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EPISODE · Oct 13, 2025 · 33 MIN

Besties, Boys & Boundaries: When You Both Catch Feelings

from Slightly Unsupervised · host Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder

Send us Fan Mail Episode Title: Besties, Boys & Boundaries: When You Both Catch Feelings Description: It’s all fun and flirting… until you both catch feelings. 💔 In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into one of the oldest friendship taboos in the book — what happens when two best friends fall for the same person. Is there a girl code? Is it first come, first kiss? Or is it “nobody wins when besties become rivals”? Inspired by a listener confession, the girls get real about what it feels like when something that started as a joke suddenly turns into jealousy, competition, and confusion. They unpack the emotional tug-of-war between protecting your heart and protecting your friendship — and why, in the end, crushes fade but real best friends don’t. In This Episode: 💘 When innocent flirting turns into emotional territory [03:10] 💔 The unspoken girl code (and what it really means) [08:40] 🔥 How to recognize when competition crosses the line [12:15] 👭 Why your bestie should always win over a boy [14:30] 🙅‍♀️ The one time it’s okay to “back down” and feel good about it [17:00] ❤️‍🔥 Crushes fade, friendships last — how to protect yours [19:45] 🎙️ Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions — Flirts, Feelings & Girl Code Edition 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave us a 5-star review, and share this one with your ride-or-die — especially if you’ve ever said, “Wait… do we both like him?” 👀 #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #GirlCode #FriendshipPodcast #BestFriends #CrushConfessions #FlirtyFriends #RideOrDie #FriendshipMatters #ChooseYourPeople #WomenSupportingWomen #HealingThroughHumor #BestFriendEnergy Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

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