28 - Resources for Recovery

I just discovered my husband looking at pornography- what dod I do? The importance of connecting to safe, effective, and knowledgeable resources right away after discovery is invaluable for both the betrayed partner and the sex/porn addict. In this episode Patrick and Kylene discuss effective resources and include the most common links they recommend using to get started below. For addict: 1) Find a CSAT in your local area https://iitap.com/search/custom.asp?id=5357   2) If that's not possible, find a CSAT or sex addiction therapist or coach that works virtually (here are some starting places) www.puredesire.org Additional resources: https://www.drpatrickcarnes.com/getting-help Boulder Recovery (2 week recovery intensive) Beginagaininstitute.com   3) Connect to a local recovery group (we like the conquer group that you can find locally or online both at puredesire.org and soulrefiner.com www.samsonsociety.com    4) Read books and listen to recovery podcasts: RecoverU podcast  Pure Desire podcast Pure Desire book by Ted Roberts Clean by Doug Weiss Unwanted- Jay Stringer For the betrayed spouse:   1) Connect with a trauma therapist or coach who is familiar with sex addiction and works with betrayal trauma recovery  - look for someone who also has trauma processing modalities outside of talk therapy   If you are interested in working with Kylene please click this link and book a free connection call to see if it’s a good fit: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   2) Connect with local, or online groups: Cosa Sanon Betrayal and Beyond - puredesire.org Infidelity survivors anonymous www.btr.org 3) Ready books and listen to recovery podcasts: RecoverU  Pure Desire podcast Intimate Deception. Sheri Keffer Facing Heartbreak - Stephanie Carnes RISE- Misty Terrell