Pure Victory Podcast

Welcome to episode #269! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Tough Topic Series: Scrolling Ourselves Numb: Social Media, Addiction, and Guarding Our HeartsSocial media is everywhere—and for many of us, it’s essential. But what role is it really playing in your life?In this Tough Topic episode, we take an honest look beneath the surface. From addiction and comparison to its connection with pornography and mental health, this conversation challenges us to stop drifting and start being intentional.This isn’t about extremes or deleting everything—it’s about asking better questions, setting wise boundaries, and learning how to guard your heart in a world designed to capture your attention.🔑 Key Takeaways Social media is a tool—but it’s not neutral in its impact Digital connection can still leave us feeling isolated and anxious Platforms are designed to keep you scrolling, not thriving  Exposure often leads to desensitization and escalation, especially sexually  What you consume consistently will shape your thoughts, desires, and habits You’re not just using social media—it’s forming you📖 Scriptural Highlight“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23“Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is pure… think about such things.” — Philippians 4:8⚔️ Action StepsAsk the hard question: What role is social media actually playing in my life? Audit your time: Track how much you’re really using it each day Set boundaries: Limit usage or remove triggers that lead to lust, comparison, or negativity Be intentional with content: Unfollow what pulls you down—fill your feed with truth Replace, don’t just remove: Invest in Scripture, real relationships, and presence Lead others well: If you’re a parent or mentor, start the conversation early 💬 Final ThoughtYou’re only one unguarded scroll away from feeding something you don’t want to grow. But you’re also one intentional decision away from walking in freedom.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #268! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: The Dark Side of AI Girlfriends – When Virtual Love Destroys Real LivesWe’re living in a time where loneliness is rising—and AI is stepping in to offer a solution that feels surprisingly real. But what if the very thing promising connection is quietly pulling us further away from it?In this eye-opening episode, we unpack the growing trend of AI relationships and why it’s more than just a harmless curiosity. From real-life stories to cultural warning signs, we explore how synthetic connection can reshape our expectations of love, intimacy, and even our relationship with God.This isn’t about fear—it’s about awareness. Because the stakes are higher than we think.🔑 Key TakeawaysAI relationships are no longer fringe—they’re mainstream. Many are turning to them to fill real emotional gaps. Connection without cost isn’t real connection. AI affirms but never challenges, creating an echo chamber instead of growth. Loneliness is the deeper issue. AI isn’t the root problem—it’s a substitute for unmet relational needs. Real relationships refine us. Growth comes through friction, sacrifice, and mutual investment. What we practice shapes us. The more we engage artificial connection, the harder real intimacy can feel. 📖 Scriptural HighlightProverbs 27:17 – “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”God designed relationships to shape us—not just comfort us. The tension, challenge, and growth found in real connection are essential to who we’re becoming.🛠️ Action ItemsChoose real over easy: Intentionally invest in face-to-face or meaningful human connection this week. Re-engage community: Reach out to a friend, join a group, or lean into your church community. Check your patterns: Are you escaping into screens—or pressing into real relationships? Bring your loneliness to God: Don’t numb it—invite Him into it. Let Him meet and transform you there. Set healthy boundaries with tech: Be mindful of how and why you engage with AI or digital platforms. 💭 Final ThoughtAI promises connection without cost—but real love was never meant to be easy. Don’t trade depth for control, or growth for comfort. The relationships that shape you most are often the ones that stretch you.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #267! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Are You Overcomplicating It? The Simple Link Between Physical & Spiritual HealthWhat if the breakthrough you’ve been chasing isn’t complicated… but simple? In this episode, we explore how easily we over-spiritualize struggles with porn, addiction, and burnout—while overlooking the physical habits that may be fueling them. From sleep and nutrition to movement and screen time, your body plays a major role in your spiritual resilience. This episode is a call back to the basics: stewarding your body as an act of worship and unlocking freedom through simple, consistent habits.🔑 Key TakeawaysDon’t skip the simple answer—sometimes the root issue isn’t deeper, just overlooked. Occam’s Razor applies to life: the simplest explanation is often the right one. Physical health impacts spiritual strength—low energy, poor habits, and fatigue increase vulnerability to temptation. Bad patterns feed bad patterns—when your body is depleted, your decisions suffer. Stewardship matters—caring for your body is a form of honoring God, not vanity. 📖 Scriptural Highlight1 Kings 19 (Elijah’s Story) After a massive spiritual victory, Elijah crashes—exhausted, overwhelmed, and ready to give up. God’s response? Not a lecture, but rest and nourishment.Key Insight: Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is take care of your body.⚡ Action ItemsStart with one simple shift: Go to bed earlier tonight or take a walk today. Evaluate your habits: Are sleep, food, and movement helping or hurting you? Reduce late-night screen time: Cut down on doom-scrolling before bed. Fuel your body better: Be intentional instead of reactive with meals. Move daily: You don’t need a gym—just start using your body consistently. 💬 Memorable Quotes from This Episode “What if the thing we’ve been overcomplicating… actually has a simple answer?”  “Bad patterns feed bad patterns.”  “Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is take care of your body.”  “The breakthrough you’re looking for might start with how you treat your body.”🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #266! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Breaking the Intentions Loop: From Saying the Right Things to Living ThemEver said “never again”—only to find yourself right back in the same cycle?In this episode, we unpack the gap between good intentions and real action. It’s easy to say the right things—to God, to others, and even to ourselves—but without consistent action, those words fall flat.If you’re tired of the cycle of acting out, feeling shame, and making empty promises, this conversation will help you shift from behavior-focused striving to life-giving transformation—by learning to draw near to God and actually fill your life with something better.Key TakeawaysGood intentions don’t produce freedom—consistent action does Many people get stuck in an “intentions loop”: failure → promises → no change → repeat Willpower is limited—you can’t sustain freedom on discipline alone  Real change comes through inner transformation, not behavior modification Freedom isn’t just about removing porn—it’s about filling your life with God and what is good God values the “yes” of your actions, not just the “yes” of your words Scriptural HighlightMatthew 21:28–32 Jesus shares the parable of two sons—one who says the right thing but doesn’t act, and one who resists at first but ultimately obeys.Truth: God isn’t looking for perfect words—He’s looking for lived obedience.Also: James 4:8 – “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.”Action Steps1. Take one real step today Don’t just say what you’ll do—do something tangible: Reach out to an accountability partner  Set a boundary or filter  Change an environment or routine 2. Shift your focus from “removing” to “filling” Spend intentional, unhurried time with God  Don’t come with an agenda—just be with Him 3. Build life-giving rhythms Community  Accountability  Healthy habits and outlets  Self-awareness and reflection 4. Stop relying on willpower alone Recognize its limits and lean into daily dependence on God5. Be honest, not just spiritual-sounding Drop the mask. Real freedom starts with real honesty before God and others.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #265! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: The Stress Trap: Why Numbing Leads to CrumblingStress isn’t just a bad day—it’s often the doorway to destructive patterns. In this episode, we unpack how unmanaged stress can quietly erode your defenses and drive you toward numbing behaviours like pornography, scrolling, or isolation.But there’s hope. Instead of running from stress, what if you learned to face it—with Jesus at the center? This episode offers a powerful shift: from avoidance to surrender, from coping to connection, and from feeling like a victim to walking in freedom.🔑 Key TakeawaysStress is a primary trigger for addiction—but ignoring it only makes it stronger. Numbing doesn’t solve stress—it compounds it (and often adds shame on top). Avoidance creates weakness—we never learn how to face life’s challenges with God. You are not your stress—don’t let it become your identity. Real peace isn’t found in escape, but in God’s presence.Surrender is the starting point—healthy strategies flow from there. 📖 Scriptural HighlightMatthew 11:28–30 “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest…”Jesus doesn’t promise a stress-free life—but He offers something better: rest in the middle of it. You’re invited to stop carrying it alone.🙌 Action StepsPause & Identify: The next time you feel stressed, don’t ignore it—name it. Surrender It: In prayer, picture handing that stress over to Jesus. Replace the Escape: Instead of numbing out, try:  Going for a walk  Practicing deep breathing  Reaching out to a trusted friend Get Curious: Ask God, “Why am I feeling this?” (fatigue, loneliness, pressure?) Build New Patterns: Small, consistent choices will rewire how you respond to stress. 💬 Final EncouragementStress is inevitable—but being controlled by it isn’t. When you stop running, invite Jesus in, and build your life around His presence, everything begins to shift.You don’t have to numb out anymore. You don’t have to live as a victim. You can learn to manage stress—and walk in lasting freedom.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #264! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Tough Topic Series- Should I Tell Them? Navigating Porn Use in DatingThis week kicks off a brand-new Tough Topics series, diving into real, honest questions around porn recovery and relationships. Today’s conversation tackles a big one: Should you tell someone you’re dating about your porn use?The answer isn’t just yes or no—it depends on where you’re at in your journey. This episode walks through how to assess your readiness for dating, why secrecy destroys intimacy, and how to approach disclosure with wisdom, honesty, and courage. If you’re navigating dating while pursuing freedom, this is a must-listen.Key TakeawaysStart with honesty about your own journey – Are you actively pursuing healing, or trying to manage things alone? If you’re not getting help, dating may need to wait – Hidden struggles eventually surface and can deeply hurt others. Healing requires exposure, not secrecy – Freedom grows in community, accountability, and honesty. Don’t overshare too early—but don’t wait too long – The goal is timely, thoughtful disclosure. Take responsibility, not just intention – Share from a place of action and growth, not vague promises. You don’t decide readiness alone – Invite wisdom from mentors, counselors, or trusted community. A relationship won’t fix your struggle – Healing starts with God, not a partner. Scriptural Highlight1 John 1:7 – “But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another…”Living in the light—through honesty and openness—creates the foundation for real connection. Secrecy leads to distance, but truth invites intimacy and healing.Action StepsDo a personal check-in: Ask yourself honestly—am I pursuing real healing, or hiding and managing? Build your support system: If you’re not already, step into accountability through a group, mentor, or counselor. Seek wise counsel: Talk to trusted people in your life about whether you’re ready to date. Plan your disclosure: Think through how you can share your story simply, honestly, and responsibly. Choose courage over comfort: If you’re currently hiding this in a relationship, take a step toward honesty this week. Focus on healing first: Prioritize becoming whole in Christ before expecting a relationship to fill that space. Closing ThoughtThe healthiest relationships aren’t built on perfection—they’re built on truth. When you choose honesty and pursue healing, you’re not just protecting yourself—you’re honoring the person you hope to build a future with.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #263! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Closing the Gap: From Temptation to Intentional LivingEpisode Summary: There’s a critical moment most people overlook—the gap between temptation and action. In this episode, Braden explores how that space, whether seconds or hours long, is where real change happens. Instead of white-knuckling or negotiating with temptation, you’ll learn how to respond quickly, intentionally, and with purpose. Freedom isn’t just about avoiding porn—it’s about building a life you actually want to run toward.🔑 Key TakeawaysThe gap matters: What you do between temptation and action determines your direction. Temptation isn’t the problem: Even Jesus was tempted—it’s how we respond that shapes us. Don’t negotiate with temptation: Delayed responses give temptation momentum. Willpower alone fails: “Don’t do it” thinking keeps your mind stuck on the very thing you’re trying to avoid. Close the gap quickly: Faster, intentional responses weaken temptation over time. Replace, don’t just remove: Real freedom comes from filling your life with something better, not just eliminating a behavior. Preparation is key: You don’t build a healthy response in the moment—you build it beforehand. 📖 Scriptural HighlightMatthew 4:1–11 Jesus in the wilderness shows us a powerful model: when temptation came, He didn’t debate or delay—He responded immediately with truth. His preparation before the moment led to victory in the moment.🛠️ Action StepsCreate a “rapid response” plan: Decide now what you’ll do when temptation hits (text a friend, go for a walk, pray, change environments). Shorten your response time: Practice moving from awareness → action as quickly as possible. Build life-giving rhythms: Invest in connection, purpose, and your relationship with God daily. Strengthen accountability: Don’t fight alone—invite others into your process. Identify your patterns: Notice what fuels your temptation (stress, boredom, loneliness) and address those roots. Shift from reactive to proactive living: Build a life today that makes temptation weaker tomorrow. 💬 Final ThoughtDon’t just focus on what you’re running from— focus on building a life worth running toward.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #262! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Understanding Your Arousal Template: Why Your Brain Craves What Your Heart Doesn’tMany people in recovery ask the same painful question: “Why does my brain crave things I know I don’t want?”In this episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, we unpack the concept of the Arousal Template—the internal blueprint that shapes what triggers sexual arousal. Drawing from recovery research and biblical truth, we explore how pornography can reshape this template over time, why escalation happens, and most importantly, how God can begin the process of rewiring our minds.This conversation shifts the focus away from shame and toward understanding. Instead of asking “What’s wrong with me?” we start asking a healthier question: “How has my brain been wired, and how can it be rewired?”The encouraging truth is that while porn may train the brain, God’s truth and intentional healing can retrain it.Key TakeawaysYour Arousal Template Is Learned Sexual arousal patterns develop over time through experiences, environment, and repeated exposure—not simply personal failure.Pornography Rewires the Brain Unlimited novelty online can expand and distort the template, leading to escalation and stronger cravings for stimulation.You Can’t “Un-Bake the Cake,” But You Can Bake a New One Some memories remain, but you can weaken unhealthy pathways and build new ones through healthier attachments and habits.This Is About Formation, Not Just Behavior Pornography disciples the brain toward objectification, while Christ forms us toward intimacy, covenant, and love.Rewiring Is Possible Through consistent spiritual renewal, accountability, and healthy relationships, the brain can learn new patterns aligned with God’s design.Scriptural HighlightRomans 12:2 “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”Healing and recovery are not just about stopping a behavior—they are about renewing the mind and allowing God to reshape our desires over time.Action Steps1. Replace Shame with Curiosity Instead of asking “What’s wrong with me?”, begin asking “What patterns has my brain learned?”2. Guard What You Look At Jesus said the eye is the lamp of the body. What we repeatedly view trains our desires.3. Build New Attachments Strengthen pathways toward life through:deeper intimacy with Godhealthy relationships and accountabilityemotional connection with safe people4. Train Your Mind Intentionally Practice focusing on what is true, pure, and life-giving (Philippians 4:8).5. Commit to the Long Game Rewiring the brain takes time. Progress often looks like two steps forward, one step back—but forward is still forward.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #261! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Willpower vs. Wisdom: Why Trying Harder Isn’t the AnswerWhen it comes to breaking free from porn, most people assume the answer is simple: try harder. Just be stronger than temptation. Say “no” more often.But what if that strategy is actually the problem?In this episode, Braden unpacks the difference between willpower and wisdom in the fight for freedom. Instead of relying on white-knuckled resistance, real change happens when we structure our lives with wisdom and learn to surrender temptation to Jesus in the moment.You’ll discover why we only have so many “no’s,” how small decisions lead to bigger failures, and how shifting from willpower to surrender can transform your recovery journey.Freedom isn’t found in one heroic moment of resistance—it’s built through wise choices and daily surrender.Scriptural Highlight1 Corinthians 6:18 “Flee from sexual immorality.”Scripture doesn’t tell us to stand in the pocket and outlast temptation—it tells us to run from it. God’s strategy isn’t raw willpower; it’s wisdom and dependence on Him.Key Takeaways1. Willpower alone will fail. If your strategy is simply saying “no” when temptation appears, eventually your strength will run out.2. Temptation usually starts long before the moment of sin. Isolation, exhaustion, stress, and unhealthy habits often set the stage for relapse hours or even days earlier.3. Biblical willpower looks like surrender. True strength isn’t trying harder—it’s choosing daily practices that keep you aligned with Christ.4. Wisdom makes decisions before temptation shows up. Healthy boundaries, accountability, and rhythms with God reduce the opportunities for temptation to take hold.5. Temptation can become a moment of dependence. Instead of hiding or fighting it alone, bring your struggle to Jesus immediately and turn it into an act of surrender.Action Steps for This Week1. Identify your vulnerable moments. Ask yourself: When am I most tempted? What patterns lead me there?2. Build one guardrail. Put a practical boundary in place this week (bedtime phone habits, accountability check-ins, etc.).3. Practice immediate surrender. When temptation appears, pause and pray: “Jesus, I need you right now.”4. Replace, don’t just remove. Start one daily rhythm that strengthens your walk with God—Scripture, prayer, worship, or connection with community.Final EncouragementIf you’ve been trying to beat porn through sheer willpower and keep falling, you’re not hopeless—you may just be fighting the battle the wrong way.Freedom grows through wisdom before temptation and surrender in the moment of temptation.And when your life is structured around the right “yes” to Jesus, you’ll find you don’t need nearly as many “no’s.” 🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #260! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: 10 Decisions Away: How Small Choices Shape Your FreedomWhat if the difference between freedom and destruction isn’t one massive moment—but a chain of small decisions?In this episode, we unpack a powerful quote: “Everyone is 10 decisions away from committing murder.” While shocking at first, it reveals something deeply biblical—no one wakes up intending to wreck their life. Destruction happens incrementally. So does freedom.If sin has momentum… so does obedience.We explore how tiny compromises lower our resistance over time—and how small, Spirit-led decisions can rebuild integrity, character, and sexual freedom one step at a time.🔑 Key TakeawaysDecisions don’t exist in a vacuum. Every choice is connected to the one before and the one after it.Sin grows incrementally. Tolerance builds. Boundaries shift. What once shocked you becomes normal.Addiction rarely starts extreme. One click makes the next click easier. One secret makes the next one simpler to keep.But momentum works both ways. Small, deliberate acts of obedience build spiritual strength.Freedom isn’t a lightning bolt. It’s a series of wise, repeated choices empowered by Christ.📖 Scriptural HighlightJames 1:15 – Desire → Sin → Death A clear progression. Sin grows when it’s fed.Galatians 6:8 – Sow to the flesh or sow to the Spirit. Whatever you plant grows.2 Samuel 11 – The story of David and Bathsheba. David’s fall didn’t begin with adultery—it began with subtle disengagement. He stayed home when kings went to war. He lingered. He inquired. Each decision linked to the next. One different choice could have broken the chain.The same principle applies to us.🛠️ Action StepsInstead of asking, “How do I conquer this mountain?” ask:“What is my next wise decision?”Consider starting here:🙏 Pray one honest prayer.📱 Leave your phone outside the bedroom tonight.👥 Text a trusted friend and check in.🛏️ Get a full night of sleep.🏋️ Move your body.🎵 Worship instead of scrolling.🗣️ Choose one moment of honesty over secrecy.You don’t just stop watching porn. You become a man or woman who consistently makes wise decisions.🔄 Final EncouragementYou are not “too far gone.” You are one Spirit-led decision away from starting a new chain.When small compromises move you toward chaos, small acts of obedience move you toward freedom.One choice at a time. One step at a time. With Christ’s help, you’re not just breaking a habit—you’re building a life. 🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #259! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Guardrails, Not Handcuffs: Navigating Opposite Sex Friendships in MarriageOpposite sex friendships—harmless or hazardous? In this honest and nuanced conversation, Braden and Kristen (“Wifey”)  tackle one of the most sensitive topics in marriage. With culture saying, “If you trust me, it shouldn’t matter,” and Scripture calling us to wisdom, where’s the balance?This episode isn’t about fear. It’s about unity. It’s about protecting what matters most—your covenant.Through practical examples (yes, including Sour Patch Kids and chocolate 🍫), cultural lies like Temptation Island-style thinking, and a powerful biblical reminder from Samson, this episode helps couples think proactively—not reactively—about boundaries that build safety, not restriction.Because strong marriages don’t test temptation—they guard against it.In This Episode, We Cover:Why opposite sex friendships can feel like a “minefield”The danger of relying on “self-control” aloneHow emotional intimacy quietly replaces marital intimacyThe difference between social connection and emotional bondingWhy secrecy—not friendship—is often the real red flagCultural myths vs. biblical wisdomWhy boundaries are guardrails, not barriersScriptural Highlight1 Corinthians 10:12 – “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall.”The downfall of Samson wasn’t weakness—it was believing he was too strong to fall. Maturity isn’t seeing how close you can get to temptation. It’s being wise enough to avoid it.A strong marriage doesn’t dance around the fire. It protects the covenant God entrusted to you.Key TakeawaysTrust is not the absence of boundaries. It’s built through transparency and shared expectations.Self-control is not a strategy. Wisdom means staying far from the line, not managing yourself at it.Secrecy is the warning light. If details are withheld, minimized, or hidden, something deeper may be happening.Marriage sets the relational hierarchy. Once married, every other relationship comes underneath that covenant.Boundaries create safety. They say, “I value us too much to risk this.”Practical Action StepsThis week, sit down with your spouse and ask:How can we navigate opposite sex friendships in a way that feels safe, healthy, and strengthens our marriage?What guardrails would help us protect our unity?Are there any current relationships that feel unclear or uncomfortable?Do we need outside help (pastor, counselor, trusted mentor) to navigate this well?Remember: This is not a debate. It’s a conversation. The goal isn’t to win—it’s to align.Final EncouragementNo one wakes up planning to have an affair. Most people slide there slowly—through unchecked boundaries and unspoken expectations.Your marriage is too valuable to “stress test.” Life is hard enough. Choose wisdom. Choose unity. Choose guardrails.Your future is worth protecting.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #258! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Stop Mowing Your Neighbour's Grass: The Power of Emotional Ownership🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #257! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: The Unseen Battle: Winning the Spiritual War Against PornThe fight against porn isn't just about willpower or habit loops; it’s a battle for your soul. If you’re treating the physical symptoms but ignoring the spiritual roots, you’re only fighting half the war.Key TakeawaysThe Three-Layer Battle: Recovery must address the Physiological (brain wiring/dopamine), the Emotional (trauma/shame), and the Spiritual (authority/agreement).The Power of Agreement: The enemy cannot "own" a believer, but he gains a foothold when we agree with lies like "I’ll never change" or "I need this to cope."Legal Rights & Footholds: Unforgiveness, secret vows, and past trauma can create spiritual "legal ground" for the enemy to harass and torment you.Authority Over Willpower: We don't fight for victory; we fight from the victory Jesus already won. Freedom starts by submitting to God so we can effectively resist the devil.Scripture Highlight"The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free." — Luke 4:18Action Items: Reclaiming Your GroundAudit Your Agreements: Identify one lie you’ve been believing (e.g., "I'm too far gone") and explicitly renounce it out loud in Jesus' name.The Forgiveness Inventory: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal if there is anyone you are holding a debt against. Choose to forgive to close that spiritual door.Break the Secrecy: Darkness thrives in the dark. Tell one trusted person or mentor about your struggle this week to bring it into the light.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #256! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Trusted vs. Trustworthy: The Difference That Brings Real FreedomWhat’s the real difference between being trusted and being trustworthy—and why does it matter so much in recovery?In this episode, we unpack a game-changing distinction that impacts healing after betrayal, freedom from porn, and rebuilding integrity. Through personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-won insight, this conversation challenges the idea that regaining trust is the goal—and instead points us toward inner transformation that leads to lasting freedom.Because freedom isn’t found in being believed… it’s found in being transformed.🔑 Key TakeawaysBeing trusted is external; being trustworthy is internal One is about perception. The other is about character.You can fool people—but you can’t fool God True healing starts when integrity matters even when no one is watching.Behavior management isn’t transformation Surface-level change may restore trust temporarily, but it won’t bring freedom.Being trusted can actually block deeper healing When trust is restored, we often stop confessing, stop going deeper, and stop inviting accountability.Trustworthiness leads to freedom, integrity, and wholeness When the heart changes, trust eventually follows—slowly, safely, and authentically.📖 Scriptural Highlight“Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” —1 Samuel 16:7“Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight.” —Hebrews 4:13God isn’t after image management—He’s after heart transformation.🛠️ Action StepsAsk the deeper question: Not “What do I need to do so others feel safe?” But “Who do I need to become so I am safe?”Practice integrity in hidden moments Pay attention to what you do when there are no consequences.Invite light, not performance Confess honestly, pursue healing, and bring trusted, safe people into your story.Shift the goal Stop chasing trust. Start becoming trustworthy.📣 Share This EpisodeKnow someone rebuilding trust, walking through recovery, or stuck in a cycle of performance? Share this episode—it might be the mindset shift that unlocks real freedom.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #255! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Karissa's Story (Part 2): From Confession to CourageIn Part 2 of this powerful conversation, we return to Karissa’s story and step deeper into the healing side of freedom. Karissa shares how shame and isolation kept her stuck, how confession broke addiction’s grip, and why community, support, and a renewed relationship with God were essential to staying free. This episode offers hope—especially for women who feel alone in their struggle—and paints a clear picture of what life can look like on the other side of secrecy and shame.This is a raw, grace-filled conversation about courage, identity, forgiveness (including forgiving yourself), and discovering that God is not distant in our struggles—He’s deeply present.🔑 Key TakeawaysConfession is the starting line, not the finish line. Freedom grows when confession is paired with ongoing support and community.Shame thrives in secrecy—but loses its power when brought into the light.True healing goes beneath behavior to address identity, unmet desires, and underlying wounds.Forgiving yourself is often a missing piece of freedom. God’s grace must be received personally, not just intellectually.Intimacy with God changes desires. As love for Him grows, old patterns lose their appeal.Freedom in one area often unlocks freedom in others. Healing leads to courage, growth, and forward movement in life.📖 Scriptural Highlight“Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” — 2 Corinthians 3:17This verse marked a turning point for Karissa, reminding us that freedom isn’t achieved through willpower—but through God’s Spirit at work in us.🛠️ Action ItemsBreak the silence: Share your struggle with one safe, trusted person—even if you’re still in it.Seek support: Consider a godly counselor, coach, or recovery group to walk alongside you.Spend intentional time with God: Read Scripture, pray honestly, and practice listening—especially around identity and forgiveness.Write down what you need to forgive yourself for and surrender it to God in prayer.Take the next courageous step: Don’t wait to feel “ready.” God meets us as we move forward.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast!💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #254! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Karissa's Story: Breaking the Silence Porn, masturbation, and erotica are often labeled as “men’s issues”—but what happens when a woman bravely breaks the silence?In this powerful and honest conversation, Braden and Kristen welcome Karissa, who shares her deeply personal journey of struggling with masturbation and erotica from a very young age, all while growing up in a Christian environment. What unfolds is a story of secrecy, shame, isolation—and ultimately, hope.This episode explores how addiction thrives in silence, how shame distorts God’s voice, and why courage and confession are often the first steps toward true freedom. Whether you’re male or female, single or married, Karissa’s story offers insight, compassion, and a reminder that you are not alone.⚠️ This is Part 1 of a two-part series. Don’t miss next week as Karissa shares the practical steps and resources that helped her walk into healing and lasting freedom.🔑 Key TakeawaysPorn, masturbation, and erotica are not gender-specific struggles—women often suffer in silence.Shame keeps people stuck by convincing them something is “wrong” with who they are, not just what they do.Freedom often begins before behavior changes, when secrecy is broken and the struggle is brought into the light.Triggers are rarely just visual—they are often connected to loneliness, stress, unmet desires, or emotional pain.Choosing the right safe person to share with can dismantle years of shame in a single moment of courage.📖 Scriptural Highlight“But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus… purifies us from all sin.” — 1 John 1:7Bringing hidden struggles into the light doesn’t bring condemnation—it creates space for healing, community, and grace.🛠️ Action ItemsReflect: Ask yourself, “Where am I staying silent out of fear or shame?”Identify a Safe Person: Choose one trusted, grace-filled individual you could talk to if you were ready.Name the Cycle: Pay attention to emotional triggers (loneliness, boredom, stress) that often come before temptation.Stay Curious, Not Condemning: Replace self-judgment with curiosity—“What am I really needing right now?”Commit to Part 2: Make a plan now to listen to next week’s episode for practical tools and next steps toward freedom.🎧 Subscribe to the Pure Victory Podcast so you don’t miss Part 2 of Karissa’s story. 💙 Want to help others find freedom? Visit PureVictoryPodcast.com to support the mission.You are not alone—and freedom is possible.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #253! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: How To Find The Right Group For Healing!New year, new habits—but what about the right community? In this episode, we tackle one of the most common (and most important) questions in the healing journey: How do I find the right group? Not all groups lead to freedom—and some can actually keep you stuck. We unpack what makes a group healthy, Christ-centered, and truly transformative, and why God uses community as a primary tool for healing and lasting freedom.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why the wrong group can slow or sabotage your healingHow surface-level accountability trains people to hide instead of healWhat separates a behavior-focused group from a Christ-centered, healing-focused oneThe essential elements every healthy recovery group needsWhy freedom is relational—and never meant to be pursued aloneKey Takeaways:Not all support is healthy support. Community can shape us for better or worse.A good group focuses on identity, healing, and formation, not just stopping behavior.Healthy groups prioritize safety, confidentiality, and honesty.Real accountability goes beyond “Did you look?” and asks, “How are you healing?”God designed healing to happen in authentic, committed, Christ-centered community.Scriptural Highlight:“The companion of fools suffers harm, but whoever walks with the wise becomes wise.” — Proverbs 13:20“Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” — James 5:16Healing doesn’t happen in isolation—and it doesn’t happen in unhealthy community.Action Items:Evaluate your current group: Is it helping you heal—or just cope?Ask better questions: Are you growing in honesty, self-awareness, and intimacy with God?Look for leadership: Is the group led by someone who has walked the road of healing?Don’t settle: If you’re searching for a group, prioritize safety, Christ-centered teaching, and real transformation.Commit to community: Healing takes time, consistency, and intentional connection.Thanks for listening! If this episode encouraged you, hit subscribe and share it with someone who needs clarity and hope today. Support the mission at PureVictoryPodcast.com—your generosity helps others find the freedom they’re longing for.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #252! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Boundary Markers: Why They Matter For Your FreedomIn this episode, we’re kicking off the new year by unpacking a deeply biblical and practical concept: boundary markers. Ancient Israelites used physical boundary stones to define their identity, inheritance, and responsibility. Today, you and I may not be placing stones in a field—but we are placing markers in our spiritual, emotional, and healing journey.When it comes to breaking free from porn, addiction, or destructive patterns, boundary markers aren’t restrictive—they’re protective. They anchor us when life gets messy and keep us moving toward who God created us to be.We explore: • What boundary markers are • Why we lose our way without them • How to set identity, behavioral, relational, and rhythm markers • A powerful biblical example from the life of Daniel • How these boundaries anchor your freedom long before temptation hitsScripture HighlightProverbs 22:28 – “Do not move an ancient boundary stone set up by your ancestors.” A reminder that boundaries are part of God’s design for identity, order, and blessing.Daniel 1:8 – “Daniel resolved not to defile himself…” Before the pressure came, Daniel already knew who he was—and who he wasn’t.Key TakeawaysBoundary markers aren’t limitations—they’re declarations of identity, calling, and responsibility.When boundaries fade, identity fades. Compromise doesn’t happen in leaps—it happens stone by stone.Boundaries anchor you to Jesus, not your feelings or impulses.Clarity beats chaos. Without boundary markers, we drift into behaviors we never intended.Freedom requires intention. We don’t drift into purity—we walk into it with purpose.Practical Boundary Markers to ConsiderIdentity MarkersI am a son/daughter of God.My mind and body belong to Jesus.I choose purity, not secrecy.Behavior MarkersI won’t consume anything that awakens lust in me.I won’t be alone with devices that trigger me.I choose honesty over hiding.Relational MarkersI stay connected to my accountability group.I invest intentionally in healthy relationships.Rhythm MarkersBible before phone.I prioritize sleep and rest.I make space for soul care.Action StepsIdentify 3–5 boundary markers you need in this season—identity, behavior, relational, or rhythm.Share them with a trusted friend, mentor, or pastor for support and accountability.Write them down somewhere visible (home screen, journal, bathroom mirror).Revisit them weekly and ask: Am I drifting? Do I need to reset a marker?Pray and invite God to reclaim any territory where boundaries have been moved.Thanks for listening! If this episode encouraged you, hit subscribe and share it with someone who needs clarity and hope today. Support the mission at PureVictoryPodcast.com—your generosity helps others find the freedom they’re longing for.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #251! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast:The 20-Minute Window: Outlasting Temptation In this episode, we break down the science and hope behind the “20-minute window” of temptation—why urges to look at porn feel overwhelming, why they don’t last forever, and how knowing this can change the battle entirely. Temptation comes like a wave, but every wave has an end. With the right plan, you can outlast it, redirect your mind and body, and build real self-control over time. We explore practical tools, a powerful fire-escape-plan approach, and a biblical example from Joseph in Genesis 39 to help you prepare before the wave hits.Key TakeawaysTemptation has a lifespan—typically 10–30 minutes where the craving peaks and then naturally falls.You’re not fighting an endless battle; you’re fighting a timed one.Avoiding temptation isn’t realistic, but planning for it is powerful.A “fire escape plan” prevents panic and gives you a pre-decided path when your brain is flooded.Self-control grows when you move through discomfort, not when you avoid feeling it.Each 20-minute victory rewires the brain and strengthens long-term freedom.Scriptural Highlight1 Corinthians 10:13 — “God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear… but when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”This verse reminds us that God provides a way to endure temptation—not erase it instantly—much like riding out a wave.Action ItemsBuild a 20-Minute Plan: Decide now, not later, what you’ll do when temptation hits.Choose 2–3 Redirects: e.g. deep breathing, stepping outside, reading a prepared verse card, calling accountability, worship music, physical movement, or leaving the room.Prepare Scripture: Write out a verse that’s your “battle cry” and keep it accessible.Tell Someone: Share your plan with an accountability partner.Practice When Calm: Rehearse your fire-escape steps before the next wave hits.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #250! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: The Sneaky Swap: Healthy Habits or Hidden Self-Medication?In today’s episode, Braden unpacks one of the most overlooked challenges that shows up after you start winning against porn: filling the void. When old destructive patterns fall away, something always rushes in to take their place—sometimes healthy, sometimes not.This episode digs into the subtle line between true healing and new forms of escape, and how to identify self-medicating behaviors even when they come disguised as “good” things.You’ll hear a powerful comparison of Saul vs. David in how they handled emotional pressure—one numbed, the other processed—and what their stories teach us about walking toward real freedom.Key TakeawaysVictory creates a void—and that void will get filled with something.Not all “healthy” activities remain healthy when they become a way to avoid your pain.Self-medication is sneaky because it often looks admirable on the surface.Porn is not the root problem—it’s the painkiller. Healing requires dealing with what’s underneath.You either numb like Saul or process like David. One path destroys; the other heals.God doesn’t shame your mess—He invites you into deeper honesty and freedom.Scripture Highlight1 Samuel 16 — David plays the harp for Saul. Saul seeks soothing and distraction from his distress, but avoids facing the real issues of his heart. David, on the other hand, models the opposite through the Psalms—bringing fear, pain, and confusion honestly before God. One avoided. One processed. Only one healed.Questions to Help You Discern Self-MedicationAm I using this activity to avoid something hard?Would removing it make me anxious or irritable?Is this pulling me away from meaningful connection?Is this distracting me from dealing with the lack porn used to fill?Does this draw me toward Jesus or just away from discomfort?Action ItemsSlow down this week. Take 10 minutes of stillness and ask God, “What am I avoiding? What am I filling the void with?”Pick one activity that might be turning into escape and set a small boundary around it.Bring one uncomfortable emotion to God in prayer, journaling, or conversation—practice David-style processing.Share this episode with someone on a similar journey and start a conversation about healthy vs. unhealthy coping.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #249! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Back Up the Bus- Finding Freedom Before the CrashMost of us only think about the moment we fall into porn—the crash, the shame, the aftershock. But what if victory isn’t found in the moment of temptation… but two steps before it? In this episode, we unpack the power of “backing up the bus”—learning to slow down, name what’s really going on inside, and invite God into the places we usually ignore. Awareness isn’t just helpful… it’s transformative.Join us as we explore why temptation rarely begins at the screen, how to spot your internal warning signs, and how Jesus meets us long before the crash.Key TakeawaysTemptation is usually the end of the chain, not the beginning. By the time you’re at the screen, the “bus” has already been rolling for a while.Awareness is curative. When you learn to name your stress, loneliness, exhaustion, or overwhelm, you can short-circuit the cycle before it escalates.Most porn use is rooted in emotion. Loneliness, rejection, boredom, pain, anxiety, or just running on fumes—these are often the real triggers.You can’t surrender what you won’t name. Healing begins with honest reflection—journaling, slowing down, and inviting Jesus into the pre-temptation moments.Community is essential. We can’t see our own blind spots; we need mentors, brothers and sisters in Christ, structure, and support.Freedom grows when we stop focusing only on the “crash” and start observing the road leading up to it.Scripture HighlightGenesis 4:6–7 Then the Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? … Sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.”God lovingly warns Cain before the devastation—not at the moment of the act. This is the call to “back up the bus”: pause, notice, name what’s happening inside, and choose a different road.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #248! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Neural Pathways- Why Porn Feels Powerful- and Why Freedom Is Still Possible!In today’s episode, Braden breaks down how God designed your brain, how porn hijacks it, and why understanding this can be a total game-changer in your freedom journey. You’ll learn what neural pathways actually are, how they get formed, and—best part—how they can be rewired for healing.Braden also shares part of his own story, the moment hope entered the battle, and a powerful biblical example that shows God isn’t just interested in freeing your spirit—He’s renewing your mind and restoring your whole self.This episode is practical, hope-filled, and packed with truth: 👉 You’re not broken. 👉 You’re not spiritually defective. 👉 And you’re definitely not stuck.Your brain can change. Your spirit can be renewed. And God walks beside you every step.💡 Key TakeawaysNeural pathways are real. Porn isn’t “just a bad habit”—it literally rewires the brain.You’re not weak or defective. Your brain is doing what it was designed to do… just with the wrong input.The same system that builds addiction can build freedom. Repetition creates new pathways toward healing, connection, and purity.Healing requires integration. Not just prayer. Not just willpower. Not just brain science. Freedom comes through the mind, body, and spirit together.Biblical freedom is a journey. Like Israel leaving Egypt, God frees us step by step—not by shaming us, but by walking with us.There is real hope. Neuroplasticity + Scripture = your brain can be renewed, and your life can be restored.📖 Scripture Highlight“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2 Science calls it neuroplasticity. Scripture called it long before. God wired your brain for transformation.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Porn Recovery ResourcesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code FLCANADA for 30 days freePure Freedom Community for men 18+Book a FREE call (men)Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenPodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #247! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Toxic People- The Company You Keep Can Determine Your Path!In this episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, Braden explores a truth we often overlook when it comes to living in freedom — the company we keep shapes the direction of our lives.When we’re trying to build healthy patterns and overcome addiction, the voices that influence us have incredible power. Some people lift us higher, while others — often without even realizing it — hold us back like crabs in a bucket, pulling us down the moment we start to climb out.Braden unpacks what it means to recognize toxic relationships, set healthy boundaries, and choose environments that nurture spiritual growth. Through biblical wisdom, real-life examples, and a story of King Ahab and Jezebel from 1 Kings 21, he reveals how destructive influence can quietly derail freedom — and how choosing godly voices can restore it.Key Points:Freedom grows in the right environment. You can want freedom, but it won’t grow if your environment doesn’t support it. Toxic relationships can keep you stuck in cycles of shame and unhealthy behavior.Toxic people aren’t always “bad” people. Often, they act out of insecurity or fear of being left behind. But their influence can still drag you down if you don’t set boundaries.The “crabs in a bucket” principle. When one crab tries to climb out, the others pull it back down — and no one escapes. Toxic relationships work the same way: resistance rises when you start to change.Boundaries protect your heart. You can love people and still limit their access to your heart. Boundaries aren’t rejection — they’re protection.Scriptural insight: King Ahab & Jezebel (1 Kings 21). Ahab’s toxic relationship with Jezebel clouded his judgment and led him into jealousy, deceit, and even murder. Toxic influence always distorts truth and normalizes compromise.Healthy people sharpen you. “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). Real friends challenge you to grow; they call out the best in you — not the worst.Practical Takeaways:Take inventory of your circle. Who are the people speaking into your life? Do they help you grow toward freedom, or do they pull you back into bondage?Discern between challenge and toxicity. Not everyone who confronts you is negative. True friends speak truth in love — even when it’s hard to hear.Set wise boundaries. Ask God for discernment in how to love difficult people without letting them influence your spiritual health.Choose voices that lift you higher. Surround yourself with people who live in victory, who speak faith and freedom, and who believe in your growth.Follow Jesus’ example. Even Jesus set boundaries with people who tried to undermine His mission. He stayed close to those hungry for truth and transformation.Scripture Highlight:📖 “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” — Proverbs 27:17 📖 “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23Challenge for the Week:This week, take stock of the voices in your life. Ask yourself:Who helps me grow closer to Jesus?Who pulls me back into old patterns? Pray for wisdom to set healthy boundaries and courage to pursue life-giving community. Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? 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Welcome to episode #246! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: “When We Rage Against God — Taking Ownership of Our Choices”Ever been frustrated with God? You wouldn’t be the first.Maybe you’ve prayed, “God, if You really loved me, why am I still struggling?” or “Why did You let this happen?” When life doesn’t go our way, it’s easy to shift the blame upward instead of looking inward.In this episode, Braden unpacks Proverbs 19:3 — “A person’s own folly leads to their ruin, yet their heart rages against the Lord” — and explores why we sometimes get angry at the very God who’s trying to heal us.Through the story of Jonah, Braden reveals how ownership—not blame—is the starting point for transformation. You’ll discover how humility, confession, and taking responsibility open the door to genuine freedom and restored connection with God.🔑 Key Points:We all rage at God at times. It may not be loud or obvious, but in frustration we often blame Him when life or healing doesn’t go as we hoped.Proverbs 19:3 hits home: our own folly leads to trouble, yet our hearts rage against God.God’s love doesn’t always shield us from consequences—He uses them to grow and refine us.Jonah’s story shows what happens when pride blinds us to God’s mercy—we resist His goodness because we want things our way.Blame disempowers, ownership empowers. The moment we stop shifting blame, we regain spiritual strength.Ownership isn’t shame—it’s humility. Confession isn’t about beating yourself up; it’s about letting God in.1 John 1:9 reminds us that confession leads to cleansing, and cleansing leads to freedom.🧭 Practical Steps:Here’s how to move from frustration to freedom:Pause and reflect. When things go wrong, ask, “Am I blaming God or taking ownership?”Admit your part. Own your choices without shame—this is where healing begins.Reconnect with God. Don’t pull away in anger. Invite Him into your mess and ask Him to teach you.Replace blame with prayer. Instead of “God, why did You let this happen?” pray, “God, what do You want to show me through this?”Remember grace. God doesn’t wait for you to clean up before forgiving—He meets you in your mess.📖 Scripture Highlights:Proverbs 19:3 — “A person’s own folly leads to their ruin, yet their heart rages against the Lord.”Jonah 4:2 — Jonah’s anger reveals how pride blinds us to God’s mercy.1 John 1:9 — “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”💬 Quote of the Episode:“The moment we shift blame, we lose power. Ownership is where freedom begins.”Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #245! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: What Appetites Are You Creating?What are you feeding your heart and mind every day? Because whatever you feed — grows.In this episode, Braden unpacks how our spiritual and emotional appetites are formed not by accident, but by what we consistently take in. From social media habits to what we watch or listen to, our daily choices quietly shape what we crave — for better or worse.🔑 Key Points:Our appetites are learned. Just like we develop a taste for coffee or sugar, we also develop cravings for what we continually consume spiritually and emotionally.Temptation starts with attention. (James 1:14) Before sin grows, something first catches our eye or mind — what we focus on shapes what we desire.Not everything that looks good is good. Eve’s story shows how subtle, attractive things can redirect our appetites away from God.Appetites can change. When you start “feeding” yourself with God’s Word, prayer, and truth, unhealthy cravings lose their pull.Freedom isn’t about willpower. It’s not saying, “I won’t crave that anymore,” but choosing to replace it with something better.What you feed grows. What you starve dies. That’s as true spiritually as it is physically.🧭 Practical Steps:Want to reshape your appetites this week? Try this:Take stock. Ask, “What am I feeding my heart and mind daily?” Think about your media, conversations, and routines.Discern the direction. Are those things drawing you closer to God or feeding unhealthy appetites like comparison, lust, or discontentment?Make one swap. Replace one unhealthy input with something nourishing — a worship playlist, a devotional, or quiet time in Scripture.Be patient. Just like cutting sugar, your cravings will change over time. Stay consistent.Pray for awareness. Ask God to reveal the subtle things that shape your heart. Remember: awareness is curative.🌿 Scripture Highlights:James 1:14 — “Each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own desires and enticed.”Genesis 3:6 — “When the woman saw that the fruit… was pleasing to the eye…”Psalm 34:8 — “Taste and see that the Lord is good.”🍽️ Quote of the Episode:“Freedom doesn’t come from saying ‘I won’t crave that anymore.’ It comes from feeding yourself something better — and letting your appetites change.” Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #244! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast:  Vows vs. Intentionality — Why ‘I’ll Never Do That Again’ Doesn’t Work” Have you ever said, “I’ll never do that again”—only to find yourself doing the exact same thing later? Whether it’s porn, anger, or hurtful words, we’ve all made vows in moments of guilt or frustration. But what if those vows are actually working against lasting change?In this episode, Braden dives into the real difference between making vows and living intentionally—and why one keeps you stuck while the other leads to freedom. Using the story of Peter’s denial and restoration, we see how Jesus isn’t asking for dramatic promises—He’s inviting us into daily, steady growth.You’ll learn how to move from emotional reactions to practical, Spirit-led steps that build a life of freedom and integrity.🔑 Key Points:Vows come from reaction, not reflection. They’re emotional declarations often made in guilt, shame, or frustration.Jesus cautioned against impulsive vows (Matthew 5:37). He calls us to simple, faithful obedience instead.Peter’s story shows that sincerity isn’t enough—without intentional growth, vows crumble. But Jesus restores, not shames.Intentionality is proactive, not reactive. It’s slow, steady, and rooted in daily habits of surrender and faithfulness.Worldly sorrow vs. godly sorrow (2 Corinthians 7:10): one leads to panic and self-condemnation, the other to genuine repentance and life change.Freedom isn’t found in “never again.” It’s found in “today, I’ll take one step closer to Jesus.”🧭 Practical Steps:Want to start walking intentionally? Try this:Get accountable. Install accountability software or invite a trusted friend into your journey.Join a healing group. Don’t walk alone—freedom grows in community.Be honest. Share your real struggles with someone safe.Build rhythms. Spend time daily in prayer and Scripture; fill your mind with truth, not triggers.Focus on today. Instead of swearing off forever, ask, “What’s one intentional step I can take right now?”Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #243! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Are You Too Noisy? Finding God in the QuietIn this episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, Braden takes on something that surrounds all of us but often goes unnoticed — noise. Not just the sounds around us, but the mental clutter, constant scrolling, and nonstop stimulation that fills our lives.What if the reason we feel disconnected — from God, from others, even from ourselves — is because life has simply become too loud?Braden explores how both external and internal noise can block our ability to hear God’s voice and experience peace. Using Elijah’s encounter with God in 1 Kings 19, we see that God often doesn’t speak in the earthquake, fire, or wind — but in the gentle whisper.Through personal reflection and practical insight, this episode challenges listeners to intentionally make space for stillness — to stop numbing pain with distraction and instead invite God into the silence, where true healing begins.Key Points:Noise isn’t just sound — it’s soul clutter. From constant scrolling to mental chatter, our lives are filled with distractions that drown out God’s voice.Silence can feel uncomfortable — but it’s sacred. Stillness forces us to face reality, our thoughts, fears, and pain. But it’s also where transformation begins.Noise delays healing. We often use noise to avoid facing what’s really going on. It numbs us instead of nourishing us.Elijah’s story reminds us where God speaks. In 1 Kings 19, Elijah didn’t meet God in the wind, earthquake, or fire — but in the gentle whisper. God isn’t silent; He’s just often quieter than our world.Quiet makes room for God’s whisper. When we remove distraction, we make space for peace, freedom, and joy. Silence isn’t empty — it’s full of God’s presence.Practical Takeaways:Create intentional quiet. Turn off notifications. Go for a walk without music. Sit with God for 10 minutes a day in stillness.When uncomfortable thoughts surface, don’t run. Invite God into them. Ask, “Lord, what are You showing me here?”Stop numbing, start listening. If you’re battling shame, addiction, or distraction — meet God in the quiet, not the chaos.Remember: God isn’t shouting. He’s whispering grace, love, and truth — if we’ll just pause long enough to listen.Scripture Highlight:📖 “And after the fire came a gentle whisper… When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave.” — 1 Kings 19:12-13Challenge for the Week:This week, take 10 minutes a day to turn off every noise — no phone, no podcast, no music — and sit in silence with God. Ask Him to speak, and just listen.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #242! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Authenticity: The Freedom of Being RealAuthenticity sounds simple — but it can feel terrifying. Especially when it comes to sharing the parts of our story we’d rather keep hidden: shame, addiction, porn struggles, past mistakes. What will people think? Will they still respect us?In this episode, Braden unpacks why authenticity is not only vital for healing, but a spiritual weapon against shame. He shares a powerful personal story of coming clean about his past drug use — a step that led to deeper healing, restored relationships, and freedom he didn’t know he needed.Through biblical truth and relatable experience, Braden reminds us that God can use the very parts of our story we’re afraid to share — and that our vulnerability may be the key that unlocks someone else’s freedom.💡 Key Takeaways:Authenticity isn’t oversharing. It’s being real, Spirit-led, and honest in ways that bring light to what shame wants to keep hidden.Shame thrives in silence. But when you bring your story into the open, the enemy loses power.Confession leads to healing. James 5:16 says, “Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” Healing happens in community.When you’re authentic, you create safe space for others to be authentic too.Your past doesn’t disqualify you — it’s part of your testimony.Lies that hold us back — “If people knew me, they wouldn’t love me” or “I can fix myself without telling anyone” — only protect pride, not your heart.God doesn’t need perfection. He asks for honesty, and He meets you in the discomfort with grace, peace, and freedom.📖 Scripture Highlight:“Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” — James 5:16🙌 Practical Steps:Ask God to show you where He’s inviting you to be more authentic.Name your fears. What’s stopping you from sharing your story? Fear of judgment, rejection, or pride? Bring it before Him.Take a step of faith. Choose one trusted person — a friend, pastor, mentor, or small group leader — and share honestly. You don’t need to tell everyone everything, but someone needs to know.Expect discomfort. True authenticity can feel scary — but it’s in that space that God brings His deepest healing.❤️ Final Encouragement:Your story — even the messy parts — is not a mistake. It’s a testimony in progress. When you choose honesty over hiding, God redeems what shame tried to bury. Remember: your story might be the key that unlocks someone else’s freedom.So this week, ask yourself: ➡️ Who do I need to open up to? ➡️ What part of my story is God nudging me to share?Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Start today — and let God use your authenticity to bring light, healing, and hope.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #241! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Being Bold in a Crazy World!In a world that feels louder, messier, and more chaotic than ever, it’s easy to play it safe — to keep our heads down and hope life just evens out. But what if God is calling you to be bold right where you are? In this episode, Braden challenges you to ask, “Where is God calling me to be bold?” and reminds you that boldness isn’t about perfection — it’s about obedience, trust, and faith in God’s presence and power.Braden shares encouragement from Joshua 1:9 and the story of Moses at the burning bush, unpacking what it looks like to step out in faith even when you feel unqualified or stuck in shame. Maybe you’ve battled addiction, pornography, or self-doubt — and you’ve believed the lie that you need to “get it together” before God can use you. This episode reminds you: God doesn’t wait for your perfection. He meets you in your mess.💡 Key Takeaways:God’s call to boldness often comes in the middle of your mess, not after you’ve cleaned it up.Joshua 1:9 reminds us that we can be strong and courageous because God is with us wherever we go.Like Moses, we often respond to God with excuses — “I’m not good enough,” “I’m not ready,” or “I’ve messed up too much.” But God’s answer is always, “I will be with you.”Your past doesn’t disqualify you; it prepares you. God redeems every part of your story.Naming your stumbling blocks — fear, shame, addiction, inadequacy — is the first step to bringing them before God and walking in freedom.Stepping out in boldness can unlock freedom not only for you but for others watching your story unfold.🙌 Practical Challenge:Take a moment to pray and ask: “God, where are You calling me to be bold right now?”Write down what holds you back — name your fear, shame, or inadequacy — and surrender it to Him.Take one small step of faith this week: share your story, start a conversation, or step into a leadership opportunity you’ve been avoiding.Remember: God doesn’t need perfection — just your yes.📖 Scripture Highlight:“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” — Joshua 1:9❤️ Final Encouragement:Don’t wait for the perfect moment — it may never come. God’s bold call always comes with His bold provision. Trust that He’ll give you what you need, when you need it. The world doesn’t need perfect people — it needs bold followers of Jesus.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #240! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: I'm Back!!! A Podcast Update!In this episode, Braden gives an update on his time off, and some news about the format and direction of the podcast moving into a new season!!!Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #239! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Is There Ever A "Good" Time To Confess?When it comes to breaking free from porn and sexual sin, one of the hardest steps is confession. We all want the “perfect” time—the moment when it won’t hurt as much, when life is calmer, when it won’t cost us as dearly. But does that time ever really come?In this episode,  Braden wrestles with the question: Is there a good time to confess? Drawing from his own story and biblical truth, he shares how fear, shame, and rationalization keep us waiting for a “better” moment that never arrives. Instead, the longer we hide, the deeper sin takes root, isolating us from God, others, and even ourselves.You’ll hear:Why waiting for the “right time” is a lie that keeps us stuck.What the Bible says about confession and healing (Proverbs 28:13, James 5:16, 1 John 1:9).The difference between healthy confession and harmful “staggered” confession.How to choose safe, trusted people to open up to.Why confession isn’t just about exposing sin but stepping into God’s mercy and freedom.Confession will never feel convenient—but it is always worth it. Healing, freedom, and intimacy with God and others are on the other side of that hard but courageous step.If you don’t yet have a safe person in your life to confess to, Braden shares resources like Pure Freedom Journey and Pure Desire online groups that can walk with you. You are not alone in this battle.👉 Takeaway: There is no perfect time to confess. The time is now—and God will meet you in it with grace, mercy, and healing.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #238! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Rewiring Bad Messaging Around Sex and SexualityStruggling with harmful beliefs about sex, lust, and freedom? In this episode, Braden gets real about the unhelpful messages we often receive from culture and—even more painfully—from church environments. Key Takeaways: • Arousal Is Not a Sin: God designed our bodies—including sexual arousal. Feeling attracted to someone isn’t shameful; what matters is our response. It’s not about running from the world but learning, with God’s help, to see people the way He does—full of value and dignity. • Lust Is Not Inevitable: The message that “all men lust” or that we’re just animals trapped by desire sells us short. With Christ, we’re called higher—to honor, respect, and truly see the people around us, not objectify them. • Shame Isn’t the Answer: Bad messaging—whether from the “purity culture” or secular world—often leads to shame. But you are not defective because of past actions. In Christ, there is always hope, healing, and a chance to start again.God’s truth sets us free, even when old habits and temptations linger. Freedom is a journey, not a one-time event. Let’s celebrate God’s design, walk in empathy, and ask Him to help us see ourselves and others through His eyes.Thanks for listening! Support the show, subscribe, and share this episode to help others find freedom. Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #237! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Have You Taken Ownership of Your Healing?In this episode, host Braden Hafner, dives deep into a cornerstone of lasting freedom: taking ownership of your healing. This candid conversation unpacks why real change starts when you stop waiting for others to heal you—and step up with intentionality.Highlights & Key Takeaways • Personal Responsibility: Lasting healing from porn and unhealthy habits requires more than just wishing or blaming others. No one can carry your water—you have to participate actively in your recovery, in partnership with the Holy Spirit. • Faith in Action: Jesus said, “Your faith has healed you.” The woman with the issue of blood reached out on her own initiative to touch Jesus’ robe. Her journey reminds us: healing begins with a step of faith, even if the crowd (or your past) looks daunting. • Community Support—Not Substitution: Support groups, accountability partners, and church communities are valuable, but they can’t do the work for you. Use them as support, not as crutches or excuses. • Real Change vs. Surface-Level Management: True healing is about more than just controlling your behavior (white-knuckling it). It’s about getting honest, confessing, and letting God do deep work in your heart through ongoing openness. • Practical Steps: • Examine whether you’re blaming others or waiting passively for change. • Commit, in faith, to taking deliberate steps—big or small—toward wholeness each day, even when it’s hard. • Stay connected with your faith and your community, but remember: you must carry your own responsibility for healing. • Don’t be afraid of the discomfort. Like surgery, healing can feel painful at first, but it leads to freedom on the other side. Scripture Reference: • Philippians 2:12: “Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.” There is a divine partnership between your choices and God’s grace.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #236! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: The Bonfire Effect – Moving From Pain to Purpose: With John RodermondIn this powerful episode, Braden sits down with fellow FamilyLife Canada staff, John Rodermond to unpack the “Bonfire Effect”—a visual and practical way to understand why we often fall back into unhealthy patterns like porn addiction. They explore how pain can motivate short-term change, but lasting freedom comes when we’re drawn toward a God-given purpose.John shares from his experience in ministry and coaching, offering wisdom on identity, motivation, and how to move from surviving to thriving in Christ.✨ Key Takeaways • Pain can push you, but purpose pulls you.
Real change happens when you’re drawn toward something greater, not just running from discomfort. • Addiction is often a symptom, not the root.
Lasting freedom requires healing the deeper wounds—shame, fear, trauma—not just managing behavior. • Your identity in Christ is key.
When you know who you are and why you’re here, your choices begin to align with your God-given purpose. • Don’t do it alone.
Healing happens in community. Invite Jesus and trusted people into your journey. • Live by design, not default.
Define your vision. Ask God what He’s calling you toward and take intentional steps to get there.🙌 Final EncouragementYou were made for more than just avoiding sin—you were made for purpose, impact, and freedom in Christ. Don’t just run from the fire; run toward the future God has for you.🔗 For more episodes and resources, visit www.familylifecanada.com.💬 If this episode encouraged you, please like, share, and subscribe!Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #235! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Who Are You Listening To? The Power of Voices in Your Journey to FreedomIn this episode, Braden dives deep into the influence of the voices and environments we surround ourselves with—especially when it comes to breaking free from pornography, unhealthy habits, and finding lasting relational wellness. Whether you follow Jesus or are simply searching for a healthier, more purposeful life, this conversation will help you reflect on the sources shaping your mindset and choices.Key Takeaways: • Your Environment Shapes You: The spaces and people you choose to be around—like a peaceful jazz concert or a supportive friend—can lift your mindset, deepen your connections, and help you appreciate life’s beauty. • Voices Matter: We are constantly bombarded by advice, opinions, and content—some helpful, some harmful. Who you listen to can either encourage your growth or keep you stuck. “We are shaped by the voices we listen to.” • Wisdom from Proverbs: Ancient wisdom reminds us: “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” The people you allow to speak into your life will influence your direction, for better or worse. • Navigating Advice: Not all advice is created equal. Well-meaning people can sometimes give harmful guidance out of ignorance. Learn to discern what truly helps you move toward freedom and wholeness. • Accountability Done Right: Real accountability isn’t about guilt or shame—it’s about honest support, practical plans, and people who want to see you thrive. Your spouse can support you, but shouldn’t be your sole accountability partner. • Watch Out for Toxic Messages: Beware of voices—online or offline—that normalize destructive habits, promote isolation, or tell you to “just do it on your own.” True healing happens in community, with encouragement and wise counsel. • Hope Is Real: No matter where you are on your journey, there is hope. Surround yourself with voices that speak life, challenge you to grow, and remind you of your value.Action Steps: 1. Identify Your Top Influences: Who or what are the three main voices shaping your thinking right now? Are they helping or hindering your growth? 2. Replace Harmful Voices: If you spot a negative influence, take steps to replace it with a positive one—someone who encourages, challenges, and supports you. 3. Connect with Community: Don’t go it alone. Reach out to a friend, mentor, group, or counselor who can walk with you on your journey.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #234! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Breaking Free on All Fronts – The 3 Areas We Battle PornIn today’s episode, Braden dives deep into a powerful and often overlooked truth: freedom from porn and sexual addiction isn’t just a one-front battle—it’s a three-front war. Drawing straight from Scripture, he unpacks how the flesh, the world, and the enemy all wage war against our freedom and identity in Christ.Too often, we hyper-focus on just one area—whether it’s praying against the enemy, rewiring our brain, or retreating from culture—and miss the full picture of healing God wants for us. But the good news? Jesus equips us to fight on every front.With wisdom, personal experience, and practical application, Braden helps you:Understand the biblical foundation of the three areas of battle.Identify which area you’ve been ignoring (and how to strengthen it).Learn how to pursue true, holistic freedom with Christ at the center.See why healing is more than behavior change—it’s heart transformation.You’re not alone. You’re not without hope. And you’re not fighting blind. Tune in and take the next step toward lasting purity and purpose.👉 Challenge this week: Get outside, explore your city or region, and reflect on where you’ve been focusing your healing efforts. Then, invite God to lead you into all three areas—flesh, world, and enemy—with boldness and grace.📖 “Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” – Galatians 5:16Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #233! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: How Porn Impacts our CultureWelcome to another powerful and eye-opening episode of the Pure Victory Podcast with your host Braden Hafner! Today, Braden dives into the history and rise of porn culture—how it crept into mainstream society, shaped our understanding of sex, and left generations wounded in its wake.But this isn’t just a history lesson. It’s a hope-filled wake-up call.From the disturbing legacy of Alfred Kinsey to the cultural fallout of the sexual revolution, from Playboy to OnlyFans, and from video stores to virtual reality—this episode takes you on a journey through time to reveal just how deeply pornography has shaped our modern world. But more importantly, it reminds us that we are not stuck in this culture—we can be transformed by the renewing power of Jesus Christ.🔑 In This Episode You’ll Learn:How the sexual revolution and media access changed the game on sexual norms.The dangers of early exposure to porn and how it's not a fair fight for today’s youth.How hookup culture and "synthetic" intimacy are leading to real-life disconnection.The lie of empowerment through sexualization—and the truth of your God-given worth.Why spiritual and relational restoration are only possible through Jesus.How God's original design for sex brings healing, connection, and lasting joy.🙌 A Message of Hope: Braden reminds us that awareness is curative, and freedom is possible. God's truth shines brighter than the lies of porn culture. Through connection, community, and the power of the Holy Spirit, we don’t have to follow the current of this world. We can stand firm, be transformed, and walk in true purity and purpose.🔥 Scripture Reflections:“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2 “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:32🙏 You’re Not Alone: If you find yourself trapped in the cycle of porn, shame, or synthetic connection, know this: God sees you, loves you, and calls you to something greater. You were made for real connection—with Him and with others. Don’t walk this path alone.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #232! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: How Porn Impacts our Relationship (Part 2 of Series)In this powerful episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, Braden continues his series on the impact of pornography—this time focusing on how it affects our relationships. While last week explored porn’s effects on the brain, today’s conversation reveals how it dehumanizes others, erodes empathy, and distorts how we view love, sex, and connection.Braden shares how porn creates unrealistic expectations, leading to disconnection in dating and marriage, and ultimately robs us of the ability to see others as God does—with dignity, value, and purpose. He reflects on his own journey and the broader cultural shifts that have normalized porn, even within the church.Yet, this episode is filled with hope and truth. Brad reminds listeners that we are made in the image of God, and no matter our past, there is forgiveness, healing, and freedom in Christ. When we align with God’s design for sex and relationships—rooted in love, commitment, and respect—we can break free from shame and step into deeper, more meaningful connection.🔥 Key Takeaways:Porn fosters selfishness and emotional detachment, especially in close relationships.It creates a false sense of intimacy and trains us to expect unrealistic fulfillment from others.Even within the church, porn use is widespread—but God's grace is greater.Healing begins when we step into the light, embrace community, and rediscover our identity in Christ.🙏 Final Encouragement:You’re not alone. Freedom is possible. With God’s help, your story can change—and your relationships can thrive. Take the first step today.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #231! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: How Porn Impacts the Brain (Part 1 of Series)Episode Summary: In this eye-opening kickoff to a powerful new series, Braden takes us deep into the science of what porn actually does to our brains—and why understanding this is a crucial step toward breaking free.We often hear about the spiritual or moral consequences of porn use, but this episode zooms in on something many people miss: the physiological side—specifically how porn rewires our brains, alters our decision-making, and even dulls our ability to enjoy real-life pleasures like friendships, hobbies, and intimacy.🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Braden’s first experience with porn and the powerful chemical reaction it triggered in his body.How dopamine plays a key role in addiction—and how porn hijacks this God-designed brain chemical.Why porn leaves us chasing more extreme content over time, and how this mirrors drug addiction.How our brain’s “reward system” can get fried, making real life feel dull and disconnected.The link between porn and rising levels of depression, anxiety, and emotional numbness.What happens when our prefrontal cortex (the decision-making part of the brain) shrinks.Why many people feel "stuck" and out of control in their addiction—and how it's not just about willpower.💡 Encouragement & Hope: You’re not broken beyond repair. God designed your brain with something called neuroplasticity—which means it can change and heal. Even though porn may have rewired your brain, recovery is absolutely possible. With awareness, community, behavioral changes, and spiritual support, you can build new neural pathways toward life-giving things.🔧 Practical Takeaways:Start by cutting off easy access to porn—create “friction” to slow down impulsive behavior.Join an accountability group. You’re not meant to walk this road alone.Make space for life-giving habits like prayer, real relationships, and community.Know your triggers and create a game plan for dealing with them in healthy ways.📣 Next Episode Sneak Peek: Next time, Braden will explore how porn reshapes our views on sex and the opposite sex—and how that impacts our relationships, dating life, and culture at large. You won’t want to miss it.🙏 Final Word: This episode isn’t meant to shame—it’s meant to wake us up with compassion and clarity. There is freedom available. You’re not too far gone. With God’s help and the right tools, you can experience lasting change.  Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #230! In this powerful and relevant episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, host Braden Hafner sits down with Eric Vargas, co-founder of the Sabbath Space app, to talk about tech addiction, its deep impact on our lives, and how to reclaim our time, focus, and relationships.Eric shares his personal journey from being unknowingly consumed by screen time to building an intentional solution. He offers real insight into how tech companies design for addiction, how digital distraction affects our faith and families, and why true freedom starts with intentional disconnection. Eric also shares practical strategies—including how Sabbath Space works—to help you cultivate healthy digital habits and experience true rest and presence in your life.Whether you’re trying to fight distraction, reclaim your spiritual life, or find practical ways to unplug, this episode offers tools and encouragement to help you win the battle. Resources Mentioned:Sabbath Space App Website: https://sabbathspace.io Features: Custom modes, physical keychain, digital fasting tools.3-2-1 Sabbath Space Newsletter (Free Weekly Inspiration) Signup includes:3 Things to do2 Things to stop1 Scripture to meditate on Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #229!  In this episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, Braden dives deep into the topic of sexual integrity in a culture that often celebrates the opposite. Drawing from biblical teachings and real-life examples, he explores why sexual integrity matters and how unchecked desires can lead to devastating consequences. Braden discusses the stories of David and Solomon as cautionary tales, highlighting their struggles with compromise and its impact on their lives and relationships. He also shares practical steps for guarding your heart, setting boundaries, and seeking accountability. Whether you’re battling personal struggles or looking to strengthen your relationships, this episode offers encouragement, hope, and actionable wisdom to pursue a life that honors God.Key Takeaways: • The importance of addressing inner desires before they lead to harmful actions. • Biblical examples (David and Solomon) illustrating the progression of unchecked sin. • Practical strategies for guarding your heart, including accountability, boundaries, and community. • Encouragement to seek God’s grace and forgiveness while striving for a life of integrity.“I feel like your podcast is the piece that I was missing to find complete freedom. I have been clean now since the end of July. So thank you very much for your ministry. It is making a big difference in my life.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #228! This week, Braden dives into a listener's request—exploring the addictive world of Cam Girls and OnlyFans!“I feel like your podcast is the piece that I was missing to find complete freedom. I have been clean now since the end of July. So thank you very much for your ministry. It is making a big difference in my life.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #227! This week, Braden continues his discussion of what freedom from porn actually looks like and how understanding this is vital in having true and lasting freedom from porn. “I feel like your podcast is the piece that I was missing to find complete freedom. I have been clean now since the end of July. So thank you very much for your ministry. It is making a big difference in my life.Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #226! This week, Braden discusses the key difference between managing behaviour, and freedom from porn, and why this difference matters! Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #225! This week, Braden and Kristen chat with Jacob Valk, from Into The Light Ministries, about his newest masterclass series entitled "Parenting and Pornography". Resources mentioned in the episode:Into The Light Ministries Parenting and Pornography series trailerTech Safe SeriesHelp Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #224! This week, Braden (and Kristen!) welcomes Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith to discuss how to rebuild safety and trust in a marriage after the discovery of porn use and betrayal!Resources mentioned in the episode:Free Resource to Build ConnectionBook: Building True IntimacyRecovery ProgramRenewing Us RetreatRaabsmith's WebsiteHelp Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #223! This week, Braden talks about starting the new year well, by understanding our purpose! He also discusses how having purpose can be a key in beating a porn addiction! Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #222! This week, Braden sits down with author, speaker, and podcaster Sathiya Sam to explore the responsibility and challenge men face in shaping the world into a better place! Resources mentioned in the episode:Sathiya's websiteThe Last RelapseMan Within PodcastHelp Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #221! This week, Braden and Kristen discuss sexuality and our beliefs surrounding sexuality, with Bryan and Bonnie Pue of the Union Movement!Resources mentioned in the episode:The Union MovementVideo resourcesHelp Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #220! This week, Braden talks about why addiction to arousal and novelty may be the reason why we spend hours watching porn!Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn AddictionAt Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.Why Donate?Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.How You Can Help:One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.Donate TodayThank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected] this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com