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Rock Solid Relationships
by Sara Payne
This is the podcast for women who want to love being married and feel connected to the people that matter most to them. Better relationships make for a better life. Each week you'll learn the tools to improve all of your relationships from master certified relationship coach, Sara Payne.Find more resources at www.sarapayne.com and @sarapaynecoaching on Instagram and Facebook.
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You don't need to have an opinion about everything
Choosing on purpose NOT to have an opinion about everything has brought me so much peace and calm into my life. I hope it does the same for you. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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The better it gets, the better it gets
Believing that the better it gets, the better it gets has affected every area of my life in a positive way. In this week's podcast I encourage you to try it on. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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Emotions are the Engine that Drives Us--Steps to Processing Them
This week we are continuing to talk about emotions and how to process pain. I hope these 5 steps will be a playbook for you as you work through all emotions, big and small. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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When your brain wants be be the victim
If you find that at times it is hard to change your mind, that you maybe even don't want to let go of the idea that life is harder for you than everyone else, this podcast might be just what you need. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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Interview with Robyn Mons about your most important relationship
Robyn is back and today we are talking about the most important relationship--the one you have with your body--and how it affects every other relationship you have. This is a must-listen for anyone who's ever had negative thoughts about their body. Connect with Robyn on Instagram @at_robyns_nest Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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How to not be too Confident
We want to be confident, but not "too" confident, because we definitely don't want to dip into arrogance, conceit, or believing that we are better than others. Listen to this short and sweet episode about a different way to see it, and how maybe there's no such thing as being "too confident." Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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The cost of avoiding uncomfortable conversations
I hear women often who describe themselves as "non-confrontational". They often say that they hate uncomfortable conversations and seek to avoid them. There's a cost to living this way. This week we discuss why it might be MORE uncomfortable to avoid them than it is to confront them. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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Improving your Relationship with Your Body
How do you feel about your body? What are your main beliefs about your body? How do you speak about your body to others? Becoming aware of these beliefs is the first step to choosing them intentionally. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here.
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Trusting the Resilience of Loved Ones
Do you worry about your kids a lot? Do you find yourself up at night, thinking of your sister and all that she is going through? Do you find yourself micromanaging your partner and worrying that they can't handle their load? If so, this podcast will help you and your relationship with them. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Owning your Gifts and your Greatness
Owning your own gifts and your own greatness doesn't show a lack of humility--it actually does the opposite. It frees up your mental load to see the greatness in others and to have compassion for where you and those you love might fall short. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Emotional Frequency
Understanding your emotions is one of the first steps to taking ownership of them. Learning how to trend upward is a skill that will help you and those you love. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Manifesting your Desired Reality
The key to happiness isn't receiving what you desire, it's living as if you already have it. Listen to this week's episode to learn how to manifest your desired reality internally FIRST, so that it has no choice but to come to you externally. This podcast was inspired by the book Outsmarting Reality. You can buy it here. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Re-Release: Knowing when to NOT say something
This is one of the most downloaded episodes on the podcast, so it deserves a re-release! Enjoy learning the art of knowing when to NOT say something. Knowing when to say something and when to listen is a very underrated relationship hack that helps me create and sustain rock solid relationships iwth my children, my partner, and everyone that is important to me. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Practicing the Gentle Art of Blessing
Learn what it means to practice the gentle art of blessing and how it can instantly bring more love and peace into your life, all while dissolving judgment. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Buy The Gentle Art of Blessing here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Set up a chat with Sara here.
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Our greatest source of happiness
Nothing matters more than the relationships in our lives. I know you know this. I want you to know that YOU can have the relationships you desire. They can be even better than you imagine. It is the best investment in your happiness and peace that you will ever make. And it will affect generations. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Set up a chat with Sara here.
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Separating from Group Think
There are beliefs that we as a society simply believe are TRUE, even when they don't help us create what we want. Learn what many of these beliefs are and how to separate yourself from them and choose intentionally who you want to be and what you want to believe. This is a fun one with a great challenge at the end. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Set up a chat with Sara here.
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Creating your Ideal YOU-niverse
Are you living in a universe of lack or abundance? Are you living in a universe of rock solid relationships, or ones that aren't what you hoped they would be? Today's podcast is exactly what you need to create the YOU-niverse you want on purpose. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Buy the book Outsmarting Reality here.
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Creating Fail-proof Unity in Your Relationships
Want more unity in your relationships? Want to create an environment where everyone feels safe to share and to be themselves? This podcast will help you in your marriage and family, on your team at work, and in every other relationship you have, especially those where you are a leader. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Bless 2025/Design 2026
As we begin a new year, this podcast will help you take the time to bless your 2025 and Design your 2026. Grab your journal and get ready to feel so much gratitude for the life you have and the life you are creating. Find Kolette's Class here. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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How do I know if I'm being Divinely Guided?
A friend recently asked me, "How do you know if what you are feeling and thinking comes from God?" It's a question that many of us have asked. I have one simple rule that keeps me in this path of certainty when it comes to God. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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When the Miracle Doesn't Come
What about when you pray for, have faith in, and expect the miracle, and it doesn't come? This podcast will be a balm for you. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Do you have a narcissist in your life?
Learn practical ways to see the people who've been given the label of narcissist so that you can reclaim your power. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Seeing Others in a New Light
Learn practical ways to see your loved ones as their highest selves while at the same time becoming your highest self along the way. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Eros Love, Resentment, and the Soul of Sex: An interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
This week I interview Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We talk about sexual intimacy, eros energy, resentment, and the soul of sex. She is a wealth of wisdom. You won't want to miss this episode. Buy your copy of That They Might Have Joy here. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration from Sara here.
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The Scorekeeper's Trap: How to Recognize it so you don't Fall into it
Keeping score is so easy to do in marriage. But it pits us against our partner, the person and relationship that matters most to us. Learn the pitfalls of keeping score so you can avoid it and put yourself on the same team as your partner. It just takes one committed person to who's willing to ditch the scorecard to change everything. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Resentment, Stillness, and the Quiet Work of Love--Behind the white coat interview with Amanda Baron
I was recently interviewed by Amanda Baron from the podcast, Behind the White Coat. I just had to share it here because it's such a fun interview, jam-packed with relationship wisdom! Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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From Not Enough to Magic: How Gratitude Changes Everything
What if the thing standing between you and feeling like your life is enough isn't what you lack, but what you haven't noticed? In this episode, discover how one simple practice can transform scarcity into abundance in less than 30 days—and why gratitude might be the most powerful tool you're not using. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Living in the Path of Revelation
Each Morning I take the time to connect with Heaven. Here is one way I do it that keeps me living in the path of revelation. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Relationship hack: Knowing when NOT to say something
Knowing when to say something and when to listen is a very underrated relationship hack that helps me create and sustain rock solid relationships iwth my children, my partner, and everyone that is important to me. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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How NOT to struggle even when your child IS
Is your child going through something hard? Do you find that you are struggling because they are struggling? If so, this week's podcast is for you. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Meaningful Friendships
I have coached so many women who want more meaningful friendships in their life but they don't know how to cultivate them. If you, too, want closer friendships, this podcast is for you. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Labels
As human beings we use labels for ourselves and others as a way to simplify life and understand one another. Labels can create awareness. But all too often, they create limitations. Where in your life are you labeling yourself or others in a way that limits you and them? Today we will dive into that so we can remove labels and see one another as we truly are. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Peacemakers Needed
This past week, the prophet of my church passed away. He taught me many things, but the lesson I will remember most is about how to be a peacemaker. He gave a groundbreaking talk on leading out and choosing peace and it has changed my life. Listen to the entire talk here. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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When life feels hard
Today I teach you four steps to take when life feels hard and you can't seem to pull yourself out of it. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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3 simple ways to strengthen your relationship today
Two of the leading voices in relationship wisdom are John and Julie Gottman. They are the founders of the Gottman institute and the subsequent Love Lab. While their research focuses mainly on romantic relationships, I believe their wisdom applies to any relationship. This week, I teach you 3 simple ways to strengthen any relationship--learned from the Gottman's book, "The Love Prescription." Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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If we could go on a walk together (my birthday gift to you)
As I celebrate one more year of life, I have felt very reflective about the lessons I've learned over the past 12 months. There have been many, but self-trust and a deeper trust in God have been the most powerful. If you and I could go on a walk together, this episode is what I would want you to know. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Being on the Same Team with Taylor and Trey Poulter
This week I interview my clients and major success stories, Taylor and Trey Poulter. They are beautiful examples of what it looks like in a real life marriage to be on the same team. They have built a successful travel business together. You can follow them on instagram @tayandtreytravel. Get ready to be inspired. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Write a review here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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When your child comes to you with big emotions
This podcast episode was inspired by a podcast I listened to this week: On Purpose with Jay Shetty. Jay interviews Dr. Becky from Good Inside. I highly recommend the entire episode, not just from a parenting perspective, but from a relationships perspective. You can find the entire episode here. Dr. Becky gives us a prescription for what to say when our kid comes to us with big emotions. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Becoming an Illuminator
Becoming an illuminator is a concept I learned from David Brooks in his book How to know a person. It is a skill that will help you deepen all of your relationships. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Tell Me More About That
The next time you find yourself disagreeing with someone, instead of arguing your case, I encourage you instead to gently and sincerely say, "Tell me more about that..." You don't have to agree. You don't have to pretend. Just listen. Seek to understand. It will change the way you see humanity. It will change your relationships. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Bypassing Grief
Is grief looming over you? Maybe you are preparing to send a child off to college like me, or you've just experienced a loss of some other kind. I see you. This podcast is for you and those you love who are experiencing grief of any kind. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Book a chat with me here.
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Letting Others Voluntarily Evolve
Allowing others to voluntarily evolve means that we don't need them to change so that we can have the relationship we want with them. Allowing others to voluntarily evolve is part of seeing them as their highest self, one of the 5 pillars of rock solid relationships. It feels great to be in a relationships with someone who allows you to evolve at your own pace. And a secret? It feels great to let go and ALLOW OTHERS TO EVOLVE at their own pace. This podcast was inspired by the book by David Brooks, How To Know a Person. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Girl Drama
If you struggle to trust other women, or find that your daughters get sucked into a lot of girl drama, or if that one sister-in-law just ruins every family reunion for you, this podcast will help. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Executive Time Each Week
Executive time is an hour each week where you work ON your life instead of being IN your life. Listen in for how to do just that to create the life and relationships you want. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Target Fixation and Your Relationships
Today's podcast was inspired by this BYU speech. Are you focused on the right target? How do you know if you're off track, and how do you set your sights on the right target? These are the questions we are answering today. Buy your copy of It Just Takes One on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Intro to It Just Takes One: How to Create Rock-Solid Relationships with all the Most Important People in Your Life
Listen to the introduction to my new book, It Just Takes One... Buy your copy on Amazon here. Sign up for weekly inspiration here.
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Questions to Journal on Daily
Starting my day with quiet time where I can get clear about what I want to focus on makes a huge difference. In this episode I share a few questions that I journal on each day. I hope you find some of these questions help to guide your day as well. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Book a call with me here.
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When You Aren't on the Same Page as Your Partner
Do you and your partner disagree on fundamental things in your marriage like finances or how to raise the kids? Is it creating a wedge in your marriage? If so, this episode is for you. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Book a call with me here.
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When Your Children Fight
Are you exhausted by how much your children fight? No matter how old they are, this podcast is meant to help you navigate when your kids aren't getting along. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Book a call with me here.
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Signs that you're on the same team as your partner
So how do you know if you're on the same team or if you're keeping score? This week's episode will help you know the difference so you can work as a team with those you love most. Sign up for weekly inspiration here. Book a call with me here.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
This is the podcast for women who want to love being married and feel connected to the people that matter most to them. Better relationships make for a better life. Each week you'll learn the tools to improve all of your relationships from master certified relationship coach, Sara Payne.Find more resources at www.sarapayne.com and @sarapaynecoaching on Instagram and Facebook.
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