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Episode 71 – When the Unexpected Shows UpI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with certified financial planner Ross Levine for an important conversation about financial security, preparation, and what it means to protect yourself when life takes an unexpected turn.Ross shares practical insights into why financial planning is about more than investing. It is about creating a strategy that supports your life through uncertainty. Whether it is job loss, illness, disability, or unexpected life changes, Ross explains why having a plan in place before something happens can make all the difference.Will and Ross explore the difference between investment advisors and comprehensive financial planners, highlighting why a written financial plan matters more than simply watching numbers in an account. The conversation also breaks down common misconceptions around insurance and why protecting your income through disability and life insurance is often overlooked until it becomes urgent.The discussion touches on how financial priorities shift during different stages of life, from young couples and growing families to retirement planning and divorce. Ross also shares insights into his work as a financial planner and the importance of helping clients make decisions rooted in clarity rather than fear.What stands out throughout the conversation is a simple but powerful idea: preparation creates peace of mind. Financial planning is not about predicting every outcome. It is about building enough protection and flexibility so the unexpected does not completely derail your future.At its core, this episode is a reminder that financial confidence begins with awareness, education, and taking action before you think you need to.About Ross LevineRoss Levine is a Financial Advisor and Certified Financial Planner® professional with Northwestern Mutual. His mission is to build lasting relationships by helping clients create a path toward financial security and long-term independence. Inspired by watching his father help families prepare for the unexpected, Ross combines practical planning with education to support clients through every stage of life. His specialties include retirement planning, insurance analysis, education planning, divorce planning, and helping young couples and families build strong financial foundations.Connect with Ross LevineWebsite: https://www.insightfinancial.nm.comEmail: [email protected] Planning Resource: https://www.letsmakeaplan.orgFinancial Planning Specialties Include:✔️ Retirement Planning✔️ Insurance Analysis & Planning✔️ IRA / 401(k) Rollovers✔️ Advisory Services through Northwestern Mutual Wealth Management Company✔️ Young Couples & Families✔️ Education Planning✔️ Divorce Planning✔️ Long-Term Care PlanningConnect with Ross Levine https://tinyurl.com/RossPlanningCall 🌐 Website:https://www.insightfinancial.nm.com📧 Email:[email protected]📚 CFP Resource Website:https://www.letsmakeaplan.orgA great resource for financial planning topics and education.Produced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 70 – Stop Guessing. Start Dressing.I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with wardrobe therapist and stylist Alma Vicencio for a conversation about confidence, identity, and the impact of dressing in a way that truly reflects who you are.Alma shares how style goes far beyond clothes and explains why the right wardrobe can reduce decision fatigue, increase confidence, and support both personal and professional growth. Through her Wardrobe Workshop Framework, she helps clients move away from guesswork and toward intentional choices that align with their lifestyle, personality, and goals.Will and Alma explore how color analysis, body type understanding, and personalized style statements can help people feel more confident in what they wear. They also discuss why so many people feel stuck in front of their closets and how shopping without strategy often creates more frustration instead of clarity.The conversation touches on the emotional side of style, including the attachment we have to clothing, the pressure to dress for who we think we should be, and the importance of honoring who we are right now. Alma explains how wardrobe confidence influences visibility, self-expression, and even the way people show up in important moments of life and work.Alma also shares details about her upcoming group program, Co-Heart, a community-centered experience designed to help participants build confidence and transform the way they approach style.At its core, this episode is about using fashion as support rather than pressure. Your wardrobe should work for your life, reflect your personality, and help you feel more like yourself, not less.About Alma VicencioAlma Vicencio has spent more than 20 years in the fashion industry, building a career rooted in helping people feel confident in their personal style. After graduating from FIDM in 2003, she began as a fashion designer in Los Angeles before moving into personal shopping for luxury brands including Neiman Marcus, John Varvatos, and Prada. In 2020, she founded Alma Styles, combining her expertise with a passion for helping people feel confident and aligned in how they show up. Based in Brooklyn with her family, Alma works with clients internationally through personalized styling services.Connect with Alma VicencioWebsite: https://almastyles.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/almasaurus_stylesWardrobe Workshop Framework: https://www.almastyles.com/wwframeworkProduced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 69 – Notice The DifferenceI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with entrepreneur and business owner Ardon Daley for a conversation about authenticity, relationships, and building a business rooted in trust. Through Ardon’s journey in the cleaning industry, the conversation becomes much bigger than cleaning. It explores freedom, purpose, and what it means to build something on your own terms.Ardon shares how becoming a husband at a young age shifted his mindset and inspired him to pursue entrepreneurship. Wanting more control over his future, he built a business focused on creating financial freedom while staying true to his values. One of the biggest themes throughout the conversation is the difference between transactional relationships and genuine connection, and why trust matters more than a quick sale.Will and Ardon also discuss the importance of educating clients and helping them understand the value behind a service. Ardon explains the difference between a quick clean and a deep reset, emphasizing how understanding the needs of a space allows for better results and long-term satisfaction.The conversation also touches on the realities of entrepreneurship, including difficult jobs, lessons learned through setbacks, and the importance of staying adaptable while continuing to grow.At its core, this episode is about noticing the difference. The difference between doing just enough and doing things with intention. Between chasing someone else’s dream and building your own.About Ardon DaleyArdon Daley is a Jamaican entrepreneur, investor, husband, and owner of DailyCleans Commercial & Residential Cleaning. His work is rooted in authenticity, education, and helping clients understand the value of high-quality service while building a business that creates freedom and opportunity.Connect with Ardon DaleyWebsite: https://dailycleansservice.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dailycleansservicePhone: 516-462-4249Quote from Ardon:“Chase your own dream or chase someone else’s dream.”Produced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 68 – Ready. Set. Action.I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with Megan Quick for a conversation that bridges the gap between creativity and professional growth. Megan shares how her background in theater has shaped the way she communicates, collaborates, and navigates challenges in both creative and corporate spaces.The discussion highlights how skills developed through acting extend far beyond the stage. Preparation, discipline, and the ability to stay present under pressure become essential tools in any environment. Megan reflects on how being trained to listen, respond in the moment, and connect emotionally has strengthened her ability to work with others and communicate clearly in professional settings.Will and Megan also explore the balance between creativity and financial stability. Pursuing a creative path often comes with uncertainty, and learning how to navigate that reality without losing your sense of purpose becomes part of the journey. Megan shares how she has approached that balance while staying connected to her identity as a creative.The conversation touches on fear and rejection, two experiences that are deeply familiar in both theater and corporate life. Megan speaks about learning to move through those moments instead of being stopped by them, and how resilience is built by continuing to show up even when outcomes are uncertain.At its core, this episode is about authenticity. It is about recognizing that the parts of you that feel creative, expressive, and different are not obstacles to success. They are often the very things that make your voice strongerMegan Quick BioMegan Quick is a writer, media producer, and marketing coordinator based in New York City. She works for Valiant Technology and creates theater and comedy in her off hours. She has two cats and thinks everyone should get a pet. Social MediaInstagram: @quick.megan for art and theater updates, Megan Quick on LinkedIn for business. Please check out Valiant Technology’s podcast, The Creative Stack, available wherever you get your podcasts. Quotes:A very known quote, but relevant to the episode!“All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players;They have their exits and their entrances;And one man in his time plays many parts…”William ShakespeareAnything you’d like our audience to know?Support small businesses and support local theater. If you want that sense of community, those are great places to start. Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 67 – Meet Your GremlinsI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright explores the voice that shows up in moments that matter most. The one that questions whether you are ready, capable, or deserving. Instead of treating it as something to ignore or fight, Will reframes it as something to understand.He introduces the concept of the gremlin, not as a flaw, but as a pattern. These thoughts are not random. They are shaped by past experiences, environments, and expectations that were internalized over time. What sounds like your voice is often an echo of something much older, something that once tried to protect you but now keeps you from moving forward.Will shares the story of a client named Marcus, who found himself stuck after being passed over for a promotion. At first, the response was immediate self-blame. As the conversation unfolded, it became clear that the reaction was not about the moment itself. It was tied to a deeper pattern rooted in childhood, where achievement was expected but never acknowledged. That experience shaped an internal voice that constantly questioned his worth.Once Marcus named that voice “The Inspector,” something shifted. Creating separation allowed him to recognize when that voice was active instead of automatically believing it. That awareness opened the door for a different response.This episode focuses on the beginning of that process. Not eliminating the voice, but recognizing it. Not proving it wrong, but questioning where it comes from. When you understand the origin of your internal dialogue, you create space between the thought and your identity.Meeting your gremlin is not about fixing yourself. It is about understanding yourself in a way that allows you to move forward with more clarity and less self-doubt.Produced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 66 – Stand TallerI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with communication expert and founder of Stand Taller, Dave Tenenbaum, for a powerful conversation about what it really means to show up with confidence in your conversations.Dave shares his perspective on communication not as something you perform, but as something you experience in real time. The discussion moves beyond techniques and focuses on presence, listening, and the ability to create connection in moments that matter. What becomes clear early in the conversation is that the most effective communicators are not the ones trying to say the most. They are the ones paying attention.Will and Dave explore how curiosity changes the way conversations unfold. Instead of trying to impress or control the outcome, the focus shifts toward understanding. That shift alone creates space for trust, alignment, and real movement in both personal and professional settings. They also discuss how overcomplicating communication can create confusion, and why simplicity and clarity often have the greatest impact.The conversation also touches on influence and how it is often misunderstood. Dave reframes influence as the result of connection rather than persuasion, and explains why people respond more to how they feel in a conversation than to the exact words being used. From leadership to sales to everyday interactions, the ability to listen, stay present, and ask the right questions becomes a defining factor in how conversations move forward.This episode is a reminder that confidence in communication is not about having perfect delivery. It is about how you show up, how you listen, and how willing you are to stay engaged in the moment without trying to force it.Standing taller is not about being louder. It is about being more aware.About Dave TenenbaumDave Tenenbaum is the founder of Stand Taller, a consulting and training company focused on helping client-facing teams communicate clearly, build trust, and perform at a higher level. With over two decades of experience leading sales teams across major media organizations, he now works with companies of all sizes to improve how their teams show up in both everyday conversations and high-stakes moments.Connect with Dave TenenbaumWebsite: https://stand-taller.com/Newsletter: https://subscribe.stand-taller.comLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/dave-tennenbaum-31144a49Email: [email protected] Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost Creator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 65 – Are You Living… or Still Getting Ready To?I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright explores the quiet habit of preparing for life without actually living it. He reflects on how easy it is to stay focused on what is next while missing what is happening right now, and how that pattern creates distance between where we are and how we experience it.Will walks through the difference between managing life and actually experiencing it. Many people move through their days focused on progress, goals, and responsibilities, yet still feel disconnected from the moments they are working so hard to build. The issue is not effort. It is attention. When attention constantly shifts ahead, presence begins to fade.The conversation highlights how subtle this pattern can be. It shows up in small moments when there is nothing to fix, yet the mind continues searching for the next step. Over time, this creates a sense of always moving forward without ever arriving. Life begins to feel like something you are almost inside of, but not fully experiencing.Will shares reflections from client conversations and everyday observations that reveal how often people delay living until conditions feel right. Waiting for the perfect moment, the right outcome, or a sense of certainty can quietly turn into a habit of postponing the present.This episode invites listeners to pause and notice where their attention is going. Awareness creates the opportunity to return to the moment without needing to change anything about it. When attention settles into what is happening right now, even simple experiences begin to feel complete.The question becomes less about what you are building and more about whether you are allowing yourself to live inside of it while it is happening.Produced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will

Episode 64 – Why You Don’t Trust YourselfI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright explores the subtle but powerful impact of gaslighting and how it slowly erodes self-trust over time. He breaks down how manipulation can shift your perception of reality, leaving you questioning your thoughts, your feelings, and ultimately your sense of self.Will explains gaslighting not as a single moment, but as a pattern. It often shows up in small ways at first, where your experience is minimized, reframed, or dismissed. Over time, those moments begin to add up, creating a habit of second-guessing yourself even when nothing is wrong. What once felt clear starts to feel uncertain.The conversation also looks at how early experiences shape our ability to trust ourselves. Messages we receive growing up can influence how we interpret our emotions and whether we believe they are valid. When those messages are inconsistent or dismissive, it becomes easier to disconnect from what we feel and rely on others to define what is true.Will expands the conversation beyond personal relationships and highlights how gaslighting can show up in professional environments and communities where power, authority, or belief systems are involved. The damage is often quiet, but the impact is lasting.This episode focuses on the process of rebuilding self-trust. It begins with awareness, recognizing when your experience is being questioned in ways that create confusion rather than clarity. It continues with presence, learning to stay connected to your feelings instead of abandoning them in moments of doubt. Over time, that presence becomes a foundation for confidence.Will shares that healing does not come from proving yourself to others. It comes from deciding that your experience is valid and no longer outsourcing your reality. When you begin to trust what you feel again, you reclaim your voice.This episode is an invitation to recognize the patterns, reconnect with yourself, and remember that your truth is enough.Produced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 63 – Confident in the RoomI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright is joined by special education advocates and educators Paige Fitzgerald and Kate Magaldi for a powerful conversation about confidence, advocacy, and navigating complex systems with clarity and intention.Paige and Kate share their experience working with families and schools, helping to simplify the often overwhelming world of special education. They discuss what it means to walk into rooms where decisions are being made about your child or your students and how confidence is built through preparation, understanding, and trust in your voice.The conversation explores the importance of collaboration between families and educators, and how strong partnerships create better outcomes for students. Paige and Kate highlight the emotional side of advocacy, including the stress, uncertainty, and pressure families often feel, and how self-care and support play a critical role in staying grounded throughout the process.Will, Paige, and Kate also speak about inclusion as more than a concept. It is a practice that requires intention, communication, and systems that support diverse learners in meaningful ways. Through their work, they are helping families feel empowered and schools become more accessible, responsive, and sustainable.About Paige Fitzgerald and Kate MagaldiPaige Fitzgerald and Kate Magaldi are the Co-Founders of Inclusive Educational Practices, a special education consulting company that supports families and private schools nationwide. Their work focuses on advocacy for families and partnering with schools to build inclusive and sustainable systems for diverse learners. Together, they help simplify complex challenges and create environments where all students can thrive.Where to Find IEPractices:www.iepractices.comTiktok: @advocatepaigeTiktok: @advocatekateInstagram: @iepracticesLink to Special Education News andNoteworthyMentioned in the show:KultureCity Sensory Inclusive MapAdditional resource mentioned in the episode:KultureCity Sensory Inclusive MapProduced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Consultant. Creator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will 

Episode 62 – Judge You AnywayI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, William Wright explores the reality of judgment and what it means to stay grounded in your decisions even when other people have opinions about them.He breaks down how easily we begin shaping our choices around how they will be received instead of whether they are actually true for us. Over time, this creates a quiet disconnect where decisions no longer feel like they belong to us. William challenges listeners to recognize when they are organizing their lives around perception instead of ownership.The conversation focuses on the difference between trying to avoid judgment and learning how to stand in your choices regardless of it. Judgment is not something that can be controlled, but the way you respond to it can be. When decisions come from a place of self-awareness and intention, they carry a steadiness that is not easily shaken by outside opinions.William also shares how the constant effort to manage how others see you leads to mental and emotional exhaustion. Shifting that energy inward allows for clarity, confidence, and a stronger connection to what feels true. The episode invites listeners to check in with themselves before making decisions and ask whether their choices are aligned or adjusted.This episode is a reminder that judgment is inevitable, but losing yourself in the process is optional. When you choose from a place of ownership, you no longer need to control the outcome to feel grounded in your decisions.Produced and Edited by William WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 61 – Permission to EvolveI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, William Wright explores the idea that growth often requires permission, not from others, but from ourselves. Using observations from cooking competition shows, particularly Beat Bobby Flay, William reflects on how tradition and innovation coexist both in the kitchen and in our lives.Cooking competitions reveal an interesting pattern. Chefs bring dishes rooted in family history, culture, and personal pride, yet they are also expected to evolve those traditions in ways that reflect their own voice. Through blind judging, the focus shifts away from reputation and toward the idea behind the dish. What matters most is not who made it, but whether the concept works.William uses this dynamic as a metaphor for personal growth. Much like recipes passed down through generations, many of our beliefs about identity, success, family, and culture are inherited. These ideas can shape us in meaningful ways, but they can also become rigid if we believe they must remain unchanged.The episode explores the emotional weight of tradition and the fear that often comes with change. Many people worry that evolving means rejecting where they came from. William challenges that belief by reframing evolution as an extension of the past rather than a rejection of it. Growth does not require abandoning tradition. It invites reflection, curiosity, and the courage to adapt what we inherit so it aligns with who we are becoming.Through the lens of cooking, competition, and storytelling, this conversation highlights the balance between honoring the past and creating something new. True growth happens when we allow ourselves to question inherited ideas while still respecting the history that shaped them.This episode is an invitation to see life as a process that unfolds over time. Your story does not need to remain fixed. With awareness and intention, you can preserve what matters and evolve what no longer serves you.Produced and Edited by William WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Episode 60 – My Best FriendI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, William Wright shares a personal story about the unexpected lessons he learned from caring for his dog, Omega. What began as a simple act of companionship gradually became a deeper reflection on responsibility, presence, and the meaning of authentic connectionWilliam explains how the quiet routines of everyday care revealed something powerful about attention and awareness. Walking Omega, feeding him, and simply being present created moments of reflection that reshaped how he thought about relationships, trust, and emotional presence. These simple daily interactions became reminders that connection is not built through grand gestures but through consistency and attention.The story also explores how animals have a unique way of revealing our emotional state without judgment. Omega’s presence offered a kind of honesty that invited William to slow down and be more aware of how he showed up in his own life and in his relationships with others.This episode highlights how some of the most meaningful lessons about care, loyalty, and connection come from the quiet parts of life. Through Omega, William was reminded that presence is a form of love and that authentic connection begins with how we show up in the smallest moments.Produced and Edited by William WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will

Episode 59 – The Way I See It: Pluribus (Season One Breakdown)This episode marks the beginning of a new segment on the I Am Self-ish podcast called The Way I See It, where Will Wright steps into culture, storytelling, and media through a reflective and conversational lens. Joined by guest Zack Tolmie, Will dives into a deep discussion about the first season of the series Pluribus, exploring the themes, characters, and moments that made the show stand out.Will and Zack share their first impressions of the series and unpack the unique premise that sets the show apart. They explore how the story balances individuality versus collective good, and how the character development shaped the emotional impact of the season. The conversation also highlights moments of frustration, unexpected turns, and the scenes that shifted the trajectory of the story in meaningful ways.Throughout the episode, they break down their top three moments from the season, reflect on the deeper themes the show raises, and offer predictions for where the story could go next. What begins as a conversation about television evolves into a broader discussion about identity, choice, and the tension between personal freedom and collective responsibility.By the end of the episode, both Will and Zack agree that Pluribus earns elite status as a series with strong storytelling and significant potential for future seasons.This first installment of The Way I See It sets the tone for honest conversations that blend entertainment, reflection, and real-life perspectiveProduced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 58 – Borrowed WorthI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright explores the quiet but powerful habit of comparing ourselves to others and the impact it has on how we see our own value. He unpacks how comparison slowly pulls us away from self-trust, leading us to measure our lives against someone else’s highlight reel instead of our own truth.Will discusses how borrowed worth shows up when validation comes from outside sources rather than from within. The constant need to be seen, approved of, or measured against others can create feelings of inadequacy and disconnect us from our own path. He challenges listeners to recognize when they are chasing external approval and to question whether the standards they are living by actually belong to them.The conversation highlights the emotional cost of comparison and the importance of learning to define success and fulfillment on your own terms. Will reminds listeners that self-worth is not something that can be earned through competition or comparison. It is something that must be claimed internally.This episode is an invitation to stop borrowing your value from the world around you and start trusting what already exists within you. Your path does not need to look like anyone else’s to be meaningful. Real confidence begins when you give yourself permission to believe that your worth is already enough.Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 57 – Passing Down PainI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, William Wright explores the deeper meaning of generational wealth and challenges the idea that legacy is only about money. He reframes wealth as the emotional environment we pass down to the next generation, whether we are aware of it or not.William speaks honestly about how inherited stress, fear, silence, resentment, and unprocessed trauma become part of a family system. He explains how children do not just inherit last names and traditions. They inherit coping mechanisms, beliefs about worth, and emotional survival patterns. When those patterns go unexamined, pain quietly repeats itself.The episode unpacks how cycles of control, avoidance, guilt, and emotional suppression are often learned behaviors that were once protective but are no longer necessary. William emphasizes that breaking generational cycles is not about blaming parents or rewriting history. It is about awareness, ownership, and choosing differently.Healing, he explains, is the real inheritance. Awareness is the interruption. Personal responsibility becomes the turning point. When one person decides to process what was never processed before, the entire legacy begins to shift.This episode is a call to stop passing down pain disguised as tradition and to start building a legacy rooted in truth, emotional intelligence, and freedom. The greatest wealth you can leave behind is not financial. It is emotional health.Produced and Edited by William WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 56 – Lonely Was the CostI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, William Wright shares a deeply personal reflection on healing, truth, and the loneliness that can come with both.He speaks openly about the emotional cost of growth and how standing firmly in your truth can shift relationships in ways you do not expect. Healing, he explains, is not always celebrated. Sometimes it isolates you. Sometimes it changes the dynamics you once depended on. And sometimes the very growth you prayed for requires you to release people who only knew the old version of you.William reflects on trauma, faith, and the internal work required to separate inherited beliefs from lived truth. He explores the tension between spirituality and self-trust, and how healing often requires taking personal responsibility instead of waiting for validation or rescue.This episode is not about blaming the past. It is about owning the present. It is about understanding that self-acceptance is not selfish, and that growth sometimes means choosing alignment over approval. Lonely was the cost.But freedom was the reward. This conversation is an invitation to anyone walking the quiet path of healing. You are not wrong for evolving. You are not selfish for choosing peace. And you are not alone in the loneliness that sometimes comes with becoming yourself.Produced and Edited by William WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 55 – Re-released: When I CrySome conversations don’t expire. They resurface because they are needed again.In this re-release, host Will Wright returns to a deeply personal reflection on crying as a powerful form of emotional release and healing. As themes of overwhelm, grief, and emotional fatigue continue to show up in his coaching work, this episode felt important to bring back into the conversation.Will challenges the belief that tears are a sign of weakness and reframes crying as a strength that reconnects us to our truth and creates emotional clarity. He shares personal insights on how crying has helped him process emotions he could not always name, especially during moments of transition when words were not enough.The episode invites listeners to rethink vulnerability, not as exposure or shame, but as courage in its purest form. Crying, Will explains, is emotional hygiene. It clears internal clutter, brings awareness to what has been ignored, and helps restore balance when life feels heavy.This re-release serves as a reminder that allowing yourself to cry is not falling apart. It is coming home to yourself. When emotions are honored instead of judged, growth becomes possible and self-acceptance follows naturally.Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will

Episode 54 – Stop Doubting Your ValueI Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright is joined by coach and consultant Chris Donohoe for a powerful conversation about self-worth, value recognition, and building a life and business rooted in truth rather than fear.Will and Chris explore how self-doubt and imposter syndrome quietly keep capable professionals underpaid and overextended. They talk about the emotional work required to let go of past identities, the grief that often accompanies growth, and the mindset shifts needed to unlock both confidence and financial independence. The conversation highlights the reality that judgment is unavoidable, and that grounding yourself in what you know to be true is essential for sustainable growth.Chris shares his mission to help independent professionals build profitable businesses fueled by purpose. He speaks openly about building his own two point five million dollar coaching and consulting business one brick at a time, and how that same intentional approach is what he teaches his clients. From Wall Street to Main Street, Chris has worked with designers, researchers, engineers, consultants, architects, educators, and countless other professionals who want to do work they love while earning enough to support their lives and futures.Together, Will and Chris discuss emotional capacity, self-validation, and why confidence is not about performance but about reality. They unpack how coaching can help individuals interpret feedback without internalizing it as failure, and how independence often requires choosing yourself even when fear and uncertainty are present.This episode is an invitation to stop outsourcing your worth, release outdated versions of yourself, and lead from clarity instead of comparison.About Chris Donohoe: Chris Donohoe is a coach and consultant on a mission to help independent professionals build profitable businesses fueled by purpose. His work centers on helping people do meaningful work while earning enough to live fully and plan for the future. He built a two point five million dollar coaching and consulting business brick by brick and now helps others do the same through grounded strategy, mindset work, and real-world application.Follow Chris on Instagram at @chris_donohoe_Produced and Edited by Will Wright Host | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management Coach Creator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 53 – Re-released: Episode 26 Fear of Rejection I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this re-released episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright revisits one of the most quietly powerful themes he sees showing up again and again in his coaching work: fear of rejection.This is not the loud, obvious fear. It is the subtle kind that shows up as hesitation before speaking, confidence dropping under pressure, or choosing silence instead of saying what you really mean. Will reframes fear of rejection not as a confidence issue, but as stress responding to a perceived threat and taking control of the energy underneath the moment.Originally recorded as a personal reflection, this episode explores what rejection does to us internally, how it shapes our emotional responses, and why choosing yourself often happens without applause or validation from others. Will speaks to the experience of building quietly, questioning yourself, and continuing forward even when support feels absent.This re-release remains deeply relevant. It is an honest conversation for anyone who has felt themselves pulling back, shrinking, or doubting their voice during moments of uncertainty. The episode serves as a reminder that confidence is not about being fearless. It is about understanding your stress, reclaiming your energy, and choosing yourself anyway.Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH [email protected]: @selfish.willlinkedin.com/in/selfish-willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 52 – Beautiful Systems – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with professional organizer Melissa Park for a thoughtful conversation about the emotional and practical power of organizing spaces with intention. Together, they explore how our environments influence our mental health, energy, and sense of peace, and why organization is about so much more than tidying up.Melissa shares her journey from aspiring actress to founder of With Arla, a New York City based professional organizing and home systems company. She reflects on how her background in project management and creative expression shaped her approach to building systems that actually support the way people live. Rather than focusing on perfection, Melissa emphasizes intentionality and functionality, helping clients create homes that feel calm, usable, and aligned with their lives.The conversation dives into the emotional attachment people have to their belongings and why purging can feel so difficult. Melissa explains how clutter often carries stories, guilt, or unresolved emotions, and how letting go can create space not just physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. Will and Melissa also discuss the importance of maintaining personal energy while helping others, and the balance required when your work is rooted in service.Melissa shares insights from her work collaborating with designers and architects, highlighting the value of integrating organization into the design process from the beginning. Beautiful spaces, she explains, only work when beauty and livability are designed together.This episode is a reminder that systems can be supportive, homes can be healing, and organization done with intention can create peace of mind and freedom in everyday life.About Melissa ParkMelissa Park is the founder of With Arla, a New York City based professional organizing and home systems company. With a background in project management and a deep appreciation for intentional living, she designs thoughtful, functional spaces that make daily life easier and more beautiful. Her work goes beyond decluttering, creating systems that support how people actually live while blending simplicity, practicality, and elevated design. Melissa also partners with designers and architects to help ensure that homes are both beautiful and functional from the inside out.Connect with Melissa ParkWebsite: https://witharla.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/homewitharlaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@homewitharlaProduced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📱 646 645 [email protected]. inkedin.com/in/selfish-willInstagram: @selfish.willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 51 – Self-Awareness Is the Work – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with psychotherapist Amy Meyers for a thoughtful and grounded conversation about self-awareness and its role in both personal and professional growth. Together, they explore how understanding our inner world shapes the way we show up in relationships, leadership, and everyday life.Amy breaks down psychodynamic therapy in an accessible way, helping listeners understand how early experiences, family systems, and sibling dynamics influence emotional patterns that often follow us into adulthood. The conversation highlights how many people unknowingly repeat behaviors rooted in childhood, not because they are broken, but because those patterns once kept them safe.Will and Amy discuss why self-awareness can feel uncomfortable and why avoiding it often feels easier in the short term. They talk about how ignorance can create a false sense of peace, while awareness opens the door to real change. Through reflection and accountability, individuals can begin to recognize their triggers, take ownership of their responses, and make more intentional choices.The episode also addresses common misconceptions about therapy, reframing it not as something reserved for crisis, but as a powerful tool for growth and clarity. Amy emphasizes that self-care is not indulgent or optional. It is an expression of self-love and a lifestyle choice that supports emotional health over time.Throughout the conversation, both Will and Amy return to the importance of emotional intelligence and choice. Self-awareness, they explain, is not about self-criticism. It is about understanding yourself well enough to respond instead of react, and to build relationships rooted in honesty, respect, and compassion.This episode is an invitation to look inward with curiosity rather than fear and to remember that growth begins with awareness.Connect with Amy MeyersEmail: [email protected] and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method646 645 [email protected]/in/selfish-willInstagram: @selfish.willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 50 – A Conversation With My Future Self – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this milestone episode of the I Am Selfish podcast, Will Wright steps into a powerful moment of self-reflection. Instead of interviewing a guest or exploring a single coaching theme, he turns inward and has a conversation with his future self. The result is an honest and transformative dialogue about self-acceptance, voice, emotional permission, and the journey from survival to freedom.Will reflects on how far he has come, the lessons that shaped him, and the truth he can no longer avoid. He speaks openly about the importance of trusting your own voice instead of trying to be relatable, and the freedom that comes when you stop apologizing for your growth. This episode marks a shift for the podcast, stepping into deeper emotional waters and inviting listeners to explore their patterns, their choices, and the future versions of themselves waiting to be acknowledged.The conversation highlights Will’s belief that your future self is not a fantasy. It is a real version of you living the life you are capable of, urging you to stop shrinking and start leading. He shares the difference between peace and avoidance, the guilt people carry for choosing themselves, and the power of walking like success is already expected of you.This episode is a turning point for the show and an invitation to anyone who is ready to stop surviving and start becoming.Themes from the episodeYou already know the truth. Stop pretending you do not.Peace is a choice, not a reward.Your truth is leadership. Do not justify your voice.Freedom is the voice you are meant to teach from.You are allowed to create a life different from your past.Let go of guilt for choosing yourself.Stop trying to be relatable and start being real.Walk like you are expected to succeed.This podcast is stepping into deeper emotional exploration.There is a future version of you already living your dreams.Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📱 646 645 1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

Episode 49 – Keep Calm and Parent On – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright has a heartfelt and grounded conversation with parenting consultant and educator Kelly Burtnick. Kelly shares her journey from classroom educator to parent coach and opens up about the emotional work behind conscious communication. Together, they explore how understanding child development, managing personal triggers, and practicing empathy can transform the entire parenting experience.Kelly explains how her Teach Through Love training influences her approach and why self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence in parenting. She talks about the importance of lowering unrealistic expectations of children and how doing so can bring more peace, patience, and connection into the home. Will and Kelly discuss the pressures parents feel, the fear of getting it wrong, and the reality that parents are learning just as much as their kids.The conversation highlights stress management, community support, and the ongoing practice of self-care as essential tools. Kelly reminds listeners that parenting is not about perfection. It is about consciousness and presence. Will reinforces that every day offers a new opportunity to grow and build confidence as a parent.This episode encourages parents to slow down, breathe, and embrace the messy parts of parenting with compassion. It is a reminder that calm is possible, connection is teachable, and parents deserve support too.About Kelly BurtnickKelly Burtnick is a parent consultant, certified educator, and Teach Through Love Facilitator who helps parents strengthen their connection with their children and bring more peace into their homes. She created Shore to Thrive as a safe and accessible space where parents can learn practical tools for building calm, connected, and cooperative family relationships. Kelly offers sessions both in person and via Zoom.Shore to Thrive LLCTeach Through Love Facilitator | Parent Consultant | Certified EducatorWebsite: www.shoretothrive.comEmail: [email protected]: 732 440 9312Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shoretothriveFacebook: Shore to ThriveFavorite quotes from Kelly:"Conscious, not perfect.""Keep calm and parent on."Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📱 646 645 1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

Episode 48 – The Hot Seat – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, the roles reverse and Alma Vicencio interviews Will Wright. For the first time, Will steps fully into vulnerability and shares the experiences that shaped his identity, his healing, and his work as a coach.Will opens up about leading a recent workshop for a group of exhausted Verizon workers. The room was tense and resistant, which forced him to reflect on how burnout and emotional overload can make people shut down even when they need support the most.The conversation moves into Will’s childhood and the impact of growing up in a chaotic home without a consistent father figure. He talks about the instability he lived through and the complicated relationship he had with religion, which gave him community but also created internal conflict.Will reflects on mentoring troubled youth and the struggle of reconciling his faith with the real challenges the kids were facing. That period sparked his commitment to honesty, empathy, and emotional intelligence. He also shares how the Big Apple Circus opened his world and introduced him to diversity, performance, and the possibility of a different life. Fatherhood, therapy, and the pandemic became turning points that pushed him to confront old pain and rebuild trust in himself.This conversation is a raw and honest look at the trauma, faith, doubt, and resilience that shaped Will’s journey. Alma guides him through the moments that broke him and the moments that built him. It is a reminder that healing begins with truth and becoming yourself requires courage and self-awareness.Connect with Alma VicencioInstagram: https://instagram.com/almasaurus_stylesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AlmaStylesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@almasaurus_stylesLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alma-vicencioProduced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📱 646 645 1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress, more choice.

In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright explores the internal struggle so many face on their journey toward authenticity and personal growth. He speaks to the quiet tension between who we were taught to be and who we truly are, reminding listeners that becoming who you are meant to be often requires letting go of what no longer fits.Will discusses the fear of not being liked, the pressure to please, and the emotional weight that comes from trying to live up to other people’s expectations. He challenges listeners to consider what parts of themselves they’re still holding onto out of obligation or fear—and what could open up if they finally released them.This episode is a powerful invitation to stop performing for acceptance and start living from alignment. Because becoming your true self isn’t about adding more—it’s about releasing what’s in the way.Memorable insights:“You can’t become who you’re meant to be while clinging to who you were.”“The fear of not being liked will always keep you smaller than your purpose.”“Authenticity starts where approval ends.”Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

Episode 46 – Unscripted Truth – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Tiffany Unruh and Stacey, the creators of Fuck Off Truth Tellers, for a raw and heart-centered conversation about vulnerability, authenticity, and the courage to live and speak your truth.The three explore how their friendship evolved into a podcast built on honesty, humor, and unapologetic realness. They reflect on the messy middle of personal growth—the fears, societal pressures, and emotional breakthroughs that come with showing up as your full self. Together, they discuss accountability, the fear of rejection, and the freedom that comes when you stop performing for the world and start living for yourself.Through laughter, storytelling, and even a few fun hypotheticals, Tiffany and Stacey remind listeners that authenticity isn’t about perfection—it’s about permission. Permission to be messy, permission to grow, and permission to own your truth without apology.This episode is for anyone who’s ever struggled to balance self-expression with self-protection, and for everyone learning that true connection begins where pretending ends.Memorable insights:“Vulnerability is the doorway to real connection.”“Accountability isn’t punishment, it’s empowerment.”“The truth might scare people, but it will set you free.”About the GuestsTiffany Unruh and Stacey are the dynamic duo behind Fuck Off Truth Tellers—two best friends who reject the traditional blueprint for women and proudly own their off-script story. Their long friendship gives their show a natural chemistry, blending humor, storytelling, and catharsis. Instead of polished advice, they offer messy, unapologetic realness. It’s about laughing through the chaos, sharing what shaped them, and reminding listeners that there’s no single way to live a full, satisfying life.Connect with Fuck Off Truth Tellers📸 Instagram: @fuckofftruthtellers📸 Tiffany: @tiffanynicoleunruh📸 Stacey: @stacious8🔗 Linktree: @fuckofftruthtellersProduced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.willBe bold. Be SELF-ISH™.Less stress, more choice.

In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright explores the dynamics of compassion, validation, and the importance of setting boundaries in both relationships and personal life. He examines how the energy we bring into our acts of service often determines whether we feel fulfilled or drained, and how easily empathy can turn into emotional exhaustion when it lacks boundaries.Will breaks down Level Four Energy as the space where we finally feel like we are making a difference, but also where the need for validation can quietly take over. He explains that sometimes the reason we give so much isn’t just because we care, but because we want to feel seen or valued in return. When love depends on validation, service starts to cost us more than it gives.The conversation invites listeners to notice the difference between caring and controlling, and how creating boundaries doesn’t push people away—it protects the heart behind your empathy. True compassion inspires, but compassion without boundaries leads to burnout. Love without limits eventually breaks the person who’s always giving it.This episode is a reminder that self-care is not selfish. It’s how we sustain our ability to love, serve, and connect with others without losing ourselves in the process.Memorable insights:“Sometimes the reason you give so much isn’t just because you care.”“When your love depends on validation, your service starts to cost you.”“Boundaries that you create aren’t rejections—they are respect.”“You are tired because you haven’t learned where caring ends and control begins.”Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.willLess Stress, More Choice.

Episode 44 – Better After Baby – I Am Self-ish PodcastWelcome back to the I AM SELF-ISH™ Podcast—your space to explore the connection between mindset, emotion, and personal growth. I’m your host, Will Wright, certified life coach and stress management expert, here to help you redefine what it means to put yourself first.Each week, I sit down with thought leaders, change-makers, and everyday people doing extraordinary inner work. Together, we explore the real stories, lessons, and energy shifts that move us from fear and obligation to passion and choice.In this episode, I’m joined by Tori Whitaker, founder of Better After Baby and a motherhood identity coach helping moms rediscover their strength, confidence, and sense of self at every phase postpartum. Together, we explore how motherhood transforms every aspect of life—and how rediscovery doesn’t mean losing yourself, but coming home to who you are now.Tori shares her journey from collegiate gymnast and top-performing Equinox trainer to single mom and entrepreneur, blending her real-life experience with proven fitness, mindset, and nutrition strategies. The conversation highlights the power of community, the importance of self-care, and how redefining what “better” means after having children opens the door to true empowerment.Will and Tori also unpack the mindset shifts that help mothers move beyond survival mode, the myth of “balance,” and how boundaries and vulnerability can deepen connection both at home and within ourselves. Together, they reframe motherhood as an evolution—not a limitation—and remind listeners that self-care is not selfish, it’s essential.Tori shares her philosophy of AND, not OR, teaching moms they don’t have to choose between motherhood and personal fulfillment. Her approach focuses on building customized systems that fit each woman’s unique life and goals—because motherhood isn’t one-size-fits-all. With honesty and heart, she encourages every mother to embrace abundance, authenticity, and the belief that they can truly be better after baby.Memorable insights:“Failure is not an option—the simple but profound line that got me through the rebuild, one day at a time.”“Stick to the plan, not your mood. Habit formation is simple, not easy—but your mood will keep you stagnant.”“You don’t have to choose between being a mom and being yourself. You can be both. Abundance over here.”Connect with Tori WhitakerFitness, Nutrition & Mindset Coach | CEO, Better After Baby📧 [email protected]📲 203-610-7885🌐 bebetterafterbaby.com📸 Instagram: @torikwhit💼 Facebook & LinkedIn: Tori WhitakerBetter After Baby, Not Instead of Being a Mom.”Produced and Edited by Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.willLess stress, more choice.

Episode 43 – Level Three Energy: The Illusion of ControlIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright explores the concept of Level Three Energy—a state where individuals have learned to manage their emotions but haven’t yet fully healed from them. At this level, people often rely on coping mechanisms, rational thinking, and control to maintain balance, but beneath the surface, unprocessed emotions still linger.Will breaks down how Level Three Energy can create a false sense of peace, where composure replaces connection and understanding replaces true healing. While emotional management is a step forward from chaos, it can easily become a comfort zone that prevents deeper emotional freedom. This episode invites listeners to move beyond coping and into conscious healing, where awareness and vulnerability meet growth.Through the lens of energy leadership and emotional awareness, Will challenges the idea that maturity means suppression. True resilience, he explains, is not found in bypassing pain but in facing it with compassion and courage. Living SELF-ISH™ at this level means prioritizing your emotional truth over appearances—and choosing authenticity over avoidance.Will reminds us that you can master emotional management without achieving emotional healing. Rationalizing pain often leads to numbness, and Level Three Energy provides only conditional peace. Healing requires confronting your emotions, not thinking your way around them. As Will puts it, “You can’t outthink grief. Level Three is the bridge.”Keywords: emotional healing, energy leadership, stress management, coping mechanisms, personal growth, emotional awareness, self-discovery, mental health, resilience, life coachingConnect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

Episode 42 – When I Cry – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright explores the significance of crying as a powerful emotional release and a profound form of healing. He reminds listeners that crying is not a sign of weakness but a reflection of strength—an honest connection to our truest selves that allows for emotional clarity and peace.Will shares personal insights on how tears have helped him process emotions he couldn’t always put into words, revealing how each tear carries a message of relief, truth, and renewal. Crying, he explains, is both spiritual and cleansing—a natural part of being human that restores balance and reconnects us to what matters most.This episode is an invitation to see crying as a reset button for the soul. It’s emotional hygiene that clears away clutter, teaches compassion, and deepens self-acceptance. Will closes with a powerful reminder that vulnerability is courage, not shame—and that allowing yourself to cry is one of the most authentic expressions of growth and freedom.Memorable insights:“Crying is not weakness—it’s proof that you still care.”“Every tear carries a message of truth and release.”“Vulnerability isn’t something to hide; it’s how we heal.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

Episode 41 – Boundaries, Self-Love & Growth – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright is joined by psychotherapist Kelly Zemer for a heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation about the deep connection between self-love, boundaries, and personal growth. Together, they explore Kelly’s journey as a therapist, the importance of understanding emotional landscapes, and how societal expectations—especially those surrounding masculinity—can limit authentic self-expression.The discussion dives into the healing power of boundaries, the role of self-care in addiction recovery, and how open communication builds stronger, more honest relationships. Kelly and Will also reimagine classic fairy tales, such as Cinderella, to illustrate how stories can evolve to reflect self-empowerment and autonomy rather than dependency and rescue.This episode is a powerful reminder that boundaries aren’t barriers—they’re bridges to deeper connection. True self-love begins with awareness, honesty, and the willingness to care for yourself first.Memorable insights:“Boundaries can bring people closer together.”“Self-love is not selfish—it’s necessary for growth.”“Open communication is the foundation of emotional freedom.”Connect with Kelly ZemerPsychotherapist | Coach | Speaker📧 [email protected]🌐 kellyzemer.com📸 Instagram: @kellyzemerConnect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

Episode 40 – Level Two Energy: The Conflict Trap – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright unpacks the concept of Level Two Energy—an energy state driven by conflict, competition, and a win-lose mindset. He explores how this energy shows up in our everyday lives, from the workplace to our closest relationships, and how it thrives on anger, resentment, and stress overload.While Level Two Energy can produce short-term results, Will emphasizes the long-term costs: strained relationships, burnout, and a constant cycle of pressure. He explains why recognizing this energy is the first step to change and how shifting away from a win-lose approach opens the door to collaboration, growth, and healthier environments.Through the lens of the Energy Leadership Index Assessment, listeners are invited to reflect on how much Level Two Energy influences their choices and how they can begin shifting into new possibilities. Will reminds us that while conflict may be common in our culture, it doesn’t have to define us. Living SELF-ISH™ means prioritizing your well-being, managing stress through awareness and choice, and embracing the freedom that comes with alignment.Memorable insights:“Level Two Energy fuels conflict but drains connection.”“A win-lose mindset might get results, but it costs you peace.”“Choosing differently creates the space for healthier relationships and growth.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-willInstagram: @selfish.will

Episode 39 – Don’t Be a Bigot-In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright explores the concept of bigotry, defining it as hate disguised as certainty. He unpacks how bigotry is learned through fear, intolerance, and inherited beliefs, and how it shows up in both subtle and overt ways.Will challenges listeners to recognize bigotry not only in the world around them, but also in their own thoughts and behaviors. Through self-awareness, acceptance, and intentional choices, he offers strategies to dismantle prejudice and foster genuine connection.The conversation highlights the destructive impact of bigotry on personal relationships, communities, and culture at large. At its core, this episode is a call to growth: to choose courage over fear, compassion over judgment, and connection over division.Memorable insights:“Bigotry is hate disguised as certainty.”“Fear teaches intolerance, but awareness teaches freedom.”“Change begins when we choose connection over judgment.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

Episode 38 -In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright unpacks the concept of Level One Energy—the mindset of victimhood and stress that quietly sabotages growth and choice. He explains how this energy shows up in our lives, often disguised as exhaustion, self-doubt, or hopelessness, and how it can silently influence our relationships, health, and personal goals.Will breaks down the ways Level One Energy keeps people stuck, and why awareness is the first step toward change. By understanding and reframing this energy, we can begin to reclaim our personal power, shift from survival mode into choice, and take meaningful action toward the lives we actually want to live.This episode is a compassionate yet challenging reminder that you are not powerless—and that every moment offers a new opportunity to choose differently.Memorable insights:“Level One Energy whispers that you can’t—until you start proving that you can.”“You can’t lead your life from a place where you’ve given up your power.”“Awareness is the first step out of victimhood.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-willInstagram: @selfish.will

Episode 37 – The SELF-ISH Method – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright unpacks the profound impact of stress on our lives and introduces his signature coaching framework: The SELF-ISH Method™. This 12-week program is centered around the Energy Leadership Index (ELI) Assessment, a powerful tool designed to help individuals understand their unique stress patterns and transform their relationship with stress.Will shares his own journey with stress and how discovering the ELI shifted his perspective from being controlled by stress to choosing how he responds to it. He breaks down the seven levels of energy, illustrating how each level influences our reactions, choices, and overall sense of well-being.At its core, this episode highlights how the SELF-ISH Method™ helps people move out of survival mode and into intentional living. Will emphasizes that personal growth starts with awareness, and that the power of choice is always available when it comes to leading a life of clarity, freedom, and fulfillment.Memorable insights:“Stress isn’t just about what happens to you—it’s about how you relate to it.”“Energy shifts everything: your choices, your perspective, your outcomes.”“Growth begins with self-awareness, but it’s sustained through choice.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-willInstagram: @selfish.will

Episode 36 – Survival Mode Isn’t Living – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright confronts the reality of survival mode—the state where people appear strong and composed on the outside but are silently struggling within. He breaks down the difference between merely surviving and truly living, shining a light on the hidden costs of staying stuck in that cycle.Through honest reflection and practical insights, Will emphasizes the importance of recognizing when you’ve slipped into survival mode and the courage it takes to admit you need help. He challenges listeners to break free from old patterns, reconnect with their passions, and choose a life that is not just about getting by, but about thriving.The episode closes with a powerful reminder: transformation begins with choice. By choosing to step out of survival mode, you give yourself permission to live fully, embrace freedom, and create the life you deserve.Memorable insights:“Survival mode wears a mask of strength but hides silent suffering.”“Living is more than getting through the day—it’s choosing passion over fear.”“The first step out of survival mode is choosing differently.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

Episode 35 – Not Your Lane – I Am Self-ish PodcastIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright dives into the importance of self-discovery and recognizing when you’re in the wrong lane in life. He emphasizes that true confidence cannot be built in environments that don’t align with your authentic self.Through personal stories and client experiences, Will unpacks the subtle signs of being in the wrong lane, from constant self-doubt to exhaustion, and explores the emotional and practical costs of staying there. He challenges listeners to pause, reflect, and ask themselves whether the path they’re on is truly theirs—or one dictated by fear, obligation, or outside expectations.This episode is both a wake-up call and a call to action: the first step to real growth is acknowledging when you’re out of alignment. The next step is choosing to shift into a lane that reflects who you really are.Key themes include the cost of staying in misaligned environments, the difference between fear-driven choices and passion-driven ones, and the freedom that comes with realignment. Will reminds us that the power to choose differently is always available—and that choosing your true lane is an act of courage.Memorable insights:“Confidence can’t grow in the wrong lane.”“Fear and obligation will keep you stuck—but passion will get you moving.”“Alignment is where confidence and freedom meet.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📱 646-645-1509📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-willInstagram: @selfish.will

In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright explores the transformative power of self-reflection, inspired by a coaching session centered on writing a letter to one’s younger self. This heartfelt exercise opened the door to deeper awareness, revealing how far we’ve truly come and the importance of honoring that journey.Will dives into themes of personal growth, emotional intelligence, and the often-overlooked significance of celebrating small wins. He reminds listeners that in the rush of everyday life, it’s easy to overlook the quiet victories that shape who we are. By slowing down and reflecting, we create space to see our progress clearly, measure success by our own standards, and reconnect with the truth of who we are.Key themes include the breakthroughs found in stillness, the power of acknowledging achievements big and small, and the way emotional intelligence fuels self-leadership. This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and recognize that you are further along in your journey than you may realize.Memorable insights:“The biggest breakthroughs often come from quiet moments.”“Small wins are significant and should be celebrated.”“You are further along in your journey than you realize.”Connect with Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright is joined by someone who truly embodies this work: transformational coach and leadership expert Merilee Smith, who helps high-achieving women reclaim their voice, their purpose, and their inner calm. Together, they dive into a powerful conversation on self-empowerment, emotional intelligence, and the unique journey of high-achieving women. They unpack the challenges of perfectionism, the power of choice, and why compassion is a game-changer in coaching.Merilee shares her story of building Spark with Merilee, hosting transformative retreats, and creating spaces where women can reconnect with themselves. The discussion explores the importance of self-awareness, the impact of the words we use, and how to find a healthy balance between ambition and self-care. At its heart, this episode is a reminder that the power to create change has always been within you.Key themes include the importance of self-empowerment for personal growth, the role language plays in shaping self-perception, and how compassion helps quiet self-judgment. Merilee and Will highlight that transformation often begins with a small spark, that emotional intelligence is essential for navigating challenges, and that community and connection amplify the coaching experience. They also remind listeners that freedom starts with choice—and that it’s perfectly okay to embrace being a “hot mess” sometimes.Connect with Guest: Merilee SmithChief Spark Officer | Mindset Coach | SpeakerSpark with Merilee📧 [email protected]🌐 sparkwithmerilee.com📸 Instagram: @sparkwithmerileeConnect with Host: Will WrightHost | Certified Life Coach & Stress Management CoachCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH™ Method📧 [email protected]🌐 iamself-ish.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/selfish-will📸 Instagram: @selfish.will

In this episode of the I AM SELF-ISH podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Santiago Grijalva for a powerful conversation about the true essence of mentorship. Together, they unpack what makes someone a real mentor, how social media has reshaped mentorship dynamics, and why distinguishing between a mentor and an influencer is more important than ever.Santiago offers thoughtful insights and personal stories about the benefits and challenges of mentorship, the emotional impact of having (or lacking) guidance, and the critical role of integrity and accountability in these relationships. This conversation is a timely reminder that mentorship is more than a title—it’s a relationship built on trust, honesty, and growth.Throughout the episode, you’ll hear why a mentor is someone who genuinely wants to see the best in you, and how mentorship is rooted in guidance, accountability, and personal development. The discussion explores how social media has complicated—but not replaced—authentic mentorship, and why true mentors never make you feel like just a number. Santiago emphasizes that you are not defined by your past mistakes and reminds us that mentors are not therapists—they’re there to guide your direction. If you can’t clearly define your mentor, you probably don’t have one. A mentor should never make you feel stuck or ashamed, and the most meaningful mentorships are grounded in integrity, consistency, and accountability. Ultimately, the journey of personal growth often leads to becoming a mentor yourself.Connect with Host Will Wright📧 Email: ⁠[email protected]⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠@selfish.will⁠🌐 Website: ⁠www.iamself-ish.com⁠Connect with Guest Santiago Grijalva📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @coach_gri

Episode 31: Stronger Than Setbacks – with CourtneyIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Bronx-born trainer Courtney for a powerful conversation about grit, growth, and redefining strength—on and off the gym floor.From growing up in a female-led household to building a successful fitness career rooted in resilience, Courtney shares how his journey shaped his voice, values, and vision. They explore the mindset shifts required to bounce back from adversity, the underrated power of social skills in training, and why emotional intelligence is the new six-pack.They also dig into the role of spirituality, the tension between family life and entrepreneurship, and how modern fitness is evolving beyond just physical appearance.Takeaways:​Strength is more than muscle—it’s mindset, presence, and communication.​Setbacks aren’t the end of the story; they’re a setup for transformation.​Being raised in a female-led home shaped Courtney’s emotional fluency and leadership style.​Spirituality plays a vital role in grounding and guiding success.​In fitness and in life, the ability to connect is just as important as the ability to coach.🎧 Tune in to hear how setbacks built strength—and how you can turn your own struggles into fuel.Connect with Guest Courtney Pierre📸 Instagram: @thesoulwarrior33🎵 TikTok: @thesoulwarrior33🌐 Website: the.soulwarrior.comConnect with Host Will Wright📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @selfish.will🌐 Website: www.iamself-ish.com

Episode 30: Feeding the Weakness – with Will WrightIn this raw and revealing solo episode, host Will Wright explores a powerful question: Are you growing, or are you being coddled?"Feeding the Weakness" unpacks the subtle—but dangerous—ways pandering can show up in our relationships, routines, and self-talk. Whether it's others enabling our comfort zones or our own avoidance dressed up as self-care, Will sheds light on how these patterns keep us safe… but stuck.Drawing from personal reflections and client experiences, Will challenges listeners to notice when comfort is being mistaken for care—and how to build relationships that call you up, not just soothe you down.Takeaways:​Pandering feels like love, but often keeps us stagnant.​Real growth comes from truth-telling, not people-pleasing.​Being challenged isn't the opposite of being supported—it's often the truest form of care.​The people who call you out are often the ones rooting for your evolution.​Empowerment > comfort—every ​time.​​Connect with Host Will Wright:​Instagram: @selfish.will​Email: [email protected]​Website: www.iamself-ish.com

Episode 29: Leadership in Wonderland – with Susan GoldbergIn this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright steps into the curious and transformative world of leadership with consultant and author Susan Goldberg, co-creator of Leadership in Wonderland. Using Lewis Carroll’s classic tale as a creative framework, they explore how characters like Alice, the Mad Hatter, and the Queen of Hearts mirror real leadership dynamics—confusion, growth, confidence, and clarity.Together, they unpack what it means to lead with purpose in a constantly shifting world, why traditional leadership models often fall short, and how storytelling, curiosity, and reflection can guide leaders back to themselves. If leadership has ever felt like falling down a rabbit hole—you’re not alone.Takeaways:​Leadership isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s personal, emotional, and evolving.​Recognition, reflection, and self-awareness are essential to authentic leadership.​Anyone with a voice, a vision, and a willingness to grow can lead.​Storytelling is more than narrative—it’s a leadership tool for clarity and connection.​Leadership development should feel human, not like a grind.​“Collaboration Beyond Words®” helps teams work smarter, not harder.🎁 Bonus Opportunity:Susan is offering a free beta test of her “Leadership Insight” session—the first step in her Collaboration Beyond Words® process—for team leaders looking to grow.👉 Email [email protected] or reach out to Will for an introduction.Company Page​More About Susan Goldberg: Website:www.susangoldbergleadership.com​LinkedIn: Susan Goldberg | Email: [email protected]​​Book: Leadership in WonderlandFavorite Quotes:“Leadership can feel like you’re falling down a rabbit hole.”“You don’t have to be loud to be a leader—just clear.”“Real leadership begins when you know your story and let others see it too.”​​Connect with Host Will Wright:Instagram: @selfish.willEmail: [email protected]: www.iamself-ish.comWelcome to Wonderland. 🐇🪞

Episode 28: Brooklyn’s Finest – with Roger DunkelbargerIn this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright speaks with real estate agent and creative soul Roger Dunkelbarger about the uniquely personal—and often emotional—journey of buying and selling homes in New York City. With over a decade of experience and a background in theater, Roger shares how storytelling, connection, and a love for community shape his approach to helping clients find the right home.Originally from Southern Indiana, Roger has called New York City home for over 15 years. His career spans new development sales, resales, co-ops, condos, and townhouses, making him a trusted guide for everyone from first-time buyers to seasoned investors. He currently serves clients in both Manhattan and Brooklyn as part of the prestigious Eklund | Gomes team at Douglas Elliman.Together, Will and Roger explore:​How creativity and real estate intersect​What makes Brooklyn buyers unique​The hidden gems of the borough​The challenges of NYC real estate—from analysis to emotion​How storytelling and authenticity build stronger client relationships​The episode wraps up with a playful segment where the two dream up marketing strategies for fictional properties—yes, Hogwarts and Stark Tower included.Takeaways:​Real estate is more than numbers—it’s about identity, dreams, and belonging.​Storytelling helps buyers imagine life in a new space.​Every client brings a different energy—and needs a different kind of support.​Being a successful agent means blending strategy, empathy, and creativity.​Brooklyn and Manhattan each offer their own rhythm, challenges, and charm.​About Roger DunkelbargerRoger is a real estate professional with the Eklund | Gomes Team at Douglas Elliman, specializing in the Manhattan and Brooklyn markets. Known for his analytical mind and high-energy, heart-forward approach, he supports both buyers and sellers through every step of the real estate journey. Before real estate, Roger built a career as an actor and singer, developing a global perspective that now informs his appreciation for architecture, design, and human connection.🎭 Ithaca College alum🏠 NYC real estate expert🌍 World traveler & arts enthusiast🎂 Aspiring baker & hiking lover🔗 Elliman Profile📸 Instagram: @rogerofnyc📧 Email: [email protected] with Host Will Wright📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @selfish.will🌐 Website: www.iamself-ish.com

Episode 27: Dance Dreams, Dirty Truths – with Megan MorganIn this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with professional dancer, choreographer, and teacher Megan Morgan for a raw, reflective conversation about the beauty, sacrifice, and truth behind a life in dance.Megan opens up about her early passion for movement, the long hours, and the personal costs that often stay hidden behind the curtain. Together, they dive deep into the emotional toll of the industry, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for clear contracts to honor one's value as an artist.With honesty and heart, Megan explores the roles that community, trust, and self-worth play in building a creative life that’s not just sustainable—but healing. This episode pulls back the curtain on dance to reveal both the magic and the mess—the joy, the doubt, the grind, and the dream.🎧 Takeaways:Dance is more than performance—it's storytelling, discipline, and identity.Boundaries and contracts are essential forms of self-respect in creative work.The dance industry can be isolating without the right support systems.The best dancers aren’t just technically strong—they’re emotionally aware and self-advocating.Safe, inclusive, and affirming spaces are key to the future of dance.📩 Connect with Megan Morgan:Email: [email protected] with Host Will Wright:📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @selfish.will🌍 Website: www.iamself-ish.com🎭 Tune in to “Dance Dreams, Dirty Truths” and hear what it really takes to keep showing up for your art—and for yourself.Let me know if you’d like a version with links formatted for podcast platforms or show notes!

Episode 26: Fear of RejectionIn this vulnerable solo episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright explores the quiet, heavy weight of rejection—especially when it comes from the people closest to us.What happens when your dreams are met with silence? When support is absent, and self-doubt creeps in? Will gets honest about the emotional toll of feeling unsupported and the courage it takes to keep showing up anyway.This episode is a reflection on why rejection stings, how fear tries to keep us small, and what it really means to choose yourself even when others don’t. If you’ve ever felt discouraged by a lack of recognition, this one’s for you.Connect with Host Will Wright:📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @selfish.will🌍 Website: www.iamself-ish.com🎧 Fear of Rejection is a love letter to the ones still building—even without the applause.Listen now, and let it remind you: your belief in yourself is louder than any silence.

Episode 25: The Velvet Rope – with Shanette VegaIn this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with creative powerhouse and event producer Shanette Vega to pull back the curtain on what it really takes to create unforgettable experiences. With over a decade of producing high-impact events for brands like Google and Netflix, Shanette shares what it means to stay grounded while working in one of the most high-stress, high-glam industries.They explore how intuition, listening, and presence are her greatest tools—and how managing chaos with grace is an art form. From navigating burnout with creativity to using events as a tool for emotional impact, Shanette gives us a behind-the-scenes look at a life built on intention, excellence, and storytelling through space.This episode is a tribute to the artistry of production—and a reminder that events don’t just happen… they’re designed to be remembered.About Shanette Vega:Shanette Vega is a seasoned event producer with over 10 years of experience designing immersive, high-level experiences around the globe. From red carpets to destination retreats, she brings bold ideas to life with elegance and precision. Her events are known for their emotional resonance, innovation, and seamless execution—earning her a reputation as one of the most trusted names in the field.Connect with Shanette Vega:Instagram: @cpr.designWebsite: shanettevega.comEmail:[email protected]: Shanette VegaConnect with Host Will Wright:Email: [email protected]: @selfish.willWebsite: www.iamself-ish.comTune in and discover what’s behind The Velvet Rope—a space where creativity, presence, and legacy meet.

Episode 24: Off Script, On Brand – with Samantha CooperIn this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Samantha Cooper, a powerhouse voiceover artist known for her work with major brands and her ability to bring authenticity and connection to every read. Together, they go beyond the mic to explore what it really takes to succeed in an industry that demands flexibility, presence, and soul.Because voiceover isn’t just about sounding good—it’s about showing up with clarity, character, and connection… even when the script keeps changing.Samantha opens up about her unconventional journey into voiceover, what it takes to prepare for a role, and how generational shifts are reshaping what clients want. From character development to brand storytelling, Samantha shares the mindset, creativity, and behind-the-scenes truths that keep her grounded and growing.This episode is a must-listen for creatives, communicators, and anyone learning how to be heard without losing themselves.🎧 Whether you’re behind the mic or just finding your voice, this episode reminds us that staying on brand starts with staying true to ourselves—even when we go off script.Connect with Samantha Cooper:🌐 Website: www.samanthafcooper.com🎙️ Voiceover Work: samanthafcooper.com/voiceover📧 Email: [email protected] | [email protected]🔗 LinkedIn: Samantha CooperConnect with Host Will Wright:📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @selfish.will🌍 Website: www.iamself-ish.com

Episode 23: The Hideout – with Will WrightIn this raw and reflective solo episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright shares his personal story of quarantine—a time that unexpectedly became his emotional hideout. What started as a global crisis became, for Will, a rare moment of calm. Free from external noise, comparison, and constant busyness, he found clarity, peace, and a deeper sense of self.But when the world reopened, all that inner work got tested.Will walks us through what it felt like to lose that safe space, how anxiety and insecurity came rushing back, and the tools he now uses to reclaim peace—even when life feels overwhelming. From body image struggles to mental health breakthroughs, this episode is a vulnerable invitation to rethink how we define progress, safety, and healing.Because sometimes the greatest transformation happens when we’re forced to sit still.​Quarantine created unexpected space for emotional clarity and healing.​Peace isn’t something we “arrive at”—it’s something we actively choose.​Re-entry into the world can trigger old insecurities, even after growth.​Emotional safety often starts with boundaries, compassion, and presence.​You can take your “hideout” with you—if you learn how to rebuild it from withinConnect with Host Will Wright:📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @selfish.will🌍 Website: www.iamself-ish.com

Episode 22: Break the Mold – with Chris GautieriIn this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with mortgage expert Chris Gautieri to explore what it really takes to achieve homeownership when your financial life doesn’t fit the traditional mold. Whether you’re self-employed, an entrepreneur, or someone with a non-traditional income stream, this conversation is packed with clarity, compassion, and creative solutions.With over 12 years of experience and nearly 1,000 families served, Chris shares the realities of the mortgage world—including the emotional stress behind homebuying and the limitations of one-size-fits-all lending. He breaks down why financial storytelling matters, the power of alternative financing, and how to avoid common mistakes that hold people back from owning a home.As Chris says, “When the big banks miss—you better call Chris.”About Chris Gautieri:Chris is a mortgage professional with a heart for helping entrepreneurs, solopreneurs, and unconventional earners navigate the homeownership process. Based in Westchester County, NY, Chris is also a family man who shares life with his wife Kara and their three sons—Cole, Hank, and Wes.When he’s not working, you’ll find him soaking up time outdoors, at the beach, or enjoying music, food, wine, and sports.Connect with Chris Gautieri:📸 Instagram: @Chris_Gautieri📧 Email: [email protected]📞 Phone: 914-384-1528Connect with Host Will Wright:📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @selfish.will🌍 Website: www.iamself-ish.comIf you’ve been told “no” by the banks, let this episode remind you: There’s always another way. It’s time to break the mold. 🎙🏡✨