Who Let Me Do This? — Funny, Unfiltered Stories of Working Mom Life, Career & Chaos

Send us Fan MailIf you've ever felt like your energy, mood, and motivation change week to week — they do, and there's a reason. This week I'm joined by Tiffany Ruder, perimenopause pharmacist and hormone health coach (@optimizeherpharmacist), and she is changing the way I think about my body, my cycle, and my marriage.We get into everything: what perimenopause actually is (and why it starts earlier than you think), how to use your cycle to schedule your biggest career moves, why your libido has everything to do with your to-do list, and the term "chore play" that I will be using for the rest of my life.If you're a working mom in your 30s or 40s who has ever wondered why some weeks you feel unstoppable and other weeks you can barely function — this episode is for you.And if you are catching this before June 29th, 2026 - Click below to join Tiffanys FREE Masterclass:Normal Labs. No Energy. Now What?In this episode:What perimenopause actually is and when it startsCycle syncing: how to schedule your biggest asks, meetings, and creative work around your hormonesChore play — why taking something off her list gets you on her listThe invisible labor connection to libido (yes, really)The saguaro cactus and the most beautiful metaphor for a woman's growth I've ever heardConnect with Tiffany: @optimizeherpharmacist If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailThis week on Who Let Me Do This, Saidee sits down with Kristen Knutson—better known as Boomer Mom (@callmekristenmarie)—to discuss her journey from corporate professional to full-time content creator, comedian and entrepreneur.Known for her viral Boomer Mom sketches that hilariously capture the relationship between millennials and their parents (boomers), Kristen shares the story behind the brand, her unexpected talent discovered during the depth of premie babies, and why she believes she found her voice during one of the most challenging seasons of her life.Together, Saidee and Kristen explore motherhood, parenting in the age of social media, career transitions, entrepreneurship, identity shifts, building a support system, and what it really takes to be a modern mother in todays world.In this episode, you'll learn:• How Kristen built the Boomer Mom brand• The realities of becoming a full-time content creator• Lessons from motherhood and raising young children• How preemie parenthood shaped her journey• Why finding your voice often comes through difficult experiences• The importance of community, friendship, and building a village• Navigating career changes and entrepreneurship in your 30sWhether you're a parent, entrepreneur, creator, or someone figuring out your next chapter, this conversation is filled with humor, honesty, and practical insights about building a life that's true to who you are.Connect with Kristen:Instagram/Tiktok: @callmekristenmarieFollow Who Let Me Do This for more conversations about careers, identity, motherhood, and the unexpected paths that shape our lives. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailCan you build a successful career, raise four kids, navigate IVF, and still feel like yourself?In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I sit down with Allison Larson, one of Minnesota's top loan officers, a business leader, speaker, entrepreneur, and mom of four, to talk about the realities of working motherhood, infertility, ambition, and building a life you're proud of.Allison shares how she started her mortgage career while still in college, grew into a nationally recognized leader in the mortgage industry, and now coaches other professionals while raising a blended family. We also dive into her fertility journey, including IVF, miscarriage, pregnancy after infertility, and the unexpected surprise of having two babies just over a year apart.But this conversation goes far beyond careers and motherhood. We talk honestly about mom guilt, the isolation many mothers experience, finding your village, maintaining your marriage, asking for help, and why success looks different in every season of life.If you're a working mom, entrepreneur, business leader, or woman trying to balance career growth with family life, this episode is for you.Topics We Cover:• Working motherhood and career growth • IVF, infertility, miscarriage, and fertility treatments • Building a successful mortgage business • Leadership, coaching, and entrepreneurship • Blended families and step-parenting • Mom guilt and maternal identity • Marriage, parenting, and family life • Building your village and support system • Ambition, success, and personal fulfillment • Raising young children while growing a career If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailMoving with three young kids, two full-time careers, packed schedules, and a whole lot of ambition? Saidee is breaking down exactly how her family moved into their dream home while trying to keep life, work, and motherhood from completely unraveling.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, Saidee shares the real behind-the-scenes of moving as a working mom: hiring packers and movers, building a “moving village,” decluttering before the move, what went wrong, what was worth every penny, and the things she wishes she had planned for sooner.From patting dry with an old college tshirt and wire transfer panic to learning how to accept help and make space for rest, this episode is part moving checklist, part motherhood pep talk, and part reminder that building your dream life does not mean doing it all alone.Perfect for working moms, ambitious women, families moving with kids, or anyone trying to create a more functional life with less chaos.If you're moving soon or just moved - or just have a ton of shit cause...kids. Make sure you check out Kristyn [@sorted_mpls] who literally saved my sanity heading into this move.  If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIf you’ve ever wondered how new moms are supposed to survive sleep deprivation, postpartum recovery, breastfeeding, newborn anxiety, and a career… this episode is for you.This week on Who Let Me Do This, Saidee sits down with newborn care specialist (also known as a night nurse) Jess Geroux to talk about what postpartum support actually looks like behind closed doors — and why so many women are trying to do motherhood without the village they truly need.Tldr: Everyone needs a Jess in their life.Jess shares what it’s like working overnight with newborns and exhausted parents, how sleep conditioning works for babies, what ambitious working moms often get wrong about postpartum recovery, and why “pushing through” isn’t the badge of honor we think it is.They also discuss:What a newborn care specialist/night nurse actually doesHow overnight postpartum support worksBreastfeeding struggles and newborn sleep deprivationPostpartum anxiety, rage, and mental healthThe invisible mental load of motherhoodWhy millennial moms are more isolated than everHow to build a realistic postpartum support systemThe difference between a postpartum doula and a night nurseWhy one good night of sleep can change everythingWhether you’re pregnant, in the newborn stage, planning another baby, or supporting a new mom in your life, this episode is an honest conversation about motherhood, support, sleep, and why women were never meant to do this alone.Connect with Jess:Instagram: @not_that_boy_momEmail: [email protected] If this episode resonated with you, share it with another ambitious mom who needs the reminder that asking for help is not failure — it’s strategy. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIn this special Mother’s Day episode of Who Let Me Do This, Saidee sits down with her mom, Carolyn, to talk about motherhood across generations. From becoming a stay-at-home mom unexpectedly, raising five kids, building a village, returning to work, and navigating parenting in the 90s versus parenting today, Carolyn shares honest, funny, and heartfelt wisdom from every stage of motherhood.They talk about daycare costs, mom guilt, self-care, marriage as the “trunk of the tree,” raising independent kids, grandparenting, and what really matters when you’re deep in the chaos of family life.Perfect for moms, grandmas, parents of young kids, and anyone reflecting on the women who raised them. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIf you’ve ever said “I don’t have time,” “I don’t have money,” or “I’ll just do it myself”—this episode is your wake-up call.In this solo episode, Saidee is breaking down one of the biggest lies modern women—especially working moms—have been sold: that we’re supposed to do it all alone.From building your “village” to outsourcing without guilt, this episode dives into the real reason you feel overwhelmed—and how to actually fix it.Because here’s the truth: 👉 Time, money, and energy are all resources—and you’re already choosing how to spend them.Saidee shares her personal experience going from overwhelmed, resentful, and doing everything herself… to building a life where she can show up fully as a mom, spouse, and professional—without burning out.If you’re a high-achieving woman trying to balance career, motherhood, and everything in between, this episode will challenge the way you think about: Asking for help  Outsourcing household tasks  Prioritizing your time and energy  Letting go of control and guilt  Creating a support system (your “village”) that actually works You’ll also learn how to identify what’s draining you, what’s worth outsourcing, and how small shifts can completely change how you show up in your life.Because you weren’t meant to do this alone—and you don’t have to.Ready to figure out what you should stop doing? Grab the Village Workbook linked in the show notes and start building a life that actually feels good to live. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailMegan Koehler shares her incredible journey as a heart transplant survivor, cancer survivor, and working mom. Born with a congenital heart defect, Megan received a heart transplant at 14 and went on to navigate pregnancy after heart transplant, becoming a mom despite major medical risks.Years later, while raising her toddler, Megan was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma, leading to chemotherapy, a long hospital stay, and an entirely new fight for her health.In this episode, we talk about:Motherhood after organ transplantHigh-risk pregnancy and C-section recoveryCancer diagnosis and treatment as a momBalancing work, parenting, and chronic illnessBuilding a strong village (family, childcare, and support systems)Advocating for your health and navigating insuranceThis is a powerful, honest conversation about resilience, survival, and what it really takes to keep going when life doesn’t go as planned. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWhat if the reason motherhood feels so hard today… is because the blueprint we were raised on no longer works?In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, I’m joined by Emily McNiff—working mom of two and a leader in the agriculture space—who works directly with women farmers across the country.And this conversation completely changed how I think about work, motherhood, and the mental load.Because while many of us are navigating careers, childcare, and the invisible labor at home… farming moms are doing all of that while running a family business where the stakes are their livelihood—and the farm doesn’t wait.We talk about: Why modern motherhood feels harder than it did for our parents The GIANT gap in agriculture that is insurance in the second most dangerous career The mental load of working moms (and how it shows up differently in rural vs. urban life)  What “work-life balance” looks like when your job, home, and family business are all the same  The reality of being a woman in agriculture and breaking outdated gender roles  The childcare gap in rural communities and what “the village” really looks like today  Common misconceptions about farming and the hidden pressures behind feeding the country Whether you’re in corporate, running your own business, or just trying to keep up with everyday life as a mom—this episode will make you feel seen, while also giving you a whole new perspective.Because no matter where we live… we’re all carrying more than we were meant to. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIf you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, touched out, or quietly resentful in a life you worked so hard to build… this episode is for you.Today, I’m joined by Julia Sewell, founder of The Self-Made Mom, to talk about the reality so many working moms experience but rarely say out loud: burnout, loss of identity, and resentment in motherhood.After having three kids in 18 months (yes—twins included), Julia hit a breaking point. What followed was a complete shift in how she approached work-life balance, self-care, boundaries, and the mental load of motherhood.In this conversation, we get into: Why so many moms feel resentment toward their partner, kids, and career The concept of self-abandonment (and how it’s keeping you stuck)  How to reclaim your time without guilt  Practical ways to reduce the mental load at home  Why “doing it all” is actually draining your joy  How to communicate your needs and set boundaries in motherhood  Simple systems to run your home without constant overwhelm  How to feel like yourself again—without sacrificing your family This episode is honest, validating, and full of actionable strategies for moms who want to stop surviving and start actually enjoying their lives again.Because motherhood isn’t meant to erase you.Connect with Julia: Website: theselfmademom.com (Find resources, coaching, and upcoming retreats)If this episode resonated with you: Share it with another mom who needs to hear this—and don’t forget to follow/subscribe so you never miss an episode. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when you love your career, love your kids, and still come home from a work trip feeling totally overstimulated?In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, I’m talking with Lindsay DiPonzio (@lindsaydiponzio), a mom of two and project manager for a major cruise line, about the reality of traveling for work with young kids, working mom guilt, and trying to build a big career without feeling like you have to shrink your ambition after motherhood.We talk about the parts of working mom life that people do not say out loud: why the hardest part of work travel is sometimes coming home, how kids emotionally release with mom, the pressure on partners when one parent travels, and what it really looks like to manage career growth, marriage, parenting, and mom guilt all at once.We also get into:business travel as a mom why bringing your family on work trips is not always worth it  the difference between work travel and actual rest  how to talk to young kids about mom traveling for work  building a village when you do not live near family  splitting household labor without defaulting to traditional gender roles  why so many women feel imposter syndrome in motherhood and careerIf you’ve ever wondered whether you can be a present mom and still chase a big career, this conversation is for you. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailMillennial moms were told we could have it all—career, family, and a “village” to support us along the way. But what happens when that village never shows up?In this episode, we break down the reality so many working moms are facing today: raising kids without the built-in support systems previous generations had. From dual-income households to rising childcare costs to living far from family, the modern “village” looks very different than what we were promised.You’ll learn: Why the traditional village disappeared for millennial parents  The real reason working moms feel burned out  The 3 types of “villages” every parent needs (and how to build them)  Why paying for help is not failure—and how to let go of the guilt  Practical ways to create support as a working parent in 2026 If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing it all without enough help, this episode will help you reframe what support actually looks like—and how to build a village that works for your life. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWhat is your Enneagram type—and what does it actually say about you?In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, I sit down with Enneagram expert, speaker, and author Ashton Whitmoyer Ober (aka @EnneagramAshton) to break down everything you think you know about personality types—and what you’re probably getting wrong.She also reads my Enneagram type live and WOW let me tell you...it was part therapeutic, part soul baring vulnerability. We cover:What the Enneagram really is (and why personality tests are only ~60% accurate)The 9 Enneagram types explained in simple termsHow your core motivations drive your behavior (not just your personality)Why the Enneagram is more powerful than Myers-Briggs or DISCHow to use the Enneagram in your career, leadership, and relationshipsWhat your “stress” and “growth” types reveal about youAnd… when Ashton reads MY Enneagram type live...she calls me out a littleIf you’ve ever felt like personality tests didn’t fully capture you—or you want to better understand yourself, your partner, or your team—this episode is your starting point.🎯 Whether you’re a working mom, a leader, or just someone trying to figure yourself out, this conversation will change how you see yourself and others.Connect with Ashton: Instagram: @enneagramashton Website: enneagramashton.com If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailThis episode is part of the Ambitious Working Moms Series on Who Let Me Do This — conversations with women building big careers while raising families.In this episode, Saidee sits down with Abigail Campbell, a complex corporate litigation attorney, partner at her firm, and mom of three young daughters.By day, Abigail is arguing high-stakes corporate cases and going head-to-head with major companies in court. By night, she’s navigating bedtime routines, daycare pickups, and the invisible mental load that comes with modern motherhood.Together they talk honestly about the reality of being an ambitious working mom — the pressure to succeed professionally, the guilt that comes with missing moments at home, and the myth that women have to choose between career success and motherhood.Abigail shares the moments no one talks about — including the year she went completely numb trying to survive career and motherhood at the same time.In this conversation they discuss:• What a complex corporate litigation attorney actually does • The pressure of building a demanding career while raising kids • Working mom guilt and the emotional cost of ambition • The invisible mental load in modern marriages • Why “having it all” looks different for every family • Raising strong-willed daughters • How couples divide responsibilities when both careers matter • Why women don’t have to choose between motherhood and a meaningful careerIf you're a working mom, ambitious woman, or navigating career and motherhood, this series is for you. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailMillennial moms are used to doing it all — but what happens when your child needs more than the standard classroom can offer?In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, Saidee sits down with parent advocate coach Allison Lloyd (@goparentcoaching) to talk about IEPs, 504 plans, special education, and what it really means to advocate for your child in today’s school system.After her son was diagnosed with hemiplegic cerebral palsy following a stroke, Allison — a former special education teacher — had to fight for services, accommodations, and support. Even knowing the system, she was shocked at how hard it was to get her child what he needed.We cover:The difference between an IEP and a 504 planHow to request school testing for your childWhat to do if the school says “wait and see”ADHD accommodations and learning disabilitiesDisability vs neurodivergence explainedWhy advocating doesn’t make you “that parent”Letting go of mom guilt around diagnosesIf you’ve ever wondered: “Does my child need an IEP?” “Am I overreacting?” “Where do I even start?”This episode will give you clarity, language, and confidence.Every child deserves to thrive — and every parent deserves to feel empowered.Follow Allison @goparentcoaching on instagram & tiktok for more FREE information as well as ways to work with her to get your child the support they deserve. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailMillennial moms were told we could have it all — a career, kids, a happy marriage, a clean house. But no one explained who was supposed to do it all.In this episode, Saidee unpacks the “have it all” messaging that shaped millennial women and how it’s fueling modern mom guilt. From the mental load of working moms to the pressure of social media motherhood standards, this is an honest look at what we were promised — and what actually happened.If you’re a millennial mom balancing career and kids, feeling the weight of expectations, or questioning what modern motherhood is supposed to look like, this one’s for you.Let’s redefine what “having it all” really means. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when you sign a new job contract… and that same day you find out you’re pregnant with twins? Physical therapist Molly King, DPT (@mollykindDPT , @onwardmpls - Onward Physical Therapy, Twin Cities) joins Saidee to talk about the real-life logistics of pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting—plus the most practical, science-backed ways to support your body through prenatal exercise, pelvic floor health, and postpartum recovery.This conversation is for anyone who’s pregnant, postpartum, trying to get pregnant, or just wondering why nobody told us the truth about pelvic floor tightness vs weakness, training through pregnancy, and what to do when pain won’t go away.In This Episode, We CoverThe moment she found out she was pregnant with twins (and why it changed everything)Prenatal strength training: why “just walk and do yoga” isn’t enough for many momsPilates vs strength training: what Pilates does well—and what it doesn’t replaceThe pelvic floor conversation we should be having before pregnancy (not just after)Incontinence in athletes: why “peeing when you jump” isn’t normal—even in your 20sCommon pregnancy pain: sciatica, low back pain, round ligament pain, and what PT can helpPT vs personal training: how to know which one you actually needRed flags: when pain is a “wait and see” vs when to see a physical therapistWhat it’s really like going from 1 kid to 3 kids (including twins)Breastfeeding twins, triple feeding, and realistic postpartum expectationsMotherhood + work: maternity leave, daycare logistics, and why “mom time off” needs childcare If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailFeeling the Valentine’s Day hangover? Same. In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, Saidee breaks down the triple threat of late winter parenting: Valentine’s Day classroom chaos, Midwest “fake spring” weather whiplash, and the absolute nightmare that is summer camp + summer care registration for working parents.If you’re a working mom (especially with kids in elementary school), this one is your February anthem: the candy overload, the classroom party pressure, the never-ending pile of tiny plastic “party favors,” and the emotional roller coaster of going from a polar vortex to 55 degrees and back again. And just when you’re recovering? It’s time to plan summer like you’re buying Era's Tour concert tickets in the Hunger Games. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWhat really happens to your career when you step away to raise kids—especially when it isn’t part of the plan?In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, I’m joined by my close friend and writer Kalina Cicero, who shares her honest story of building a successful writing career, getting laid off during COVID while postpartum, becoming a stay-at-home mom by circumstance, and trying to re-enter the workforce years later.We talk about the career cost of motherhood, the reality of long employment gaps, why returning to work is harder than anyone prepares you for, and how Kalina rebuilt her creative identity while raising two kids. We also go deep into her journey as a writer—from publishing a children’s book, querying literary agents, facing rejection, and writing novels in 15-minute increments while parenting full-time.If you’re questioning your career path, navigating a comeback, or wondering if you’ll ever feel like yourself again—this conversation will make you feel seen. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWhat’s the hardest transition in becoming a parent—going from 0 to 1, 1 to 2, or 2 to 3 kids? In this new Q&A series, I’m answering your Instagram question with full honesty: the sleep deprivation, the postpartum anxiety, the pressure of breastfeeding, the chaos of two under two, and what it was really like having a baby during COVID—including a terrifying children’s hospital moment at 9 days old.I’m also sharing why 2→3 was unexpectedly my easiest transition, how HG (hyperemesis gravidarum) made my third pregnancy brutal, and the real conversation I’m having now: do we have a fourth kid… or are we done? If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, touched-out, or like you’re barely keeping your head above water, this one’s for you.🎧 Listen now, then tell me: Which transition was the hardest for you—and why? If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailSelf-care doesn’t have to be a luxury retreat, a perfectly planned routine, or something that gives you more anxiety than relief.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee breaks down her real-life approach to self-care for working moms — including what actually helps when you’re anxious, burned out, touched out, and running on fumes. From Mom Time Off (MTO) (trademarked by the incredible @the_car_mom) to low-effort, high-impact rituals, this episode is a judgment-free guide to taking care of yourself without overcomplicating it.Saidee shares her favorite self-care ideas — from five-minute fixes to more intentional investments — and explains why rest, flexibility, and meeting yourself where you are matter more than any “perfect” routine.Mentions in this episode:Under Eye Patches @ Target@the_car_mom instagram: Hilarious, fun & real mom that not only shares her life but helps families find the perfect vehicle for them! If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailNew Year’s resolutions? Hard pass.In this solo episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee explains why she hates New Year’s resolutions, why they’re setting moms up to fail, and what to do instead if you actually want change that sticks. From unrealistic expectations around fitness, sleep, money, and parenting — to the pressure women feel every January to “fix themselves” — this episode is a funny, honest takedown of hustle culture disguised as self-improvement.Instead of resolutions, Saidee makes the case for small, realistic habits, flexible goals, boundaries, and grace — especially for working moms in the most exhausting season of life. If you’ve already “failed” your New Year’s goals, this episode is your permission slip to start again… or not start at all. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIn Part 2 of Saidee’s conversation with Hannah, founder of Financially Engaged, the conversation shifts from budgeting systems to real-life survival — health crises, medical bills, motherhood, and the financial decisions that matter most when life doesn’t go as planned.Hannah shares the terrifying moment she went to bed healthy and woke up paralyzed, leading to an immediate multiple sclerosis (MS) diagnosis just months before her wedding. From navigating short-term disability and medical bills to rethinking stress, career choices, family planning, and financial security, this episode is a powerful reminder that money isn’t just about numbers — it’s about options.Together, Saidee and Hannah break down how to prepare financially for the unexpected, how to negotiate medical bills, why emergency funds and insurance matter, and how moms can build financial stability without sacrificing their sanity. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailSEASON 2 KICK OFF!Money is personal… and also somehow the reason so many couples fight about lattes. In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee sits down with Hannah, founder of Financially Engaged (@financiallyengaged), to talk about budgeting as a couple, paying off student loans and debt, and how to start investing for beginners—without turning your marriage into an Excel-powered cage match.Hannah shares how her and her husband’s money journey started, why most budgeting tools make people zoom in on the wrong things, and how shifting from “defensive budgeting” to goal-based planning can change everything. We also get real about the cost of childcare, why the “most expensive decade of life” hits so hard, and the mindset shifts that actually help moms build wealth.And then the conversation takes a turn: Hannah opens up about her multiple sclerosis (MS) diagnosis and the morning she woke up unable to walk—an instant reminder that planning matters, but so does living.In this episode, you’ll hear about:Budgeting for couples without nitpicking every tiny expenseHow to create a goal-based budget that keeps money conversations positiveDebt payoff strategy (and the regret of paying off low-interest debt too aggressively)Investing for beginners: what to do first, how to define your “why,” and building an investing planWhy money is emotional and psychological, not just mathThe reality of childcare costs and why it can dominate family financesHow to think about interest rates vs. investing returns (and why that matters)Hannah’s personal story: waking up paralyzed and navigating an MS diagnosisFollow Hannah @financiallyengaged on Instagram to learn more about personal finance, debt & investingMake sure your following @saideegrimley for episode extras and a peek behind the scenes  If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailLice entered our home like it was checking into a five-star resort—on my kid’s head, in my bed, and apparently on every soft surface we own. In this episode, I walk through our very real kids’ lice outbreak, how we treated it, what actually worked, what absolutely didn’t, and why I ended up topless in my bathroom with my hair in the world’s tightest top knot. If you're a parent dealing with head lice, gearing up for a school outbreak, or just panicking because your scalp suddenly itches… welcome. This is your practical, judgment-free guide to treating lice, cleaning your house, and surviving the chaos with (some of) your sanity. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailFa la la la la, I’m already so behind on Christmas it hurts. In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, I confess my full-on working mom vs Christmas spiral: the Santa “tradition” gone wrong at Mall of America, the Rainforest Cafe meltdown, the emergency Build-A-Bear bribe, and why I’m dangerously close to turning into the Grinch with a Target REDcard.If you’re a full-time working mom trying to juggle holiday magic, Christmas shopping, school breaks, Elf on the Shelf FOMO, mental load, and an actual job, this one’s for you. I get honest about feeling grinchy, hating forced gift exchanges, and wondering why every single Christmas expectation seems to land on moms… while still desperately wanting the magic for our kids.We get into:🎅 The “perfect” Christmas tradition that totally imploded – Santa photos, late arrivals, ride drama, and a kid meltdowns at the biggest mall in America 🧸 The $170 Build-A-Bear decision made in fight-or-flight and how my kids instantly decided it’s a “forever tradition” now🎄 Christmas as a working mom: holiday burnout, mom rage in the mall, and the pressure to make everything “magical” on zero energy🧠 The invisible mental load of Christmas – cards, stockings, teacher gifts, travel, school parties, winter break, ALL OF IT❌ Spicy hot takes: Elf on the Shelf, forced gift giving, Christmas break when you still have to work, and why moms end up doing the most✨ Where I actually still find real Christmas magic (spoiler: it’s in tiny moments, not Pinterest-level perfection)If you’re staring at your half-finished Christmas shopping, unmailed cards, and feral children on winter break, you’re not alone. Come laugh, cringe, and maybe feel a little less like the only overwhelmed working mom who loves Christmas… and also kinda hates it. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIt’s the most magical time of the year… which is adorable, considering moms are out here running Christmas like a Fortune 500 with no staff, no sleep, and all of the same expectations of the rest of the year. In this episode, I’m showing up with a messy bun, a Mount-Everest-level zit, and exactly zero energy—but we’re talking realistic ways busy, overwhelmed moms can give back during the holidays without adding 47 things to the to-do list.We cover the easy stuff (aka: praise be), how to donate without losing your mind, and my personal favorite hack: keeping a stash of $10 gift cards to hand out like a caffeinated Oprah.If the holiday season has you wondering how you’re supposed to create Christmas magic, keep tiny humans alive, show up to work, and still be a “good person,” this episode is your permission slip to not reinvent the wheel. You’ll get simple, doable ways to spread kindness—from giving a compliment to slipping a surprise gift card where a tired mom will find it.Perfect for: working moms, tired parents, holiday-season zombies, and anyone who wants to give back without completely falling apart.Come for the honesty, stay for the chaos. And if you’re watching this live… please ignore my hair. And my face. And everything else. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIronically, I’ve helped so many people figure out their next career move—but if you asked me what the pinnacle of my own career is? I couldn’t tell you.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, I’m getting brutally honest about success, ambition, and why it can feel like nothing is ever “enough” for high-achieving working moms. I talk about:How my definition of success has changed from college to kids to careerThe real tension between wanting a big career and wanting to be present with your familyHitting big milestones—money, titles, house, kids—and still feeling like you’re behindComparing yourself to friends with bigger jobs, bigger houses, bigger livesWhat I ask my coaching clients about the “pinnacle” of their careers… and why I can’t answer it for myselfThe messy overlap of imposter syndrome, ambition, and gratitudeIf you’ve ever looked around at your life—your kids, your job, your home—and flipped between gratitude of what you've achieved and frustration for what you haven't - this episode is for you.This is for the working moms, perfectionists, overachievers, and quiet overthinkers who are trying to build a good life, not just a good résumé.👉 Listen if you’re curious about: working mom life, career growth, defining success, imposter syndrome, burnout, ambition, money, contentment, and what “making it” actually means. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee sits down with Lee Hersh, founder of the powerhouse brand Fit Foodie Finds, to talk about what it really takes to build a seven-figure digital empire without losing yourself in the process.Lee opens up about starting her blog before Instagram even existed, turning a passion project into a full-blown business, and how she’s navigated the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, mental health, and motherhood—all while staying radically authentic.From her boss telling her she “wouldn’t be here long” to becoming a trailblazer in the creator space, Lee shares the behind-the-scenes truths about success, burnout, imposter syndrome, and why transparency is her secret weapon.Plus, she gets real about her decision to have one child, her experience with perinatal depression, and her unapologetic take on body autonomy—including the decision to get a breast reduction while running a wellness brand. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee gets real about Thanksgiving—and why working moms should absolutely not be hosting it right now. From hot takes on holiday hosting to hilarious mom truths about “hard pants” and kid tables, this episode is equal parts cozy and freeing.Saidee shares why Thanksgiving is secretly the best holiday for working moms: no decor expectations, no gifts, no chaos—just food, family, and freedom from the mental load. You’ll also hear how her family’s pie-baking tradition became a cornerstone memory (and why “Turkey Creations” are on furlough).So grab a glass of wine (or two), let go of the guilt, and join the Fraud Squad for a reminder that sometimes the best way to celebrate is to just show up and enjoy it.Timestamps:00:00 — Stop hosting Thanksgiving (seriously)06:20 — Why Thanksgiving is the working mom’s secret weapon14:45 — The art of bringing wine and pie (and nothing else)22:10 — Low-pressure traditions that actually stick31:55 — The “Turkey Creation” legend lives on45:00 — Hot takes: stuffing, gravy, and double dinners55:00 — A permission slip to rest this holiday If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWe’re talking socks. Yep, actual socks. In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, your host Saidee Grimley (and occasional interjections from Raja, the love of her life) takes you on an unnecessarily passionate deep dive into the wild world of sock fashion trends — from 90s no-shows to college lacrosse mid-calves to the Costco Puma era that none of us escaped. We’re unpacking why society cares so much about what’s literally between our shoes and our feet, revisiting Soffe shorts (what kind of Soffe girl were you??), and trying to understand why the ankle sock — the very one we spent decades avoiding like the plague — is suddenly the main character again. Come for the nostalgia. Stay for the chaos. Leave questioning why you own seven types of socks. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailEver found yourself building a million-dollar deck while debating whether to make a double-stuffed Oreo at 9:30 a.m.? Welcome — you’ve officially made it to the Fraud Squad.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee Grimley gets real about the chaos that is imposter syndrome, career confidence, and being a working mom who somehow juggles it all (and occasionally drops a few socks… or responsibilities). It’s a love letter to every woman who’s ambitious, exhausted, and maybe a little unsure if she’s qualified — spoiler: you are.This one’s for the overachievers, the under-slept, and the secretly crushing-it crowd. Laugh with Saidee, cringe with recognition, and remember: you can question yourself and still be killing it. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailTL;DR: If you’re pregnant, postpartum, or raising a baby with a suspiciously oval head, this one’s for you. Dr. Jesse Lillejord, founder of Chiro for Moms, Chiro for Kids, and Pelvic Floor for Moms, breaks down what prenatal/postpartum chiropractic actually is (no cracking newborns, relax), when pelvic floor therapy matters, and how to handle sciatica, tailbone pain, “lightening crotch", colic, torticollis, and flat spots—without losing your mind (or your core).What we coverPrenatal chiropractic basics: Webster technique, gentle bodywork, and why mobility is queen when relaxin is raging.Top pregnancy pains: Sciatica, pubic symphysis (“crotch bone”) pain, tailbone pain—what helps and when to go in.Postpartum must-knows: Tailbone trauma, neck/arm tingling from feeding, torticollis from contact naps, and realistic recovery timelines.Pelvic floor therapy 101: When to go, what to expect, and how it supports C-section recovery, diastasis, leaking, and low back pain.Baby care (safely): How chiropractors treat infants (spoiler: avocado-soft pressure, craniosacral work, and parent education).Creating a mom-first clinic: Flexible policies (no cancel fees!), baby holders on deck, kid-proof rooms, and community over perfection.At-home tips: The three habits that help now—walk, hydrate (electrolytes!), and set movement timers for real-life bodies.About our guestDr. Jesse Lillejord is the founder, owner, and lead chiropractor at Chiro for Moms with specialty care for prenatal, postpartum, and pediatric patients. She also leads Chiro for Kids and partners closely with Pelvic Floor for Moms to provide whole-family, women-centered care.ConnectChiro for Moms / Chiro for Kids / Pelvic Floor for Moms (Minnesota-based)YouTube: Short, follow-along stretches & mobility for pregnancy/postpartumGuest: chiroformoms.com • IG: @chiro_for_momsHost (hi!): IG @saideegrimley • Subscribe to Who Let Me Do This? If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailDo you hate working out?Do you wish you loved it?Are you trying to find a workout you actually enjoy that can help you feel like your not dying, birthed 500 kids and allows you to still sit down on the toilet?Saidee finally found a workout she doesn’t hate — mostly because she’s lying down for 80% of it. From team-sport glory days to triathlon trauma to discovering Reformer Pilates, this is the lazy-girl fitness era you didn’t know you needed. Perfect for the working mom who wants results without the rage-sweat.YOU'RE WELCOME. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailThought your kid’s birthday would be magical? Same. Join Saidee as she relives her daughter’s 7th birthday — the streamers, the meltdowns, donut-gate, and the reminder that mom life never goes as planned (and that’s okay). If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailFrom in-home care to daycare centers and changing AGAIN — I’m breaking down how we picked (and changed) daycares, what $5K/month childcare really feels like, and how to survive the working-mom juggle with a little humor and a lot of coffee (wine). If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailFrom 90s Halloween nostalgia to college chaos and mom-life traditions — I'm reminiscing about dry-ice punch, day light savings disasters, and a banana costume that knows no limits. 🍌 Laugh, cringe, and tell me your forever costume @saideegrimley — then rate & review to join the Fraud Squad! 🎃 #spookyseason If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when an HR leader on a very fancy San Francisco work trip locks herself out of her hotel room… braless, barefoot, and rocking seven-year-old pajama shorts? 🙃 In this laugh-out-loud episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I relive my most mortifying (and hilarious) business travel fail—from the moment the door clicked shut to my barefoot walk of shame across a chandelier-covered lobby… fully branded in company swag. If you love funny work trip stories, embarrassing hotel moments, or just need proof that even “professional adults” end up looking like sleep-deprived gremlins, this one’s for you. ✨ Listen in for: How a harmless room-service tray turned into a full-on lockout sagaThe panic of representing your company while dressed like a camp counselor on laundry dayTravel “tips” you didn’t know you needed (spoiler: cute pajamas, people. Cute. Pajamas.) 👉 Hit Follow so new episodes unlock in your feed (unlike my hotel door). 👉 Share this with a friend who’s had their own travel disaster—they’ll feel instantly seen. 👉 Leave a rating & review, because it reminds me you think I am as funny as I do (or you at least like to laugh at me from afar)  If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailTired of drowning in laundry, scrubbing toilets, and wondering how working moms “do it all”? Same, bestie. In this laugh-out-loud episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I spill my top 3 time-saving outsourcing hacks that keep me (mostly) sane: a once-a-month cleaning service, a magical laundry pickup & fold service, and lifesaving grocery delivery.I share the real costs (spoiler: way less than a family night out), the mom-math that makes it worth every penny, and why letting someone else scrub your bathtub might just save your sanity. Whether you’re a busy working mom, a parent juggling three kids under seven, or just a human who hates folding socks, these tips will help you reclaim your time—and maybe even sneak in a nap or a glass of wine. What you’ll hear in this episode:• Why a $150 monthly cleaning crew is not only the highlight of my month but also Raja's• The laundry service that returns clothes folded, sorted, and smelling like heaven• Grocery delivery tricks that actually save money and sanityIf this episode made you laugh or gave you an “I need that!” moment, follow the show so you never miss a Monday drop. Got a life-saving mom hack I need to try? DM me on Instagram [@saideegrimley] or leave a voice memo for a future episode!Rate & review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it seriously helps other working moms find our little corner of chaos. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailYou know what should be banned from airplanes? People watching movies at full volume on their phones like they’re on a private jet. Or the ones who bring hot, smelly fajitas on board and gas out the entire cabin. Or worse… the barefoot brigade with their gargoyle toes out on airplane carpet that’s probably seen vomit, poop, and 20 years of crumbs. In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I spiral about airplane etiquette in 2025—from smelly food to seat space invaders—and wonder how we can land on the moon but still haven’t figured out how to board a plane like civilized humans. Don't get my wrong - I actually love flying, but there are some inhumane habits that need to be grounded ASAP. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: 🛫 Subscribe so you don’t miss my next in-flight rant (and I promise it’s better than the Delta safety video). 😂 Tag a friend who thinks barefoot on planes is acceptable — and let’s stage an intervention. 💌 Drop a comment or DM with your own travel horror story… I might read it on the pod. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailYou know that feeling when you finally snag an aisle seat, settle in, and then BAM — your elbow gets annihilated by the drink cart? Yeah. That’s my Roman Empire.Because honestly, I don’t care what science says — the aisle is fresher air, faster bathroom access, and my pelvic floor does not have time to gently wake a stranger when I gotta go. And don’t even get me started on boarding. We’ve landed people on the moon, but somehow airlines still make us line up like cattle and crawl over strangers to get to our seats.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I’m spiraling about air travel hot takes: aisle vs. window wars, why I unapologetically sit near bathrooms, and the drink cart conspiracy that has me convinced 2025 technology has failed us. Spoiler: I actually love being on planes — I just think we could all agree to make the experience way less dumb.If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going:✈️ Hit Follow so new episodes land in your feed smoother than a turbulence-free flight. 👯 Share it with your favorite travel buddy (or that one friend who still swears by the middle seat 🤢). ⭐ Leave a rating & review — it’s basically like upgrading me to first class, and you know I’ll never say no to that. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan Mail“If my kids can smell me, they’re next to me.” 😂 In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I spill the real tea on the transition from daycare to elementary school—the hidden costs, the loss of control, the dreaded pickup line, and why no one warned us how brutal school breaks are for working moms.You’ll hear the viral cheese stick emergency moment, plus the simple bedtime routine I swear by (aka Pillow Talk) that finally gets kids to talk about their day—without the “I don’t remember” brick wall. Equal parts chaotic and comforting, this one is for every mom balancing a career, little kids, and a school schedule that makes zero sense. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan Mail**We need to talk about mental health**I never thought that would be my story — therapy, meds, and something I didn’t even know existed until I was drowning in it: postpartum rage.This episode is the most vulnerable I’ve ever been on the mic. I’m taking you all the way back — from being the anxious “good girl” with constant stomach aches, to sneaking into therapy like I was robbing a bank, to finally saying yes to SSRIs after my third baby broke me wide open.I share the therapists who weren’t right (including one who literally texted during sessions 🙃), the mental health stigma I carried from growing up in the 90s, and the moment my midwife looked me in the eye and said, “You are a good mom — and you need help.”If you’ve ever wondered:Is my anger normal?Am I weak if I need meds?How do I even start therapy without feeling like a failure?…this episode is for you.This is my messy, honest, and life-changing journey — and I’m finally saying it out loud so you don’t have to feel alone in yours.(fixed link) If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailIf it’s between feeding my sourdough starter or watching Real Housewives… guess what’s gonna win? 🍷 In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I get real about the pressures moms feel to do it all—especially when surrounded by those “have-it-together” friends who show up to girls’ nights with homemade sourdough, charcuterie boards, and Pinterest-worthy salads.Meanwhile, me? I bring the wine—and embrace it. 🙌This episode is part confession, part pep talk, and all about releasing the mom guilt, leaning into your strengths, and remembering that the best thing you can bring to the table (besides a chilled rosé) is your energy, honesty, and kindness. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailI used to be that mom who judged other parents for their kids’ sleep habits. You know the ones — the 4-year-old still in bed with them, the 2-year-old waking up six times a night. I thought I had it all figured out… until my third kid humbled me HARD.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I confess the truth about our current toddler sleep regression:How my “good sleeper” turned into a midnight Old MacDonald DJ 🎶Why I sometimes wake up on the cold, hard floor still holding his chubby little hand through the crib rails 💤The desperation move I swore I’d never do (hello, crib tent)And why no amount of coffee is enough when you’re living on broken sleep ☕If you’ve ever judged another parent’s sleep struggles (or been judged yourself), this one’s for you. Spoiler: motherhood has a way of making you eat your words — usually at 3 a.m. while singing Old MacDonald on repeat. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailThey are the butt of so many jokes… but have you ever considered that old cat ladies might actually have it figured out? In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I spiral about entering my cat lady era — even though I’ve always sworn I was a die-hard dog person. Between raising three kids under seven, dragging myself through Minnesota winters, and trying to keep a corporate job afloat, I’ve realized something: cats might just be the ultimate pet for a working mom in her lazy girl era. Low-maintenance snuggles? Check. No guilt trips for skipping a walk? Check. Zero barking at leaves while I’m trying to watch Real Housewives? Double check. So come along as I unpack why dogs are attention whores, why cats might be my spirit animal, and why mid-thirties me is fully ready to embrace a little “bitchy cat energy.” If you’ve ever thought about trading in golden retriever vibes for cat lady wisdom — this one’s for you. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailYou know those reserved parking spots for expecting moms at the grocery store? Love them. But what we really need is reserved spots in workout classes for moms who are drowning in chaos.Because let’s be real — as a working mom of three, I can’t plan 12 hours ahead without someone throwing up, refusing socks, or needing “just one more back scratch.” Meanwhile, I’m competing with carefree 20-somethings whose biggest Sunday worry is whether their Lululemon set matches.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I spiral about Pilates, motherhood, and why every boutique gym should have at least one spot saved for the overly extended, overly exhausted, trying-to-hold-it-together moms. Because at 6 a.m. I’m fighting for my life to get kids out the door, and at 6 p.m.? I’m probably wiping a butt. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailOne of the worst pieces of advice I got while pregnant? That once I had a baby, I’d stop loving my dog. 😂 Excuse me? Raja was my first soulmate, my Detroit roommate, and yes, I still give her bites off my fork. Seven years and three kids later, spoiler alert: I’m still obsessed with her.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I’m roasting the terrible mom advice no one asked for, spiraling about fur babies vs. human babies, and proving you can love your kids and your dog without choosing sides. Because motherhood is messy enough without someone telling me I’m supposed to love my toddler more than my German Shepherd–pitty mix. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailYou guys. I literally scratched the shit out of my beautiful car… pulling into my own garage. Add that to my endless to-do list: full-time job, three kids, therapy, Pilates, laundry piles, and now auto repair quotes. Love that for me.In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, I spiral about:Driving beaters my whole life before finally getting my “fancy” mom car (2018 Volkswagen Atlas with heated seats, thank you very much) 🚗How motherhood means your car will forever be a graveyard of Cheerios, gum, and French fries that missed your mouth 🍟The joy of realizing your “me time” is now getting quotes at the auto body shop 🙃If you’ve ever felt like adulthood is just a constant game of “add it to the list,” this one’s for you. Grab a glass of wine, laugh at my pain, and let’s remember together: tomorrow is a new day… even if your car still has a giant scratch. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom

Send us Fan MailRecording from my car after daycare drop-off, I get real about the messy middle of motherhood and career — missed workouts, Target returns, two-day-old Diet Coke, and nonstop imposter syndrome. This episode is for every working mom who looks “successful” on paper but secretly feels like they’re barely holding it together. If you dread sensory bins, art projects, or have ever dropped your kids at daycare early just to get a moment of peace — you’re in the right place. 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday. Come along for a front-row seat to the chaos: raising three kids under seven, climbing the corporate ladder, dodging daily mental breakdowns — all while trying to keep it light, honest, and just laugh at the ridiculousness of it all. If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going: Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)Share it with your favorite boss bestie so they know they’re not alone 🍷Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕Pop by instagram @saideegrimley or tiktok @wholetmedothispod and tell me what no ones saying out loud as a high achieving working mom