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The Cure for the Pathological Loneliness of the Narcissistic Discard - Moving from Self-Love Deficit to Abundance

102

Do You Want Advice, or Do You Want Validation?

103

Hope in Healing - Working w/ Couples Through Betrayal, Pornography and Shame w/ Sam Tielemans LMFT

104

Isolating, Monitoring and Manipulation, Oh My! Coercive Control In the Narcissistic Relationship

105

Alexa's Road to Recovery - My Daughter Alexa Shares the Struggles of Recovering from a Devastating Accident

106

Wait, Was That Story About Me? The Consistency of Narcissism

107

BONUS EPISODE - Discussing Depression with Professional Comedian Paul Gilmartin - Host of the Mental Illness Hour

108

Sure You're Cute, But Can We Talk? Rediscovering the Levels of Intimacy

109

How the Narcissist Slowly Destroys Ones Sense of Self - Death by a Thousand Cuts - Part 2

110

Analysis Paralysis - When Not Making a Choice is the Choice You Make

111

A Marriage Therapist's 11 Tips for a Happier Marriage

112

Parenting, Co-Parenting and Parallel Parenting with a Narcissist

113

Have You Ever Wondered if YOU Have ADHD? Exploring the 7 Types of ADD/ADHD.

114

The Neuroscience of Narcissism with Nate Christensen, APCC

115

The Emotional Toll of a Narcissistic Relationship - One Woman's Story

116

Can Therapy with a Narcissist Help, or Does It Make Things Worse?

117

New Insights On The Narcissistic Trauma Bond - The Need For Survival

118

How To Gray Rock Through a Narcissistic Smear Campaign...with Extra Butter

119

How to Prevent Your Kids From Becoming Narcissists

120

Exploring Narcissistic Relationships with Suzanne Falter, Writer, Speaker and Podcast Host

121

The Narcissist and the Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)

122

Emotional Maturity vs Narcissism, OK I'm Awake, Now How Do I Communicate?

123

BONUS: Why Am I The Last Person To Know What To Do With My Life?

124

Navigating a No-Contact Rule with a Narcissist

125

How Do You Share Your Narcissistic Awareness with Others...or Can You? Plus, Welcome to Holland

126

Narcissists and the Holidays - Gifts, Gaslighting and the Grinch

127

The Importance of Self-Care in Narcissistic Relationships: Raising Your Emotional Baseline

128

Tony's Pre-Therapy Check List with Bonus "Why Are Relationships Complicated?"

129

Why We Need People - The Rules for Constructive Communication

130

"Lessons Learned Through Tragedy (At Least Until a Time Machine is Invented)"

131

Dealing With Things You Don't Want To Deal With - Psychological Flexibility

132

Right? Wrong? It's All About Context!

133

Let's Have A Positive Discussion About Voldemort....I Mean Pornography (part 1 of 2)

134

The Dangerous Dance of the Avoidant/Anxiously Attached Couple

135

The Need for Self-Care with Suzanne Falter - Podcast Host and Author of "The Extremely Busy Woman's Guide to Self-Care"

136

What Have We Learned in 2021? Communication, Differentiation, and You Don't Know What You Don't Know!

137

The ONLY Goal Setting Episode You'll Ever Need with Neal Hooper, host of The Happiness Playbook

138

All up in your feelings? One simple tool to get out of your head and back into your life!

139

Why Wanting To Be Happy May Backfire

140

Night Owl vs Morning Lark - When Is the Best Time to Make a Decision?

141

Seeing Is Believing? No, it's the other way around! Plus many more fascinating facts about our minds with Nate Christensen, APCC

142

Narcissistic Family Systems - Introducing The Scapegoat

143

Why Opposites Don't Attract PLUS Tony's New Parenting Course is Part of Nate Bagley's Relationship Mastery Pack!

144

Hold On To Your Hippocampus - The Impact of Narcissistic Abuse on the Brain

145

Why We Care What Others Think - The Need for External Validation

146

Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde? Understanding the Black or White, All or Nothing Thinking of the Narcissist

147

Now It Makes More Sense! How Context Creates Connected Conversations

148

Setting Boundaries w/the Narcissist

149

Am I the Narcissist? Exploring Narcissistic Traits and Tendencies (from the Waking Up to Narcissism podcast)

150

Hey, I Love The Way You're Reading The Title of This Episode - Why We Need More Compliments in Our Lives

151

Am I the Narcissist? Exploring Narcissistic Traits and Tendencies

152

Did You Hear the Latest? Psychologists Say Gossip is a Social Skill!

153

Death By a Thousand Cuts - Is it Safe to Explain Your Situation to Others?

154

How Certain Are You? Exploring Memory Through Popular Myths

155

Escaping the Narcissistic Trauma Bond

156

To Be Heard Is To Be Healed - Connecting the 4 Pillars of Communication

157

Good People Trying to Make Sense of Nonsense (Gaslighting)

158

Give Yourself A Little Grace, Change Takes Time!

159

Narcissistic Awareness Grief and the Narcissistic Apology

160

The Need to Finish Things Meets Procrastination - How the Ziegarnik Effect Impacts Mental Health

161

Nature, Nurture or C, All of the Above? The Narcissist Origin Story

162

What's Stopping You? Discovering the "You" in Be-You-Tiful w/McKinley Overbay

163

Survival Tips For Engaging w/the Narcissist

164

How to Be Happy...Scientifically Speaking

165

How to Rebuild Trust w/ Geoff Steurer, LMFT Host of From Crisis to Connection

166

Why Am I the Last Person to Know What to Do with My Life?

167

The Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast is Coming Soon!

168

Take Control Of Your Own Life w/Preston Pugmire Host of Next Level Life

169

Let Your Values Guide You to Happiness, Purpose, and Connection

170

Putting the Light Into Gaslight - Exploring the 4 Types of Gaslighting

171

All You Need is Love...But What Kind of Love? Simplifying Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love

172

What I Did During My Summer Vacation (aka A Therapist's Take on Disneyland)

173

Your Brain Doesn't Have a Delete Button - A Thought is a Thought, a Feeling is a Feeling

174

You Can Have Control, or Love...Pick One

175

The Super Power of Struggle! Modeling a Growth vs. Fixed Mindset Sets Your Kids Up for Greater Success

176

Healing From Betrayal Trauma with Brannon Patrick, Host of The Betrayed, The Addicted and The Expert

177

Whose Life Are You Really Living? A Deep Dive into Differentiation

178

How Attachment Styles Effect Relationships, Addiction, and more w/Nate Christensen APCC

179

Ladders Make Crummy Shovels - 3 Metaphors That Lead to a Lifetime of Happiness

180

Acceptance Doesn't Mean Apathy - Tony Overbay's ACT Presentation at the Mentally Healthy Saints Virtual Summit

181

Did I Just Have A Heart Attack? How to Make Change Last.

182

Highly Sensitive People (HSP) of the World Unite...I Mean if You Want To, If Not It's Totally OK!

183

Ten Commandments of Managing Depression w/Nate Christensen APCC

184

How Many Positive Comments Does it Take So I Can Say Something Mean?

185

How To Both Love AND Guide Your Kids - Implementing Occam's Razor in Parenting

186

3 Takeaways From The World Happiness Report

187

What Does Kindness Have In Common With the Arterial Health of Rabbits?

188

BONUS Sexuality Counselor Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on Partner Desirability Hi/Low Desire Relationships

189

How to Embrace Positive Tension In Your Relationship - Part 3 of 3 of the Magnetic Marriage Review

190

Can Empathy Be Taught or Learned? How to Teach Empathy to Your Kids BONUS

191

Communicating With Connected Conversation Scripts (CCS) - Magnetic Marriage Recap Pt 2 of 3 w/Preston Pugmire

192

BONUS The "Origin Story" of Jody Moore - Virtual Couch Top 10 Episode Series

193

Magnetic Marriage Course Round 2 Coming Soon! How to Improve Your Marriage w/Preston Pugmire Part 1 of 3

194

Hold Me Tight! Conversations For a Lifetime of Love

195

If You've EVER Been Angry This Episode Is For YOU!

196

Cleaning Up Physical and Emotional Clutter w/Anna, Professional Organizer

197

It's Time to Make Some Adult Decisions! Everything You Need to Know About Differentiation

198

Tips for Tackling Anxiety aka Bless Your Brain's Little Pink Squishy Heart!

199

Jessica Frew On Living a BOLD Life - Co-host of the Husband in Law Podcast

200

From Codependent to Interdependent - Keys To a Thriving Relationship