Are You Part of the Problem or the Solution?

Do you spend more time focused on the problem or coming up with a solution? Tune into this discussion on 10/29/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley!In order to solve conflict it requires you to understand the other person has different thoughts and feelingsAre you listening to understand or to rebuttal?It’s okay to not agreeDoesn’t mean you have to argueRemember you’re not by yourselfSurround yourself with like-minded peopleAre they positive? Or are they negative?Being around more positive people makes you more positiveWhen you’re around negative people then you become more negativePart of regulating your emotions is understanding your own limitationsHow’s your prayer life?The only way to overcome a spirit of anger is a spirit of gratitudeAre you fearful or faithful?When you speak with someone during conflict, are you speaking out of anger or out of love?Know when to take time and care for yourselfCan’t pour into another cup when yours is emptyDo you spend more time focused on the problem or coming up with a solution?How can you lead when you have no one that you’re following?Psalm 139:14 CEVWhat you’ve experienced doesn’t have to define who you are“The 5 Love Languages” by: Gary ChapmanUnderstand what fills your love tank:Physical TouchActs of ServiceQuality TimeReceiving GiftsWords of AffirmationRestorative practicesWhat do you do to relax?How can you show love to yourself?How do you manage your time?Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.appFollow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaBFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFollow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfrConnect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz