Heart Set Above

In this episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, is joined by Chelsea Novak for part 2 of our Autism Awareness Month episodes. How does your faith hold up when life doesn’t go the way you planned?We move beyond diagnosis and daily life—and into the deeper, more personal question: Where is God in all of this?As autism moms walking very different journeys, we share how raising children on the spectrum has challenged, stretched, and ultimately reshaped our faith.In this episode, we talk about:Wrestling with God in seasons of grief and uncertaintyHow suffering has refined our understanding of faithTrusting God when the future feels unpredictableLetting go of control and embracing realityThis is not a polished or perfect conversation—it’s honest, vulnerable, and rooted in real-life experience.💬 “This journey has forced me to see everything through new eyes.”💬 “Grief doesn’t disappear—it changes, and so does your faith.”--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, is joined by Chelsea Novak for Autism Awareness Month. Join us for an unfiltered conversation between two moms navigating autism at very different stages.One is newly diagnosed.One is years into the journey.Both are learning how to carry grief, fear, and deep love—at the same time.Together, we talk about:The emotional impact of an autism diagnosisGrief, denial, fear—and what acceptance actually looks likeThe realities no one prepares you for (hypervigilance, burnout, safety concerns)This episode is raw, vulnerable, and deeply human. Whether you're a parent, a caregiver, or someone who simply wants to understand autism better, this conversation offers a real glimpse into what life looks like behind the scenes.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

What do you do when you mess up — especially when you should know better?In this episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, therapists Ellen and Georgia have an honest conversation about mistakes, shame, and the process of repairing relationships with both God and others.Even as therapists who teach emotional regulation and healthy communication, they still lose their tempers, say things they regret, and experience the same struggles everyone else does. Instead of pretending perfection, they share what actually helps when things go wrong.Real faith isn’t about never failing — it’s about knowing how to return.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh... #ChristianPodcast #FaithAndFamily #Neurodiversity #SpiritualGrowth #HeartSetAbove

In this episode of the Heart Set Above podcast, host Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, shares a personal update on her life, ministry, and the exciting (and challenging) shifts ahead in 2026. As a former lesbian turned faith leader, therapist, and mom of two neurodiverse boys, Ellen opens up about navigating family transitions—including her youngest's autism diagnosis and her oldest's ADHD/OCD—while balancing her calling to help Christians engage tough topics like sexuality, gender, marriage, and spiritual growth.Whether you're a parent facing similar challenges, seeking faith-based encouragement, or simply needing a reminder to set your heart on things above, this episode invites you into a space of grace and authenticity. If this resonates, consider supporting Heart Set Above—a nonprofit helping Christians stay grounded in a messy world. --Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:YoutubeAppleSpotify #ChristianPodcast #FaithAndFamily #Neurodiversity #SpiritualGrowth #HeartSetAbove

In this episode of Heart Set Above, therapists Ellen and Georgia respond to a listener question many Christians quietly carry: How can I pursue closeness with God when parts of Scripture disturb me—and I can’t “resolve” the tension? Instead of offering a neat theological bow (we’re not theologians), we approach this from a relational and clinical lens—the same way we’d guide a therapy client navigating rupture, fear, and repair in a close relationship.Together, we talk about:Why your emotional reaction to difficult passages can be a sign of spiritual health, not failureShifting the goal from “getting the answer” to staying connectedGetting “on the same side of the table” with God—externalizing the problem instead of making God the enemy☕ Grab your coffee, take a breath, and join us in the stillness.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Join host Ellen Radcliff on this week’s episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast as she unpacks a freeing truth many believers overlook: God invites us to serve Him—not because He needs us, but because He longs to be with us.Through honest reflection and real-life examples from her counseling work, Ellen explores:• Why we often feel overly responsible for God’s work• How fear of letting people down distorts our view of service• The difference between working for God and walking with HimThis episode encourages you to release the pressure, embrace partnership with God, and let your service draw you closer to Him—not further into exhaustion.Whatever you do today, do it with God, not just for Him. And keep your heart set on things above.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this Heart Set Above episode, Georgia and Ellen pull back the curtain on what therapists actually learn—and why it matters for everyday relationships and Christian living. From trauma-training surprises (“we paid to learn how to be quiet!”) to Jesus’ non-anxious presence with Mary and Martha, they unpack how simply being with someone can be more healing than any quick fix.You’ll hear real stories (joy and grief in parenting, the power of a shared sigh), practical tools you can try today, and a gentle invitation to surrender what we can’t carry to the One who can.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, host Ellen Radcliff, LMFT pauses the Nearness series to set clear expectations: drawing near to God doesn’t mean all of life’s problems vanish. Fear, grief, and anxiety still come—but God’s presence changes how we experience them.Ellen shares stories from her own life, Scripture, and pastoral counseling to remind us that the antidote to fear is not the absence of fear—it’s the presence of God. His nearness anchors us, even in chaos, heartbreak, or uncertainty. Like a child comforted by a parent’s arms, God’s presence doesn’t always remove the pain, but it transforms how we walk through it.✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:Why being near to God doesn’t erase problems, but anchors us in themWhat Isaiah 41:10 really means about fear and God’s presenceHow God’s nearness transforms grief, fear, and anxietyWhether you’re carrying fear, walking through loss, or simply weary of life’s brokenness, this conversation will point you back to the one truth that steadies us: God is with us, always.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, host Ellen Radcliff, LMFT continues the Nearness series by exploring how we can move beyond simply making space in our lives to truly filling that space with God’s presence.Drawing from Matthew 12:43–45, Ellen reminds us that empty space doesn’t stay empty for long—if we don’t fill it with God, it will be filled with fear, distraction, or anxiety. She shares two powerful visualization practices she uses personally and with clients to help release fear, surrender to God, and experience the reality of His love.✨ In this episode, you’ll discover:Why pruning space in your life is only the beginning of nearness to GodThe difference between distraction and true soul restorationA powerful visualization for surrendering fear and anxiety into God’s handsA second visualization of beholding Jesus’ gaze of unconditional loveA simple exercise to sit in God’s presence without strivingThese practices will help you slow down, breathe, and anchor yourself in the truth that God sees you, knows you, and loves you fully. Nearness to Him isn’t something you earn—it’s a gift freely given.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT takes us into one of the deepest and most universal emotions: grief. Far from being just about death or tragedy, grief shows up in everyday disappointments, broken relationships, feelings of inadequacy, and the ache of living in a fallen world.She Explores:Why unprocessed grief fuels anxietyA fresh way to picture grief as a shrinking “ball in a box” that never disappears but becomes less overwhelming over timeThe reality that the stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance) are fluid, not linearGrief is not weakness—it is holy ground. When we bring our sorrow before God, we discover we are not alone in it. Scripture reminds us, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted.” That nearness transforms grief from isolation into connection, from despair into surrender, and from fear into trust.🙏 If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate grief faithfully—or how God meets you in your sorrow—this episode offers hope, perspective, and a way forward.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of Heart Set Above (part of the Nearness series), Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explores the hidden world of emotions and how they shape our walk with God.She talks about:The difference between primary and secondary emotionsWhy anger, sarcasm, or withdrawal often mask deeper feelings like fear, shame, or griefHow our culture teaches us to erase or numb emotions—while scripture shows us another wayPractical steps for bringing tender emotions into God’s presenceEllen shares a simple but life-changing truth: feelings are meant to be felt. When we pause to notice what lies beneath the surface and invite God into our vulnerability, emotions become a bridge to intimacy with Him, not a barrier.🙏 Whether you’re carrying grief, shame, fear, or hurt, this episode offers encouragement to stop running from your emotions and start bringing them into the safety of God’s arms.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Welcome back to the Heart Set Above Podcast with Ellen Radcliff, LMFT. In today’s episode of our Nearness series, Ellen explores the beauty and depth of the Sabbath—a rhythm designed by God not just for rest, but for true restoration.In a culture that confuses “rest” with binging Netflix or scrolling social media, the Sabbath calls us into something deeper. It’s a God-given invitation to reconnect with Him, with ourselves, with others, and even with creation. Sabbath is not just about stopping work—it’s about remembering who you are and whose you are.✨ In this episode, Ellen unpacks:Why Sabbath is more than rest—it’s restoration for the soulHow Sabbath roots us in God so we can love people wellWhy the Sabbath command sits at the hinge between loving God and loving othersSabbath is a bridge back to Eden and a glimpse of the wholeness we were created for. This conversation will inspire you to step into God’s design for rest—not just as a break from work, but as a weekly rhythm of identity, trust, and joy.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Welcome back to the Heart Set Above Podcast with Ellen Radcliff, LMFT. In this episode from our Nearness series, Ellen shares practical wisdom on how reflection and intentional connection draw us closer to God and to the people we love.Too often, life runs us instead of us running it. But by creating regular rhythms of reflection—annually, seasonally, weekly, and even daily—we can flip the script and live with greater intention. Ellen walks through how reflection protects us from overwhelm, keeps us aligned with God’s heart, and opens the door for deeper connection.✨ What you’ll discover in this episode:Why pruning creates space for nearness to GodHow intentional connection strengthens marriages, families, and friendshipsHow every act of connection becomes a glimpse of EdenThis episode will encourage you to pause, reflect, and invest in the relationships that matter most—your connection with God, yourself, and others.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

So many of us—whether as parents, spouses, friends, leaders, or coworkers—find ourselves juggling endless responsibilities while feeling spiritually and emotionally stretched thin. If that sounds familiar, this episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast will meet you right where you are.Host Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, continues our Nearness series with a powerful truth: if we want to draw close to God, we must first create time and space in our lives. Without pruning back, our souls remain restless, anxious, and overstuffed.✨ In this conversation, you’ll learn:Why busyness leaves us drained and disconnected from GodWhy pruning isn’t about loss, but about making room for life to growSimple, practical ways to begin creating space for God this weekThis isn’t about doing more—it’s about finding freedom in doing less, so that you can truly be with God.🙏 Stay tuned for the next episode in our Nearness series, where we’ll explore another everyday practice that can help you experience a deeper walk with Him.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Welcome back to the Heart Set Above Podcast with Ellen Radcliff, LMFT. In this second episode of our new series, Ellen explores the powerful truth that “nearness is never without effect.” Through stories, psychology insights, and Scripture, she reveals how proximity shapes us in relationships, in our emotions, in our bodies—and ultimately, in our walk with God.Ellen unpacks how:Drawing near to God is the antidote to fear and anxietyDistance—whether emotional, relational, or spiritual—always leaves a markScience and faith agree: closeness changes us for the betterThis series is designed to move beyond abstract phrases like “cast your burdens” or “rest in His presence.” Ellen gives you practical, faithful, and psychologically grounded tools to actually live in God’s nearness—even in the mess of daily life.✨ May this conversation help you notice His presence in the small, ordinary moments of your week, and let it begin to soothe your soul.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, unpacks the profound truth that “nearness is never without effect.” From synced heartbeats to shared emotions, Ellen shows how proximity transforms us in relationships, in our bodies, and in nature itself—and ultimately, how drawing near to God is the antidote to fear and anxiety.You’ll learn:Why distance always leaves a mark in our lives, hearts, and relationshipsHow science, psychology, and Scripture reveal the power of nearnessPractical ways to actually draw near to God in everyday messy momentsThis episode is the start of a new series exploring what it really means to live in God’s presence, not just in abstract phrases, but in simple, practical rhythms that bring calm and clarity.✨ May you notice His nearness in ordinary moments this week—and let it soothe your soul.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode, Ellen and Georgia open up about the rhythms of retreat, rest, and pilgrimage in their own lives. Georgia reflects on her recent journey to the island of Iona in Scotland—an experience filled with awe, joy, and the surprising intimacy of being “whisked away” by God. Ellen shares her anticipation (and nerves) about an upcoming silent retreat, unpacking what it means to step away from constant noise and distraction to be still in God’s presence.Together, they wrestle with the sacrifice and reward of carving out intentional space with God, comparing it to a honeymoon or getaway in a marriage—demanding effort, but always worth it. They discuss the role of silence, joy, and letting go of agendas, offering both theological insight and practical encouragement for listeners who long for more spaciousness in their lives.Whether your “pilgrimage” looks like three days in the Highlands, a one-hour walk, or simply a Sabbath at home, this conversation invites you to consider how God might be wooing you into deeper rest and relationship with Him.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Welcome to the final episode of the Holding On & Letting Go series on the Heart Set Above Podcast with Ellen Radcliff, LMFT—a space where therapy meets theology and grace meets grit.In Part 5, we’re getting practical. What does it actually look like to love your adult child well when their choices, beliefs, or lifestyle don't align with your Christian values?This episode is all about navigating the messy middle—the sacred, complex space where truth and grace meet. Ellen offers grounded tools and biblical wisdom to help parents:Set healthy, respectful boundariesStay connected without compromising convictionsSpeak truth without pressure or panic📖 “Can you stand before God with a clear conscience, knowing that you acted with integrity in the light He gave you?”Whether you’re navigating pronoun changes, wedding invitations, or just deeply emotional conversations, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical hope for real-life dilemmas.🛑 You don’t have to choose between conviction and connection.💬 You can speak truth with love.🤝 You are not alone in this.

This is Part 4 of our series with host Ellen Radcliff, LMFT—for Christian parents navigating complicated or strained relationships with their adult children—especially those who have stepped away from the faith.In this episode, Ellen explores the spiritual invitation of surrender—not as weakness or defeat, but as a powerful act of trust. When control fades, and answers seem elusive, how do you stay connected to your child and to God?💡You’ll learn:What surrender actually means (hint: it’s not giving up)Why your role as a parent shifts from action to influenceWhy your spiritual formation still matters—even now📖 “Maybe it’s time to stop trying to be your child’s savior… and start being God’s daughter again.”If you feel spiritually depleted, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of what’s next—this episode is a gentle invitation to rest, reconnect, and release.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In Part 3 of our series for Christian parents of adult children who’ve drifted from faith, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explores the unspoken grief that often sits beneath fear, shame, and confusion. This isn’t grief from loss by death—it’s the sorrow of watching your child become someone you didn’t expect… and mourning a future that never came.💔 You’ll hear about:Why this kind of grief is so isolating—and so realHow to "name it to tame it"God grieves too—and joins you in yoursIf you’ve ever whispered, "This isn’t the life I imagined for my child…", this episode is for you.📖 “Hope deferred makes the heart sick…” – Proverbs 13:12🤝 You’re not alone. God is near to the brokenhearted—and the story isn’t over yet.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In Part 2 of this series for Christian parents of adult children who are no longer (or not yet) walking with God, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, unpacks two common burdens many faithful parents carry: delayed development and parental guilt.💭 Is your grown child making choices that leave you confused, hurt, or worried?💔 Do you find yourself replaying the past, wondering what you could’ve done differently?This episode is for you.Ellen explores:The hidden cost of comfort and how it affects spiritual maturityWhat Scripture says about growth through hardshipHow to release guilt while still owning your growth as a parentWhether your child has left the church, is questioning everything, or simply isn’t where you hoped they’d be — this episode offers hope, perspective, and peace.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

When your adult child walks away from the faith—or chooses a path that feels deeply at odds with what they were raised to believe—how do you respond as a Christian parent?In this heartfelt opening episode of our new series, Holding On and Letting Go, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT shares her own powerful journey of coming out to her parents at 19, hitting rock bottom in a foreign country, and ultimately returning to faith through the steady, surrendered love of her mom and dad.This episode is not just for parents of LGBTQ kids—it's for any parent walking through grief, fear, or spiritual disconnection with their adult child. Ellen offers deep encouragement, hard-won wisdom, and a reminder that there is a way to walk this road with your heart open and your conscience clear.🛠️ In this episode, you'll hear about:Ellen’s personal story of coming out and coming backHow her parents’ non-reactive, Spirit-led love made all the differenceHow to hold space for your child without compromising your convictions--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Ellen and Georgia dive deep into one of the most transformative therapeutic concepts—Unconditional Positive Regard—and why it's essential not only for therapists, but for every Christian seeking to love like Christ. Drawing from their graduate training and personal faith journeys, they unpack how UPR mirrors the agape love of God, how it shapes our self-worth, and how it allows us to sit with others in their pain without rushing to fix.They also wrestle with the tension between surrender and challenge, between love and truth, and what it really means to be your brother or sister's keeper. Whether you're a therapist, a friend, a parent, or a disciple—this episode will challenge you to reflect more deeply on the way you love, listen, and live out God's character in your relationships.Themes:The role of surrender and trust in loving othersOffering presence over answersHow UPR informs challenge, boundaries, and discipleship--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, therapists Ellen and Georgia dive into the vast and often misunderstood landscape of trauma. Why does trauma affect us so differently? How do we define it—and more importantly, how do we begin to heal from it? Together, they explore what trauma really is, why it so often leads to disconnection, and how healing starts with restoring connection to ourselves, to others, and to God. With personal insights, clinical wisdom, and spiritual reflection, this conversation invites listeners to be curious, compassionate, and patient in their journey through pain. Whether you’ve experienced big “T” trauma, little “t” trauma, or are simply walking alongside someone who has, this episode offers grounding, clarity, and hope.--☕ Grab your coffee, take a breath, and join us in the stillness.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Is self-care just trendy pop psychology—or is it deeply biblical?In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen & Georgia have an honest & insightful conversation on what rest really means in a world running on burnout. They unpack the overlap between theology and therapy, explore the spiritual depth of Sabbath, and redefine self-care as sacred connection—with God, self, others, and creation.Whether you're wrestling with exhaustion, trying to build healthy rhythms, or just wondering how to slow down without guilt, this conversation is for you.☕ Grab your coffee, take a breath, and join us in the stillness.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode, Ellen and Georgia dive deep into the reality of living "Out of Eden." Why do we feel grief, homesickness, or a sense that we were made for something more? How does brokenness show up in our lives in both big and small ways? Together, they explore the ache that comes from living in a fallen world and how connecting with God becomes the only true solace in that ache. From personal stories, therapy insights, to deep spiritual reflections, Ellen and Georgia wrestle with grief, powerlessness, and God's grief with us — offering a raw, honest, and hopeful perspective for anyone navigating the messiness of life outside of Eden.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Welcome back to Hearts and Above! In today’s episode, Georgia and Ellen are opening up about something we all wrestle with at some point: refinement. What does it really mean to grow in your faith? And why does it sometimes feel like you're stuck, or not growing at all?From honest stories (including newbie gains at the gym!) to deep reflections on the subtlety of spiritual transformation, we’re talking about:Why the early days of faith can feel so different from the middleHow to recognize growth when it’s not big or flashyThe truth about spiritual plateaus (they’re not what you think!)And how God meets us right where we are — weary, imperfect, and deeply lovedIf you’ve ever wondered whether God is still at work in your life, this conversation is a gentle reminder: He is — and you're not alone.We’re so glad you’re here with us.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...#ChristianPodcast #FaithJourney #Refinement #HeartsAndAbove #GraceNotPerfection #SpiritualGrowth #ChristianMentalHealth #WalkWithGod #YouAreNotAlone

In this Threads from the Couch episode of the Heart Set Above podcast, host Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, reflects on a moving session with a client burdened by her daughter's spiritual distance. As they unpacked grief and fear, one truth emerged: God does some of His best work in the mess. Drawing from personal experience, Scripture, and the stories of Hosea, David, and Paul, Ellen reminds us that even when it looks like our loved ones are drifting beyond reach, God is still moving—often in unseen, transformative ways. If you're struggling to find hope in someone else's journey or your own, this episode offers deep reassurance that God isn’t afraid of the mess—He meets us right in it.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen and Georgia peel back the layers of what it really means to be a therapist—and a client—in today’s culture. They explore the nuanced intersection of faith and mental health, from their own journeys into the profession to the growing perception of therapists as the “priests of the day.” With warmth and wisdom, they tackle questions like: Should you go to therapy for this? Should your therapist be a Christian? And what happens when spiritual identity meets psychological frameworks like IFS, person-centered, or psychodynamic theory? Whether you're curious about therapy, navigating your own healing, or wondering where God fits in the conversation, this episode offers clarity, comfort, and candid insight.👉 Subscribe for more conversations that help us set our hearts above in a world so far from Eden.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, shares a deeply personal journey through parenting a child recently diagnosed with autism—and the hidden emotional toll of judgment, especially from those closest to us. From fears about the future to the quiet pain of perceived criticism, Ellen opens up about how even well-meaning opinions can build walls that last for decades.This episode is a moving reminder to approach others with compassion, to reflect before speaking, and to always choose humility over pride in our relationships. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, judged, or unsure how to respond to someone’s struggle, this conversation is for you.👉 Subscribe for more conversations that help us set our hearts above in a world so far from Eden.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Ellen and Georgia welcome Amber Carroll, a speaker, mom, and missionary consultant with Equip, for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation on navigating LGBTQ+ topics within Christian families and churches. Amber shares her deeply personal journey—beginning with her marriage to a gay man and continuing through her work equipping churches to embrace LGBTQ+ individuals without compromising traditional sexual ethics. From talking to kids about God's plan for sexuality, and gender to creating a sense of family for single and LGBTQ+ members in the church, this episode offers practical tools, gospel-centered guidance, and hope for parents and pastors alike. Whether you're a parent, a church leader, or simply someone seeking better ways to love others, this conversation is rich with wisdom, empathy, and vision for a more loving & connected church.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

“Forgiveness is a journey, not a light switch.” In this powerful episode of Heart Set Above, your hosts Ellen and Georgia dig into the real, raw, and often painful emotions surrounding forgiveness — especially the kind taught from the pulpit.Ever felt like forgiveness sermons just make you feel like a failure? That if you still remember, still feel hurt, or haven't reconciled immediately... then you must be doing it wrong?You're not alone.In this episode, we:Share our visceral reactions to church messages about forgiveness 😤😢Break down 6 big distortions we grew up believing 🙅‍♀️Emphasize God's heart for truth, healing, and boundaries💬 Whether you’re navigating forgiveness in faith, family, friendships, or even toward yourself — this episode is for you.🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and leave a comment if this resonated with you.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...#ChristianPodcast #FaithandHealing #ForgivenessJourney #HeartSetAbove #EmotionalHealth #Boundaries #FaithDeconstruction #Grief #Reconciliation #TherapistTalk

In this deeply personal episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen, LMFT, & Georgia open up for the very first time about her spiritual journey — not from the stage, but from the soul. From growing up in a loving yet complex Christian home, to grappling with identity, emotional enmeshment, and a season of deep loneliness, Ellen shares how her search for love and worth ultimately led her back to the God she once pushed away.- Growing up in a Christian home & wrestling with church culture- Queer identity & emotional enmeshment- Loneliness as a spiritual awakening✨ Listen in for the most honest testimony we've shared yet — and the start of a conversation that might just help you reconnect with your own spiritual story.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

Do you ever feel like you're falling behind in life, like there’s just too much to learn and not enough time? In this heartfelt episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, opens up about the anxiety of information overload—especially as a parent navigating her son’s autism diagnosis—and the spiritual and emotional burnout that can come from constantly trying to keep up.Ellen explores the fear of "not knowing enough," the beauty and burden of having endless resources at our fingertips, and how to prune the noise to find clarity. She shares a powerful revelation about equifinality—the idea that there are many different paths to the same destination—and how it applies to faith, therapy, and personal growth.Whether you’re overwhelmed by social media, your to-read list, your faith journey, or just life in general, this episode offers peace, perspective, and permission to slow down and trust the process.👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real, soul-centered conversations.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff--Listen to the Podcast: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Ra0vlh...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Host, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explores the profound pain of being misunderstood—something we all experience, yet rarely pause to examine. Drawing from her own life as an introvert, therapist, and mother of an autistic child, Ellen unpacks how misunderstanding shapes relationships, fuels conflict, and exposes our deep longing to be known. She also reflects on God's own experience of being misjudged and rejected throughout history, offering a new perspective on how our struggles can draw us closer to Him. If you've ever felt unseen, unheard, or misrepresented, this episode is for you.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

In this of Heart Set Above, Ellen & Georgia explore the lost spiritual discipline of silence and solitude—how it can help us slow down, hear God's voice, and truly connect with Him in the midst of our fast-paced, modern lives. We dive into personal stories, practical tips, and reflections on how Jesus himself withdrew to lonely places to be with God. How do we build intimacy with God beyond just checking boxes of Bible reading and prayer? How can we carry small moments of connection with us throughout the day?--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff#Faith #SpiritualDiscipline #ChristianPodcast #SilenceAndSolitude #DeepConnectionWithGod

In this heartfelt episode of Heart Set Above , Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explores a deep and painful reality that many parents face—the heartbreak of watching a child walk a different spiritual path. Through the story of a grieving parent, Ellen offers wisdom, encouragement, and seven powerful prayers for those struggling with uncertainty, fear, and longing.From surrendering control to trusting God’s timing, this episode provides a roadmap for parents who feel stuck in the waiting. Discover how to love your child well, find peace in God’s sovereignty, and allow this season to refine not just your child’s journey—but your own.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

In part two of our conversation with Matina Montes, we dive even deeper into the complexities of faith formation and family dynamics. Matina introduces us to schema assessments, a powerful tool that uncovers generational patterns and helps families navigate hurt, connection, and spiritual growth. We explore why some children walk away from faith, how parents can foster healing and resilience, and the difference between authoritarian and authoritative parenting.Whether you're a parent seeking to deepen your connection with your children or simply looking for wisdom on breaking unhealthy patterns, this episode is filled with practical tools and profound encouragement. Connect with Matinahttps://www.linkedin.com/in/matina-montes-mba-macm-62b0a423/--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen and Georgia welcome special guest Matina Montes, a seasoned expert in spiritual formation, to explore the profound journey of raising children in faith. Matina shares invaluable insights from her studies and research, including the key stages of faith development, the role of authoritative parenting, and how to create a spiritual sanctuary at home. Together, they discuss the common reasons young people walk away from their faith and practical ways parents can foster deep, resilient discipleship in their children. Whether you're a new parent or guiding young adults, this conversation is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and hope for cultivating a faith that lasts.Connect with Matinahttps://www.linkedin.com/in/matina-montes-mba-macm-62b0a423/--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen & Georgia dive deep into what it truly means to have a heart set above—one that is fully focused on God amidst life's distractions. What does Scripture say about aligning our thoughts, desires, and actions with heavenly priorities? How can we cultivate a mindset that keeps us grounded in faith while navigating the challenges of daily life?Key Takeaways:Understanding what it means to have a heart set on GodPractical ways to keep your focus on heavenly thingsOvercoming worldly distractions and deepening your faith--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

Why do we feel a deep, unshakable longing for something more—something just beyond our grasp? Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explore the ancient ache of being separated from Eden, the place of perfect communion with God, creation, and one another. We’ll unpack the spiritual, emotional, and even physical ways this separation manifests in our daily lives, from our restless search for meaning to the deep yearning for home and wholeness.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

Fear is something we all experience, but have you ever wondered why God tells us not to fear? Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, unpacks the deeper meaning behind this command and explores how faith can replace fear in our daily lives. Through biblical insights and personal reflections, she reveals the powerful truth about trusting God in uncertain times. Tune in for an encouraging conversation that will strengthen your faith and remind you of God's unwavering presence.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

In this episode Ellen & Georgia discuss why they started the Heart Set Above Podcast and what listeners can expect to gain from joining this faithful community.--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

Welcome to the Heart Set Above Podcast with Ellen & GeorgiaThe podcast where faith and therapy intersect. Designed for Christian therapists, counselors, and the "every man/ woman. This show explores the sacred calling of guiding others toward healing while staying rooted in biblical truth.We're excited to have you join us!--Connect with Ellenhttps://heartsetabove.com/https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff