Being Human Podcast

Why do I and so many Catholic men struggle with an inner critic that says they are never "good enough" despite their business success? This can be from parental figures but also if we experience God as the judgemental force rather than The Good Shepherd. In this video, we explore how to overcome perfectionism and hustle culture by integrating Catholic spirituality with neuroscience to find true internal peace. WANT TO SPEAK WITH SCOTT?I work 1-on-1 with Catholic entrepreneurs and high-performers to quiet the inner critic and reclaim their peace through an 8-week program. Is success without presence really success? Combining Ignation Spirituality, Neuroscience and Mindfulness.Apply here: https://www.scottstemarie.com/mens_transformation_2026

When we overthink, first we need to get specific about what thoughts are bothering us. Thinking only positive, reassuring thoughts wouldn't be an issue, right? So what we're really dealing are negative thoughts and rumination over a specific area of our life. Try this exercise with me to settle the mind and become aware of the thought factory.

Guys who are really hard on themselves and have a strong inner critic can actually get really far in life, but it's exhausting. I was motivated by my inner critic my entire life. I asked this simple question though "Is it really success is there's no inner peace and joy?" When you change your inner dialogue, your entire life changes. I totally understand that the negative self talk can be motivating and push us to accomplish, succeed and change. That only lasts so long though. In this video I discuss another way to motivate yourself and change the relationship you have with you. 👉 Ready to stop being so hard on yourself? Brother, your entire life changes when you do. Learn more here: https://tinyurl.com/yckc42y5🎁 Free Guide "Men's 5 Minute Mental Reset to stop inner criticism and self sabotage: https://tinyurl.com/36xpaw9u

Why are men so lonely? For me, it wasn't the lack of friends or people around me. It was more about spending years performing and ultimately, not liking myself. In this video, I gently break down the real reasons men feel lonely, disconnected, and like they don't truly belong even when they're surrounded by people.If you've ever felt out of place in your own life, struggled with anxiety and feeling a sense of not belonging, I know it feels hard, I get it. What we cover:The root cause of male loneliness most men never talk aboutHow childhood conditioning forces men to suppress emotions and wear a maskWhy performing "masculinity" keeps men isolated and disconnectedHow to stop people pleasing and start knowing who you actually areThe simple exercise to reconnect with yourself and start feeling wholeMen and loneliness. Men and emotions. Male identity. Masculinity and mental health. These aren't separate topics — they're all pointing at the same thing: most men were never taught to know themselves.That's what this channel is about changing.Chapters0:00 Would you buy yourself a beer?1:05 My story with depression and loneliness1:50 How we're conditioned to perform as men4:06 All we really want is to belong6:28 Why performing causes loneliness8:48 Befriending yourself12:45 The bar exercise14:52 Stop comparing. Start liking yourself.16:04 Drop the persona — this is the gold🧠 Your Transformation Starts (no, not Alpha Male BS) - Join the Waitlisthttps://tinyurl.com/bddp5v7n🎁 A Free Guide for YouThe 5-Minute Mental Reset for Menhttps://tinyurl.com/mvezhjyd

Do you feel like your own worst enemy? If you’re a man who struggles with constant inner criticism and a mind that just won't give you a break, this video has two exercises that will really help you.🎁 Free Guide: The 5-Minute Mental Reset for Menhttps://tinyurl.com/ypxxfcjp🧠 Apply Today & Meet with Scotthttps://tinyurl.com/ybjhk8yxABOUT SCOTTI help men move from stressed and self-critical to calm and self-assured, so they can rest and slow down without feeling guilty. I hold a Master’s degree (MSc) in Neuroscience, Psychology, and Mental Health from King’s College London. I’ve been practicing meditation since 2008 and have been trained in Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC), Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), and Emotional Focusing since 2020.

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You've heard it before how it's "a gift" and I know how that probably sounds. Through these ramblings, I hope you can find comfort that you're a pretty awesome guy and not alone in this. If this episode spoke to you:Join the 8 Week Men's Transformation Program Waitlist: https://www.scottstemarie.com/menstransformation

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"You can only be happy and have value when you've achieved something the world approved" Says who?! Most of you will inevitably move through these milestones, but true happiness in everything in between!

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In every video, you can count on hearing something you've never heard before that makes you feel great. You got this my friends. INTERESTED IN WHAT I TALKED ABOUT AT THE END OF THE EPISODE?https://www.scottstemarie.com/8weekswithscott APPLY TO SPEAK WITH SCOTT PRIVATELY: https://www.scottstemarie.com/coaching CONQUER ANXIETY COURSE https://www.scottstemarie.com/conqueranxiety SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL https://www.patreon.com/scottstemarie Scott speaks across North America about emotional wellbeing, mental health and our innate need for connection. His history with mental health challenges have allowed him to develop a strong sense of empathy and compassion with his audiences and those he works with personally. Music is his true obsession as he plays the guitar, drums and sings.

Consider this the best way to calm down when there's just too much going on in your life. The world feels so big and it's almost too much to handle. The good news is that you can make the world smaller by training your mind to focus. This is called the "Superman Meditation" and I know you'll really enjoy it. Comment after you do the meditation and share how you're feeling!

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Take time today to answer the questions in this video that will provide a direction and pin for you to walk towards. Feeling lost is such a common feeling, one that I continue to feel at times. Be patient while also seeing what this whole "lost" thing is really all about. SPEAK WITH SCOTT PRIVATELY: https://www.scottstemarie.com/coaching AFFORDABLE ONLINE THERAPY: https://www.betterhelp.com/depressiontoexpression CONQUER ANXIETY COURSE https://www.scottstemarie.com/conqueranxiety JOIN OUR GROUP MEDITATIONS https://www.patreon.com/scottstemarie

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There's actually really great news about this idea of 'wasting time' or 'wasting your life'. You can change this instantly and it's completely up to you what you deem as a waste of time. The internet and other people literally have no say in what you should do with your time. You have complete freedom in this and you can start leaning into it and change a few things up! MY WEBSITE https://www.scottstemarie.com

When you're really feeling anxious, the only thing you want to do is get rid of the feeling and get to safety in your mind and body. That's totally understandable and the most normal response. These tips are so simple and easy to implement into your life. Yes, it's all scientifically proven but who cares about the science if they actually work for you. I hope you learn not only something from the 5 tips, but perspective shifts during the video that you can relate to bring into your daily living. SELF-COMPASSION LESSONS WITH SCOTT https://www.scottstemarie.com/8weekswithscott SPEAK WITH SCOTT 1-1 https://www.scottstemarie.com/coaching SAY THANK YOU TO ME https://www.patreon.com/scottstemarie Chapters: 00:00:00 - Intro Andrew Huberman Too Much Science! 00:02:15 - If You Think Life is Pointless 00:04:35 - Sincerely, Thank You 00:05:50 - Breathing Exercise: 2 for 1x10 00:08:40 - Sit with It (SWI): Anxious Self-Compassion 00:10:21 - (Self Doubt) IMPORTANT Questions to Ask Yourself 00:15:20 - Anxiety Medications Are An Option 00:21:50 - Magnesium Slow Release in Epsom Salts 00:25:50 - Safe Smells of Antique Books 00:29:00 - A Really Safe Smell - Frankincense 00:30:10 - It's OK That It Sucks Scott speaks across North America about emotional wellbeing, mental health and our innate need for connection. His history with mental health challenges have allowed him to develop a strong sense of empathy and compassion with his audiences and those he works with personally. Music is his true obsession as he plays the guitar, drums and sings.

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Feeling lonely is a universal experience, literally every human being has felt this sense of isolation , even in a sea of people. There are some great tips and new perspectives about loneliness that I think you'll love in this video. The only reason I can dive into the sense of loneliness is because I get lonely. Simple. Chapters: 00:00 - It's Not All Your Fault Diving into what loneliness really means and being real with the feeling or *sense*. 02:30 - The Reality of What We Want We want people to see us, to really see us. Not our looks, not our accomplishments, but who we truly are in this world. 05:00 - No Seriously, It's Not All Your Fault What you are experiencing in loneliness is so complex and it's not always simple to solve. 07:00 - What Can We Do About It?! Great Strategies Offering practical advice and strategies that have helped me navigate out of loneliness, aiming to help others find their way too. 10:30 - The Importance of Community and Connection Finding a sense of community and making true connections where you feel heard and seen can be powerful tools in combating feelings of isolation. 13:20 - Tips for Reaching Out and Making Meaningful Connections Practical tips for reaching out, engaging in activities that foster connection, and how to start building your support network. 16:00 - Conclusion: You're Not Alone Wrapping up with a message of hope and solidarity, encouraging you to share your stories and support each other in the comments or with me.

Struggling with life's big questions like "What should I do with my life?" is so common, you may be surprised that a billion people are asking it right now too. You're not alone. This video dives deep into the pressures of societal expectations, changing your perspective on how to ask a useful question and not succumbing to doubt and overthinking.

You're hard on yourself because you may be familiar with its usefulness. It's motivates people in the short term, but not the long term. Quick quiz in this video - what do Andrew Huberman, Tiger Woods, Jay Shetty, Kevin Hart and Liver King all have in common? Be careful what you believe about human idols, we all make mistakes. SPEAK WITH SCOTT https://www.scottstemarie.com/coaching SCOTT'S WEBSITE https://www.scottstemarie.com SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL https://www.patreon.com/scottstemarie BEING HUMAN PODCAST iTunes: https://apple.co/3uJeCt2 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2IdKz3m Listen Everywhere Else: https://anchor.fm/scottstemarie

What's the best way to navigate life's endless questions and find meaning in the seemingly meaningless? We deal with this not by desperately seeking answers only intellectually or by rigid methods, but by living out the questions themselves. I'm encouraging you to let experience and life itself provide the answers, suggesting that sometimes, it's okay to let things be meaningless for a while. For those looking for inspiration, a different perspective, or simply a reminder that it's okay not to have all the answers, this video is a must-watch. And exciting news for podcast enthusiasts: I've announced plans to bring guests back onto the podcast! SPEAK WITH SCOTT https://www.scottstemarie.com/coaching SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL https://www.patreon.com/scottstemarie Scott speaks across North America about emotional wellbeing, mental health and our innate need for connection. His history with mental health challenges have allowed him to develop a strong sense of empathy and compassion with his audiences and those he works with personally. Music is his true obsession as he plays the guitar, drums and sings.

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Is work stressing you out, even when the day is over? Try this technique to create space and distance for yourself from work, still realizing it's part of you. Apply to Speak with Scott: https://www.scottstemarie.com/coaching

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Join my free newsletter here: https://www.scottstemarie.com/freefromanxiety If the existential anxiety gets to you, keep things super simple. We tend to complicate things and try to find meaning in the depths of living. A lot of the time, just enjoy the show and pass time the way you deem meaningful. We're all basically doing the exact same thing, just in different ways.

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What if being enough is far more simple than you think? In this episode I'm sharing how to fill your cup of enoughness with acceptance of who you are right now, not a you in the future. I hope to meet you on Patreon this Saturday and once a month this year. Join here: https://www.patreon.com/scottstemarie Free Video Series - Compassionate Approach to Anxiety Healing https://www.scottstemarie.com/freefromanxiety 1-1 Coaching with Scott Application https://www.scottstemarie.com/coaching

This question and episode may resonate with most of you, but not all. It's about the giving and receiving of love, the openness in which we live and on what foundation the decisions we make are based on. I hope you have a bit of fun with it and ponder as you go about your days! Scott's Website: https://www.scottstemarie.com Scott's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/depressiontoexpression

Who has it all figured out? Give me a name! In my life, reassurance is a healing feeling. You don't need to have a 25 year plan and every aspect of your life figured out. That's perfectionism and that's impossible. Enjoy the episode and be human in all of this life stuff. How to Deal with Anxiety (Free Course): https://www.scottstemarie.com/freefromanxiety

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You don't have to let it go my friends. You integrate it and make space for it with compassion and non-judgement for all you've been through. Free 6-Part Video Series: https://www.scottstemarie.com/freefromanxiety

For all of us, there are so many moments where things just don't work out. Nothing seems to go as planned and there couldn't be anything more human than that. Let's just talk about it real quick. You got this. Free 6 Part Video Training on Anxiety: https://www.scottstemarie.com/freefromanxiety

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