All Episodes

289: Working with Couples Who Get Escalated with Shane Birkel

288: Relationship Repair with Shane Birkel

287: Relationships & AI with Trevor White

286: Working with Trauma & Couples Therapy with Dr. Janina Fisher

285: Intensives & Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen

284: Connection: The 4 Cs in Relationships with Shane Birkel

283: Compassion: The 4 Cs in Relationships with Shane Birkel

282: Curiosity: The 4 Cs in Relationships with Shane Birkel

281: Consciousness: The 4 Cs in Relationships with Shane Birkel

280: The 4 Cs in Relationships with Shane Birkel

279: Why Do I Keep Doing This? with Kati Morton

278: When Weekly Couples Therapy Isn't Enough with Shane Birkel

277: When Work Stress Impacts the Relationship with Guy Winch

276: The Myth of Effortless Connection with Shane Birkel

275: Internal Family Systems (IFS) & Couples with Liz Phillips

274: 7 Steps to Move Beyond Your Painful Past with Katherine Woodward Thomas

273: Working with Infidelity in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel

272: Common Sexual Issues in Couples Therapy with Adrien Monti

271: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen

270: Attachment Patterns & Secure Relationships with Jessica Baum

269: Conscious Uncoupling with Katherine Woodward Thomas

268: Change Your Questions, Change Your Future with Elliott Connie

267: So Much More than Listening with Shane Birkel

266: Enneagram & Relationships with Christa Hardin

265: Consciousness in Relationships with Shane Birkel

264: Parents in Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids with Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy

263: Communication in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel

262: Helping Couples during Their Transition to Parenthood with Kelly Bourque

261: Healing Our Core Issues (HOCI) in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel

260: Wise Effort with Dr. Diana Hill

259: Infidelity with Dr. Ellyn Bader

258: Working with Men in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel

257: Emotional Repair with Andrea Dindinger

256: Brain Science & Attachment with Dr. Dan Siegel

255: Resentment in Relationships with Shane Birkel

254: Boundaries & Neurobiology with Juliane Taylor Shore

253: Relationships & Control with Shane Birkel

252: Trauma & Relationships with Dr. Janina Fisher

251: Compassion in Encounter-centered Transformation (EcT) with Hedy Schleifer

250: Encounter-centered Transformation (EcT) with Hedy Schleifer

249: Parents of Teenagers with Marie Vakakis

248: Imposter Syndrome with Dr. Jill Stoddard

247: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) with Dr. Jill Stoddard

246: PACT Informed Couples Therapy with Michelle Garraway

245: The Vagina Whisperer and Floored with Dr. Sara Reardon

244: The Science of Revenge with James Kimmel, Jr.

243: Commitment in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel

242: The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men with Tom Bruett

241: 'Til Stress Do Us Part with Elizabeth Earnshaw

240: Emotional Abuse with Shane Birkel

239: Neurodiversity & Relationships with Dr. Matt Zakreski

238: The 3 Situations When Couples Therapy Won't Work with Shane Birkel

237: Transformative Couples Therapy (TCT) with Dr. David Mars

236: Trauma Bonds with Dr. Laura Copley

235: The 5 Forces Destroying Your Relationship with Dr. Pat Love

234: Sex & Science with Emily Nagoski, PhD

233: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Ryan Rana

232: Understanding Leverage in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel

231: Empowerment from Trauma with La Shanda Sugg

230: Understanding Shame with Shane Birkel

229: Co-Parenting with Karen Bonnell

228: A Soulful Marriage with Dr. Rachel Glik

227: Beyond Fairy Tales with Dr. Mark Karris

226: Childhood Trauma & Relationships with Lisa Ferentz

225: Boundaries in Relationships with Shane Birkel

224: Understanding Emotionally Avoidant People with Shane Birkel

223: Grief and Loss with David Kessler

222: Emotional vs. Problem-Solving Communication with Shane Birkel

221: EFT and Ketamine-Assisted Couples Therapy with Kathryn Rheem

220: Pregnancy, Parenthood, and Relationships with Hilary Waller

219: Internal Family Systems and Couples with Tammy Sollenberger

218: Imago and Polyvagal Therapy with Hayley Hoffman

217: Stop Trying to Be Right in Your Relationship with Shane Birkel

216: Beyond Mars and Venus with John Gray

215: ADHD and Couples with Anita Robertson

214: Working with High Intensity after an Affair with Shane Birkel

213: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Attachment with Dr. James Hawkins

212: Implicit Psychotherapy and Couples with Dr. Abi Blakeslee

211: Peace and Healing in Couples Therapy with Dr. Sabrina N'Diaye

210: Narcissism in Couples Therapy with Wendy Behary

209: Trauma in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Kathryn Rheem

208: Dr. Sue Johnson on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

207: Stay or Go? With Sharon Pope

206: Sex and Perfectionism with Tom Murray

205: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Trauma with Leanne Campbell

204: Stepfamily Relationships with Patricia Papernow, Part 2

203: Stepfamily Relationships with Patricia Papernow, Part 1

202: Psychedelics and Relationships with Guy Winch

201: Love Every Day with Alexandra Solomon

200: Peter Levine on Somatic Experiencing and Couples Therapy

199: Brain Science and Relationships with Juliane Taylor Shore

198: Solution-Oriented Approach with Couples with Bill O'Hanlon

197: Intergenerational Trauma and Relationships with Anita Mandley

196: Mental Health for Men with David Khalili

195: PTSD and the Unconscious with Heawon Hake

194: The 10 Habits of Happy Couples with Tina and Michael LeBlanc

193: The 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do with Amy Morin

192: Vienna Pharaon on Therapist Burnout

191: The Key to Every Conversation in Couples Therapy

190: Intensive EFT with Jim Thomas

189: Healthy Conflict with Jessica Higgins

188: Polyvagal Theory in EFT Couples Therapy with Rebecca Jorgensen

187: Premarital Counseling with Rachel Dorneanu

186: Stan Tatkin on Co-Constructing Your Relationship

185: The Impact of Siblings on Your Relationship with Karen Gail Lewis

184: Katherine Woodward Thomas on How to Evolve Beyond Your Attachment Style

183: Systemic Trauma in Couples Therapy with Akilah Riley-Richardson

182: Parenting Adult Children with Laurence Steinberg

181: Is a Relationship Salvageable After an Affair with Talal Alsaleem

180: Enneagram and Couples part 2 with Kristy Gaisford

179: Healing from Betrayal with LaDonna Carey

178: Trauma-Informed Couples Therapy with Irina Wen

177: Understanding People Pleasing with Natalie Lue

176: Using the Enneagram in Couples Therapy with Louisa Krause

175: Working with Emotional Avoidance

174: Eroticism in Couples Therapy with Cyndi Darnell

173: Betrayal Recovery with Lora Cheadle

172: Deepening Our Work with Clients and Selves with Dr. Sabrina N'Diaye

Terry Real on Relational Life Therapy

Bill Doherty on the Ethical Lives of Clients

169: Somatic Experiencing and Couples with Abi Blakeslee

168: Neurobiology and Relationships with Juliane Taylor Shore

167: The Science of Psychotherapy with Richard Hill and Matthew Dahlitz

166: Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt In The Space-Between

165: Facing Adversity as a Therapist with Wesley Little

164: Healing the Trauma from Supremacy Culture with Shirani Pathak

163: Self-Esteem and Boundaries part 2 with Shane Birkel

162: Self-Esteem and Boundaries part 1 with Shane Birkel

161: Healing After Divorce with Kristy Gaisford and Jerry Sander

160: Feedback Informed Treatment and Couples with Beth Irias

159: Infidelity Recovery with Talal Alsaleem

158: Being Bold in Couples Therapy with Pam Staples

157: Internal Family Systems and Couples with Liz Phillips

156: Joining Through the Truth in RLT with Shane Birkel

155: Developmental and Relational Trauma with Rick Butts

154: Elliott Connie on Solution Focused Brief Therapy and Couples

153: Understanding Differentiation with Ellyn Bader

152: A Model is Only as Good as Its Applicability with Francesca Maxime'

151: Childhood Experience and The 5 Core Issues with Kim Ploussard

150: What Makes Relationships Work with Jennifer Lehr

149: Couples in Recovery with Dr. Robert Navarra

148: Start Using EFT in Your Practice with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

147: Mindfulness and Relationships with Melissa Sutor

146: Dan Siegel on Brain Science, Attachment, and Relationships

145: Viral Hope Series part 10 with TJ Walsh

144: Viral Hope Series part 9 with James Hawkins

143: Viral Hope Series part 8 with LaDonna Carey

142: Viral Hope Series part 7 with Elisha and James Travis

141: Viral Hope Series part 6 with Breta Collins

140: Viral Hope Series part 5 with Jerry Sander

139: Viral Hope Series Part 4 with Janeen Herskovitz

138: Viral Hope Series part 3 with Jeanne Farnsworth

137: Viral Hope Series part 2 with Selma Bacevac

136: Viral Hope Series part 1 with Quentin Hafner

135: Co-Therapy with Couples with Monique and Rick Elgersma

134: Modern Couples Therapy with Jourdan Virginia Blue

133: Peggy Kleinplatz on Magnificent Sex

132: Racialized Trauma with James Hawkins

131: Relationship Skills on the Dating Scene with Marni Feuerman

130: Joe Kort on When the Other Woman is a Man

129: Relational Life Therapy with Shane Birkel

128: Race in Couples Therapy with Corey Yeager and Kirsten Lind Seal

127: Implementing the EFT Model with James Hawkins

126: Emily Nagoski on Sex and Science

125: Continuing to Cope During the Quarantine with Jen Silacci

124: Dealing with the Emotions of Online Therapy with Amber Lyda

123: David Wexler on Counseling in the #Metoo Era

122: Working with Infidelity and the Developmental Model with Kim Gist Miller

121: Keeping the Hope In a Pandemic with Shane Birkel

120: Moving Your Couples Therapy Practice Online with Clay Cockrell

119: 5 Things Couples Therapists Should Know from a Sex Therapist with Martha Kauppi

118: Running on Empty with Jonice Webb

117: Where Does Masturbation Fit Into a Couple's Sex Life with Ari Tuckman

116: Attuning to the Attachment Dilemma with Ryan Rana

115: Janina Fisher on Working with Trauma in Couples Therapy

114: Alexandra Solomon on Taking Sexy Back

113: Shane Birkel on the Impact of Childhood Neglect on Relationships

112: Dr. Pat Love on The 5 Forces Destroying Your Relationship that You Probably Never Heard Of

111: Helen Fisher on The Anatomy of Love

110: Alexandra Katehakis on Sex Addiction and Healthy Sex - (rerun)

109: Janis Abrahms Spring on Healing After an Affair - (rerun)

108: Laura Long on Marketing, Niching, Websites

107: Removing Blocks to Success with Kine Corder

106: Sue Johnson on Emotionally Focused Therapy

105: Ellyn Bader on The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy - (Rerun)

104: Gottman and RLT Comparison with Zach Brittle

103: When HE Has a Higher Sex Drive than SHE with Susan Bratton

102: Couples Intensive Retreats with Kerry Lusignan

101: How to Help Your Partner Heal from an Affair with Linda MacDonald

100: Harville Hendrix on Imago Therapy - (rerun)

099: The Importance of Conflict for Couples with CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke

098: Neurodiverse Couples with Grace Myhill

097: Female Desire with Lisa Taddeo

096: Elliott Connie on Solution Focused Brief Therapy

095: How to Be a Functional Adult with Jan Bergstrom

094: ADHD and Couples Therapy with Ari Tuckman

093: Men and Communication with Robert Kandell

092: People of Color and Couples Therapy with Dr. Angela Clack

091: Deirdre Fay on Feeling Safely Attached

090: Attachment Styles with Annie Chen

089: Infertility, Postpartum Depression, and Perinatal Loss with Bina Bird

088: Lynn Grodzki on Bringing Aspects of Coaching into Therapy

087: Sex Talk with Erika Miley

086: Martha Kauppi on Working with Open Relationships

085: The 5 Stages of Relationships with Leanne Clarkson

084: Men and Masculinity with Joseph Losi

083: Keeping it Real with Couples with Jasmine Foulkes

082: Wendy Behary on Working with Narcissism

081: Healing from Heartbreak with Chautè Thompson

080: Lori Gottlieb on Normalizing the Human Experience

079: EFT and Attachment Injuries with Leanne Campbell and David Fairweather

078: Stan Tatkin on Understanding Your Partner's Brain

077: EFT and Trauma with Kathryn Rheem

076: Couples Retreats with Rachel Zamore

075: Using Mindfulness in Couples Therapy with Rob Fisher

074: Lisa Ferentz on How Trauma Impacts Adult Relationships

073: Navigating Stepfamily Situations with Karen Bonnell

072: Psychodrama with Couples with Walter Logeman

071: Hedy Schleifer on Creating Transformation in Couples Therapy

070: Bill Doherty on Marital Commitment vs. Individual Happiness

069: Tammy Nelson on Sex and Couples Therapy

068: Emotionally Focused Therapy Training with Jill Fischer

067: Rebecca Jorgensen on EFT and Therapist Development

066: Allison Puryear on Building a Fantastic Couples Therapy Practice

065: Connectfulness with Rebecca Wong

064: Black Belt Husband with Quentin Hafner

063: A Couple Educating Couples with Dr. Jameson and Herdyne Mercier

062: The 5 Core Issues from Pia Mellody and RLT with Kim Ploussard

061: EFT vs. RLT Debate with Figs O'Sullivan

060: Relationships 101 with Signe Simon and Simone Humphrey

059: Emotionally Focused Family Therapy with Gail Palmer

058: The Five Losing Strategies in Relationships with Shane Birkel

057: Tiffany McLain on The Money Mindset for Therapists

056: Gottman and Infidelity with Jennifer Lagrotte

055: Attachment vs. Differentiation Debate with Nathan Hardy and Adam Fisher

054: Love Worth Making with Stephen Snyder

053: Money Conversations and Couples with Kiné Corder

052: Harville Hendrix on Imago Couples Therapy

051: How to Have an Amazing First Couples Therapy Session with Shane Birkel

050: Ian Kerner on Treating Sexual Issues in Couples Therapy

049: Ellyn Bader on The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy

048: Kinky Folks and Non-Traditional Couples with Heather Garner

047: George Faller on Pursuers and Withdrawers in EFT

046: Millennials and Gen Zs in Love with Shadeen Francis

045: Multi-Heritage Couples with Melvin Escobar

044: Building an Online Presence through Social Media with Dr. Julie Hanks

043: Beyond Mars and Venus with John Gray

042: Katherine Woodward Thomas on Conscious Uncoupling

041: Alexandra Katehakis on Sex Addiction and Healthy Sex

040: Polyamorous Relationships with Jonathan Burstein

039: Lynn Grodzki on Building Your Private Practice

038: Terry Real on Relational Life Therapy

037: Janis Abrahms Spring on Healing After an Affair

036: Co-Parenting through Divorce with Karen Bonnell

035: Stan Tatkin on A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy

034: 10 Ways to Make More Money in Your Private Practice

033: EFT and Attachment with Anabelle Bugatti

032: How Parenthood Impacts Relationships with Elly Taylor

031: Premarital Counseling with Mayi Dixon

030: Helping Couples Cope After Infidelity with Terri DiMatteo

029: Love Your Paperwork with Maelisa Hall

028: Exploring EFT with Jim Thomas

027: Harriet Lerner on Apologizing

026: Less Conflict, More Connection with Figs O'Sullivan

025: Love is a Verb with Bill O'Hanlon

024: Couples and Autism with Janeen Herskovitz

023: Ernesto Segismundo on Creativity, Video, and Social Media

022: Gay Couples with Alapaki Yee and Salvatore Garanzini

021: True Love is not True: Relationships Take Work

020: How to Ask About Sex in Couples Therapy with Martha Kauppi

019: Hedy Schleifer on Encounter-centered Couples Therapy

018: Amber Hawley on Building Your Business Community

017: Using Gottman Interventions to Enhance Intimacy with Laura Heck

016: Joy Harden Bradford on Being Open to the Conversation of Privilege

015: Lori Gottlieb on Writing to Help Relationships

014: Addiction and Couples Therapy with Bob Navarra

013: Law Enforcement Couples with Cyndi Doyle

012: Building an Instagram Following with Silvy Khoucasian

011: Pragmatic/Experiential Therapy for Couples with Brent Atkinson

010: Parenting Issues in Couples Therapy with Mallory Grimste

009: Clay Cockrell Talking Online Counseling with Couples

008: Nazanin Moali on Sex in Couples Therapy

007: Joe Sanok on Building a Successful Private Practice

006: Acceptance in Couples Therapy with Andrew Christensen

005: Race and Privilege with Mercedes Samudio

004: Discernment Counseling with Rachel Zamore

003: State-dependent Couples Therapy with Kerry Lusignan

002: Bringing Couples Closer with Mark Moses

001: The Art of Couples Therapy with Margaret Thompson