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EP40《懂心理，調出好關係》「丈夫的不作為 ? 會讓婆媳陷入爭奪戰 !?」by 姜尚文心理師ft. 林嘉歆心理師

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EP40《懂心理，調出好關係》「丈夫的不作為 ? 會讓婆媳陷入爭奪戰 !?」by 姜尚文心理師ft. 林嘉歆心理師

from 懂心理，調出好關係 《Healthy Relationship》 · host 姜尚文心理師，朴世光心理師

#著名的精神分析學家Winnicott 曾說， 「每一個男人在成人之後， 心中因已內化母親的特質， 會空出一個原本母親的空間， 這個空間將會由他的伴侶來填滿， 他才能成為一個完整的人。」   正常而言，這是一個男人的必經過程， 因此在兩位女性之間，會有一個轉換期， 轉換過渡的順利與否， 完全取決於這個男人的態度， 當然這兩位女性的狀態， 也會是個因素，   但丈夫的不作為， 容易讓婆媳陷入爭奪的戰爭，   除了丈夫的擔當之外， 媳婦適當的協助， 和婆婆本身的調適 可以讓這個過程順利轉換，   夫妻雙方在婚前的溝通很重要， 不同價值觀上的溝通等， 尤其是在雙方原生家庭的相處 要如何照顧彼此的家人， 互相尊重，而不是理所應當， 最不好的是，在社會的大框架下， #有所謂好媳婦的形象， 給予人無形的束縛， 尤其是在雙薪家庭下的妻子 這樣的社會期待或自我要求， 會造成媳婦的角色下極大的壓力，   所以有時可能要放過自己， 只要盡力，和適時的欣賞自己， 就是一個好媳婦了，   當然媳婦對婆婆原生家庭的了解， 也是有助於和婆婆的相處， 與婆婆一起作一些輕鬆的事， 也能增進彼此的關係， 不一定要糾結於一些無謂的爭執。 https://open.firstory.me/story/ckyz561j18kr80868yez91hb3?m=comment Powered by Firstory Hosting

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EP40《懂心理，調出好關係》「丈夫的不作為 ? 會讓婆媳陷入爭奪戰 !?」by 姜尚文心理師ft. 林嘉歆心理師

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