The Undoing

One session with Cynthia. The very next day, Bella walked into the gym and started throwing her tucks without a spot. No hesitation. No asking permission. Just doing the thing she had been blocked on for months.Then she went out and shot a 77. A personal best.In this episode, Jenny sits down with her daughter Bella to talk about what mental performance coaching actually looks like from the inside, what it feels like to have a block cleared, and what it meant to work with someone as gifted as Cynthia. This one is equal parts mental performance deep dive and a love letter to a woman who changed Bella's life in ways that are still unfolding.Stay Curious.WHAT YOU'LL TAKE AWAY- Mental blocks are real and they are also moveable.- The subconscious mind doesn't care how hard you're trying. It cares what it believes.- One session can shift something you've been carrying for years.- Performing for others and performing for yourself require two different kinds of confidence.- The people who believe in you before you believe in yourself matter more than you know.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE- Muscle Testing Techniques: [placeholder link]- Cynthia's Coaching: [placeholder link]- Yoda Quote (Star Wars): [placeholder link]CONNECT WITH BELLAInstagram: instagram.com/bellamckimFacebook: facebook.com/bellamckimCONNECT WITH JENNYThe Undoing Podcast | Stay Curious | #ForCynthia #TheUndoing #StayCurious

She Broke the Mental Block, Shot Her Best Round Ever, and Fired Her Mom as Coach What happens when a mental performance coach's own kid won't let her coach them? You get this episode.Today I'm joined by my daughter Bella McKim, junior golfer, former cheerleader, Mid-Southern Conference hurdles champion, and the person most likely to roll her eyes at me on any given day, for a conversation I've been wanting to have since we lost Cynthia.Cynthia was my podcast co-host, my friend, and creator of the subconscious release and rewire program who worked with Bella on a tumbling mental block that we had been trying to crack for years. One session on Wednesday. Standing tucks by Thursday. A personal best 77 on the golf course shortly after. And zero credit given to her mom who set the whole thing up. (You're welcome, Bella!)We talk about how subconscious reprogramming actually works, what it felt like when the anxiety just... stopped, and what it's like growing up with a mom who knows exactly how to help you but is absolutely not allowed to.This one is real, a little funny, and a whole lot of love for Bella, and for Cynthia.#ForCynthia #StayCuriousEpisode Timestamps00:00 Welcome & Meet Bella02:22 Who was Cynthia and how did they meet02:45 "There's My Sweet Bee," Cynthia's nickname for Bella03:00 The tumbling mental block and working with Cynthia04:31 Standing tucks by Thursday, the breakthrough06:42 She shot a 77 and didn't know why08:25 Panic attack before nationals, a clearing session with one hour to go10:18 What is subconscious reprogramming and how does it actually work11:54 Muscle testing 101, anyone can do this13:59 Bella's senior year plans and college golf dreams15:58 Why Bella loves to be pushed hard in training18:02 "I just want you to be my mom"18:17 The moment that will make every parent feel seen19:13 Yoda, Venmo requests, and the sendoffResources & Links MentionedWork with Jenny: [email protected] With UsInstagram: theundoingpodFacebook: The Undoing PodYouTube: The Undoing PodTikTok: The Undoing PodEmail for guest inquiries: [email protected] This Episode? If this episode resonated with you, share it with a parent or athlete who needs to hear it. And if you haven't already, subscribe so you never miss an episode. Every share helps us reach the athletes and families who need this message most.#ForCynthia #StayCurious

Nobody warns you that grief lives in battery drawers. Or that it'll wait patiently for a completely ordinary moment to knock you flat. This episode is me getting honest about carrying loss while still trying to show up for your life, why self-care is not a buzzword when you're grieving, and how you can be the most powerful person in the room and still need a good cry in your car. Just me? Cool, come listen anyway.Stay Curious.WHAT YOU'LL TAKE AWAY- Grief doesn't follow a timeline. It shows up in the middle of a Tuesday.- You can check every box of "doing okay" and still get knocked sideways.- Funerals do something for us that we don't let ourselves name.- Checking on people isn't charity. It's just good humanity.- You're allowed to be powerful and tender at the same time.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE- Brene Brown's work on vulnerability: amazon.com/s?k=brene+brown- Ted Lasso: apple.com/tv-prize/ted-lasso- Scandal (Olivia Pope): abc.com/shows/scandal- The Fort Lauderdale travel saga (bonus episode): https://youtu.be/ci2dRFBWgjk?si=4yBslMbUVigY6XwhCONNECT WITH JENNYThe Undoing Podcast | Stay Curious | #ForCynthia #TheUndoing #StayCurious

SummaryThis podcast explores dismantling cultural programming, internalized performance, and identity conditioning. Hosts Cynthia and Jenny share insights on unlearning societal rules, understanding the subconscious mind, and embracing authentic self-expression.keywordsself-development, subconscious mind, cultural conditioning, trauma healing, unlearning, personal growth, nervous system, social media, AI, authenticityChapters00:00 Introduction to The Undoing Podcast02:42 Dismantling Cultural Conditioning08:50 The Power of Mindset and Programming09:48 The Journey of Friendship10:26 Challenging Norms in Healing11:52 Social Media and Marketing Myths13:12 The Rise of AI and Mistrust13:45 Intuition and the Subconscious Mind15:07 Understanding the Rules of the Mind17:30 Shattering Illusions19:10 Unlearning and Rediscovering Self21:18 Questioning Authority and Beliefs23:02 Curiosity as a Tool for Growth27:26 riverside_outro_jenny's_studio.mp4ResourcesThe Game of Life and How to Play It by Florence Scovel Shin - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A7X7U4QThe Rules of the Mind (concepts) - https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newLDR_81.htmAI and Singularity Predictions by Elon Musk - https://www.cnbc.com/2023/01/09/elon-musk-ai-surpassed-humanity.htmlGuest linksInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/theundoingpod/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585533177125TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@the.undoing.pod?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcIt's not you. It's the programming. Stay curious.

We wrote these words together.And then she read them back with full drama, full excitement, and then cracked herself up mid-sentence.That’s her. That was always her.A podcast about dismantling the programming that taught women who to be.Unlearning the rules. Breaking cycles. Telling the truth out loud.The Undoing. Episode 2. Friday.Stay curious.

Some episodes don't go the way you planned. This is one of them.Before The Undoing had its first episode, it lost one of its founding voices. In this pilot, Jenny sits down alone, grief still fresh to talk about her dear friend and co-creator Cynthia, who passed away unexpectedly before the show could launch.This isn't the episode they imagined recording together. But it's the one that needed to happen.Jenny shares the friendship, the laughs they never got to have, and the lives Cynthia was already changing through her work with the Mabry Method. She reflects on what it means to carry that legacy forward and why she made a promise to keep going.Because that's what Cynthia would have done.If you've ever loved someone who made you better, this episode will find you.In memory of Cynthia. This one's for her.Stay Curious.