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Surrender vs. Control: Trusting His Plan

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Staying True to Yourself While Loving Others

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The Show is Over. Drop the Act & Show Up Authentically

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STATE OF THE UNION ADDRESS: THE STATE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN 2024

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Do You Even Know Who Raised That Man?

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Market Value is More Than a Pretty Face & Finances

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Don't Commit to Your Next Relationship Before Reviewing This List!

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Stop Playing With Your Friendships!

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Is She Too Independent or Is That Man Not Doing Enough?

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They Cheated. Do I Stay or Pay Them Dust?

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That Man Does Not Need More Time. That Man Does Not Like You

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How to End Generational Curses Immediately!

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The Hard Truth About Breakups...NOW WHAT?

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Stop Negotiating Your NON-Negotiables!

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Why Would a Woman Go Half on Anything With a Man?

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Why Women Really Want a Husband!

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One Night Only: The Tell All Interview with Shaanah Montanna - Ep. 111

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Let's Talk About Labels...AGAIN! - Ep. 110

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The Value of Sisterhood - Ep. 109

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Non Monogamy & Polyamorous Relationships - Ep. 108

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Relationship Accountability: What Does it Really Mean - Ep. 107

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Relationship Gridlock - We Are Stuck and Want to Move Forward - Ep. 106

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Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles - Ep. 105

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Are Men Healing and Caring For Themselves at the Same Rate as Women? Ep. 104

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The Importance of Therapy While Dating - Ep. 103

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Part 3: SMBC - Single Mom By Choice - Ep. 102

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Part 2: Black Maternal Health in America: Are We in a Crisis?

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Part 1: Black Maternal Health in America: Are We in a Crisis? Ep. 101

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The Great Debate: Men vs. Women - Ep. 100

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Suffering is Not a Requirement for Love - Ep. 99

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What About Yo Friends? Let's Talk Friendship! - Ep. 98

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Kim vs. Kanye - Bonus Tea

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Create Your Own Love Language - Ep. 97

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Detachment: How to Detach & Dealing With a Detached Person - Ep. 96

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Long Term Relationships - You Will Change & So Will Your Partner - Ep. 95

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Leaving Will Hurt & You Will Be Okay! Leaving is NOT Losing! - Ep. 94

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Where the Cash At? Is it Pay for Play in 2022? - Ep. 93

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Why Do We Keep Taking Them Back? - Ep. 92

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You Cannot Love Them Into the Person You Are Envisioning - Ep. 91

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Fantasy vs. Reality of Love - Ep. 90

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Imposter Syndrome - Ep. 89

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Relationship Attachment Styles - Ep. 88

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Comparison is the Thief of All Joy - Ep. 87

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Secrecy vs. Privacy - Ep. 86

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Where The Money Reside! - Ep. 85

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Do Opposites Really Attract? - Ep. 84

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It's the Phone For Me! - Ep. 83

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Your Partner Will Not Complete You - Ep. 82

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Relationships, Communication, & Conflict - Ep. 81

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Boundaries, Dealbreakers, & Triggers - Ep. 80

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Uncertainties & Insecurities - Ep. 79

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Surrendering to Happiness - Ep. 78

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It Just Might Not Be the Right Fit: Part II - Ep 77

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It Just Might Not Be the Right Fit! Part 1 - Ep. 76

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ALL LABELS MATTER - Ep.75

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STOP SETTLING! Give These People Back to the Streets! Ep. 74

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Throw The Whole Timeline Away - Ep 73

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Narcissist, Gaslighting, & Manipulation in Relationships - Ep. 72

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Whatever You Do, You May Need to Say NO to the Pandemic Boo - Ep. 71

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Back Into Time - Ep. 70

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Part II: Protect the Black Woman - Ep. 69

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Real Romance, Real Relationships, Real Issues - Ep. 68

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Part I: Protect the Black Woman - Ep.67

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Are Men Still on the DL in 2020? Ep.66

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Entanglements- Ep.65

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Are You Single Until You’re Married? Ep. 64

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The WAIT - Ep.63

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Lose My Breath: Mental Health & Anxiety - Revisited Ep. 62

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Dating in the Workplace - Ep.61

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Should One Partner Love One More Than the Other? Ep. 60

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Love After Lockup... We Mean Divorce! Ep.59

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No More Boyfriends - Ep.58

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Is Love Best When It’s Fresh? Ep.57

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You Have to be “THIS” Tall to Ride “THIS” Ride! Ep. 56

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Does Your “Market Value” Decrease as Your Age Increases? Ep. 55

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Whew Chile... The Toxicity! Ep. 54

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Quarantined.... How We Handle This & Maintain Relationships & Sanity Ep. 53

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It’s Our Anniversary!

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RED FLAGS!! Ep. 52

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Is it Family Over Everything in Your Relationship? Ep. 51

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Love is Blind - Ep. 50

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BEFORE the Commitment- Ep. 49

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Relationship Problems! How Many of Us Have Them? Ep.48

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Marry For Love or Money? - Ep.47

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Open Relationships: How Many of Us Could Have Them? Ep.46

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Let’s Talk About Sex - Part II Ep.45

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Celebrating Being Single - Ep.44

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Gender Roles - WTF does that mean?! Ep. 43

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Is Long Distance Love Possible? Ep. 42

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Knowing When it’s Time to Let Go Ep.41

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No Matter What, You Will Be Okay Ep.40

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Love Languages - Ep.39

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Part II: Creating a Thriving Relationship Ep.38

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Part I: Creating a Thriving Relationship Ep. 37

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Is Your Partner Responsible for Fulfilling All of Your Needs? Ep. 36

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Does Being a Boss Hurt You or Help You in Relationships Ep.35

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Manifesting the Love You Desire Ep.34

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Are Women Making it Too Easy for Men to Show Up & Ask For the Most While Doing the Least? Ep. 33

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EXES...Where Do They Belong? Ep. 32

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Let’s talk about SEX, baby! Ep. 31