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The Midlife Comeback Club | Divorce, Faith, Confidence, Relationships, Healing
by Lori Ann Feeley | Christian Life Coach for Divorced Women
Do you secretly feel like your divorce means you failed—no matter how hard you tried? Are you exhausted from living in survival mode, wondering if financial freedom will ever be possible again? Do your days revolve around everyone else while your own routines—and dreams—keep getting pushed aside? Do you feel called to more, but self-doubt keeps whispering, “Who do you think you are to start over now?”I am beyond excited that you’re here!This podcast will help you heal after divorce, rebuild your confidence, and step into a new season of purpose—so you can create a healthy relationship, build meaningful success, and become the strongest, healthiest version of yourself for you and your family.Hey, I’m Lori Ann. A divorced mom of 2 sweet miracles, “Jesus Lover,” & a Certified Christian Life Coach. For over a decade, I wandered around in the wilderness carrying guilt & shame. I felt like a complete failure.I tried to push through instead of heal. I ignored my own needs, stayed stuck in
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29 | Side Hustle at Home: Build a Real Business in 90 Minutes a Day
You don't have a time problem. You have a systems problem. And girl — that is actually the best news you've heard all week, because systems can be built. In this episode, I'm talking about how to build the foundation of a real online coaching business from home in just 90 minutes a day — and I'm giving you some practical AI starting points you can actually use THIS week. This one is for you if you've been sitting on the idea of starting something of your own, but keep telling yourself you don't have the time. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why "I don't have time" is one of the most believable lies a midlife woman tells herself — and what's actually in the way The 90-Minute CEO framework and how to decide exactly what to do with it Why most women get generic AI results — and the one thing you must do before you ever type a prompt How to build your AI Brain in a single 90-minute session so every output sounds like YOU from day one The simplest client pathway that actually works (hint: you don't need a website on Day 1) I used to be the queen of "when things calm down, I'll start." And friend — things do not calm down. You have to build the calm. That morning I finally stopped waiting for the perfect moment and just started with 90 protected minutes and a clear plan? That's when everything changed. This episode is your starting line. 🙌 Get on the Waitlist for "Called to Coach, Built to Break Free" — my 6-phase AI-powered coaching business program for midlife Christian women: 👉 https://www.loriannfeeley.com/waitlist 🙌 Take the FREE "Discover Your Calling Quiz" — find out what God is calling you to coach! 👉 https://www.loriannfeeley.com/callingquiz 🙌 Try Claude (free) — the AI tool I use and teach every day: 👉 https://claude.ai Connect With Me: ✨ Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley ✨ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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28 | Financial Freedom: What It Really Looks Like for Midlife Christian Women
Episode 28: Financial Freedom: What It Really Looks Like for Midlife Christian Women You've worked hard. You've sacrificed. You've given your best years to everyone else. And financial peace still feels like a "someday" that never quite shows up. Girl, today we're changing that conversation. In this episode, I'm talking about financial freedom — and what it actually looks like for a midlife Christian woman building on her own terms. Not what the finance bros on social media say it looks like. The real, faith-powered version. The one that starts with 90 minutes a day, a mustard seed of faith, and a decision made right in the middle of your mess. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why the traditional financial freedom model was never designed for women in midlife — and what actually works for you instead The one moment that changed everything about how I define financial freedom (hint: it had nothing to do with a number) Three powerful shifts that move you from a paycheck mindset to an ownership mindset Why AI is the single greatest wealth-building opportunity available to midlife women right now — and what happens to women who ignore it How to build income that scales without trading more hours, sacrificing your family, or burning yourself completely out I want to tell you something real. Financial freedom didn't begin for me when I hit a number. It began when I made a decision — standing in a grocery store checkout line, counting items in my cart, hoping my card would clear — that I was going to build something that was mine. Something that couldn't be taken away by a layoff, a divorce, or anybody else's decisions. That moment on the floor, with my two miracle kiddos, no income, and no plan — that was actually my first act of financial freedom. And it's available to you right now, from wherever you're standing. 🙌 Join The Midlife Comeback Club — my annual group coaching mentorship for midlife Christian women: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/themidlifecomebackclub 🙌 Get on the Waitlist for Called to Coach, Built to Break Free — Coming Soon! 🎉 VIP Founding Member Pricing 🎉 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/waitlist 🙌 Take the FREE Calling Quiz — find out exactly what God has gifted you to do! 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/callingquiz Connect With Me: Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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The Midlife Comeback Club: Faith-Powered Strategies for Christian Women Reinventing Life & Income
Are you a midlife Christian woman in the middle of a major life transition — and quietly wondering if it's too late to build something meaningful? It's not. And you just found your show. Welcome to The Midlife Comeback Club — the podcast for midlife Christian women who are ready to stop surviving and start building a faith-powered AI business that creates real financial freedom, real time freedom, and Full-Life Freedom™ in every area of life. Every week, we talk about Faith-Powered Strategies for Christian midlife women reinventing their life & their income. I show you how to start an online coaching business using simple AI tools — no tech degree, no prior business experience, and no hustle culture required. Just faith, a proven system, and 90 minutes a day. This podcast is for you if you're: Rebuilding your life after divorce and ready to create real financial independence An empty nester asking "now what's next for me?" Facing a corporate layoff or burnout and done trading your best hours for someone else's dream Feeling called by God to start a coaching business but have no idea where to begin Ready to learn how to use AI for business — in a way that actually fits your real life Here's what you'll learn: How to start an online coaching business from scratch — even in midlife How to use AI for business the simple, faith-powered way The 90-Minute CEO framework for building real income without sacrificing your family How to create financial freedom for women through meaningful, God-led work Faith-Powered AI Systems™ that run your business behind the scenes I'm Lori Ann, a Christian AI Business Coach for midlife women & a Certified Christian Life Coach, who holds a marketing degree and an MFA in Creative Writing. I'm also a divorced, single mom who once found herself pushing 50, sleeping on her mother's living room floor — and went on to build a six-figure business while homeschooling her kids, working full-time, and going back to school. If God did it for me, He can absolutely do it for you. This is your invitation, girl. Hit subscribe and let's get to work. We're putting God first. Family second. And AI third. Your calling is not canceled. Your comeback is not optional. And God? He is never late. 🙏 🙌 Join The Midlife Comeback Club — my annual group coaching mentorship for Christian midlife women: 👉 https://www.loriannfeeley.com/themidlifecomebackclub Connect With Me: Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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27 | Christian Life Coach: How God Turns Your Mess Into Your Business
Christian Life Coach: How God Turns Your Mess Into Your Business You've survived something hard. And somewhere in the back of your mind, you've been wondering — could my story actually help someone else? Could it become something real? Something that creates financial freedom for me and my family? Girl, the answer is yes. And today I'm going to show you exactly how. In this episode, I'm breaking down the 3 things God does with your mess — and how each one becomes the foundation of an online coaching business you can start building right now, as a Christian midlife woman, in just 90 minutes a day. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why your comeback story is the most powerful side hustle asset you already own — no certification required The 3-step framework for turning your hardest season into a real, income-producing coaching business How to identify your niche from your lived experience so you can start building your online business with clarity Why midlife Christian women are uniquely positioned to create financial freedom through coaching — and how AI makes it possible in 90 minutes a day How to go from "I've been meaning to start" to "I am open for business" — even if you have zero tech skills I know what it's like to have no income, no plan, and no roadmap. I was a divorced, single mom sleeping on my mom's living room floor with my two miracle babies, wondering if my life was completely over. What I didn't know was that God was busy building my curriculum. Every hard year wasn't wasted — it was being authored by Him. Romans 8:28 says He works all things for good — not most things. Not the comfortable things. All of it. The season you're embarrassed about, the years you thought were wasted, the story you think is too messy — that is exactly what someone else needs to hear. And with the right AI-powered systems behind the scenes, you can build a coaching business around that story in the margin of your day. No hustle required. Just 90 minutes, a mustard seed of faith, and a God who is never late. 🙌 Join the insider list for "Called to Coach, Built to Break Free, (Coming Soon!)" inside The Midlife Comeback Club. It's built for midlife Christian women who are ready to turn their story into financial freedom using Faith-Powered AI Systems with 90 minutes a day for 90 days. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/insider 🧡 Take my FREE God-Given Gifts Quiz — discover what God has already placed in you that could become your online coaching business: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/god-given-gifts-quiz 🧡 Join my FREE Facebook Community — Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women: 👉 bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Connect With Me: Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513 🙌 Join The Midlife Comeback Club — my annual group coaching mentorship for midlife women: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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26 | Your Comeback Is Not Behind You: What God Is Actually Doing in This Midlife Season
Can I ask you something? When is the last time you actually let yourself believe that your best chapter might still be ahead of you? If that question hit somewhere tender — this episode is for you. In this episode, I'm talking about the lie that so many of us in midlife have quietly accepted as truth — that we are too late, too far behind, or too far in to build something new. And girl, I am here to tell you that is not your story. Not even close. In This Episode, You'll Discover: Why what feels like an ending in midlife is almost always a setup — and how to start seeing it that way The three mindset shifts that take you from I think I might be too late to my next chapter might be my most meaningful one Why your experience, your story, and your hard seasons are not liabilities — they are your greatest business asset What God's Word actually says about new things, restored years, and futures that are still very much in progress Why the Midlife Comeback Club is expanding — and what that means for women who are ready to turn their healing into financial freedom I spent nine months on my mother's living room floor. Two kids. A dog. No income. No plan. And a Jeremiah 29:11 post-it next to my head that I cried at every single night because I could not see how it was ever going to be true for me. But it was. And the woman I became in that season — through the surrender, the humility, the rock-bottom dependence on God — she is the woman who eventually built something meaningful. Not despite that floor. Because of it. Your mess is not a detour. It is your message. And your comeback is not behind you. It is right here, waiting for you to say yes. 🧡 Join the waitlist for my "Called to Coach, Built to Break Free," annual group coaching business mentorship inside The Midlife Comeback Club. It's built for midlife Christian women who are ready to turn their story into financial freedom using Faith-Powered AI Systems in 90 minutes a day for 90 days.: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🧡 Take my FREE God-Given Gifts Quiz — discover what God has already placed in you that could become your online coaching business: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/god-given-gifts-quiz 🧡 Join my FREE Facebook Community — Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women: 👉 bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Connect With Me: Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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25 | Faith Rebuilt: The Basics and How to Trust God Again, Even When You’re Still Angry After Divorce
Faith Rebuilt: How to Trust God Again After Divorce (Even When You're Still Angry) If you've ever wanted to throw a "just trust God" graphic across the room… this episode is for you. And no, that doesn't make you a bad Christian. It makes you a real one. In this episode, I'm talking about rebuilding your faith after divorce — and girl, this one is for you if you've been showing up to church, saying all the right things, and feeling completely hollow on the inside. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why your faith took just as big a hit as your marriage — and why nobody warns you about that How to stop performing for God Why your anger at God is not a sin How to separate God's character from your painful circumstances The four practical steps to rebuild trust with God in small, daily ways that actually work I spent a Sunday morning loading my kids in the car, driving to church, sitting in that pew — and feeling absolutely nothing. Not peace. Not faith. Not even anger. Just… nothing. So I quietly gathered my kids, slipped out before the sermon, drove to Dunkin' Donuts, and whispered the most honest prayer I'd said in months right there in that parking lot. And that? That was the beginning. 🙌 Join The Midlife Comeback Club — my annual group coaching mentorship for midlife divorced Christian women: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💕 Take my FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz — find out exactly where you are in your healing journey: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 🎉 Join our FREE Facebook Community — Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women: 👉 bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Connect With Me: Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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24 | Renewing Your Mind After Betrayal: Why It’s Biblical AND Tactical
Ep 24 | Renewing Your Mind After Betrayal: Why It's Biblical and Tactical If you've been through betrayal, you already know it's not just the heartbreak that gets you. It's the thoughts. The mental replay that shows up out of nowhere — at the grocery store, folding laundry, during a random song on the radio — and pulls you right back to the moment everything changed. In this episode, I'm talking about renewing your mind after betrayal — and girl, this one is for you if you've been doing all the right things and still cannot get your brain to cooperate with your healing. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why your brain replays betrayal — and why it's NOT a spiritual failure The truth about forgiveness vs. healing What Romans 12:2 and Philippians 4:8 actually teach us about renewing our minds — and it's way more tactical than you think 3 practical, faith-based steps to start shifting what's happening in your head right now How to build a daily renewal rhythm that creates real, lasting change Here's what nobody told me after my divorce... choosing to forgive doesn't automatically delete the neural pathways that were carved by the pain. I learned that the hard way — sitting on my bedroom floor, surrounded by unfolded laundry, ugly crying over a song on the radio a full year after I thought I was "past it." Renewal is not a one-time prayer. It's intentional. It's consistent. And it's absolutely possible — for you. 🙌 Join The Midlife Comeback Club — my annual group coaching mentorship for midlife divorced Christian women: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💕 Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz — find out exactly where you are in your healing journey: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 😀 Join our FREE Facebook Community — Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women: 👉 bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Connect With Me: 🌐 Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 👍 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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23 | Toxic Relationship or Just a Rough Patch? How to Know the Difference
Episode 23: Toxic Relationship or Just a Rough Patch? How to Know the Difference You've been through the fire of divorce. You're trying to rebuild your life, maybe even open your heart again. And now there's this relationship — a friendship, a new person you're dating, a family member — and something just feels… off. But you can't tell if you're finally seeing clearly or if you're just broken and scared. In this episode, I'm talking about how to know the difference between a toxic relationship and a rough patch — and girl, this one is for you if you've ever caught yourself saying "maybe I'm just being too sensitive" when your gut was screaming something completely different. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why divorce breaks your "normal meter" — and how to start trusting your instincts again The 3 key questions to ask yourself about any relationship after divorce How to tell the difference between a rough patch (temporary and survivable) and toxicity (a pattern that erodes who you are) Why 1 Corinthians 13 gets misused to guilt women into tolerating things that are genuinely not okay How God's promise of wisdom in James applies directly to your relational discernment right now Here's what I want you to hear: after everything you've walked through in your marriage, your instincts didn't disappear. You just stopped trusting them. And Proverbs 4:23 says to guard your heart above everything — which I now believe means paying close enough attention to actually know what your heart is telling you. Because God didn't give you a weak, unreliable heart after your divorce. He gave you a more informed one. Resources & Links Mentioned: 🙌 Join The Midlife Comeback Club — my annual group coaching mentorship for midlife divorced Christian women: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💕 Take my FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz — find out exactly where you are in your healing journey: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 🎉 Join our FREE Facebook Community — Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women: 👉 bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Connect With Me: Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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22 | Confidence Isn’t Vanity. It’s Stepping Into Who God Says You Are After Divorce
Ep 22: Confidence Isn't Vanity. It's Stepping Into Who God Says You Are After Divorce Can I be honest with you for a second? After my divorce, I didn't just lose my confidence. I felt guilty for even wanting it back. Like somehow wanting to feel good about myself again was selfish, vain, or spiritually off-track. And girl, if that's where you are right now, this episode is for you. In this episode, I'm talking about confidence after divorce — and not the surface-level "just believe in yourself more" kind. We're going deeper. Because real confidence isn't vanity. It's not ego. It's not arrogance. It's actually just learning how to agree with what God already says about you. And that changes everything. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why so many Christian women feel guilty for wanting to feel confident again — and the truth behind that guilt The sneaky way divorce quietly erodes your confidence after divorce long before you even realize it's happening The critical difference between confidence and vanity Three practical steps you can start this week to rebuild your confidence — rooted in God, not your circumstances Why "going back to who you were before" is actually keeping you stuck — and what God is really inviting you into instead Here's what I know to be true after walking through my own divorce and coming out the other side. There was a season where I couldn't see even a sliver of light. I didn't see a way through. I had maybe a mustard seed of faith — and honestly, some days that felt like a stretch. But God used that tiny seed. And the woman standing here today? She is not the woman who sat in the dark wondering if she'd ever get back up. I want that same thing for you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made — full stop. No asterisk. No "except for that divorce." Just period. And it is time to start living like you believe that. 🙌 Join The Midlife Comeback Club — my annual group coaching mentorship for midlife divorced Christian women: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💕Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz — find out exactly where you are in your healing after divorce journey (survival mode? clarity phase? rediscovery? rising?) 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💃 Join the FREE Facebook Community — Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women: 👉 bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce 😀 Become An Insider: Get on my email list for weekly encouragement + special offers! 👉 loriannfeeley.com/insider Connect With Me: 💕 Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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21 | Why Divorce Shakes Your Identity (And How Christian Women Rebuild It)
Episode #21: Why Divorce Shakes Your Identity (And How Christian Women Rebuild It) After divorce, one of the hardest questions isn’t: “What do I do now?” It’s: “Who even am I now?” Because divorce doesn’t just change your relationship status… It shakes your identity. In this honest and faith-filled episode of "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast," we’re talking about why so many Christian women feel lost after divorce—and how to rebuild your identity in Christ without trying to go back to the old version of yourself. Because healing after divorce isn’t just about moving on… It’s about rediscovering who you are now. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why divorce can create an identity crisis for Christian women – How your identity becomes tied to marriage, roles, and routines – Why you may feel lost, confused, or disconnected after divorce – The difference between “starting over” and rediscovering yourself – How to rebuild confidence and identity after divorce – Why healing and identity rebuilding takes time – What the Bible says about identity, transformation, and becoming a new creation in Christ – Practical ways to reconnect with yourself after divorce ✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Confidence & Identity? If you’re tired of: 💛 feeling disconnected from yourself 💛 second-guessing every decision 💛 wondering what your purpose is now You don’t have to walk through this alone. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll get: My transformational 90-Day Program • Weekly live coaching & Q&A sessions • Faith-based strategies for healing after divorce • Support from Christian women rebuilding their lives too 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://www.loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💛 Join My Free Facebook Community Looking for daily encouragement and support from women who get it? 👉 Join Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women https://bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce 📩 Get Weekly Encouragement + Next Steps Join my insider email list for: ✨ weekly encouragement ✨ new podcast episodes ✨ faith-based healing strategies ✨ exclusive offers & updates 👉 Join my insider email list: https://loriannfeeley.com/insider 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast" ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another woman who needs this message Your support helps more women searching for: 👉 healing after divorce for Christian women 👉 identity after divorce 👉 how to rebuild confidence after divorce 👉 Christian divorce recovery find this podcast. 🙌 Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Not sure where you are in your healing journey? Find out your stage—Survival, Clarity, Rediscovery, or Rising: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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20 | Faith Isn’t Certainty—It’s Showing Up Anyway
Episode #20: Faith Isn’t Certainty—It’s Showing Up Anyway What if faith isn’t about having all the answers… …but showing up even when you don’t? If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce, you’ve probably found yourself stuck in this space: 👉 waiting for clarity 👉 overthinking every decision 👉 wondering if you’re “doing the right thing” Because you’ve been taught that faith should feel certain. But what if that’s not actually what faith looks like? In this honest and faith-filled episode of "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast," we’re breaking down what it really means to trust God in uncertainty—especially when you’re rebuilding your life after divorce. Because real faith? Doesn’t always feel confident. It often feels like taking the next step… without having the full plan. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why faith is not the same as certainty (and why that matters) – How fear and overthinking keep you stuck after divorce – The difference between waiting on God vs. avoiding action – What God often gives you, instead of what you want – How to rebuild faith after divorce when you feel unsure – What it actually means to walk by faith, not by sight – How to take action even when you don’t feel ready or confident ✨ Ready to Start Moving Forward with Faith? If you’re tired of: 💛 overthinking every decision 💛 feeling stuck in uncertainty 💛 waiting to feel ready You don’t have to figure this out alone. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: • My 90-Day transformational program • Weekly live coaching & Q&A calls • Faith-based healing and confidence rebuilding • A supportive community of Christian women walking the same journey 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://www.loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💛 Join My Free Facebook Community Looking for daily encouragement and support from women who get it? 👉 Join Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women https://bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce 📩 Get Weekly Encouragement + Next Steps Want weekly faith-based encouragement and practical next steps? 👉 Join my insider email list: https://loriannfeeley.com/insider 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another woman who needs this message Your support helps more women searching for: 👉 faith after divorce 👉 Christian divorce recovery 👉 trusting God in uncertainty find this podcast. 🙌 Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Not sure where you are in your healing journey? Find out your stage—Survival, Clarity, Rediscovery, or Rising: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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19 | Healing After Divorce Takes Longer Than Forgiveness—and That’s Okay
Episode #19: Healing After Divorce Takes Longer Than Forgiveness—and That’s Okay You’ve forgiven… So why does it still hurt? If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce, this is one of the most confusing parts of the healing process. Because you’ve prayed about it. You’ve made the decision to forgive. You want to move forward. And yet… You’re still triggered. Still emotional. Still feeling the weight of what happened. In this honest and faith-filled episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, we’re breaking down the difference between forgiveness and healing—and why they don’t happen on the same timeline. Because forgiveness is a decision… But healing? That’s a process. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why forgiving someone doesn’t instantly heal emotional pain – The difference between forgiveness and emotional healing after divorce – Why you may still feel triggered—even after you’ve forgiven – How to release guilt around “not being over it yet” – What the Bible says about forgiveness vs. healing – Why healing takes time—and what that actually looks like – How to walk through emotional healing with God instead of rushing it ✨ Ready to Start Healing? If you’re tired of: 💛 feeling stuck in your emotions 💛 questioning whether you’ve really forgiven 💛 trying to rush your healing You don’t have to do this alone. And you don’t have to figure this out by yourself. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: • My 90-Day transformational program • Weekly live coaching & Q&A calls • Faith-based healing and confidence rebuilding • A supportive community of Christian women walking the same journey 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://www.loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💛 Join My Free Facebook Community Looking for daily encouragement and real conversations? 👉 Join https://bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another woman who needs this message Your support helps more women searching for: 👉 healing after divorce 👉 Christian forgiveness and healing 👉 emotional healing after divorce find this podcast. 🫶 Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Find out which stage of healing you’re in: 1. Survival 2. Clarity 3. Rediscovery 4. Rising Take my quiz here! https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me! Contact me: [email protected] Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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18 | Emotionally Abusive Relationships Don’t Always Look Like You Think
Episode #18: Emotionally Abusive Relationships Don’t Always Look Like You Think When you hear the words emotional abuse… You probably picture yelling. Name-calling. Obvious toxic behavior. But what if the most damaging kind of emotional abuse… doesn’t look like that at all? In this powerful and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, we’re talking about the subtle, confusing, and often overlooked signs of emotional abuse—and why so many Christian women don’t even realize they were in an emotionally abusive relationship until they’re out of it. Because sometimes… It doesn’t look like chaos. It looks like confusion. In This Episode You’ll Learn: 💕The subtle signs of emotional abuse that most women miss 💕Why emotional abuse often feels confusing instead of obvious 💕The 3 main things that show up in relationships 💕Why you may have felt like you were always the problem 💕The connection between emotional abuse and losing your confidence, voice, and identity 💕How to recognize when you’ve been conditioned to question yourself 💕How Jesus treated women and why that matters ✨ Ready to Start Healing? If you’re realizing that your past relationship affected you more than you thought… You’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure this out by yourself. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: My 90-Day transformational program • Weekly live coaching & Q&A calls • Faith-based healing and confidence rebuilding • A supportive community of Christian women walking the same journey 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://www.loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💛 Join My Free Facebook Community Looking for daily encouragement and real conversations? 👉 Join https://bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Your support helps more women searching for: 👉 emotional abuse recovery 👉 healing after divorce 👉 Christian relationship healing find this message. 🫶 Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Find out which stage of healing you’re in: 1. Survival 2. Clarity 3. Rediscovery 4. Rising Take my quiz here! https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me Contact me: [email protected] Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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17 | Rebuilding Confidence After Divorce Without Faking It or Forcing
Episode #17: Rebuilding Confidence After Divorce Without Faking It or Forcing It “Just be confident.” “Fake it till you make it.” “Just believe in yourself.” If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce… that advice probably makes you want to roll your eyes. Because when your life has been turned upside down, confidence doesn’t just magically come back. In fact, after divorce, it’s not just your confidence that takes a hit… It’s your self-trust. In this honest and faith-filled episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I break down what it really looks like to rebuild confidence after divorce—without pretending, performing, or forcing yourself into a version of confidence that doesn’t feel real. Because true confidence isn’t something you fake… It’s something you rebuild—one step at a time. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why confidence after divorce isn’t just about mindset & what it really is – The truth about “fake it till you make it” (and why it doesn’t work long-term) – How divorce impacts your confidence, identity, and decision-making – The connection between faith, action, and rebuilding confidence – Why small daily promises are the foundation of real confidence – How to move forward even when you feel unsure, emotional, or not ready ✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Confidence (For Real)? If you’re tired of: 💛 second-guessing yourself 💛 feeling stuck or unsure 💛 trying to “fake” confidence that doesn’t feel real You don’t have to do this alone. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: • My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program • Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions • Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce • A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to navigate this season alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://www.loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 💛 Join My Free Facebook Community Looking for daily encouragement and real conversations with women who understand? 👉 Join Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women https://bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another woman rebuilding after divorce Your review helps more women searching for: 👉 confidence after divorce 👉 Christian divorce recovery 👉 healing after divorce for women over 40 find this podcast when they need it most. Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Not sure where you are in your healing journey? Find out your stage—Survival, Clarity, Rediscovery, or Rising: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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16 | Divorced, Over 40, and Starting Over: Where Do You Even Begin?
Episode #16: Divorced, Over 40, and Starting Over — Where Do You Even Begin? Starting over after divorce in your 40's can feel overwhelming. This isn’t where you thought you’d be. This isn’t the life you planned. And now you’re left asking the question so many Christian women face after divorce: “Where do I even begin?” In this honest and encouraging episode of "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast," I walk you through what it really looks like to start over after divorce—and why you’re not as “behind” as you think you are. Because the truth is… You’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience. If you’re a Christian woman navigating divorce recovery, rebuilding your confidence, and trying to figure out your next step in midlife, this episode will give you clarity, direction, and hope. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Where to begin when you feel lost after divorce – Why you’re not “behind” in life—even if it feels that way – The biggest mistake women make when trying to start over after 40 – How to stop overthinking your future and focus on your next step – What is the most essential thing you can do after divorce? – What the Bible says about starting over and trusting God’s plan – What two things you need most during healing and rebuilding ✨ Ready to Start Your Comeback? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand exactly what you’re going through. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program • Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions • Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce • A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to navigate this season alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://www.loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast" ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman healing after divorce Your review helps more women searching for Christian divorce recovery, faith after divorce, and emotional healing after divorce find this podcast when they need it most. Take my FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz! Discover what phase of healing you’re in after divorce—and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me Join the Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women Facebook Group Here! https://bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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15 | Why “Just Have Faith” Is Terrible Advice for Divorced Women
Episode #15: Why “Just Have Faith” Is Terrible Advice for Divorced Women “Just have faith.” If you’re a Christian woman going through divorce, chances are you’ve heard this more than once. And while it sounds encouraging… It often leaves you feeling more confused, frustrated, and even spiritually stuck. Because when your life has just fallen apart, your identity feels shaken, and your emotions are all over the place… “Just have faith” doesn’t actually tell you what to do next. In this honest and eye-opening episode of "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast," I break down why this common piece of advice falls flat for so many Christian women after divorce—and what real, practical faith actually looks like in a season of healing. Because the truth is… Faith isn’t meant to replace your healing. And it’s not meant to silence your emotions. If you’ve been trying to “just have faith” but still feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward, this episode will help you understand something powerful. You’re not doing it wrong. You’ve just been given incomplete advice. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why “just have faith” can feel frustrating and unhelpful after divorce – How this advice can unintentionally keep Christian women emotionally stuck – The difference between real faith and passive waiting – Why faith doesn’t eliminate grief, confusion, or emotional pain – What the Bible actually shows about faith and taking action – How to move forward after divorce with both faith and practical steps – What real, grounded faith looks like during divorce recovery ✨ Ready to Move Forward with Confidence and Faith? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who truly understand this journey. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: 🎉 My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program 🎉 Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions 🎉 Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce 🎉 A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to navigate this season alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://www.loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast" ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman healing after divorce Your review helps more women searching for Christian divorce recovery, faith after divorce, and emotional healing after divorce find this podcast when they need it most. Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover what phase of healing you’re in after divorce—and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me Join the Healing After Divorce for Midlife Christian Women Facebook Group Here! https://bit.ly/healingaftermidlifedivorce Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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14 | Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings: Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual
Episode #14: Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings — Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual As Christian women, we’re often taught that if we just “have enough faith,” we shouldn’t feel sad, angry, or overwhelmed. So after divorce, when those emotions show up… We try to pray them away. Ignore them. Push them down. And call it faith. But what if suppressing your feelings isn’t spiritual at all? In this honest and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I talk about the real reason so many Christian women stay stuck emotionally after divorce—and why pretending you’re “fine” is actually slowing down your healing. Because the truth is… Faith doesn’t cancel your feelings. And healing doesn’t happen when you ignore what you feel—it happens when you finally face it. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions mean you’re doing something wrong spiritually, this episode will help you understand something powerful. You’re not failing in your faith. You’re learning how to process your pain in a healthy, honest way. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why suppressing emotions after divorce keeps you stuck longer than necessary – The difference between real healing and “spiritual avoidance” – What the Bible actually shows us about emotions and faith – WhatvJesus did when it came to expressing his deep emotions – How to stop trying to “pray away” your feelings – What it looks like to bring honest, unfiltered emotions to God – How emotional healing and spiritual growth actually work together ✨ Ready to Heal Without Pretending You’re Fine? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is walking through this process with support. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, my annual group coaching membership, you’ll find ✨ My 90 day transformational "Crush Your Divine Comeback, Girl" Program ✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach ✨ Faith-based guidance & strategies for healing after divorce ✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to navigate this alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman who needs this message Your review helps more women searching for healing after divorce and faith-based support find this podcast. 🙌 Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover what phase of healing you’re in—and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Become an Insider for FREE! https://loriannfeeley.com/insider 💕 Connect With Me 💕 Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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13 | Proverbs 31 Woman Doesn't Mean 'Put Up With Abuse'
Episode #13: The Truth About the Proverbs 31 Woman: Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships For years, many Christian women have been taught that being a “Proverbs 31 woman” means staying quiet, keeping the peace, and enduring—no matter what. But what if that’s not what the Bible actually teaches? In this bold and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I unpack one of the most misunderstood concepts in Christian womanhood—and how it may be keeping you stuck in unhealthy patterns after divorce. Because the truth is… Being a godly woman does not mean tolerating behavior that breaks you. And it definitely doesn’t mean abandoning yourself in the process. If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between your faith and your well-being, this episode will help you see something clearly. You don’t have to disappear to be a “good Christian woman.” In This Episode You’ll Learn: – What the Proverbs 31 woman actually represents (and what she doesn’t) – Why “just pray and stay” is often misunderstood—and not always biblical – The difference between true strength and silent self-abandonment – What it really means to “guard your heart” as a Christian woman – What Jesus would do in an unhealthy relationship – Why your value is not based on how much you tolerate – How to begin reclaiming your voice, your confidence, and your identity after divorce ✨Ready to Rebuild Your Life with Confidence and Faith? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who are walking this journey too. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: ✨ My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program ✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach ✨ Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce ✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to figure this out alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman who needs this message Your review helps more women searching for healing after divorce and faith-based encouragement find this podcast. 🙌 Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover what phase of healing you’re in—and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me 💕Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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12 | Divorce, Guilt, and God: Letting Go of the Shame That Keeps You Stuck
Episode #12: Divorce, Guilt, and God: Letting Go of the Shame That Keeps You Stuck If you’ve ever laid in bed replaying your past like it’s your brain’s full-time job… this episode is for you. Because let’s be real—after divorce, it’s not just the heartbreak you carry… It’s the guilt. The second-guessing. The quiet thoughts that whisper: “I should’ve known better.” “This was my fault.” In this episode, we’re calling that out for what it really is—shame that’s keeping you stuck. And more importantly? We’re replacing it with truth. Because God never asked you to carry something He already paid for. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: –The difference between conviction vs. shame (and why so many women confuse the two) –Why replaying your past is not helping you heal (even though it feels like it is) –The hidden reason you’re still holding onto guilt—and how to finally release it –What the Bible actually says about forgiveness, grace, and letting go of your past –How to break free from the mental loop of overthinking and step into emotional and spiritual freedom Ready to Let Go of the Shame and Move Forward? If you’re tired of: ✨ Replaying the past ✨ Carrying guilt that God already released ✨ Overthinking every decision ✨ Feeling stuck in your healing This is exactly the work we do inside The Midlife Comeback Club 💛 This isn’t just inspiration… It’s transformation. 🎉 Join us here! https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🙌 Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Find out what stage of healing you're in and what to do next: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 Connect With Me 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513 🎧 Loved This Episode? If this spoke to you, I would LOVE for you to: ✔ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✔ Share this episode with a friend who needs this message ✔ Tag me on social so I can cheer you on! 🙏🏻
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11 | You Didn’t Lose Your Faith—You Lost the Life You Expected
Episode #11: You Didn’t Lose Your Faith—You Lost the Life You Expected After divorce, it can feel like your faith is… off. You still believe in God. You still pray. You still want to trust Him. But something feels different. And that can be confusing—especially as a Christian woman. In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I break down what’s actually happening when your faith feels shaken after divorce. Because the truth is: You didn’t lose your faith. You lost the life you thought you were going to have. And those are not the same thing. If you’ve ever thought, “Why does my faith feel so different now?” This episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and how to rebuild from here. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why it feels like you’ve “lost your faith” after divorce (even when you haven’t) – How unmet expectations can shake your identity and your relationship with God – Why questioning God doesn’t mean your faith is failing – The shift from surface-level faith → real, personal faith – How to begin rebuilding your faith in a way that actually feels honest and grounded Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life? If this episode spoke to your heart, it’s time to stop trying to figure this out on your own. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, I help you: ✨ rebuild your confidence ✨ trust yourself again ✨ and move forward with clarity—without overthinking everything 🎉 Join us here!! https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🙌 Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Find out what stage of healing you're in and what to do next: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Connect With Me 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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10 | Confidence in Self vs. Confidence in God: What Christian Women Get Wrong
Episode #10: Confidence in Self vs. Confidence in God — What Christian Women Get Wrong As Christian women, we’re often taught: “Don’t trust yourself… trust God.” Sounds spiritual, right? But in real life? It often looks like: ✨second-guessing every decision ✨overthinking everything ✨and feeling stuck waiting for clarity that never seems to come In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I’m breaking down the truth about confidence –what it actually means to trust God and yourself. Because this isn’t about choosing one or the other. It’s about understanding how they work together. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed trying to “get it right” or afraid of making the wrong decision, this episode will help you finally move forward—with clarity and confidence. In This Episode You’ll Learn: 💕 Why “don’t trust yourself” is often misunderstood (and keeping you stuck) 💕 The difference between discernment vs. overthinking 💕 Why self-doubt isn’t humility & what it really is 💕 How to rebuild trust in yourself without losing your faith 💕 The mindset shift that helps you stop waiting—and start moving forward Ready to Stop Overthinking and Start Moving Forward? If this episode hit home, it’s time to stop spinning in indecision and start building real confidence. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, I help you: ✨ rebuild your confidence ✨trust yourself again ✨and move forward with clarity—without overthinking everything 🎉 Join us here!! https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🙌 Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Find out what stage of healing you're in and what to do next: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Connect With Me 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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09 | Why “Just Move On” Is Toxic Advice for Christian Healing
Episode #9: Why “Just Move On” Is Toxic Advice for Christian Healing “Just move on.” Sounds simple… right? But if you’ve ever walked through divorce or heartbreak, you know it’s not that easy. In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I’m breaking down why this common advice actually keeps Christian women stuck—and what real, faith-based healing actually looks like. Because healing isn’t about rushing. And it’s definitely not about pretending you’re fine. If you’ve been putting pressure on yourself to “be over it” by now, this episode will help you breathe again—and start healing for real. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why “just move on” teaches you something you don't want to d – How this advice disconnects you from something that's so important – Why rushing your healing can delay the transformation God is doing in you – The shift you need to move past your divorce Ready to Heal for Real (Not Just Pretend You’re Fine)? Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll learn how to: rebuild your confidence renew your mind and actually heal after divorce—without rushing the process JOIN HERE: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club "FREE DIVORCE RECOVERY QUIZ" Find out what stage of healing you're in and what to do next: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 CONNECT WITH ME! Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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08 | Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships (Even When They Know Better)
Episode #8: Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships (Even When They Know Better) Why do so many Christian women stay in unhealthy relationships… even when they know something isn’t right? They see the red flags. They feel it in their gut. And yet… they stay. In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I break down the real reasons why faithful, self-aware women stay stuck in relationship patterns that hurt them. Because this isn’t about weakness. It’s about conditioning, fear, and believing that staying makes you “good”—even when it’s costing you your peace. If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why did I stay so long?” This episode will help you understand—and start breaking the pattern. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – What Christian women confuse with love – How spiritualizing red flags keeps you stuck longer than you should be – Why ignoring your needs becomes a pattern (and how to stop) – How unhealthy relationships erode your confidence and self-trust – Why staying can feel safer than leaving – The mindset shifts you need to finally choose differently Ready to Break the Pattern? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is getting the support you need to heal and rebuild. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll learn how to: rebuild your confidence trust yourself again and stop repeating the same old patterns 🎉 Join here: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Take the FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Find out what stage of healing you're in and what to do next: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Connect With Me 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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07 | Why Christian Women Struggle to Believe in Themselves—Even When They Love Jesus
Episode #7: Why Christian Women Struggle to Believe in Themselves—Even When They Love Jesus As Christian women, we’re taught to trust God, have faith, and walk in humility. But what no one really talks about is this: You can love Jesus… and still struggle to believe in yourself. You can pray, read your Bible, and encourage everyone around you—while quietly battling self-doubt, insecurity, and second-guessing every decision you make. And after divorce, that struggle often becomes even deeper. Because divorce has a way of shaking your confidence, your identity, and your ability to trust yourself at the core. In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about why so many Christian women struggle with confidence after divorce—even when their faith is strong. Because the truth is, this isn’t about a lack of faith. It’s about years of conditioning, identity confusion, and beliefs that have kept you disconnected from who God says you are. In this episode, I share part of my own journey of rebuilding confidence after divorce and what it actually takes to move from self-doubt into grounded, faith-filled confidence. Not loud confidence. Not fake confidence. But the kind of confidence that is rooted in truth, identity, and trust in who God created you to be. If you’re a Christian woman who feels stuck in self-doubt, this episode will help you understand something powerful: You are not lacking faith. You are not “too broken.” You are a woman learning how to trust yourself again through God’s truth. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why many Christian women struggle with self-confidence—even when they love Jesus – How church culture can unintentionally create insecurity instead of healthy confidence – Why divorce often destroys self-trust and leads to second-guessing everything – What leads to ongoing self-doubt – Why many women have been conditioned to outsource their worth to others – What has to come first in order to build confidence – How renewing your mind is essential for rebuilding confidence after divorce – The difference between pride and healthy, faith-based self-belief ✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Confidence and Identity After Divorce? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey and are doing this work too. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program • Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach) • Faith-based strategies for rebuilding confidence and identity after divorce • A supportive community of Christian women learning how to trust themselves again You don’t have to keep second-guessing yourself. You don’t have to stay stuck in self-doubt. And you don’t have to rebuild your life alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Subscribe to the Podcast & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman rebuilding her confidence after divorce Your review helps more women searching for confidence after divorce and Christian healing find this podcast when they need it most. Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover which stage of healing you’re in after divorce and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Visit Me 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com Follow Me on Social Media Instagram 💕 https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook 💕 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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06 | Why So Many Divorced Women Stay Stuck In Survival Mode
Episode #6: Why So Many Divorced Women Stay Stuck in Survival Mode After divorce, many women enter survival mode just to get through the crisis. They’re juggling finances, parenting, emotional overwhelm, and the shock of their life changing overnight. At first, survival mode makes sense. But for many divorced women — especially Christian women in midlife — survival mode doesn’t just last for a season. It quietly becomes the way they live. They keep functioning, showing up, and holding everything together… but inside they feel exhausted, disconnected, and stuck. In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about why so many divorced women remain stuck in survival mode after divorce — and how to begin moving toward true healing and freedom. Because the truth is, survival mode may protect you in a crisis, but it was never meant to be your permanent home. If you’ve been feeling emotionally numb, constantly overwhelmed, or like you’re just getting through each day instead of actually living again, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening. And more importantly, it will show you how to begin stepping out of survival mode and into healing. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – What survival mode after divorce actually looks like and why so many women experience it – Why survival mode often begins as a protective response to emotional trauma – How unprocessed grief can keep divorced women stuck in survival mode – Why many Christian women struggle to move beyond survival after divorce – How fear and constant busyness can keep you emotionally stuck – Why many women build an identity around being “the strong one” – The small, practical steps that help you begin moving from surviving to healing ✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life After Divorce? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program • Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach) • Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce • A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to wrestle through this season alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Subscribe to the Podcast & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman healing after divorce Your review helps more women searching for faith after divorce and Christian healing discover this podcast when they need it most. Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover which phase of healing you’re in after divorce and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Visit Me: 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com Follow Me on Social Media: Instagram: 💕 https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: 💕 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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05 | Faith After Divorce: How to Trust God When Your Life Fell Apart
Episode #5: Faith After Divorce — How to Trust God When Your Life Fell Apart Trusting God after divorce can feel almost impossible. As Christian women, we’re often told to “just trust God,” “have faith,” or “lean not on your own understanding.” But when the marriage you prayed for falls apart and the life you imagined is suddenly gone, those words can feel more frustrating than comforting. In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about the real struggle many Christian women face when their faith feels shaken after divorce. Because the truth is, many women still believe in God after divorce — but their trust feels fragile. And they often feel guilty about that. In this episode, I share a deeply personal part of my own journey of rebuilding faith after divorce and the steps that helped me begin trusting God again — not with perfect faith, but with honest faith. If you’re a Christian woman trying to reconcile your pain with your faith, this episode will help you understand something powerful: You are not failing spiritually. You are not a bad Christian because this is hard. You are a woman learning how to trust God again after heartbreak. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why trusting God after divorce is often harder than people admit – How church culture can unintentionally make women feel guilty when their faith struggles – What is the first step toward rebuilding trust with God – How to separate God’s character from painful life circumstances – Why clarity doesn’t always come before obedience – What helps rebuild trust in God over time – Why your faith after divorce may actually become deeper and more authentic 🌿 If Your Faith Feels Shaky Right Now… You’re not alone. Many Christian women experience a season after divorce where they still love God but struggle to understand Him. Questions like: Why did God allow this? Why didn’t my prayers change the outcome? Where was God when everything fell apart? These are real questions — and bringing them to God honestly is not rebellion. It’s relationship. In fact, rebuilding faith after divorce often begins when we stop pretending everything is okay and start bringing God our real questions, grief, anger, and confusion. As I share in this episode, God isn’t looking for polished faith — He’s looking for honest faith. ✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life After Divorce? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program • Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach) • Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce • A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to wrestle through this season alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Subscribe to the Podcast & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman healing after divorce Your review helps more women searching for faith after divorce and Christian healing discover this podcast when they need it most. Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover which phase of healing you’re in after divorce and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Visit Me: 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com Follow Me on Social Media: Instagram: 💕 https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley Facebook: 💕 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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04 | Healing After Divorce: What No One Prepares Christian Women For
Episode #4: Healing After Divorce — What No One Prepares Christian Women For Healing after divorce isn’t just about signing papers, dividing assets, or adjusting to a new routine. For many Christian women, the real battle begins after everything settles—when the emotional aftershock, identity crisis, loneliness, and spiritual questions start to surface. In this deeply honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I share what no one talks about when it comes to healing after divorce as a Christian woman. If you’ve ever wondered why the pain lingers longer than expected, why your identity feels shaken, or why healing feels so lonely at times, this conversation will help you realize something powerful: You’re not broken. You’re not failing. You’re healing. I share pieces of my own journey through divorce and the lessons God used to rebuild my confidence, identity, and purpose—one small surrendered step at a time. If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce, this episode will help you understand what’s happening emotionally, spiritually, and mentally—and how to start moving forward with hope again. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why healing after divorce is not linear (and why emotional setbacks are actually part of progress) – The hidden identity crisis many Christian women face after divorce – Why loneliness can feel so intense during healing after divorce – How the real battle after divorce often happens in your mind – The surprising grief many women experience for the future that never happened – Why surrender is one of the most powerful steps in Christian divorce recovery – How God can rebuild a life that is stronger, freer, and more aligned with your purpose 🌿 If You’re Healing After Divorce as a Christian Woman… This episode will remind you that: You are not disqualified. Your story is not over. And God is still writing your comeback. Even if healing feels messy, slow, or confusing right now, God is still working behind the scenes to rebuild your life in ways you may not be able to see yet. ✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Life After Divorce? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is joining a community of women who truly understand this journey. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find: Faith-based coaching for Christian women after divorce • Lori Ann’s transformational 90-day healing program • Weekly live coaching calls and Q&A sessions • A supportive sisterhood of midlife Christian women walking the same path You don’t have to heal alone anymore. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Subscribe to My Podcast & Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman navigating divorce recovery Your review helps other women searching for healing after divorce find this podcast when they need it most. Take my FREE "Divorce Recovery Quiz" & discover what phase you're in: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Visit Me: 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com Follow Along on Social Media: 💕Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513
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03 | You’re Not Too Broken to Love Again—But Let’s Get Real About Healing First
Is love still possible after divorce? If you’re a Christian woman in midlife wondering whether you’ll ever love again — and feeling equal parts hope and fear — this episode is for you. In this episode, we're having an honest, faith-centered conversation about dating after divorce, healing before relationships, and how to know if you’re “healed enough” to open your heart again. Because here’s the truth: You’re not afraid of love. You’re afraid of repeating pain. Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage. It disrupts your relational wiring, your sense of safety, and your trust in your own instincts. If you’ve been asking: Am I too damaged to love again? What if I choose wrong again? What if I attract the same kind of relationship? How do I date in a way that honors God? What does “healed enough” even mean? This episode will help you navigate loving again after divorce — not from fantasy, fear, or pressure — but from truth, self-awareness, and faith. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why divorce makes dating after divorce feel complicated The difference between fear of love and fear of repeating pain How divorce impacts trust, vulnerability, and relational safety The difference between chemistry and emotional safety Why healing before dating is essential for Christian women 3 honest markers that show you’re healing (even if you don’t feel ready) How to approach love again with faith instead of desperation This episode is especially helpful for women navigating midlife divorce recovery who want to rebuild their identity and relationships in alignment with God. Why Love Feels So Complicated After Divorce: After divorce, many Christian women experience: Hypervigilance in dating Fear of vulnerability Loss of trust in their instincts Confusion between chemistry and true safety This doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means your system learned through pain. Healing isn’t about erasing your past — it’s about integrating it wisely so you can love again from a grounded, healed place. Ready for Faith-Based Support While You Heal? If you don’t want to repeat old patterns… If you want to heal before loving again… If you want to rebuild trust in yourself and in God… You’re invited to join: 🎉 The Midlife Comeback Club Group Coaching Membership 🎉 Inside you’ll find: A 90-Day Transformational Healing Course Weekly Live Faith-Based Group Coaching Support as you rebuild relational patterns Tools to strengthen identity and confidence A community of Christian midlife women walking this same journey 👉 Learn more here: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode helped you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman navigating healing after divorce Your review helps this podcast reach women searching for Christian divorce recovery, midlife healing, and faith-based relationship guidance. Take my "Divorce Recovery Quiz" & discover what phase you're in: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513 You are not too broken to love again. You’re not behind. You’re not disqualified. You’re becoming whole. And your next chapter can be built on healing — not fear.
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02 | How Divorce Wrecks Your Self-Confidence (and How to Rebuild It God’s Way)
If divorce has shaken your confidence and you don’t recognize the woman you see in the mirror anymore… this episode is for you. We're diving into one of the deepest wounds Christian women experience after divorce – the quiet erosion of self-confidence. Divorce doesn’t just break your heart. It chips away at your identity, your trust in yourself, and your sense of worth. You may find yourself asking: Why didn’t I see this coming? Can I trust my judgment anymore? What’s wrong with me? Does struggling with confidence mean I’m struggling with my faith? Here’s the truth: Divorce didn’t expose a confidence problem. Divorce created a confidence wound. And wounds need care — not criticism. In this episode, we unpack how divorce impacts your identity, self-trust, and self-worth — and shares practical, faith-based steps to rebuild confidence after divorce in midlife. You’ll Learn: Why divorce affects confidence at a deeper level than most people realize The difference between a confidence problem and a confidence wound How identity shifts after divorce can distort self-perception Why “just be confident” advice doesn’t work How to separate your worth from your marriage outcome Simple daily practices to rebuild self-trust How faith and confidence can realign after divorce This episode is especially powerful for Christian women navigating midlife divorce recovery who want to rebuild confidence without pretending or forcing it. If you’re tired of second-guessing yourself and want structured, Christian divorce recovery support, join me inside the: ✨ The Midlife Comeback Club Membership ✨ Inside you’ll receive: A 90-Day Transformational Healing Course Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls Faith-based tools to rebuild confidence and identity A supportive community of Christian midlife women healing after divorce 👉 Learn more here: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Subscribe & Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman navigating divorce recovery Your review helps other women searching for healing after divorce find this podcast when they need it most. Take my "Divorce Recovery Quiz" & discover what phase you're in: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513 Confidence after divorce isn’t about pretending you’re strong. It’s about rebuilding what was shaken — gently, faithfully, and intentionally. Your comeback is already in motion. 💛
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01 | Divorce Recovery: The Basics and How to Move Forward, Even When You’re Still in Survival Mode.
Are you a Christian woman navigating healing after divorce and wondering why you still feel stuck? In this powerful first episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, we dive into one of the most overlooked parts of Christian divorce recovery – survival mode. After divorce, many midlife women find themselves functioning — but not fully living. You’re working. Parenting. Praying. Showing up. But inside, you feel exhausted, disconnected, anxious, or spiritually numb. If you’ve ever thought: “Why am I still struggling after my divorce?” “Why does my faith feel different now?” “Why can’t I just move on?” “Why do I feel stuck in survival mode?” This episode will help you understand what’s happening in your body, your nervous system, your identity, and your faith. Because survival mode after divorce isn’t weakness. It’s a trauma response. And true healing after divorce — especially for Christian women — begins with compassion, safety, and grounded faith. What You'll Learn In This Episode: What survival mode after divorce really is Why healing after divorce is not linear How divorce impacts identity and sense of safety Why you can’t “pray harder” or “push through” trauma The connection between nervous system healing and faith 3 foundational steps to move from survival to stability How Christian women can rebuild after divorce without shame This episode is especially helpful for women navigating midlife divorce recovery who want faith-based guidance rooted in emotional and nervous system awareness. Ready for Faith-Based Divorce Support? If you’re a Christian woman in midlife who is tired of surviving alone and ready to intentionally rebuild after divorce, you’re invited to join: 🎉 The Midlife Comeback Club Group Coaching Membership 🎉 Inside you’ll find: A 90-Day Transformational Healing Course Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls Tools to rebuild confidence and identity after divorce A faith-centered community for Christian women healing after divorce 👉 Learn more here: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club Subscribe & Leave a Review: If this episode helped you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman navigating divorce recovery Reviews help this message reach women searching for healing after divorce and faith-based support during midlife transitions. Take my "Divorce Recovery Quiz" & discover what phase you're in: 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz 💕 https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513 You were never meant to survive forever. Midlife divorce isn’t the end of your story — it’s the beginning of your comeback.
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The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast: Why This Podcast Started
Welcome to The Midlife Comeback Club—the faith-filled podcast for divorced Christian women ready to heal, rebuild confidence, and step boldly into the life God still has for them.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Do you secretly feel like your divorce means you failed—no matter how hard you tried? Are you exhausted from living in survival mode, wondering if financial freedom will ever be possible again? Do your days revolve around everyone else while your own routines—and dreams—keep getting pushed aside? Do you feel called to more, but self-doubt keeps whispering, “Who do you think you are to start over now?”I am beyond excited that you’re here!This podcast will help you heal after divorce, rebuild your confidence, and step into a new season of purpose—so you can create a healthy relationship, build meaningful success, and become the strongest, healthiest version of yourself for you and your family.Hey, I’m Lori Ann. A divorced mom of 2 sweet miracles, “Jesus Lover,” & a Certified Christian Life Coach. For over a decade, I wandered around in the wilderness carrying guilt & shame. I felt like a complete failure.I tried to push through instead of heal. I ignored my own needs, stayed stuck in
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