Healing for Male Survivors with Mike Chapman

Joseph Born, “Joe,” is joining us from the frozen lands of Alaska. Joe, who is half Alaska Native himself, shares how his early childhood abuse shaped his life and highlights the systems that failed to protect him. He also discusses how his mental health diagnoses and addictions relate to his abuse. And the challenges they presented during trauma therapy. Joe hopes to share with the world the unique aspects of CSA in Alaska – including its geography, cultural factors, and the ugly truth of intrafamilial abuse. EXTRA Trigger Warning: While editing this episode, I felt myself being triggered moreso than other episodes. Practice Self-care while listening/viewing.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Joseph’s Links:Joseph’s Story (MightyAK) Instagram: @josephbornakLinks Mentioned:The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) Wikipedia: Degrassi (TV franchise) Degrassi (franchise search - JustWatch)Degrassi (franchise Search - The Roku Channel - US)Wikipedia: "EMDR" (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing)Wikipedia: International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (Trainers of CSATs)Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 95 - Interview with Scott Slone - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 96 - Interview with Scott Slone - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Forrest Lang is a tattoo artist, best-selling author, combat veteran, international speaker, and child safety advocate. He is also a survivor of family-controlled sex trafficking in childhood. He lives in La Jolla, California with his family.  If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Forrest’s Links:Book Website: angelbluebook.comAmazon: Angel Blue: A Song of RedemptionInstagram: @forrestlangofficialFacebook: @angelbluebookFacebook Reels: @angelbluebookTikTok: @forrestlangLinks Mentioned:Wikipedia:Paisley AbbeyUnited States Military Entrance Processing Command (description and list of all MEPS, including LA MEPS)Forrest’s TEDxTalk (YouTube)The SOAP Project (hosts retreats for male trafficking survivors and for female trafficking survivors among other anti-trafficking work)  National Children’s Alliance (Child Advocacy Centers)Save A WarriorPrevious HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 89 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 90 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 100 - Live Panel: “The Epstein Files” (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 57 - Forgiveness - Part 1 - James Gianakon’s podcast (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 58 - Forgiveness - Part 2 - Panel Discussion - LIVE (Spotify | YouTube)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

100th Episode!!! This week, I have a special panel with two prior guests, Matt Melvin & Scott Slone, talking about the Epstein Files and how it relates to us CSA & Trafficking Survivors, how we can respond, what the issues are, and so forth. (from Wikipedia) The Epstein files are a partially released collection of millions of documents, images, videos, and emails detailing the activities of American financier and convicted child sex offender Jeffrey Epstein, including his social circle of public figures, politicians, and celebrities. The files include documents collected as evidence in the criminal cases against Epstein and his associates, stored as over 300 gigabytes of data, alongside other media, in the FBI's Sentinel case management system. They include Epstein's contact book, flight logs of his planes, and court documents. Many of the records and files belong to Epstein's estate, which is run by lawyer Darren Indyke and accountant Richard Kahn.In November 2025, the U.S. House of Representatives passed the Epstein Files Transparency Act, and the U.S. Senate unanimously approved it, with President Donald Trump signing the bill into law the next day. The following month, the U.S. Department of Justice released a relatively small number of files, leading to criticism from both major parties in the US. Trump had previously floated the idea of releasing the files during his 2024 presidential campaign; he later said that controversies surrounding the files were fabricated by members of the Democratic Party.In January 2026, an additional 3 million pages were released, including 2,000 videos and 180,000 images. While the Department of Justice acknowledged that a total of 6 million pages might qualify as files required to be released, it stated that the January 30 release would be the final one, and that it had met its legal obligations. The released files mentioned a number of public figures, and led to increased scrutiny of their activities. Individuals whose names have shown up frequently in the files include: Epstein's assistant Lesley Groff, accountant Richard Kahn, Trump and his wife Melania Trump, lawyer Darren Indyke, sex trafficker and socialite Ghislaine Maxwell, and modeling agent Jean-Luc Brunel.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.FULL Show Notes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ITlqiDVYMO3DAQBwTw5VkQ7PctlhOJ_FcezuLctMUGM/edit?usp=sharing

Jarrett Davis is a Senior Research Scholar whose work over the past fifteen years has focused on the boys, young men, and gender-diverse individuals that anti-trafficking systems routinely overlook. From street-connected children in Southeast Asia to immigrant youth in the United States, his research centers the voices and expertise of survivors themselves — not as subjects, but as researchers of their own stories. His work has spanned INGOs across Asia, Africa, Europe, and the United States. Jarrett is the founder of UP! Collective, a community-focused hub for shared resources and collaboration, and a Senior Research Scholar with the Global Association of Human Trafficking Scholars (GAHTS), where he works alongside Mike Chapman on lived experience research. He is presently working within the NYC Department of Education on the expansion of a prevention education curriculum for staff and students across NYC public schools, as well as a project in Minnesota focused on justice-involved boys and young men. Jarrett is also a survivor of Adult Sexual Assault.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Jarrett’s Links:https://www.jarrettdavis.org https://www.up-collective.org/ LinkedInLinks Mentioned:MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more (links to website)MenHealing.org - non-religious healing weekends across the US for Male CSA SurvivorsThe SOAP Project (hosts retreats for male trafficking survivors and for female trafficking survivors among other anti-trafficking work) Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 86 - What is Brainspotting? (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 92 - Interview with Ena Maria Mariaca Pacheco - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 93 - Interview with Ena Maria Mariaca Pacheco - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 89 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 90 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 45 - Live Interview with Steven Procopio (Spotify | YouTube {audio only})Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Jarrett Davis is a Senior Research Scholar whose work over the past fifteen years has focused on the boys, young men, and gender-diverse individuals that anti-trafficking systems routinely overlook. From street-connected children in Southeast Asia to immigrant youth in the United States, his research centers the voices and expertise of survivors themselves — not as subjects, but as researchers of their own stories. His work has spanned INGOs across Asia, Africa, Europe, and the United States. Jarrett is the founder of UP! Collective, a community-focused hub for shared resources and collaboration, and a Senior Research Scholar with the Global Association of Human Trafficking Scholars (GAHTS), where he works alongside Mike Chapman on lived experience research. He is presently working within the NYC Department of Education on the expansion of a prevention education curriculum for staff and students across NYC public schools, as well as a project in Minnesota focused on justice-involved boys and young men. Jarrett is also a survivor of Adult Sexual Assault.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Jarrett’s Links:https://www.jarrettdavis.org https://www.up-collective.org/ LinkedInLinks Mentioned:Global Association of Human Trafficking Scholars (GAHTS)L’Industrie Pizza   La Vista PizzaWikipedia:Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (1987 TV series)Mighty Morphin Power RangersNintendo 64GoldenEye 007 Super Mario 64Atari 2600The Heritage FoundationFocus on the FamilyTaytay, RizalAsia-Pacific Nazarene Theological SeminaryPrevious HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 81 - Interview with Dr Glenn Miles, PhD (Spotify | YouTube)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

This week, I have a special presentation regarding an upcoming Weekend Intensive Retreat for Male CSA Survivors sponsored by Brothers Road. To explain the event, I have 2 former guests, Doug Carpenter and Mark Barber along with Brothers Road Director & Founder, Rich Wyler.Since Rich has not been on the podcast before, I will give him a quick interview before discussing the weekend event.Rich Wyler has been creating and leading experience-based weekend intensives for almost 25 years, starting with  the first "Journey Into Manhood" in 2002. Through a nonprofit fellowship he founded, he has facilitated emotional-healing processes in group settings for hundreds of men in 9 countries and, with the help of skilled interpreters, in at least 6 languages. He is also a certified life coach working with individuals and small groups.A Time to Heal is an experiential weekend intensive for men who deal with the lasting effects of sexual abuse. In a safe, supportive environment, participants engage in guided self-exploration, meaningful connection, and emotional healing. The weekend is designed to reduce shame and self-blame while increasing self-understanding, inner peace, and compassion for one’s own story. Peer-led by men who have been facilitating men’s emotional-healing work for many years, the program is offered in collaboration with psychologist and author Doug Carpenter, Psy.D., and focuses on helping men reclaim their strength, resilience, and wholeness. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.A Time to Heal Info (Summer 2026):WebsiteJuly 10-12, 2026Shenandoah Valley, VirginiaEarly Registration Fee: $675 when you pay the full amount by May 15, 2026Regular Registration Fee: $875Full payment is due by June 26, 2026Deposit: $350 holds your spaceRich’s Links:Brothers on the Road Less Traveled (aka Brothers Road)Journey Into ManhoodA Woman Who LovesA New ManEmail: [email protected]: 434-227-9346More about the panelists:Previous podcast interviews with Doug & Mark (links to Spotify & YouTube (audio-only); contact info is within the show notes of each episode): Episode 17 - Live interview with Dr Douglas Carpenter (Spotify | YouTube)Episode 55 - Live Interview with Dr. Mark Barber (Spotify | YouTube)Links Mentioned:Man in the Arena Speech - Theodore Roosevelt (World Future Fund)MenHealing.org - has healing weekends across the country for Male Survivors & moreSecret Shame: A Survivor's Guide To Understanding Male Sexual Abuse And Male Sexual Development - book by Dr. Doug Carpenter (Amazon)Secret Shame Workbook - by Dr. Doug Carpenter (Amazon)The Body Keeps the Score - by Bessel van der Kolk (Amazon)Wikipedia: (Superhero) Power PosingMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Scott Slone is a survivor-advocate and the founder of Mighty AK, a survivor-led movement working to prevent sexual abuse and domestic violence in Alaska. After breaking decades of silence about his own childhood abuse, Scott chose to turn lived experience into action, creating space for survivors while challenging the systems that allow harm to continue. Through storytelling, public education, and prevention-focused advocacy, his work asks hard questions about silence, accountability, and what it really takes to protect kids before harm happens, and why prevention begins earlier than we think. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Scott’s Links:Mighty AKWebsitePodcast FacebookFacebook Reels/VideosInstagramTikTokScott Slone PhotographyInstagramLinks Mentioned:MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more (links to website)STAR - (Standing Together Against Rape, inc.)RAINN - (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)Wikipedia: (Laicization) Loss of clerical stateThe Meadows (Mental Health Treatment Center in Arizona)“The Therapeutic Genius of Pia Mellody”Wikipedia: Judicial VicarWikipedia: "EMDR" (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing)The Bristlecone Project (now part of 1in6.org)Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 86 - What is Brainspotting? (YouTube)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Scott Slone is a survivor-advocate and the founder of Mighty AK, a survivor-led movement working to prevent sexual abuse and domestic violence in Alaska. After breaking decades of silence about his own childhood abuse, Scott chose to turn lived experience into action, creating space for survivors while challenging the systems that allow harm to continue. Through storytelling, public education, and prevention-focused advocacy, his work asks hard questions about silence, accountability, and what it really takes to protect kids before harm happens, and why prevention begins earlier than we think. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Scott’s Links:Mighty AKWebsitePodcast Scott Slone PhotographyLinks Mentioned:MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more (links to website)STAR - (Standing Together Against Rape, inc.)RAINN - (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)Wikipedia: René DaumalJohn Kotrides (website)Wikipedia: Generation JonesWikipedia: Confraternity of Christian Doctrine (CCD) classesWikipedia: Rectory (aka Clergy House)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Discover how trauma is stored in the body and learn practical tools for healing and managing triggers. This episode features insights from male survivors, who are also prior podcast guests, sharing their journeys of bodily awareness, coping mechanisms, and the importance of safety in recovery. In this episode we discuss:The concept of the body "remembering" trauma long after the eventHow physical sensations and pain can be indicators of past traumaPersonal stories of body triggers such as pain, fainting, and emotional responsesStrategies for grounding, grounding tools, and creating safetyCreative outlets like painting, gardening, and animal companionship as healing toolsThe importance of advocating for oneself during medical proceduresRecognizing emotional flashbacks versus body memoriesThe role of neuroplasticity: rewiring the brain for safetyTips for supporters and loved ones to assist trauma survivorsHow triggers can be unexpected and how to prepare for themIf you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.More about the panelists:Previous podcast interviews with Brandon & Dave (links to YouTube; contact info is within the show notes of each episode): Episode 89 - 🎥 Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 1Episode 90 - 🎥 Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 2Episode 83 - 🎥 Interview with Dave LukinsLinks Mentioned:The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk (Amazon)The Body Remembers: The Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma Treatment by Babette Rothschild MSW LCSW (Amazon)Pete Walker – CPTSD resourcesThe SOAP Project (hosts retreats for male trafficking survivors and for female trafficking survivors among other anti-trafficking work) Survivor Network North CarolinaHusband Material Retreats PageMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Ena Lucia Mariaca Pacheco is a human security researcher and author, with focused expertise in child sexual abuse, exploitation, and trafficking. She holds two bachelor's degrees from the University of Ottawa and a master's degree in Human Security and Peacebuilding from Royal Roads University, Canada. For over a decade, she has worked at the intersection of government, civil society, international organizations, and law enforcement to advance research, policy development, and survivor-centered advocacy. Her work spans multiple global initiatives aimed at supporting victims and survivors of trafficking and child sexual exploitation.Ena Lucia has also contributed her expertise on the ground as a volunteer with non-governmental organizations operating in trafficking hotspots. During her time at the Canadian Parliament, she developed a data-tracking system that supported the drafting and passage of Bill C-310, strengthening Canada’s human trafficking legislation. Her research has also been used to inform the development of new bills, and “An Act to Amend the Criminal Code (Trafficking in Persons),” presented before the Standing Committee on Justice and Human Rights. An experienced trainer and international speaker, Ena Lucia has presented her research at global conferences and at the United Nations. She is a published researcher, with her work featured in Child Abuse & Neglect journal’s special issue on boys. She also co-led the first international conference dedicated to violence against men and boys.She is currently preparing forthcoming research publications that further explore child sexual exploitation, trafficking, and the often-overlooked experiences of male survivors, with a continued commitment to advancing survivor-informed policy, protection, and prevention.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Enita’s Links:Linktree (includes links to interviews and public links to a lot of her research)Links Mentioned:Anthony Edwards Wikipedia: Anthony Edwards“Yes Mom, There is Something Wrong: From victim to survivor.” by Anthony Edwards (Medium)Terry CrewsWikipedia: Terry Crews“Actor Terry Crews: I was sexually assaulted by Hollywood executive” by Gwilym Mumford (The Guardian)Mike’s Santa Website“The Needs and Stories of Male Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, Exploitation and Human Trafficking” by Ena Lucia Mariaca Pacheco (Includes Table 12 & Table 13 as mentioned in the podcast; in Appendix 8, Mike is listed as CSEA Participant #2)Perry Power’s Facebook pagePrevious podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 81 - Interview with Dr Glenn Miles, PhDEpisode 61 - Live Interview with Cranford BlackmonEpisode 45 - Live Interview with Steven ProcopioMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Ena Lucia Mariaca Pacheco is a human security researcher and author, with focused expertise in child sexual abuse, exploitation, and trafficking. She holds two bachelor's degrees from the University of Ottawa and a master's degree in Human Security and Peacebuilding from Royal Roads University, Canada. For over a decade, she has worked at the intersection of government, civil society, international organizations, and law enforcement to advance research, policy development, and survivor-centered advocacy. Her work spans multiple global initiatives aimed at supporting victims and survivors of trafficking and child sexual exploitation.Ena Lucia has also contributed her expertise on the ground as a volunteer with non-governmental organizations operating in trafficking hotspots. During her time at the Canadian Parliament, she developed a data-tracking system that supported the drafting and passage of Bill C-310, strengthening Canada’s human trafficking legislation. Her research has also been used to inform the development of new bills, and “An Act to Amend the Criminal Code (Trafficking in Persons),” presented before the Standing Committee on Justice and Human Rights. An experienced trainer and international speaker, Ena Lucia has presented her research at global conferences and at the United Nations. She is a published researcher, with her work featured in Child Abuse & Neglect journal’s special issue on boys. She also co-led the first international conference dedicated to violence against men and boys.She is currently preparing forthcoming research publications that further explore child sexual exploitation, trafficking, and the often-overlooked experiences of male survivors, with a continued commitment to advancing survivor-informed policy, protection, and prevention.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.FULL Show Notes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tc1DHbGtjVarcZh9Jc59O5uULe0yntrNqkCmj382xf0/edit?usp=sharing

Rick is an ordained pastor who works in and oversees the recovery, support, & next steps ministries at his local church in Atlanta Georgia. He is a CCAR certified coach, a Husband Material certified coach, Trauma informed specialist, Certified peer counselor and pastoral staff counselor.Rick has had God help him overcome adversity through almost dying during birth, learning to walk a few years after birth, beating all the obstacles of that, plus later overcoming alcoholism & drug addiction, trauma and sexual brokenness that includes being a CSA survivor. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Rick’s Links:Website: Comeback CoachingLinks Mentioned:Movies mentiioned (links to JustWatch)A Christmas Carol (aka Scrooge; 1951)A Chritmas Story (1983)The Muppet Christmas Carol (1992)An American Christmas Carol (1979)Forrest Gump (1994)Easterseals (Disability & Community Services) Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Brandon Andres Green is a survivor, advocate, and faith-driven leader whose life was shaped by contrast — a polished public world and a hidden one beneath it. Raised in a loving Christian community, Brandon simultaneously carried the weight of childhood sexual trauma, mental health struggles, addiction, and an early drive toward entrepreneurship that drew him into the black-market underworld.Long before sex trafficking was widely understood, he was surviving it — living two lives at once until the cost became unsustainable. Today, as a husband and father, Brandon speaks openly about male trafficking, survival psychology, and the hidden paths that lead victims into exploitation. He now works internationally, teaching and ministering to hundreds still bound in modern slavery, and supporting victims of sex and labor trafficking across Africa and Asia.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Brandon’s Links:WebsiteFacebookYouTubeLink to Brandon’s YT Playlist showing the many Youtube videos about his painful story of being kidnapped and trafficked and left for dead.Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 57 - Forgiveness - Part 1 - James Gianakon’s podcast (Spotify)Episode 58 - Forgiveness - Part 2 - Panel Discussion - LIVE (Spotify)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Brandon Andres Green is a survivor, advocate, and faith-driven leader whose life was shaped by contrast — a polished public world and a hidden one beneath it. Raised in a loving Christian community, Brandon simultaneously carried the weight of childhood sexual trauma, mental health struggles, addiction, and an early drive toward entrepreneurship that drew him into the black-market underworld.Long before sex trafficking was widely understood, he was surviving it — living two lives at once until the cost became unsustainable. Today, as a husband and father, Brandon speaks openly about male trafficking, survival psychology, and the hidden paths that lead victims into exploitation. He now works internationally, teaching and ministering to hundreds still bound in modern slavery, and supporting victims of sex and labor trafficking across Africa and Asia.PART TWO posts next week!If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Brandon’s Links:WebsiteFacebookYouTubeLink to Brandon’s YT Playlist showing the many Youtube videos about his painful story of being kidnapped and trafficked and left for dead.Links Mentioned:The SOAP Project - (hosts retreats for male trafficking survivors and for female trafficking survivors among other anti-trafficking work)The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse: Inspiring Conversations on Hope, Love and Personal Growth by Charlie Mackesy (Amazon)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Jeff Reece is a 65-year-old retired South Carolina law enforcement officer of 30 years. Prior to his law enforcement career he worked on a dairy, a horse and Cattle ranch, and worked construction. He's been married to his wife for 25 years, has two sons and six grandkids. Jeff is a survivor of CSA and Sex Trafficking. He volunteers for Lighthouse For Life, an organization based in Columbia South Carolina that helps women get out of sex trafficking, and has been trained by the Association for the Recovery of Children and is now looking to join with Survivor Network North CarolinaIf you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Jeff’s Links:FacebookLinks Mentioned:Lighthouse for LifeAssociation for the Recovery of ChildrenSurvivor Network North CarolinaWikipedia: “Dissociative Amnesia”Wikipedia: "EMDR" (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing)Find A Grave (World’s largest gravesite collection.)Husband Material Podcast with Drew Boa (Spotify | Youtube)What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell) How To Heal Your Inner Child: Older Brother CoachingSouth Carolina Human Trafficking Task ForcePrevious HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 57 - Forgiveness - Part 1 - James Gianakon’s podcast (Spotify)Episode 58 - Forgiveness - Part 2 - Panel Discussion - LIVE (Spotify)Episode 86 - What is Brainspotting? (YouTube)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

In January 9th of this year (2026), Emmy-Award-winning actor Timothy Busfield (Field of Dreams, thirtysomething, The West Wing), husband of actor Melissa Gilbert (Little House on the Prairie) had an arrest warrant issued on allegations of child sex abuse involving 11-year-old twin boys on a TV production set in 2024 by New Mexico police.I am not going to discuss the merits of this case; instead, I want to talk about how the Hollywood Community has responded – in negative and positive ways – and what we can learn from it.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Links Mentioned:Timothy Busfield links/articles“Missing actor Timothy Busfield admitted it is ‘highly likely’ he touched kids on set amid child sex abuse probe, warrant reveals” (New York Post)”“Timothy Busfield and Melissa Gilbert: A complete relationship timeline” (New York Post)“Timothy Busfield Enters No Plea In First Court Appearance On Child Sex Abuse Charges” (Deadline)“Timothy Busfield's wife Melissa Gilbert, Thirtysomething costars offer 75 letters of support amid sex abuse claims” (Entertainment Weekly)“Melissa Gilbert’s Lifestyle Brand Issues Statement Amid Husband Timothy Busfield’s Child Sex Abuse Claims” (Us Weekly via Yahoo News)Modern Prairie Instagram Post Brian Peck/Drake Bell articlesQuiet on Set: The Dark Side of Kids TV (links to Max in the US)“Drake Bell details 'extensive' sexual abuse as child star by Nickelodeon dialogue coach Brian Peck”“Rehab Helped Drake Bell Overcome Abuse & Find His Voice” (Mayim Bialik's Breakdown podcast)“Breaking Free: Drake Bell Talks Trauma and His Truth” (The Man Enough Podcast)“Full interview: Drake Bell reflects on the aftermath of ‘Quiet on Set’ in TODAY exclusive” (The Today Show)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/live**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Today I wanted to talk about Brainspotting. I am a trained Brainspotting provider as part of my Life Coaching practice. To help you understand what Brainspotting is, I have included a recent training that Drew Boa provided with a recent Husband Material Conference (The Porn-Free Man) about Brainspotting. He describes the entire process from a Christian faith-based perspective, and how this treatment based on modern brain science does not contradict traditional biblical teachings. The training includes an actual pre-recorded demonstration (about 20 min.) of a Brainspotting session with ME in the hot seat. The training concludes with a 10 min. debrief with me and Drew about the session.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Links Mentioned:Husband Material Podcast with Drew Boa (Spotify | Youtube)Experience Healing Through Brainspotting (with Dr. David Grand) (Spotify | Youtube)Brainspotting: The Revolutionary New Therapy for Rapid and Effective Change by David Grand, PhD (Amazon)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

It's our annual Christmas episode! Today, I am going to share interviews with previous guests when we talk about "Four Questions," and one of those questions is "What is your favorite Christmas or Holiday Memory?" Those that mentioned Christmas or any other mentions of Christmas within any of the other 3 questions (only a few fit that category) are all included. Most of these interviews are Audio-Only, but I will share information about the speaker on the screen. I intersperse the audio interviews with the newer video interviews. This is the FIRST part. I will share part TWO next Christmas with even more clips of Christmas past - folks discussing their favorite Christmas memories. Enjoy and have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year - more NEW episodes & interviews will continue in January.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Previous podcast episodes mentioned (in order of appearance; contact info is within the show notes of each episode):  Episode 1 - My First Full Episode & My 4 Questions Episode 13 - Faith, Fandom, Cons & Cosplay, Part 2 (interview with Hector Miray)Episode 71 - VIDEO Live Interview with Jim FarringtonEpisode 17 - LIVE interview with Dr Douglas CarpenterEpisode 18 - LIVE Interview with Kevin BolgerEpisode 73 - VIDEO Live Interview with Sean WheelerEpisode 19 - Live interview with Luke Wiersma Episode 21 - Live interview with "Ed K"Episode 74 - 🎥 Interview with Scott McKellarEpisode 22 - Live Interview with Daniel Eichelberger Episode 23 - Live interview with Rocky PisorEpisode 78 - 🎥 Interview with Scott RalitzEpisode 24 - Live Interview with AJ VassarEpisode 25 - Live interview with “Roger M”Episode 80 - 🎥 LIVE Interview with Ken FreireMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Matthew Melvin is an author and activist from Massachusetts. He was diagnosed with autism while in high school which not only hindered his education and social interactions, it caused problems finding employment and the impulsivity led him to being incarcerated in the federal prison system in 2017 for nonviolent crimes. While in prison, he was sexually assaulted by another inmate. His first book is entitled: Bullied Behind Bars: A Gay Christian Trump Supporter Goes to Prison. He currently resides in Shelburne, Vermont. and is planning to share his story and his healing journey with us.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Matthew’s Links:WebsiteInstagramX/TwitterFacebookEmail: [email protected] Mentioned:Wikipedia: “Aryan Brotherhood”Champions in Christ Ministry (faith-based weekend retreats)Other Groups offering Men’s Healing Weekend RetreatsHusband Material Retreats (faith-based)Marked Men for Christ (faith-based)Edge Venture (faith-based)The Crucible Project (faith-based)MenHealing.org - non-religious healing weekends across the US for Male CSA SurvivorsThe Mankind Project (non-religious)Previous podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 1 - My First Full Episode & My 4 Questions Episode 76 - My Presentation at IHTSJ 2025Episode 81 - Interview with Dr Glenn Miles, PhDGlenn’s book Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Dave is a 40-something father of twins who grew up in southern New South Wales, Australia.He is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, which began at age 7 and continued between ages 11 and 13. After carrying this trauma in silence for over 32 years, he first disclosed it just over two years ago. Since then, Dave has been on a rollercoaster of a healing journey, recently receiving a diagnosis of Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) and learning what that means for his mental, emotional, and relational wellbeing. This journey has involved confronting painful memories, reclaiming his story by returning to his childhood hometown, and rebuilding trust and safety in his life. Part of Dave’s healing has also involved reclaiming back both his mind and physical body - through fitness, healthier eating, and connecting with supportive male communities. For the first time, he has experienced genuine safety and brotherhood through survivor groups, men’s retreats, and close friendships, and he now mentors younger men navigating similar journeys. Alongside his personal healing, Dave has recently stepped into child safety advocacy, collaborating with other survivors of childhood sexual abuse to advise various university research projects focused on safeguarding and abuse prevention within educational environments and community sport. Through sharing his story and contributing to meaningful change, he hopes to give voice, encouragement, and hope to others on their own healing journey.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.FULL Show Notes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CKA205Xu_Hm4WcTVapYCV9CheEE8JvQP22HzgZ9rOG0/edit?usp=sharing

John Comerford is a leading advocate for men who have experienced childhood sexual abuse and are living with the long-term effects of trauma. A survivor himself, John endured sexual abuse within the Catholic Education System and suffered in silence for over 40 years before a mental health crisis forced him to confront his past. Today, he has emerged as a powerful voice in men’s mental health, using his lived experience to support, empower, and inspire others. John’s first novel Tarzan Loves Jane was nominated for book of the year , and his co authored book Start Over was an international Amazon best seller.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.FULL Show Notes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1oDIO8KjE9uaazku6woRVRp2Qa58so9uaWI6dIOEgc3k/edit?usp=sharing

Glenn Miles PhD, is a Senior Researcher with up! International. He is on the board and the academic research advisor for the Chab Dai Butterfly ten-year Longitudinal Research Project which listens to the survivors of sex trafficking. He does independent research, advocacy, training and evaluation of programs. His current research interests include working with survivors of trafficking to uncover sexual exploitation of boys and young men including through the use of the internet in Thailand, familial sexual exploitation and trafficking of young men in the States, labour exploitation of children in tea plantations in Sri Lanka, child participation and service provision of children in Armenia,  He is an active member of the Global Association of Human Trafficking Scholars (GAHTS), and he is also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Glenn’s Links:WebsiteLinkedInCurriculum Vitaeup!up! Internationalup! CollectiveChab DaiWebsiteButterfly Longitudinal Research ProjectGlenn’s autoibiography, Embracing (Cwtch-ing) Me, God and Others (Amazon)Links Mentioned:Global Association of Human Trafficking Scholars (GAHTS)Wikipedia article on "Child labour in cocoa production"Perry PowerWebsiteFacebookPowerful BooksInternational Human Trafficking & Social Justice Conference (IHTSJ) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) - Wikipedia articleEMDR - Wikipedia articleEna Lucia Mariaca Pacheco, Researcher on Sexual Exploitation of Males (Linktree)Urban Light - ThailandDton NaamPrevious podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 41 - ACEs - Adverse Childhood ExperiencesFree PDF on ACEs includes the test and what the results meanNPR Article on ACEsWikipedia article on ACEsACEs Too High article on ACEsEpisode 76 - My Presentation at IHTSJ 2025Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

Ken Freire is a coach, entrepreneur, and host of the Shame(less) Podcast, where he helps Christian men overcome shame and addiction by pointing them back to Christ and their God-given purpose. After surviving childhood abuse and battling addiction, Ken now equips others kill shame, stand strong, and be on mission. He also leads Solo:Scaled were he helps coaches scale their business without burnout or headcount.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Ken’s Links:Shame(less) podcastSolo:ScaledScriptures.Bloghttps://kenfreire.com/Links Mentioned:Prosperity Theology (aka Proesperity Gospel; Wikipedia)Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):  Episode 57 - Forgiveness - Part 1 - James Gianakon’s podcastEpisode 58 - Forgiveness - Part 2 - Panel Discussion - LIVEHusband Material Podcast with Drew Boa (Spotify | Youtube)From Shame to Identity in Christ (with Ken Freire) (Spotify | Youtube)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

#MSAD #MSAD2025 #MaleSurvivorAwarenessDay #MaleSurvivorAwarenessDay2025 #MenToo #1in6In today's special episode, to honor Male Survivor Awareness Day 2025, which is recognized in the US on October 25 each year, I wanted to replay the Video Recording I did to honor the first Male Survivor Awareness Day in 2022 of a live event I hosted within the Husband Material Community which was recorded and resulted in a Husband Material Podcast episode. The Audio from the episode was used on *This* podcast for episodes 5, 6 & 7. This time I am making 1 long (almost 2 hour!) video of the event.  The event was the result of efforts by myself, Drew Boa, Dr. Doug Carpenter, with many contributions from Survivors within the Husband Material Community who submitted poetry and other items to be shared, some live, some previously recorded and some read by others. There was also a time for Questions and Answers by the live Zoom audience. The goal for this event (and the “Day” in total) was to help non-survivors understand and work with survivors to help support them on their healing journeys..If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.FULL Show Notes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1yvsTf84TxY-oIJoRMVyM6XPWNQeB8BHoq98OgBGzREk/edit?usp=sharing

Scott was born and raised in Central Wisconsin. Last year he and his wife, Dorothy, celebrated 40 years of marriage. While they lived 12 years as missionaries overseas, they now have moved back home to be near extended family. It's been only since 2020 that he started to dig deeper into his past trauma, including childhood sexual abuse, that had buried. Much of it was forgotten and some was just pushed aside with the “help” of spiritual bypass.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Links Mentioned:Husband Material Podcast with Drew Boa (Spotify | Youtube)What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell) (Spotify | Youtube)How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method - Part 1 (Spotify | Youtube)How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method - Part 2 (Spotify | Youtube)Interview with Mary Knight on the “False Memory Syndrome Foundation” and how they battle against the truth of survivors of childhood sex trafficking:”Mary Knight - Am I Crazy? The False Memory Syndrome Foundation's War on Survivor Disclosures” (The Imagination Podcast)Eight Threat Responses (Fight, Flight, Freeze, etc.; graphic via Facebook)Pure Desire Podcast (Spotify | Youtube)MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & moreLearn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Mike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

I wanted to update my listeners on the Erik & Kyle Menéndez case that I mentioned in Episodes 47, 63, 68, & 75In addition, I wanted to update my listeners on the controversy on the mutiple Sexual Assault victims who were part of Ohio State University Atheltics and Sexually Assaulted by the Team Physician.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.FULL Show Notes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1bp_ZzGcOAcvb8oKQHPKgzKk_m96U_lZoJcD0T5B_eWY/edit?usp=sharing

This is a pre-recorded presentation I shared at the International Human Trafficking & Social Justice Conference [https://www.traffickingconference.com/] September 17-19, 2025. My presentation is entitled "Family-Controlled Sex Trafficking of Young Boys: One Survivor’s Healing Journey" talking about my experience of being sex trafficked as a child.This is my story of being a victim of Family-Controlled Sex Trafficking at the hands of my father in the early 1970s in my home state of Oregon. I also discuss my Healing Journey which has led me to my involvement with Husband Material, Life Coaching and Anti-Trafficking advocacy..If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.FULL Show Notes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RjbQngABXu0LuqTr7w44sqbsBXZVAD5CiDFViQC31lg/edit?usp=sharing

I wanted to update my listeners on the Erik & Kyle Menéndez case that I mentioned in Episodes 47, 63, & 68In addition, I wanted to update my listeners on the new “Take It Down Act” signed into law in the US to help fight Revenge Porn, including those generated via Artificial Intellegence.I also wanted to share aboutthe recent controversy with former lead singer, Michael Tait, from the Contemporary Christian Band “Newsboys”.Also a quick update on the podcast itself.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Links Mentioned - Menéndez:Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):  Episode 47 - Three Word Challenge Update & The Lyle and Erik Menéndez Case UpdateEpisode 63 - Update on the Menéndez case & my recent Charlotte interviewEpisode 68 - Update on Leaving Neverland II, the Menéndez case & my own Healing Journey New Article: “Menendez Brothers Resentenced to Life With Parole, Paving Way for Freedom”. (from May 2025; NY Times) Article with a good explanation of the current state of the Menéndez case. (from April 2025; BBC)CourtTV Video Archive: CA v. MENENDEZ (1993) (121 parts)Peacock Documentary Series (2023): Menendez + Menudo: Boys Betrayed Netflix Docudrama Series (2024): Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story Netflix Documentary (2024): The Menendez BrothersLA Times Article (05/2023): Ex-Menudo star accuses boy band founder of sexual assault. Now the LAPD is investigatingReal Crime Profile Podcast (discussing the case and how it relates to all CSA cases; Spotify): Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 l Part 4 | Part 5 | Part 6Deadline.com articles:Menendez Brothers Resentencing Supported By L.A. DA; George Gascón Sets Press Conference For This Afternoon On Ryan Murphy Spotlighted CaseMenendez Brothers Eligible For Possible Immediate Parole As L.A. DA Recommends Resentencing; Judge Will Consider Case Next MonthLos Angeles District Attorney Gascón’s Press Conference on the Menendez Sentencing Reconsideration (from Oct., 2024; links to YouTube) Links Mentioned - The Take It Down Act:“President Trump signs Take It Down Act, addressing nonconsensual deepfakes. What is it?” (from May 2025; Associated Press)Links Mentioned - Michael Tait/Newsboys:“K-LOVE pulls Newsboys, DC Talk amid sexual misconduct allegations against Michael Tait” (from June 2025; The Christian Post)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/live**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Scott McKellar is a 54 year old man from Australia. He is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and bullying.  He currently works as an Uber Eats driver and does volunteer work with men dealing with mental health issues.If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Sean’s Contact Information and recommended linksTelling My Story: The Healing Journey (2022) (20 stories of recovery from a group of men who have shared their stories and begun their healing journey, including Scott - under the name “Lance McKellar”)Back on Track 2011 (Youtube; interviews of several Australian Male CSA Survivors, Scott is in the background of many group scenes but not interviewed)GROW (a community-based organisation that has helped thousands of Australians with their recovery from mental ill-health through a unique program of mutual support and personal development.)ParkRun (free, weekly, international running events)The Men’s Table: Men Serving Men (Australia - a safe place to share and be heard in a confidential and non-judgemental environment, creating a greater sense of belonging, camaraderie and connection.)The Mental Health Foundation Australia (MHFA) (the oldest community-based non-government mental health organisation in Australia, serving the community since 1930)Other Links Mentioned:Millstone: “But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea.” Matthew 18:6 (NLT)“But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone hung around your neck.” Mark 9:42 (NLT)“It would be better to be thrown into the sea with a millstone hung around your neck than to cause one of these little ones to fall into sin.” Luke 17:2 (NLT)Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse by Mike Lew (links to Amazon)Strive To Be Kind DayMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Sean Wheeler is a survivor of pre-teen sex trafficking for almost five years. During that time he was used in child sexual abuse material. While his family moved away from that area, other abusers would find him until age 19 when he determined to no longer be used.  In 2018 Sean founded Starfish Ministries in Colorado to provide a voice for boys in the public arena. He works directly with several other organizations and has been involved in lobbying Congress for pending legislation approval. He provides HT 101 and above trauma-informed training. Sean is also ordained and works in the prison ministry, even with convicted sex offenders. He has been interviewed on 100 Huntley Street in Toronto and the 700 Club. His story has been told in Psychology Today and other publications. Today over 6 million people world wide have heard his story.If you want to see the VIDEO version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Sean’s Contact InformationStarfish Ministries ColoradoFacebookYoutube (includes full video of several of his past interviews, including The 700 Club)100 Huntley Street interview - Part 1|Part 2The 700 Club interviewEmail: [email protected] Mentioned:100 Huntley Street (Wikipedia)The 700 Club (Wikipedia)Reassessing Male Sex Trafficking Statistics: A survivor tells why men don’t report what happened - Psychology Today (interview with Sean Wheeler)PACT: Protect All Children from TraffickingSara’s LawTranscript: US Senate Judiciary Committee Hearing on "Big Tech and the Online Child Sexual Exploitation Crisis" (Jan 31, 2024; TechPolicy.press)DreamCenterOther Helpful Links:Previous HFMS podcast episodes (links to Spotify):  Episode 57 - Forgiveness - Part 1 - James Gianakon’s podcastEpisode 58 - Forgiveness - Part 2 - Panel Discussion - LIVE“Child Sexual Abuse Material” vs “Child Pornography” - (US Dept of Justice)“The one unforgivable sin” (Wikipedia)Demonic Opression vs. Demonic Possession (GotAnswers.org)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Today's topic is the overuse and misuse of prescription medications on CSA survivors and victims. Today’s panel includes 2 former podcast guests: Michael Skinner & Robert ManiscalcoIf you want to see the VIDEO version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.More about the panelists:Previous podcast interviews with Luke, Richard & Cranford (links to Spotify; contact info is within the show notes of each episode): Episode 54 - Live Interview with Michael SkinnerEpisode 67 - Live Interview with Robert ManiscalcoPrevious podcast episodes mentioned:  Episode 41 - ACEs - Adverse Childhood ExperiencesFree PDF on ACEs includes the test and what the results meanNPR Article on ACEsWikipedia article on ACEsACEs Too High article on ACEsOther Links Mentioned:“Misdiagnosed and Over-Medicated” by Emily Larson - CPTSD FoundationOprah's "200 Men Come Forward" television event is available to watch for FREE (as of 12/31/24) on Oprah.com: (FYI, auto-captioning is provided but they edit out ALL sexual terms with " **** ", even minor ones, making it hard to follow)Watch PART 1 hereWatch PART 2 here (preview only - full episode is not available)TEXT SUMMARY of PART 2Darkness to Light (End Child Sexual Abuse)John Briere (Google Search)SUDS: Subjective Units of Distress Scale (Wikipedia; “on a scale of 0-10, how strong are you feeling ______”)Michael Skinner’s Surviving SpiritMad in AmericaCelebrate Recovery (faith-based 12-step group; links to website; local affiliates listed)Seneca the Younger (Wikipedia)De Tranquillitate Animi (Wikipedia;  “The tranquility of the mind”)Dialectical behavior therapy (Wikipedia)The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships by Patrick J Carnes, PhD (Amazon)Other Helpful Links:The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (links to Amazon)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Jim Farrington is survivor and is also a men’s minister with First Stone Ministries, which will be 50 years old in January 2026, First Stone specializes in the area of sexual and relational redemption, proclaiming that freedom is not found in a method or a program but in the person of Jesus Christ. Jim does Pastoral Care with men who deal with sexual and relational brokenness and is also the coordinator of the in-person  Be Steadfast Parents Support Group for families impacted by lgbt and also leads their newest Be Steadfast Online Parent Support Group that is serving families all over the US and in Canada.If you want to see the VIDEO version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Jim’s Contact InformationFirst Stone MinistriesEmail: [email protected] Mentioned:Corrie ten Boom (Wikipedia)Living Waters Husband Material Podcast episodes about sexual abuse (links to YouTube):Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire (interview with Dr. Doug Carpenter)A Grace-Based Approach To Sexual Recovery (with Jonathan Daugherty)Word (of Knowledge) (Wikipedia)Husband Material Retreat in Colorado - next date: Sept 5-9, 2025 (Western Georgia retreat is tentatively scheduled for Spring 2026)Previous HFMS podcast episodes (links to Spotify):  Episode 31 - Live interview with Dan CarlsonEpisode 16 - 200 Men Came Forward (Oprah 200)Episode 54 - Live Interview with Michael Skinner (Oprah 200 alumni)Episode 67 - Live Interview with Robert Maniscalco (Oprah 200 alumni)Living FreeSy Rogers (Wikipedia)Portland FellowshipPF’s “Reach Truth” programHarvest USATeen ChallengeFight the New DrugOther Helpful Links:Article on Family Circus and the “Dotted Line” (NPR)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

“Peter W.,” who recently turned 60, has been married for over 36 years and has three children. He has struggled with depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts for many years and sought help at a residential program two years ago. During his time in the program, he opened up for the first time about a sexual assault he experienced at age 26. While he has been working through this trauma in therapy, he was recently assaulted again. Since then, other incidents triggered repressed memories of childhood sexual abuse. Despite these challenges, Peter is in recovery and hopes that sharing his story will help others.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Links Mentioned:A Christmas Story (1983) (JustWatch) Alcoholics Anonymous (links to website; local affiliates listed)Celebrate Recovery (faith-based 12-step group; links to website; local affiliates listed)Other Helpful Links:Previous HFMS podcast episodes (links to Spotify):  Episode 68 - Update on Leaving Neverland II, the Menéndez case & my own Healing JourneyMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Alex Abraham has spent years researching, exploring, and experiencing firsthand the therapeutic treatment options for healing from childhood sexual abuse. Psychedelics and integration therapy forever changed his life. When not educating other survivors about the benefits of psychedelics, Alex enjoys traveling the world and experiencing new foods. A connoisseur of food truck fare, he lives in Austin, Texas.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Contact info for Alex:Website: Trauma & EcstasyTrauma and Ecstasy: How Psychedelics Made My Life Worth Living (Amazon)LinkedInInstagramOther Links Mentioned:Olive, The Other Reinsdeer (1999) (Youtube)Pelvic Floor (Wikipedia)Time Ferriss (Wikipedia)Tucker Max (Wikipedia)MDMA-assisted psychotherapy (Wikipedia)The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (links to Amazon)EMDR (Wikipedia)Other Helpful Links:“Five Things to Know About MDMA-Assisted Psychotherapy for PTSD” (Mt. Sinai Physician’s Channel)Previous HFMS podcast episodes (links to Spotify):  Episode 68 - Update on Leaving Neverland II, the Menéndez case & my own Healing JourneyMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

I wanted to update listeners on the follow-up to the HBO/Max documentary “Leaving Neverland”In addition, I wanted to update my listeners on the Erik & Kyle Menéndez case that I mentioned in Episodes 47 & 63I also wanted to share about my own personal Healing Journey especially after attending a Regional Men’s Retreat where I got triggered.Links Mentioned - Leaving Neverland II:Leaving Neverland (full 4-hour movie; JustWatch page, includes International Viewing Options)Leaving Neverland (in 2 parts; JustWatch page)Oprah Winfrey Presents: After Neverland (Oprah.com | YouTube)Leaving Neverland II (YouTube)Leaving Neverland II (JustWatch page, includes International Viewing Options)Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):  Episode 20 - Live - Podcast Review: “Think Twice: Michael Jackson”Think Twice: Michael Jackson podcast (Amazon | Spotify)How to Recognize Coercive Control (Healthline)Links Mentioned - Menéndez:Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):  Episode 47 - Three Word Challenge Update & The Lyle and Erik Menéndez Case UpdateEpisode 63 - Update on the Menéndez case & my recent Charlotte interviewNew Article with a good explanation of the current state of the Menéndez case. (BBC)CourtTV Video Archive: CA v. MENENDEZ (1993) (121 parts)Peacock Documentary Series (2023): Menendez + Menudo: Boys Betrayed Netflix Docudrama Series (2024): Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story Netflix Documentary (2024): The Menendez BrothersLA Times Article (05/2023): Ex-Menudo star accuses boy band founder of sexual assault. Now the LAPD is investigatingReal Crime Profile Podcast (discussing the case and how it relates to all CSA cases; Spotify): Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 l Part 4 | Part 5 | Part 6Deadline.com articles:Menendez Brothers Resentencing Supported By L.A. DA; George Gascón Sets Press Conference For This Afternoon On Ryan Murphy Spotlighted CaseMenendez Brothers Eligible For Possible Immediate Parole As L.A. DA Recommends Resentencing; Judge Will Consider Case Next MonthLos Angeles District Attorney Gascón’s Press Conference on the Menendez Sentencing Reconsideration (from Oct., 2024; links to YouTube) Links Mentioned - Menéndez:Kintsugi Bowls - (links to Wikipedia)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Robert Maniscalco is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and has been a professional creative his entire adult life. Born in 1959 in Detroit, he has lived in New York, New Orleans and currently in Charleston. His commission portraits and fine art are part of over a thousand collections throughout North America. In Detroit he hosted Artbeat on PBS and founded the Maniscalco Gallery. As a fine artist, he likes to work in multiple series. Perhaps his most enduring series is that of a commission portrait artist, immortalizing Supreme Court Justices as well as children and families. Robert blogs on a wide range of subjects and written three other books, The Fishly and Point of Art. His fourth book, an Amazon #1 bestseller, is a full color drawing/painting method, called The Power of Positive Painting. He is an actor/director, writer/playwright, musician/composer and teacher, a former Adjunct Professor of fine art and theatre at Charleston Southern University and drawing illustration at the College for Creative Studies in Detroit. Robert has expanded his creative milieu to include courtroom sketching, covering the Dylann Roof and Michael Slager trials in Charleston. His multi-disciplinary play, Vincent John Doe, received its world premiere, to rave reviews, during the 2018 and 2019 Piccolo Spoleto Festivals. He is now a regular exhibitor in the Piccolo Spoleto Outdoor Art Exhibition. Robert was also one of the 200 audience members on Oprah Winfrey’s groundbreaking episode on male childhood sexual abuse.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Contact info for Robert:The Maniscalco Gallery WebsiteFacebookFacebook - Artist PageYoutubeBooks (Amazon)The Obstacle Course of my Life - Maniscalco GalleryComedy Bits (Youtube):More Comedy BitsTake My WifeRidiculousnessVincent John Doe (new Play with CSA Themes)Other Links Mentioned:Jack Van Impe (Wikipedia)Speaking in Tongues (Wikipedia)Baptism with the Holy Spirit (Wikipedia)Secular Humanism (Wikipedia)“You only fail when you stop trying” - Thomas Edison (GoodReads)Previous HFMS podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):  Episode 16 - 200 Men Came ForwardEpisode 54 - Live Interview with Michael Skinner Oprah's "200 Men Come Forward" TV event:Watch PART 1 hereWatch PART 2 here (preview only)TEXT SUMMARY of PART 2EMDR (Wikipedia)Exposure Therapy (Wikipedia)PTSD - Symptoms & Causes (links to Mayo Clnic)Don Harvey (IMDB)Darkness to Light (End Child Sexual Abuse)Tyler Perry (Wikipedia)Primal Therapy (Wikipedia)Gordon Teichner, Ph.D., ABPPThe Last Judgment (Wikipedia)Dylann Roof (wikipedia)Other Helpful Links:Groups offering Men’s Healing Weekend RetreatsMarked Men for Christ (faith-based)Edge Venture (faith-based)The Crucible Project (faith-based) Brothers Road (multi-faith)Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Louis Romano is a parent of a CSA Survivor and a best-selling author of 21 novels, including Intercession and Besa. A crossover artist who has written true crime fiction, crime historic fiction, and one young adult bookSuicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.Contact info for Kyle:The Official Louis Romano WebsiteLinks to order all of Louis Romano’s books from his websiteLinks to order all of Louis Romano’s books via AmazonOther Links Mentioned:“Half Moon Restaurant” - Facebook threadMillstone: “But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea.” Matthew 18:6 (NLT)“But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone hung around your neck.” Mark 9:42 (NLT)“It would be better to be thrown into the sea with a millstone hung around your neck than to cause one of these little ones to fall into sin.” Luke 17:2 (NLT) Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):  Episode 60 - Live Interview with Richard WindmannRoad to Recovery - Hope and Healing for Surviviors of Sexual AbuseMitchell Garabedian - attorney, featured in the movie, Spotlight (2015)Calumny - noun - Injuring another person's good name by lying. (Catholic Dictionary)Lucky Luciano (Wikipedia)Cardinal Timothy M. Dolan (Wikipedia)Other Helpful Links:MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & moreMenHealing.org - non-religious healing weekends across the US for Male CSA Survivors & moreMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

We have previously talked about disclosure and why it is difficult for male survivors to disclose to anyone about the trauma they experienced. With that in mind, we discuss how to make male survivors feel safe and comfortable enough to share their stories.More about the panelists:Previous podcast interviews with Luke, Richard & Cranford (links to Spotify; contact info is within the show notes of each episode): Episode 19 - Live interview with Luke WiersmaEpisode 61 - Live Interview with Cranford BlackmonEpisode 60 - Live Interview with Richard WindmannPrevious podcast episodes mentioned:  (Male Survivor Awareness Day) MSAD 2023 - “Disclosure”Husband Material Video Podcast (links to YouTube)Husband Material Audio Podcast (links to Spotify)Episode 9 - PLC/Healing for Male Survivor Podcast - Part 1 (links to Spotify)Episode 10 - PLC/Healing for Male Survivor Podcast - Part 2 (links to Spotify)Episode 11 - PLC/Healing for Male Survivor Podcast - Part 3 (links to Spotify)Other Links Mentioned:MaleSurvivor.org - has an online discussion board for survivors & moreCelebrate Recovery (faith-based 12-step group; links to website; local affiliates listed)Movie: That’s My Boy (2012) (links to JustWatch)Ricky Gervais (Wikipedia)Other Helpful Links:Video: Sexual Assault of Men Played for Laughs - Part 1 Male Perpetrators (YouTube)Video: Sexual Assault of Men Played for Laughs - Part 2 Female Perpetrators (YouTube)Mike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Kyle Drossel is a 31-year-old man who has been through a lot. He recently found his way back to God, and that has helped him feel more at peace. He likes to spend his free time hiking and running, which helps him clear his head. But Kyle still struggles with relationships because of something that happened to him when he was 13. The assistant fire chief of Sheboygan Falls, Wisconsin, someone he trusted, sexually assaulted him. This experience led Kyle down a bad path of using drugs and alcohol, but he's happy to say that he's sober now. He wants to help others who have gone through similar things, so he started a group called "Breaking the Silence." Kyle's goal is to help men feel comfortable talking about their problems and getting help. He hopes that by sharing his story, he can inspire others to do the same and create a community where men can support each other. Kyle also wants to spread awareness about the dangers of turning to drugs and alcohol as a way to cope with trauma, and he hopes that his story can help prevent others from going down the same path he did.Contact info for Kyle:FacebookFacebook Group: “Breaking the Silence”Other Links Mentioned:Article on Family Circus and the “Dotted Line” (NPR)Safe Harbor of Sheboygan County Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):  Episode 47 - Three Word Challenge Update & The Lyle and Erik Menéndez Case UpdateEpisode 63 - Update on the Menéndez case & my recent Charlotte interviewOther Helpful Links:MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & moreMenHealing.org - non-religious healing weekends across the US for Male CSA Survivors & moreMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

I wanted to update my listeners on the Erik & Kyle Menéndez case that I mentioned in Episode 47 I also wanted to share my thoughts and reflections on a recent interview I did with a local TV news station about my personal journey (including the highs and lows of the interview process).Links Mentioned - Menéndez: Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):   Episode 47 - Three Word Challenge Update & The Lyle and Erik Menéndez Case Update Article with a good explanation of the current state of the Menéndez case. CourtTV Video Archive: CA v. MENENDEZ (1993) (121 parts) Peacock Documentary Series (2023): Menendez + Menudo: Boys Betrayed  Netflix Docudrama Series (2024): Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story  Netflix Documentary (2024): The Menendez Brothers LA Times Article (05/2023): Ex-Menudo star accuses boy band founder of sexual assault. Now the LAPD is investigating Real Crime Profile Podcast (discussing the case and how it relates to all CSA cases; Spotify): Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 l Part 4 | Part 5 | Part 6 Deadline.com articles: Menendez Brothers Resentencing Supported By L.A. DA; George Gascón Sets Press Conference For This Afternoon On Ryan Murphy Spotlighted Case Menendez Brothers Eligible For Possible Immediate Parole As L.A. DA Recommends Resentencing; Judge Will Consider Case Next Month Los Angeles District Attorney Gascón’s Press Conference on the Menendez Sentencing Reconsideration (from Oct., 2024; links to YouTube) Links Mentioned - Charlotte Interview: Article/Interview with WSOC (Charlotte, NC - ABC Affiliate) “Man trafficked by his own father raising awareness for overlooked cases”Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/live**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Johnny Braun is a 21 year old who grew up as a Mennonite in Canada and is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse . He is still working on recovery and full understanding of his past but he is also helping other people who have experienced trauma work through their own struggles.Contact info for Johnny: InstagramOther Links Mentioned: Men’s Encounter - Ontario (weekend Christian men’s healing retreats) No Longer Ashamed - Podcast (Spotify) Episode 140 - Interview with Johnny Braun (Spotify) MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more Previous HFMSwMC podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):   Episode 55 - Live Interview with Dr. Mark Barber MenHealing.org - non-religious healing weekends across the US for Male CSA Survivors & moreOther Helpful Links: Edge Venture (faith-based weekend retreats) Marked Men for Christ (faith-based weekend retreats) Edge Venture (faith-based weekend retreats) Brothers Road (multi-faith weekend retreats) ManKind Project (New Warrior Training Adventure) (non-religious weekend retreats) Noble Man (non-religious 3.5-day retreats)  The Crucible Project (faith-based weekend retreats) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries:https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Cranford Blackmon is a former Air Force officer, Federal Agent, police officer, and Army soldier. He is also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, family-controlled trafficking, satanic ritual abuse & mind control. Now he speaks and teaches to support male survivors of childhood sexual abuse, prevent violence, empower survivors, and support organizations serving survivors. He believes that with education and empowerment, violence against women, children, and indigenous populations can become a thing of the past. From his years of law enforcement and military service, Cranford developed his FemVincible program for women that he designed to work for women of any size, shape, age, or disability. He is currently developing a program to support boys and men who were abused, molested, or trafficked as children.Contact info for Cranford: FemVincible/LaBCaF website  Facebook YouTube Podcast (Spotify) LinkTree LinkedInOther Links Mentioned: Secret Shame: A Survivor's Guide To Understanding Male Sexual Abuse And Male Sexual Development - by Dr. Doug Carpenter (Amazon) The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis (Amazon) Previous HFMS podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):   Episode 41 - ACEs - Adverse Childhood ExperiencesOther Helpful Links: Wikipedia: Gaither Vocal Band Millstone:  “But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea.” Matthew 18:6 (NLT) “But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone hung around your neck.” Mark 9:42 (NLT) “It would be better to be thrown into the sea with a millstone hung around your neck than to cause one of these little ones to fall into sin.” Luke 17:2 (NLT) Wikipedia: Star Trek International Human Trafficking & Social Justice Conference Ena Lucia Mariaca Pacheco - Researcher on Male Sexual Abuse & Male Child Sex Trafficking (Linktree)Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries:https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Richard Windmann, Ph.D. is a survivor of childhood sex abuse and sex trafficking from the age of 7 until 17. He estimates that he's been raped by hundreds, if not over a thousand men during that 10 year period. After doing advocacy work with SNAP, 5 years ago he started his own advocacy Nonprofit 501(c)(3) called "Survivors of Childhood Sex Abuse” (SCSA), which currently has over 37,000 members worldwide. SCSA offers peer-led support meetings, one-on-one consultations, mental health and legal referrals, in addition to championing Statute of Limitations eliminations with legislative lookback windows. The first law passed was in Louisiana, where the Catholic Church challenged the law up to the LA Supreme Court and was upheld. Richard graduated from Loyola University College of Law School in 2022, as a Distinguished Fellow.Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or athttps://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find athttps://findahelpline.com/. Contact info for Richard:SCSA - Survivors of Childhood Sex AbuseOther Links Mentioned:Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests - SNAPScouts Honor: The Secret Files of the Boy Scouts of America - Netflix (documentary featuring Richard’s story of being trafficked by his New Orleans scout troop)Article on New Orleans Boy Scout Sex Trafficking ringArticle on Hope Haven Abuse historyWikipedia: Penn State child sex abuse scandal (includes Sandusky)The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) Other Helpful Links:Wikipedia: Evel KnievelLeave No Trace - Hulu (documentary about sex abuse within the Boy Scouts)Wikipedia: List of disability-related terms with negative connotations (includes “moron”)“I am still every age that I have ever been” - Madeleine L'EngleWikipedia: “Whiskey Lullaby” sung by Brad Paisley (Richard played Acoustic Guitar for this recording)Wikipedia: EMDRWikipedia: Ego-State TherapyWikipedia: Hillsong Church (includes info on the child sex abuses)Wikipedia: Seasonal Affective DisorderMike Chapman’s links:Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREEInfo onJoining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid)Learn more aboutHusband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsAppMike’s WebsiteSchedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with MikeMike’s StoryIf you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at: PolarLifeConsulting.com/livePlease Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting.**Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review.DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries:https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Marcus Spaur is a Certified Recovery Coach, a Certified Inner Child Recovery Process Specialist, a Brainspotting Practitioner, and is a life & recovery coach with Between the Covers Coaching. He is a podcast host with the Between the Covers Podcast with Marcus Spaur with the theme of getting into people's stories to help them become the heroes in their own story. He is also a survivor of non-contact sexual abuse.  Contact info for Marcus: Website: www.betweenthecoverscoaching.com Podcast: Between the Covers Podcast with Marcus Spaur (Spotify | Youtube) Marcus’ interview of me (Spotify | Youtube) Facebook: Between the Covers Other Links Mentioned: Pure Desire Ministries Conquer Series Podcasts Episodes with Drew Boa Covenant Eyes X3watch Avenue Husband Material Podcast Husband Material Podcast with Drew Boa (Spotify | Youtube) Compassion For My Face: HMA Psychodrama Example (feat. Marcus & Mike) (Spotify | Youtube) Altogether You: Experiencing personal and spiritual transformation with Internal Family Systems therapy by Jenna Riemersma (Amazon) Google Image Search for “Feelings Wheel” Brainspotting  Wikipedia article YouTube video describing the process Other Helpful Links: Wikipedia article on “Japanese Swords in fiction” (includes a section on Sakabatō) Wikipedia article on Himura Kenshin  Edge Venture (faith-based weekend retreats) Marked Men for Christ (faith-based weekend retreats) Wikipedia article on Dungeons & Dragons Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

This is week 2 on my series on Forgiveness - what it means for a survivor to forgive the perpetrators. In part 1, we went through a recent podcast episode by my friend & colleague James Gianakon on his Imago Dei Recovery podcast where he shares key principles on forgiveness.  This week, in part 2, I host a panel discussion on forgiveness and what it means for survivors. More about the panelists: Previous podcast interviews with Kevin and Daniel (links to Spotify; contact info is within the show notes of each episode):  Episode 18 - Live Interview with Kevin Bolger Episode 22 - Live Interview with Daniel Eichelberger  Contact info for Richard Windmann (interview coming in a few weeks): SCSA - Survivors of Childhood Sex Abuse Scouts Honor: The Secret Files of the Boy Scouts of America - Netflix (documentary featuring Richard’s story of being trafficked by his New Orleans scout troop) Previous podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):   Episode 34 - Panel: Keeping kids safe (w/Daniel) Episode 42 - Panel: Triggers (w/Daniel) Episode 43 - MSAD 2024 Live Event - Panel: Healing - Part 1 (w/Kevin) Episode 44 - MSAD 2024 Live Event - Panel: Healing - Part 2 (w/Kevin) Episode 48 - Holiday Triggers (w/Daniel) Other Links Mentioned: Leave No Trace - Hulu (documentary about sex abuse within the Boy Scouts) 21Then Peter came to him and asked, “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?” 22 “No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven!” (Matthew 18:21-22; NLT) “Forgive and Forget” – Shakespeare quotes this 4 times Oprah Winfrey quote on Forgiveness Husband Material Podcast with Drew Boa - episodes (links to Youtube): What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

For the next 2 episodes I will talk on forgiveness - what it means for a survivor to forgive the perpetrators. In part 1, I go through a recent podcast episode by my friend & colleague James Gianakon on his Imago Dei Recovery podcast where he shares key principles on forgiveness.  Next week, in part 2, I will host a panel discussion on forgiveness and what it means for survivors. Contact info for James Gianakon: Imago Dei Recovery Podcast (Spotify | Youtube) Episode on Forgiveness Part 1 (Spotify | Youtube) Episode on Forgiveness Part 2 (Spotify | Youtube) Other Links Mentioned: 21Then Peter came to him and asked, “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?” 22 “No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven!” (Matthew 18:21-22; NLT) “Forgive and Forget” – Shakespeare quotes this 4 times Oprah Winfrey quote on Forgiveness Husband Material Podcast with Drew Boa - episodes (links to Youtube): What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell) How To Heal Your Inner Child: Older Brother Coaching Compassion For My Face: HMA Psychodrama Example Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Wikipedia article Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Dr. Russell Stagg is a trauma therapist specializing in sexual abuse and sexual assault. He has master's degrees in counseling psychology and Jewish studies (chaplaincy). He has been counseling since 2013, with psychotherapy licenses in three Canadian provinces. Before entering private practice, Russell was the Resident Chaplain for the Emergency, Intensive Care, and Burn Units at Calgary Foothills Hospital in Calgary, Canada; and the Jewish Chaplain at the University of Calgary. His articles on trauma recovery have appeared in major psychology journals, and his research in various fields has been cited over 4,000 times in academic publications. His knowledge of child sexual abuse and addictions comes from his training, his clients—and his personal experience. Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.  Contact info for Russell Stagg: Email: [email protected] One in Six: A Man's Guide to Overcoming Childhood Sexual Abuse by Russell Stagg (Amazon) Website #1 - Russell’s book info: http://russellauthor.ca  Website #2 - Russell’s therapy pratice: https://russelltherapy.ca Other Links Mentioned: Adult Children of Abusive Parents: A Healing Program for Those Who Have Been Physically, Sexually, or Emotionally Abused by Steven Farmer (links to Amazon) The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis (Amazon) Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse by Mike Lew (Amazon) The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (Amazon) MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more Other Helpful Links: Wikipedia article on Rabbi Isaac Luria USA’s CDC - The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (Wikipedia) UK’s National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC) (Wikipedia) PTSD - Symptoms & Causes (Mayo Clnic) EMDR - (Wikipedia) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - (Wikipedia) The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) CDC’s National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Dr. Mark Barber is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and trauma. A majority of his abuse occurred in the church. Mark began an earnest search towards wholeness 20 years ago. The healing journey has included battles with PTSD, anxiety, SSA, isolation and working to have a healthy understanding of God. He is currently a board certified family physician working for the University of Texas. He has been married for 37 years, has 4 adult children and 6 grandchildren. He is involved with multiple emotional healing organizations including Brothers Road, Husband Material, and Edge Venture. He has played keyboards/piano for worship teams since childhood. He is also an avid gardener.    Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/.  Other Links Mentioned: Edge Venture (faith-based weekend retreats; links to website) Brothers Road (multi-faith weekend retreats; links to website) ManKind Project (New Warrior Training Adventure) (non-religious weekend retreats; links to website) Noble Man (non-religious 3.5-day retreats; links to website)  Chris Tomlin - Wikipedia article Back Pocket Comb - (links to a picture on Pinterest) Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors: Overcoming Internal Self-Alienation by Janina Fisher (links to Amazon) Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Wikipedia article Spock - Wikipedia article  Psychodrama - Wikipedia article Integration and Self Healing: Affect, Trauma, Alexithymia by Henry Krystal (links to Amazon) PTSD - Symptoms & Causes (links to Mayo Clnic) MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more (links to website) Previous HFMS podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):   Episode 41 - ACEs - Adverse Childhood Experiences Episode 52 - Panel: PTSD Husband Material Podcast with Drew Boa - episodes (links to Youtube): Theology of the Penis Theology of the Testicles Other Helpful Links: Wikipedia article on Billerica, Massachusetts (links to Wikipedia) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE - https://www.husbandmaterial.com/ Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp at https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/live-chat Mike’s Website: ⁠https://www.PolarLifeConsulting.com/⁠ Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike: ⁠https://calendly.com/polarlifeconsulting/intro-call⁠ Mike’s Story: ⁠https://www.PolarLifeConsulting.com/about  If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give

Michael Skinner is an award-winning advocate, educator, writer and critically acclaimed singer, songwriter, guitarist, addressing the issues of trauma, abuse and mental health concerns through public speaking, writing and his music. He has spoken at the National Press Club, was a keynote presenter for a conference held by the United Nations, The State Department and Georgetown University on the sexual exploitation and trafficking of children and adults and he was part of the groundbreaking Oprah Winfrey Shows that addressed the issues of males sexually abused as children. Since 1993, Michael’s uplifting and heartwarming story and songs of Hope and Healing has impacted thousands of people every year throughout the country. His presentations at colleges, universities, high schools, mental health centers and conferences, churches, civic groups, sexual assault and domestic violence support centers and conferences, including a women’s correctional center in Hawaii are highly acclaimed. He has appeared on many TV, radio and Internet shows and has been the subject of many news articles regarding child abuse and mental health. Michael is also a frequent and sought after blogger on several websites and writer of articles for mental health publications. He has contributed chapters for three books, “Jyu No Tobira” [ “The Door To Freedom - Live Your Life From Today”] published in Japan, “Our Encounters with Suicide”, Europe and Great Britain and, “You Can Help: A Guide for Family & Friends of Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Assault”, United States. His role as a consultant and trainer for the Federal government’s Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration and the National Association of State Mental Health Program Directors has been crucial in helping to shape the policy initiatives and directives for the delivery and implementation of trauma informed care and services. And he has worked with organizations nationwide to address the stigma of mental health and ending the silence of child abuse and suicide. Michael is also the founder and director of The Surviving Spirit; a monthly newsletter and website sharing resources to help those impacted by trauma, abuse and mental health challenges. Contact info for Michael Skinner: Email: [email protected] Twitter/X #1: https://twitter.com/MichaelSkinne11  Twitter/X #1: https://twitter.com/SurvivinSpirit Website #1: www.mskinnermusic.com  Website #2: www.survivingspirit.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MichaelSkinnerMusic/featured Other Links Mentioned: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (links to Amazon) SAMHSA (links to their website)  National Association of State Mental Health Program Directors (links to their website) Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life (links to Amazon)  Previous HFMS podcast episode mentioned (links to Spotify):   Episode 38 - Weird Symptoms Episode 16 - 200 Men Came Forward Oprah's "200 Men Come Forward" television event is available to watch on Oprah.com Watch PART 1 here Watch PART 2 here (preview only - full episode is not available) TEXT SUMMARY of PART 2 RAINN EMDR EFT - Emotional Freedom Techniques Somatic Healing aka Somatic Experiencing Internal Family Systems (IFS) Other Helpful Links: Wikipedia article on Billerica, Massachusetts Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening. 

Today is my Christmas Special. Recently, my friend, Marcus Spaur, host of the Between the Covers podcast, interviewed me for his podcast. we talked about my story, my healing journey, and my Santa Journey. Because of this, I thought it was a perfect option for my Christmas episode. Video Version is available on Spotify and YouTube. I also interviewed Marcus and my interview with him will post later on in January. Have a wonderful Christmas and a Hopeful and Hopeful New Year. If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live More about Marcus Spaur: Marcus’ Website Interested in working with Marcus? Schedule a free discovery call Have a question you'd like answered on Marcus’ podcast? You can send your questions to Marcus  Free Recovery Resources Helpful Links on the topic: MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more (links to website) Mike’s Santa Website Mike’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE - https://www.husbandmaterial.com/ Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp at https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/live-chat Mike’s Website: ⁠https://www.PolarLifeConsulting.com/⁠ Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike: ⁠https://calendly.com/polarlifeconsulting/intro-call⁠ Mike’s Story: ⁠https://www.PolarLifeConsulting.com/about  **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries: https://HusbandMaterial.com/give