Slightly Unsupervised

Send us Fan MailThe Retirement Home Pact: Why Best Friends Plan to Grow Old Together (And Refuse to Drift Apart)  It started as a joke… but it turned into a pact. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into their very real plan to end up in the same retirement home—and why it’s about so much more than aging, housing, or even logistics. Because behind the laughter, the chaos, and the slightly unhinged planning… is something deeper: 👉 the decision to choose each other for life. As women get older, friendships don’t just “stick”—they require intention, effort, and a shared vision for the future. Jennifer and Jackie open up about why they’ve spent years planning their “retirement home era,” how it gives them comfort knowing they won’t grow old alone, and why this kind of friendship bond is rare—but powerful. They also get real (and hilarious) about:  What their future living situation might actually look like (retirement home vs. friend compound 👀)  Why women often outlive their partners—and what that means for friendship  The importance of planning emotional support, not just financial retirement  The role each bestie will play (caretaker, troublemaker, organizer… you already know 😂)  Why staying connected long-term doesn’t happen by accident And yes… they’ve already trained their kids on what to smuggle in. (You’re welcome.) Because at the end of the day, this isn’t about where they end up— it’s about who they refuse to lose along the way. If this episode made you laugh, think, or text your best friend… we’ll call that a win. 💛 👉 Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your ride-or-die. This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailWe Found Our Way Back: Rebuilding a Friendship After 15 Years Apart What happens when a friendship you thought was gone forever… finds its way back? In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie share the real story of how they reconnected after 15 years apart—and why rebuilding a friendship later in life is rarely instant, but always worth it. From high school best friends to years of silence, life changes, and separate paths… this episode walks you through the exact moments that brought them back together. It wasn’t one big conversation or a dramatic reunion—it was small steps, uncomfortable reaches, and choosing to show up again and again. They open up about:  The first awkward reconnection (and why it matters)  How vulnerability and courage rebuild trust  Why consistency—not intensity—is what brings friendships back to life  The emotional reality of reconnecting after divorce, distance, and time  What it really takes to feel safe, seen, and connected again  How to know if a friendship is worth trying again Plus, their Bestie Rapid Questions get real, emotional, and honest—covering what they wish they had said, what they’ve learned, and why losing each other actually made their bond stronger. If you’ve ever lost a friendship, wondered if you should reach out, or hoped for a second chance… this episode is your reminder that some connections don’t disappear—they just need time, space, and a little courage to come back. Because the best friendships aren’t always the easiest… but they might just be the ones worth rebuilding. This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailWe Didn’t Talk for 15 Years… And It Mattered More Than We Admitted What happens when someone who once knew everything about you… becomes a stranger? In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about the 15 years they didn’t speak — and why that silence mattered more than they ever admitted. This wasn’t a dramatic falling out. No big fight. No clear ending. Just life… pulling them in different directions. But here’s the truth: You don’t just lose the friendship. You lose the person who remembers your life with you. Together, they reflect on:  How a ride-or-die friendship can quietly fade over time  The pain of losing shared memories — not just the person  Why “we just grew apart” doesn’t always tell the full story  The impact of relationships, life changes, and timing  What it feels like to reconnect after years apart  And why some friendships never fully leave you This episode is raw, nostalgic, funny, and honest — full of wild high school memories, late-night talks, and the kind of connection that doesn’t come around often. Because sometimes… The friendships we lose aren’t gone. They’re just waiting for the right moment to find their way back. 🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring If you’ve ever lost a friend, missed someone quietly, or wondered “what if”… this episode will hit you right in the heart. And maybe… give you the courage to reach back out. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailSame Friendship, Different Rules: Why Generations Don’t Get Each Other Ever feel like you and someone you care about are speaking completely different emotional languages?You’re not imagining it… it might be generational.In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into why friendships across different generations can feel confusing, frustrating, and sometimes even hurtful—even when both people genuinely care.From communication styles and emotional expression to boundaries, loyalty, and expectations, every generation was shaped differently… and those differences don’t just disappear in friendships.Jennifer and Jackie get real about: Why generational clashes happen (and why it’s not always personal)  The biggest friction points between Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z  How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend  Real-life examples of generational misunderstandings in families and friendships  Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to move on  How to navigate friendships when you see the world completely differently They also share honest stories about family dynamics, different perspectives, and the challenge of trying to connect when your emotional wiring doesn’t match.Because sometimes… 👉 it’s not the friendship that’s broken…it’s the framework you’re both using.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailWhy You Don’t Think Like Me: The Truth About Generational Friendships Friendship hasn’t gotten worse… it’s just gotten different. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie break down how friendships have evolved from Baby Boomers to Gen Z—and why every generation connects, communicates, and shows up in completely different ways. From the loyalty and “don’t talk about it” mindset of Baby Boomers, to the independent, low-maintenance friendships of Gen X… to the emotionally expressive Millennials and the boundary-driven Gen Z—each generation has its own friendship language. And sometimes… those languages don’t translate. Jennifer and Jackie get real about:  Why different generations expect completely different things from friendship  The biggest clashes between loyalty, communication, and boundaries  How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend  Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to get over it  How to stop taking generational differences personally—and start understanding them They also share real-life stories, generational frustrations, and a few laugh-out-loud moments (including the reality of growing up with wall phones and zero privacy). Because the truth is— we’re all using the word “friendship”… 👉 but we don’t all mean the same thing. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailTouch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves You can insult us. We’ll probably roll our eyes and move on. But disrespect our bestie? Now we’re drafting paragraphs, standing taller, and deciding who needs to be escorted out of the group chat. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the protective instinct that kicks in when someone hurts our people. Why is it easier to defend our friends than defend ourselves? Why do we forgive faster for our own pain… but hold lifelong grudges when someone crosses our bestie? This chapter dives into: Why women go full mama bear for their friends How loyalty can turn into fierce (and sometimes petty) protection The difference between healthy boundaries and permanent blacklists Why our “bullsh*t tolerance” drops as we age How childhood patterns of self-abandonment can turn into over-protection of others When sticking up for your friend helps — and when it complicates things Jennifer and Jackie share real stories from their friend group — girls’ trips gone sideways, shady behavior, teenage locker-room standoffs, Moscow Mule meltdowns, and the unspoken rule: if you hurt one of us, you hurt both of us. They also admit the hard truth: Sometimes we hold onto anger longer than the friend who was actually hurt. Because protecting your bestie feels powerful. Protecting yourself? That’s harder. This episode is about loyalty, love, projection, fierce devotion — and the beautiful, chaotic energy of women who refuse to let their people stand alone. 🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. Listen in, laugh with us, and maybe text your ride-or-die just to say: “I’ve got you.” Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailMaking Friends Later in Life: Episode 9 Vulnerability — How to Open Up Without Overexposing YourselfYou can’t build real friendship without vulnerability — but the older we get, the riskier it feels.In Episode 9 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk about why vulnerability is essential for deep connection, why it feels scarier in midlife, and how to open up without trauma dumping or overexposing yourself.Because here’s the truth:If you never let people in, you’ll only have activity buddies.But if you open up too fast, you might scare off the very connection you’re hoping for.In this episode, we break down:• The difference between vulnerability and trauma dumping • Why surface-level friendships feel safe — but lonely • How to “test the waters” before sharing something deeply personal • Healthy vs. unhealthy responses to your vulnerability • How to build trust in layers instead of emotional leapsWe also share real examples from our own friendship — including how we rebuilt trust after a 15-year gap and why slow vulnerability made our connection stronger.If you’ve ever been hurt, misunderstood, or burned in friendship, this episode will help you open up wisely — not fearfully.Because vulnerability isn’t about spilling everything.It’s about revealing yourself slowly enough to see who can handle it.💛 Series Reminder: First the work on you. Then the work on connection.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailMaking Friends Later in Life – Episode 8 Matching Effort: When You’re Doing Too Much in Friendship (And How to Stop)Have you ever realized you’re the only one reaching out…the only one making plans…the only one checking in? And then one day you stop — and the friendship disappears? In Episode 8 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie dive into what it really means to match effort in adult friendships. This isn’t about keeping score or going tit-for-tat. It’s about recognizing when you’re over-functioning, over-giving, and carrying emotional weight that was supposed to be mutual. We talk about: • The signs you’re doing too much • Why women are conditioned to over-give • The difference between effort and chasing • How to test a friendship without drama • Why silence sometimes tells you everything • And how to protect your energy without becoming cold or bitter We also share real stories from our own friendships — including the 15 years Jennifer and Jackie weren’t friends — and what it took to rebuild trust, effort, and mutual investment. If you’ve ever felt drained instead of connected… resentful but saying nothing… or scared that if you stop trying, there will be nothing left… This episode is for you. Because matching effort isn’t about control. It’s about clarity. And the best friendships? They don’t need chasing — they need reciprocity. Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your ride-or-die. And when you're ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 7: When It’s Not a Match — Friendship Rejection, Ghosting & Moving Forward You met someone.You went to coffee.You thought, “This could be good.”And then… nothing.She didn’t text back. She faded out. Or maybe you realized she wasn’t who you thought she was.In Episode 7 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk honestly about what happens when a new friendship doesn’t work out — and how to handle rejection, ghosting, or misalignment without internalizing it or shutting down.Because let’s be real: if you’re building friendships later in life, rejection can hit harder. It can trigger old wounds — from middle school drama to past betrayals to relationships that didn’t end well. And when that happens, it’s easy to retreat and tell yourself, “See? This is why I don’t try.”But not every connection that fades is a failure.In this episode, we unpack:Why rejection isn’t always personalHow ghosting works in today’s world (even though we didn’t grow up with it)The difference between awkwardness and incompatibilityWhy anxiety on a first meet-up isn’t a red flagHow capacity, life stage, and timing affect connectionWhy you shouldn’t overcompensate or overshare to “secure” a friendshipAnd how to keep trying without becoming bitterWe also share personal stories about red flags we missed, lessons learned the hard way, and how even our own friendship took time to rebuild and realign.Because making friends later in life isn’t about speed.It’s about alignment. And alignment takes time.If a connection fades, it doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It just means it wasn’t the right fit. Keep going.When you’re ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony™ at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailThe Slow Build: Episode 6 Why Real Friendships Take Time (And Why That’s a Good Thing)You met for coffee. It was fun. Maybe even promising.Now what?In Episode 6 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk about the part no one prepares you for — the in-between. The slow build. The space after the first connection where friendships either deepen… or derail.Too many women either rush intimacy (oversharing, trauma bonding, “you’re my soulmate” energy) or retreat completely and keep things surface-level forever. This episode is about the healthy middle ground — where trust builds through consistency, safety, shared experiences, and mutual effort.Jennifer and Jackie get real about:Rebuilding their own friendship after 15 years apartWhy intensity can actually scare people awayThe difference between connection and chemistryWhy timelines matter in early meet-upsHow to avoid overwhelming someone (or being overwhelmed)Why alignment takes time — even with someone you’ve known foreverThey share honest stories about divorce, baggage, bad energy, bathroom trauma bonding, and why not every roulette table stranger needs to come home with you. (Yes, they went there.)Because real friendship isn’t built in one coffee date. It’s built in the steady showing up.Making friends later in life isn’t about speed — it’s about alignment. And alignment grows slowly.🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license.Listen in, laugh with us, and give yourself permission to let friendship unfold at its own pace.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailMaking Friends Later in Life Series | Episode 5: From Insight to Action — Building Friendships Later in LifeMaking friends later in life isn’t about collecting people — it’s about finding the right people.In Episode 5 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie move from the “self-work” episodes into real-world connection: how you actually start building friendships when you’re no longer surrounded by built-in proximity like school, kids’ activities, or coworkers.We talk about the real reason this feels harder now (hint: it’s not you — it’s the lack of shared spaces), why activities beat awkward auditions, and how to create low-pressure first hangouts that feel safe, aligned, and sustainable. From coffee and paint nights to walking groups, cooking classes, markets, and even bingo—this episode is full of practical ideas and honest reminders for women who want connection but don’t want to self-abandon to get it.Because friendship now isn’t about rushing, forcing, or settling. It’s about small steps, mutual effort, and choosing the kind of connection that actually fits who you are today.And remember: Success isn’t how many friends you have — it’s how safe you feel with the ones you keep.When you’re ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony™ at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailMaking Friends Later in Life Series | Episode 4 Boundary Needs & The Friendship Reset — Stay Open Without Self-AbandoningBoundaries get a bad reputation — like they’re cold, harsh, or “pushing people away.” But in midlife friendships, boundaries aren’t walls… they’re how you stay open without losing yourself. In Episode 4 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk about why boundaries feel scary (especially for women raised to be agreeable, keep the peace, and not be “too much”), and why naming what you need is the fastest way to create emotionally safe, sustainable friendships. This episode is for the woman who wants connection — but refuses to self-abandon to get it. We get real about: Why most women aren’t struggling to meet people — they’re struggling to stay open without getting hurt againThe difference between boundaries and rejectionWhat “mutual effort” actually looks like (and what to do when you’re doing all the work)How to recognize other people’s boundaries early (so you don’t take it personally)Why consistency matters more than intensity in later-life friendshipsJennifer’s unforgettable boundary story about the guy who showed up late… and what it teaches about respectMini-Series Reminder Making Friends Later in Life is a short series from Slightly Unsupervised designed to help women rebuild real connection in midlife and beyond. Before we jump into “where to meet people,” we start with the real foundation: self-awareness, energy, boundaries, and emotional patterns — so friendship becomes natural instead of forced. 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective If this episode hit you in the feels (or made you laugh way too hard), we consider that a win. Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. And when you’re ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony™ at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailMaking Friends Later in Life | Episode 3: Your Friendship Wounds & Patterns — Why You Pulled Away (and How to Open Up Again) If you’re trying to make friends later in life but something in you hesitates… there’s a reason.Welcome back to our mini-series Making Friends Later in Life, where we’re slowing everything down and doing it in the right order: first the work on you, then the work on connection. Because before you can build new friendships, you have to understand what happened in the old ones.In Episode 3, Jennifer and Jackie talk about the friendship wounds that quietly change how women show up — betrayal after trust, ghosting, one-sided friendships, and being the “strong one.” We share two short storytelling segments that hit deep: the kind of betrayal that makes you start editing yourself… and the exhaustion of realizing you were carrying the friendship alone.Then we get practical: how to name your wound without shame, stop dragging old pain into new connections, avoid trauma-dumping, and let trust build through consistency over time.To help you move forward, we also walk through a simple reflection exercise — your friendship red flags, green flags, and one boundary you’re keeping from here on out — because boundaries aren’t walls… they’re filters.✅ Download the Episode 3 worksheet here: Episode 3 Worksheet – Red Flags / Green Flags / One BoundaryYour friendship wounds don’t disqualify you from connection.They prepare you for healthier ones.🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective — Real women. Real stories. Rising together. Listen, share with your ride-or-die, and tag the friend who sees you exactly as you are. Then go follow Melinda’s show, Star Women Rising—she’s just getting started.🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust🎧 Subscribe to Slightly UnsupervisedChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailMaking Friends Later in Life | Episode 2: Your Social Energy Style — Why Friendship Feels Draining (or Lonely)Making friends later in life isn’t about trying harder — it’s about understanding yourself better.Welcome back to our mini-series Making Friends Later in Life, inspired by what we’re seeing in women’s groups online: so many women want connection, but they’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or unsure why friendship feels harder than it used to. This series isn’t about “fixing you.” It’s about slowing down and understanding you first — because the best friendships start with self-awareness, not a quick intro blurb.In Episode 2, Jennifer and Jackie break down the three social energy styles — introvert, extrovert, and ambivert — and why mismatched energy can leave you feeling lonely, drained, or misunderstood, even when you do have people around. We share real-life examples (hello, holiday hosting + introvert husbands 😅), talk about why energy shifts as we get older, and why knowing your style helps you choose friendships that actually fit your life.At the end, we do an on-air Social Energy Self-Test and encourage you to take it too.✅ Download the Episode 2 Social Energy Self-Test here: Social Energy Style WorksheetBecause you’re not bad at friendship — you just need one that matches how you’re wired.🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugustIf this episode hit you in the feels, consider it a win. Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride-or-die.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 1: Who Am I Now? Why Friendship Starts With Self-AwarenessHave you ever looked around one day and thought, “I raised the kids, built the life… so why do I feel disconnected?” You’re not broken — you’re just in a new season.In Episode 1 of our new series on making friends later in life, Jennifer and Jackie open an honest, compassionate conversation about why adult friendships feel harder — and why they actually start with self-awareness, not small talk.So many women reach midlife having poured everything into family, marriage, and work… only to realize they don’t actually know what they need anymore — or how to articulate it. This episode isn’t about posting another vague “looking for friends” blurb. It’s about doing the inner work first.Because real friendship doesn’t begin with information — it begins with recognition.In this episode, we talk about:Why friendships change after kids grow up and seasons shiftHow losing yourself in roles makes connection harderWhy old friendship templates don’t work anymoreThe difference between wanting a friend and knowing what kind of friend you needHow energy, honesty, and self-knowledge shape lasting friendships🎧 Download the “Who Am I Now?” Self TestTo help you start this journey, we created a free, private self-reflection guide you can download and complete on your own — no website sign-up required.👉 Download the Who Am I Now? Self Test here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ACtGKWLQelnEd1OyGOvGoSZBfapURfh-/view?usp=sharingTake it quietly. Honestly. Without fixing anything yet. This isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about remembering who you are now.About the SeriesThis episode kicks off our Making Friends Later in Life series — a real, no-judgment exploration of adult friendship. Each episode helps women reconnect with themselves first, so friendships can grow naturally instead of feeling forced.If this episode hits you in the feels, we consider that a win. 💛 Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride-or-die.And when you’re ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony® at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring.🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailWhen Friendships Become One-Sided: How to Spot It, Test It, and Heal From ItDescription: At some point, almost every woman has the same quiet realization: Wait… am I the only one holding this friendship together?One-sided friendships rarely end in a blowup. They fade quietly. They drain you slowly. And they leave you questioning whether you’re asking for too much—or if you’re just asking the wrong people.In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the emotional reality of one-sided friendships using a real story that struck a nerve with women everywhere. From being the dependable one, the planner, the rescuer, and the emotional glue—to realizing no one shows up when it finally matters to you—they break down the subtle signs a friendship isn’t mutual.They talk honestly about how to test a one-sided friendship without confrontation, why pulling back can be the most revealing move you make, and how to release the fantasy of what you thought the friendship was—without blowing everything up. This episode is about recognizing emotional imbalance, trusting what your body and heart are telling you, and giving yourself permission to step away with grace.Because real friendships don’t require you to do all the emotional labor. And when you stop holding a one-sided friendship together, you make room for the ones where your presence is valued—and your absence is noticed.In This Episode:💔 The quiet moment you realize a friendship isn’t mutual [01:00] 🧠 The subtle signs of a one-sided friendship most women ignore [05:20] 🪞 How to test a friendship without confrontation [09:40] 🚫 Why pulling back tells you everything you need to know [12:50] 🧩 Releasing the fantasy of what you thought the friendship was [15:30] ✨ Healing without drama, guilt, or explanations [18:40] 💞 Bestie Rapid Fire: loyalty, boundaries, and real friendship truths [22:30]🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license🎵 Music Credit:  Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust If this episode hits you in the feels—or makes you finally say “Oh… now I see it”—send it to the friend who’s been carrying too much for too long.🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised for real talk, deep laughs, and honest conversations about modern friendship.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan Mail Episode Title: The Anatomy of Bestie Groups: 6 Friendship Archetypes (and Why You Need Every One)Description: Every girls’ group has a vibe—and a cast. The Organizer with clipboard energy, the Free Spirit who follows the vibes, the Empath who feels it all, the Comedian who keeps it light, the Peacemaker who smooths it over, and the Truth Teller who says the thing out loud.In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie map the six friendship archetypes that make every circle messy, magical, and weirdly functional. They share real-life stories (Cards Against Humanity chaos, anyone?), what happens when roles clash, and how to keep love at the center—even when the group chat is ignoring the RSVP. You’ll leave knowing your role, appreciating your friends’ roles, and with a few lines you can borrow the next time the vibes go sideways.In This Episode: 🗂️ The Organizer: clipboard energy & calendar herding [02:00] 🌿 The Free Spirit: plans? vibes. why flexibility saves trips [05:30] 💗 The Empath vs. “the emotional one” (and who brings tissues) [09:30] 🤣 The Comedian: pressure valve for heavy moments [11:30] 🕊️ The Peacemaker & 🔥 The Truth Teller: keeping balance without losing honesty [14:30–17:10] 🤝 Navigating clashes, cooling off, and repairing fast [27:00] ⚡ Bestie Rapid Fire: roles that ground (and sometimes annoy) us [23:45]🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugustListen, laugh, and tag your group chat (yes, even the one that never replies).🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailThe Lonely Season: What It Feels Like to Be Without Friends (and How to Rebuild)Feeling alone isn’t a flaw—it’s a signal. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about the quiet ache of friend-loneliness: the empty calendar, the phone that doesn’t light up, and the stories you wish someone else remembered with you.Jennifer shares the distance and displacement of moving states to build a business (hi, Rhinestone Wedding Chapel life 👋), while Jackie talks candidly about isolation inside a controlling first marriage—how you can be surrounded by people and still feel utterly alone. Together, they unpack why women drift into lonely seasons without noticing, how to spot the signs (in yourself and your bestie), and what it looks like to stitch connection back together—one honest text, meme, FaceTime, or girls’ trip at a time.In this episode:Different kinds of isolation: geography, seasons of life, and relationship controlWhy friends help us remember who we were (and still are)Gentle first steps to reconnect when you feel awkward or out of practiceHow to check on a withdrawing bestie (without overthinking it)Long-distance friendship ideas that actually feel like “being there”Bestie Rapid Questions to end on a laugh and a little truthContent note: emotional isolation and controlling relationship dynamics.If this one hits you in the feels—or makes you laugh-snort—we’ll count it as a win. 💛 Subscribe, rate, and share with your ride-or-die.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailNew Year, Real Talk: Why Friendship Matters More With Age Episode Description: As we get older, New Year’s hits different. It stops being about sparkly outfits and staying up till midnight, and starts becoming something deeper—a pause, a breath, a moment to feel the weight of everything we survived… and everyone who helped us survive it. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie look back at the friendships, memories, and lessons that shaped their year. From sleeping on sidewalks at 17 waiting for the Rose Parade, to ringing in the New Year at home by 10 p.m., the girls reflect on how time changes everything—except the importance of having your ride-or-die. They talk about why friendship becomes more sacred with age, how New Year’s reminds us that time is moving faster than ever, and why choosing your people—intentionally and consistently—is the real resolution. This episode is cozy, nostalgic, honest, and full of the reminder every woman needs: Your friendships are the safety nets that carry you into every new year. Protect them. Prioritize them. And celebrate them. In This Episode: ✨ New Year’s as a teenager vs. New Year’s at 55 ✨ Why time speeds up (and hits harder) as we age ✨ How friendships deepen when life gets more complicated ✨ What this year taught Jennifer & Jackie about loyalty, growth, and showing up ✨ Bestie Resolutions for 2025 ✨ Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions: New Year Edition 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective 🎵 Closing Song: “Definition of a Best Friend” by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust If this episode hit you in the feels—or made you laugh way too hard—we consider that a win. Hit subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. 💛 Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailWhy Moms Think They Have to Do It All at Christmas (and How Besties Break the Spell)The holiday magic you see on the outside often comes at the cost of a mother’s sanity on the inside. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into the emotional, mental, and invisible labor women carry every Christmas—the lists, the gifts, the decorating, the expectations, the pressure to make everyone else’s season “magical,” and the exhaustion no one seems to notice.Jennifer reflects on the generational patterns of motherhood, how traditions get passed down (or skipped entirely), and why women feel responsible for holding every holiday together. Jackie opens up about the self-imposed pressure to create perfection—why she does it, why she can’t stop, and how it somehow still brings her joy even when it burns her out. Together, they unpack where these beliefs start (hello childhood programming), how the “good girl/caretaker” identity shows up in December, and why moms secretly fear asking for help.And then there’s the bestie piece—the part that saves us. Best friends are often the only ones who say, “You don’t have to carry all this.” They’re the ones we vent to, cry to, laugh with, and call when Christmas feels like a full-time job we never applied for.In this episode: 🎄 The generational roots of holiday pressure (grandmas, moms, and the invisible baton) 🎄 Why moms struggle to delegate or ask for help 🎄 The emotional labor women carry during the holidays (that no one talks about) 🎄 How partners often don’t see the extra load — and why 🎄 The moment every mom hits her Christmas breaking point 🎄 How besties help us stay grounded, laugh, and remember we don’t have to be Santa + Mrs. Claus + Superwoman 🎄 Bestie Rapid Questions to end on a laugh and a little truthContent note: conversations around emotional labor, overwhelm, and holiday pressure in mothering and partnership🎵 Closing Song: “Definition of a Best Friend” by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugustIf this episode hit you in the feels—or made you laugh way too hard—we consider that a win.Hit subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. 💛Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailBeing There for a Bestie in Grief: Navigating the Holidays Without Losing Yourself Description: The holidays can be magical… until they aren’t. When your bestie is grieving the loss of her person—whether a spouse, partner, or the anchor of her family—the season hits differently. Suddenly the twinkle lights feel heavier, the memories sting sharper, and the pressure to “do it all” gets complicated. You want to show up for her, hold her together, make sure she doesn’t feel alone. But you’re also juggling your own family, your own joy, your own traditions—and sometimes it feels like you’re being stretched between her grief and your life. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get real about what it truly looks like to support a grieving best friend during the holidays. They talk about showing up with compassion without abandoning yourself, why checking in matters more than saying the perfect thing, and the delicate balance between honoring your own traditions while making space for hers. From navigating emotional triggers to understanding what grieving friends wish we knew, this episode is your gentle guide to loving her deeply while protecting your own heart. Because you can be her anchor without becoming her life raft—and sometimes the most powerful gift is simply, “You’re not doing this alone. I’m here.” In This Episode: 💛 Why the holidays hit grief differently than everyday life [01:00] 🤍 How to show up without overstepping or smothering [05:10] 🎄 Balancing your own traditions with her emotional needs [12:00] 📩 What real checking-in looks like (and why it matters) [14:45] 🕯️ Why talking about the person they lost is often exactly what they need [17:00] 💞 The best gift you can give a grieving bestie [21:00] ✨ Bestie Rapid Fire: Holidays, healing, and the little moments that matter [23:00] 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective 🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust If this episode hits you in the feels—or helps you love your bestie a little softer this season—send it to the friend who holds your heart. 🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised for more real talk, deep laughs, and the truth about modern friendship. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode Title: Evolved, Unfiltered, and Still Us: The Truth About Where We Are NowDescription: We started this podcast with zero plans—just two best friends, a couple of mics we barely knew how to plug in, and a whole lot of chaos. What began as late-night stories, whispered confessions, and “do you remember when?” has slowly turned into something bigger: a space where women feel seen, heard, and a little less alone.In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie pull back the curtain on how far they’ve come—from nervous newbies who edited out every “like” and “um,” to the women behind Chickology™, a growing platform for real women and real stories. They talk about the tech fails, the laughter, the tears, and the unexpected gift of “bestie therapy” that recording every week has become.They also share how helping other women start their own podcasts has deepened their purpose, why women’s stories matter more than ever, and what it means to evolve without losing who you are at the core. This is about friendship, growth, courage, and saying out loud, “I’m not who I was when this started—and that’s a good thing.”If you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to build something messy, meaningful, and completely from the heart… this one’s for you.In This Episode: 🎙️ How Slightly Unsupervised really started: two besties, big feelings, zero clue about the tech [02:30] 🔌 Mic fails, hookup boxes, and learning to podcast at 55 anyway [03:00] 💬 From over-editing every word to embracing real, imperfect conversation [06:30] 🧡 “Bestie therapy”: how weekly recording healed old stories and deepened their friendship [08:00] 🌙 Why women need women’s stories—and how Chickology™ was born out of that truth [11:30] 🔥 Turning pain into purpose: moving from victimhood to lessons and evolution [16:00] 🌎 The heart of Chickology™: creating a home for women who have something to say (even if they think they don’t) [18:30] 🌟 Dream guests, wild ideas that actually worked, and what’s next for the Chickology™ movement [20:00]🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast CollectiveListen in, laugh with us, and if this episode nudges something in you… maybe it’s your turn to tell your story next.🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised and share this one with your ride-or-die bestie.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan Mail Episode Title: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Why We’re So Different (and Why We Still Need Each Other) Description: Ever wondered why your husband goes silent when you cry—or why your bestie just gets it without you explaining a word? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive deep into the cosmic clash between Mars and Venus: how men solve, how women feel, and why both are equally maddening (and magical). They unpack everything from communication breakdowns to emotional needs, plus one unforgettable truth bomb: “Men give love for sex. Women give sex for love.” (Yeah, they went there.) With laughs, a few side-eyes at their husbands, and a lot of real talk, the girls remind us that female friendships aren’t competition—they’re the emotional translators keeping relationships alive. Because sometimes, your husband can’t hear you… but your bestie always can. 💫 In This Episode: 🚀 The Mars/Venus rulebook for communication [02:00] 💋 The love-for-sex truth nobody wants to admit [07:30] 😂 Why men “fix” and women “feel” (and how to survive both) [10:00] 💞 Why female friendships make marriages stronger [18:00] 🔥 Bestie Rapid Fire: The Men vs. Women Edition [20:00] 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective 🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust Listen, laugh, and tag your bestie (and maybe your husband). 🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode Title: From Fairy Tales to Fire: Star Women Rising Podcast and the Spirit of Chickology  Description: Some stories don’t come wrapped in a bow—and those are the ones that change us. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie sit down with Melinda, host of Star Women Rising Podcast (part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective), to talk about telling the truth out loud, healing in public, and why women’s voices matter—especially when they’re messy, honest, and hard-won.From Cinderella myths to real-life resilience, they dig into programming we inherit, the moment we choose ourselves, and how friendship, faith, and fierce honesty become the scaffolding we rebuild on. If you’ve ever felt silenced, small, or “too much,” this conversation is your permission slip.In This Episode: 🌟 Why “happily ever after” leaves out the middle chapters—and what comes next [01:30] 🧱 Deprogramming the fairytale: identity beyond wife/mom/role titles [06:30] 🔥 Telling your story without villainizing—owning your part and your power [20:00] 🌿 Spiritual awakening as everyday practice (not aesthetics) [18:30] 🤝 Women helping women: community over competition, always [24:00] ⚡ Bestie Rapid Fire with Melinda (grandbabies, red flags, and what every woman needs to hear) [26:45]🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective — Real women. Real stories. Rising together.Call to Action: Listen, share with your ride-or-die, and tag the friend who sees you exactly as you are. Then go follow Melinda’s show, Star Women Rising—she’s just getting started.🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust🎧 Subscribe to Slightly UnsupervisedChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode Title: Healing the Inner Child Through FriendshipDescription: Sometimes friendship isn’t just fun — it’s medicine. 💗In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into how safe, loving friendships can reparent the parts of us that never got the care, attention, or validation we needed as kids. From being the “parentified child” to learning how to receive love as adults, this episode gets real about what it means to grow up too fast — and how friendship gives us a second chance to feel safe again.They share stories from their Gen X childhoods, compare what it was like being the oldest vs. the youngest, and talk about how friendship has become their therapy — helping them rewrite old patterns, find support, and raise their inner children the way they always deserved.Because when your bestie listens without judgment, celebrates your smallest wins, or holds space for your tears — it’s not just friendship. It’s healing. It’s home.In This Episode: 👧 How Gen X “raised themselves” and what it cost us [03:00] 💔 The emotional toll of being the parentified child [04:30] 🌱 Why real friendship feels like reparenting [07:00] 🧠 How childhood patterns show up in adult relationships [10:00] ❤️ What safety and support from your bestie really means [18:00] ✨ Bestie Rapid Questions: Inner Child Edition [23:00]🎙️ Hosts: Jennifer & Jackie 💫 Presented by: Chickology™ — real women, real stories, one honest truth at a time. 💍 Book your Bestiemony™ ceremony: RhinestoneWeddingChapel.comChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode Title: The 8-Minute Rule: How One Call Can Save Your SanityDescription: Sometimes all it takes is eight minutes on the phone with your bestie to shift everything. The spiral stops. The anxiety calms. The tears turn into laughter.In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into “The 8-Minute Rule” — a friendship lifeline for the women who just get it. They unpack how short, honest check-ins can regulate your emotions, rewire your brain, and remind you that you’re not alone. Because when life feels heavy, the right voice on the other end of the phone can pull you back to center faster than scrolling TikTok ever could.From menopause meltdowns and emotional spirals to code words that signal “I need you now,” Jen and Jackie get real about why women need women, how friendship literally changes your chemistry, and why some conversations don’t need fixing — they just need feeling.In This Episode: 📞 How the “8-Minute Rule” became their friendship code [01:00] 💬 Why women need emotional venting—not solutions [04:00] 🧠 The science of feeling better through connection [06:00] 🌸 How menopause magnifies emotions (and friendships save us) [08:00] 👯‍♀️ Why best friends are emotional mirrors—not judges [13:00] ❤️ The healing power of being truly seen, heard, and loved [18:00]🎙️ Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions — “Who Sends the 8-Minute Text First?” 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and share this with your person—the one who always answers, even when you just text “8 minutes.”#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipPodcast #8MinuteRule #EmotionalSupport #BestFriends #WomenSupportingWomen #UnfilteredFriendship #ChooseYourPeople #HealingThroughHumor #RideOrDie #BestFriendEnergy #FriendshipMatters #Sisterhood #RealTalkWithBestiesChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode Title: Used & Confused: When Besties Expect Your Talent Instead of Your Time Description: You get the invite—but it’s not to relax, it’s to help. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into one of the most relatable friendship gray areas: being valued for your talent instead of your presence. Whether you’re the photographer who gets asked to “just bring your camera,” the baker who’s always volunteered for dessert, or the friend who somehow ends up planning every group trip—this one’s for you. Because there’s a big difference between giving freely and being expected to give. Inspired by a listener whose best friend “invited” her to be the wedding photographer—without pay or a chance to party—Jennifer and Jackie unpack what it feels like to be used, how to set boundaries without guilt, and why saying “no” isn’t selfish, it’s self-respect. In This Episode: 📸 When “Can you bring your camera?” turns into a full-time job [02:00] 🍰 The baker, the planner, the helper — and the burnout [04:00] 💄 Hairdressers, florists, and all the unpaid “friend labor” [07:20] 🙅‍♀️ The power of saying no (without losing the friendship) [08:30] 💔 When you realize your talent is valued more than your presence [13:30] 💡 How to handle it with grace—and protect your peace [18:00] 💖 Why true friends value your company, not your contributions [25:00] 🎙️ Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions — “Who’s More Likely to Get Roped Into Working a Party?” 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust 👉 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and share this with the friend who deserves to just show up and enjoy the party. #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipPodcast #UsedAndConfused #FriendshipBoundaries #BestiesAndBurnout #FriendshipMatters #WomenSupportingWomen #UnfilteredFriendship #ChooseYourPeople #BestFriendEnergy #HealingThroughHumor #RideOrDie #SupportiveFriendships #RespectYourTime Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode Title: Red, Blue & Bestie Too: Can Friendships Survive Politics?Description: You love her—but she voted for them. 😬In this unfiltered episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie take on one of the most emotionally charged topics in modern friendship: politics. From divided families to deleted Facebook friends, they ask the big question—can two besties still laugh, love, and support each other when their worldviews are totally different?They unpack how politics became personal, how algorithms keep us divided, and why we used to just… not care who our friends voted for. From raising politically opposite kids to surviving family dinners without flipping the table, Jen and Jackie get brutally honest about what’s really tearing people apart—and how to bring friendship (and maybe the country) back to the middle.In This Episode: 🗳️ When politics became personal [03:00] 💔 Friendships lost over the ballot box [05:45] 📱 How social media and algorithms fuel division [13:00] 👩‍👧 Parenting kids with opposing political views [06:00] 💬 Grace vs. judgment—can we still talk about it? [09:40] 💖 Why good people can disagree and still love each other [24:00] 💡 Jen’s new idea: The Pink Party—a political middle ground led by women [34:00]Because real friendship doesn’t have to come with a party line—it just needs mutual respect and a sense of humor.🎙️ Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions—Politics, Pink Parties & Who’d Get Kicked Out of Thanksgiving 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and share this with the friend you can debate with and still go to brunch afterward.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipPodcast #PoliticsAndFriendship #DifferentViewsSameLove #FriendshipMatters #WomenSupportingWomen #PinkParty #UnfilteredFriendship #HealingThroughHumor #ChooseYourPeople #BestFriendEnergy #RideOrDieChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan Mail She’ll Be Here Eventually: When Your Bestie Is Always Late (and You’re Always Waiting) Description: You love her to death… but she’s always late. Every dinner, every coffee date, every plan—she’s on her own time zone. ⏰ In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into the friendship friction that comes with one bestie being chronically late and the other always watching the clock. Is it just a harmless quirk, or is it really about respect? Because being late isn’t just about time—it’s about how it makes people feel. Inspired by a listener’s story of waiting 52 minutes with no text, no apology, and just a breezy “Hey girl,” Jennifer and Jackie unpack the deeper meaning behind lateness, how it affects friendships, and the difference between giving grace and setting boundaries. In This Episode: ⏱️ When “she’s always late” stops being funny [03:00] 💬 How lateness communicates value (or lack of it) [06:30] 💡 Grace vs. consequences—finding your line [10:00] 💍 What running a wedding chapel teaches about punctuality [12:05] 👯‍♀️ Friendship boundaries and accountability [16:26] 😂 Why honesty (or humor) might save your friendship [19:14] 💖 The two types of besties: “Let them” vs. “Get your sh*t together” [21:48] 🎙️ Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions — Late Edition 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose If this episode hit you in the feels—or made you laugh way too hard—we consider that a win. 👉 Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride-or-die (especially if she’s always running late). #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipPodcast #ChronicLateness #AlwaysLate #FriendshipBoundaries #RespectAndTime #RideOrDie #BestFriendEnergy #WomenSupportingWomen #ChooseYourPeople #HealingThroughHumor #UnfilteredFriendship Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan Mail Episode Title: Besties, Boys & Boundaries: When You Both Catch Feelings Description: It’s all fun and flirting… until you both catch feelings. 💔 In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into one of the oldest friendship taboos in the book — what happens when two best friends fall for the same person. Is there a girl code? Is it first come, first kiss? Or is it “nobody wins when besties become rivals”? Inspired by a listener confession, the girls get real about what it feels like when something that started as a joke suddenly turns into jealousy, competition, and confusion. They unpack the emotional tug-of-war between protecting your heart and protecting your friendship — and why, in the end, crushes fade but real best friends don’t. In This Episode: 💘 When innocent flirting turns into emotional territory [03:10] 💔 The unspoken girl code (and what it really means) [08:40] 🔥 How to recognize when competition crosses the line [12:15] 👭 Why your bestie should always win over a boy [14:30] 🙅‍♀️ The one time it’s okay to “back down” and feel good about it [17:00] ❤️‍🔥 Crushes fade, friendships last — how to protect yours [19:45] 🎙️ Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions — Flirts, Feelings & Girl Code Edition 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave us a 5-star review, and share this one with your ride-or-die — especially if you’ve ever said, “Wait… do we both like him?” 👀 #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #GirlCode #FriendshipPodcast #BestFriends #CrushConfessions #FlirtyFriends #RideOrDie #FriendshipMatters #ChooseYourPeople #WomenSupportingWomen #HealingThroughHumor #BestFriendEnergy Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 17 -   Didn’t Show Up: When Friends Ghost Your Biggest Moments What do you do when your best friend doesn’t show up for one of the biggest days of your life—and doesn’t even call? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the sting, confusion, and heartbreak of being ghosted by the person you thought would always have your back. Inspired by a listener’s real story—her best friend bailed on her courthouse wedding with a last-minute “I’m not emotionally well” text—Jennifer and Jackie dive into the messy gray area between mental health, grace, and accountability. Is “I wasn’t emotionally available” a valid excuse or just a cop-out? And how do you forgive someone who didn’t even text you on your wedding day... but was at brunch the next morning? In This Episode: What “showing up” really means in friendship [03:00]The difference between grace and enabling [06:30]When mental health becomes a mask for selfishness [09:10]How to process disappointment without losing yourself [12:40]Setting new boundaries when trust is broken [17:15]Why loyalty and presence matter more than perfection [21:45]The moment you realize who your real best friends are [24:00]Because real friendship isn’t always fun—it’s about showing up when it counts, even when you don’t feel like it. 🎁 Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions—Who’s Most Likely to Flake, Ghost, or Show Up Anyway? 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust 👉 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave us a 5-star review, and share this with the friend who always shows up—rain, thunderstorm, or bad hair day. #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipPodcast #FriendshipGhosting #RideOrDie #ShowUpForYourFriends #FriendshipMatters #ChooseYourPeople #UnfilteredFriendship #WomenSupportingWomen #HealingThroughHumor #BestFriendEnergy Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 16 -  You Don’t Have to Like Her: When You Can’t Stand Your Bestie’s Other FriendsDescription: We’ve all been there—you adore your best friend, but cannot stand one of her other friends. Maybe she’s loud, shady, competitive, or just not your vibe. Do you say something? Stay quiet? Protect the peace—or protect your energy?In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get real about the awkward, complicated, and totally relatable tension that shows up when your bestie’s friend just isn’t your cup of tea. From fake smiles at dinner to passive-aggressive comments at parties, they break down how to navigate the “friendship triangle” without losing yourself—or your bestie.In This Episode:Why it feels so personal when your bestie loves someone you don’t [04:15]The difference between jealousy and intuition [07:50]Fake nice vs. passive aggressive (and who’s better at which) [12:20]How group dynamics shift when triangles turn toxic [18:40]Why you don’t have to be friends with all your friends’ friends [23:05]How to say “I don’t vibe with her” without wrecking your friendship [28:30]The power of secure friendships that can survive honesty [32:00]Because let’s be real: sometimes the hardest triangle isn’t a love triangle—it’s a friendship one.🎁 Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions—Fake Nice, Passive Aggressive, or Call It Out? 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised, leave us a 5-star review, and share this episode with the friend who always “gets the vibe” the second you do.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #RideOrDie #FriendshipPodcast #FriendshipTriangles #FakeNiceEnergy #PassiveAggressiveVibes #UnfilteredFriendship #ProtectYourEnergy #ChooseYourPeople #FriendshipMattersChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 15 - The Motherhood Drift: When Life Pulls Best Friends Apart Description: Not every friendship ends with a fight. Sometimes, it just drifts. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into the quiet heartbreak of friendships that change when one friend becomes a mother and the other doesn’t. From unanswered texts and missed invites to the unspoken wall that rises between diapers and happy hours, we unpack what it feels like on both sides of the motherhood divide. Jennifer shares her experience of becoming a mom before her friends, while Jackie reflects on being the ride-or-die bestie without kids at the time. Together, we talk about: Why the drift happens (and why it’s not always personal)The guilt moms feel when their worlds shift overnightHow single or childfree friends may feel left behindThe importance of extending invitations—even if you think they’ll say noWhy seasons of life don’t erase the bond of true bestiesIf you’ve ever felt the sting of growing apart—or the joy of reconnecting years later—this episode is for you. Because sometimes it’s not a breakup, it’s just a drift. 💌 Have a friendship situation you want us to unpack? Send it our way! 🎙️ Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised, leave us a 5-star review, and share this episode with your bestie (mom or not). #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipPodcast #MotherhoodDrift #BestFriendEnergy #FriendshipMatters #Chickology Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 14 - Friendship Love Languages:  Show up for your bestie in the way she feels it most. Ever notice how we talk about love languages for couples, but rarely for friendships? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into the five love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch—and flip the script to see how they shape our closest friendships. From blocking energy at a Vegas craps table (yes, really) to hand-made blankets, sourdough bread, and organizing your bestie’s chaos, they break down how each of them naturally gives and receives love in friendship. And they get real about what happens when love languages clash, why quality time matters most in their circle, and how little gestures often mean the most. This one’s for every woman who knows her bestie isn’t “just a friend”—she’s family, therapy, and your mirror all rolled into one. In This Episode: Why love languages aren’t just for couples [02:45]How Jennifer + Jackie’s friendship languages differ (and overlap) [07:20]Vegas craps tables + acts of service in disguise [13:40]The power of words of affirmation when you least expect it [19:15]When friendship love languages clash—and how to fix it [25:50]Why quality time is the glue that holds Gen X friendships together [32:30]The gifts that really land (and the ones that flop) [39:10]If you’ve ever wondered how to show up for your bestie in a way she really feels, this episode is your cheat sheet. 🎁 Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions—Friendship Edition 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust 👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and share this with the friend who always knows your love language (even when you don’t). #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipLoveLanguages #RideOrDie #FriendshipPodcast #ActsOfService #QualityTime #BestFriendEnergy #UnfilteredFriendship #ChooseYourPeople #SupportiveFriendsOnly #HealingThroughHumor #WomenSupportingWomen Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 13 - When Your Kids Grow Up and You Find Yourself AgainWho were you before you were “Mom”? And is she still in there? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get real about the bittersweet season of motherhood when the kids are grown (or at least independent) and you suddenly realize you have space—sometimes too much space—to figure yourself out again.From teenage motherhood and skipped “selfish years” to stay-at-home seasons, career shifts, and the silence of an empty house, this conversation is about the messy mix of pride, grief, freedom, and reinvention. Because the truth is, motherhood changes you—but it doesn’t erase you.In This Episode:Why teenage motherhood feels like skipping a whole chapter [05:20]How stay-at-home years can swallow your identity [11:10]The weird freedom of car seats, licenses, and kids’ first jobs [18:45]Why Costco isn’t the same when it’s just two of you [24:30]The silence after the last one leaves (and what it stirs up) [29:55]Learning to back off… but still wanting to fix everything [35:40]How friendships circle back stronger when kids are grown [42:10]Rediscovering passions, dreams, and the woman you were before [48:25]If you’ve ever looked around an empty house and thought, “Now what?”, this one’s for you. You’re not lost—you’re just finding your way back to yourself.🎁 Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions—Who Were We Before Kids? 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and share this episode with a mama who needs a reminder: she’s still in there.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #RideOrDie #MotherhoodUnplugged #EmptyNestFeels #SecondAdolescence #FriendshipPodcast #RediscoverYourself #ChooseYourPeople #FriendshipMatterse 13 - Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 12 - Bestie Blessings: Why Every Husband Should Celebrate His Wife’s Ride-or-DieBehind every strong marriage, there’s often an unspoken MVP: the best friend. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie shine a light on one of the most overlooked—but most important—roles in a relationship: your wife’s bestie.She’s not competition. She’s the emotional backup quarterback. She’s the one talking your wife off the ledge at midnight, reminding her she’s not crazy, and laughing her back into sanity when life gets heavy. In other words: she makes your marriage stronger (whether you realize it or not).From husbands who secretly thank the bestie for carrying the extra weight, to the way long-time friendships keep women grounded, this episode is a love letter to the women who show up in ways even the best husband can’t.In This Episode:Why the bestie doesn’t compete—she complements [04:15]The “venting space” every wife needs (so her husband doesn’t lose it) [09:30]How besties carry the family baggage husbands can’t always relate to [13:40]The blessing of husbands who actually celebrate the friendship [18:25]When respect + boundaries make friendship and marriage stronger [26:00]Why healthy women come from strong circles [31:10]Whether you’re a husband who needs to hear this (hint: you probably do) or a best friend who deserves a little credit, this episode will make you laugh, nod, and maybe rethink how powerful a ride-or-die really is. Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions—Husbands vs. Besties Edition Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave us a 5-star review, and send this episode to your bestie—and maybe to your husband, too.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #RideOrDie #MarriageSupportSystem #BehindEveryStrongMarriage #BestieBlessings #FriendshipPodcast #ChooseYourPeople #WivesAndBesties #FriendshipMattersChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 11  Think you know your best friend? Like really know them? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie put their 40+ years of friendship on the line with the ultimate bestie quiz—right from their Vegas hotel room. From first crushes and haircut disasters to guilty pleasure TV shows and irrational fears, nothing is off limits (except maybe tequila… they’ve both sworn that off since high school). It’s part walk down memory lane, part “oh my god, you remember that?”—and 100% proof that knowing the details, quirks, and snack preferences of your ride-or-die is the best kind of love language. In This Episode: Why tequila is officially banned for both of them [02:15]The first boyfriends they actually acknowledged [06:30]The short haircut that came with an unfortunate nickname [09:55]Guilty pleasure TV shows and reality show obsessions [14:40]The one fast food order Jen’s husband still knows by heart [20:15]First crush confessions (and one major friend faux pas) [25:50]Love languages, karaoke songs, and what really makes them cry [32:30]The weirdest thing in their purses (Vegas-appropriate) [39:00]Why being “seen and known” is the real bestie superpower [44:20]Grab your own bestie and play along—because if you don’t know her go-to drink, her irrational fear, or the song she will sing at karaoke… are you even best friends? Bonus Segment: Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions—Vegas EditionClosing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah RoseFollow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust  Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and tag your ride-or-die to take the Bestie Quiz with you. #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #RideOrDie #FriendshipPodcast #BestFriendEnergy #VegasVibes #UltimateBestieTest #FriendshipMatters #BestFriendGoals #HealingThroughHumor #ChooseYourPeople Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 10 Ever been called “wild” when you were really just tired? This episode of Slightly Unsupervised is for the girls who carried everyone else’s mess—siblings, parents, grandparents, even cousins—while still expected to smile and keep it all together. Jennifer and Jackie peel back the curtain on how too much responsibility, too young, created a rebellious streak that wasn’t about being reckless…it was about survival.From driving grandma to chemo at 16, raising younger siblings, and hiding family chaos behind perfect houses, to stolen cars, spontaneous beach days, and elaborate cover stories, this is the untamed truth behind their so-called wild years. It’s the story of two girls who found each other in the middle of it all and decided that friendship would be their freedom.In This Episode:What happens when you’re parentified before you can even drive [04:10]The stolen car joyride that sealed their friendship [09:20]Orange paint, a CRX, and the SOS pad disaster [15:35]Freezing an engine on a school-skipping beach trip [21:45]Why neither of them ever wanted a boyfriend in high school [27:20]How “wild” was really an outlet, not a downfall [33:05]The friend who showed Jennifer how to be a mother [39:50]What they’d tell their 16-year-old selves now [46:00]If you’ve ever been judged for your wildness, this is your reminder: it wasn’t rebellion—it was release. Bonus Segment: Rapid Fire Bestie Questions—Wild Edition Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and tag your “wild or die” bestie who made growing up a whole lot more fun (and survivable).#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #WildNotReckless #RideOrDie #FriendshipPodcast #GenXStories #SurvivalSisters #BestFriendEnergy #UntamedAndUnapologetic #FriendshipOverEverything #HealingThroughHumor #ChooseYourPeople #FriendshipMattersChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 9 Part 1 gave you a peek into Debbie and Ashley’s aunt-niece madness, Part 2 is a full-blown backstage pass. Recorded in a Vegas hotel room, Jennifer and Jackie dive back in with these two ride-or-dies for even more outrageous stories, vintage fashion regrets, unexpected celebrity run-ins, and the kind of funeral pep talks only they could pull off.From accidentally watching vampire porn with Grandpa to inhaling a fart bomb (and calling Poison Control—twice), this episode proves that Debbie and Ashley’s bond is part comedy duo, part emotional lifeline, and 100% chaos. They share why they don’t let outsiders mess with their vibe, how music became their shared love language, and why even the weirdest family moments become the most cherished memories.In This Episode:The night a “scary movie” turned into something… much stranger [02:15]When $40 cost Debbie her entire vintage wardrobe (and a $5K dress) [07:40]Why Brian Setzer, Duran Duran, and Sublime are part of their friendship DNA [12:20]The cat wedding that counts as someone’s “biggest trauma” [18:05]How to sneak into a sold-out concert Vegas-style [21:45]Their unshakable dark humor—and the funeral toe incident [26:10]The shopping carts full of “stuff we’ll never buy” [32:30]Why you can’t sit these two together when it’s supposed to be serious [36:15]If you’ve ever loved someone so much you can’t decide whether to protect them or prank them, this episode is your people. Bonus Segment: Rapid Fire Bestie Questions—Part 2 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, drop a 5-star review, and send this episode to the friend who’d watch a weird movie, eat a pup cup, and crash a concert with you—no questions asked.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #RideOrDie #UnlikelyBestFriends #FamilyByBloodFriendsByChoice #TruthTellers #VintageWardrobeRegrets #ConcertCrashing #FartBombStory #DarkHumorHealers #FunAndDysfunctional #FriendshipPodcast #VegasVibes #ChooseYourPeople #BestFriendEnergyChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 8: Best Friends, Bloodlines & Blunt Truths: Debbie & Ashley’s Wild Ride Part 1Ever had a friendship so deep, so loyal, and so wild that it feels like no one else would even get it? Now imagine that friend is also your aunt. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie hit record in a Vegas hotel room with Debbie and Ashley—niece and aunt, secret-keepers, and soulmates by choice.From vintage thrift store adventures and meme marathons to a hard truth that literally saved a life, their bond is layered, hilarious, and deeply real. They talk about being judged by family, being misunderstood, and why they never let a fight last longer than a day. This one is for anyone who's ever found a best friend in the most unexpected place.In This Episode:Why their 12-year age gap made them closer [03:15] How meme-sharing became their love language [06:50] When family judges your friendship (and you stop caring) [09:40] The hard truth Debbie told that changed Ashley’s life [13:30] Their rehab story, rebrands as “going to camp” [17:45] Why unconditional love looks like calling someone out [21:10] How they navigate fights, forgiveness, and family drama [23:00]If you’ve ever felt like your friendship didn’t fit the mold—or if you’re lucky enough to have someone who holds your secrets and your heart—this episode is your love letter.🎁 Bonus Segment: Rapid Fire Bestie Questions—Vegas edition. 🎶 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and share this with the friend who’s been with you through it all—even if she's technically your aunt.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #RideOrDie #UnlikelyBestFriends #FamilyByBloodFriendsByChoice #VintageSoulmates #TruthTellers #MemeLoveLanguage #RealTalkWithBesties #SupportiveFriendsOnly #AuntNieceGoals #UnfilteredFriendship #FriendshipPodcast #VegasVibes #HealingThroughHumor #ChooseYourPeople #FriendshipMatters #BestFriendEnergyChickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 7 Friendship Red Flags: The Ones We Ignored (and Paid For)Ever stayed in a friendship that felt… off—but you couldn’t quite name why? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dig into the quiet discomforts and loud betrayals of toxic friendships—from emotional vampires and jealous digs to ghosting, guilt, and that “just kidding” shade that isn’t funny anymore.They share their own stories of staying too long, the shame that comes with walking away, and the deep breath that follows finally reclaiming your peace. This one’s all about friendship red flags, why we ignore them, and what it feels like when you finally choose yourself.In This Episode:Passive-aggressive jabs and guilt-based connection [04:00]Why nostalgia keeps us in unhealthy friendships [07:30]The energy drain of emotional vampires [11:10]Friends who disappear when life gets hard [14:45]What healthy friendships actually look like [18:25]Signs your peace is returning—and how to protect it [22:40]If you’ve ever walked away from a friendship and wondered if you made the right call, this episode will remind you: red flags aren’t random. They’re your signal to choose peace.🎁 Bonus Segment: Stick around for Rapid Fire Bestie Questions—it’s truth serum time. 🎶 Closing song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and tag your hype squad—especially the friends who never made you feel small.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #ToxicFriendships #FriendshipRedFlags #EnergyVampires #LettingGo #EmotionalBoundaries #RealTalkWithBesties #FriendshipMatters #HealingFriendships #ChoosePeace #FemaleFriendship #UnfilteredFriendship #SelfWorthJourney #FriendBreakups #SupportiveFriendsOnly #PodcastForWomen Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 6 Losing a Friend: When the Silence Hurts MostWhat happens when your best friend becomes a stranger? In this deeply emotional episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about one of the hardest—and often least talked about—parts of friendship: the grief that comes with losing someone who once knew your whole heart.Whether it’s a falling out, a slow fade, or the death of a soul-connected friend, the aftermath of friendship loss can be just as painful as a breakup—or worse. From ghosting to goodbye, they share their personal stories of heartbreak, reflect on the search for closure, and offer real, compassionate advice for navigating the silence.In This Episode:What it feels like to lose a best friend—emotionally and energetically [02:20]The friendships that faded without warning—and the ache they leave behind [07:15]Why friendship grief is valid and deserves space [12:40]What to do when closure never comes [17:50]How to honor your memories without staying stuck [22:30]The quiet beauty of healing, releasing, and moving forward [26:05]If you’ve ever cried over a friendship that ended, this episode is your safe space. Because even when it’s over, it still mattered—and so do you.🎁 Bonus Segment: Don’t miss this week’s Rapid Fire Bestie Questions, reflecting on the lessons left behind by the ones who left. 🎶 End credit music: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Listen & subscribe to Brooke’s music on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and tag the friend you’re thinking of—even if it’s just in your heart.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #FriendshipBreakups #FriendshipGrief #LettingGo #GhostedByAFriend #EmotionalHealing #FemaleFriendships #LostButLoved #ClosureIsAChoice #FriendshipLoss #FriendshipMatters #RideOrDieFriends #GrievingAFriendship #PodcastForWomen #HealingAfterHeartbreak Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 5 The Friends Who Shaped Us: Seasons, Reasons & LifetimesSome friends walk in when everyone else walks out—and some quietly walk out when you need them most. In this raw and deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about the friendships that left a mark: the ones that came in clutch, the ones that broke their hearts, and the ones they’re still holding onto decades later.From teenage pregnancies and toxic relationships to unimaginable loss and joyful reconnection, this is a real conversation about the seasons of friendship, the lessons they leave behind, and the lifelong love that sometimes circles back just when you need it.In This Episode:Friends for a season: when someone shows up at just the right time [01:00]Jennifer’s high school bestie and the imprint she left [03:00]Jackie’s teenage trio—and the heartbreak of growing apart [05:00]The friend who walked with Jackie through cancer and grief [10:30]Emotional isolation, toxic love, and the friends who see through it [13:00]What loyalty looks like in a lifetime friendship [15:28]How to come back to yourself—and your people—after going missing [18:00]Whether you’re mourning a lost connection, missing a friend who passed, or simply reflecting on how far you’ve come, this episode honors them all. Because not all friendships are meant to last—but they all meant something.🎁 Bonus Segment: Rapid Fire Bestie Questions return—don’t miss it. 🎶 End credit music: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a review, and tag the friend you’re thinking about right now. You know the one. #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #SeasonsOfFriendship #WomenSupportingWomen #FriendshipLoss #GrievingAFriendship #LoyaltyAndLove #EmotionalSupport #PlatonicSoulmates #ToxicFriendships #FoundAgain #FriendshipHealing #RealTalkWithBesties #FriendshipMatters #RideOrDieFriends #FriendshipStories #PodcastForWomen Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 4 What Makes a True Best Friend? The Spark, the Trust, and the Red FlagsWhat does it really mean to be a best friend—and how do you know when you've found one? In this heart-filled episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into the emotional blueprint of lifelong friendship. From that first spark of connection to the quiet safety of being fully seen, they explore what makes a bestie bond unshakable.They share personal stories, moments of laughter, and hard-won wisdom on loyalty, trust, and vulnerability. You’ll hear about the green flags that build lasting friendships—and the red ones we sometimes ignore.In This Episode:How to recognize the “bestie spark” when it happens [03:45]Why emotional safety and loyalty matter most [08:20]The role of vulnerability in deepening trust [14:10]Red flags in friendships—and when to walk away [18:30]How to be the kind of friend you’d want to have [23:55]Whether you’re holding on to your ride-or-die or still hoping to find your person, this episode is a celebration of bestie energy in its purest, most powerful form.🎁 Bonus Segment: Stick around for Rapid Fire Bestie Questions and the closing anthem Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose. 🎶 Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and tag your bestie—we dare you not to tear up. #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #BestFriendGoals #EmotionalSafety #RealTalkWithBesties #VulnerabilityIsStrength #PlatonicSoulmates #RideOrDieFriends #SupportiveFriendship #FriendshipRedFlags #LoyaltyAndLove #CelebrateYourBestie #UnfilteredFriendship #PodcastForWomen #FriendshipMatters #BestieEnergy Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 3: If We Could Talk to Our 25-Year-Old SelvesIf you’ve ever looked back and thought, “What was I even doing at 25?”—this episode is for you. Jennifer and Jackie get honest, nostalgic, and a little emotional as they share the life lessons, hard truths, and surprising wins they wish they could whisper to their younger selves.From chaotic relationships and career pressure to motherhood, friendship shifts, and the myth of “figuring it all out,” they reflect on what shaped them—and what they now know matters most. Whether you’re in your 20s or just carrying that version of yourself inside, this episode is a love letter to self-growth, self-forgiveness, and all the beautifully messy moments in between.In This Episode:Reflecting on relationships, redirection, and identity [05:14]Life lessons learned by 25—and how they’ve aged [12:26]The value of boundaries and saying no [17:39]Losing and rediscovering yourself in motherhood [22:34]What we’d actually thank our 25-year-old selves for [29:10]The unexpected beauty of evolving friendships [34:55]Whether you're 25 now or 25 at heart, this one’s your reminder: you don’t have to have it all figured out to be exactly where you’re meant to be.🎁 Bonus Segment: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose closes out the episode with a vibe you’ll want to rewind. 🎶 Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave us a 5-star review, and tag someone who needs to hear this today. #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FemaleFriendship #FriendshipPodcast #LifeLessons #25YearOldMe #HealingJourney #BodyPositivity #SelfReflection #WomenSupportingWomen #GrownWomanEnergy #EmbraceTheMess #FriendshipEvolution #SelfLoveClub #RealTalkWithBesties #PodcastForWomen #RideOrDieFriends #GrowthTakesTime #NoIsACompleteSentence Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailEpisode 2: When Friendships Break: How We Found Our Way BackWhat happens when your forever friend suddenly isn’t in your life anymore? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get real about what it’s like when a friendship falls apart—and the beautiful, messy process of putting it back together.They open up about their own 15-year friendship gap, how social media became an unexpected lifeline, and what it really takes to heal from emotional distance. From red flags and hard conversations to laughter, forgiveness, and growth, this episode is a reminder that even broken bonds can be rebuilt—with love, honesty, and a little grace.In This Episode:Life shifts that pulled them apart—and the silence that followed [07:31]The unexpected role of social media in rekindling connection [11:52]How to apologize (and actually mean it) [16:06]Why friendship ceremonies matter and how Bestiemony® came to life [20:35]Their journey back to each other—and why they’re stronger now [24:40]Whether you’re in the middle of a friend breakup or wondering if it’s time to reach back out, this one’s for you.🎁 Bonus Segment: End credit music is Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose. Don’t miss the lyrics—they’ll hit you right in the feels. 🎶 Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave us a 5-star review, and tag your bestie to let them know it’s never too late to find your way back.#FriendshipBreakup #BestFriendBreakup #RebuildingFriendship #FemaleFriendship #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #SlightlyUnsupervised #FriendshipHealing #PlatonicSoulmates #RideOrDieFriends #WomenSupportingWomen #RealTalkWithBesties #UnfilteredConnection Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan Mail🎙 Episode 1:  🎙 How Bestiemony® Was Born: A Wild Weekend, a Vow, and a Trademarked Friendship CeremonyHosts: Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder Podcast: Slightly UnsupervisedIn the very first episode of Slightly Unsupervised, best friends Jennifer and Jackie share the hilarious, emotional, and very real origin story of Bestiemony®—the trademarked ceremony that celebrates the most underrated love story: ride-or-die friendship.In This Episode:Growing up in the '80s and stealing mom’s car [05:10]The 15-year gap that almost ended it all—and how they reconnected [12:40]Saying vows to each other and filming real Bestiemony® stories [21:00]Why friendship deserves a seat at the commitment table [29:15]Whether you've had the same best friend since 7th grade or you're still waiting to find your person, this episode will make you laugh, cry, and rethink everything you thought you knew about platonic love.🎁 Bonus Segment: Don’t miss “Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions” at the end—Jen and Jackie spill secrets about group chat savagery, crying at movies, and their own friendship quirks.👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised, leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review on Apple Podcasts, and tag your bestie when you share your favorite moment.🎶 Music Credit "Definition of a Best Friend" performed by Brooke August — the perfect anthem for sealing this episode’s message on the joy and depth of friendship. Follow her on YouTube to catch more of her music and heartfelt lyrics: Definition Of A Best Friend — Brooke August (official)Thanks to Brooke for lending her beautiful voice to close out the show. Be sure to check out her YouTube channel for more great music! #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #SlightlyUnsupervised #FriendshipPodcast #RideOrDieFriends #BestFriendGoals #PlatonicSoulmates #FriendshipIsLove #UnbreakableBond #80sGirls #GrewUpInThe80s #FriendshipFlashback #WomenSupportingWomen #RealTalkWithBesties #FriendshipCeremony #CelebrateYourBestie #BookABestiemony #FriendshipFirst #PodcastForWomen Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]