PODCAST · health
The Fit Without Obsession Podcast
by Gena Taylor
If you're a woman who looks like she has it together but feels exhausted by food thoughts, body shame, or the pressure to be perfect... this podcast is your safe space.I'm Gena Taylor, a fitness and nutrition coach who helps women find relief from food obsession and rebuild trust with their bodies while getting strong in a way that doesn't cost them their peace.Each week, we talk about what actually helps when you're stuck in cycles of control, guilt, and all-or-nothing thinking, including fear of weight gain, disordered eating patterns, perfectionism, and how to approach fitness without slipping back into obsession.This is where strength meets healing. Where self-trust gets rebuilt. And where food and fitness stop running your life.Follow along so you don't miss an episode. Your relationship with food, your body, and yourself can change.Connect With Gena:Instagram: <a href="http
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Healing Gets Harder As You Go… Here’s How to Keep Going
You thought it would get easier by now…You’ve made progress. You’re not where you used to be. But somehow, it feels harder.You’re stuck in the middle… and starting to question if it’s even working.In this episode, I’m breaking down why healing actually does feel harder as you go, what’s really happening in this phase, and why this is the exact point where most people fall back into old patterns.We’re talking about the loss of motivation, the increase in resistance, and the uncomfortable in-between where your old habits don’t fit anymore… but the new ones don’t feel natural yet.I’ll walk you through what’s actually going on, the biggest mistakes I see people make here, and how to keep going without starting over or tightening control again.Because this isn’t you failing.This is the part where real change is happening.And the people who actually heal? They’re not the most motivated… they’re the ones who keep showing up when it’s no longer exciting.If it feels harder right now, you’re probably exactly where you need to be. 💜Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Where Do I Even Start With Healing? (And Why You Feel So Stuck)
“Where do I even start with healing?”If you’ve ever asked that when it comes to your relationship with food, your body, or your habits… this episode is for you.Because the truth is, you’re not just looking for a place to start. You’re looking for the perfect one.The exact steps. The right order. The plan that guarantees it’ll finally work this time.And that’s exactly what’s keeping you stuck.In this episode, I’m breaking down why there is no perfect starting point, what actually got me out of the cycle, and what “starting” really looks like in real life (hint: it’s not clean or confident).We’re talking about the overthinking, the waiting, the fear of doing it wrong… and the small, uncomfortable shifts that actually create change.Because healing didn’t start for me when I had the perfect plan.It started when I stopped waiting for one. 💜Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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If You’re Still Stuck Thinking About Food All Day… Another Plan Isn’t What’s Missing
If you’ve tried every plan and still feel stuck… this episode is for you.Because the problem isn’t that you haven’t found the right plan.It’s that your brain is still consumed by food.In this episode, I break down why you can be doing everything “right” and still feel out of control, why discipline isn’t fixing it, and what’s actually keeping you stuck in the cycle.I talk about food noise, all-or-nothing thinking, and the moment that determines whether things stick or spiral.If you’re constantly thinking about food, starting over, or trying to stay “on track”… this will shift how you see it.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Your Inner Critic Isn’t You, It’s Protection
You know that voice in your head that picks apart everything you do?The one that tells you to be more disciplined, eat less, look different…It feels like you. But it’s not.In this episode, I’m breaking down what your inner critic actually is, why it feels so loud and convincing, and how it’s been trying to protect you… not punish you.We’ll talk about where this voice comes from, why it keeps you stuck in shame and all-or-nothing cycles, and how to start responding to it in a way that actually creates change.You’re not broken for having these thoughts.You just haven’t been taught how to relate to them yet 💜Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How to Trust Yourself Around Food Again
You don’t actually lack discipline… you don’t trust yourself.So you try to control food harder. Be stricter. Stay “on track.” But the more you control it, the more out of control it feels.In this episode, I’m breaking down why that happens and how to start rebuilding self-trust without swinging to extremes.If you’re scared to let go of control but exhausted from living this way… this is for you 💜Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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I Still Have Bad Body Image Days, Even Years Into Recovery
You think once you heal, the bad body image days go away. I used to believe that too.But the truth is… I still have moments where I don’t feel great in my body. The difference now is how I respond to them.In this episode, I’m opening up about what those days actually look like, the mindset shift that changed everything, and how to move through them without spiraling, restricting, or starting over.If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing because you still have these thoughts… you’re not.You just haven’t learned how to respond to them yet 💜Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why Thinking Eating Disorders Have a Size Is So Problematic
When you picture an eating disorder, what do you see?For most people, it’s one specific image. One body type. One extreme. But that narrative is dangerous.In this episode, I’m sharing why believing eating disorders have a “look” keeps so many women stuck, silent, and unsupported.We’ll talk about:• Why you don’t have to look sick to be struggling• My experience feeling worse before and after my lowest weight• The invisible side of orthorexia and perfectionism• Why you don’t need a formal diagnosis to deserve help• How comparison keeps women from reaching outStruggling with food doesn’t start at a certain number on the scale.And healing doesn’t require rock bottom.If food is consuming your thoughts…If your life revolves around rules…If you feel isolated but “fine enough”…This episode is for you.You deserve support at every stage.Not just when it looks extreme from the outside.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Cardio Isn’t the Enemy... But Here’s When It Becomes One
You were probably taught that cardio is the fastest way to lose weight.Run more. Burn more. Sweat more. Shrink more. And for a long time, that felt true.In this episode, I’m breaking down when cardio supports your health… and when it quietly turns into a stressor that keeps you stuck in obsession.We’ll talk about:• Why cardio is a stress on the body (and when that matters)• The cortisol conversation most women overlook• Why burning more calories doesn’t automatically mean better results• How strength training impacts your metabolism differently• The mindset shift that determines whether cardio is empowering or punishingCardio is not the enemy.But if you’re using it to burn off food, chase skinny, or quiet anxiety… it might be reinforcing the exact patterns you’re trying to heal.Fitness should add to your life, not take from it.This episode will help you figure out the difference.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why Lifting Weights Can Heal Your Body Image
You’ve been told working out will fix your body image.Just lose the weight. Burn the calories. Get leaner. Then you’ll finally feel confident.But what if that’s not how it works?In this episode, I’m sharing why lifting weights healed my body image in a way dieting and cardio never could. Not because it changed how I looked overnight, but because it changed how I saw myself.We’ll talk about:• The difference between training to shrink vs. training to build• Why intention in the gym matters more than the workout itself• How strength builds self-worth, not just muscle• Why body image has more to do with perception than your actual bodyIf you’ve ever walked into the gym hoping to “fix” yourself, this conversation will challenge you in the best way.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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What I’d Tell My Past Self Who Thought Eating Less Was the Answer
I truly used to believe that eating less would fix everything.In this episode, I share what I’d tell the version of me who thought shrinking her body would finally make her feel confident, secure, and enough.We talk about why being skinny didn’t solve my insecurity, how under-fueling stole parts of my personality, and how eating more actually improved my marriage, my career, my friendships, and the body I see in the mirror.If you still believe eating less is the answer, I understand why. But there is a different way to build strength, confidence, and a body you love.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How to Get Your Period Back Without Losing Your Mind (or Your Goals)
You’re training hard. Eating “healthy.” Doing everything you’ve been taught builds discipline and results. And your period is gone.In this episode, I’m breaking down what it actually takes to restore your cycle without spiraling into fear about weight gain or losing your physique.We talk about why a missing period is a stress signal, not a failure. Why under-fueling can hide inside clean eating. Why intensity in the gym might be working against you. And why your body will not prioritize reproduction if it doesn’t feel safe.If you’ve lost your cycle and feel confused, frustrated, or scared to change anything, this episode will give you clarity and direction.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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A Nervous-System-Safe Approach to Fitness (That Still Builds Strength)
What if the reason fitness feels harder than it used to… isn’t because you’re doing it wrong but because your body is tired of being in survival mode?In this episode, I’m breaking down what nervous-system-safe fitness actually looks like and why pushing harder, training more, and eating less can quietly stall your progress instead of accelerating it.We’ll talk about:Why your body can’t build strength or change in survival modeHow chronic stress, overtraining, and under-fueling impact progressWhat “training smarter” really means (without giving up your goals)Concrete, nervous-system-supportive shifts you can make in your workouts right nowIf you’re disciplined but depleted… consistent but exhausted… or doing everything “right” and still not feeling good in your body, this episode is for you.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Start Here: Fit Without Obsession Trailer
If food takes up way too much space in your head, your body feels like a problem to solve, or perfectionism has kept you functioning but exhausted, this podcast is for you.I’m Gena Taylor, a fitness and nutrition coach who helps women find relief from food obsession, body shame, and the pressure to always do things “right,” so they can feel calm, confident, and strong without obsession.On The Fit Without Obsession Podcast, we talk honestly about the things most fitness and wellness spaces avoid. The fear of weight gain. The pull of control. The guilt around food. And the desire to feel strong without slipping back into old patterns.This trailer will help you know instantly if this is your space. A place where healing and goals can coexist, where fitness does not cost you your peace, and where you do not have to do this alone.If you’re ready for relief in your body and your mind, hit follow and welcome in.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Eat More, Stress Less: What Actually Happens When You Stop Undereating
If you know you might not be eating enough — but feel scared of what will happen if you do — this episode is for you.I walk you through what actually happens inside your body when you stop undereating. Not dramatically. Not overnight. But slowly, quietly, and often with a sense of relief you didn’t realize you were missing.In this episode, I cover:Why underfueling is a major source of stress on the bodyHow eating enough calms your nervous system and quiets food noiseWhat improves when your body no longer feels in survival modeWhy fear doesn’t mean something bad is happeningThis isn’t about forcing yourself to eat more.It’s about understanding your body so fear stops running the show.You’re not broken.Your body has been protecting you — and it might finally be ready to exhale.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Signs You’re Not Eating Enough (and How to Fix It Without Fear)
If hearing “you might not be eating enough” immediately brings up fear, this episode is for you.I break down the subtle signs you may be underfueling — even if you’re disciplined, structured, and doing everything “right.” This isn’t about labels, extremes, or losing control. It’s about understanding what your body has been trying to tell you.In this episode, I cover:Why constant food thoughts, fatigue, and night eating aren’t failuresHow restriction quietly trains your body to stay in survival modeWhy control feels like safety — and how it keeps you stuckGentle ways to support your body without fearIf food feels exhausting and your body feels off, you’re not broken. You’re listening and that’s where real freedom begins.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How to Stop Overthinking Every Bite (and Start Trusting Yourself Again)
If food feels like a full-time job in your brain, this episode is for you.I'm breaking down why overthinking food isn’t a lack of discipline... it’s a nervous system response. When your body doesn’t feel safe around food, control can feel like the only option… even when you “know better.”In this episode, you’ll learn:Why food overthinking is a survival response, not a failureHow restriction and rules trained you not to trust yourselfWhy control feels like safety and how it keeps you stuckSimple ways to quiet food noise and rebuild trustIf you’re exhausted from thinking about food all day, nothing is wrong with you.You’re healing, and peace with food is possible.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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The Fear of Weight Gain — and Why It’s Never Really About Your Body
If you’ve ever felt a wave of panic when your jeans fit differently, noticed yourself wanting to “clean things up” after a vacation, or felt that tightness in your chest when the scale moves, you’re not alone—and nothing is wrong with you. Even after doing the work, even after healing so much of your relationship with food, the fear of weight gain can still feel loud. But that fear isn’t actually about your body. It’s about identity, safety, and the stories you’ve carried for years.In this episode, I’m breaking down why this fear runs so deep for so many women. We’ll talk about how you were conditioned to tie your worth to your size, how control became a survival strategy, why your old identity gets triggered when your body changes, and how past pain shows up in present-day body anxiety. I’ll also walk you through the four hidden fears underneath weight gain—rejection, loss of control, returning to old versions of yourself, and losing the identity people praised you for.Most importantly, I’ll help you understand how to soften this fear without gaslighting yourself into forced body positivity. You’ll learn how to separate the fear from the story, regulate your nervous system, grieve the identity you’re outgrowing, and redefine what true strength looks like in this season of your life.If you’re tired of monitoring every fluctuation, tired of performing discipline, or tired of living in fear of your own body changing, this episode will help you understand why you feel this way—and how to begin releasing it.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Before You Set New Goals… Here’s What Your 2026 Food + Fitness Journey Actually Needs
Before you rush into resolutions, plans, or “new year, new me” energy, I want you to pause with me. Because right now, you’re being flooded with messages telling you to shrink, tighten up, start over, and fix your body. And if you’ve ever set goals in January only to abandon them by February, it’s not because you’re undisciplined. It’s because the goals you were setting weren’t coming from a grounded place.In this episode, I’m breaking down why last year’s goals didn’t stick—and why that had nothing to do with willpower. We’ll talk about the deeper reasons you’ve felt stuck in the past: goals rooted in shame, perfectionism disguised as discipline, and nervous systems that feel unsafe instead of supported. And then we’ll rebuild. Together.I’ll walk you through what your 2026 journey actually needs to feel different this time: safety-driven goals, rhythms instead of rigid rules, self-support instead of self-bullying, and a new definition of success that isn’t tied to shrinking your body.I’ll also share the five questions you must ask yourself before setting any goal this year—questions that shift you out of self-rejection and into self-leadership.If you’re tired of starting every year with pressure and ending it with burnout, this episode will help you step into 2026 with clarity, self-trust, and a plan that actually honors you.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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The Holiday Food Spiral — How to Stay Grounded When Everything Feels 'Too Much'
The holidays can feel like a lot. A lot of food, a lot of emotion, a lot of old patterns you thought you were past. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, guilty, anxious, or disconnected from your routine this week, you’re not doing anything wrong. You’re human, and this season brings up more for women healing their relationship with food than almost any other time of year.In today’s episode, I’m helping you understand why things feel so intense right now—and more importantly, how to come back home to yourself. We’ll walk through why the holiday environment triggers your nervous system, what actually leads to the “food spiral,” and the grounding practices that will help you feel safe, centered, and supported around food again.If you’re already spiraling, I’ll show you exactly how to interrupt the guilt, regulate your body, and step out of the all-or-nothing cycle without punishing yourself or starting over tomorrow.You deserve to enjoy this season without carrying food fear. You deserve peace, presence, and permission to be human. This episode will help you find your footing again.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why Resting More Could Be the Thing That Changes Your Body
If you’ve been training hard, eating well, and doing “all the right things” but still feel stuck, this episode will make something click. I’m breaking down why rest is the missing piece for so many women, how overtraining destroys progress, and what actually happens to your hormones, metabolism, and muscle growth when you slow down. If you’ve been terrified that resting will set you back, this episode will show you why it’s the exact thing that moves you forward.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How Letting Go of Control Actually Helps You See Results Faster
If you’ve been gripping tight to structure, tracking, rules, or “clean eating” because you’re terrified of losing progress, this episode is going to shift everything. I’m breaking down why rigid control keeps you stuck, how your nervous system blocks results when it doesn’t feel safe, and what actually happens in your body when you finally loosen the reins. If you’ve been doing everything “perfectly” and still feel stuck, this is the missing piece.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Fitness Burnout — When “Being Disciplined” Turns Against You
If you’ve been pushing hard, doing everything “right,” and still feel exhausted, unmotivated, or stuck in your progress, this episode is for you. I’m unpacking what fitness burnout really looks like, why your discipline might be working against you, and how to rebuild a relationship with movement that actually supports your body instead of draining it. If you’ve ever wondered why the harder you push, the worse you feel—this episode will hit home.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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The 3 Beliefs Keeping You Stuck in the Food and Body Struggle
Let’s be honest—you don’t stay stuck because you’re weak. You stay stuck because of three sneaky beliefs that sound responsible but keep you trapped in fear, perfectionism, and conditional self-worth. In this episode, I’m breaking down the thoughts that secretly sabotage your healing and showing you how to finally step into real freedom. If you’ve been doing everything “right” but still feel obsessed with food or your body, this one’s going to hit deep.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why You Still Feel Out of Control Around Food (Even After “Doing the Work”)
You’ve read the books, done the therapy, and stopped restricting—but food still feels loud. In this episode, I’m breaking down why awareness isn’t the same as safety, and the three hidden reasons you still feel out of control around food. We’ll talk about the middle space between knowing and feeling, how fear disguises itself as discipline, and what it really takes to rebuild trust with your body.You’re not broken—you’re healing in real time.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How to Know When You’re Ready for Intuitive Eating
If the idea of “eating intuitively” sounds peaceful but also terrifying, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down what intuitive eating really means (and what it doesn’t), the fears that keep you stuck in control, and the signs you’re actually ready to start trusting yourself around food again. We’ll talk about how to move away from tracking without spiraling, build safety instead of rules, and find that balance between structure and freedom you’ve been craving.If you’ve been wondering, “When will I be ready?”—you might already be.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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You’re Not Failing Your Fitness Journey — It’s Failing You.
You’ve told yourself, “This time I’m all in.” You’ve tracked, prepped, pushed… and still ended up exhausted, starting over again on Monday wondering, “What’s wrong with me?”In this episode, I’m breaking down why you keep “failing” even when you’re giving it everything you’ve got — and how perfectionism, control, and the all-in mentality secretly sabotage your progress. You’ll learn what real consistency looks like, how to rebuild self-trust, and what it actually means to create a fitness journey that feels good instead of just looks good.If you’re tired of chasing perfect and ready to finally find peace with food, movement, and your body — this one’s going to hit deep.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How I Stopped Using Exercise to Punish Myself
For years, I told myself I just loved working out. I was “disciplined,” “committed,” “the fit one.” But deep down, it wasn’t love—it was fear. Fear of gaining weight, fear of losing control, fear of not being enough.In this episode, I’m sharing how my relationship with movement went from obsessive and punishing to freeing and empowering. We’ll talk about the sneaky red flags that keep you stuck in guilt and burnout, and the exact mindset shifts that helped me start moving from love instead of fear.If you’ve ever felt anxious on rest days, used workouts to “make up” for food, or tied your worth to how hard you train… this episode will hit home. It’s time to stop using exercise against yourself—and start using it to come home to your body again.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why I Stopped Trying to ‘Love My Body’
For years, I thought the goal of healing was to finally love my body. I told myself, “Once I love what I see in the mirror, then I’ll feel confident. Then I’ll be free.”But what I didn’t realize is that chasing constant body love was just another form of control—another way to measure my worth.In this episode, I’m getting real about why I stopped trying to “love my body,” and what true body healing actually means. I’ll share the moment I realized that peace wasn’t hiding in the mirror, it was in how I treated myself when I didn’t like what I saw.We’ll talk about the difference between love and respect, how to navigate bad body image days without spiraling, and what it actually looks like to live in partnership with your body instead of war against it.If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing at healing because you don’t wake up loving every inch of yourself—you need to hear this.Because healing isn’t about constant confidence.It’s about consistent compassion.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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The Body Image Lie You’ve Probably Believed Too
For years, I lived under a lie that dictated everything I ate, every workout I did, and every outfit I put on. The lie said: “Once my body looks a certain way, THEN I’ll be confident. THEN I’ll be happy. THEN I’ll be enough.”At my smallest, people told me I had the “dream body.” I had visible abs, lean arms, the flat stomach I thought would finally fix me. And yet—I cried in dressing rooms, deleted every photo, and still hated what I saw in the mirror. At my heaviest, I told myself, “See? This is why you’re miserable—because of your body.” But the truth was…it had never been about my body. It was the belief itself keeping me stuck.In this episode, I’m sharing how this body image lie had me in a chokehold, the dangerous ways it keeps so many women trapped, and the moment I realized confidence was never hiding in a smaller jean size. If you’ve ever thought, “When I lose 10 pounds, then I’ll finally feel okay,” this conversation is your wake-up call.You’ll walk away with a new perspective, practical tools, and—most importantly—permission to stop waiting on your body to start living your life.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Balance Is Bullsh*t (Here’s What Works Instead)
Have you ever tried to live the so-called “balanced lifestyle” — clean meals Monday to Friday, one cookie on Saturday, a 4-day workout split — and still ended up in guilt, shame, or binge mode? You’re not crazy. The version of “balance” diet culture sells us is just restriction in prettier packaging.In this episode, I break down exactly why balance keeps high-achieving women stuck in the all-or-nothing cycle — and what actually works instead. You’ll learn:Why “80/20” is just another food rule dressed up as freedomHow “I’m just being balanced” kept me micromanaging carbs and spiraling into bingesWhy life’s chaos (vacations, stress, your period) will always break a rigid balance planThe mindset shift that replaces balance with flexibility and self-trustHow to anchor your food and fitness in values — not guilt or numbersIf “balance” has ever felt like another way you’re failing, you’re not broken — the system is. Tune in to hear how to trade balance for true freedom and finally build a version of health that fits your real life.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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What I Wish I Knew Before I Started My Fitness Journey
When I first started my fitness journey, I thought smaller jeans and a flatter stomach were the ticket to happiness. Instead, I ended up skipping dinners with friends so I could weigh out almond butter, losing my period from overtraining, and crying in the mirror even at my “goal weight.”In this episode, I share the exact lessons that could have saved me years of guilt, binges, and burnout:Why getting smaller won’t fix the voice that says you’re not enoughThe truth about discipline (and why permission stops the binge/restrict cycle)How eating more — not less — finally gave me the body I wantedThe moment I realized strength training was the key to self-trust, not “getting bulky”How rest saved me from the ER and rebuilt my healthWhy mindset work will always matter more than the number of macros you hitIf you’re grinding through workouts, terrified of carbs, or constantly starting over every Monday — this episode is the wake-up call I wish someone had given me. Fitness isn’t about chasing skinny. It’s about building strength, confidence, and freedom.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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When Rest Is Healing… and When It’s Self-Sabotage
Here’s the truth: rest is essential. But so is discipline. And if you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Am I caring for myself right now, or am I avoiding the work?”—this episode is for you. In this episode, I share the exact mindset shifts and self-check questions I use (and teach my clients) to know the difference between a rest day that’s moving you forward and an excuse that’s keeping you stuck.You’ll learn how to listen to your body with confidence, how to spot the signs of true recovery vs. sabotage, and how to release the guilt so you can finally trust yourself again. Because your dream body and food freedom don’t come from punishing yourself or letting yourself off the hook—they come from learning when to push and when to pause.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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You’re Busting Your Ass in the Gym—So Why Aren’t You Seeing Results?
You’re working hard. You’re showing up. You’re pushing yourself to the point of exhaustion… and yet, your body looks the same. In this episode, I’m breaking down why your effort isn’t adding up to results — and it’s not because you’re lazy or broken. It’s because the rules you’ve been taught are setting you up to fail.I’ll share the truth about why more cardio, stricter dieting, and endless sweat sessions aren’t the answer — and what actually moves the needle. Get ready for the “aha” moments that will change the way you train, fuel, and recover so your body can finally respond.If you’re tired of working harder with nothing to show for it, this is the perspective shift you’ve been waiting for.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why You Need to Eat More to Lose Weight
Everything you’ve been told about weight loss says eat less, move more. Smaller portions. More cardio. Cut carbs. But what if the very thing you’ve been told to fear — eating more — is exactly what your body needs to finally change?In this episode, I’m breaking down why low-calorie living is wrecking your metabolism, hormones, muscle, and mindset — and how fueling more (yes, more) can help you get leaner, stronger, and end the food obsession for good. I’ll walk you through the science, the strategy, and the mindset shifts that helped me and my clients trade burnout for results… without “letting ourselves go.”If you’re done spinning your wheels and ready for a smarter, saner way to reach your goals, this is your permission slip to ditch the constant deficit and start fueling like you mean it.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Exactly How to Heal Your Toxic Relationship With Food (Without Another Diet or Plan)
If food controls your mood, your day, or your self-worth—it’s not just a “bad habit.” It’s a toxic relationship.In this episode, I’m walking you through the exact framework I use to help women heal their relationship with food—step by step. Not surface-level advice. Not another plan to follow. But the deep nervous system rewiring, mindset shifts, and trust-building that actually creates freedom.You’ll learn:What a toxic food relationship really looks like (even if you’re eating “healthy”)Why most healing methods don’t stick—and what to do insteadHow to build safety, stop guilt spirals, and break the binge-restrict cycle at the rootIf you’ve been doing “everything right” and still feel obsessed, ashamed, or stuck… this is your sign. The problem isn’t you—it’s the conditioning you’ve internalized. Let’s unlearn it together.💜 Doors to Fed Up to Free are open now—join us through the link in the show notes.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why Your Perfect Meal Still Makes You Feel Like Sh*t
You can eat the most “perfect” meal in the world… and still feel bloated, anxious, unsatisfied, and out of control. Why? Because it’s not just what you eat—it’s how you eat that shapes your experience with food (and your body).In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the most overlooked truths in the wellness world: your mindset while eating matters just as much—if not more—than what’s on your plate. You’ll learn how eating from a place of stress, guilt, or control can actually shut down digestion, mess with your hunger cues, and keep you stuck in the binge-restrict cycle (even if the food looks “clean” on the outside).I’ll walk you through:The science behind why eating in a stressed state disrupts digestion, metabolism, and satisfactionThe biggest mistakes I used to make while eating—and how they kept me stuck in obsession, even with “healthy” foodThe exact shifts I made to start eating in a calm, safe, connected way that allowed my body to actually healFive tangible practices you can try this week to stop multitasking meals, release food guilt, and feel grounded while you eatIf you’ve been “doing everything right” with food and still feel off in your body—this episode is going to give you the missing piece. Because food isn’t just physical. It’s emotional. And your body doesn’t just digest nutrients—it digests your beliefs, your fear, your urgency, and your shame.✨ You don’t need a new meal plan. You need to feel safe in your body again.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Should I Count Calories? Or Is That a Gateway to Disordered Eating?
You think tracking is helping you stay in control.But what if the thing keeping you “disciplined”… is actually keeping you stuck?Inside this episode, I’m breaking down:→ When calorie tracking becomes a cage (even if it started with good intentions)→ The 6 questions to ask before you track another bite→ When tracking can be helpful—and when it’s hurting you→ Why intuitive eating is not chaos—it’s actually coming home to yourself→ Red flags you might be ignoring (that I missed too)→ Gentle ways to start transitioning away from tracking and rebuild trust with foodBecause here’s the truth:Tracking can be a helpful tool… but it should never be your permission to eat.You don’t have to earn your hunger. You don’t need numbers to be enough.And you?You are so much more than the data in your app.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Discipline or Self-Hate? The Line You Might Not Know You’ve Crossed
You swear it’s just discipline. Just being healthy.But what if that “motivation”... is actually self-hate in disguise?This episode is for the girl who:Feels anxious when she misses a workoutTracks “just to be aware” but spirals when she can’tSays no to food she loves out of fear—not careFeels like she has to earn rest or hungerThinks shrinking = success, and joy = weaknessInside this episode, we’ll unpack:→ The blurry line between discipline and self-rejection→ Why control is glorified in wellness culture (and what it’s costing you)→ What true, healthy discipline actually looks like→ 7 ways to rebuild self-respect without giving up your goalsBecause punishing yourself isn’t strength.And consistency doesn’t have to come from cruelty.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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I Didn’t Start Loving My Body Until I Stopped Chasing Skinny and Started Chasing Strong
For years, I thought the only way to love my body… was to shrink it.I chased skinny like it was the golden ticket to confidence, worth, and finally feeling enough. But no matter how small I got, it was never enough. I was exhausted, anxious, and constantly calculating. Because chasing skinny isn’t really about the size—it’s about control, safety, validation… and a whole lot of fear.In this episode, I’m walking you through the moment everything shifted.When I stopped asking “How small can I get?”And started asking “How strong can I become?”✨ Inside this episode:Why chasing skinny never gave you the freedom you were promisedWhat “chasing strong” actually means (and why it’s not just about lifting weights)The emotional & physical shifts that happen when you start fueling, resting, and respecting your bodyHow to start rewriting your goals—from self-punishment to self-trustThe exact mindset reframe that changed my entire relationship with food, fitness, and my bodyThis isn’t about giving up.It’s about finally choosing a life over a look.It’s about building strength—not just physically, but emotionally.It’s about feeling powerful, present, and at peace in your body—for real this time.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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What If I Heal… and Still Hate My Body?
This one’s for the woman silently asking herself the question she’s too scared to say out loud…👉🏼 “What if I do all the healing… and I still don’t like my body?”Whew. That one hits, right?In this raw and honest episode, I’m diving into the fear that doesn’t get talked about on recovery pages or in feel-good reels—but lives in the minds of so many women on this journey. Because truth is: healing your relationship with food doesn’t guarantee you’ll wake up loving your body overnight.We’ll unpack:Why healing doesn’t always = loving what you see in the mirrorThe sneaky expectations that set you up for disappointmentWhat this fear is really about (spoiler: it’s not just weight)The shift that’ll set you freeAnd how to keep going when your healed self still struggles with body imageYou’re not failing if you still have hard body days.You’re not broken if you don’t feel confident yet.You’re human—and this episode will remind you of that with love.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Yes, I Still Care What I Look Like—That Doesn’t Make Me Toxic
You’ve probably heard the message: “If you really healed, you wouldn’t care what you looked like anymore.”But… what if that’s just another lie dressed up as empowerment?In this episode, I’m getting real about something so many women in the healing space feel—but are too afraid to say out loud:Yes, I still care what I look like. No, that doesn’t make me shallow. And it definitely doesn’t make me toxic.We’re diving into:The shame spiral around wanting to feel good in your bodyThe difference between obsession and intentionHow I personally navigate physique goals now (hint: it’s not rooted in self-hate anymore)And the gut-check questions that keep me grounded when old patterns try to creep back inThis is for the woman who’s healing… but still wants to glow up.Who wants food freedom and to feel sexy in a crop top.Who wants to care about her body—without letting it control her life.Because healing doesn’t mean giving up your goals.It means you get to chase them from a place of self-respect, not self-rejection.💜 You are not a bad person for wanting more.You’re just human. And in this episode—I’ll prove it to you.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How Food Freedom Changed Our Love Story: An Interview With My Husband
From meal-prepping chicken with zero oil to spontaneous pasta nights—my husband Trey has seen every version of me. In this heart-filled episode, we’re spilling the tea on what it was like dating during my food healing journey, how he supported me (even when it was awkward), and how our relationship grew stronger as I let go of control and found freedom. He shares what actually helps when your partner’s struggling, what not to say, and the little moments that changed everything. A must-listen for anyone healing—or loving someone who is.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Life After MyFitnessPal: How I Stopped Tracking and Started Living
In Episode 12 of The Fit Without Obsession Podcast, we’re talking about what no one tells you about letting go of food tracking—and how it’s possible to stop counting without losing control.💭 You’ll hear:The surprising ways tracking actually helped me at first (and how I used it as a bridge—not a forever plan)The exact moment I realized tracking was controlling me more than it was helping meHow I slowly transitioned off the app without spiraling into chaosThe biggest fears that come up when you stop tracking—and how to work through them👀 You’ll walk away with:A step-by-step breakdown of how to stop tracking in a safe and sustainable wayThe mindset shifts that helped me trust myself with food againJournaling prompts + strategies to help you build a new kind of safety without the numbersA clear reminder: You are not “failing” for wanting more than a spreadsheet lifeIf you’ve ever thought “I want food freedom… but I’m terrified to lose control”—this episode is your permission slip.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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The Binge Didn’t Ruin Your Progress—Here’s What Actually Matters
If you’ve ever sat in bed after a binge thinking,“I blew it.”“I ruined everything.”“I have to start over tomorrow…”Then this episode is your lifeline.In Episode 11 of The Fit Without Obsession Podcast, I’m breaking down exactly why bingeing doesn’t mean you failed — and how what you do next matters way more than what you just ate. We’re talking about:why the guilt spiral keeps you stuck (not the food)how to stop trying to “fix” your body after a bingewhat it actually looks like to respond with compassion instead of punishmentand how to build the kind of relationship with food where binges become fewer, softer, and eventually… just don’t happen anymore.Because the binge isn’t proof you’re out of control. It’s a signal.And you don’t need to start over — you just need to come back home to yourself.This is the episode I wish I had when I thought one “bad” night undid all my progress.It didn’t.And yours didn’t either.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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How to Build Your Dream Body Without Losing Your Mind
You’ve tried the macros. The meal plans. The 6-days-a-week workouts.But underneath the surface? You’re exhausted. Obsessed. And still don’t feel at home in your body.In episode 10 of The Fit Without Obsession Podcast, I’m breaking down what it actually takes to build your dream body—without losing your mind in the process.No more starving. No more shame. No more “starting over Monday.”We’re talking:→ The 3 toxic lies you’ve been sold about “getting results”→ The real blueprint for physique goals without obsession→ What every plan misses when you’re healing from food guilt, body hate, and all-or-nothing spirals→ The mindset rewiring most fitness coaches don’t even know you needIf you’ve ever thought:“Why am I doing everything ‘right’ but still feel so stuck?”—this one’s for you.Because the dream body isn’t built through punishment.It’s built through respect, fuel, and a method that actually makes you feel like YOU again.💜 Ready to get results without wrecking your relationship with food?DM me after the episode and I’ll voice note you back.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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You’re Not Lazy — You Just Learned to Measure Your Worth By Doing
If slowing down makes you spiral…If rest feels wrong unless you’ve “earned” it…If you keep calling yourself unmotivated when really? You’re mentally and emotionally drained...This episode is your wake-up call.Because it’s not about willpower.It’s not about discipline.It’s about the lie you were taught: that your worth is something you have to prove.In this episode, I’m breaking down:Why you can’t stop hustling, even when you’re burned outHow your “motivation problem” is actually a worthiness woundThe nervous system shift that changed everything for meAnd five ways to start detaching your value from your productivity — without the guiltYou don’t need to do more.You were never supposed to hustle for your healing.You were never meant to earn your rest.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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The Sh*t No One Warned Me About in Recovery
There’s this picture-perfect version of recovery that gets talked about everywhere: eat the fear food, delete MyFitnessPal, take the rest day, love yourself more. But let’s be real — that’s only half the story.This episode? Is the other half.The grief no one prepped you for.The identity crisis that hits when you let go of control.The loneliness of realizing your old routines were actually your entire personality.The confusing days when you miss the version of you that was hurting — because at least she felt safe.I’m sharing the messy, uncomfortable, painfully real parts of recovery that almost broke me… and the exact truths that put me back together.If you’ve ever wondered why healing doesn’t feel like healing at first — this one’s for you.Because it’s not that you’re doing it wrong.It’s that no one warned you how brave it would have to be.You’re doing better than you think. 💜Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Wanting Weight Loss Doesn’t Make You Toxic
In episode 7 of The Fit Without Obsession Podcast, we’re going there:Can you want to lose weight and still say you’re healing your relationship with food?You’ve probably been told you can’t. That having body goals means you’re still stuck in diet culture. That true healing means giving up on weight loss forever.But what if that’s not the full story?In this episode, I’m breaking down:👉🏼 The real difference between wanting change from shame vs. self-respect 👉🏼 Why suppressing your goals doesn’t make you healed—it just makes you disconnected 👉🏼 How to pursue physical goals without losing your peace, joy, or food freedomIf you’ve ever felt ashamed for caring about how you look… this one’s going to feel like a deep exhale.You don’t have to choose between healing and wanting more for yourself.And today? I’ll show you how to hold both.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Healing Body Image Doesn’t Mean You Wake Up Loving What You See
In episode 6 of The Fit Without Obsession Podcast, we’re getting real about what healing body image actually looks like—because spoiler: it’s not mirror selfies and loving every inch of yourself 24/7.If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing at body image healing because you still have days where you feel insecure, uncomfortable, or bloated... this episode is for you.We’ll unpack the cultural lie that healing means full-blown self-love all the time, and instead explore what real, sustainable body image work looks like: radical respect, daily choices, and knowing your worth even when your reflection makes you pause.You’ll walk away with:A powerful reframe for what body image healing actually isReal-life strategies to keep showing up even on hard daysValidation if you’re in the messy middle (because that’s where healing lives)And the permission to stop waiting to love your body before living fully in itThis episode is your reminder that you don’t have to feel beautiful to be valuable—and you sure as hell don’t have to fix your body to feel free.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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Why Healing Your Relationship with Food is the Fastest Way to Your Dream Body
In Episode 5 of the Fit Without Obsession Podcast, we’re dismantling the biggest lie diet culture ever sold you: that you have to choose between food freedom or your dream body. Spoiler alert—you don’t.If you’ve ever feared that healing your relationship with food would mean “letting yourself go,” this episode is for you. I share the real reason that obsession hasn’t been working (even if you think it’s helping), how my body actually changed after I started eating more and letting go of food guilt, and why consistency—not restriction—is the secret to real results.We’ll talk through the binge/restrict cycle, the mindset that keeps women stuck, and what it actually looks like to eat, lift, rest, and still build a physique you’re proud of—without fear or obsession.Whether you’re scared to let go or just need proof that freedom and physique goals can coexist—this one’s gonna hit home.Connect with Gena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefitbean_/Free resources + Coaching: https://linktr.ee/astrongertomorrowllc
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
If you're a woman who looks like she has it together but feels exhausted by food thoughts, body shame, or the pressure to be perfect... this podcast is your safe space.I'm Gena Taylor, a fitness and nutrition coach who helps women find relief from food obsession and rebuild trust with their bodies while getting strong in a way that doesn't cost them their peace.Each week, we talk about what actually helps when you're stuck in cycles of control, guilt, and all-or-nothing thinking, including fear of weight gain, disordered eating patterns, perfectionism, and how to approach fitness without slipping back into obsession.This is where strength meets healing. Where self-trust gets rebuilt. And where food and fitness stop running your life.Follow along so you don't miss an episode. Your relationship with food, your body, and yourself can change.Connect With Gena:Instagram: <a href="http
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