Naked And Noisy: Manifestation Tools For The Professional Woman

I want your desire to manifest in your life as a consequence of who you've chosen to become: magnetic, supported, loved, and unconditionally worthy. I don't want your desire to be the thing you're striving to create in an effort to run away from your fear, worries, and self-doubt.  I've said it a million times before: it doesn't matter where you go. You're going to take your mindset with you. You're going to take your energy with you. You're going to take the momentum that you have built up, and the stories you have been repeating in your subconscious mind, with you. You're going to take your habits with you. In today's episode, I'm proposing something a little bit preposterous to you: the idea and concept that it's all right here. Everything you need to create your emotionally fulfilling life is in your current environment. That doesn't mean you won't move. That doesn't mean you cant get a new job or better client or new life in a new city. It just means you won't ever be able to run away from your current life in an effort to manifest your dream one.    More Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/nathhughes/membership 1:1 Coaching: https://www.nathhughes.com/coaching Shop All Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop All Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

What if I told you that rejecting men more swiftly would lead to your dream relationship manifesting more quickly? In today's episode we're talking about the energetic power of rejecting men the moment you see that they're not exactly what you're looking for.    Work With Me:  Love After Loss Course: https://www.nathhughes.com/loveafterloss Patreon Video Mentioned: https://www.patreon.com/posts/urgent-messages-157314314 More Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/nathhughes/membership 1:1 Coaching: https://www.nathhughes.com/coaching Shop All Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop All Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Have you ever met a guy who genuinely felt good to you, but your first emotional response wasn't excitement… it was fear? Fear that your own judgment couldn't be trusted? That you'd fall, open up, let him in… and he'd just turn out to be another lesson? I've been there. Very recently. After spending an extended period of time kind-of-sort-of unknowingly, connecting with a philanderer, re-entering the dating pool has really triggered my fears of choosing the wrong guy. Recently, I met someone. At the gym. And he was… different in a way that really triggered me because I felt drawn to him, but what if I was wrong, again? In today's episode, I'm going to share a bit of that journey with you. I'm going to tell you about a few unexpected encounters with men that genuinely helped me overcome my fear of choosing the wrong guy. And by the end of this episode, my intention is that you walk away with one unshakeable truth: You already know. You've always known. Who is trustworthy. Who is worth your time. Who is a good guy. And who is a crazy motherfucker that you should stay away from.  This episode is about self-trust. It's about learning to come back to your own intuition after betrayal. Let's get into it.   Work With Me:  Love After Loss Course: https://www.nathhughes.com/loveafterloss 1:1 Coaching: https://www.nathhughes.com/coaching Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/nathhughes/membership   More Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop All Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop All Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

If your self talk sounds like, "Where the hell is my husband?! And what the f*ck is taking him so long to find me?!" Or you've got a little bit of fear when you're dating someone new, and you can't help but think, "What if this guy rejects me?!" then today's episode is for you. This is something that's been coming up for me, and my clients lately: the intense feelings of despair, fear, and pessimism around romance. And it's not something that's going to be soothed by a man choosing you. Like Beyonce said, "it's the soul that needs to surgery." Tap in and let's talk about what to do when your emotions feel super intense, and things just feel risky and "high stakes" around your romantic life. Lately, I've been tapping into the energy of casual, lighthearted relationships. I'm building connection that doesn't feel like digging my claws into a man and trying to force him to be the one. Instead, I'm building connection that feels like enjoying the present moment, while also being secure in my romantic destiny. Today's episode will help you shift things and lighten the pressure in all of your relationships whether they are romantic, platonic, or even business based! Enjoy!    Offers mentioned in the episode:  Love After Loss Course: https://www.nathhughes.com/loveafterloss 1:1 Coaching: https://www.nathhughes.com/coaching Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/nathhughes/membership Receiver's Mindset Course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   More Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop All Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop All Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Warning: I did scream a few times this episode, I'm sorry I couldn't hold it in HAHAHA!  Real talk: they might not be coming with you. And it's not because they can't. It's because they don't want to. The truth about manifesting a new life is... you've got to be willing to release everything keeping you in unwanted bullsh*t. That means fears, doubts, mindsets, and even people become incompatible with where you're going. And at some point, you'll have to choose. Will you stay where you are, for the sake of being connected to them? Or will you elevate anyway?  At some point in your journey, you're going to be tempted to feel guilty. Because when you reach that next level... when you reach that income... when you get that engagement... or you move into that new apartment... the people who chose to stay stagnant won't be happy. and, more. importantly, they won't be main characters in the next chapter of your story. Because when you stop suffering, you two don't have anything to talk about. When you stop struggling, you won't relate to them, anymore. When you heal from your traumas, you won't see money, or religion, or life like they do, anymore.  If you know me, then you already know what I do. I believe in leaving people where they are. Anyone on the outside of my life looking in, is in that position as a natural consequence of choices they made. Everyone can't come with me because everyone didn't choose to grow with me. And that's on them. I enjoyed recording today's episode. Press play, and let's get into it.    Learn moroe + enroll in The Receiver's Minset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

You're moving at a snail's pace, but you're still moving.   "Small progress" is still forward movement. Your forward movement is evidence that you're not stuck. You're not trapped. More is available.    And who are you to settle for less when, evidently, more is available?  Who are you to settle for less when, evidently, more is available?    So celebrate your "little" wins.  👉🏾They are evidence that you can grow.  👉🏾 They are proof that better gets to happen for you.  👉🏾 They are a sign that if you keep going, you'll get to where you want to be.     Learn more + Enroll in the "I Can & I Should" course: https://www.nathhughes.com/icanandishould Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

I had (at least) 2 dreams last night. The first was nightmare-ish. It was about an old guy, who you've heard me talk about many times before. It was basically the same old bullsh*t. And then, the secong dream was... lovely. It was about a goofy guy who I have not been talking with you guys about. And it was good. So good. The juxtaposition was not lost on me and the message is simple: it gets better. After the guy who you maybe truly loved... there will be another. And he might make you laugh so hard that you can't run after him because you're doubled over while holding his strawberry banana smoothie. This morning, I woke up on cloud nine because of that guy. Hope this brings you some hope.   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books  

It's not about ignoring your emotional state. That would be terrible advice. It's about honoring your feminine. Trusting the feminine ways of energy and emotions and vibration and intuition. And no longer being willing to perform "efforting" for hypermasculine individuals who'll never get it.  The people who believe that suffering is the only meaningful route to success are going to resent you. They're going to undermine, ridicule, and be wildly jealous of you. And your best bet is to not give a f*ck.  Let it be easy. Let it continue to get easier. Let them hate. Let them miss out on the benefits of being in your world. And keep rising up.     Click to learn more + enroll in Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Click to learn more + enroll in The Receiver's Mindset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

You've got to respect the feminine. The manifestation of your desires can come in miraculous ways. But the act of manifesting a completely new life? It takes real, internal work. The journey to your desires is an emotional one. And if you don't respect energy, or you don't honor and acknowledge and heal your negative feelings... then you can take all of the action in the world without seeing the results that you want. Manifestation is not bullshit. It's real work. And it's not for the weak. So, if you want to manifest, here's what I suggest: take your emotional world seriously.    Click to learn more + enroll in The Receiver's Mindset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

You're not homophobic, but sometimes you question and have anxiety around your soulmates. Are they secretly gay? I've had this expereince with previous soulmate connections... and it turns out my worries weren't about their sexuality at all. It was about trust, and integrity. Niether or my past soulmates had integrity. So we could never have trust. Let's talk about the mindset shift that helped me create relief and a little bit about my expereince now that I am moving forward in love and connecting with men who don't create worry or stress within me around their character at all. I recorded this early this morning on my 27th birthday. And it's pretty iconic. Enjoy.    Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Moving forward, and am vehemently rejecting the lies of misogynoir. The lie that my ideas might not be valuable? Misogynoir. The lie that I'm not someone who deserves to live the lifestyle of my desire? Misogynoir. The lie that I might not be able to achieve my goals and desires? Misogynoir. It all comes back to patriarchal, racist, and oppressive beliefs and systems. And I won't allow it to convince me to hold back anymore.  I choose to fight for my success and freedom. With my intellect. With my powerful emotions. And most importantly, my intuition. I choose to fight for the life of my dreams... like a girl. Today's episode is the pep talk that we all need right now. You see the bullshit happening in the world? It doesn't end until you show up and fight to step into those positions of power. It doesn't end until you show up and fight for your belief in your personal value and worthiness. So, get up. We've got work to do. And we can't do it without you, babygirl. Enjoy.    Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Here's the story of how I found what I needed to see that helped me understand: he's just not the kind of man I want to build a life with. Press play to get the tea on how I found out who he truly is + why the tea inspired me to leave + what I believe about "karma" for men like him.  Also, this episode is for the women of the world who have [had] intense, spiritual connections. No one else has to get it. My job isn't the convince the world that I'm right. My job is to help you to heal, and create an emotionally fulfilled life after the bullsh*t. Alright? Alright.  LAL Course: https://www.nathhughes.com/loveafterloss   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

People pleasing is not a popular trait among successful women. You don't have to be easy to talk to. You don't have to be agreeable. You don't have to think, "how can I make this person happy?" before you respond in conversation.  In today's episode, we're talking about honoring your authenticity and holding on to your opinions and convictions... even when other people don't appreciate your approach. I was told recently that I'm a difficult person to talk to. And as the woman who isn't interested in entertaining or enabling thoughts of powerlessness within myself or others... I'm willing to be seen as "difficult". As the co-creator of your reality, sometimes your physical world is going to show you things that say you can't have what you want. Your job is to be the woman who stands her ground.  Whether you're in conversation with somoene who thinks differently than you, or you're in a meeting with someone whose ideas don't align with your own... your job is to be the woman who stands her ground. Otherwise, you'll rarely get your way. Let's talk about it.    Click to learn more + enroll in The Receiver's Mindset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

The fear of messing up (F.O.M.U) can get trigggered when new opportunties arise. Here's my perspective: once the opportunity has manifested in your physical reality... the desired end result is as good as yours. It's not just what you want, it's what you were born to walk out. And you can't fuck it up. Today, we're talking about identity. Save this episode the next time your FOMU starts acting up. Also, today's episode was recording while I was simultaneously on live, talking to a client. So that's why I'm mentioning a few things specific to her life experience.    Click to learn more + enroll in I Can & I Should: https://www.nathhughes.com/icanandishould Click to learn more + enroll in The Receiver's Mindset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

How to go from overgiving to overflow? Simple.  Step 1: Identify where you don't truly want to give. And stop.  Step 2: Tap into the energy of being appreciated and poured into by life.  What does it mean to be paid to exist? For me, it looks like living in a world that is grateful for your existence. Let's talk about it.    Click to learn more + enroll in The Receiver's Mindset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

I'm not a superficial woman. Purpose is at the root of everything in my life: from the money I make, to the work that I do, and the relationships I build. As I sat and prayed on a solution to the pattern in my romantic relationships where I attract men who cheat... I was given a powerful realization that gave me next level clarity around what I want in a man. Long story short: I require a man who requires depth. I need a man who requires personal reflection and prefers intimate conversation. I need a man who is emotionally available. This means he's emotionally open, and he values deep connection where he is seen and felt on a soul level. I require a man who wants to be safe with me, like I want to be safe with him. To that kind of person, casual sex is not an option. To that kind of person, cheating is not an option. I know this... because I am that kind of person. I don't do anything superficial. I'm repulsed by superficial shit. So, my personal love mindset work looks like manifesting the man who wants depth, like me. I will keep you updated, of course. I really loved recording this, and I hope you enjoy listening.    Check out the Love After Loss course here: https://www.nathhughes.com/loveafterloss   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Your dream version of self is already in existance, in another plane. And right now, you can tap into her. You can even sit down with her and have a dialogue. The more time you spend with your dream-self, the more you are able to become that dream-self. And then, your dream physical reality must follow. In today's episode I'm sharing (lotssss of) stories around how my future self has helped me to change my perspective around my marketing strategy, business model, and self value. Enjoy.   Learn more + enroll in the Receiver's Mindset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

What if you could take less action... and still receive your desire? What would you be doing? What would be happening your reality as a result? Today's episode is all about working smarter, not harder: going deeper in your mindset work instead of trying to compensate for your limiting beliefs with more action and more effort. We're talking about being honest about the work you want to do, while also thinking and planning your life strategically, from a long-term lens so you stop putting effort towards the things that just don't matter.  I loved recording this episode, it's full of insights into how I'm shifting things in the backend of my business right now. Enjoy.    Learn more + enroll in the Receiver's Mindset course: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

You cannot receive, or manifest, anything that you don't believe is available to you.  When you grew up living in systems of oppression that say you don't deserve kindness, compassion, love, or support… then of course you're going to struggle to expect the world to show up for you.  You're not just healing your relationship with money.  And you're not just tapping into the energy of consistent clientele.  You are on a journey of rewiring the beliefs that say you don't deserve life, liberty, justice, or the pursuit of your own happiness. You're rewiring expectations that have run through entire generations of your family line. Manifestation is not about saying affirmations until your desires magically show up in your world.  Manifestation is about identifying, understanding, and healing the root causes of your limiting beliefs. Let's talk about it. Also, the podcast episode is not nice to racists. So, if that upsets you, don't listen.  Learn more + enroll in the Receiver's Mindset: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Your dream life (full of more money and more rest)... probably feels full of relaxation. It's a place of deep safety and security.  Always, you're living in a vibrational reality. This means that you can deliberately attract your dream life by feeling that safety and security right now...  This is why, in today's episode I propose that you: slow down to speed up. Slow down and prioritize rest right now, in order to powerfully (quickly) call in your dream life. Enjoy.    Learn more + enroll in the Receiver's Mindset: https://www.nathhughes.com/howtoreceive   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books  

As MLK Jr. Day comes to an end... it's only right to share an episode I recoreded recently about... the beauty of being black, and my growing reverence for my people's history and culture. I also share the... frustrations that come with living in a world where my rich culture and history is watered down and copied and disrespected. Long story short, to the nonblack people of tiktok, in my Kendrick Lamar voice, "We don't wanna see you posting videos that use the word 'n*gga' no more!"  We're talking about black music, black art, black magick, and black history... and how your capacity to consume (any) art is impacted by your knowledge and understanding of the complex culture it's originating from.  Enjoy.   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

The woman who wants to take responsibility for others will drown if she doesn't plug up the holes in her own boat, first. You want to lead. You want to support others. You want to be a pillar in your community. That requires you to be strong enough to hold others up. When you are not supported, you don't have what you need in order to uplift the rest of us. This means, you must come first. Let's talk about it.  Join the Capricorn New Moon 2026 ritual: https://www.nathhughes.com/moonmagick   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

When you're ready to tap into financial wealth, overflow, and abundance, it's helpful to give your money a purpose. When you have more money, you can invest in the things you believe in and the improvements you want to see. When you have financial overflow, you have the ability to influence entire economies, and to flow money towards places it's never been before. Wealth is power. It's freedom. It's revolutionary. Let's talk about it.   Join the Capricorn New Moon 2026 ritual: https://www.nathhughes.com/moonmagick   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

In a world where everyone is pushing the "girl's girl" narrative... refusing to compete with other women can actually just look like backing down and fading into the crowd. Best means, "excelling all others." To be the best is to stand out. To be the best is to be better by comparison. It is NOT a crime to be the best option in your career or romantic life. The best woman gets to negotiate the best deal. The best woman gets exactly what she's asking for. The best woman gets to hold requirements for what it takes to be in her life, and in her world. And the best woman obviously attracts people who eagerly make sure those requirements are met.  My controversial, hot take: it's okay to compete against other women— and the key to reaching your next level of career and romance is in your willingness to compete, and win. And of course, there's an important difference between healthy competition and abuse. So we talk about that first. Competition isn't the problem. Sabotaging and behaving unethically is the problem. Ignoring and leaving your own insecurities unhealed, while you harp on the flaws of someone else is the problem. Competition isn't the problem. Competition is good. And if others weren't willing to risk losing, then they wouldn't have chosen to step into the arena.  There are billions of women on this planet. But you are the woman to watch. You are the woman to hire. You are the woman to propose to. You are the woman to build a life with. This episode is damn good. Enjoy. Follow my Embodiment Coach Nadee on IG: https://www.instagram.com/nadeeguy?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Healing the experience of "I'm unwanted and rejected" in love/career isn't about tapping into the energy of being wanted and accepted.  Underneath the story that you're "unwanted" is the self concept that you're not good enough. that you're not the woman who stands out. that you're not the best.  In 2026, being highly sought after is about being the HBIC. It's time to heal your relationship with being seen and being #1. In your reality, you should never be coming in second place. You should never be looking at other people and telling the story that they're better, or more worthy than you.  In your reality, you get to be— and should be— the best. The woman who is the best is obviously well paid. She's obviously highly sought after. She obviously reaches her sales goals. She's. The. Best. And it's okay if other people are mad about it. Let's discuss.    Join the "More Money, Less Work" Mini-Mastermind Group 01/10: https://www.nathhughes.com/service-page/the-mini-mastermind?utm_medium=page_links Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Should you stay or should you go? Hopefully today's episode will help you decide what comes next for you in your soulmate connection.  Over this past year specifically, you have heard me talk about this connection with this man. There has been a lot of growth for me in this very spiritual connection. But today's episode isn't about my growth. It's about his growth. I haven't chosen to stay in this connection out of the fear that I won't find anyone else. I haven't stayed in this connection because he's so handsome (even though he is). I've chosen to stay and forgive because I've observed and felt his growth. I see where we're moving, together. I see him... finding his way. That's why I choose to stay. This episode is full of anecdotes that are meaningful to me. I hope you'll enjoy them. And I hope they'll leave you with clarity on what you want and need out of relationships, too.  Enjoy. 

When you want your desire so badly that you create pressure, and then start criticizing yourself because you're afraid that you won't be good enough to bring your dream into fruition... you start to hold on too tightly, which constricts the flow of energy, resulting in stagnation and frustration.  Holding in loosely is what happens when you step away, to let your desire breathe, and allow energy to flow. From that place, ideas, and creative solutions can flow to you. Tune in to learn what holding on loosely looks like for me. Enjoy. Destined 2B Desired 2026: https://www.nathhughes.com/d2bd   Join this weekend's mini-mastermind: https://www.nathhughes.com/service-page/mini-mastermind-jan-3rd-4th?utm_medium=page_links   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Over the past few episodes, my teachings have been contradictory. First, I was on one talking about my (former) arch nemesis Patrick Mahomes and his not-so-nappy hair. I swore that if he were my descendant, his career would be OVER as a consequence of his behavior. But most recently on the podcast, I spoke about my own relationship with my spirit team. I made it clear that the spirit world is not punishing you for making honest mistakes. But that directly contradicts my former points.  At the end of the day, your experience as a human being is incredibly unique. Your ability to feel is what makes you human. Spirit Guides don't have the ability to feel, so they don't always understand what it's like to be human and struggle through life. Ancestors are human-adjacent; so they have a deeper understanding. This means, you get different experiences and messages and support from different beings at different vibrations. Spirituality is contradictory. Let's talk about the complexities of spirituality, the nature of living in a multi-dimensional reality, and why we're just not meant to understand everything.  Right now, Jupiter in Cancer is transiting my 9th house, so of course things are getting very existential for me (this is a good thing).    Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Let's talk: your fear of success, generational curse breaking, and why your manifested desired reality won't *ever* surprise you. In true NathHughes fashion, today's episode covers multiple topics, but is centered around me taking accountability and ownership of my life. My spirit guides don't tell me "yes" or "no"— because it's my life and my choice. And also, I'm a mars ruled woman who wouldn't listen even if they tried to tell me what to do. HAHA 🤣  And my defiance is by design. When you're the generational curse breaker, you're the trailblazer. You're not meant to listen to others, you are meant to follow your heart and carve out your own path— but then that can lead to fears.  What if I get it, and it sucks? What if I walk down the wrong path and everyone was right and I was wrong and they all scream "I told you so" at me?!  The ultimate mindset shift is this: your manifestation will feel just like you imagined it to. There is no surprise. How you feel when you journal is exactly how it will feel when it's in your reality. So you can trust yourself, and you don't have to worry about what it will be like "over there" in your desired reality. When you see it in your minds eye, you are experiencing the real deal. Trust it and trust yourself.  The episode is chock-full of extra mindset shifts and goodness, too. We spend a portion of it talking about why real manifestation feels like shit for a bit. And we talk about rejection vs abandonment. I cry and call my father a bastard for dying. It's a must listen. Enjoy.   Join the next Mini-Mastermind: https://www.nathhughes.com/service-page/mini-mastermind-dec-20th-21st Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Is the racial wealth gap in America occurring due to a lack of desire?  Of course not. It's occurring due to the complex challenges black families face while navigating life before, during, and after systemic racism and oppression.  Contrary to what the superficial pop psychologists of the internet would have you believe, action does not indicate desire.  When you want to create something new (an increase in income, an elevation in lifestyle, a positive outcome in relationships), you will face challenges.  Fear. Doubt. Worry. Guilt. Shame.  The journey to your desire is a journey from where you are, through those negative feelings, to the experience you want.  In other words, the journey to your desire is an emotional one.  It is very possible that he wants to love you and be with you… and he's not acting on that desire. Today's episode isn't just about love— it's about honoring and understanding the complexities of human life so we can stop judging one another so harshly and incorrectly.  In the episode, we're also talking about how, because you're called to serve others with your story, sometimes the journey to your desire can be particularly challenging.  When you've overcome a lot to create your dream income, relationship, and lifestyle… you've become uniquely qualified to help others do the same. I hope this episode helps you release some shame around your own romantic and life journey. Enjoy.    Join the next Mini-Mastermind: https://www.nathhughes.com/service-page/mini-mastermind-dec-20th-21st Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

In the season 3 finale, we're talking about 3 main things.  1: Boycotting Christmas is not going to lead to world peace. Your enjoyment of your life is.  2: Hitting your upper limit is when you hit the maxiumum amount of happiness you'll allow yourself to expereince for one period of time. I've recently hit an upper limit. This is what overcoming it looked like for me. 3: At some point, you might become afraid that you're going to repeat your parents relationship or lives. You show yourself, through your actions and healthy habits, that you won't become your parents.  Hit play and let's get into it.  Join the next Mini-Mastermind: https://www.nathhughes.com/_paylink/AZrOCTPI Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Strong boundaries deepen connection, trust, and emotional safety. This episode is for the woman who loves deeply, and desires to lead powerfully, but still struggles to separate compassion from personal responsibility.  It's time to shift from being an empathetic enabler to a compassionate, confident leader. If you've ever found yourself overgiving, assuming you know best about what other people need, or trying to save everyone from themselves… then this conversation will change the way you lead and connect. You'll learn how strong boundaries create deeper intimacy, how asking questions like "How can I help you?" and "What do you need from me?" build confidence in others, and why compassion is the foundation of powerful leadership.   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Afraid to level up because you're scared you won't be able to keep what you gain? You're not alone— and you're not playing small for the reason you think. Today's episode breaks down the deeper self-esteem issue behind the fear of success: women doubt their ability to maintain abundance. Let's talk about how to build the self-trust required for the sustainable growth you desire.  First, we're talking about something that's been heavily on my heart: the power of your integrity and character. Money doesn't change who you are, money amplifies who you are. It is so important for you, as the leader of your mind, family, community, and industry to get crystal clear on who you are and what you are unwilling to tolerate. There is always a way to get more money. There is always a creative solution. Sacrificing and suffering of yourself or another is never required for more money. Never forget that.  Your mindset shift starts at about 30:00 timestamp haha! Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Today's episode is a life update full of mindset shifts around avoiding your fears, overcoming the lie that nobody wants what you have to offer, and why you can never waste your time with a person, job, or proposal (even if you don't end up getting what you wanted in exchange for your efforts).  This year, I did a lot of great work– but I lived in my zone of excellence, not my zone of genius. I avoided taking a chance on myself and my dreams for my next level of business and sales because I was afraid. In this episode, I'm telling you the story of how I ignored my heart's desires until I couldn't ignore them anymore (because not following your soul's purpose just feels like sh*t). I'm telling you how I reconciled with everything I didn't do because of my own avoidance. And I'm telling you the mindset shift that helped me clear energy and gear up to end this year on a positive and optimistic note. Enjoy.     Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

I want rich men for all of us. I want you to have a man who spoils you. I want you to live a soft life. And also, I want you to understand that the best person to bet on is yourself. So much talk online about marrying rich is... unrealistic. Not because it's an impossible desire. But because our beliefs about money impact the way we interact with wealthy people (this negatively impacts our capacity to form meaningful relationships with them).  And because when you put multi-millionaire men on a pedestal... getting them becomes a prize that you must be willing to perform and change and please in order to win. And because waking up in a mansion tomorrow won't change your mindset– and without a supportive mindset, you will freak out and sabotage your way out of wealth every single time. You won't be able to enjoy and relish in a lifestyle that you don't deeply believe that you deserve. So, I want rich men for all of us. But, there's such important work to do in order to get there– and we have to talk about that.  And, if getting your desired lifestyle through a wealthy man is going to take mental and emotional work... why not get that lifestyle through yourself, instead? Energetically, you are at an advantage with wealthy men when you are a woman who is financially secure and confident in herself and her value. Let's talk about it.   Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Beating yourself up and ruminating on your mistakes doesn't improve the quality of your life. Self acceptance is a powerful tool that helps you to continue moving forward. Practicing radical self acceptance is to be willing to pivot towards solutions and healing always. In today's episode, I'm talking plainly and practically about what it means to practice self acceptance and how it's more beneficial to your life than self loathing, criticism, and rejection.  Enjoy!  Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

You are an important, significant woman who matters and belongs. When you give up on your dream, the world doesn't just continue on without you. The world world is worse off without your talents, gifts, and skills. The world is worse off without your abundance and prosperity. The world is worse off without your joy and fulfillment.  When you know exactly how the world benefits from your success, you have tapped into your purpose. And that vision, that conviction, is a fire that cannot be doused. In today's episode, we're talking about the value of your purpose. When used properly, your purpose is an engine that never runs out of fuel, irrevocably propelling you towards your desires. Enjoy.    Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Stop overthinking it. Stop contemplating it. Stop trying to get it to find just perfectly in your schedule. Stop using your mind and your energy levels as an excuse to stay small. Just do it. The second it pops up in your mind. The second you get the inspiration. The second you kind of maybe want to. Just. Do. It. Today's episode is about doing what it takes to successfully bust out of your comfort zone. Your nervous system is wired to convice you to stay stuck... because that's the "safe" thing to do. When you're ready for your next level, you have to override that protective mechanism. You override that by doing. By taking action. And letting it be bad at first. And letting it be imperfect always. And letting yourself get better at it over time. Whether you're scripting, asking for a higher salary, or upping your faith in God... action is the answer. Let's talk about it.  Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

They didn't take away your shine or your power. You gave it away. And now you're taking it back. You're on a journey of taking your power back. Let's talk about it.  Join my email list by entering the Free Resource Library here: ps://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Today's episode is for the woman who often burns herself out, and overextends herself in order to be liked; and to come off as nice... only to be disliked and rejected in the workplace or in life, no matter how hard she tries. When you're telling the story that people don't like you, and that they single you out, and that they don't want what you have to offer... that's what you attract. You unkowingly emit an energy that people interpret as offputting. Then, you live in a self-fulfilling prophecy where you are rejected and fired and unwanted. But it's not that there's anything wrong with you. It's just a reflection of your self perception and assumptions– both of which can be changed. Today's episode has a funny story, and the mindset shifts you need to stop overcompensating. No more working twice as hard to still be let down when people don't respond how you want them to. Enjoy! Next Steps: Learn more + read client success stories  + enroll in Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

When it comes to money, you shouldn't sweat the small stuff. And... it's all small stuff. There's a common misconception that says, "If you're not scared, you're not taking it seriously." But that's not true. Especially because the more afraid we are, the more we cannot see the money opportunities right in front of us. In today's episode, we're talking about what it takes to create a magnetic money mindset. When we want to attract money consistently, we need to have financial mindset that is resilient; meaning we can recover from losses or confusion or mistake quickly and get right back to a place of empowerment and clarity. Our resilience is the difference between one setback/mistake and a downward spiral of fear, scarcity, and lack. I really enjoyed today's episode; and I'm so so sorry that I dropped the mic in the middle of the episode so there might be a loud ass bang! Sorry, diva. Love ya. Enjoy.  Next Steps: Learn more + read client success stories  + save $222 on Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Every time you spend, you are being given an opportunity to practice a financial security and abundance mindset. When money is reliably coming in, you are able to spend without guilt or fear of it running out. Reliable money manifestation happens when you deliberately see yourself experiencing consistent money and support, regardless of what money is flowing into your world in that moment. Enjoy this quick episode!  Next Steps: Learn more + read client success stories  + join Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

In the digital age, we cannot afford to live in a world where experts assert that only people with degrees deserve to be heard. This is partially true because real leaders are also educators; and an uneducated population is a reflection of the communication flaws present in so many institutions. That is a conversation worth having.  It's also true because there are so many barriers to education in this country. The people in our country who have experienced the most harm and neglect are also the people most likely to fail and drop out or not pursue higher education. There are improvements that must be made; and that doesn't happen when you only listen to the people who are able to thrive within the system.  As human beings, our opinions don't matter because we have degrees or research (even though research and education are valuable). As human beings, our opinions matter because we deserve to be seen and understood and responded to and taken care of, regardless of whether or not we have a degree. We can bring value to the world with our stories, perspectives, and art. There is no prerequisite for that.  Of course, it doesn't mean that our opinions are always right. It means that our opinions are a reflection of our understanding of the world; and *that* information *should* be used by professionals across industries in order to improve the (educational, political, and medical) systems that we rely on.  In a world where DEI and affirmative action are being stripped away, women need to have a value and belief system that is deeper than a diploma. You need to know that you are an important, significant woman who matters and belongs. You deserve to be seen and heard and taken care of in alignment with that.    Next Steps: Learn more + view payment options  + join Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Watching and waiting for your reality to change feels like watching paint dry... or standing at your oven, waiting for the pot to begin boiling. Instead, you should do the dishes while the water is warming up.  In manifestation terms: when you're watching your reality and constantly in a state of noticing what's not moving in your favor... your point of attraction (dominant vibration) doesn't change; and then you attract more of what you don't want. Instead, I suggest being the leader of your mind, and telling a new story to build out a supportive belief system that says "I obviously receive my desire". While your focus is on telling the new story,  your reality is given the opportunity to shift with less interferance (resistence) on your part. Press play to get the full breakdown where we focus on business and a little romance.  Today's episode is really, really good. Enjoy.   Next Steps: Learn more + view payment options  + join Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

The financially empowered woman is the leader of her mind, life, and money. I'm tired of seeing content online that portrays women as being "the financially illiterate, dependent, and irresponsible one" in the marriage. This isn't normal, nor is it supportive, healthy, or true about who we are. As women, we have to take back our power and refuse to participate in these narratives. They aren't just jokes, they have real negative consequences on our relationships, family dynamics, and society as a whole. Let's talk about it.  Next Steps: Learn more + view payment options  + save on Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Your sales strategy is only as strong as your mindset. Without a supportive mindset, you'll work hard and end up disappointed in your results because you're not speaking to the right clients at the right place on their journey. On the other hand, when you have a supportive mindset, you naturally find ways to simplify your sales process while increasing profitability.  In today's episode, you'll discover 5 powerful mindset shifts to transform the way you perceive your value, and refine how you relate to your prospective clients/customers. I really enjoyed recording this example-filled episode for you. Enjoy!    Next Steps: Learn more + view payment options  + enroll in Evidently Easy: https://www.nathhughes.com/evidentlyeasy Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

You lead your money, your money doesn't lead you... right?  In today's episode, we're talking about the first steps I suggest you take when you're healing your relationship with money. I love many money mindset coaches... but I don't think they talk enough about what it looks like to manifest and heal your relationship with money on a practical level. So, let's do that. Enjoy.  Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

As you're reparenting and healing your inner child, sometimes the last straw in a relationship is when your inner mom says "that's enough." As I've been loving myself more and more, I've been understanding how sacred and special and worthy I am. It's one thing to know that you are worthy of being treated well... and it's another thing to feel like shit in a relationship and decide that you've had enough of feeling that way.  Recently, I had several realizations that encouraged me to end a soulmate connection that I had so much desire around. But ultimately, I felt increasingly insecure in our connection, which lead to me feeling insecure about myself. As my insecurities continued to be triggered, and my person continued not to soothe, communicate, or explicitly choose me... my confusion started to impact more than just our connection.  Trigger warning: today's episode absolutely has tears... especially as I discuss the consequences of the narcisistic abuse and trauma I suffered. Overall, I hope that it inspires you to consider your own feelings in relationships more than ever before.  Next Steps: Love After Loss Course: https://www.nathhughes.com/loveafterloss Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

Forgiveness, can you imagine? Choosing to be open-hearted, and repair relationships with people who are flawed... can you imagine?  I know that relationships with family can be... complicated. And also, death is... permanent. I've been feeling the loss of my father a lot, lately. And his passing has put my relationship with the other members of my family into perspective. What stories about my family history do they have? What characteristics did they inherit from the ancestors that came before us? How can I honor my ancestry by honoring those who are still alive? My recent reflection has led me to understand this: We all come from complex histories of trauma and enslavement and oppression and societal conditioning which, combined, can encourage us to be... inhibited and closed off and controlling and even sometimes inconsiderate of others' feelings. And even though this is true... and we are flawed... we're still valuable. We still have things to teach and learn from and give to one another. So, in this Season 3, Episode 33... we're talking about forgiveness.  Enjoy. Next Steps: Access The Free Resource Library:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Digital Journals: https://www.nathhughes.com/digitaljournals Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books

When you are manifesting your dream life, you cannot set or approach your goals like the version of yourself that you're leaving behind. The version of me walking down the aisle at my $250,000 wedding, wearing an elegant french roll with a tiara on top... is very different than the version of me who wonders if she'll be able to afford the clothes on her Christmas wish list. At our core, we're the same: we both have immaculate, expensive taste. But, we don't have the same relationship with money. We don't see ourselves as having access to the same level of resources regarding money, community, true love, and support. We have two difference self concepts, or self perceptions.  When you think and speak and feel like the woman who doesn't have what she wants... it is significantly more difficulty to create and acknowledge the progress you're making along the way.  In today's episode, we're talking about the truth: Co-creating your dream life is about changing your self perception at will. Supportive self esteem (your belief about your ability to change your life) is the natural consequence of thinking and feeling from the place of your victory— regardless of what's going on in your physical reality. Tune in, and enjoy!  Next Steps: Learn more + read/watch client testimonials + enroll in the "I Can & I Should" program: https://www.nathhughes.com/icanandishould Learn more +  enroll in The "Next Level Mindset Mastery" Bundle: https://www.nathhughes.com/nextlevel Access 12+ Free Manifestation Tools:  https://www.nathhughes.com/freegift Shop Meditations: https://www.nathhughes.com/meditations Shop Training Bundles: https://www.nathhughes.com/mini-course Shop Courses: https://www.nathhughes.com/books