Here's The Thing: A Beginner's Guide to Adulting

Sometimes nothing about our circumstances changes — but the way we see them changes everything.In this episode, we talk about perspective: how the “lens” we look through shapes our emotions, reactions, resilience, and overall experience of life. Using a simple folktale, travel stories, and a practical self-awareness exercise, we explore how our experiences quietly build the internal narratives we carry every day.This conversation is about becoming more aware of the stories you tell yourself, learning to widen your perspective when life feels overwhelming, and recognizing that not every thought deserves complete trust.If you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, anxious, discouraged, or emotionally exhausted lately, this episode will help you step back, breathe a little deeper, and see the bigger picture again.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram or TikTok, @wendykimbercoaching. You can also watch my YouTube videos at @WendyKimberCoaching as well.🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Graduating high school can feel exciting… and strangely overwhelming at the same time.One minute the path is clear, and the next, the map opens up and suddenly there are endless possibilities, decisions, and pressure to figure out your whole life. In this episode, we talk about why your 20s can feel like a brand new level in a video game—and the three biggest things to watch out for as you step into it.We cover:The “Plan Trap” that keeps people frozen waiting for certaintyWhy confusion can secretly keep you stuckHow to recognize the resources, strengths, and people already in your “inventory”If you’ve been feeling pressure to have everything figured out, this episode is a reminder that clarity often comes after movement—not before it.“Start before you’re ready. Choose before you feel certain. And don’t forget—you’re more equipped than you think.”Congratulations to all the graduates. I’m really excited for you. 🎓Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram or TikTok, @wendykimbercoaching. You can also watch my YouTube videos at @WendyKimberCoaching as well.🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Loss changes more than our emotions—it changes our relationships, our routines, and sometimes even the way we see ourselves.In this episode, we talk about how to navigate grief with more clarity, compassion, and steadiness. Whether you’re personally experiencing loss or trying to support someone who is, this conversation offers practical tools for understanding what grief actually does to us internally, relationally, and socially.We explore:The “3 circles” of griefWhy grief is not something you solve, but something you learn to walk withThe 3 C’s: Connecting, Caring, and CapacityHow loss changes family roles and relationshipsWhy people sometimes pull away during difficult momentsHow to care for your body and mind while grievingThis episode is tender, honest, and hopefully empowering for anyone moving through change, sorrow, or uncertainty.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram or TikTok, @wendykimbercoaching. You can also watch my YouTube videos at @WendyKimberCoaching as well.🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if you already know what you want… but you’ve just been hesitant to admit it?In this episode, I share a moment from a playoff hockey game that sparked a bigger reflection about clarity, courage, and why most of us stay stuck in “thinking about it” instead of actually moving.We talk about:Why a “smaller truth” can keep your life smallerThe difference between passive action and active actionWhy clarity often comes after movement—not before itHow your daily choices reveal what you truly wantThis episode is an invitation to stop waiting for perfect certainty and start taking honest, intentional steps toward the life you actually want.Because your life moves in the direction of the steps you take—not the thoughts you think.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram or TikTok, @wendykimbercoaching. You can also watch my YouTube videos at @WendyKimberCoaching as well. 🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this final episode of the body shape series, we’re talking about a word that quietly shapes the way we think about ourselves—and often keeps us stuck: “should.”“I should be better at this.”“I shouldn’t struggle like this.”“I should be able to figure this out on my own.”These thoughts feel true… but they rarely move us forward.In this episode, we explore a different way to understand “should”—not as a judgment about who you are, but as feedback about what might be missing. What if your current results aren’t a reflection of your discipline or worth… but simply the outcome of the systems, habits, and support you currently have in place?Through simple examples and honest reflection, this episode introduces a powerful mental shift: If you should, then you would.Not in a harsh way—but in a practical, cause-and-effect kind of way.We’ll talk about:• Why “should” adds pressure without direction• How to start seeing your results as information, not failure• The role of systems, environment, and even biology in your progress• Why getting support isn’t weakness—it’s a missing component being filledIf you’ve ever felt frustrated with your habits, your body, or your ability to follow through, this episode offers a more compassionate—and more effective—way to move forward.Because maybe the problem was never you.Maybe the process just needed another piece.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Struggling with cravings, emotional eating, or feeling like you lack willpower? In this episode, we break down the real science and psychology behind willpower, habits, and food cravings—so you can create lasting weight loss and healthy lifestyle changes.In Episode 3 of the Body Shape series, we explore why willpower isn’t something you can rely on long-term, especially when you’re stressed, tired, or overwhelmed. Instead of blaming yourself, you’ll learn how to build simple habits that reduce the need for discipline and make healthy choices feel more automatic.We also take a closer look at cravings—what causes them, why they feel so strong, and how to tell the difference between physical hunger and emotional eating. Once you understand your cravings, you can pause, respond intentionally, and feel more in control of your choices.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why willpower is limited (and what to rely on instead)How to build healthy habits that actually stick3 simple strategies to make behavior change easierThe difference between emotional cravings and physical hungerHow to stop emotional eating and feel more in controlIf you’re working on weight loss, building healthier habits, or improving your relationship with food, this episode will give you practical tools you can start using right away.Because lasting change doesn’t come from more discipline—it comes from understanding yourself and working with your brain, not against it.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do we eat when we’re not actually hungry?In this episode, we dive into one of the most overlooked parts of health and weight management—the mental and emotional patterns behind our habits. If you’ve ever found yourself standing in the kitchen, snacking without really thinking, or eating just to take the edge off a feeling… this conversation is for you.Building on last week’s focus on your “why,” we explore a powerful concept called buffering—the ways we use food (and other things) to avoid uncomfortable emotions like boredom, stress, or loneliness. You’ll start to recognize those small, everyday moments where real change actually happens.This episode isn’t about rules or restriction. It’s about awareness.You’ll learn:What buffering is and why it shows up so often with foodHow emotions actually work in your bodyWhy “fixing the food” doesn’t solve the real problemA simple, practical tool—the pause—that can change everythingIf you’re trying to build a healthier relationship with food, your body, and yourself, this episode will give you a framework that feels doable, not overwhelming.Because lasting change doesn’t come from big, dramatic decisions—it comes from small, intentional moments.Take a breath. Slow things down. And start noticing what’s really going on beneath the surface.You’ve got this.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As spring rolls in and conversations about “getting in shape” start to pop up, it’s easy to jump straight into goals, plans, and willpower. But what if the most important place to start… isn’t your habits—but your why?In this episode (the first one of this month's series), we take a step back and explore the deeper motivation behind wanting to change your body. Is your “why” actually yours—or has it been shaped by culture, media, and expectations you’ve absorbed over time?I share insights from my own weight loss journey, along with coaching tools to help you build a reason that actually lasts—one rooted in meaning, not pressure.Because here’s the truth: motivation fades, but a meaningful “why” will carry you through.We’ll talk about:How culture quietly shapes what we think we “should” wantThe difference between fragile and sustainable motivationWhy changing your body won’t fix how you feel about yourselfHow to build a “why” that supports the life you actually wantThe role of trade-offs—and how to replace, not just remove, habitsIf you’ve ever struggled to stay consistent or wondered why your goals don’t stick, this episode will help you reconnect with a deeper, more powerful starting point.Because you’re not just chasing a number—you’re building a life.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve gotten used to living in stress… and calling it normal.Sometimes it even feels productive—like you’re focused, getting things done, staying on top of your life. But just because it feels productive doesn’t mean it’s actually healthy.In this episode, we explore a simple shift: what if stress isn’t something to push through, but something to pay attention to?If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed or stretched thin, this conversation will help you slow down, reset, and carry your life in a more sustainable way.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever found yourself on a path you thought you wanted—only to realize it might not be right anymore?In this episode, we talk about one of the most common (and confusing) questions: How long should I wait before I decide to change direction? Whether it’s a major, a relationship, or a career path, it’s easy to feel stuck when you’ve already invested so much time and energy.Together, we’ll reframe the idea of “wasted time,” explore the difference between staying with purpose and staying out of fear, and introduce three simple questions to help you decide what to do next.Because life isn’t one long commitment—it’s a series of choices. And no matter where you are right now, you’re always allowed to choose again.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Our relationships with our parents can be some of the most meaningful—and sometimes most complicated—relationships in our lives.In this episode, I share a simple idea that can change the way you experience that relationship: sometimes the first step isn’t changing your parents—it’s changing how you think about them.We talk about what it really means to be an adult, why your perspective matters more than you think, and how small shifts in your thinking can turn your relationship with your parents into a source of strength instead of frustration.If you’ve ever felt tension, distance, or confusion in your relationship with your parents, this conversation might give you a new way to look at it.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if one small shift in perspective could change the way you experience your entire life?In this episode, I share a simple idea my dad taught me when I was younger while explaining how airplanes fly. Pilots use a phrase: “Attitude determines altitude.” The angle of the airplane determines whether it climbs or descends.And the longer I've lived, the more I’ve realized the same thing is true in life.Through stories of conversations with strangers on airplanes, real-life examples, and a powerful mindset shift, we explore how two people can face the same circumstances but experience completely different outcomes.Your attitude may not change the storm around you—but it absolutely changes how you move through it.If life has felt heavy lately, this episode offers a perspective that might help you adjust the angle of your wings and start climbing again.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Technology makes life easier than ever. We can find information instantly, connect with family across the world, organize our schedules, and accomplish tasks in seconds that used to take hours.But that raises an important question: If technology is making life easier… what is the result in our lives?In this episode, I explore a simple but powerful idea: technology is either amplifying your life or anesthetizing it.When technology amplifies your life, it strengthens what matters most. It deepens connection, supports your growth, and reinforces your values. But when it anesthetizes your life, it numbs discomfort, replaces effort, and keeps you passive.This episode will help you think about how you use technology, who is really in control of your attention, and how to make sure your digital tools are actually supporting the person you want to become.If you’ve ever caught yourself scrolling when you’re bored, anxious, or avoiding something hard, this conversation will give you a simple framework to evaluate your habits and make small changes that lead to a stronger, more connected life.Technology should support your humanity—not replace it.Let’s talk about how to make sure it’s amplifying your life, not numbing it.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do you act differently around different people?There’s a difference between adjusting to context… and performing to control outcomes. And most of us don’t realize when we’ve crossed that line.In this episode, I’m talking about something almost every young adult experiences: the quiet pressure to shape-shift in order to belong. To laugh at the joke. To mirror the interest. To downplay the opinion. To become what will be chosen.But belonging that requires performance isn’t belonging.It’s auditioning.We’ll talk about:Why your brain treats social rejection like a threatThe difference between emotional intelligence and strategic self-editingHow performance creates anxiety, loneliness, and identity confusionWhat secure belonging actually looks likeHow small acts of honesty build real self-trustIf you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Who do I need to be here?” — this conversation is for you.You don’t want someone choosing your curated version. You want someone choosing you.As we wrap up our month on relationships, this episode is about integration, integrity, and learning to walk into a room without needing to audition for love.If this episode resonates, please follow the show and leave a review — it helps more than you know.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Have a wonderful week, and I’ll talk to you next time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re continuing our February theme of relationships, and I’m diving into a skill that I promise will serve you for the rest of your life: boundaries.I know—sometimes that word feels heavy. It can sound like conflict, ultimatums, or pushing people away. But in this episode, I’m breaking it down in a way that feels clear, calm, and actually empowering. Using one of my favorite metaphors—building houses—I’ll show you how boundaries aren’t walls meant to shut people out… they’re more like fences that define and support the space you’re creating in your life.We’ll talk about:Why most relationships don’t actually need boundariesHow people-pleasing creates problems that honesty could have preventedThe difference between controlling others and committing to yourselfWhat a healthy boundary really sounds like (hint: it’s calm, not dramatic)How to handle tough dynamics with friends or parents in a grounded, adult wayIf you’ve ever said “yes” when you meant “no,” stayed quiet to keep the peace, or felt resentment building because you weren’t honest about what you wanted—this episode is for you.Boundaries aren’t about changing other people. They’re about deciding how you show up. They’re about clarity, self-respect, and staying in relationship without abandoning yourself.And next week, we’re going even deeper into people-pleasing and why it makes boundaries feel so hard in the first place.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

With Valentine’s Day coming up, I want to talk about a different kind of love—the kind that exists in families.Family relationships can be complicated. We don’t get to choose our teammates, and many of us grew up on very different “teams” with different coaching styles, roles, and expectations. As adults, though, those relationships don’t have to stay the same.In this episode, I use a simple sports-team analogy to help you think differently about your family dynamics. We’ll talk about how family roles change in adulthood, how to focus on what you can control, and how to show up with more clarity, calm, and intention in relationships with parents and siblings.You’ll learn how to:Redefine your role in your family without waiting for anyone else to changeImprove communication with parents and siblings as a young adultBuild healthier family relationships by changing your thoughts, not just your reactionsPractice a more grounded, emotionally mature kind of loveFamily love isn’t always chocolates and flowers. Sometimes it looks like boundaries, consistency, and choosing how you show up—even when the dynamic isn’t perfect.Thanks for listening, and I hope you enjoy the episode. 💛Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

February is the month of love, so before we talk about dating, friendships, or family, I want to start with the relationship that impacts all of them—the relationship you have with yourself.In this episode, I’m talking about self-acceptance in a real, grounded way. Not the “just think positive” version, but the relationship that happens in your head every single day: how you talk to yourself, how you judge yourself, and how you show up for yourself when life feels messy or uncomfortable.We’ll explore why you don’t need to fix or reinvent yourself to grow, how your thoughts shape your experience of who you are, and why understanding yourself with curiosity creates lasting change. I’ll share practical ways to build trust with yourself, soften your inner dialogue, and grow without shame.If you’ve ever felt behind, stuck, or frustrated with yourself—or if your inner voice sounds more like a critic than a friend—this episode is for you.You are the one person you’ll wake up with every day of your life. Learning how to be on your own side changes everything.As always, remember: you’re doing better than you think you are.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This month, we’ve been talking a lot about goals—why we have them, what gets in the way, and how to stop feeling like we’re behind.In this final episode of January, I want to talk about something that comes up for all of us when we start thinking seriously about our future: the difference between settling and success.We hear “don’t settle” all the time, but settling isn’t always bad. Some parts of your life actually need to be stable, comfortable, and predictable so other parts can grow. The problem isn’t settling—it’s settling without choosing it.In this episode, we talk about:Why settling and success aren’t oppositesHow comfort can quietly keep us stuckThe difference between intentional growth and unconscious settlingWhy success doesn’t just happen—it’s built on purposeHow to choose one area of your life to challenge without burning outIf you’ve been feeling stuck, conflicted, or unsure whether you’re protecting your peace or avoiding growth, this episode will help you slow down, reflect, and make a more intentional choice.There’s no shame in comfort—and there’s no success without discomfort. You get to decide where each one belongs.Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’re heading into 2026 feeling excited, overwhelmed, motivated, exhausted—or honestly, all of the above—this episode is for you. 💛 In this powerful pep talk, I’m wrapping up our January goal-setting series by reminding you that you are already doing what life coaches call massive action, even if it doesn’t feel glamorous right now.We’ve spent this month talking about goals, self-sabotage, time management, and mindset, and today I want to send you into the rest of the year confident, encouraged, and ready to take bold steps forward. I talk about why massive action is the stage of life many young adults are in right now, why “I’ve never done this before” is a sneaky thought that holds us back, and how your ability to adapt—especially in a fast-changing, tech-driven world—proves that you already know how to figure things out.You’ll hear inspiring stories, including lessons from Olympic legend Wilma Rudolph and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, plus relatable examples that show why progress doesn’t require perfection—just willingness. This is the episode to come back to when the semester feels heavy, the goal feels too big, or you’re wondering what you signed up for.Save this one. Re-listen when you need it. And remember: you are capable, resilient, and more prepared than you think. You’ve got this—and I’m cheering you on every step of the way. 🎧✨Connect with me! Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to schedule an appointment with me, grab my free weekly email, or watch my videos on YouTube, and more!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you constantly asking, “How long will this take?” and still feeling behind? In this episode, I break down one of the biggest mindset traps holding people back from their goals: giving time all the power. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by busy schedules, new routines, or competing priorities—especially at the start of a new year—this conversation is for you.This episode explores why time itself isn’t the problem and how shifting one simple question can change your productivity, focus, and follow-through. I share relatable stories, practical examples, and a powerful reframe that helps you stop treating time like the boss and start using it as a tool.You’ll learn:Why the question “How long will it take?” quietly steals your momentumHow to reclaim control of your schedule without hustling or burnoutA simple mindset shift that supports better time management and decision-makingThe Pick–Block–Begin method for taking action on what matters mostHow to build trust with yourself through intentional use of your timeThis episode is perfect for students, young adults, and goal-setters who want better time management, more follow-through, and a healthier relationship with productivity—without rigid schedules or pressure.🎧 Listen in to learn how to own your time, set priorities that actually stick, and move forward on purpose.👉 Want weekly reminders and tools to help you stay on track? Sign up for The Coach’s Corner newsletter (linked on my Instagram page) or connect with me on YouTube and Instagram @wendykimbercoaching.Use your time intentionally—and start today.Keywordshow to stop feeling overwhelmed by timewhy I never have enough timetime management for studentshow to manage time with goalsproductivity tips that actually workmindset shifts for productivityhow to prioritize what mattersbuilding better time habits Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ever get this close to doing something good for yourself—then suddenly talk yourself out of it?In this episode, we’re diving into why we self-sabotage, why your brain resists change even when you want to grow, and how to stop breaking promises to yourself. If you’ve ever struggled with motivation, discipline, or follow-through, this conversation is for you.You’ll learn:Why your brain is wired to seek comfort, avoid discomfort, and conserve energyHow negative self-talk quietly talks you out of successWhy motivation doesn’t come first—action doesHow keeping small promises builds real confidence and self-trustSimple tools to interrupt overthinking and self-doubtWhy your identity plays a huge role in habits, goals, and follow-throughWe’ll also touch on practical mindset tools like the 5 Second Rule taught by Mel Robbins and how changing your physical and mental state—an idea often taught by Tony Robbins—can help you shift out of self-sabotage in real time.If you’re a young adult navigating goals, routines, school, work, or big life transitions—and you’re tired of talking yourself out of becoming who you want to be—this episode will help you start showing up differently.Because success isn’t about being perfect or fearless.It’s about keeping the promises that matter most—even when it’s hard, even when no one’s watching.💬 Let’s Connect!📸 Follow me on Instagram: @wendykimbercoaching📩 Sign up for my free newsletter The Coach’s Corner for weekly mindset tools and coaching tips: https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/180070...🎧 Listen to the full podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or watch on my YouTube channel @WendyKimberCoaching.🎧 Perfect for listeners interested in: personal growth, mindset coaching, motivation, self-discipline, confidence building, breaking bad habits, goal setting, and self-trust.If this episode resonates, be sure to follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we head into a new year, life doesn’t slow down—and neither does time. In this New Year’s episode, we’re talking about how to stop drifting and start navigating your life with intention using goals that actually work.If you’re between 18 and 28 and feeling the weight of big decisions—career, relationships, health, faith, finances—this episode is for you. I walk you through why this season of life matters so much, why goals aren’t just checklists, and how to think forward instead of letting your past define your future.Using a simple (and memorable) river analogy, we break down the SMART goal system in a way that feels practical, encouraging, and realistic—especially if you’ve ever struggled to stick with goals or felt discouraged when results didn’t show up right away.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why life keeps moving whether you set goals or notHow goals give direction in your “Decade of Decision”What SMART goals really mean (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-Bound)Why your brain resists change—and how to work with it instead of against itHow to stay motivated when progress feels slowHow to choose goals that align with your values and season of lifeThis conversation will help you stop floating through another year and start steering toward the future you actually want—without burnout, perfectionism, or pressure.🎯 Your challenge: Choose one area of your life, set one small SMART goal, write it down, and keep rowing—even when results aren’t immediate.Happy New Year, friend. Here’s to a year full of intention, growth, and meaningful progress.💬 Let’s Connect!Comment below: What thought did you catch today, and what did you shift it to?✨ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe if this episode helped you reframe your day!📩 Sign up for my free newsletter The Coach’s Corner for weekly mindset tools and coaching tips: https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/180070...📸 Follow me on Instagram: @wendykimbercoaching🎧 Listen to the full podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or watch on my YouTube channel @WendyKimberCoaching.#PodcastForYoungAdults #PersonalGrowthPodcast #MindsetPodcast #LifeAdvicePodcast #SelfDevelopment #LifeCoachingPodcast #GoalSettingPodcast #GrowthMindset Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As the year comes to a close, many of us feel the pressure to change—set goals, improve habits, and become “better” versions of ourselves. But what if the way we’ve been trying to grow is actually holding us back?In this episode, we’re talking about why you can’t hate yourself better—and why punishment, shame, and harsh self-talk don’t create lasting change. Through a deeply personal story from my family’s health journey after cancer, along with honest reflections on weight, habits, and self-criticism, we unpack why so many of us believe being hard on ourselves is the key to progress.You’ll learn why punishment may stop behavior short-term but never leads to real growth—and what actually does. We’ll explore the power of positive reinforcement, self-love, gratitude, and compassion, and how shifting your inner dialogue can help you build healthier habits without fear or shame.If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of guilt, self-loathing, or “starting over,” this episode is your reminder: lasting transformation starts with kindness. You don’t need to be harder on yourself—you need a better foundation.✨ You can’t hate yourself better. ✨ But you can love yourself into growth.Connect with meMake sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to grab my free weekly email, The Coach’s Corner. It’s your weekly dose of mindset magic—delivered straight to your inbox!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.#selfgrowth #selflove #mindsetshift #personaldevelopment #healingjourney #mentalhealthpodcast #positivehabits #goalsetting #gratitudepractice #innervoice #growthmindset #youngadultpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do some people still treat you like a kid—even when you’re clearly an adult?In this episode, I dive into a question so many young adults are asking: How do I get treated like an adult by my family, church members, and people who’ve known me forever?Whether you’re home from college, back from a mission, living at home, newly married, or working full-time, this episode breaks down why this dynamic happens—and what you can do to shift it. Using insights from sociology, personal stories, and practical coaching tools, I explain how adulthood is defined today and why self-perception, responsibility, and presentation play a bigger role than age, marriage, or housing status.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why young adults are often still treated like kidsHow cultural shifts have changed the definition of adulthoodThe connection between self-image and how others respond to youSimple ways to show up with confidence and maturityWhy “adulting” is something you practice—not something you wait to feel ready forHow to build respect by treating yourself like an adult firstThis episode is for young adults who feel capable but overlooked—and for anyone who wants to step into adulthood with confidence, clarity, and self-trust.✨ Key takeaway: You don’t become an adult when others decide you are. You become one when you take full responsibility for yourself.Connect with meMake sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to grab my free weekly email, The Coach’s Corner. It’s your weekly dose of mindset magic—delivered straight to your inbox!🎧 If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who’s navigating adulting right alongside you.Keywords: adulting, young adult podcast, being treated like an adult, early adulthood, life coaching for young adults, confidence, personal responsibility, family dynamics Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How to build genuine self-love, quiet self-criticism, and embrace growth with gratitude.Do you struggle with being your own worst critic? You’re not alone. In this episode, I share practical tools for cultivating self-acceptance and self-appreciation—the mindset skills that help you love who you are, even while working toward who you want to become.I talk about how comparison, self-judgment, and even blame can keep us stuck—and how learning to see yourself with honesty and compassion changes everything. You’ll also hear a powerful coaching story about a young woman learning to accept herself without guilt or judgment, plus a simple exercise you can try the next time you’re driving alone.By the end of this episode, you’ll understand:💡 The difference between self-acceptance (seeing yourself clearly) and self-appreciation (feeling grateful for who you are)🧠 Why your brain naturally leans toward self-criticism—and how to redirect it💬 How to stop comparing yourself and start acknowledging your strengths❤️ A simple daily exercise to increase self-gratitude and build confidence🌿 How to accept your current reality without giving up on growthWhether you’re in college, launching your career, or just trying to figure out your next step, this conversation will help you shift from self-doubt to self-trust.Because accepting yourself doesn’t mean you stop growing—it means you stop fighting who you already are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode Theme: Finding peace, purpose, and motivation as you head into a new year.In this inspiring and relatable episode, we’re talking about what it really means to “answer the door” when your future comes knocking. As the year wraps up, it’s easy to look back and wonder if you’re on the right path—but what if your life is unfolding exactly as it should?Through personal stories, a few laughs, and some practical reflection questions, you’ll discover:💭 How your past choices—both intentional and accidental—have perfectly shaped where you are today🎹 A peek into my 20-year-old self at BYU, juggling classes, roommates, and a love for piano👴 Wisdom from my 82-year-old dad about the power of one good decision🌱 Why imagining your future self helps you make better choices right now🧱 How small, everyday decisions quietly build the life you’ll be grateful for later💌 A simple, 10-minute challenge to connect with your future selfWhether you’re in college, figuring out your career, or just trying to make sense of what’s next, this episode will help you see that you’re not behind—you’re in progress. Your choices matter. Your growth matters. And your future is closer than you think.So grab a notebook (or open your Notes app), and let’s take a few minutes to plan for a version of you who’s going to be really proud of today’s choices.💬 Let’s Connect!Comment below: What thought did you catch today, and what did you shift it to?✨ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe if this episode helped you reframe your day!📩 Sign up for my free newsletter The Coach’s Corner for weekly mindset tools and coaching tips: https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/180070... 📸 Follow me on Instagram: @wendykimbercoaching 🎧 Listen to the full podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your shows.#MindsetPodcast #NewYearMotivation #SelfGrowth #FutureSelf #PersonalDevelopment #FindYourPurpose #Mindfulness #GoalSetting #LifeCoaching #InspirationPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If Thanksgiving brings you as much stress as it does stuffing, you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m sharing how you can enjoy a calm, meaningful Thanksgiving—even when family dynamics get a little chaotic. I tell some of my own Hallmark-style childhood Thanksgiving memories, and then we get real about what the holiday feels like as an adult when expectations, old patterns, and tension show up right alongside the turkey.I walk you through the mindset tools I use myself, and that I teach as a life coach, to help you stay grounded, confident, and grateful—no matter what’s happening around the table. You’ll hear how choosing your energy ahead of time, setting emotional boundaries, and recognizing when you’re “full” (mentally and socially!) can completely change your holiday experience.If you’ve ever found yourself dreading political debates, bracing for comments about your life, or feeling overwhelmed by the noise and expectations, I’ve got you. You really can enjoy the holiday without absorbing everyone else’s stress.My hope is that this episode helps you create a Thanksgiving that feels peaceful, warm, and maybe even a little magical again—whatever “magical” looks like for you. And yes, I absolutely hope you get an extra scoop of cranberry sauce in my honor.Make sure to go follow me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and click the link in my bio to grab my free weekly email, The Coach’s Corner. It’s your weekly dose of mindset magic—delivered straight to your inbox!#ThanksgivingStress#HolidayMindset#FamilyDrama#MindsetCoach#EmotionalWellness#HolidayAnxiety#ThanksgivingTips#FamilyBoundaries#LifeCoachingTools#CalmHolidays#StressFreeThanksgiving#HolidaySelfCare#MindsetMatters#GratitudePractice#MentalWellness Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode of It’s On You, we’re diving deeper into one of the most powerful skills you can ever learn: becoming aware of your thoughts so you can take ownership of your emotions—and ultimately, your life.Last week, we explored how to notice what you’re thinking. Today, we’re leveling up. You’ll learn how to gently shift your thoughts so you can change how you feel, take intentional action, and create results that reflect who you want to be.We’ll talk about why uncomfortable emotions feel so overwhelming, how your brain actually creates feelings, and why even positive emotions can feel intense. You’ll hear a real coaching example about overcoming fear around public speaking, and you’ll learn how to use the same simple technique to move from scared → settled → confident.This episode is all about building emotional awareness, practicing intentional thinking, and taking back control from automatic thoughts that don’t serve you. You’ll get a repeatable mindset exercise you can try this week to help you feel more grounded, more capable, and more in charge of your inner world.If you’re ready to stop letting your emotions run the show and start steering your own life with confidence, this episode is your next step.Keywords: thought awareness, emotional intelligence, mindset shift, personal growth podcast, young adult motivation, overcoming fear, emotional resilience, how to change your thoughts, Christian mindset, mental wellness, self-development tools Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you letting other people control how you feel without even realizing it? This week, listen as I dive into one of the most life-changing mindset shifts you can make: understanding that your emotions come from your thoughts — not your circumstances.From rude drivers to grumpy coworkers to packed parking lots, it’s easy to blame “them” for your bad day. But what if the real power lies in you? In this episode, I will share a simple two-step exercise to help you become more aware of your thoughts and start feeling the way you want—on purpose.✨ In this episode:Why no one else can “make” you feel anythingHow your thoughts act as the remote control for your emotionsA simple daily practice to build emotional awareness and self-controlHow taking responsibility for your feelings puts you back in charge of your lifeReady to stop giving your power away? Tune in and start taking your emotional remote back today.🔗 Connect with me on Instagram @wendykimbercoaching and sign up for my newsletter, The Coach’s Corner, for weekly insights and inspiration.Keywords: emotional awareness, mindset coach, self-growth podcast, thought work, emotional intelligence, personal development, positivity, self improvement, Wendy Kimber Coaching, take control of your emotions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Think budgeting sounds boring? Think again. Listen as I break down how to create a simple 3-step Budget Blueprint that helps you finally stop feeling broke by Wednesday! You’ll learn how to set up your Needs, Wants, and Goals Buckets, do the math without judgment, and find easy tools to keep your money fresh and flowing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever catch yourself mid-scroll thinking everyone else’s life looks better than yours? You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault. In this episode, we’re breaking down how social media triggers comparison and body image struggles… and how to take your power back.Learn simple mindset shifts and easy “feed detox” tricks to make your timeline a positive space that lifts you up instead of tearing you down. We’ll talk about the science behind comparison, how to protect your energy online, and ways to turn envy into inspiration.If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, body image, or the pressure to look “perfect” online — this one’s for you.You’ll learn:Why comparison hits harder online (and how to stop it)How to curate your feed for self-confidenceA mindset trick for turning envy into informationThe Halloween-ready reminder that everyone’s wearing a digital mask🎯 This week’s challenge: Unfollow one account that drains your confidence and follow one that fuels it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, join me as I dive into what a relationship truly is, and learn how to influence the relationships in your own life! We all have relationships we wish were different, and we also all have a relationship or two that are great. Learn why that is, and how to use important tools to strengthen your favorite relationships. Truly a game changer!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you sometimes feel like that dog in the meme, where he’s sitting in the middle of flames all around him, and the caption above says “This is fine?” I’m talking to a lot of folks lately, who are feeling like the world is crumbling a bit. Sometimes we feel small against the chaos. This week on “Here’s The Thing,” I offer you some solid ideas and tools that will empower you to stand firm, feel strong, and do all the good you have any desire to do. Listen in to get the recharge and resilience you need! PS - Make sure to sign up for my email list by DMing me your email on Instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered how some of the most successful people in the world got to where they are? Guess what? It is not because of their beauty, their talent, or their luck.It’s 90% because of two tools they use, and you can use them too! This week, join in as we learn about your MVP’s!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There is a false idea in our society, that tells us we need to earn love. We can be loved if we’re good looking, smart, rich, athletic, talented, or deserving somehow. What stops you from allowing yourself to be loved? This week, join me on the podcast as I share some tools to help you unlock true power and stability- the power to love and be loved! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever noticed how hard it is to make yourself get moving on goals you have, or habits you want to start? Well guess what? It’s NOT because you’re lazy! Tune into the podcast this week to learn why we hate change, and how thinking “outside the triangle” will get you exactly where you want to go! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Home is a place that is familiar, where we know what to expect and how to be. Did you know that as adults, we build emotional homes? It’s true! We now have thought patterns and emotional habits that we keep going back to, because they are familiar to us. This week on “Here’s The Thing,” I ask you the question “what is your emotional home like?” Is it what you meant to build? Is it serving your needs? Join me as I teach you how to start building the habits and patterns that will create your emotional dream home!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

AI is a wonderful tool, and one that I use all the time. But did you know that your own brain is the most personalized “ChatGPT” you can ever have? You just need to pay attention to how you ask your questions.This week, learn how to turn on the problem solving genius of your own brain, by phrasing your questions with power. Then watch what happens!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know when you buy a new appliance, or a new car, and it comes with a manual? That manual has all the information about how your new item is supposed to function, and how to get the best performance out of it. We all know that people do not come with manuals, and yet, we unconsciously behave as if they do! This week, I want to teach you about how your manuals are affecting your life. Listen in, and walk away with freedom you can feel! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s the end of summer, and people are enjoying the harvest of their gardens! It got me thinking about what we grow in our digital gardens – in our social media feeds and all of our fun gadgets and devices. Is your digital garden getting overgrown with weeds?This week, learn about the tools that will help you grow a digital garden that will nourish you. Learn how to be a “master gardener” without ever touching a shovel!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Raise your hand if you have ever had a surfing lesson (my hand is raised!). My experience learning to surf taught me that when we loosen up a little, the waves can take us further in the right direction.While sticking to a schedule is generally a good idea, practicing mental and emotional flexibility will keep you moving forward when the waves of life are threatening to cause a wipeout. Listen in, and learn three ways to teach yourself how to be more flexible, so you can stay upright on your board. Cowabunga! The Manual: Not Always The Best Guide  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whether you’re a Disney fan or not, you can’t argue with the fact that Disney has perfected the art of choosing a goal and achieving it. What if you could do the same? On today’s episode of Here’s The Thing, I teach you how to Imagineer your life! Learn the steps Disney uses in order to create magic in your own life.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join us this week to learn about something we all do when we’re around other people! Once you learn about this phenomenon, you’ll understand so much more about why you do some of the things you do. Being aware of this one thing will change your life!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As young adults, you are making lots of decisions, all the time. You are working to try to lineup interviews, school, apartments, relationships, and everything else! But sometimes, even with all your hard work, things don’t go according to plan. What do you do when that happens?This week, I give you a strategy anyone can use in that exact situation. Join us, and find out how to stay in the game when life throws you a curveball!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been on a trip that went wrong? Whether it was the transportation or the people you were with, it’s so easy to get frustrated with traveling!On this week’s episode, I share some information about your travel mindset that will be sure to make your next trip or vacation absolutely stellar! Join us this week and learn about some small shifts you can make in your thinking, that will completely take your travels to the next level!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you aware of how our modern food environment is affecting you? Having all kinds of food available at all times might sound like a great thing, but if you are battling your weight, abundant food can be a challenge! This week, you’ll become aware of a couple of truths about food in our country. I also give you some simple tools to manage the way you eat. If weight loss is your goal, I’m here with you every step of the way! https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/benjamin-bikman/the-plagues-of-prosperity/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whether you’re a romantic, or a bit of a skeptic, sooner or later you might find yourself asking this question. This week, I give you a list of seven characteristics a relationship will have if you’re truly in love. Ready to find out? Jump in!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you noticed that little kids always know what they want? They tell their parents all the time- “I want that!” But when you ask a grown up what they want, the most common answer is “I don’t know.” Do you know what you want? In this episode, you’ll learn how to start identifying your true desires, and how to use them as a roadmap for your life. Are you ready? Let’s go!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Time is the one thing every person on the earth has the exact same amount of each day. Your 24 hours today is the exact same amount as the King of England’s, or the President of the United States. In today’s episode, I offer you a mindset about time that makes it easy to put together your To-Do lists! Join us, and learn what “time management” really means!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

At your stage of life, you’re hearing a lot of talk about Goals. Everyone is asking about yours, and you are in the middle of all that goes with achieving them. Have you stopped to realize who you are becoming as you are checking things off your life’s list? This week, join me on Here’s the Thing, and experience a mind blowing shift in your perspective!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.