The Anxious Girly

Are you constantly scanning for rejection? Does the smallest of encounters send you on a downward spiral, that affects not only your mood but self worth? You may be dealing with RSD. In this episode, I talk about how it has affected me, how I live with it and the things that I need to be aware of in order for it not to take over my life.

The type of loss that sometimes society says "you aren't allowed to grieve for because they are still alive." It leaves you in a weird, confusing limbo... Shall I reach out? Do I forgive them? How am I supposed to feel? It's not as simple as learning to let go.In this episode, I talk about my own recent experience and emotional healing with loss, forgiveness and how it changed me as a person.

I thought I had to be fully healed before I could want love. Turns out… that mindset was making me feel guilty for something completely human.In this episode, I talk about healing, connection, and why you’re allowed to want love without having everything figured out. Because wanting love isn’t the problem… losing yourself in it is.

Have you ever convinced yourself it was love… When really it was obsession, fantasy, and a nervous system looking for safety?In this episode of The Anxious Girly, I talk about limerence: what it actually is, why it feels so intense, and why it can be so hard to let go.This isn’t about shaming yourself for 'being dramatic.' It’s about understanding what’s really happening when you become emotionally attached to someone who barely knows you, or can’t show up for you.🤍

Do you find yourself stuck in a loop of wanting to become better? To finally take those scary steps into evolving your life, yet that pesky voice in your head tells you otherwise and always gets in your way? Then this episode is for you!

In this episode of The Anxious Girly, we’re talking about who you choose to keep around you, and why it matters more than we’re often taught. I reflect on what it means to stop giving unlimited access to people who don’t pour back, don’t show up, or leave you feeling smaller after every interaction. This isn’t about bitterness, punishment, or cutting people off impulsively, it’s about self-respect, boundaries, and emotional sustainability.This episode is an invitation to look honestly at your relationships and ask: Who adds to my life, and who quietly drains it? You’re allowed to choose better. You’re allowed to protect your energy. And you’re allowed to walk away without hating anyone.🤍https://linktr.ee/TheAnxiousGirly

After my crisis, I made a quiet decision: to step away from alcohol-not as a rule, not as a forever thing, but as an act of self-care.In this episode, I talk honestly about:why alcohol stopped feeling supportive for mehow cutting it out wasn’t about control or punishmentthe difference between “giving something up” and “choosing clarity”and what it’s taught me about listening to my body and nervous systemThis isn’t an anti-alcohol episode.It’s not advice, and it’s not a challenge.It’s simply one person sharing what helped them feel steadier, safer, and more present during a fragile season-and why there doesn’t have to be a rush to add things back in before you’re ready.If you’ve ever questioned your relationship with alcohol, or felt pressure to drink socially when it didn’t actually serve you, this one’s for you.🤍https://linktr.ee/TheAnxiousGirly

In this episode, I talk about my recent experience seeing a mental health professional-and how I left the appointment feeling more confused and dismissed than supported.This isn’t an attack on psychiatry or mental health services.It’s a personal reflection on what it can feel like when you reach out for help and the support you receive doesn’t meet the moment you’re in.I’m sharing this because I know I’m not the only person who’s walked away from an appointment questioning themselves, minimising their own pain, or wondering whether they “explained things wrong.”This is not medical advice, and I’m not encouraging anyone to avoid seeking professional support. If you’re struggling, please keep reaching out-sometimes it takes more than one conversation to find the right fit.If you’ve ever left an appointment feeling smaller instead of steadier, I hope this makes you feel less alone.🤍https://linktr.ee/TheAnxiousGirly

If speaking up makes people uncomfortable, that doesn’t mean you’re wrong-it means they’re not used to emotional honesty.This episode dives into what it really means to be a sensitive, self-aware person in a world full of people who deflect, minimise, or can’t meet you where you are.You’re not asking for too much.You’re asking the wrong people.Let’s get into it. 💕https://linktr.ee/TheAnxiousGirly

Healing isn’t always pretty. Sometimes it’s messy, emotional, confusing… but it’s still progress.If you’ve slipped recently, you’re not back at square one. You’re growing. 🧡Find more of me here: https://linktr.ee/TheAnxiousGirly

Those seconds in the midst of a spiral really do matter. Hopelessness isn't the end. You can, and you will find the strength to ask for help. ❕️You are not silly. You are not insane. You are not weak. You are tired from carrying a burden too heavy for one mind. 🧠🌏 Wherever you are in the world. Please reach out if you ever feel unsafe with your thoughts. No matter what you think will happen, please reach out:UK – NHS 111 - option 2 | Samaritans 116 123 | Text SHOUT 85258US – Call or text 988Canada – Call or text 988 | Kids Help Phone 1-800-668-6868Australia – Lifeline 13 11 14🌍 findahelpline.com for local support.

Episode 2: Starve The Spiral: 3 Ways To Stop Overthinking In Its TracksFeeling like your brain won’t shut up? Ready to evict those gremlins? This episode is your lifeline!In this episode, I walk you through three calming strategies that I personally use to stop an anxious spiral before it takes over. Whether you’re pacing, panicking, or staring at your phone waiting for a text, this one's for you.✨ Learn how to recognise the spiral✨ Use quick grounding tools that actually work✨ Reconnect to your power and pause the panicIf you struggle with anxious attachment, rumination, or just need a soft voice to remind you that you're not crazy, you're just overwhelmed, press play.And hey, if you love it? Share with your bestie and follow for more gentle reminders.

If you're staring at your phone, rereading his last message, or hovering over "send" this one’s for you. In this first episode of The Anxious Girly, I’m sharing the three things I desperately wish I knew before I texted him back.Whether you're in a situationship, coming out of no contact, or just trying to feel grounded again, this is your gentle, no BS reminder of your worth.Featuring insights from my Before You Text Him Workbook, this episode is all about clarity, calm, and confidence.Follow The Anxious Girly for short, emotionally honest episodes to help you untangle your anxious attachment and stop spiraling over someone who’s not giving you clarity!