Slut in Training

Send us Fan MailHow do romance novelists actually write steamy love scenes that feel sexy, believable, and impossible to put down? In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan sit down with a romance novelist to talk about what really goes into writing chemistry, attraction, tension, and unforgettable love scenes on the page.We get into what inspires her, how writers create emotional and physical tension that actually lands, and why the best romance scenes are about so much more than just spice. From romance novels to the art of writing desire, intimacy, and fantasy, this conversation is funny, smart, and full of insight for readers, writers, and anyone obsessed with a good love story.We also talk about:What inspires steamy romance scenesWhy readers are so drawn to romance and fantasyWhat makes a love scene feel believable and hotIf you love romance novels, spicy books, writing, BookTok, love scenes, and behind-the-scenes conversations with authors, this episode is for you.Topics include:romance novelist, spicy books, romance novels, steamy love scenes, writing romance, chemistry in fiction, BookTok books, romance author interview, and what inspires writers.Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailOn this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan talk about how to feel confident in your clothes, dating confidence, and modern relationships with fashion curator Janet Mandell.Based in Chicago, she is the founder of a luxury fashion rental showroom that she built from scratch — and later expanded to Los Angeles and New York, dressing celebrities for major red carpet events.Janet shares how she launched her luxury wardrobe business, why vintage designer fashion is having a massive comeback (with help from Kim Kardashian), and how the right outfit can completely change how confident — and sexy — you feel.They also get into:• why vintage fashion rentals are exploding right now• the psychology of feeling confident in your clothes• the outfits that actually work in the bedroom (and the ones that don’t)• and how Janet navigates an unconventional relationship dynamic that works for her.If you’ve ever wondered how style, confidence, dating, and sexuality intersect, this conversation will change the way you think about your closet.Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailWhat really happens behind the curtain of med spas, and aesthetic treatments?In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania and Jordan sit down with an aesthetic nurse who has worked both in the operating room alongside plastic surgeons and in the world of med spas. She shares what it's actually like assisting in procedures like revision rhinoplasties, facelifts, and Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs)—including the risks, scarring, and the techniques doctors use to make them safer.They also break down Med Spa 101, from Botox, filler, microneedling, chemical peels, laser hair removal, and skincare routines to the latest beauty trends and viral treatments like snail mucin, beef tallow skincare, salmon DNA facials, and “glass skin.”The conversation also gets into the world of regenerative medicine and sexual wellness treatments, including P-shots, O-shots, and other procedures designed to improve libido, sexual function, and confidence.And because this is Slut in Training, there are plenty of wild stories from the treatment room—including the most unusual patient requests and a truly unforgettable penis filler story.If you’ve ever wondered:• what an aesthetic nurse actually does• which cosmetic procedures are trending right now• the truth about Botox, filler, and skincare myths• how sexual wellness treatments like PRP injections work• and how beauty and confidence are connectedThis episode pulls back the curtain on the world of modern aesthetic medicine.Happy skin!Timestamps - Episode Highlights0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – The Everything Shower3:42 – Gabby (Anonymous) and her background – from Aesthetic nurse in the operating room - working with small dick energy surgeons – to Med Spa and all things beaty5:10 – Experiences working with plastic surgeons on revision rhinoplasties, facelift deep planning, BBL (Brazilian butt lifts), etc.6:30 – BBL, dangers, and scarring explained – cannula versus traditional incisions7:20 – Silicone gel – you best friend when dealing with surgical scarring – especially Asian/ethnic scarring and keloids8:42 – Med Spa 101 – Botox, filler, microneedling, laser hair removal, facials, chemical peels, sexual health, wellness IV’s and vitamin shots – best of inner and outer beauty9:27 – Regenerative medicine – treatments using your own blood to help rejuvenate the skin and improve libido9:57 – Expert advice on skincare 101 – confidence regimen – adult acne, wrinkles,glowing – less is always more!!! Gentle cleanser based on skin type – dry, combination, or oily skin11:20 – New and weirdest skincare trends – Beef Tallow! Snail mucin, SalmonPolynucleotide DNA (Salmon sperm), Glass Skin treatments13:35 – Beauty myths – Botox, Xeomin, & Disport injected into your masseters can’t really change your face to get a snatched jawline15:20 – Most popular sexual health request for women – Vaginoplasty or labiaplasty - Face lift for your vagina! Got popular after Secret Life of Mormon Wives (Season 1, Episode 6) ––19:47 – P shots (Priapus Shot) - penis filler to enhance girth with hyaluronic acid23:37 – O shot (Orgasm Shot) – vaginal, labia, and clitoral injections of PRP (Platelet rich plasma) from your own blood29:18 – Crazy client story about Penis filler!31:43 – what advice would you give your younger self? Don’t take everything soseriously!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss epSupport the show

Send us Fan MailWhat really happens inside sex therapy sessions? In this episode of Slut in Training, we chat with Los Angeles sex therapist, Moushumi Ghose, to talk about intimacy, desire gaps, sexual confidence, and the conversations couples avoid but desperately need to have.From dry spells and mismatched libido to dirty talk, surrogate partner therapy, and reclaiming sexual power, we break down what people are actually struggling with behind closed doors — and how to communicate better in relationships and the bedroom.We also discuss why Los Angeles has become a hub for surrogate partner therapy, why many couples struggle to talk about sex openly, and practical tips for keeping intimacy alive in both new and long-term relationships.If you've ever wondered how couples navigate awkwardness, reignite desire, or talk about what they really want in bed — this episode goes there.You're welcome!Timestamps00:00 – Welcome to the show + Slutty Word of the Day: Rainbow Kiss03:39 – Becoming a sex therapist06:58 – Why most couples seek sex therapy: desire disparity & dry spells08:58 – The first question therapists ask: whose problem is it?09:31 – Identifying what couples actually want to change10:36 – Different types of practitioners: sex psychotherapists vs surrogate partners11:20 – Why Los Angeles is the hub for surrogate partner therapy13:41 – Surrogate partner therapy in Israel14:08 – Why sex workers often do the “front line” emotional labor14:27 – The most popular service in Nevada brothels: the girlfriend experience14:56 – Reclaiming the word “slut” and sexual empowerment15:49 – Overcoming awkwardness when sleeping with someone new18:25 – Keeping sex exciting in long-term relationships20:18 – Talking openly about attraction and fantasy23:43 – Getting aligned on what you want your future to look like25:44 – Creating a shared sexual vocabulary with your partner27:00 – A real couple’s dry spell: rebuilding intimacy step by step28:07 – Why dirty talk feels awkward (and how to get better at it)30:50 – Pushing past shame and stigma around sex32:45 – What a sex therapist would tell their younger self about relationshipsSlut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Resources and mentions:Visit the Moushumi Ghose’s website and get connected!www.pleasurepsych.comwww.moushumighose.comInstagram: @moshumighosemftFacebook: Moushumi GhoseHosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailJoin Missy, Jordan, and Tania as we chat with Bonnie Gross, award-winning screenwriter/executive producer whose personal journey became a full-on movie: LADY PARTS.  In this episode, she reveals how she took on her inability to have intercourse, her diagnosis with Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction, her journey to sexual health, and took the big risk to share her lived experience with the world.  The result of betting on herself is a script that captured audiences and won awards, including Austin Film Festival.Whether you connect with Bonnie on her health challenges or are into storytelling, or just want inspiration to start your own creative leap…this interview is gold.  Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Timestamps - Episode Highlights00:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the day - Butter Churner01:10 – Introducing Bonnie – vaginal healthcare and sexuality comedy writer03:59 – Turning personal experience into the film “LADY PARTS”05:30 – It all started with a blog post07:57 – Crafting the film: from opening scene to executive producer role08:50 – Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and dealing with a tampon10:31 – What it’s like to be the writer, screenwriter, executive producer & so much more12:15 – Vestibulectomy – the only one on set with that experience12:22 – Common link to director with Vaginismus and the use of dilators – 2 perspectives13:47 – Mantra - if there is no seat at the dinner table – bring a damn folding chair!14:02 – Dildos versus dilators (the Russian dildos) and taking care of your pelvic floor15:48 – An orgasm a day keeps the PT away!16:28 – Bring toys to the bedroom – we love them – if it brings you pleasure then do it17:54 – Tell us about casting yourself in a movie and reliving your experience on set23:10 – How filmmaking transformed Bonnie’s dating life and intimacy27:15 – What did you learn making this movie that you can now take into the bedroom30:30 – Beauty of their set – leaning in – not making it awkward even in the sex dungeonHosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Resources and mentions:Visit the LADY PARTS website and connect with Bonnie Gross!https://bonnie-gross.comhttps://bonnie-gross.com/lady-parts/Instagram @shake_ur_bonbonSupport the show

Send us Fan MailWhat do tarot cards reveal about love, dating, and the patterns we repeat in relationships? In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania and Jordan sit down with a Hollywood tarot reader and intuitive advisor, Mischel Peterson, who reads everyone from everyday clients to celebrities. From psychic insights and cannabis ceremonies that open unexpected portals to the truth behind tarot cards like the Knight of Cups, The Devil, and The Sun, this conversation dives deep into the spiritual side of dating, intimacy, and self-awareness.We talk about why great readings don’t start with questions, how tarot lays your life out on the table so you can see it clearly, and why people are far more romantic than they want to admit. Whether you’re navigating open relationships, exploring sexuality, or trying to understand dating patterns across generations, this episode reveals how intuition and tarot can guide your love life.Plus: palm reading basics, the surprising advice tarot gives about dating, and why the key to relationships might simply be learning to “act like an orange so you can meet another orange.”If you’re curious about tarot, spirituality, relationships, and modern dating, this episode is for you.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Timestamps - Episode Highlights0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Sneaky Link2:42 – How tarot readings are done – private sessions versus corporate events3:56 – Working with a psychic Shaman – Who is that angel behind you?4:48 – Normally weed is food, sex and dancing – Cannabis Ceremony opened a portal!5:43 – How much info do you get before a reading? NONE – Why I don’t take questions7:35 – Your reading is your people telling you what’s best for you versus what you think you need to get out of this moment8:06 – Reading is taking your life and put in on the table so you can see it and havecommand over it!10:41 – What patterns come up related to intimacy and different ages and generations?11:26 – Younger people dealing with open relationships, defining their sexuality, and belonging versus exploring possibilities12:32 – Make mistakes! Date lots of people, travel and slut around, date someone from a different country13:00 – Working with a throuple15:57 – Reading for someone famous – blocking out what I think I know about them17:42 – People are way more romantic than they want to let on – more about love than sex19:45 – The Tarot cards for dating advice – Knight of Cups – “Mr. Right Now”Devil – “Instant gratification out of fear” Knight of Wands - “You should be having fun now!” Ace of Wands – “What are you throwing out there?” Sun – “Sun comes out and clears up everything – free expression”23:31 – Palm readings 101 – hand analysis versus palmistry, and fingerprint readings25:13 – Dating advice – if you are an orange – act like an orange so you can meetanother orangeResources and mentions:Learn more about Mischel Peterson!www.mischelstruth.comFacebook @mischelstruthInstagram @mischelstruthHosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailHow do you start an OnlyFans anonymously… and actually make money? This week on Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan sit down with Uma, an anonymous OnlyFans creator, content entrepreneur, and online hustler, to talk about how she pivoted careers, built a niche audience, protected her identity, and chased the dream of making money on OnlyFans.We get into the biggest misconceptions about OnlyFans, how to promote your page through social media and OFTV, whether agencies are worth it, and the smartest ways to stay private using AI tools, location blocking, and content strategy. Uma also spills on how she handles unruly subscribers, what actually works to look hot on camera, the weirdest and wildest DM requests, and how niche fetishes can become serious business.If you’ve ever wondered how creators make money on OnlyFans, how to find your niche, what subscribers really ask for, or how to stay anonymous while building a profitable adult content brand… this episode is for you.From special requests, humiliation content, and fetish fans to monthly income, content ideas, and creator boundaries, this one is funny, unfiltered, and full of practical gems.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Timestamps - Episode Highlights0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Boofing2:26 – Anonymous OnlyFans performer, content creator, and entrepreneur introduction - Uma5:20 – How Uma made the switch in her career and work to OnlyFans – chasing the opportunity of a $1,000,000 salary her first year6:24 – What advice do you have for women who want to support themselves/their family7:00 – Use Social Media or OFTV (Like Youtube) to promote your unique niche andpage8:42 – Agencies can help you get started on OnlyFans9:58 – OnlyFans misconceptions10:58 – How to protect your identity on OnlyFans using AI tools and blocking out your home state11:36 – Amazing way to deal with unruly subscribers – Canva Flyer, required $100 tip, and restricted access!13:18 – Secret to looking effortlessly hot on camera – lash extensions & editing apps!15:00 – Weirdest DM’s and how Uma responds16:16 – Surprising way Uma comes up with fresh content and ideas17:56 – What special treat outfit ideas turn on your subscribers20:53 – What request should be banned because it is so ridiculous22:21 – Most common and favorite humiliation requests she get from her fans25:43 – Sex Panther is a site for fetishes – Uma wants to use it for humiliation and shit talking27:31 – Uma’s fees for special requests28:52 – Lesbian fans request sucker toy videos30:06 – Dumbest request Uma did for an armpit fan with a tickle fetish34:22 – What Uma makes in a good month and an average month35:15 – The BOP house OnlyFans account making crazy moneyHosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailWhat really happens behind the scenes of sex scenes in Hollywood? This week on Slut in Training, we sit down with Los Angeles–based Intimacy Coordinator Olivia Ku to break down how your favorite on-screen hookups are choreographed, negotiated, and safely executed.From working with actors on set to navigating consent, boundaries, and communication, Olivia shares how she got started after witnessing a lack of preparation for intimate scenes early in her acting career—and how that led her to support performers through trauma-informed practices and professional intimacy coordination.We get into the full process of filming a “steamy” scene, what’s actually in an intimacy kit, how modesty garments and barriers work, and the surprising (and sometimes ridiculous) realities of choreographing everything from kissing rules (tongue or no tongue) to simulated sex scenes.We also talk about:The rise of vertical dramas and short-form romance contentCommon misconceptions about intimacy coordinators (hint: not the “sex police”)The most awkward, unsexy, and bizarre moments on setHow directors, actors, and coordinators collaborateAnd how to bring cinematic-level communication and consent into your own sex lifeIf you’ve ever wondered how actors film sex scenes, what goes into intimacy coordination, or how to create better communication and chemistry in relationships—this episode pulls back the curtain in the most entertaining way possible.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Timestamps - Episode Highlights0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Tallahassee Night Train2:06 – Olivia Ku introduction – Los Angeles based Intimacy Coordinator3:46 – How Olivia got started:- A young actor on TNT - “1000 Ways to Die” – asked to make out in a scenewithout any advance discussion- Social media influencer in health and wellness space- Supporting survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault6:33 – A lot of BDSM stories are happening now in the vertical world7:53 – SAG has a list of accredited Intimacy Coordinating training organizations8:04 – What is it like to be on set for a very steaming scene?9:35 – Olivia can’t tell actors what they need – she’s here to listen to what each actor needs10:40 – Olivia’s involvement also depends on the Director’s approach11:53 – What’s in a full intimacy kit!12:09 – What goes into the process of creating an intimacy scene15:20 – Verticals – 60 second Soap-opera like dramas to watch on your cell phone17:26 – Tell us about Modesty Garments19:10 – Weirdest object Olivia used on set as a modesty barrier20:28 – Do actors ever get too into the role? Tongue versus no tongue kissing!22:41 – Have you ever had to coach a sex scene that was painfully unsexy?24:16 – Most ridiculous locations - from mansions to up against a bookshelf25:48 – Awkwardness of choreographing simulated Oral Sex scenes27:45 – Best choreographed oral sex scene – Bridgerton27:53 – Favorite intimacy sex scene in a movie – Titanic30:29 – Olivia would love to do more work in the Young Adult space and why!33:33 – What actors should know before they start filming a sex or intimacy scene35:32 – Common misconceptions about intimacy coordinators:- Not the sex police OR HR!- She is there for everyone – not just the lead actors- Specific inSupport the show

Send us Fan MailThis week, Missy, Jordan and Tania chat  explore how plastic surgery, body image, and confidence intersect. Our guest — a board-certified plastic surgeon — Dr. Michael Lee, shares honest insights on why looking different can make us feel more like ourselves.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailWhat are the most popular sex toys right now—and which ones are actually worth it? This week on Slut in Training, Missy, Tania and Jordan sit down with a Pleasure Chest Chicago store rep to talk about everything from best-selling vibrators and cock rings to the weirdest, most surprising products people can’t stop buying.We get into what’s flying off the shelves (hello air pulsation toys like The Rose and the Magic Wand), the truth about cock cages, strokers, and panty vibes, and what beginners should actually buy if they’re looking to explore—whether you’re single, divorced, or just trying to spice things up.We also cover:The most bizarre sex toys with cult followingsThe most expensive toy in the store (and who’s buying it)The difference between toys for women vs menThe ultimate sex toy starter packWild customer stories (yes… people try them in-store )And how to turn a basic dinner date into something way more interestingIf you’ve ever wondered which sex toys are worth the hype, what people are really buying behind closed doors, and how to upgrade your sex life with the right tools—this episode is funny, unfiltered, and surprisingly informative.Topics include:Best sex toys for women, best sex toys for men, beginner sex toys, vibrators, cock rings, strokers, air pulsation toys, Pleasure Chest, sex toy recommendations, couples intimacy tips, and how to spice up your sex life.Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Enjoy!Timestamps - Episode Highlights2:04 – Slutty word of the episode! Rusty Trombone4:22 – Celebrities shopping at the Pleasure Chest5:58 – Most bizarre product they sell with the biggest fan base8:14 – Are there products that are unnecessary that people still buy? Cock cages!13:20 – What is an item you constantly must restock? Anything air pulsation – The Rose & The Original Magic Wand15:08 – Fuck Machines20:30 – If you could create a brand new sex toy? More powerful air pulsation toys!23:29 – What’s a product that is purchased frequently and who the fuck is buying this? – fake ass mini size!26:07 – What is the most expensive toy you have in the store? Agent Noir Neon Want Kit - $420!30:22 – What are the most popular toys for women? For Men?Women: Rabbits, Dull Stems, Panty Vibes, Rose Toy, Kegel exercise toys – Benoi Balls, Men: Vibrating Cock Ring, Strokers, Desensitizing Sprays32:00 – Best spiced up dinner date advice! @ The Olive Garden!35:24 – What the sexy toy equivalent for a starter pack for newbies/divorce/widows? - 37:37 – Has anyone tried to test a toy in the store…YES!!!!  OR return a used toy…YES!!!42:00 – Couples stories…Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Resources and mentions:Visit their website www.pleasurechest.comShopping List – ·      The One Rose ·      The Original Magic Wand ·      Agent Noir Neon Want Kit ***We want to hear from you! Share your ideas, questions and guest ideas – [email protected] the show

Send us Fan MailThis week Missy, Jordan and Tania chat with an anonymous flight attendant as she spills the secrets airlines don’t want you to know. From the mile-high club to scandalous crew hookups — nothing’s off limits.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when one person wants sex more than the other? This week on Slut in Training, we're joined by Nicholas Berry, a gay millennial psychotherapist and sex & relationship coach, to talk about one of the most common relationship struggles: mismatched libido.From communication and intimacy to manscaping, kinks, confidence, and how to actually ask for what you want, this episode is equal parts funny, honest, and wildly useful. We get into how to handle different libido styles, what keeps couples feeling disconnected, and the simple but uncomfortable truth: most people were never taught how to talk about sex.We also cover:How to express your needs in a relationshipWays to spice things up when intimacy feels staleManscaping debates, body image, and attractionWild hookup stories and what they teach usRelationship advice for anyone who feels like they have no idea what they’re doingIf you’re navigating love, sex, communication, or long-term relationship dynamics—press play.Timestamps - Episode Highlights0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Lucky Pierre3:44 – Introducing Nicholas Berry – the gay millennial psychotherapist and sex andrelationship coach6:27 – Therapy themes from communication to libido styles – how to deal with a mixedlibido relationship7:09 – The spectrum from asexual partners to more sexual partners that are not havingtheir needs met7:42 – Being raised by a mom and how she didn’t ask or expect her needs to be met8:20 – How the sex talk started for Nicholas in a Walden Books store9:22 – How to deal with different libido styles starts with expressing how you are feelingand feeling safe to do that11:37 – Manscaping advice needed! Dolphin smooth versus a Chewbacca bush14:14 – Green light - a pattern chest piece and skin tone perfect combination16:37 – Try a manscaping gift card for your husband or have them watch Queer Eye forthe Straight Guy!17:12 – Kinky things to help spice up a relationship – normalizing what he learned in hissexual career to help couples18:38 – Craziest places Nick had sex!20:48 – The low down in Penis size – long and skinny to beer can26:32 – Advice you would give your younger self about relationships and intimacy – it’sok to have no idea what you are doing and its ok to walk away!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Resources and mentions: Follow Nickolas Berry – Instagram @thegaymillennialtherapistPsychology Today - link tohttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/nicholas-berry-los-angeles-ca/412054https://www.nicholasberrypsychotherapy.comSupport the show

Send us Fan MailThis week, Missy, Jordan & Tania sit down with Mary Caryl — a 71 year old (almost 72!) LA pole dancer who proves you’re never too old to wrap yourself around something stiff. Recently featured in the LA Times.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailThis week, Missy, Jordan & Tania chat with an open-marriage guy as he explains how he and his wife dated other women while keeping their marriage intact. 100% for the curious.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailJoin Missy, Jordan and Tania as they sit down with a sensual dancer to talk self intimacy, two lips (yes, those), and why mirrors could be your best friend.Enjoy!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailHow do you turn one short film into a full-blown brand? In this episode, I break down how I took my first short film — which went on to earn almost 2.4 million views on YouTube — and spun it into a podcast, creative platform, and bigger storytelling universe.From writing the script and making the short to building Slut in Training into something beyond film, I’m sharing what it really looks like to stretch one strong idea across multiple platforms. If you’re an indie filmmaker, content creator, writer, or podcaster trying to figure out how to maximize your work and build momentum from one project, this episode is for you.We get into:How I made my first viral short filmWhy I turned it into a podcastHow creators can build a brand from one conceptThe power of YouTube, storytelling, and audience growthWhy your creative idea doesn’t have to live in just one formatIf you’ve ever wondered how to take a short film and turn it into something bigger — this is the episode.🎧 Topics include:short film to podcast, indie filmmaking, viral YouTube short film, content creator strategy, podcast branding, independent film marketing, storytelling, and creative entrepreneurship.Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show

Send us Fan MailA spinoff podcast inspired by the short film: Slut in Training. Slut in Training is a shameless comedy podcast where we interrogate guests from random walks of life, redefine “slut,” and dish out questionable advice, slutty vocabulary lessons, and awkward moments.Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Support the show