36. You Don’t Attract What You Want—You Attract What You Are

Hey love! Welcome to this powerful episode where I’m sharing a transmission that originally aired inside Spirit Tribe during our theme for the month: Magnetic May. In this session, I opened up about what magnetism really is—not the curated, filtered version we see on social media, but the embodied, soul-aligned, heart-led energy that naturally draws in everything that is meant for you. I talk about: Why magnetism isn’t something you do—it’s something you become How to stop chasing and start attracting from a place of alignment The energetics behind “trying too hard” and how it actually repels what you desire Why nervous system regulation is foundational to true magnetism The role of authenticity, vulnerability, and embodiment in becoming magnetic The sacred power of surrender and allowing yourself to be seen You’ll hear me speak candidly about my own journey with this, including moments I was gripping too tightly or forcing outcomes—and what shifted when I dropped back into trust, presence, and truth. This episode is a loving call to stop hustling for your worth and start being the energy that effortlessly attracts your next level. ✨ If this speaks to you, I invite you to tune in with your journal, your breath, and your open heart. And if you want to deepen this work, come join us inside MOKSHA happening June 25 & 26th! A free 2-day live embodiment series to liberate your most authentic expression (hellllloooo being magnetic AF!) Save your seat here. Make sure we are following eacb other on social media @thelesliemedley. Send me a message on IG with your biggest takeaways!