EPISODE · Jun 9, 2026 · 49 MIN
"Does She Sing?" Sarah, Plain and Tall and the History of “Wives Wanted” with Sara Petersen
from Landline with Mary Mahoney
We need to talk about Sarah, Plain and Tall. Yes, the children's book. Yes, it will make you cry. I'm joined by the brilliant Sara Petersen — writer of the In Pursuit of Clean Countertops newsletter and author of Momfluenced — to revisit Patricia MacLachlan's 1985 masterpiece, and I promise we are not being dramatic when we say it holds up. It more than holds up. It destroys you. We get into the very real and very wild 19th-century practice of advertising for a wife (one man received 794 letters, 13 daguerreotypes, and one thimble — just leaving that there), why Sarah Wheaton is a genuinely subversive heroine who would absolutely not survive the Ballerina Farm comment section, and what tradwife culture fundamentally misunderstands about what life on the prairie actually looked like for women. Spoiler: it was not sourdough and calico aesthetics. It was getting on the roof. We also talk grief and longing, Frontier House (the PBS show that radicalized a generation of history nerds), the Hemingway comparisons this book actually deserves, and why a scene involving three colored pencils might be the most emotionally efficient ending in American literature. Stay tuned for a future 411 episode connecting all of this to the longer history of Wives Wanted culture — and yes, 90 Day Fiancé.Become a Patreon member → https://www.patreon.com/cw/MaryMahoney Timestamps00:00 – Introduction: Why Sarah, Plain and Tall made us cry 05:30 – The real history of Wives Wanted ads (794 letters, 24 shirt buttons, one thimble) 13:00 – What this book is actually about: grief, longing, and Caleb's unanswerable question 22:00 – The yellow bonnet arrives: why Sarah puts everyone at ease immediately 27:00 – Tradwives vs. homesteaders: what trad wife culture gets completely wrong about the past 36:00 – Frontier House, Doctor Quinn, and our shared disease of prairie nostalgia 44:00 – The colored pencils ending, and why Patricia McLachlan is a geniusTranscriptFull episode transcript here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1543EYkJM9RvhFTP3nh0Dy_mxzQOPO5DhxlLoINm0fUk/edit?usp=sharing Connect with Mary:Website: www.marymmahoney.comInstagram: @mimimahoneyEmail: [email protected] with Sara:Website: https://sara-petersen.com/ Twitter/X: @slouisepetersenInstagram: @slouisepetersen Book: Momfluenced: Inside the Maddening, Picture-Perfect World of Mommy Influencer CultureNewsletter: In Pursuit of Clean CountertopsPodcast: Clean CountertopsLove the show? Please leave a rating and review! It helps other listeners find Landline.Sponsor Message: Landline is sponsored by Libro.Fm. Listen to your favorite books and support your local bookstores! (Link: https://tidd.ly/40tPrKb ) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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We need to talk about Sarah, Plain and Tall. Yes, the children's book. Yes, it will make you cry. I'm joined by the brilliant Sara Petersen — writer of the In Pursuit of Clean Countertops newsletter and author of Momfluenced — to revisit Patricia MacLachlan's 1985 masterpiece, and I promise we are not being dramatic when we say it holds up. It more than holds up. It destroys you. We get into the very real and very wild 19th-century practice of advertising for a wife (one man received 794 letters, 13 daguerreotypes, and one thimble — just leaving that there), why Sarah Wheaton is a genuinely subversive heroine who would absolutely not survive the Ballerina Farm comment section, and what tradwife culture fundamentally misunderstands about what life on the prairie actually looked like for women. Spoiler: it was not sourdough and calico aesthetics. It was getting on the roof. We also talk grief and longing, Frontier House (the PBS show that radicalized a generation of history nerds), the Hemingway comparisons this book actually deserves, and why a scene involving three colored pencils might be the most emotionally efficient ending in American literature. Stay tuned for a future 411 episode connecting all of this to the longer history of Wives Wanted culture — and yes, 90 Day Fiancé.Become a Patreon member → https://www.patreon.com/cw/MaryMahoney Timestamps00:00 – Introduction: Why Sarah, Plain and Tall made us cry 05:30 – The real history of Wives Wanted ads (794 letters, 24 shirt buttons, one thimble) 13:00 – What this book is actually about: grief, longing, and Caleb's unanswerable question 22:00 – The yellow bonnet arrives: why Sarah puts everyone at ease immediately 27:00 – Tradwives vs. homesteaders: what trad wife culture gets completely wrong about the past 36:00 – Frontier House, Doctor Quinn, and our shared disease of prairie nostalgia 44:00 – The colored pencils ending, and why Patricia McLachlan is a geniusTranscriptFull episode transcript here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1543EYkJM9RvhFTP3nh0Dy_mxzQOPO5DhxlLoINm0fUk/edit?usp=sharing Connect with Mary:Website: www.marymmahoney.comInstagram: @mimimahoneyEmail: [email protected] with Sara:Website: https://sara-petersen.com/ Twitter/X: @slouisepetersenInstagram: @slouisepetersen Book: Momfluenced: Inside the Maddening, Picture-Perfect World of Mommy Influencer CultureNewsletter: In Pursuit of Clean CountertopsPodcast: Clean CountertopsLove the show? Please leave a rating and review! It helps other listeners find Landline.Sponsor Message: Landline is sponsored by Libro.Fm. Listen to your favorite books and support your local bookstores! (Link: https://tidd.ly/40tPrKb ) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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