The Masterful Parenting Podcast - Heal Your Childhood and Parent Better Through Relational Parenting

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The Masterful Parenting Podcast - Heal Your Childhood and Parent Better Through Relational Parenting

Hello Parents! Welcome to the Masterful Parenting Podcast. I’m Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Teacher, and mom of two. Do you struggle with your relationship with your kids because you carry childhood pain? Do you get triggered by your child’s behaviour, become irrational, and maybe even yell at your children? Maybe you want to be a better parent, but you don’t know how. Instead of repeating old patterns, you want to heal your pain, become more aware of your child’s needs,, feel connected to your kids, learn the tools to communicate better, so you can truly enjoy your parenting. If you are ready to heal your childhood pain, raise healthy, connected, and happy kids, and end the cycle of parenting with pain, then join me! Our kids deserve it and we can do this! Let’s go!

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    How Parents Accidentally Contribute to Anxiety in Children (And What To Do Instead) #anxiety

    In this episode of Masterful Parenting, let’s explore how loving parents can unintentionally contribute to anxiety in children — and what emotionally safe parenting looks like instead. We’ll discuss: helping children regulate emotions empathic listening emotional safety nervous system regulation overprotective parenting building resilience supporting anxious children without rescuing them   Anxiety is part of being human. The goal is not to eliminate it — but to help our children move through it with connection, confidence, and support. #parenting #anxiety #consciousparenting #emotionallyintelligentparenting #masterfulparenting #gentleparenting #nervoussystem #parentingtips #childanxiety #emotionalregulation ***************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a parent coach, author, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. He 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. 🎧 Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness. Access The Masterful Parenting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**: https://calendly.com/annealvares https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://www.tiktok.com/@masterfulparenting  

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    Episode 131 How Certain Parenting Patterns Can Lead to Narcissistic Traits (And What To Do About It) #narcissism

    Narcissism is often misunderstood—and many parents worry about whether they’re getting it “right.” In this episode of Masterful Parenting, we explore how certain parenting patterns can shape a child’s sense of self, sometimes contributing to narcissistic traits rooted in insecurity, disconnection, and unmet emotional needs. This is not about blame. It’s about awareness. Many of these patterns are subtle and often come from what we experienced in our own childhoods. When we begin to understand them, we gain the power to shift how we show up for our children. You’ll learn the difference between healthy confidence and narcissistic traits, how both overindulgence and emotional disconnection can impact your child’s development, and what children actually need to build a secure, resilient identity. Most importantly, this episode will guide you in how to parent with intention—balancing connection, boundaries, and emotional attunement—so your child feels deeply valued without relying on external validation. 💡 Key Takeaways Narcissistic traits often develop as protection, not intention. Children need to feel seen and accepted—not just praised or corrected Both overindulgence and emotional disconnection can impact identity Connection, consistency, and boundaries create emotional safety You don’t need perfect parenting—just conscious, responsive parenting 🤔 Reflection Questions Do I unintentionally tie my child’s worth to behavior or achievement? How do I respond to my child’s emotions—do I dismiss or connect? Am I raising my child to be impressive, or to be secure in who they are? How comfortable am I with my child’s discomfort? Awareness isn’t about guilt—it’s about growth. When we understand the patterns that shape our children, we can choose to parent in ways that build true confidence, connection, and emotional security. **************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a parent coach, author, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. Here’s a clear snapshot of who she is and what she does: 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. 🎧 Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness. Access The Masterful Parenting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session: https://calendly.com/annealvares www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting https://www.tiktok.com/@masterfulparenting https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com https://schoolofhumankind.com #MasterfulParenting #ConsciousParenting #ParentingGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #SecureAttachment #CycleBreaking #MindfulParenting #ParentingSupport #InnerChildHealing #TraumaInformedParenting #ResilientKids #ConnectedParenting #ParentingPodcast #SelfAwareParenting  

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    Ep. 130 How Boarding School Impacts Childhood with Sorel Pindar #childhood #boardingschool

    What really happens to a child when they are sent away to boarding school? In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, I’m joined by trauma-informed Well-Being & Relationship Coach Sorel Pindar, who shares both her professional expertise and lived experience of spending seven years in boarding school. Together, we unpack the hidden emotional impact of early separation and how it shapes identity, coping mechanisms, and adult relationships. In this episode, we explore: ✨ The 3 biggest challenges boarding school creates for children Early emotional detachment and suppressed attachment needs Development of independence rooted in survival, not security Difficulty processing emotions in a safe, supported way ✨ How children adapt to survive Building a “survival personality” to cope with separation Emotional shutdown, people-pleasing, or hyper-independence Learning to disconnect from vulnerability to feel safe ✨ How this shows up in adult relationships Struggles with intimacy and emotional connection Fear of dependency or being “too much” Patterns of avoidance, control, or emotional withdrawal Sorel also shares how healing is possible—and how understanding the link between childhood experiences and current patterns can lead to deeper connection, emotional freedom, and healthier relationships. About Sorel Pindar Sorel is a trauma-informed Well-Being & Relationship Coach with over 25 years of experience. She specializes in supporting adults who attended boarding school and are now navigating challenges in their relationships. Having spent seven years in boarding school herself, Sorel deeply understands the long-term emotional impact and helps clients transform their “survival personality” into a more connected and authentic way of living. Through her signature HeartBridge Programme, she guides individuals and couples to: Understand how childhood experiences shape current behaviours Move through difficult emotions instead of avoiding them Build confidence and emotional resilience Strengthen communication and reduce conflict Create deeper, more fulfilling relationships Connect with Sorel LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sorrelpindar/ Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/sorrel.pindar/ Facebook (Business): https://www.facebook.com/SorrelPindarRelationshipCoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sorrelpindar/ ________________________________________________________________________________________ Anne Alvares is a parent coach, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds.  Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness.    Access The Masterful Parenting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse   Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://www.tiktok.com/@masterfulparenting https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com #ParentingPodcast #ChildhoodTrauma #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalHealth #RelationshipHealing #InnerChildWork #TraumaInformed #ParentingWithLove #HealingJourney #PodcastLaunch #MentalWellbeing #ConnectionOverControl #ConsciousParenting

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    Ep. 129 How Childhood Affects the World (Featuring Research by Sven Fuchs) #childhoodtrauma

    What if the struggles we see in the world today… don’t start in adulthood—but in childhood? Based on the research of Sven Fuchs.THE CHILDHOOD ORIGINS OF POLITICAL VIOLENCE AND EXTREMISM, this powerful and eye-opening episode, we’re exploring the deeper truth behind human behavior, emotional pain, and even societal challenges: 👉 childhood experiences shape everything. From the way we respond in relationships… to how we parent… to patterns we see in mental health, disconnection, and even conflict— it all traces back to what we experienced (or didn’t receive) as children. This episode will help you understand: ✨ How unmet emotional needs in childhood shape our beliefs, identity, and behavior ✨ Why triggers in parenting are often rooted in our own past ✨ The connection between unhealed pain and the challenges we see in the world today ✨ Why awareness—not blame—is the key to breaking generational cycles ✨ How healing yourself doesn’t just change your life—it impacts future generations This is more than a parenting conversation. It’s a conversation about healing, responsibility, and the kind of world we want to create. Because when we begin to understand childhood differently… we begin to show up differently— in our homes, our relationships, and in the world. 🎧 If you’ve ever wondered why things feel so hard sometimes—this episode will connect the dots in a way that is both empowering and deeply validating. 💛 CTA: If you’re ready to stop reacting, understand your triggers, and create a more connected relationship with your child, join my Triggered to Regulated Reset. 📩 DM me RESET or visit the link in my bio to get started. Much love, Anne Alvares Parent Coach | Author | Mom of Two P.S. Special thanks to Sven Fuchs for sharing his research and for giving me permission to cite his work on this podcast. Thank you so much, Sven, for all your work on this important and critical topic. #ConsciousParenting #InnerChildHealing #CycleBreaking #ParentingTriggers #TraumaInformedParenting #EmotionalHealing #NervousSystemRegulation #HealingJourney #MindfulParenting #SelfAwareness #BreakTheCycle #PersonalGrowth #ParentingPodcast ***************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a parent coach, author, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. Here’s a clear snapshot of who she is and what she does: 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. 🎧 Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness. Access The Masterful Parenting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**: https://calendly.com/annealvares www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://www.tiktok.com/@masterfulparenting https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com  

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    Episode 128 How We Make Our Children Feel Like A Burden (Without Realizing It)

    What if the words we say in passing… are shaping how our children see themselves? In this powerful episode, we’re diving into the subtle, often unconscious ways we can make our kids feel like a burden—without ever intending to. From talking about how expensive things are… To expressing how exhausted and overwhelmed we feel… To reminding them of “everything we do for them”… These moments may seem harmless—but to a child, they can quietly translate into: 👉 “I’m too much” 👉 “I’m a problem” 👉 “I shouldn’t need so much” And those beliefs don’t stay in childhood—they follow them into adulthood. But here’s the truth: This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness. So often, these patterns are rooted in our own unhealed childhood wounds—the times we felt like a burden ourselves. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: ✨ The hidden ways we unintentionally project burden onto our kids ✨ Why this pattern is deeply connected to our own past ✨ The long-term impact on your child’s identity and self-worth ✨ How to shift from guilt and overwhelm → to connection and safety ✨ What to say and do instead (practical, real-life tools) This is an invitation to break the cycle—with compassion, not shame. 🎧 If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed in parenting… this episode will meet you there—and show you a new way forward. 💛 CTA: If you’re ready to move from reacting to connecting, join my Triggered to Regulated Reset—a powerful experience to help you regulate your nervous system and show up as the parent you truly want to be. 📩 DM me RESET or check the link in my bio to get started. And if this episode spoke to you, share it with another parent who needs this reminder: 👉 Your child was never meant to feel like a burden. Much love, Anne Alvares Parent Coach | Author | Mom of Two #ConsciousParenting #ParentingTriggers #CycleBreaking #InnerChildHealing #EmotionallySafeParenting #GentleParenting #ParentingPodcast #NervousSystemRegulation #TraumaInformedParenting #ParentingSupport #HealingJourney #MindfulParenting #SelfWorth #BreakingCycles #parentingwithintention ***************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a parent coach, author, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. Here’s a clear snapshot of who she is and what she does: 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. 🎧 Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness. Access The Masterful Parenting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**: https://calendly.com/annealvares Website: www.annealvares.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Tiktoc: https://www.tiktok.com/@masterfulparenting Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ School of Human Kind: https://schoolofhumankind.com  

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    Episode 127 Why Adult Children Put Away From Their Parents (and What You Can Do About It)

    Why Adult Children Cut Off Their Parents (And How to Repair the Relationship Before It’s Too Late) Why do adult children distance themselves from their parents? Estrangement rarely happens because of one argument or one holiday gone wrong. It’s usually the result of accumulated emotional experiences from childhood that were never repaired. In this episode, Anne Alvares explores the deeper reasons adult children pull away — including emotional safety, boundary violations, unresolved childhood wounds, and the impact of personal growth. Drawing on the teachings of Dr. Gabor Maté and her own experience as a Parent Coach, Anne explains: How childhood experiences shape adult relationships Why lack of repair damages long-term connection The role of defensiveness in family estrangement How boundaries (or lack of them) affect adult children What parents can do — starting today — to rebuild trust If you’re a parent struggling with distance from your adult child, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a path forward. Ready to Heal and Rebuild? The Masterful Parenting Course begins May 1st. Enroll by April 27th to receive a $200 early enrollment discount. Inside this transformative 9-week journey, you will: Understand how your childhood affects your parenting Learn how to pause instead of react Support your child’s emotions instead of fighting them Strengthen connection and reduce power struggles Create emotional safety that lasts into adulthood This is where generational healing begins. ***************************************************************************************   Anne Alvares is a parent coach, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. Here’s a clear snapshot of who she is and what she does: 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. 🎧 Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness.    Access The Masterful Parenting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse   Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com #ConsciousParenting #ParentingTeens #AdultChildren #ParentChildRelationship #FamilyHealing #GenerationalHealing #CycleBreaker #InnerChildHealing #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalRegulation #NervousSystemHealing #TraumaInformedParenting #ParentingWithIntention #SecureAttachment #RelationalHealing

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    Episode 126 How To Build Your Teen's Confidence with Fehintoluwa Alawonde

    Why do so many teens struggle with confidence—even when they seem “fine” on the outside? In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Fehintoluwa Alawonde to unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface for today’s teens—and how parents can support them in building a strong, grounded sense of identity. Because confidence isn’t something we can force or fix. It’s something that develops through safety, connection, and self-understanding. In this episode, we explore: Why teen confidence is more fragile than it appears How identity is shaped during adolescence (and what can disrupt it) The hidden impact of pressure, comparison, and social expectations What teens actually need from parents (it’s not what you think) Practical ways to support your teen without pushing them away If you’ve ever worried about your teen’s self-esteem, independence, or sense of self—this episode will give you a new lens and practical tools to show up differently. 💛 Because raising a confident teen doesn’t start with changing them… It starts with how we relate to them. Fehintoluwa Enny is a wife, mum, health professional, youth mentor, and coach, as well as the founder of Quantum Impact Hub. For over 15 years, she has walked alongside teenagers, creating safe spaces where they feel seen, heard, and confident in who they are becoming. Alongside her extensive mentoring experience, she is currently advancing her formal coaching training, deepening her expertise in helping young people build clarity, resilience, and purpose. She also serves in a leadership role within her healthcare profession, where she is passionate about growth, excellence, and people development. Through Quantum Impact Hub, Fehintoluwa partners with parents and guardians to raise emotionally intelligent, purpose driven teens who understand their identity and step boldly into their future. Seeing a young person find their voice and strength is not just her work, it is her calling. *************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a parent coach, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills   Access The Masterful Parenting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse   Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  

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    Ep. 125 The Truth About Work-Life Balance for Parents (No One Talks About) with Dr. Rosina McAlpine

    Dr. Rosina an internationally recognized expert on parenting, managing work and family life, working parents, researcher, and media contributor. Dr. Rosina is the founder of Win Win Parenting, a research-based program that is delivered in small, medium and large organisations and workplaces for all levels of government to inspire and resource working parents with strategies to better navigate day-to-day parenting challenges, support their mental health, manage work-life balance, reduce stress, and prevent burnout. Dr. Rosina can offer a unique perspective –she has been featured on TV, print and radio media platforms – highlights include: the New York Post, The Today Show, with a regular spot on ABC Radio, and has spoken at corporate events globally. https://www.linkedin.com/in/drrosina/ https://www.facebook.com/drrosina https://www.instagram.com/drrosinamcalpine ***************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares. I came from childhood pain. I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified. My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story. When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children. Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids. When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change. When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting. I have over 17 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges. I teach parents relational parenting so you can foster healthy relationships with your children. Let me help you to change. I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly coaching support. Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free. My mission is to help parents. Much love, Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting  

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    Ep. 124 Why You Keep Reacting To Your Child (Even When You Don't Want To) #parentingtriggers #childhoodggers

    Why do parents react to their children even when they don’t want to? In this episode of the Masterful Parenting Podcast, Anne Alvares explains why parenting reactions often come from nervous system activation rather than conscious choice. When children push boundaries, talk back, or refuse to listen, parents can quickly shift into fight-or-flight responses that lead to yelling, frustration, and guilt. Anne shares how childhood experiences shape parenting triggers and explains the difference between reacting and responding to your child. She also introduces a simple pause method that helps parents regulate their emotions and respond with intention instead of reacting in the heat of the moment. If you want to stop yelling, reduce power struggles, and create a calmer relationship with your child, this episode will give you practical tools to start changing the pattern. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • Why parents react to their children even when they know better • How your nervous system influences your parenting responses • The connection between childhood experiences and parenting triggers • The difference between reacting and responding to your child • How the pause method can help you stay calm during difficult moments • Why emotional regulation is one of the most important parenting skills • How responding instead of reacting strengthens connection with your child Key Takeaway Parenting isn’t about being perfect. It’s about learning how to pause long enough to choose a response instead of letting your nervous system take over. When parents learn to regulate themselves first, they create a calmer home and help their children learn emotional regulation too. Learn more about Anne’s work and parenting programs: Masterful Parenting Course Join the 5-Day Challenge: Reactive to Relational Reboot to learn practical tools that help parents stop reacting and start connecting with their children. ********************************************************************* ABOUT ANNE Anne Alvares is a parent coach, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. Here’s a clear snapshot of who she is and what she does: 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. 🎧 Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness.    Access The Masterful Parenrting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse   Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com #masterfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingjourney #parentingcoach #connectedparenting #calmparenting #mindfulparenting #parentinggrowth #emotionallyintelligentparenting #parentingtransformation #raisingresilientkids #parentingcommunity

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    Episode 123 Stop Calling Your Child Disrespectful: What It Really Reveals About Your Childhood #parentingtips #childhood

    Stop Calling Your Child Disrespectful: What It Really Reveals About Your Childhood When your child talks back, rolls their eyes, or challenges you, it’s easy to label the behavior as “disrespectful.” But what if that label says more about your unresolved childhood pain than your child’s character? In this episode, Anne Alvares explores why the word “disrespect” is often emotionally charged and how our reactions are shaped by our own early experiences. Drawing on the teachings of Dr. Gabor Maté, Anne explains how childhood suppression, control-based parenting, and unhealed wounds influence the way we interpret our children’s behavior. You’ll learn: Why “disrespect” is often a nervous system trigger How childhood conditioning shapes our reactions The difference between control and connection Why labels create distance in relationships How to respond to big emotions without shaming The powerful shift from demanding respect to modeling it This episode is for parents who want to break generational patterns and build emotionally safe relationships with their children. And if this topic resonates with you, I’m inviting parents to join my 5-Day Challenge: Reactive to Relational Reboot, where I teach practical tools to help you pause instead of react and build a more connected relationship with your child. ✨ Join the challenge or DM me to find out more. Much love, Anne Alvares Parent Coach | Educator | Author | Host of the Masterful Parenting Podcast | Mom of Two #masterfulparenting #consciousparenting #relationalparenting #breakinggenerationalcycles #mindfulparenting #gentleparenting #parentingpodcast #parentcoach #healingparenting #raisingemotionallyhealthychildren #drgabormate #nervoussystemregulation #parentinggrowth

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    Ep. 122 The Hidden Cost of Raising "Good" Kids (That No One Talks About)

    Many parents want their children to be well-behaved, respectful, and cooperative. But what if raising a "good" and compliant child comes with hidden emotional costs?   In this episode, we explore the hidden cost of compliance and why children who appear easy, obedient, or "good" on the outside may be struggling on the inside. You’ll learn: Why compliant children often become people-pleasers How childhood patterns shape adult relationships Why emotional suppression can start in childhood The difference between obedience and connection How to raise confident, emotionally healthy children When children learn to disconnect from their feelings in order to please adults, they may grow up struggling with boundaries, anxiety, and self-trust. Understanding this can transform how we parent. If you want to build a calmer, more connected relationship with your child, this episode will help you see parenting in a new way. 🌱 Learn Masterful Parenting My Masterful Parenting Course helps parents heal from their own childhood experiences and build strong, connected relationships with their children. Course begins March 3rd Enroll by February 28th to save $200 Learn more: www.annealvares.com About Anne Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach, Author, and Mom of Two. She helps parents understand how their childhood shapes their parenting so they can raise emotionally healthy, confident children. #parenting advice #gentleparenting #emotionalintelligentkids #raisingconfidentkids #peoplepleasingchildren #childhoodtrauma #parenting #respectfulparenting #parentingpodcast #howtoraiseconfidentchildren #emotionallyhealthykids #responsiveparenting #parentchildrelationship #breakinggenerationalpatterns #parentingmistakes #parentingtips

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    Episode 121 You Are NOT A Bad Parent-You Are A Triggered Parent

    Parenting isn’t hard because you’re doing it wrong. It’s hard because your nervous system is carrying a lot. This episode is for mothers who are tired of reacting, tired of guilt, and ready to parent from steadiness instead of survival. If you feel called, I’m opening a small 9-week Masterful Parenting cohort starting March 3rd. DM me for more information or email me at [email protected]. Or BOOK a clarity call at www.calendly.com/annealvares JOIN the course and coaching HERE: https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse I am excited to walk this journey with you. Much love, Anne Alvares Parent Coach | Author | Mom of Two #MasterfulParenting #NervousSystemParenting #ConsciousParenting #ParentingSupport #CycleBreaking #RegulatedParent #ParentCoach #MindfulParenting #GentleAndFirm   ************************************************************************************** I carried unresolved childhood pain into my early years of parenting without realizing it. I loved my children deeply, yet I struggled to parent relationally. I found myself easily triggered, relying on control instead of connection, and often feeling discouraged about the parent I was becoming. Through intentional inner work, education, and self-reflection, I began to understand how my past was shaping my reactions in the present. As I healed, I grew—and my parenting transformed. Today, I parent from a place of connection rather than control. There is more peace in our home, stronger emotional safety, and deeper, more loving relationships with my children. I’ve learned that when parents heal themselves, the entire family benefits. Now, as a Parent Coach and Educator, I help other parents do the same. I support parents who want to break generational patterns, reduce reactivity, and build emotionally safe, connected relationships with their children. My work focuses on helping parents understand their triggers, heal childhood wounds, improve communication, and parent with confidence and clarity. Through coaching, education, and ongoing content, I guide parents toward becoming calm, present, and relational caregivers—without perfection, shame, or pressure. Parenting doesn’t have to feel overwhelming or isolating. With the right support, it can feel grounded, intentional, and deeply rewarding. If you’re ready to move from survival mode to connection and create a home rooted in peace, love, and understanding, I’d be honored to support you. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@masterfulparenting Facebook: www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting www.facebook.com/avalvares Course: https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse

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    Episode 120 If Not Punishment, Then What? Real Alternatives That Actually Work #parentingtips

    Episode 120: If Not Punishment, Then What? Real Alternatives That Actually Work Many parents are beginning to question punishment — but they’re left wondering what to replace it with. If we don’t punish, won’t our children become disrespectful, irresponsible, or out of control? In this episode, we unpack the fear behind removing punishment and explore practical, research-informed alternatives that build long-term skills instead of short-term compliance. You’ll learn: Why punishment focuses on behavior change, while children actually need skill development Why regulation must come before correction What “Calm is the curriculum” really means How to use natural and logical consequences without turning them into punishment in disguise How to teach missing skills like emotional regulation, impulse control, and problem-solving What collaborative problem-solving sounds like in real life How to hold firm boundaries without anger, threats, or shame Why repair builds accountability more effectively than fear What these approaches look like across ages — from toddlers to teens Punishment may produce immediate compliance. But teaching produces capable, self-regulating humans. Parenting isn’t about controlling behavior — it’s about raising children who can manage themselves. If this episode resonates and you want support implementing these tools in your home, enrollment is now open for my 9-week Masterful Parenting cohort. We begin soon. See the link in the show notes or DM me “READY” to learn more. #masterfulparenting #consciousparenting #relationalparenting #GentleParenting #parentingsupport #cyclebreaking #connectedparenting #parentcoach #MomsOfInstagram #peacefulparenting #ParentingWithPurpose #emotionalregulation #BreakTheCycle #parentingjourney  *************************************************************************************** I carried unresolved childhood pain into my early years of parenting without realizing it. I loved my children deeply, yet I struggled to parent relationally. I found myself easily triggered, relying on control instead of connection, and often feeling discouraged about the parent I was becoming. Through intentional inner work, education, and self-reflection, I began to understand how my past was shaping my reactions in the present. As I healed, I grew—and my parenting transformed. Today, I parent from a place of connection rather than control. There is more peace in our home, stronger emotional safety, and deeper, more loving relationships with my children. I’ve learned that when parents heal themselves, the entire family benefits. Now, as a Parent Coach and Educator, I help other parents do the same. I support parents who want to break generational patterns, reduce reactivity, and build emotionally safe, connected relationships with their children. My work focuses on helping parents understand their triggers, heal childhood wounds, improve communication, and parent with confidence and clarity. Through coaching, education, and ongoing content, I guide parents toward becoming calm, present, and relational caregivers—without perfection, shame, or pressure. Parenting doesn’t have to feel overwhelming or isolating. With the right support, it can feel grounded, intentional, and deeply rewarding. If you’re ready to move from survival mode to connection and create a home rooted in peace, love, and understanding, I’d be honored to support you. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting www.facebook.com/avalvares Course: https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse #ParentCoach #RelationalParenting #ConsciousParenting #EmotionalRegulation  #GenerationalHealing #ParentChildConnection #ParentingSupport #FamilyWell-Being #masterfulparenting #masterfulparentingcourse  

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    Episode 119 Why Focusing on Discipline Isn't Helping Our Kids and What Actually Does #dsicipline #parenting

    If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I need to be firmer,” “I need better consequences,” or “Why isn’t this working?”—this episode is for you. So many parents come to parenting already exhausted, doing everything they were taught about discipline… and feeling like things are only getting harder. More power struggles. More yelling. More disconnection. In this episode, we gently challenge one of the most deeply ingrained beliefs many of us were raised with: that discipline is the key to raising well-adjusted kids. Together, we explore why discipline feels so appealing when we’re overwhelmed, what traditional discipline actually teaches children beneath the surface, and why stopping behavior isn’t the same as teaching skills. You’ll learn how behavior is a form of communication—especially for teens—and why responding with control often shuts down the very growth and cooperation we’re hoping for. We also unpack how discipline can unintentionally damage connection, why connection is the foundation for real influence, and what helps instead: relational guidance that sets limits with children, not against them. Finally, we look at the hard but freeing truth—this work isn’t about fixing kids, it’s about supporting parents and healing the parts of us that get activated in the hardest moments. If discipline isn’t working, it doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means your child is asking for something deeper: understanding, regulation, and relationship. Parenting isn’t about control—it’s about connection. And when kids feel connected, real change becomes possible.If this episode resonated with you, you’re not alone. This is exactly the work we do inside the Masterful Parenting Program—helping parents move from discipline and power struggles to connection, confidence, and calm leadership. You don’t have to figure this out by yourself. Thank you for being here, and for doing the brave work of parenting differently. 💛 **************************************************************************************** Do old childhood wounds show up in your parenting today? Do certain moments with your child trigger big reactions—leaving you feeling overwhelmed, reactive, or not like the parent you want to be? You’re not alone. I’ve been there too. I carried pain from my own childhood, and for a long time, it made parenting feel harder than it needed to be. But I learned something powerful: healing is possible—and when you begin that healing, parenting starts to feel different. You feel more energized, less reactive, more confident, and more able to truly enjoy your children. Welcome to the Masterful Parenting Podcast. This is a space where we talk about healing your childhood wounds, building deeper connections with your children, and learning how to communicate in ways that help everyone feel heard. You’ll also hear from special expert guests who share practical tools and insights to make parenting more supportive, intentional, and connected. On the show, we explore topics like self-care for parents, bullying, building healthy relationships, parenting children with autism, protecting kids from cyberbullying, and so much more—because parenting doesn’t come with a manual, but support makes all the difference. Subscribe to the Masterful Parenting Podcast and join us each week.   You can listen on Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/7 Day Launch for the Masterful Parenting Program Facebook: www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting www.facebook.com/avalvares Course: https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingtips #gentleparenting #relationalparenting

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    Episode 118 What Is Relational Parenting? #connection #awareness #parenting

    Relational Parenting is often misunderstood as permissive or boundary-free—but in reality, it’s one of the most structured and effective ways to raise emotionally healthy children. In this episode of Masterful Parenting, we explore what Relational Parenting truly is, why connection is the foundation for learning and behavior, and how parents can hold clear boundaries without fear, shame, or control. You’ll learn how to respond to your child’s needs through relationship first—while still guiding, teaching, and leading with confidence. This episode is for parents who want to raise children who feel safe, heard, and capable—without sacrificing structure or authority. *************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a parent coach, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds. Here’s a clear snapshot of who she is and what she does: 🧠 Background & Experience Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach. She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges. She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work. 🌱 Her Story & Approach Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children. Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness. 💡 What She Teaches Anne specializes in: Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control. Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns. Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children. Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills. 🎧 Public Presence Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children. ❤️ What Makes Her Different Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships. In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness.    Access The Masterful Parenrting 9 Week Course HERE 👇 https://annealvares.systeme.io/masterfulparentingcourse   Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com #masterfulparenting #parenting #healing #childhood #parentingtips #awareness  

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    Episode 117 Guest Lauren Greeno: What The Research Really Says About Our Kids #childdevelopment #parenting

    Lauren Greeno is a child development specialist, parent coach, and founder of The Parenting Collaborative. With a Master's in Child & Adolescent Development, she translates cutting-edge brain science and attachment research into tools parents can actually use. Her work challenges surface-level parenting advice, helping parents decode what's really driving their child's behavior so they can respond with confidence instead of confusion. She's a mom of two who knows firsthand that traditional strategies don't always work, which is why she's committed to bringing real developmental science out of academic journals and into the homes of parents who need it most. Lauren's Links.: Website: www.theparentingcollaborative.com parent coaching https://www.theparentingcollaborative.com/workwithme ***************************************************************************** ABOUT YOUR HOST: For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares. I came from childhood pain. I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified. My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story. When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children. Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids. When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change. When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting. I have over 17 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges. I teach parents relational parenting so you can foster healthy relationships with your children. Let me help you to change. I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly coaching support. Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free. My mission is to help parents. Much love, Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #healing #parenting #masterfulparenting #parentingtips #podcast #youtube

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    Episode 116 Your Child is NOT The Problem #parenting #behaviour #parentingtips

    When children struggle, parents are often told to fix the behavior. But what if the behavior isn’t the problem at all? In this episode of Masterful Parenting, we explore a powerful reframe: children’s behavior is communication, not defiance. You’ll learn how to look beneath challenging behaviors, understand what your child’s nervous system is expressing, and respond in ways that build connection, safety, and long-term emotional resilience. This episode is for parents who want to guide their children without shame, control, or fear—and who are ready to lead with curiosity instead of blame. *************************************************************************************** Hi, I’m Anne Alvares—Parent Coach, School Counsellor, and Mom of Two. I grew up carrying deep childhood pain. I experienced abuse, control, and parentification, and I know firsthand how unhealed childhood wounds show up in adulthood—and in parenting. My healing journey began nearly 30 years ago when I found the courage to tell my story. When I became a mother, I made a conscious decision: the pain would stop with me. I was determined not to repeat the patterns of my childhood with my own children. Today, I help parents do the same. Through Masterful Parenting, I teach parents how to: Heal childhood wounds that impact parenting Understand emotional triggers and reactions Build deep, connected relationships with their children Parent with confidence, calm, and intention When parents heal, children thrive. And when we parent with awareness, we can finally feel good about how we show up. If you’re ready to break generational patterns and raise emotionally healthy, confident children—you’re in the right place. Let me help you heal, grow, and parent differently. Much love, Anne Alvares Parent Coach | School Counsellor | Mom of Two Work With Me 📅 Book your FREE 30-minute Parenting Support Call (No pressure. Just support.) 👉 https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up 📧 Email: https://www.annealvares.com/ Connect & Learn More 🎙 Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ 📚 School of HumanKind (Library): https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library  #MasterfulParenting #ConsciousParenting #HealingGenerations #ParentingSupport #ChildhoodHealing #BreakTheCycle #ParentCoach #EmotionalHealing #ParentingJourney

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    Episode 115 God's Healing Power: My Testimony of Faith and Transformation #faith #God

    God’s Healing Power: My Testimony of Faith & Transformation What happens when you’re desperate, alone, and vulnerable—does God still show up? Can He heal the wounds caused by those who were supposed to protect you? Can He turn deep pain into purpose and use it to impact the world? My life is the answer to those questions. In this episode, I share my testimony of how God healed, protected, and transformed me into the woman I am today. He became the instrument of my healing and the foundation of my purpose. What He placed in my heart fuels the mission He has given me on this earth. My life is a testimony of answered prayers, restoration, and God-given purpose. My prayer is that my story encourages you to strengthen your faith, trust God fully, and lean into Him—especially in your darkest moments. #FaithJourney #HealingTestimony #GodsHealingPower #FaithOverFear #ChristianPodcast #BeautifullyTransformed #TestimonyOfFaith #HealingAndRestoration #PurposeDrivenLife #HopeInGod #FromPainToPurpose #GodIsFaithful #AnsweredPrayers #TrustGod #ChristianWomen #FaithInAction *************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/     Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up     LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/   Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/   👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 114 The Ways We Sabotage Our Kids Unintentionally #parenting #parentingtips

    Parents usually don’t mean to sabotage their kids’ growth—but certain patterns can still slow it down. This episode dives into some common ways it happens, explained plainly and without blaming:   Once we know what we are doing and where it is coming from such as parent fear, cultural expectations, or our own childhood pattern, then we can change things with our kids and foster their growth.   ***************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares. I came from childhood pain. I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified. My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story. When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children. Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids. When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change. When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   I have over 17 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges. I teach parents relational parenting so you can foster healthy relationships with your children. Let me help you to change. I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly coaching support.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents.   Much love, Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #masterfulparenting #parenting #parents #parentingtips #ourkids #gentleparenting

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    Episode 113 Guests Bonnie and Thomas Liotta on STOP Managing Behaviour: Teach Lifeskills Instead #parenting

    Bonnie and Thomas Liotta didn't just study parenting - they lived the transformation. When Bonnie met Thomas in 2011, she was a single mother whose children had behavioral diagnoses. Within six months of implementing his methodology, her home was completely transformed. Now married and co-founders of Creating Champions For Life, they've helped thousands of children and more than 300 families who report a 90% behavioral transformation rate and 78% medication elimination rate.   Their controversial approach? Stop managing behavior and start teaching life skills. With over 60 years of combined experience - including two child development degrees, an award-winning after-school program, and record-breaking business leadership - the Liottas challenge the conventional punishment-based parenting model. They specifically help families whose children have been diagnosed with ODD, DMDD, and ADHD discover that these behaviors can be transformed without medication or harsh punishment.   **********************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 112 Guest Rachel Grant on The Brain Science Parents Need to Know About Trauma Healing #healing

    Rachel Grant is a disruptor of traditional modes of healing, creator of the Beyond Surviving program, international speaker, podcast host, and Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach with an M.A. in Counseling Psychology. She is also the author of Beyond Surviving: The Final Stage in Recovery from Sexual Abuse.   Based on her educational training, study of neuroscience, and lessons learned from her own journey, she has successfully used the Beyond Surviving Program since 2007 to help survivors of childhood sexual abuse who are beyond sick and tired of feeling broken and unfixable break free from the pain of abuse and finally move on with their lives. ***************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares. I came from childhood pain. I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.   My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story. When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children. Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids. When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change. When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting. I have over 16 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges. I teach parents relational parenting so you can foster healthy relationships with your children. Let me help you to change. I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly coaching support. Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free. My mission is to help parents. Much love, Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #parenting #parentcoach #masterfulparenting #podcast #ourkids #healing #trauma

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    Episode 111 Guest Brett Aldrich on Calming Young Minds: How Ayurveda Can Support Anxious Kids

    Do you need support in helping your child with anxiety or depression?   Meet Brett Aldrich.   Brett Aldrich is an Ayurvedic Counselor, Breathwork Practitioner, and founder of Seed the Spirit in Portland, Maine, whose work blends decades of service with deep holistic training. Her career has taken her from supporting survivors of trauma and children with developmental needs to guiding others in Ayurveda, breathwork, and yoga. A graduate of the Kripalu School of Ayurveda and affiliated with the Global Professional Breathwork Alliance, Brett helps people create lasting physical, emotional, and spiritual balance and transformation through simple, sustainable practices.    Link:  https://seedthespirit.com/ **********************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood #anxiety #depression

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    Episode 110 Meltdown Mastery: Dr. Bethany Bilodeau Reveals How to Transform Anger Into Calm

    🌪️ When emotions explode, what do you do? This week on the podcast, I’m joined by the incredible Bethany Bilodeau, and we’re diving deep into one of the toughest challenges so many of us face—meltdowns, anger, and those big, overwhelming feelings. Whether you’re a parent, partner, educator, or simply a human navigating a stressful world, this episode is packed with real, actionable tools to help you stay grounded when everything around you feels anything but. ✨ Bethany shares: • Why meltdowns happen (in kids and adults) • The difference between anger and emotional overload • How to respond in a way that actually helps • What it takes to create safety during intense moments • Strategies you can use TODAY to bring more calm into your home and relationships If you’ve ever found yourself whispering, “I don’t know what to do right now…” — this conversation is for you. 🎧 Tune in now and learn how to turn chaos into connection. Your future self (and everyone around you) will thank you. Dr. B is an expert in human behavior. She has designed innovative programs to help people achieve socially, emotionally, and academically. She holds numerous certifications in behavioral therapies and has been recognized with multiple awards including rhe 2024 Business of the Year on Education, and Business Excellence for Social Equity. Link: www.behaviorbootcamp.com **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood #behavior #calm #bigemotions #anger #meltdown #help #angermanagement  

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    Episode 109 Guest Vivian Cumins on Living A Balanced Life #burnout #balance #living

    A small-town girl from Oklahoma, Vivian Cumins is the author of Break Down Better: 52 Restoring Devotionals for Burned-Out Women, a speaker, and host of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast. A retired career professional with over 26 years of service in the United States Air Force and Forest Service, Vivian draws from a wealth of experiences and a heart for helping others find peace amid life’s demands. Vivian knows first-hand the challenges women face while juggling multiple personal and professional responsibilities. Having walked through her own season of burnout and breakdown, she now shares how partnering with God can bring calm, strength, and joy. With authenticity, warmth, and wisdom, Vivian equips women to honor God, care for themselves, and live a joyful, balanced life.   Vivian is married to her best friend, Eddy, and is the proud bonus mom to two adult children and a “Glammy” to five grandchildren. Links: Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple and Spotify: https://lnk.to/JugglingLife Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/break-down-better-vivian-g-cumins/1148476167?ean=9798898353391 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Breakdown-Better-Restoring-Devotionals-Burned-Out/dp/B0FVK9G76V/ref=sr_1_1?crid=14RS054BAGMWM&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.p46XZM66WlGxJUURLpQNLA.of_HEdRLGaUiv-tm6FxxZzQ3sjxGedTGW8q27lEXYUo&dib_tag=se&keywords=Break+Down+Better%3A+52+Restoring+Devotionals+for+Burned-Out+Women+Vivian+G.+Cumins&nsdOptOutParam=true&qid=1763353068&sprefix=break+down+better+52+restoring+devotionals+for+burned-out+women+vivian+g.+cumins%2Caps%2C159&sr=8-1 ***************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares. I came from childhood pain. I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified. My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story. When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children. Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids. When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change. When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting. I have over 17 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges. I teach parents relational parenting so you can foster healthy relationships with your children. Let me help you to change. I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly coaching support. Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free. My mission is to help parents. Much love, Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library  

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    Episode 108 Guest Hakeem Bourne McFarlane on Choose Yourself to Be Chosen #choose #livingyourlife

    Hakeem Bourne McFarlane is a creator, author, and motivational speaker whose raw truth and relentless tenacity have inspired thousands to stop living on autopilot and start choosing themselves. His message has reached an audience of over 385,000 across platforms but numbers mean nothing if the people don’t transform. He’s the mind behind Choose Yourself To Be Chosen and the founder of the Choose Yourself Movement, a community built for people who are ready to face their excuses head-on, tear down what isn’t working, and build an unshakeable foundation for the life they actually want. He doesn’t just motivate you, he holds a mirror to your habits, expands your comfort zone, and dares you to do the daily work when no one’s clapping. He’s proof that self-sabotage can become self-mastery when discipline is non-negotiable and your integrity loop is activated.  Links: https://www.instagram.com/bigdreamhakeem/ https://www.instagram.com/chooseyourselfchannel/ **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/   👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood   

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    Episode 107 Connection Over Control: Masterful Parenting Through Relationship #relationship #connection

    Parenting isn’t about winning power struggles—it’s about building relationships that last. 💛 In this episode, we dive into how connection becomes the most powerful tool we have as parents. You’ll learn how to reduce conflict, strengthen trust, and guide your kids with confidence without relying on control-based strategies. If you want more peace, more collaboration, and more joy in your home… this one’s for you. 🎧 ****************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood   

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    Episode 106 Guest ChiDinma Nmaele Afam-Break the Cycle: Protecting Children in Education

    Until every child is safe not one of us is safe _Chidinma Nmaele-Afam. Please meet Chidinma Nmaele-Afam, WHO Panelist | Keynote Speaker, Ending Corporal Punishment | Founder, TWEConsultant, African Boarding Schools | Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria Let's keep our kids safe in schools. **********************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love  #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood   

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    Episode 105 End Unhealthy Family Habits - Start Positive Ones #healthy #behaviours

    We can replace the unhealthy behaviours we grew up with in our childhood and replace them with healthy behaviours. That's how we change our parenting and raise emotionally healthy kids. Let me walk you through how. **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love  #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood         

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    Episode 104 Top Ten Unhealthy Behaviours in Families #behaviours #unhealthy #parenting

    If you grew up in a dysfunctional home and have childhood pain, you may not know what unhealthy behaviours are. Let me enlighten you on the top ten unhealthy behaviours in our parenting. Once we become aware, we can change it. **********************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love  #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 103 Punishment: What It Really Does to Our Kids an What To Do Instead

    What does punishment really do to our kids and why doesn't it work long term? What can we do instead in our parenting? Many parents wrestle with the concept of punishment because many of us were raised by punishment. The fact is that punishment does not work long term and our kids actually get damage with the use of punishment.  Punishment is NOT healthy parenting.    There are no benefits to punishment.  Let me unpack this for you and offer alternatives to punishment for correct behavior.   **************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 30 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne.    **Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com   #punishment #parenting #healthyparenting #ourkids

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    Episode 102 Guest Erica Hornthal on Using Morement to Help Us Parent Better #movement #parenting

    Erica Hornthal, known as *The Therapist Who Moves You*, is a board-certified dance/movement therapist and licensed clinical professional counselor who helps people reconnect with their bodies to improve mental health and emotional well-being. As the founder and CEO of Chicago Dance Therapy, she specializes in working with individuals who tend to overthink and underfeel, guiding them to use movement as a powerful tool for self-expression, regulation, and healing. Erica is also the author of *Body Aware* and a sought-after speaker who brings awareness to the vital connection between the body and mind, inspiring people to move differently in order to think and live differently. Erica's Links: www.instagram.com/the.therapist.who.moves.you www.ericahornthal.com **************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 30 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne.    **Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com   #parenting #parentingtips #help #teenagers #children #childhood #coach  

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    Episode 101 Guest Suzanne Simpson on Heling Our Youth With Their Mental Health #youth #mentalhealth

    Welcome Dr. Suzanne Simpson! Helping Parents Get on Their Child’s Turf — Building Connection, Reducing Conflict, and Creating Calm at Home | Host of Get On Their Turf Podcast | Keynote Speaker & Mental Health | Wellness Educator   YT: https://www.youtube.com/@DrSuzanneEncountering   Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/encountering-with-dr-suzanne-simpson/id1724652932   Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/2SMqMnxwcwrJUk7cATsdQB?si=39be77feef984def   drsuzannesimpson.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsuzannesimpson/ **************************************************************************************** YOUR HOST Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 30 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne.    **Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com  

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    Episode 100 Guest Rachelle Mc Garry on Calm, Confident, and Connected Parenting

    Rachelle McGarry,MSW, is a Parenting and Life Coach with 40 years of experience helping families. She is the creator of Empowered Parenting--From Overwhelm To Calm, Confident and Connected, guiding parents to heal old patterns, release limiting beliefs,regulate their nervous systems and build strong, resilient bonds with their children. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelle-mcgarry-99874736a/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558719524794 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rymcgarry/ **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/    Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/     👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting     School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library     #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 99 Guest Rino Murata on Parenting Teens #teens #parenting #neurodivergent

    Make Parenting Make Sense. Rino helps overwhelmed parents replace chaos, confusion, and second-guessing with clarity and confidence. As a trauma-informed parenting coach and consultant, she specializes in complex family dynamics, neurodivergence, and alternative education. Her Core 4 framework brings a practical, grounded approach to parenting. One rooted in logic, trust, and real-life connection. With a background shaped by lived experience and professional training, Rino offers strategies that don’t just feel better. They actually work.   www.rinomurata.com **************************************************************************************** nne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 30 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne.    **Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com   #parenting #parentcoach #masterfulparenting #teens #ourkids #parentingtips

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    Episode 98 Guest Dr. Hasan Merali on Life Lessons From Toddlers #toddlers #lifelessons

    Hasan Merali, MD, MPH, is an associate professor in the Department of Pediatrics, McMaster University and a pediatric emergency medicine physician at McMaster Children’s Hospital in Hamilton, Ontario. He received his medical degree from Harvard Medical School and Master of Public Health degree from Johns Hopkins University. His research focuses on child injury prevention in low- and middle-income countries. He has published more than twenty-five peer-reviewed journal articles, and his work has been featured in The New York Times, BBC, CNN, Science, Medium, The Boston Globe, NBC, CBC, HuffPost, and Popular Science. In 2024, he published his first book titled Sleep Well, Take Risks, Squish the Peas: Secrets from the Science of Toddlers for a Happier, More Successful Way of Life.    Links for show notes Book: https://hasanmerali.com/book/    Website: https://hasanmerali.com/ TEDx Talk. The best life lessons from toddlers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6l97Bixokc X: https://twitter.com/Hasan_Merali LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hasan-merali/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HasanMeraliMD/ ***************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares. I came from childhood pain. I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified. My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story. When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children. Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids. When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change. When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting. I have over 16 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges. I teach parents relational parenting so you can foster healthy relationships with your children. Let me help you to change. I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly coaching support. Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free. My mission is to help parents. Much love, Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #parenting #toddlers #lifelessons #parentingtips #help #masterfulparenting

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    Episode 97 Guest Susan Gladstein on Healing The Trauma of A Parent's Suicide

    Susan Gladstein is a Board Certified Health Coach, Functional Nutrition Specialist, and retired Air Force veteran with a passion for helping women reclaim their health through faith-led, holistic healing. After serving 23 years in the military, Susan shifted her focus to empowering women with the tools, education, and support they need to address the root causes of health challenges and experience true transformation. She is the founder of Faith Over Pharma podcast and community, where she speaks boldly about the broken healthcare system and equips women with natural strategies that honor the body God designed. Susan is also the creator of The Rooted Reset™, a faith-led path to health and energy, and she hosts transformational retreats in Costa Rica for women ready to reset, restore, and step into their God-given potential. Website: www.susangladstein.com Community: https://susangladstein.substack.com/ Podcast: Faith Over Pharma (www.susangladstein.com/podcast) Instagram: @CoachSusanGladstein Facebook: @SusanGladstein **************************************************************************************** **********************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/     Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up     LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/   Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/     👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting     School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library     #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood       

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    Episode 96 Guest Patrick Murakami on Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids #EI #emotionalintelligence #kids #parenting

    Patrick Murakami is a Christian entrepreneur, coach, and survivor—Unpurposed to Unfinished—who equips moms and dads to lead at home like founders, build faith‑aligned businesses, and raise kid‑entrepreneurs; he and his wife are raising a 10‑year‑old entrepreneur. Here are the questions Patrick answers:   How would you describe your approach to parenting? Why is it important to develop EI in our kids and how do we teach this to them? What helps our kids to think in more philanthropic ways? What tips can you give parents on raising emotionally intelligent children? **********************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/   Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/     👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting     School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library     #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood   

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    Episode 95 Breaking Generational Cycles: How God Restores Family and Faith

    From my interview with Susan Gladstein on her podcast: Faith Over Pharma.   What if the story you inherited doesn’t have to be the story you pass down? Anne Alvares grew up carrying wounds she never wanted to repeat. Through faith, healing, and God’s perfect timing, she discovered how to break generational cycles, find redemption, and step into motherhood with intention. From surviving trauma to experiencing two miracle pregnancies—including one at 43—Anne’s story is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, miracles still happen, and God’s plans are always better than ours. ***************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares. I came from childhood pain. I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified. My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story. When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids. When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change. When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   I have over 17 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges. I teach parents relational parenting so you can foster healthy relationships with your children. Let me help you to change. I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly coaching support.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free. My mission is to help parents. Much love, Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #masterfulparenting #podcast #breakgenerationalcycles #faith #god #parenting  

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    Episode 94 Guest Albert Garcia on Being Raised By A Strong Mother #mother #strong #boymom

    Albert Garcia – Filmmaker | Producer |  Screenwriter Albert Garcia is a passionate storyteller with a background in film production, commercial work, and screenwriting. From 2002 to 2019, he served as a producer at Industrial Strength Productions in Irving, TX, where he oversaw the creation of local television commercials—managing casting, location scouting, and post-production.   Albert has appeared in over 18 local commercials as both an extra and featured extra, and has been involved in four independent films. His experience both behind and in front of the camera gives him a well-rounded perspective on storytelling.   The son of Mexican immigrant parents, Albert’s faith is central to his life and his work. As an aspiring screenwriter, he is driven to create meaningful, faith-centered stories that resonate with audiences. His passion for filmmaking has led to inspiring connections with creatives from around the world.   Outside of filmmaking, Albert works in real estate. He and his wife are raising four children, stay active in their church community, and train together as a family in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. His goal is to tell stories that not only entertain but uplift and inspire“    Links: Thejiujitsumovie.com *************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 30 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne.    **Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com #masterfulparenting #parentcoach #parenting #parentbetter #ourkids #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentinghacks #parentingjourney #childcare #children #child #childhood #parenthood  

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    Episode 93 Guest Peggy Pugh on The Inner Healing of Our Childhood

    Dr. Peggy Pugh is a speaker, coach, and author of Rest Is a Weapon: Winning Spiritual Battles From a Place of Rest. She helps Christian women heal from emotional wounds and break generational cycles through faith-based strategies. With over 40 years of experience, Dr. Peggy empowers families to grow stronger by healing from the inside out. Grab her latest book at buy.stripe.com/3cIcN6b354Cn50x4Ni9sk15 and learn more at www.drpeggypugh.com.   **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love  #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 92 Guest Leticia Francis on Healing Trauma in Motherhood

    Leticia Francis is a trauma recovery mentor, keynote speaker, and author of Survival Mode Exit Plan. Known as The Survival Mode Disruptor, she helps high-achieving women break free from survival mode and reclaim lives rooted in truth, ease, and power. With lived experience and a no-fluff delivery, Leticia’s keynotes ignite healing, identity shifts, and unapologetic transformation. Contact Leticia: Leticia R’s Profile linkedin.com/in/leticia-f Websites leticiareneefrancis.com (Company) survival-mode-disrupted.captivate.fm (Personal) books.by/disrupting-survival-mode (Personal) Email [email protected]     *************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 30 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne.    **Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Strategy Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com  

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    Episode 91 Build A Community for Raising Our Kids #community #parenting #ourkids #help

    School of Human Kind Faculty Member Anne Alvares presents "Build A Community for Raising Our Kids". Anne shares her wisdom on community and why it's so important during our parenting stage of life, to NOT go it alone. Harness the help you can get from a community and remember: it takes a village. Your children will be richer for it! #family #parenting #sohk #community #onlinelearning #presentation ****************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 90 Guest Sorcha Newby: Protect Our Kids' Mental Health

    Are you aware that social media can impact our kids' mental health?   Sorcha Newby is a psychological researcher and university lecturer whose work explores how social media impacts children’s wellbeing—particularly sleep, anxiety, and emotional development in 10–12-year-olds. Her research highlights the shortcomings of current social media policies in protecting young users. Alongside lecturing in psychology, Sorcha is committed to empowering parents with   knowledge and practical tools to navigate the digital world confidently. As a mother of two, she brings both academic expertise and lived experience to help families build healthier digital habits.   Sorcha Newby Psychological Researcher | Lecturer | Digital Wellbeing Advocate   LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/sorchanewby TikTok: @sorchapsychology Agent: Great British Speakers    *************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 89 Guest Leena Mehta on Protecting Our Kids From Sexual Abuse #protection #sexualabuse #ourkids

    Want to learn how to protect your kids from sexual abuse?   Listen to Leena Mehta. Leena Mehta is a registered clinical counsellor and an approved clinical supervisor. She is the founder of At Ease Counseling and sees clients in person in Burnaby and online. She supports individuals, youth, and adults with a range of issues, including anxiety, depression, abuse, trauma, self-esteem, life transitions, and grief and loss. She is trained in Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. She also provides couples counselling in Burnaby and online in BC. Finally, she is an approved clinical supervisor who supervises counsellors.   Here are the questions we cover: Why won’t teens share with their parents? Why is it important to get your teen’s permission when sharing information about them? How do we protect our kids from sexual abuse? How do we help our children to heal from sexual abuse? **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 88 How I Help Parents Heal Their Childhood-Dale L' Ecuyer Interview #healingjourney #parentingtips #podcast

    Let's do a deep dive into childhood pain and how it shows up in our parenting.   This is my interview by Dale L' Ecuyer.  Thank you, Dale! **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/  Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

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    Episode 87 Guest Dagmara Sitek on Teaching Our Kids Empathy #empathy #parenting #author #teach #ourkids

    Dagmara is a Montreal-based mother of two, who is committed to children’s education and emotional well-being. Born in Poland, and living in Canada, Dagmara Sitek wears many hats—a mom, a wife, and a digital marketer in her 9-to-5 world.   Once a kid who loved drawing and writing, Dagmara Sitek never thought about writing a ‘real book’ until now.  She jumped into writing children’s books because she realized something important – not all kids get a fair shot at life. Her debut as an author merges childhood passions with a new mission – to bring hope and awareness to children’s struggles.   Where to find Dagmara's books: www.couragetales.com   How to purchase her course: Empathy Heroes Class https://7b1af1d98-s9yw8xqry0o-34qg.hop.clickbank.net   Disclosure:  I am an affiliate for this course.   **********************************************************************************************   For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/     Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up     LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/   Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/       👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting     School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library     #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood   

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    Episode 86 Cynthia Hammer Interviews Me! #childhood #trauma #abuse #parentingjourney #help

    I'm going deep and sharing my life challenges.  My story is heartbreaking, honest, and triumphant. These are some of the questions I answer in my interview on Cynthia Hammer's podcast, Find The ADHD Girls.   What was your childhood experience? How did Masterful Parenting come into being? How do you help parents? How can parents help their children, especially of they had ADHD or are neurodiverse? Thank you, @Cynthia Hammer for giving me the opportunity to share my story. **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents. Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 15 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/   Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/   PLEASE SUBSCRIBE: 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood      

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    Episode 85 Teens & Toddlers Series: My Child Needs Help with Socialization #friendships #social #help

    Two parent coaches, Anjali Cchopra (India) and Anne Alvares (Canada) team up together to answer our parents' questions on the most challenging stages of child development: Teens and Toddlers. This episode, Part 3 of the Parenting Question Series on Teens and Toddlers, addresses a crucial query: "How do I socialize my child?" Parents, have you found yourself pondering this question? Tune in as Anjali and Anne provide valuable insights and guidance on this prevalent parenting challenge.   Find out what to do when our children struggle with friendships. Looking forward to helping you, Parents. ________________________________________________________________________________________ Want to learn how to be a better parent, stop the arguing, and help your children thrive? I can give you the tools. I have over 16 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges.  I teach parents relational parenting so they can foster healthy relationships with their children.   I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly support.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free. Contact Us: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/ LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/@masterfulparenting    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting   School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   My mission is to help parents.   Much love,   Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two   #masterfulparenting #parentcoach #parenting #parentbetter #ourkids #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentinghacks #parentingjourney #childcare #children #child #childhood #parenthood ________________________________________________________________________________________ Anjali Chopra is a Parenting Strategist/ Empowering Educators | Motivational Speaker/ Coach /Trainer /Preschool Consultant/ Co-founder/Founder/Spiritual realm explorer from Noida, Uttar Pradesh, India. Contact Anjali linkedin.com/in/anjali-cchopra-0480a7145 Email: [email protected]    

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    Episode 84 The Energy We Bring Into Our Homes SOHK #energy #parents #parenting #help

    This is the webinar I did for the School of Human Kind in May 2025.   Are you mindful of "The Energy We Bring Into Our Homes"? Join Anne Alvares as she reminds us how important our energy is when we are at home with the ones we love the most.  Let's become more aware and conscious of the energy we bring and learn how our energy influences our children. **************************************************************************************** For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.   Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.   Let me help you to heal and to change.   Reach out for support at [email protected]. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.   My mission is to help parents.   Contact: 👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/   Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up   LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting   Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/    Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/     👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting     School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library   #masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood  

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    Episode 83 Guest Nicole Runyon on Our Kids' Mental Health #mentalhealth #parenting #podcast

    Nicole Runyon, LMSW, is an esteemed psychotherapist, parent coach, and keynote speaker renowned for her expertise in child and adolescent mental health, backed by an extensive 21-year career in the field. She is also the author of the upcoming book Free to Fly: The Secret to Fostering Independence in the Next Generation, available in May 2025. Nicole’s uniqueness lies in the fact she has an uncanny ability to help adults get in the minds of today’s children and better understand them. Her extensive knowledge of technology’s impact on mental health, child development, and the intergenerational variations in parenting has made her a highly sought-after speaker who’s captivated small and large audiences alike.   Nicole’s invaluable insights have earned her significant recognition, leading to appearances in the media, where she shares her expertise on the effects of technology on child and adolescent mental well-being. Motivated by an unwavering passion for supporting children’s well-being and debunking the poor parenting advice that’s flooded our society, Nicole has dedicated her life’s work to empowering parents and educators to help children grow and mature into young adults with purpose, strength and confidence.   Contact Nicole: https://nicolerunyon.com/free-to-fly/ https://nicolerunyon.com/free-to-fly-book-upgrade/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolerunyonlmsw/ https://www.instagram.com/igenerationmentalhealth/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091145239655 **************************************************************************************** Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 20 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne.    **Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Help Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares   www.annealvares.com https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ https://schoolofhumankind.com   #masterfulparenting #parentcoach #parenting #parentbetter #ourkids #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentinghacks #parentingjourney #childcare #children #child #childhood #parenthood    

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Hello Parents! Welcome to the Masterful Parenting Podcast. I’m Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Teacher, and mom of two. Do you struggle with your relationship with your kids because you carry childhood pain? Do you get triggered by your child’s behaviour, become irrational, and maybe even yell at your children? Maybe you want to be a better parent, but you don’t know how. Instead of repeating old patterns, you want to heal your pain, become more aware of your child’s needs,, feel connected to your kids, learn the tools to communicate better, so you can truly enjoy your parenting. If you are ready to heal your childhood pain, raise healthy, connected, and happy kids, and end the cycle of parenting with pain, then join me! Our kids deserve it and we can do this! Let’s go!

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Anne Alvares - Parent Coach for the Masterful Parenting Program

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