I Hate it Here

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I Hate it Here

Need a laugh? Need to vent? Jump on the hot mess express with Erika and Marissa and tune into the podcast I Hate it Here! They're talking jobs, self-care, and everything in between. I Hate it Here is live radio show on the Stationhead app that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships every Tuesday and Thursday at 7:30 PM CT. Download the Stationhead app to call in and vent or to spiral with them.

  1. 46

    Hating on thumb looking men

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 — currently running on fumes, vibes, and one very frayed thread. Marissa and Erika return in true form, immediately spiraling over USA baby-goating politics (because somehow that’s where we are now) and the unholy audacity of a woman dragging a friend on social media after scamming her. Bold. Incorrect. Loud.Things only get messier with this week’s workplace horror story, featuring a woman in corporate forced to defend herself from her coworker’s wife (HR finally did the right thing), followed by a life horror story centered on a father enabling his son’s full-blown rejection meltdown.It’s packed. It’s unfiltered. And somehow, the train survives another week.I Hate It Here is a live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  2. 45

    Hating on soliciting 15 min car sex

    All aboard the slightly plagued Hotmess Express 🚂💨! This week, the flu body-slammed Marissa, leaving Erika to hold down the fort with the help of guest co-host Gen, who bravely stepped in to keep the train from fully launching off the rails.The chaos kicks off with Erika spiraling over her deeply underwhelming “Too Good To Go” bag after TikTok convinced her she was about to score gourmet treasure. Spoiler: it was giving clearance aisle mystery.Later, the ladies are joined by resident dating queen Helen, who shares updates from the romantic front lines. Between plot twists, red flags, and personal growth, the chat and hosts unite to cheer her on like it’s the emotional Olympics.Sickness, snacks, and situationships. Just another week aboard the Hotmess Express. I Hate It Here is a live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live on YouTube @ihateitherehq, every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT.

  3. 44

    Hating on men who want princess treatment

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨! With Erika officially off the cold meds, she and Marissa shock everyone by running a surprisingly efficient show. Growth? Maybe.The ladies kick things off by griping about — and lightly praying over — the 2026 Texas winter storm, because the state simply cannot handle another plot twist. From there, they weigh in on Candy Spelling’s AI magazine photo (because… why was that necessary?) before accidentally stumbling into a triple-feature of stories centered around red-pilled men desperate for princess treatment.Efficiency achieved. Delusions clocked. Chaos, as always, delivered.

  4. 43

    Hating on drunk bitches

    All aboard the Hotmess Express as we barrel straight into 2026 🚂💨! Despite the rumors of an “indefinite hiatus,” Marissa and Erika have officially returned — barely alive, slightly unwell, but committed to the mess. Erika shows up sick, hopped up on cold meds, and doing her absolute best… which somehow makes things even funnier.The ladies power through the second-ever installment of The Dildo of Consequence, featuring a drunk restaurant patron who got kicked out, chose violence, fought the staff, and ultimately lost to gravity in a very public face plant.And because chaos loves company, they also unpack a workplace horror story so triggering it unlocked corporate PTSD from working alongside a racist coworker.New year. Same mess. Buckle up.A live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  5. 42

    The Dildo of Consequence

    All aboard the Hotmess Express, clattering bravely down the Accountability Track — even though none of us here have ever filled out a self-evaluation honestly. 🚂💨This week, Marissa and Erika spiral into the corporate void over self-evaluations (the annual ritual of creative writing) and the fever dream that is the office Christmas party.They also deliver an update on last week’s entitled coworker and, shock to absolutely no one, the situation has somehow managed to get even worse.Then comes the grand debut of The Dildo of Consequence, a ceremonial honor awarded to those who commit crimes against common sense. And for its inaugural crowning, the ladies dive into the saga of a woman who drove three hours just to confront a full-blown keyboard Kevin after he left a feral comment on her page.Chaos, accountability, and spectacularly poor decisions await. Tune in for the ride.I Hate It Here is a live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  6. 41

    I'd slap that peepee

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨! Marissa and Erika are finally back from their hiatus and returned with the energy of two women ready to square up with the entire world. And honestly? Mood.To celebrate one full year on YouTube (okay fine… 11 months because November didn’t count), the universe blessed them with a brand-new co-host. Enter Claudia — the only voice of reason in a room full of unhinged opinions — who valiantly tried to keep the train on the tracks while the ladies dragged an entitled coworker and tackled the chaos of a woman discovering her husband having “solo time” to her best friend’s selfie. Yes, the betrayal was loud.Tune in to witness the chaos, the shenanigans, and the emotional support delusion that keeps this show alive.

  7. 40

    Shawty, You Different

    ll aboard another unhinged ride on the Hotmess Express 🚂💨! This week, Marissa and Erika are joined by Flug, and things go off the rails fast (as per usual). The trio dives into the latest TikTok trend — the Bird Test — debates whether eating food off the floor on a date is a red flag or just “five-second rule” energy, and spiral over people putting up Christmas decor before Halloween’s even clocked out.And if that wasn’t enough chaos, they unpack the drama around Sombr’s questionable behavior with his tween fanbase — because apparently, the internet never takes a day off either. A live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  8. 39

    Self Induced drama

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 — and yes, we’re still running on bad decisions and lots of caffeine. This week, Erika and Marissa finally attempt to end their feud with Chappy (key word: attempt. With these two you never know if just seeing a can of baked beans will have them reigniting the feud again). However, soon after calling a truce with Chappy the HotMess Express derails fast when they spiral over people STILL doing blackface for Halloween — in 2025, no less.From there, things only get messier: they come up with a revenge idea so good your coworkers might think you’re watching porn in your cubicle 👀, drag a high school bully turned “why won’t anyone hire me?” adult, and unpack the world’s most awkward marriage — featuring a husband, his wife, and a “just friend” who literally has tattoos about him.Basically, chaos. Premium, grade-A chaos.I Hate It Here is a live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  9. 38

    F Corporate America

    Grab your snacks and questionable life choices — it’s time for another ride on the Hotmess Express 🚂💨! This week, Marissa and Erika spiral over a TikToker who swears he’s 17 (sir… you’re 36), rant about the outrageous cost of kids’ extracurriculars (why does it cost more than rent?), and go head-to-head with our beloved occasional co-host Chappy in a very heated British vs. Mexican cuisine debate.But wait—there’s more! The ladies are joined for the first time by special guest Kaleo, who dishes on his latest skirmish with Corporate America. Let’s just say… the ladies have added to their beef with capitalism.I Hate it Here is live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  10. 37

    Don't raw dog tortillas

    All aboard another glorious spiral down the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 — we’re back and barely holding it together! Marissa returns after last week’s family emergency (everyone’s okay, but our nerves? Not so much). This week, the ladies go off about people committing culinary war crimes and calling it “Mexican food,” a fed-up employee’s final straw moment at work, and—our personal favorite—the sheer audacity of asking someone to use their house for your wedding… and then not inviting them to it. Spoiler alert: we would’ve slapped the bridezilla with a raw tortilla.

  11. 36

    Night Owl Coochie

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 — where chaos is the conductor and composure missed the train entirely. This week, Marissa and Erika completely lose it over a viral @pewpewpew TikTok that has them questioning their life choices (again). When Marissa gets called away for a family emergency, Cauli—aka our Agent of Chaos—slides into the co-host seat like he’s been waiting for this moment his whole life. Naturally, he delivers a sexcapade-gone-wrong story that deserves its own PSA and weighs in on this week’s workplace horror story with the grace of someone who’s definitely been HR’s problem before.I Hate It Here is a live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  12. 35

    Another disappointing rapture

    🚂💨 The Hotmess Express makes zero scheduled stops and absolutely no sense this week. Erika and Marissa spiral (again) over yet another failed rapture — like, God, are you ghosting us? 👀 They also lose it over one of the most unhinged TV ads to ever exist.Then Flug rolls through with the tea on musician D4vd (yes, spelled like your WiFi password), plus the crew breaks down the top 5 trending songs on Spotify — and yes, the commentary is way better than Billboard’s.👉 Buckle up, besties. Chaos is mandatory, seatbelts are optional.A live podcast on Youtube that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  13. 34

    Girl, your man hates you

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 This week, Erika and Marissa are joined by chaos connoisseur and friend of the show, Gen. Together they spiral over the passive-aggressive stunts husbands pull on their wives (yes, including packing literal DOG FOOD for lunch 🐶🥪). Plus, they dive into the unhinged depths of the diabolical documentary Unknown Number. Buckle up—it’s petty, it’s messy, and it’s everything you didn’t know you needed.A live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  14. 33

    Penis Cage Comeback

    All Aboard 🚂 💨Next stop: chaos station 🚨 Marissa and Erika are back on the Hot Mess Express, unpacking why sick people REFUSE to cancel their Disney trips (because apparently giving Mickey norovirius is a rite of passage 🙃). The ladies also decode the awkward little “flirting signals” men and women throw out—spoiler: they’re mostly cringe.And just when you think it can’t get any messier, Helen pops in with updates on her roster, including the return of Penis Cage Guy (yes, you read that correctly). Cue the collective secondhand embarrassment for mankind.Grab your emotional support snack 🍿 and buckle up—this episode is 50% wtf, 50% dumpster fire, and 100% proof that we all need a drink. CLICK PLAY BEFORE WE LOSE OUR LAST BRAIN CELL.(P.S. Hit “Subscribe” or risk missing the next existential crisis. You’ve been warned.)

  15. 32

    I would never admit to that

    All aboard the non biohazard HotMess Express🚂💨 This week Erika and Marissa talk about the ultimate Girl Boss! They are also joined by Flug for another segment of Go Flug Yourself where they discuss the ultimate mortifying story, rate this months trending songs and discover new zillenial slang A live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  16. 31

    Hate the Hardway

    All aboard the Hotmess Express as the ladies take you down their first ever crossover show. Erika and Marissa are joined by Gen, Dorene and REP the host of 3 the Hardway podcast. What can go wrong with 5 very opinionated personalities? Well tune in to watch as they talk a lot about butts, what kind of drunk they are, AITA and add another OF creator to the portfolio. A live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in, call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  17. 30

    Ick, eek, eew

    All aboard the Hotmess Express🚂💨 This episode Erika and Marissa debut the ick, eek and eew, segment. They also talk about being laid off, the heartbreaking cancellation of Tiny Chef and an egg donor story gone wrong. I Hate It Here is live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  18. 29

    Bite me and I'll bite you back

    ll aboard the Hotmess Express🚂💨 Marissa and Erika dicuss corporate burnout, a corporate biter, sharing adult toys and the most perfect revenge story all under 1 hours … sheesh they are exhausted! A live podcast that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships. Tune in and call in or go off in the chat to spiral with us. We are live every Thursday at 8:30 PM ET/5:30 PM PT

  19. 28

    I see the red flags but I also see the story

    Grab your emotional support water bottle and hop on the Hotmess Express—it’s running solely on bad decisions and vibes 🚂✨This week, Helen’s back with another round of dating disasters and red flags she willingly ignored… all in the name of content (you're welcome). Erika is joined by Gen (Marissa is out doing real-life things), and together they spiral into tales of dating disasters with shoe salesmen, alcoholics and a bigot. It’s not therapy, but it is cheaper. Buckle up, degenerates.

  20. 27

    I will fix you

    Another week and another bumpy ride on the Hotmess Express🚂 On this episode Marissa snd Erika discuss the cheating CEO that went viral, jealous wives, colorblindness and ungrateful family

  21. 26

    It was a messy 4th

    All aboard the Hotmess Express🚂💨 Hop on and spiral down the tales of messy 4th of July stories with Erika and Marissa.

  22. 25

    She married her ChatGPT

    All aboard🚂💨 Jump into the Hotmess Express as the ladies are joined by Dmiitri and spiral over a woman marrying her ChatGPT and a narcissistic husband

  23. 24

    Red flags everywhere

    Jump aboard as the Hotmess Express🚂💨 goes down the tunnel of red flags! This episode Marissa and Erika talk about ghosting and joined by Helen. After taking some time off Helen was back and caught the ladies up on her dating disaster diaries

  24. 23

    Hard Pass on the Milking Garden

    Choo-Choo🚂💨 This week Erika and Marissa handed Flug the keys to the Hotmess Express and down the rabbit hole of the smut trend they went. They also rated this month’s trending songs and untied in their love for the “horny little polly pocket” aka Sabrina Carpenter

  25. 22

    Sir, please over step

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 Tune in as Erika and Marissa rage about suspicious hiring practices, spiral about gifting coworkers PTO hours and a neighborhood menace.

  26. 21

    The Culture takeover with Gen

    Choo Choo 🚂 All aboard the Hotmess Express as the girls let Gen drive this episode. Tune in as Erika and Marissa spiral about thier mothers, talk about 100 men vs Gorilla nonsense and let Gen take over with her dos and donts of speed dating.

  27. 20

    Unhinged people everywhere

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 Tune in as Marissa and Erika spiral about the cost of kids, Katy Perry and unhinged coworkers and family members.

  28. 19

    Vibrator, cockcuterie and polite perverts, oh my!

    All aboard the Hotmess Express for another bumpy ride! This episode the ladies talk about a 5 star reviewed vibrator, bad dates and are joined by Michelle once again. Michelle shares some more dating app duds and shares her special cockcuterie board.

  29. 18

    Hunger games at Coachella was rough

    All aboard for another ride on the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 This week Erika and Marissa discuss the vastly different experiences Coachella campers experienced and were joined by Flug for the monthly installment of "Go Flug Yourself"

  30. 17

    Shattered BBL dreams

    All Aboard the Hotmess Express for another wild ride🚂💨. Tune in as the ladies spiral about Chappel Roan, Erika's cries about her shattered BBL dream and then takes everyone down a dark tale.

  31. 16

    MURDER! I would muuuuurrrrrdeeerrr

    All aboard the HotMess Express for another wild episode! Tune in as the ladies discuss a virtual cheating scandal! Helen joins the ladies for her monthly check in and of course leaves them with their jaws on the floor with the rollercoaster that is her life.

  32. 15

    Immediately NO

    Hop on the Hotmess express for another episode of I Hate It Here. This week Marissa and Erika are joined by Flug for the third installment of "Go Flug Yourself." Flug cover a celebrity stalker, cooking videos and the top trending songs on TikTok. The ladies also discuss personal hygeine at the workplace.

  33. 14

    Over these Liar McLiars

    All Aboard 🚂💨 the Hotmess express for another wild episode. Tune in this week as Erika and Marissa spiral over lying content creators, recipes from the Midwest, and embarrasing work moments. Helen also pops in to update the ladies and audience on Dr K-Hole.

  34. 13

    WTF is going on in Utah?

    All aboard the Hotmess Express for another episode of I Hate It Here. Tune in as Erika an Marissa talk about a mother daughter OF team, decide to move on from reporting on Lilly Phillips and Helen makes a surprise pop in with a wild workplace horror story.

  35. 12

    Fake Pregnancies, Penis Enlargements and BBL's

    All Aboard the Hotmess Express🚂💨 Tune in as the Erika and Marissa took a wild ride with guest Chappy and Helen. From updates of their fave only fan creators, to allergic reactions that caused penis enlargements to finding someone on TikTok to pay for Erika's BBL, the ladies covered it all!

  36. 11

    Someone get Maury out of retirement

    All aboard the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 tune in as Erika and Marissa go over BDSM in the workplace, update everyone on Lily Philips and have Flug join them for another installment of “Go Flug Yourself.” Flug gets the ladies and audience up to speed on Drakes current mishaps, TikTok villain Ash Trevino and does another round of music segment “Trash, Mid, Fire”

  37. 10

    Looking for loyal parters in crime

    All aboard for another ride on the Hotmess Express 🚂💨 Tune in to learn about Johatsu, work PDA, using work IM systems and the annoyatron. Special guest Airstream Queen gives us the do's and dont's about online dating profiles

  38. 9

    We'll be fiiiiine!

    All aboard the Hotmess Express🚂💨 The show starts off with a surprise as Realestatepapi fills in for Marissa. Erika and REP spiral over crunch wraps, miserable people and soilets. They then talk about REPs time at his corporate job and continuing a relationship with an ex.

  39. 8

    I don't want to sex shame but....

    🚂 All aboard the Hotmess Express with another episode of The Morning After! This month the ladies circle back on Lily Phillips and introduce the audience to Bonnie Blue. Helen joins the ladies midway to and fills them in on her polyamorous relationship and drops a HUGE bomb about a previous date.

  40. 7

    Go Flug Yourself

    All Aboard the Hotmess Express! Tune in as Erika and Marissa spiral and rage over ICE deportations, talk about Houston's snow day and introduce their new segment "Go Flug Youself". The ladies are joined by Flug who will pop in monthly to get everyone up to speed on all things happening in the world of Millenial/Zillenials.

  41. 6

    I m here for America's pettiness

    All aboard 🚂 Tune in as Erika and Marissa talk about the pettiness of American's joining Red Book, read a viewers submission about a co-worker admitting to a sex dream, and a friend ignoring boundaries.

  42. 5

    New year, same hot mess

    All Aboard 🚂💨 Marissa and Erika are back with the first live of 2025. Tune in as they talk about loving your job, dream job and share the crazy stories of the day❣️

  43. 4

    IHIH- The Morning After Youtube Premier

    All Aboard the Hotmess Express and go down the tunnel of regrets! On this episode Erika and Marissa are joined by Helen, the dating correspondent for The Morning After. They recap Hekens year of dating and WILD stories and catch up on her polyamorous relationship.

  44. 3

    He just wants to be messy

    All aboard the Hotmess Express🚂💨 Tune in as Erika and Marissa go live again. Less f bombs and more work and life horror stories this time.

  45. 2

    YouTube Live Premier

    All Aboard 🚂💨 Erika and Marissa finally take the plunge and go LIVE! Watch as the the girls tell us how they met, spiral about ivy league graduates, and go off on sibling rivalries. #podcast #youtubelive #premier #hotmess #funny #work #workdrama #family #familydrama

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Need a laugh? Need to vent? Jump on the hot mess express with Erika and Marissa and tune into the podcast I Hate it Here! They're talking jobs, self-care, and everything in between. I Hate it Here is live radio show on the Stationhead app that provides a safe place to vent about your workplace, life and relationships every Tuesday and Thursday at 7:30 PM CT. Download the Stationhead app to call in and vent or to spiral with them.

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