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Where Do We Go From Here? — 237 episodes · page 1 of 3
No Hard Feelings Chat About Consent
ERevisiting Promising Young Woman after the Cornell 7
Queerly Beloved: Interview with Ann Russo Founder of AMR Therapy
The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation: Interview with Dr. Eric Sprankle
ENo Hard Feelings Chat: What Do We Do With Our Christian Playlist Post-Deconstruction?
Faith and Feminism: Interview with Meghan Tschanz
God, Guns and Christian Nationalism
PODCAST UPDATE
Holistic Therapist for BIPOC Women: Interview with Ingrid Nishimoto
No Hard Feelings Chat: What Do We Do With The Bible Post Deconstruction?
Gayer Than Originally Anticipated: Follow-up Interview with Jenna Dewitt - Sapphic, Aromantic, Asexual & Christian
RomCom Recap: Down With Love
Escaping Purity Culture with Mattie Jo Cowert
ENo Hard Feelings: David, Bathsheba, and What We Do With Good Men Who Do Bad Things
Conversion Therapy Dropout with Timothy Schraeder Rodriguez
Exploring Fertility Options with Dr. Jaime Knopman
No Hard Feelings Chat: Debunking Myths about Soul Ties and Soulmates
Bonus Episode: Is the Fire of Hell the Fire of God's Love
EShame-Free Sex Education
A Sexual Ethic of Orgasmic Failure
How to Honor Your Parents when the Relationship is Difficult
Beyond Church Walls
Reframing Care Work: Interview with Laura Danger
Bonus Episode: What to Expect from Where Do We Go From Here
No Hard Feelings Chat: What is the Purpose of Church During and After Deconstruction?
Stages of Faith
No Hard Feelings Chat: What's in a Name? Marriage, Identity, and the Politics of Surnames
Science and Sex: Bacteria, Bonobos, the Bible and Beyond
Purity Culture is Spiritual Abuse
EFrom Virgin vs Vixen to Grace and Consent
Ask Jess Anything: Deconstruction, Sex, Motherhood, and Closure
I've got Questions for Erin Moon
Rage Bait, "Childless" and the Gender Blame Game
From Purity to Power: Sex, Innocence, and the Legacy of White Christianity
Learning to Trust Yourself to Deconstruct and Date
Christmas, Closets, and Consent: A Happiest Season Rom-Com Recap
Can You Deconstruct Without Losing Your Faith
Starved of Desire: How Purity Culture and Diet Culture Intertwine
On Premarital Sex Part 4: Sin or Not a Sin?
On Premarital Sex Part 3: Making Sexual Decisions with Wisdom — Not Fear
On Premarital Sex Part 2: Reimagining Celibacy
On Premarital Sex Part 1: What are the rules when there are no rules?
What We Can Learn from a Somatic Sexologist
Faith, Feminism & Pleasure: Rethinking the Christian Story of Sex
Deconstructing Christian Patriarchy and Reclaiming Feminine Energy
Does Saving Sex for Marriage Set People Up for Better or Worse Sex? - A No Hard Feelings Chat
Nobody Wants This Season 1 Recap
Why 'Waiting on God's Timing' Keeps Women Stuck and other thoughts
Grace for Parents, Healing for Kids - Chatting to the authors of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting
April Ajoy on Christian Nationalism and Star-Spangled Jesus
No Hard Feelings about Charlie Kirk
Devi's Back for the Dr James Dobson Autopsy
Kristin Kobes Du Mez on Purity Culture, Patriarchy & Power
Submission, Agency, and Shiny Happy People S2: Where Do We Go From Here?
Submission: The Church Rule We Subconsciously Deconstructed?
Consent as a Holy Starting Point: Rethinking Christian Sexual Ethics
Beyond Consent: Rethinking Sex, Power, and Justice - a conversation with Danielle Tumminio Hansen
Parenting and Re-Parenting Without Sexual Shame with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers
Shiny Happy People Season 2: Teen Mania, Radicalisation & the Teenage Holy War
Sex, Consent and the Theology of Harm: What if sin is about harm, not rules? We rethink ethics, bodies, and sacred sexuality
"Talking About Sex in Church Broke Us" — Donna Freitas on Healing What Religion Couldn't
Is It Time for a New Christian Sexual Ethic?
Most Downloaded: Sex and Agency
EPurity, Paul, and Pride: A Queer Pastor Reimagines Christianity
Do we still believe in "obedience" after purity culture?
Is Christianity Still Good News for Women?
Can You Still Follow God After Church Trauma? A conversation with Brenda Palmer
Emotional Affairs & the First American Pope. A No Hard Feelings Chat
Pelvic Floors, Pain, Pleasure & Purity Culture with osteopath Rebecca Lovett
Where Does Deconstruction Go From Here?
What Does Safe Sex and Ghosting Have in Common?
EWhere Did Devi Go From Here? Saying Goodbye (for now)
Devi's got something to share...
149: Radical Activism, Women's Rights, and the Legacy of Josephine Butler
148: Purity Culture's Black & White Thinking Hurt us. Here's What Can Help
Losing Her Religion: Gen Z's Gender Divide in Faith
What Comes Next?
'Pure White': The origin story of purity culture
An "Easy Love" After Divorce: Haverlee's Story
7 Signs That Your Marriage Can Be Saved
What if your marriage doesn't make you happy or holy?
Your Body Is Resource
No Room At The Inn: Single During A Cost of Living Crisis
Where Is Jess Going From Here?
'Holy Runaways' And The Search For A Spiritual Home
Is Andy Stanley's Method the Future for LGBTQ+ Engagement in the Church?
A Single Woman & Fertility After 40: Annie's Story
135: Anna McGahan on the Stories that Shape Us, Break Us, and Make Us
134: Evangelicalism Failed Our Girls. Here's How We Can Do Better.
133: Sex Toys For (Christian) Dummies
132: The Problem With Purity Rings (And Other Bad Symbols & Metaphors)
131: Child Trafficking is Terrible. 'Sound of Freedom' Misses the Point.
130: Why Christians Should Talk About "The Secrets of Hillsong" (Episode 4 Recap)
129: "The Secrets of Hillsong" Reveals the Many Problems with Frank Houston (Episode 3 Recap)
128: "The Secrets of Hillsong" Can't Make Carl Lentz A Prodigal Son (Episode 2 recap)
127: Looking for Truth in "The Secrets of Hillsong" (Episode 1 Recap)
126: The Recent Allegations Against Mike Pilavachi
125: Revisiting "The Sex Talk" with Jess' mum
124: The Big Debrief
123: Making (Grownup) Friends Is Hard To Do