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The SelfWork Podcast — 543 episodes

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497 SelfWork: What's The Current Controversy Over What "Licensed Mental Health Professional" Means

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494 SelfWork: Masterclass: Befriending Your Inner Critic with Dr. Tara Cousineau

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493 SelfWork: Self-Love Empowers You and Leads to Self-Agency

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492 SelfWork: Revisiting Perfectly Hidden Depression

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491 SelfWork: Friendships: How To Create and Keep Solid Connections

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490 SelfWork: How To Choose A Great Career and When To Change It

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489 SelfWork: When Suicide Is A Brutal Shock

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488 SelfWork: Bipolar Disorder: Terri Cheney Tells The Raw Truth

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487 SelfWork: Hope For Autism: A Conversation with Dr. Theresa Lyons

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486 SelfWork: The Paralyzing Consequences of Self-Blame

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485 SelfWork: How to Get Bad People Out of Your Life

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484 SelfWork: Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy: One Man's Transformational Journey

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483 SelfWork: Flashbacks and Nightmares: Healing Fear and Finding Peace

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482 SelfWork: The Messiness of Marriage

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481 SelfWork: What's Anticipatory Grieving and How Does It Help?

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480 SelfWork: Why Am I So Self-Critical?

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479 SelfWork: Are You Being Judgmental? Two Mental Mistakes That Take You There

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478 SelfWork: The Mind Games of Sociopathy

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477 SelfWork: Disappointments, Expectations, and Blind Spots

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476 SelfWork: Is There A Right Way to Grieve?

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475 SelfWork: Nine Ways to Challenge Low Self-Esteem

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474 SelfWork: Healing Through Intuition: A Conversation with Author Laura Day

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473 SelfWork: Blame, Perfectly Hidden Depression, and Bipolar Disorder

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472 SelfWork: What To Do After You've Lost Your Shit

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471 SelfWork: When Sexual Abuse Tears A Family Apart

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470 SelfWork: How to Find Meaning In The Moment with Author Pam Roy

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469 SelfWork: Understanding the Fears and Faces of Borderline Moms

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468 SelfWork: Stop Going Down The High-Functioning Rabbit Hole with Dr. Whitney Casares

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467 SelfWork: Healing Narcissism's Wounds

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466 SelfWork: How Shame Lies to You and How to Stop It

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465 SelfWork: Families and Other Calamities: A Conversation with Leslie Gray Streeter

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464 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Attachment and Intimacy

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463 SelfWork (Second Time Around): The Quartet of Self-Sabotage

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462 SelfWork: So You Wanna Be Your Own Brand?

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461 SelfWork: Should AI Be Used For Therapy?

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460 SelfWork: Marci Hopkins on How To Find Hope and Stop Drinking

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459 SelfWork: Kyle Kittleson On Being Gay, Managing Depression, and Learning Empathy

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458 SelfWork: When Anxiety Imprisons You

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457 SelfWork: How To Be Enough: A Conversation with Ellen Hendriksen

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456 SelfWork: When You Hate Your Body... Body Dysmorphia

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455 SelfWork: Is Depression Getting Easier to Talk About

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454 SelfWork: Redefining Success for Men: Talking with Evryman's Lucas Krump

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453 SelfWork: A Shrink Talks About Shrinking

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452 SelfWork: Parenting: Letting Go of Your Grown Kids

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451 SelfWork: Why and How to Stop Using Therapy-Misspeak

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450 SelfWork: Climbing the Walls: Talking ADHD In Women with Danielle Elliot

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449 SelfWork: How to Heal From An Affair

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448 SelfWork: Watching My Mother Disappear

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YGTG SelfWork: AI and Therapy: Are You Chatting With A Bot?

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447 SelfWork: Seven Ways Conflict Can Work For You

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446 SelfWork: If You're Avoiding Conflict, You're Avoiding Intimacy

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445 SelfWork: Fighting for Ella: A Conversation About Suicide Preventionwith Martha and Chris Thomas

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444 SelfWork: How to Heal Your Mind Through Your Body: A Conversation with Karden Rabin

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443 SelfWork: What to Do About Emotional Manipulation

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442 SelfWork: How to Get Over the Feeling That You're Not Important

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441 SelfWork: How to Grow From Self-Doubt and Failure

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440 SelfWork: Raising Good Humans: A Conversation with Hunter Clarke-Fields

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439 SelfWork: Lessons Learned About Grief

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438 SelfWork: Why Success Doesn't Feel Like It Should: A Conversation with Laura Gassner Otting

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437 SelfWork: Expectations, Demands and Boundaries: What's the Difference?

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436 SelfWork: Seven Steps to Work Through Disappointment

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435 SelfWork: When "Home" Was Chaos

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434 SelfWork: Belonging and Community... Find It In A Third Space

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433 SelfWork: Why Is It So Hard to Treat Eating Disorders? A Conversation with Johanna Kandel

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432 SelfWork: Doctors and Depression: A Conversation with Dr. Pam Buchanan

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431 SelfWork: Optimism Fatigue: Is It A New Kind of Depression?

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430 SelfWork: What Was Your "Job" In Your Family?

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429 SelfWork: Seven Good Reasons to Stop Therapy

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428 SelfWork: The Shame and Self-Blame Game

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427 SelfWork: The Horrors of Marital Rape

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426 SelfWork: You Only Die Once: A Conversation with Jodi Wellman

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425 SelfWork: Six Steps Out of Loneliness

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424 SelfWork: The New Feeling Great App! Talking with Dr. David Burns

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423 SelfWork: The Gifts of Saying No

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422 SelfWork: Acknowledging Emotional Abuse

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421 SelfWork: How Couples Therapy Began: A Conversation with Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt

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420 SelfWork: How to Manage Your Emotions

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419 SelfWork: Questions About Depression, Therapy, and Manipulative Moms

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418 SelfWork: Step Into Your Inner Power: A Conversation with Jessica Zweig

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417 SelfWork: Hormonal Replacement Therapy: A Conversation with Donna White

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416 SelfWork: All About Blame

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415 SelfWork: The Safe Use of Psychedelic Ketamine: A Conversation with Dr. Steven Radowitz

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414 SelfWork: How to Find Your Purpose

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413 SelfWork: The Incredible Power of Journaling (Second Time Around)

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412 SelfWork: Learning How to Really Listen

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411 SelfWork: Suicide in Construction: A Conversation with Dr. Vince Hafeli

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410 SelfWork: The Good Enough Parent

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409 SelfWork: When Emotional Distancing and Detachment Are Healthy

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408 SelfWork: How To Be There For Someone Else

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407 SelfWork: How's Your Mental Health?

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406 SelfWork: How to Grieve A Parent's Death

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405 SelfWork: The Gift of Perspective: A Conversation with Lindsay Roy

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404 SelfWork: Acknowledging and Talking About Your Depression

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403 SelfWork: Thriving with Anxiety: A Conversation with David Rosemarin

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402 SelfWork: The Lasting Impact of Trauma

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401 SelfWork: What To Do When You Hit A Wall

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400 SelfWork: The Tragedy of Perfectly Hidden Depression: A Conversation with Penny Gray

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399 SelfWork: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): A Conversation with Dr. Diana Hill

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398 SelfWork: What's Cyclothymia and Compartmentalization (Taylor Swift Style)?

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397 SelfWork: What Is Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder or PMDD?

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396 SelfWork: From Able-Bodied Mom to Disabled: A Conversation with Marjorie Aunos, Ph.D.

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395 SelfWork: Why Don't You Talk About Your Struggle with Depression?

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394 SelfWork: Do You Feel Guilty For Not Doing Enough? Nine Helpful Reminders

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393 SelfWork: How To Manifest Your Goals: A Conversation with Neurosurgeon Dr. James Doty

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392 SelfWork: The Interweaving of Depression and Knowing You Matter

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391 SelfWork: Life With Bipolar Disorder: A Conversation with Gabe Howard

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390 SelfWork: Loneliness, Empathy, and The Power of Eight Minutes

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389 SelfWork: Are You or Someone You Love An HSP (Highly Sensitive Person)?

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388 SelfWork: When Your Child Is An Addict: A Conversation with Ken Guidroz, Author of Letters To My Son In Prison

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387 SelfWork: Six Misconceptions That Keep Couples Away from Therapy

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386 SelfWork: How Not To Say The Wrong Thing at The Wrong Time

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385 SelfWork: Answering Your Questions About Therapy

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384 SelfWork: Trying Out Hypnosis: A Conversation with Dr. David Spiegel, Creator of Reveri

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383 SelfWork: How to Listen To, Learn From, and Work With Panic

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382 SelfWork: The Many Gifts of Fear

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381 SelfWork: How to Talk About Your Depression

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380 SelfWork: How to Get to Forgiveness - Through Anger and Empathy

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379 SelfWork: What's the Better Way of Saying "My Feelings Are Hurt"?

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378 SelfWork: Tina Turner Takes A Seat: How to Accept Change In Your Family

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377 SelfWork: Recognizing When Worry and "What If" Questions Paralyze You

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376 SelfWork: Three Unexpected Facets of Grief

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375 SelfWork: Knowing You're 'Mom Enough": A Conversation with Author Rachel Marie Martin

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374 SelfWork: How to Stop Chasing The Next Best Thing: Moving from FOMO to JOMO

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373 SelfWork: What's Inner Child Work? And Why Do It?

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372 SelfWork: Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone: A Conversation with the "Failfluencer" Erin Diehl

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371 SelfWork: Hopelessness and Helplessness: When Depression Seems Impossible to Heal

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370 SelfWork: Finding Resilience: Can You Learn to Enjoy Life After Tremendous Loss?

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369 SelfWork: Dumps, Humps, and Slumps: Are They Depression?

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SelfWork YGTG: A New SelfWork Sponsor and Sensational Black Friday Week Double Discount Offer!

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368 SelfWork: What's Glowing Up, Bed Rotting, and Lucky Girl Syndrome? A Conversation with Social Media Expert Dr. Sanam Hafeez

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367 SelfWork: Putting Self-Reflection Into Action: Five Questions to Answer

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366 SelfWork: The Risk of Self-Transparency: What Are You Afraid People Will See?

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365 SelfWork: Healthy Narcissism, Self-Confidence, and the Powerful Role of Humility

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364 SelfWork: Compatibility vs Commitment, Facing Constant Anger, and Feeling Abandoned: Your Questions My Thoughts

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363 SelfWork: Ditching the 7 Year Itch (And Itching to Celebrate 7 Years of SW!)

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362 SelfWork: How to Recognize Inattentive ADHD: A Conversation with IADHD Author Cynthia Hammer

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361 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Your Amazing Mind/Body Connection

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360 SelfWork (Second Time Around): 15 Questions to Ask Your Potential Therapist

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359 SelfWork: Talking About Sibling Sexual Abuse: A Conversation with TEDx Speaker Jane Epstein

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SelfWork YGTG: Marriage Is Not For Chickens - A Giveaway!

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358 SelfWork: What You've Been Taught About Grief May Be Wrong

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357 SelfWork: How A Couple Can Destroy Their Relationship in Four Painfully Easy Steps... Or Not

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356 SelfWork: What You Can Learn From Laughter and Fear: A Conversation with Dr. AND Comedian Priyanka Wali

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355 SelfWork: How Five Types of Perfectionism Can Work For You: A Conversation with Katherine Morgan Schafler

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354 SelfWork: Why Are New Moms Dying? A Conversation with Dr. Zenobia Harris

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353 SelfWork: But I Can't Be Depressed: Understanding Post Partum Depression

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352 SelfWork: How To Become A Startist: A Conversation with Becky Blades

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351 SelfWork: Identifying the Dangers of High-Functioning Depression

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350 SelfWork: Being A Shrink and What To Expect From Yours

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349 SelfWork: Shrinks Are People Too: A Conversation with Shit Talking Shrinks Paulina and Victoria

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348 SelfWork: Scrolling On The River: What's Real Fun and What's Depressing?

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347 SelfWork: The Risk and Fulfillment of Discovering Your Potential (And Here's My TEDx!)

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346 SelfWork: Borderline Personality Disorder, Guilt, and Building Boundaries

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345 SelfWork: Making the Hard Job of Caregiving Easier: A Conversation with Cathy Sikorski

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344 SelfWork: A Daughter's Determination To Save Lives After Her Mother's Suicide: A Conversation with Donna's Law Creator, Katrina Brees

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343 SelfWork: What's Emotional Regulation? It's Both Self-Control and Self-Protection

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342 SelfWork: Five Ways of Dealing with Defensiveness, Enmeshment Dynamics, and Roles Vs Relationships: Your Questions My Answers

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341 SelfWork: The Five Mental Mistakes of Depression: 4. Not Seeing the Trees For The Forest. And 5. Unrealistic Expectations.

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340 SelfWork: What You Need to Know About the Merry-Go-Round of Dieting: A Conversation with Jenn Trepeck

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339 SelfWork: The Five Mental Mistakes of Depression: Three. Ruminating About the Past

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338 SelfWork: The Five Mental Mistakes of Depression: Two. Decisions That Create Chaos

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337 SelfWork: The Five Mental Mistakes of Depression: First. Believing It.

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336 SelfWork: The Confusion About Vulnerability and The Difficulty of Enmeshment

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335 SelfWork: The Quartet of Self-Sabotage: Procrastination, Perfectionism, The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy, and Imposter Syndrome

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334 SelfWork: How to Heal With The Spiritual Power of Love: A Conversation with Ayurveda Teacher Ananta Ripa Ajmera

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333 SelfWork: May Cause Side Effects: A Conversation with Brooke Siem About Antidepressant Withdrawal

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332 SelfWork: How to Offer Real Help When Hearing Suicidal Feelings: A Conversation with John Sommers-Flanagan

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331 SelfWork: Suicide - What We Can Do About It

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330 SelfWork (Second Time Around): How to Calm Your Mind or What Would Mister Rogers Say?

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329 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Ten Common Birthplaces of the Shame You Never Deserved... But Carried With You

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328 SelfWork: What Comes First - Addiction to Work or Depression?

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327 SelfWork: The Jungle of Real Motherhood: A Conversation with Annaliese Lawton

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326 SelfWork: Digging Into the Pain of Not Being Accepted By Your Family

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325 SelfWork: Why You Might Be Blind to The Warning Signs of Narcissism

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324 SelfWork: How To Make And Keep Friends: A Conversation with Marisa Franco, Author of Platonic

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323 SelfWork: When You Struggle With Intimacy: What Does Your Attachment Style Have to Do With It?

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322 SelfWork: Understanding The Self-Absorption of Depression and The Damage It Can Do In Relationships

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321 SelfWork: When You Feel Guilt Over Wasted Time

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320 SelfWork: New Trauma Treatments with Guest Host Doc Shauna Springer

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319 SelfWork: What's Really Going To Make You Happy? A Conversation with Bob Waldinger

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YGTG SelfWork: I'm Back And I Have Two Opportunities for You To Hang Out With Me!

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318 SelfWork: Ashley Stahl Is Guest Host! Eleven "Mind Shifts" For 2023

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317 SelfWork: Lewis Howes Is (Again) Guest Host! With Dr. Margaret Is His Guest!

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316 SelfWork: Lewis Howes Is Guest Host! (And Dr. M. Is His Guest!)

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315 SelfWork: Kimberley Quinlan Is Guest Host! Seven Steps to Intervene In Your Response to Anxiety

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314 SelfWork: Mother (Or Mother-In-Law) Trouble: Answering Your Questions

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313 SelfWork: Five Steps to Build Your Social Muscle and Tackle Self-Consciousness and Social Anxiety

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312 SelfWork: Why Not Me? A Conversation with Lessons From the Minivan's Creator Jill Kaplan

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311 SelfWork: When Families Are Fractured: Estrangement and Parental Alienation

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310 SelfWork: Maybe It's Depression. But Maybe It's Not.

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309 SelfWork: How To Stop Emotional Eating and Breathe to Heal: A Conversation with Samantha Skelly

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308 SelfWork: Five Takeaways on the Need To Be Right

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307 SelfWork: (Second Time Around) Explaining Radical Acceptance

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306 SelfWork: (Second Time Around) The What, Why, When, Where, and How of Setting Boundaries

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305 SelfWork: Giving Voice to Depression: A Conversation with Podcast Host Terry McGuire

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304 SelfWork: Confronting Guilt with Seven Steps to Self-Forgiveness

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303 SelfWork: What Keeps Suicidal Thoughts Secret? And What Can We Do About It? A Conversation with Grieving Mother and Advocate Erin Gallagher

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YGTG: From The Happiness Lab: The Secret to Making Friends as an Adult

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302 SelfWork: Q&A! What's Trauma, Boundaries with BPD, and Being Your Own Cheerleader

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301 SelfWork: What Is Emotional Incest?

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300 SelfWork: Do You Take the Time to Acknowledge Your Depression?

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299 SelfWork: Can I Tell You A Secret? And Can You Keep It?

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298 SelfWork: Trauma, Grief, and Post-Traumatic Growth: A Conversation with Widow Krista St-Germain

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297 SelfWork: What If I Never Can Trust?

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SelfWork YGTG (You Get the Gist): Need Better Sleep? A Conversation with BiOptimizers' Wade Lightheart

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296 SelfWork: Teenage Depression. It's Real. How Can You Help? A Conversation with Sadie Sutton.

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295 SelfWork: Lying, Suicide Notes, and Medication Fears: Opening My Emailbag

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294 SelfWork: The Alarming Jungle of Mental Illness Misdiagnoses: A Conversation with Author and Activist Sarah Fay

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293 SelfWork: Ten Common Birthplaces of The Shame You Never Deserved... But Carried With You

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SelfWork YGTG: When Too Much Self-Help Is... Too Much

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292 SelfWork Do You Stay In Emotional Chaos? How DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) Can Help

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291 SelfWork: The Elephant In The Room: Five Tips On Caring For Someone Who Won't Help Themselves

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290 SelfWork: Relentless Courage: A Conversation with Doc Shauna Springer and Veteran Police Officer Michael Sugrue

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289 SelfWork: Your Body Your Mind and Their Amazing Connection

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288 SelfWork: 14 Signs of Envy and The Quest for Celebrity

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SelfWork YGTG: This Short Poem Describes Incredible Change and How To Make It

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287 SelfWork: Changing Your Chatter: A Conversation with Researcher and Author Ethan Kross

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286 SelfWork: When You Fear Disclosure, Maternal Abandonment, and Suicide After An Affair

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285 SelfWork: How To Build Self-Regulation, Self-Control, and Self-Motivation

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SelfWork: Special Edition: In The Face Of Senseless Tragedy

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284 SelfWork: Josh Peck Talks True Happiness: A Conversation with The Actor and Author of Happy People Are Annoying

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283 SelfWork: Not Drinking Tonight: A Conversation with Retired-Party-Girl-Turned-Therapist Amanda White

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282 SelfWork: Watching My Mother Disappear

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281 SelfWork: A Personal Story of DID (Dissociative Identify Disorder, formerly known as Multiple Personality): A Conversation with Lyn Barrett

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280 SelfWork: Eight Dark Lies That Depression Tells You - And How To Challenge Them

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279 SelfWork: Special Guest Host! Ashley Stahl and The You Turn Podcast Interviews Tatyana Rae on The Art Of Loving

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278 SelfWork: 15 Good Questions To Ask Your Potential Therapist

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277 SelfWork: Mental Health Days. Five Ways To Balance Work With Well-Being

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276 SelfWork: What's Covert Narcissism? And What Can You Do About It?

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SelfWork YGTG: The Power of Pause

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275 SelfWork: The Why, How, Who, What, When, and Where of Sharing Your Story

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274 SelfWork: "Weeds Are Flowers Too" : Working Thru Disappointment

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273 SelfWork: Perfectly Hidden Depression, Rabbit Holes, Healing from Narcissists, and Boundaries with BPD

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272 SelfWork: Three Vital Questions To Ask Your Doctor (And Other Fascinating Info) Your Life Depends On It: A Conversation with Author Talya Miron-Shatz

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271 SelfWork: You Are What You Click: A Conversation with Author Brian Primack

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270 SelfWork: Five Things to Know To Help You Feel Emotionally Safe In Therapy

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269 SelfWork: The Dangerous Twin Towers of Burnout and Perfectionism

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268 SelfWork: Ten Traits That Create Camouflage for Trauma: Perfectly Hidden Depression

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YGTG (You Get the Gist): A Thought After Cheslie Kryst's Suicide - The Need to Redefine Strength and Success

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267 SelfWork: Am I Expecting Too Much? Being Demanding? Or Am I Setting A Boundary?

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266 SelfWork: Working With Your Obsessions and Compulsions: A Conversation with Kimberley Quinlan

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265 SelfWork: How To Self-Soothe: Stop Bottling Things Up and Shoving Them Away

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199 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Trauma Bonding - When Trust Is Manipulated and Destroyed

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116 SelfWork (Second Time Around) Do You Have Perfectly Hidden or High Functioning Depression?

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166 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Four Ways to Find Your Way Back to Love

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205 SelfWork (Second Time Around): How To Build Your Self-Confidence

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143 SelfWork (Second Time Around) Is Depression Simply A Chemical Imbalance? Pt. 2

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142 SelfWork (Second Time Around) Is Depression Simply A Chemical Imbalance? Pt. 1

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264 SelfWork: Enmeshment, Maternal Sexual Abuse, Having Feelings For Your Therapist: Your Questions My Answers

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263 SelfWork: The Voices of Arab Women: A Conversation with Suzan Kanoo, Author of Hear Us Speak

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262 SelfWork: Do You Choose Happiness? And If So, Do You Choose Depression?

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261 SelfWork: Keeping On Keeping On:: A Conversation with Author and Widow Leslie Streeter

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260 SelfWork: A Dozen Things To Do When You Hit A Mental Wall

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SelfWork YGTG: A Special Request from Dr. Margaret

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259 SelfWork: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder

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258 SelfWork: Fear of Failure, Negative Forecasting, Depression and Maladaptive Daydreaming: Your Questions My Answers

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257 SelfWork: Is Your Brain Broken When You're Depressed? A Conversation with Dr. Caroline Leaf

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256 SelfWork: How to Hang On To Being You In A Relationship

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255 SelfWork: The Trilogy of Trouble - Jealousy, Envy and Possessiveness

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SelfWork YGTG: When I Am Old I Shall Wear Purple

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254 SelfWork: Celebrating Our 5th Anniversary!! So Meet the Gang!

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253 SelfWork: The Loss of Innocence: When Mom or Dad Sexually Abuses

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252 SelfWork: Is My Depression Me Or Is It My Relationship?

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251 SelfWork: Am I In The Right Career? A Conversation with Career Coach Ashley Stahl

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SelfWork YGTG (You Get The Gist) What's Serotonin Syndrome?

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250 SelfWork: Where Does Willpower Come From?

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249 SelfWork: How To Calm Your Mind or What Would Mister Rogers Say?

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248 SelfWork: Six Major Reasons You Might Tend to Quit Therapy

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247 SelfWork: Self-Forgiveness and Seven Things That Might Make It Harder

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246 SelfWork: Building Everyday Compassion: A Conversation with LinkedIn's Scott Shute

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245 SelfWork: "How Could I Have Not Known?" The Shock of Sudden Suicide

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244 SelfWork: Why We Lie (Even In Therapy)

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SelfWork YGTG: Simone, Stigma and Suicide

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243 SelfWork: Handling Sudden Loss: A Personal Story

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242 SelfWork: The Over-Apologizer. Are You One?

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SelfWork YGTG: Is Therapy Self-Indulgent?

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241 SelfWork: The Hidden Opponent in College Athletics: A Frank Conversation with Victoria Garrick

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240 SelfWork: How Do You Survive... Survivors Guilt

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191 SelfWork (Second Time Around): What Are The Ten Most Common Mental Mistakes?

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129 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Six Tips To Catch and Change Negative Self-Talk

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152 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Six Exercises to Build Resolve for Change

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163 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Take A Step Toward Self-Compassion

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154 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Four Steps To Kickstart Your Motivation

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183 SelfWork Second Time Around: Clearing Up Confusion About Perfectly Hidden Depression

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239 SelfWork: The Ins and Outs of The Enneagram: A Conversation with Expert Beth McCord

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238 SelfWork: 5 Tangible Tips To Avoid The Sunday Scaries

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237 SelfWork: Three Daddy Issues (Actually Parent Issues) and How to Heal

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236 SelfWork: The Fierce Search for Self-Understanding: The Me I Cannot See

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235 SelfWork: Toxic Positivity Versus Gratitude - What Are Its Dangers?

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234 SelfWork: Careers That Kill: A Conversation with Veteran Mental Health Advocate and Widow Danica Thomas

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233 SelfWork: Careers That Kill: How Veterans Can Heal - A Conversation with Expert Doc Springer

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SelfWork YGTG: Pharmacogenomics: The Wave of the Future For Medications? (and you try to say it.. lol)

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232 SelfWork: Are Only Children Lonely? Are Oldest Children Smarter? And What Role Does Temperament Play?

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231 SelfWork: How To Go From Languishing To Flourishing: What Positive Psychology Has To Say

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SelfWork YGTG: Maybe Women Don't "Suffer" From Imposter Syndrome After All?

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230 SelfWork: The Painful Reality of Sexual Addiction: Josh Duggar Is Far From Alone

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229 SelfWork: Careers That Kill: Could Your Vet Be At Risk?

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228 SelfWork: What's Up With Your Gut and Depression?

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227 SelfWork: Good Stuffing. Bad Stuffing. What's the Difference?

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SelfWork YGTG: How Many Types of Narcissism Are There?

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226 SelfWork: 10 Things I Learned About Being A Good Therapy... From Being In Therapy

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225 SelfWork: Broken (in the best possible way): A Conversation with Jenny Lawson

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SelfWork YGTG: How Do You Say Goodbye?

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224 SelfWork: 7 Steps Out Of Enmeshment and Into A More Solid Sense of Self

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SelfWork YGTG: Is Meghan Markle's Experience Unique?

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223 SelfWork: Shining A Light On Women's Bravery In The Mental Health Arena

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222 SelfWork: Seven Ways To Prevent The Straw From Breaking The Camel's Back

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221 SelfWork: Getting To Happiness Thru Gratitude

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220 SelfWork: Careers That Kill: A Conversation with Dr. Adam Hill

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SelfWork YGTG: Do Empaths Actually Exist? Here's The Debate

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219 SelfWork: Four Tips On Avoiding Pandemic Burnout With Your Pandemic Partner

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218 SelfWork: Explaining Hypnosis

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SelfWork You Get the Gist (YGTG): Why Exactly Did I Write A Book?

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217 SelfWork: When Brothers and Sisters Abuse One Another

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216 SelfWork: Is Your Life Picture Perfect or Truly Happy?

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215 SelfWork: Ten Fears You Choose to Face When You Risk Giving Up Control

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214 SelfWork: Three Ways to Govern Your Emotions (Rather Than Them Governing You)

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SelfWork YGTG: The New FDA-Approved Treatment for PTSD Nightmares

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213 SelfWork: Continuing The Convo About Your Struggles in Therapy

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212 SelfWork: Pros and Cons of People Pleasing

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211 SelfWork: A Conversation with Anxiety Slayer's Shann Vander Leek

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210 SelfWork: When How and Why You Should Leave Therapy.. Or Not

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209 SelfWork: 3 Questions To Ask Before You Trust Your Gut

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208 SelfWork: "Is It Worth It?' When Rumination Drags You Down A Rabbit Hole

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SelfWork YGTG (You Get the Gist); What's Emotional Bandwidth

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207 SelfWork: How to Break Away from Emotional Paralysis

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206 SelfWork: What Dreams Are Made Of

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205 SelfWork: How to Build Your Own Self-Confidence

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204 SelfWork: The Masks of Masculinity: A Conversation with Lewis Howes

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203 SelfWork: 'It's 5:00 Somewhere": Deciding Whether Drinking or Denial Is The Problem

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038 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Kindness Matters

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012 SelfWork (Second Time Around): How to Become An Emotional Grownup

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146 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Your Questions About Perfectly Hidden Depression and My Answers

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061 SelfWork (Second Time Around); Three Exercises to Boost Your Self-Esteem

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054 SelfWork (Second Time Around): What Do Your Mistakes Teach You?

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096 SelfWork (Second Time Around) : Tina Turner Takes A Seat

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SelfWork's You Get the Gist - Is Your Biological Clock Ticking?

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202 SelfWork: Finding the Right Thing to Say

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201 SelfWork: A Conversation with Terri Cheney, author of Manic and Modern Madness

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200 SelfWork: How To Face Your Own Self-Doubt (200 episodes later...)

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SelfWork: You Get the Gist... What In the World is Nomophobia (hint.. you may just have it)

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199 SelfWork: Trauma. Bonding: When Trust Is Manipulated and Destroyed

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SelfWork: You Get the Gist... Kudos to Athletes Challenging Stigma

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198 SelfWork: Debunking the Myths About Suicide

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197 SelfWork: Explaining Radical Acceptance

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196 SelfWork: Turning Being PIssed Into Something Productive Using DBT

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195 SelfWork: The Suck It Up Episode: Why You Struggle to Feel

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194 SelfWork: How To Make Change Stick

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193 SelfWork: A Conversation with John Moe, author of The Hilarious World of Depression

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Part Two! Perfectionism Meets Pandemic : A Free Workshop with Dr. Margaret

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192 SelfWork: Are You Embarrassed To Be Embarrassed?

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191 SelfWork: The Ten Most Common Mental Mistakes (aka Stinkin Thinkin)

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Announcement! Perfectionism Meets Pandemic Free Workshop

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190 SelfWork: The Power of Withdrawal

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189 SelfWork: My Story and The Cost of Battling for Control

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188 SelfWork: Four Steps Toward Risking the Unfamiliar

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187 SelfWork: Can Certain Anxieties Worsen During Covid-19?

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186 SelfWork: When You've Lost Yourself

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185 SelfWork: Zoom & Doom? Tips on Making Telemental Health Work For You

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184 SelfWork: Healing From Being Bullied

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183 SelfWork: Clearing Up Confusion about Perfectly Hidden Depression

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182 SelfWork: Filler or Fulfillment? Five Ways to Figure It Out

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181 SelfWork: The Facts About Nervous Breakdowns

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180 SelfWork: What Do Crying and Emotional Intelligence Have In Common?

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179 SelfWork: How to Build Your Own Resilience (The Healthy Way)

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178 SelfWork: How to Safely Talk About Pain from Your Past

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177 SelfWork: Sleep or Sex? How To Balance Both Your Needs and Desires

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176 SelfWork: How to Stop Disappointment from Becoming Depression

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175 SelfWork: How To Avoid Self-Sabotage In Relationships

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174 SelfWork: Coping with Paralyzing Anxiety thru Meditation

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173 SelfWork: What's New with Perfectly Hidden Depression

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172 SelfWork: Special Episode: Managing Quarantine Anxiety - Compassionate and Common Sense Tips

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171 SelfWork: Breaking the Habit of Beating Yourself Up

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170 SelfWork: Resilience, Vulnerability, and Finding Purpose

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169 SelfWork: The "New" Evidence On What Makes Therapy Effective

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168 SelfWork: The What, Why, When, Where and How of Setting Boundaries

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167 SelfWork: Is It OCD, GAD, Bipolar, BPD or Perfectly Hidden Depression (PHD)?

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166 SelfWork: Finding Your Way Back to Love

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165 SelfWork: The Deep Mourning of Sudden Death: When Time Will Not Stop

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164 SelfWork: Coping with the Fear of Depression's Return

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163 SelfWork: Emotional Growth: An Exercise in Self-Compassion

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162 SelfWork: Is Healthy Narcissism Real?

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161 SelfWork: How Does Therapy Work?

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SelfWork 160: The Sexless Marriage. Is There A Way Back?

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SelfWork 159: When It's Over -- Healing Rejection and Replacement

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When Love Isn't the Problem, Apathy Is. The Pain of Living Parallel Lives (SelfWork #158)

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Emotional Paralysis or When You Fear Change For The Better: SelfWork #157

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When You're Not Believed: The Aftermath of Sexual Abuse SelfWork #156

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What Gets In The Way of Good Listening

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Making Motivation Happen: SelfWork #154

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What Is A Victim Mentality? Or Emotional Martyrdom? SelfWork #153

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Six Beginning Exercises To Motivate Growth and Change: SelfWork #152

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Your Questions My Answers SelfWork #151

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When Depression And A Need To Escape Become Self-Destructive: SelfWork #150

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Depression and Anxiety Combined: Could It Be Bipolar Disorder II? SelfWork #149

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Love Boundaries and Manipulation: When Love Is Conditional SelfWork #148

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147 SelfWork: "I'm Better Off Alone": Challenging Seven Distorted Beliefs That Lead To Depression and Loneliness

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146 SelfWork: Your Questions About Perfectly Hidden Depression

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145 SelfWork: Dealing With the Elephant In The Room: Defending Yourself With Denial, Distraction and Other Defenses

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144 SelfWork: Three Steps To Creating Motivation That Works

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143 SelfWork: Is Depression Simply A Chemical Imbalance? Pt. 2 The Role of Stress and Trauma

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142 SelfWork: Is Depression Simply A Chemical Imbalance? Part 1

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141 SelfWork: Mirror Mirror… The Struggle with Body Image

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140 SelfWork: Why Is Change So Difficult? The Power of Triggers

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139 SelfWork: Borderline? Dependent? Narcissistic? What Exactly Is A Personality Disorder?

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138 SelfWork: The Many Ways to Feel Invisible and How to Find Your Voice

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137 SelfWork: Let’s Talk Medications – From a Psychologist’s Point of View

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136 SelfWork: When the Going Gets Tough.. Self-Composure vs. Stoicism

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135 SelfWork: Your Questions My Answers (and a big announcement…)

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134 SelfWork: Making A Distrustful Mess with Money and Marriage

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133 SelfWork: “I Have Body Image Issues.” The Damage of Eating Disorders and Seven Things You Can Do

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132 SelfWork: Where Do I Begin If I Want A Better Relationship? Change What You Do, What You Say and What You Think. That’s All.

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131 SelfWork: When Your Dad Isn’t A Dad. The Effects of Father Hunger

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130 SelfWork: The Power of Failure and What You Can Learn From Flying a Kite

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129 SelfWork: Challenging and Changing Negative Self-Talk

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128 SelfWork: What Happens When You Quit Perfectly Hiding Depression? You Find Grief.

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127 SelfWork: The Two Masked Marks of Manipulation aka Stonewalling and Gaslighting

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126 SelfWork: What Makes Your Work Life… Work?

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125 SelfWork: Fighting the Fear and Loneliness of Social Anxiety

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124 SelfWork: Learning from the Voices of Childhood Neglect

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123 SelfWork: Are You Afraid of Losing Your Edge? Challenging Perfectionism in the Workplace

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122 SelfWork: What’s Love Got to Do With It: Love Addiction and Narcissism

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121 SelfWork: Recovering from Trauma and How to Recreate a Sense of Safety

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120 SelfWork: The Role of Disappointment in Relationships: How Much Is Too Much?

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119 SelfWork: Why Risk Telling Your Truth? Why Risk Vulnerability?

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118 SelfWork: The Incredible Power of Journaling

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117 SelfWork: A Three Step Guide to Making Decisions You Won’t (Likely) Regret

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116 SelfWork: Do You Have Perfectly Hidden or High Functioning Depression? And Why Does It Matter?

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115 SelfWork: The Awesome, Frustrating, Complicated Job of Step-Parenting and How to Avoid Common Mistakes

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114 SelfWork: How to Find and Interview A Potential Therapist

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113 SelfWork: When You Feel Like A Fake: Ten Ways to Challenge Imposter Syndrome

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112 SelfWork: One Way to Confront Your Fear of Aging — No Matter How Old You Are

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111 SelfWork: How to Stay Out of Texting Trouble

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110 SelfWork: What Depression Is and What It’s Not: Common Myths About Depression

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109 SelfWork: A First Step In Creating More Perspective on Your Life — Using A Timeline

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108 SelfWork: How to Keep Comparison from Stealing Your Joy

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107 SelfWork: What Perfectly Hidden Depression Is Not

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106 SelfWork: Why Couldn’t I Have Figured This Out Sooner?

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105 SelfWork: When Comfort Eating Becomes A Problem

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104 SelfWork: How To Break The Bickering Habit

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103 SelfWork: Seven Frank Tips For Getting Along with Family

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102 SelfWork: How Do You Feel Your Feelings?

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101 SelfWork: Coping with SAD, Shame, Grief and Perfectionism During the Holidays

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100 SelfWork: Celebrating #100! And It’s All About You!

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099 SelfWork: Three Hurdles in Fighting the Black Dog of Depression

446

098 SelfWork: The Devastating Power of Secrets Within A Relationship

447

097 SelfWork: What Makes A Therapist Right For Me?

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096 SelfWork: Tina Turner Takes A Seat: Aging and Attitude

449

095 SelfWork: The Risks of Bitterness

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094 SelfWork: Challenging and Changing the Rules and Beliefs That Lead to Depression

451

093 SelfWork: A Second Betrayal: When You Say #MeToo and You Get Hurt Again

452

092 SelfWork: Talking Mental Health on The Mighty with Editor Sarah Schuster

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091 SelfWork: Healing Shame Through Mindfulness

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090 SelfWork: Living Through the Unthinkable Death of A Child

455

089 SelfWork: How To Let Go and Fill Your Empty Nest

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088 SelfWork: How to Handle the Loneliness of Grief and Loss

457

087 SelfWork: Five Ways to Keep The Fun In Social Media And Avoid Its Pitfalls

458

086 SelfWork: When You Can Never Be Enough — Loving Someone with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)

459

085 SelfWork: Six Hurdles to Confronting Perfectionism and Perfectly Hidden Depression

460

084 SelfWork: What Bipolar Disorder Is And What It Isn’t

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083 SelfWork: Talking Matters. Interview with Jennifer Marshall, Co-founder of This Is My Brave and Dr. Kristin Kosyluk

462

082 SelfWork: Confronting the Loneliness and Apathy of Living Parallel Lives

463

081 SelfWork: When Sexual Abuse Happens at Home — The Choice to Confront

464

080 SelfWork: Kate Spade. Anthony Bourdain. Are We Asking The Right Questions?

465

079 SelfWork: Perfectly Hidden. An Interview with Stuart Walker

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078 SelfWork: Five Not-So-Simple Steps Toward Self-Forgiveness

467

077 SelfWork: Confronting Negativity And “Feeling Stuck” In Depression

468

076 SelfWork: 10 Ways To Survive Infertility Treatment

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075 SelfWork: Interview with StigmaFighter’s Founder Sarah Fader

470

074 SelfWork: Depression and The Unpredictability of Suicide

471

073 SelfWork: Three Steps To Emotionally Get Control Of Yourself

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072 SelfWork: The One Question To Ask Yourself If You Take Things Too Personally

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071 SelfWork: The Disease of Perfectionism

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070 SelfWork: How To Love Someone Who Won’t Get Help

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069 SelfWork: The Victim-Savior Relationship. How You Get In It and How You Get Out Of It

476

068 SelfWork: How To Create A Family Of Choice

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067 SelfWork: Understanding Social Anxiety And The Fear Of Commitment

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066 SelfWork: Can Unconditional Love Be Used Up?

479

065 SelfWork: What I Learned About Bad Boys And Creating A Life I Liked

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064 SelfWork: What Could Be Causing Your Procrastination?

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063 SelfWork: Going To Couples Counseling. What’s Getting In Your Way?

482

062 SelfWork: How To Know If You’re Too Close To Your Child (Or Your Parent)

483

061 SelfWork: Three Very Practical Exercises To Boost Your Self-Esteem

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060 SelfWork: Unmasking The Pain Of Perfectly Hidden Depression

485

059 SelfWork: How To Cope With The Fear Of Judgment

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058 SelfWork: What Is Codependency And What Can You Do About It?

487

057 SelfWork: The Real Voices Of Perfectly Hidden Depression

488

056 SelfWork: The Vital Importance Of Touch

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055 SelfWork: An Anniversary Of Grief And Gratitude.

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054 SelfWork: How To Learn From A Mistake

491

053 SelfWork: 7 Ways To Feel Partnered In Parenting

492

052 SelfWork: Coping with Suicide

493

051 SelfWork: The Silent Agony of Staying Thin

494

050 SelfWork: Is Perfectly Hidden Depression Real?

495

049 SelfWork: Honoring Your Rituals And You During The Holidays

496

048 SelfWork: The Apology. The Good, The Bad And The Ugly

497

047 SelfWork: If You Love (Or Have Loved) A Narcissist

498

046 SelfWork: How A Woman Feels Around A Harvey Weinstein

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045 SelfWork: Self-Compassion. What It Is And Why It’s Vital

500

044 SelfWork: Is Your PTSD, Depression Or Anxiety Being Triggered By The Last Vegas Tragedy?

501

043 SelfWork: When Friendships End

502

042 SelfWork: How To Fall Back In Love (Or Make Sure You Stay)

503

041 SelfWork: Making “Long Distance Love” Work

504

040 SelfWork: Depression, Suicide And Your Cell Phone

505

039 SelfWork: The Unique Basic Needs Of Women And Men

506

038 SelfWork: Kindness Matters

507

037 SelfWork: How To Parent Well Together

508

036 SelfWork: The Shame No One Talks About After Sexual Abuse

509

035 SelfWork: Four Steps To Heal From Parental Abuse

510

034 SelfWork : Divorce. How To “Get Along For The Kids’ Sake”

511

033 SelfWork: How Self-Esteem And Self-Acceptance Work Together, Even With Depression

512

032 SelfWork: The Nine Paths To Perfectly Hidden Depression

513

031 SelfWork: Hiding Depression And Perfectly Hidden Depression – Is There A Difference?

514

030 SelfWork: “I Love You, But…” The Art Of Giving And Receiving Criticism

515

029 SelfWork: Marriage Is Not For Chickens

516

028 SelfWork: You’re Mad. Do You Stuff It, Reveal It Or Explode?

517

027 SelfWork: Anxiety, My Mom and Prescription Drug Abuse

518

026 SelfWork 13 Reasons Why: The Rise Of Teen Depression

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025 SelfWork: Living With Anxiety And Bipolar Disorder: Stories From This Is My Brave

520

024 SelfWork: How To Prevent “Empty Nest” And Let Go, With Intention

521

023 SelfWork: Do You Have FOMO (the Fear of Missing Out)?

522

022 SelfWork: How To Not Hate Your Body

523

021 SelfWork: The Ten Traits Of Perfectly Hidden Depression

524

020 SelfWork: Why Risk Vulnerability?

525

019 SelfWork: Narcissism And How To Cope With It

526

018 SelfWork: Facing Change – Both Welcome And Unwelcome

527

017 SelfWork: How Do We Fight The Stigma Of Mental Illness

528

016 SelfWork: What Is So Hard About Couples Therapy?

529

015 SelfWork: What Keeps You From Leaving

530

014 SelfWork: When Gratitude Backfires

531

013 SelfWork: What To Expect When You’re Divorcing

532

012 SelfWork: How To Become An Emotional Grownup

533

011 SelfWork: The Emotionally Abusive Mother

534

010 SelfWork: How To Love Someone With Depression

535

009 SelfWork: Healing From Shame

536

008 SelfWork: Learning The True Skills Of Listening

537

007 SelfWork: Childhood Abuse: How It’s Healing To Reveal

538

006 SelfWork: Vital Tips To Cope With Grief And Depression

539

005 SelfWork: After An Affair: The Essential Steps Of Regaining Trust

540

004 SelfWork: Perfectly Hidden Depression Pt. 2

541

003 SelfWork: Perfectly Hidden Depression Pt. 1

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002 SelfWork : Panicked About Panic

543

001 SelfWork: What Is Good Therapy?