2 of 2

363

5: The Battle with Our Bodies: Winning the War with Weight. Pt: 1 of 2

364

4: Learning Surrender and Trust as a Lifestyle. Pt: 3 of 3

365

3: The Process of Choosing Each Other. Pt: 2 of 3

366

2: Never, Ever, Will I Marry You! Pt: 1of 3

367

1: The Disconnect in Creating The Connected Life-Intro