Holding your hand

Can you see yourself clearly? Can you hold yourself closely? Can you give yourself grace? Can you find the people who connect to your soul and let them hold up a mirror, hold your hand as you walk, and lift you up when you stumble? Can you do the same for them?I’d say of all the things that have been a challenge for me for most of my life, seeing myself clearly is at the top of the list. I’ve had a perception of myself that is very one dimensional, focused on intellect to the exclusion of other elements of me. And it has been a long journey to start to release that perception, this Substack being one step in that journey.It took me changing my ability to listen to others, to see through their eyes, to accept their perception of me to help me reground my perception of myself. The old stories always creep back in, but, over time, their stay is a little shorter and their effect a little less felt than it was.As you read this I wonder:* Has your view of yourself changed? If so, why? And if not, why not?* Who in your life do you trust to hold up the mirror and hold your hand?* When was the last time you really told someone you love what you see in them?As humans, we have the opportunity to use the ties that bind us to each other to help ourselves see more clearly. It is one of the greatest gifts we can receive or provide. I hope someone speaks quietly in your ear this week and you take the chance to listen. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit aconstantbecoming.substack.com