Dr Gilbert Caluya: Bravery is Overrated

Dr Gilbert Caluya: Bravery is OverratedToday we are joined by academic and author Dr Gilbert Caluya. Gilbert is trained in Critical Thinking Theory; or what we call here at Dear Nelly, Ripping Up the Script.Gilbert talks to me about his shame, pride and how the scripts of "bravery" can be damaging. Gilbert is a Gay, Asian man and we talk about the racism he has experienced in dating, his early dating history, age-gaps and his life as a long-term single man.LIVE SHOW TICKETS HEREPATREON SUBSCRIBERSSign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast!For $5 a month you get a bonus epFor $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video contentFor $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for youDEAR NELLY PLUSSubscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month.SEND NELLY A MESSAGE:Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HEREFahey's website HEREProducer Boy website HERELove yas,Nelly xxx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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