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EPISODE · May 22, 2026 · 1H 6M

Want Better Sex? Sex After 40 Changes More Than Most Couples Realize

from Rena Malik, MD Podcast · host Rena Malik, MD

Dr. Maria Sophocles, board-certified gynecologist, surgeon, and sexual medicine specialist, joins Dr. Rena Malik to explore sexual burnout, the bedroom gap between partners, and the impact of cultural and historical messaging on sexual expectations and intimacy. They discuss the health benefits of maintaining sexual activity, overcoming shame and miscommunication about sexual needs and desires, practical strategies to restart intimacy from zero, and the importance of communication in long-term relationships. The conversation covers medical interventions like vaginal estrogen and FDA-approved treatments for low desire, societal double standards in aging and sexuality, and embracing evolving definitions of sex and intimacy at every stage of life. Become a Member to Receive Exclusive Content: renamalik.supercast.com Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction00:02:22 Sexual burnout and bedroom gap00:06:09 Sexlessness and relationship impact00:08:07 Cultural messaging about sex00:12:28 Health benefits of sexual activity00:13:20 Restarting intimacy from zero00:23:59 Initiating difficult conversations00:27:02 Communication, rejection, and intimacy00:40:35 Aging, body image, and sex00:44:30 Medical solutions for sexual health Thanks to today’s sponsor, Ogee: A higher standard for beauty. Go to https://ogee.com/RENA and use code RENA to get 20% off certified organic makeup that performs like luxury. Get your menopause treatment plan today. Visit https://myalloy.com and use code RENA for $20 off your first order! #AgeGracefully Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Maria Sophocles, board-certified gynecologist, surgeon, and sexual medicine specialist, joins Dr. Rena Malik to explore sexual burnout, the bedroom gap between partners, and the impact of cultural and historical messaging on sexual expectations and intimacy. They discuss the health benefits of maintaining sexual activity, overcoming shame and miscommunication about sexual needs and desires, practical strategies to restart intimacy from zero, and the importance of communication in long-term relationships. The conversation covers medical interventions like vaginal estrogen and FDA-approved treatments for low desire, societal double standards in aging and sexuality, and embracing evolving definitions of sex and intimacy at every stage of life. Become a Member to Receive Exclusive Content: renamalik.supercast.com Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction00:02:22 Sexual burnout and bedroom gap00:06:09 Sexlessness and relationship impact00:08:07 Cultural messaging about sex00:12:28 Health benefits of sexual activity00:13:20 Restarting intimacy from zero00:23:59 Initiating difficult conversations00:27:02 Communication, rejection, and intimacy00:40:35 Aging, body image, and sex00:44:30 Medical solutions for sexual health Thanks to today’s sponsor, Ogee: A higher standard for beauty. Go to https://ogee.com/RENA and use code RENA to get 20% off certified organic makeup that performs like luxury. Get your menopause treatment plan today. Visit https://myalloy.com and use code RENA for $20 off your first order! #AgeGracefully Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Dr. Maria Sophocles, board-certified gynecologist, surgeon, and sexual medicine specialist, joins Dr. Rena Malik to explore sexual burnout, the bedroom gap between partners, and the impact of cultural and historical messaging on sexual expectations...

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