Living Radiance

On March 3, 2026, LaCole shares an introduction to improving one's financial education and basics to becoming a true investor. There are set mindsets that separate the poor and the rich. Listen carefully and take notes to learn how to set yourself up for building wealth. Stop looking for quick fixes and become a better steward of what you have.Colossians 3:1-10 NLTEphesians 6:13-19 NLT1 Corinthians 10:31-33 NLTBook: Rich Dad’s Cashflow Quadrant: Guide to Financial Freedom by: Robert T. KiyosakiPoor people often say, “Investing is risky.”Rich people often say, “Being financially uneducated is risky.”Lacking financial education, experience, and guidance makes investing riskyInvesting is the key to financial freedom.Five things happen to people who do not invest, or who invest poorly:They work hard all their lives.They worry about money all their lives.They depend on others, such as family, a company pension, or the government, to take care of them.The boundaries of their lives are defined by money.They will not know what true freedom is.Most people learn how to work for money. You have financial freedom when you have money working for you“The more money you have working for you, the less you pay in taxes — if you are a true investor”According to Robert Kiyosaki, 401(K) plans are possibly the worst ways to plan for retirement because:TIME magazine has been predicting that millions will not have enough money to retire after a lifetime of turning their money over to strangersA typical 401(K) plan takes 80% of the profits and the investor may get 20% if they are lucky.The investor puts up 100% of the money and takes 100% of the risk so the 401(K) company makes money, even if you as the investor loses moneyTaxes work against you with a 401(K) plan at a income-tax rate of around 35%If you take the money out early, then you’ll have to pay an additional 10% penalty taxYou have no insurance if there is a stock-market crashThis retirement plan is for people who are planning to be poor when they retireSmart investors understand taxes before investingI am not saying 401(K) plans are bad, although I would never have one. For me, they are too expensive, too risky, too tax-inefficient, and unfair to the investorI believe there are better ways to invest, but they require financial education“If you are a true investor, it does not matter if the markets are going up or coming down. A true investor does well in any market condition.”“Remember that the U.S. dollar has lost 95% of its value since 1971. It will not take long to lose the rest of its value.”“The more people you are indebted to, the poorer you are…The more people you have indebted to you, the wealthier you are. That’s the game.”Proverbs 24:1-12 NLTMatthew 11:28-30 NLTYou can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!Quick Bio:https://lacolepurlzpurley.link

Key OutcomesOn June 23, 2026 LaCole shared two major personal announcements with her Living Radiance group: she is leaving Faith Church to join Union Baptist Church of Chesterfield, and she has secured a new apartment moving in July 1st. The group responded with full support, framing both decisions as acts of obedience to God. The session also included a spiritually rich reflection on Father's Day, family reunion insights, and lessons from a women's conference. Encouragement for Men's Mental Health Awareness Month.AnnouncementsChurch transition: LaCole is leaving Faith Church after ~1.5 years of growing dissatisfaction with megachurch structure, nepotism in leadership, and lack of community intimacy; moving to Union Baptist Church of Chesterfield.Living Radiance continues: The connect group will remain accessible through Faith Church's platform — open to non-Faith Church members — so recordings and notes stay available.New apartment secured: 500 sq ft one-bedroom at $665/month (down from $728); gated community with security cameras, free parking, no carpet; move-in July 1st.Women's Conference: Attended a 6-hour Saturday conference at Union Baptist Church of Chesterfield for $25Decisions MadeLaCole will maintain her connect group leader status at Faith Church while personally attending UBCCGroup unanimously affirmed the church transition as God-directed; framed Faith Church as a foundation, not a final destination.Key Themes & ReflectionsMatthew 6:33 ("Seek the kingdom of God above all else") surfaced repeatedly across the weekend — at the women's conference, family reunion, and in a 5-hour conversation with Aunt Greta.Father's Day breakthrough: First year LaCole genuinely honored her late father (Lamont Purley, passed April 2014) without grief or anger; moved by a young man's testimony about forgiving his absent father.Core lesson from Aunt Greta: LaCole has carried a lifelong burden to make others proud since childhood; the reframe — make God proud first, everything else follows.Women's conference takeaway: "Throne before the phone" — prioritize God before scrolling; prayer must be intentional, not habitual. BUSY reframed as "Being Under Satan's Yoke."1 Peter 4:10 cited: Use God-given gifts to serve others, not self; serving others reduces self-centeredness and opens the door to receiving blessings.Community/village theme: Great-uncle's account of shared breastfeeding and collective child-rearing as a model of true Black community; breakdown of the village linked to isolation, depression, and generational damage.You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!Quick Bio:https://lacolepurlzpurley.link

Key OutcomesThe session recorded on June 16, 2025 focused on Men's Mental Health Awareness Month (June), exploring why men's mental health goes undiscussed, the systemic and social pressures men face in relationships, and how both men and women must hold themselves accountable to break destructive cycles. Biblical scripture was used to ground the discussion in themes of weakness, humility, and purposeful living.Decisions MadeMen's mental health is under-acknowledged: Despite June being Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, virtually no men LaCole spoke with — over a dozen — had raised or discussed it.Negative narratives dominate: Toxic relationship stories and "deadbeat" narratives get disproportionate social media traction; healthy relationships and good men are largely invisible online.Accountability is mutual: Women must also call out destructive female behavior (e.g., using children as weapons, initiating violence) — not only hold men accountable.False media messaging is harmful: Content framed as empowerment often deepens relational destruction; consumers must critically filter what they absorb.Key Discussion PointsWhy men don't seek mental health help: Men are socially conditioned to suppress emotions; excuses rooted in upbringing persist even when resources are widely available and visible.Relationship dynamics: LaCole's relative's situation illustrated how dismissal, lack of validation, and pressure around marriage push men away from commitment — especially when communication is broken.Legal/financial fears around marriage: Men, particularly Black men, fear divorce laws in community-property states that could strip decades of individual financial work.Co-parenting weaponization: Some mothers restrict father access and use children as leverage, yet publicly frame themselves as solo parents — a dynamic that rarely gets scrutinized.Men and grace: A father's advice shared by LaCole's boyfriend — "If she cannot offer grace, she is not someone you want to marry" — was highlighted as rare but valuable relational wisdom.Scripture References2 Corinthians 12:5–10 — Power is made perfect in weakness; leaning on Christ through hardship rather than self-reliance.2 Peter 2:1–3 — Warning against false teachers who spread destructive messages under the guise of empowerment.Hebrews 12:28–29 — Prioritize pleasing God over seeking human validation and approval.Philippians 1:6 — God completes the good work He begins; men should focus on their God-given purpose.Resources Shared • Urban League program (West Florissant, St. Louis): Men's program offering suits, interview coaching, and life navigation support — not limited to formerly incarcerated men.You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!Quick Bio:https://lacolepurlzpurley.link

Learn what your energy vampires are with LaCole “Purlz” Purley from Living Radiance on 12/23/2025! You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Hebrews 6:11-12 ESVDoing something new requires quitting something oldWhat are you willing to stop doing to start doing something different?Creative procrastination is deliberately deciding what not to doFind things you can abandonEx: Cut down television watching, social media and internet browsing and instead spend time with family, read, exercise, or something else that enhances the quality of your lifeFigure out which tasks you can delegate or eliminate so you have more time for what truly mattersPut off what isn’t important right now to accomplish what you want in the futureABCDE method when prioritizing your tasksList A for most important. Down to E for least importantDiscipline yourself to finish A tasks before B tasks then C,D,E, etcWhy am I on payroll?Understand what you’re hired for then do your bestUnderstand how to get raises and promotionsKnow the key functions to your role to maximize your resultsTake productive steps one at a timeHave a clear goal with a deadlineDon’t tell anyone what you plan to do until you’ve already been taking action for at least 3 weeks consistentlyCreate smaller goals that help you get to your biggest oneStart immediatelyRepeat this for each key area in your personal and professional lifeBecome a new person by forming new habitsYour behaviors largely determine your results, positive or negativeOnly way to get rid of old habits is to learn and replace them with better onesWhen dealing with someone who has negative habits, remember:1 Corinthians 13:4-7Not only should you show patience (love) with others but also with yourselfLiving Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?Let's connect!Quick Bio:https://lacolepurlzpurley.link

If you want to make a change, learn how to quit quitting what you need to do on Living Radiance from 12/16/2025 with LaCole "Purlz" Purley! You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Romans 10:17 ESVRomans 12:2Proverbs 23:1-7Do you get your lessons directly from God’s Word or from your flesh and thoughts?Book: Eat That Frog by: Brian TracyGet creative with your procrastination by better choosing which tasks to procrastinate with first!Decide to do the most important task first to get it out the way first thing in the morningStart saying “no” to lower-value things at the current momentThat’ll lead you to have more time on those activities later onRemember that you have no spare timeBook: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by: Stephen CoveyBegin with the end in mind12 Steps to New Habit Pattern Formation:Identify your desireDetermine one habit you want to develop to improve the quality of your lifeBelieve in yourself by building your confidence with your results/new activityWrite down your goals every day in present tenseEx: I am on time for every appointmentMake a list of three or more benefits for developing each habit you wantEx: “Eat less, eat better”Benefits: Lose weight, clothes fit better, I look betterAnalyze your starting pointAsk yourself “Where am I today?”Ex: You want more money? Calculate exactly what you make todayEx: You want to lose wight? Get on the scale and see how much you weighSet a deadlineMake a list of all of your obstaclesWrite out each excuse you tell yourself or might use to not do the work then aim to solve the problemOvercome your excusesStop whining and quitting and start winning and overcomingIdentify & research any necessary informationMake a list of all involved partiesList accountability partnersList whose help you needGive them permission to hold you responsible when you slip upMake a plan and get startedOnce you start it gets easier to keep goingPractice clear visualizationDecide not to quitGive yourself rewards at each milestoneP.O.O.R. method = People Overlooking Opportunity RegularlyBe tough on yourself by setting high standards. Start small and slow. Be patient with yourself as you grow and improve one day at a timeAs Pat Riley, the basketball coach, said “Anytime you stop striving to get better, you’re bound to get worse”Proverbs 4:23-25

An addiction doesn't have to be negative. Learn how to create positive ones on Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley from 12/9/2025! You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Proverbs 3Book: “Eat That Frog” by: Brian TracyBook: “The Laws of Lifetime Growth” by: Dan Sullivan & Catherine NomuraPsalm 98:9Develop a positive addictionThe Three Ds of New Habit Formation that anyone can learnDecisionDisciplineDeterminationVisualize yourself as you want to beThink on paperList your dreams and goalsSet deadlines and mini goals that will help you get your biggest or long-term ones“Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now.” - Alan LakeinAlways work from a listMonthly, weekly, and daily listsAnd list tasks for you to do for the next day before bedTime management is really life management, personal managementYour ability to choose between the important and the unimportant is the key of your success in life and workAlways make your cooperation greater than your statusWorking with others and increasing cooperation on all parties makes greater things possible in our lives and in the worldFocus more on servant leadershipStart by having more conversation to understand all perspectives and include everyone involved in the decision making process on coming up with solutions to the problemBe honest about your motivesAppreciate and invite the talents and contributions of othersAim to be in charge rather than be in controlIf you believe you have to be in control, you ruin creativity, confidence, and cooperation of your team membersLong-term thinking improves short-term decision-makingSuccessful people think 5,10,20 years into the future and organize their present choices and behaviors to create the long-term future they desireThe law of forced efficiency says, “There is never enough time to do everything, but there is always enough time to do the most important thing.”There will never be enough time to do everything you have to doSaying you need a deadline because you work better under pressure is an excuse for your procrastinationSometimes jobs take longer to do when people rush to get it done at the last minute then have to redo itMake it a game to accomplish the task before the deadlineYou do better work when you’re relaxed and less distracted by timeThree Questions for Maximum ProductivityWhat are my highest-value activities?What can I and only I do, that if done well, will make a real difference?What is the most valuable use of my time right now?Answering these questions correctly is the key to overcoming procrastination and becoming a highly productive personMake it your job to answer this question over and over againAnd always work on the answer to it, whatever it isGoethe said, “The things that matter most must never be at the mercy of the things that matter least.”Whatever you plan to do, do it immediately!

What more can you do? How can you be great? Enjoy this recorded discussion on 12/2/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole “Purlz” Purley!Notes from this session:Psalm 9:1 ESVBook: PAiLS by Chris Brady“There are many things we can do, but probably only one that we were born to do”Individuals usually fell from God’s Way throughSubstance AbusePrideLustIdolatryGreedGood people don’t just suddenly turn evilThey usually start by straying away from their morals slowlyAsk yourself, “What would Jesus say?” in every situationFocus on being and showing your authentic self“Our failures should not define us, but rather they should refine us”“The best way to beat the odds is to continually produce.” - Frans JohanssonTo achieve our goals and best use our time usually requires us to apply more focus and allow less distractionSay no to a lot of “good” things along the way to consistently focus on the one or two “great” thingsOur privileges are not for our pleasure but for our purposeRemember your legacy is based on your impact on others and your life’s value comes from the quality of your relationshipsLike it or not, we are all leaders to someoneWe are a good or bad example for others to followRomans 12:2-3We will be called to leadAre you ready to be a leader?One of our life’s biggest responsibilities is to serve othersPeople may listen to what we say, but they value what they observe us actually do a lot moreProverbs 26:15-28Are your actions worthy of praise? Or are you being foolish?Remember you are under God’s protection no matter your circumstancePsalm 94:14-23Good examples inspire others to be good and better themselvesPower of Influence — AssociationSocial Pillar of HealthPeople’s life’s contribution can be summarized in one sentenceWhat sentence summarizes your life?Common examples: Was a good father/mother, wife/husband, child, etcTo accomplish more doesn’t have to take away from being a wonderful family memberAre you using this as an excuse to go no further with your life?It’s your choice to do something more with your lifeAsk: How can I make this more fun? How can I find enjoyment in what I do?Improve your internal thinking to improve your external resultsOur dream must kill our bad thinking or else our bad thinking will kill our dreamsYour daily actions are your choiceGreatness is calling you! God called you for moreLiving Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app

Do you know yourself? What motivates you? Tune into this recorded discussion on 11/25/2025 of Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley! Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Notes from this session:Book: “The Laws of Lifetime Growth” by Dan Sullivan & Catherine NomuraBook: “PAiLS” by Chris BradyPractice a No-Entitlement AttitudeYour greatest contribution will come from your best originalityLook for ways to make a contributionDo it for its own sake and for the sake of growthProverbs 3:5-6Beware of reciprocity2 Corinthians 9:4-11Steven Pressfield wrote, “Our job in this lifetime is not to shape ourselves into some ideal we imagine we ought to be, but to find out who we already are and become it”Always make your performance greater than your applauseRecognition can become a growth stopperWhich stifles imagination and undermines motivationCreate your own standardsHave a clear idea of your personal best both privately and publiclyRomans 12:2Track your progress and resultsCelebrate your winsSeparate performance from contributionsTreat applause as something to be grateful for, not an entitlementTry to be present in the momentDon’t worry about the outcome until you get thereSuccess is a process not a destinationThe more successful you come, the more important it is to practice proactive gratitudeConnectedness, Commitment, and HumilityGratitude eliminates isolation, egotism, and arrogancePeople who isolate themselves are cut off from crucial knowledge, resources, and capabilities that others can provideWrite down 5-10 things you’re grateful for each dayExpress your gratitude in a heartfelt wayAlways make your enjoyment greater than your effortThe most authentic version of ourselves are what we should focus on bringing to the worldKnow yourself and always learn more about yourselfKnow what you have and what you wantGenesis 12:2We have to train ourselves to not be stingyGod blesses you so that you can bless othersStart by honoring and praising GodJohn 3:16Think of ways to give more:TimeServingIf you were God, would you bless you?No one can set you up for success more than God canThe way to get your life back is to give it awayYour kids don’t do what you say to do. They do what you areJohn 15:8Do you want to give God glory?You do it by giving Him your whole lifeTrue prosperity and blessing is when you’re full of faith, love, joy, and peace!You can be poor in more than just moneyHow do you help the poor?Be generousFor others which benefits yourselfAre we teaching our children worship, praise, and gratitude?Touch the hearts of peopleYour world gets bigger than you by you giving to others

You can make your future greater than your past. Here's how. Tune into this recorded discussion on 11/19/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley!Notes from this session:Psalm 23:4From the movie After Earth, Will Smith’s character said, “Fear is not real. It only exists in our imagination of the future.”Book: “The Laws of Lifetime Growth” by Dan Sullivan & Catherine NomuraMost growth happens as a result from many small steps.The key is to keep taking themAlways keep your future bigger than your pastNo matter the circumstancesA bigger future is not about how much time you have left; it’s about what you do with that timePsalm 82:5Use what you’ve learned as a foundation for something biggerBigger questionsBigger contributionsBigger achievementsBigger learningKeep growing until the very last days of your lifeWhere do I start?Ask yourself a future-focused questionWhat can you do now that’ll make you feel happy three years from now when you look back on today?Helps you establish a relationship with your own bigger futureSet meaningful goalsTake a long view (10-25 years from now)You don’t get to choose all the experiences you have, but you do get to choose what to do with themCommon choices are:Use them as excusesWear them as badges of honorTurn them into emotional triggersGo on a good rantHave a good cryBury them like skeletons (although they resurface later)Or you can use them as raw material to learn fromHarness the emotional energy behind them to drive you to make good use of their lessonsChoose to get better or get bitterRomans 1:5-8Look at each life experience as a lesson for the foundation to provide better experiences in the futureTransform your experience:What worked in that situation? What could you have done better?What can you do to make a better experience next time?Change the conversationListen to yourself talking and your self-talkProverbs 13:2Are you speaking to be heard or to listen and learn?Are you trying to move the conversation forward or just prove a point?Proverbs 14:1Do you talk about what happened to you or about what you learned from what happened to you?Is your experience the starting point or the ending point of the conversation?Which stories are you sharing repeatedly?Follow these three words for yourself, for others and for GodCommitmentForgivenessSurrenderLiving Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!

Am I a failure? Is it okay to fail? Tune into this recorded discussion on 11/12/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley!Notes from this session:Psalm 74:1-12Philippians 2:5Book “An Enemy Called Average” by John L. MasonChristians should be the happiest, enthusiastic people on EarthEnthusiasm in Greek is entheous which means “God within” or “full of God”Our attitude always tells others what we expect in return“A laugh a day will keep negative people away”As your enthusiasm and joy increases, your fear and stress decreasesJohn 15:10-11On Pg. 47 - One of the great prizes of victory is the opportunity to do moreIncrease momentum after victories and defeats5 ways to have divine momentum in your life:Be fruitful. (2 Cor. 9:10)Speak the truth. (Eph. 4:15)Be spiritually mature. (Heb. 6:1)Crave the Word of God. (1 Pet. 2:2)Grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus. (2 Pet. 3:18)God’s definition of spiritual momentum is found in 2 Peter 1:5Let go of whatever makes you stopRomans 14:12-20Only those who don’t expect anything are never disappointedOnly those who never try, never failIt’s always better to fail in something than to excel in doing nothingAnd we only fail when we don’t learn from the experienceGod doesn’t see us as failures. He sees us as learnersHere’s the key to being free from the stranglehold of past failures and mistakes:Learn the lesson and forget the detailsRemember: the call is higher than the fallTrue Christian leadership always begins with servanthoodSelfishness always ends in self-destructionJohn Ruskin said, “When a man is wrapped up in himself, he makes a pretty small package”Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app

Are you more focused on pleasing people or pleasing God? Tune into this recorded discussion on 11/5/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley!Notes from this session:Romans 12:2Are you more focused on pleasing people or pleasing God?Your life is a gift from God and what you do with it is a gift back to HimProverbs 10:19John 10:10Scriptures sent by Sharon:Hebrews 1:3Psalm 19:7-8Psalm 34:5Book”: PAILS" by Chris BradyTop 5 Regrets of the Dying:I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. I wish I hadn't worked so hard. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. I wish I had let myself be happier.Proverbs 4:23-27 CEV55 Famous Alibis from “Think and Grow Rich” by: Napoleon HillStop making excuses for your behavior or claim “This is just who/how I am”Education can be transformativeExcuses are worthless to winners/conquerorsWhat do you live for?You are not here to understand everybody nor to be understood by everyone. You are here to understand yourselfYou are as deep as you’re willing to dig into your own testimonyI aim to represent what real people are going throughLearn to enjoy yourself through your imperfectionsAnd accept the imperfections of othersDo the work in yourself so we all can do the work as a communityLiving Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.appFollow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaBFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFollow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfrConnect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz

Do you spend more time focused on the problem or coming up with a solution? Tune into this discussion on 10/29/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley!In order to solve conflict it requires you to understand the other person has different thoughts and feelingsAre you listening to understand or to rebuttal?It’s okay to not agreeDoesn’t mean you have to argueRemember you’re not by yourselfSurround yourself with like-minded peopleAre they positive? Or are they negative?Being around more positive people makes you more positiveWhen you’re around negative people then you become more negativePart of regulating your emotions is understanding your own limitationsHow’s your prayer life?The only way to overcome a spirit of anger is a spirit of gratitudeAre you fearful or faithful?When you speak with someone during conflict, are you speaking out of anger or out of love?Know when to take time and care for yourselfCan’t pour into another cup when yours is emptyDo you spend more time focused on the problem or coming up with a solution?How can you lead when you have no one that you’re following?Psalm 139:14 CEVWhat you’ve experienced doesn’t have to define who you are“The 5 Love Languages” by: Gary ChapmanUnderstand what fills your love tank:Physical TouchActs of ServiceQuality TimeReceiving GiftsWords of AffirmationRestorative practicesWhat do you do to relax?How can you show love to yourself?How do you manage your time?Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Let's connect!My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.appFollow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaBFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFollow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfrConnect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz

Do you complain and take for granted more than you love and appreciate? Tune into this discussion on 10/22/2025 on Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley! Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!Conflict resolutionAvoiding conflict by not initiating conversationHow to approach confrontationHow to handle fears and overcome themProverbs 17:24Indecision plays into the enemy’s hands because you’re wasting your most precious resource —- timeThe biggest downfall to most people’s blessings and personal growth is the inability to be open-minded enough to listen and to understand new informationRequires gaining new experiencesGetting outside comfort zoneHaving mentorship from those with fruit on the treeProverbs 18:23-24Proverbs 16:11-23You don’t know what you don’t knowDon’t allow pain/fear from past experiences limit you from new onesEvery human being is full of new experiences and knowledgePay attention! Energy vampires vs Energy AmplifiersTake accountability without making excuses nor alibisDo you have accountability partners? Do you have people qualified to hold you accountable?Are they someone who earned your respect?Proverbs 15:28-33Self-analysis questions from “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon HillDo you complain often of “feeling bad?” If so, what is the cause?Do you find fault with other people at the slightest provocation?Do you frequently make mistakes in your work? If so, why?Are you sarcastic and offensive in your conversation?Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life!Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Let's connect!My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.appFollow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaBFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFollow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfrConnect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz

Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life and help people unlock and learn how to use their God-given gifts to pursue their purpose with love. I teach the 5 Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life.Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content!“Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon HillThe 6 Basic Fears are:The fear of povertyThe fear of criticismThe fear of ill healthThe fear of loss of love of someoneThe fear of old ageThe fear of deathSelf-care is necessary because you can’t pour into someone else’s cup if yours is emptySet time boundariesProverbs 18:21Your words and thoughts have more power than you think so be cautious of what you sayHow’s your self-talk?Do you speak positively or negatively?Our feelings are our choicesOther people’s opinions aren’t your realityThe devil’s workshop and greatest fear is negative influenceAre you around energy vampires?Notice when the enemy is trying to make your situation worse than it actually isIt’s up to you to change your mindset to a more positive one

Are you operating off of a spirit of fear or just being cautious? Tune into this discussion on 10/8/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley!Living Radiance is a movement to help people unlock and learn how to use their God-given gifts to pursue their purpose with love. I teach the 5 Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life.Always ask yourself:Where am I spiritually?How am I financially?How is my mental health? What are my emotions?How is my physical health?How is my social health? How are my relationships?What are my daily habits?You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love.* What is fear? - The misuse of the imagination God gave us* Dealing with fear * Joshua 1:9 * Psalm 4:8 * 1 Peter 5:7* From “An Enemy Called Average” by John L. Mason on page 34 * Worry is a route which leads from somewhere to nowhere. Don’t let it direct your life* Action conquers fear; inaction builds fear* Journaling* Eliminating procrastination by replacing bad habits with better ones * Ex: Less time watching tv or social media. Replace that with more prayer, reading, journaling, exercising, and spending quality time with people and loved ones* Importance of having community* Instead of saying “I don’t like people” or “I’m not really a people person,” think “I haven’t found my tribe yet” or “I just haven’t found a lot of people that I genuinely like yet”* Stop allowing fear to dictate your actions and limit your relationshipsLet's connect!My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.appFollow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaBFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFollow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfrConnect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz#god #spirituality #health #christian #faith #podcast #reels #healing #motivation #motivational #viral #viralvideo #fitness #money #books #bible #biblestudy #bibleverse #reading #relationships #marriage #worklife