Ep. 24: Gaslighting, Trauma Bonds, and America's Co-Dependent Politics

In this episode of ‘We Made This Political,’ Lura Forcum and Lauren Hall delve into the pervasive toxicity within modern politics. They draw parallels between the features of abusive personal relationships and the current political system, highlighting concepts like gaslighting, narcissism, isolation, and trauma bonding. The duo discusses how the two major political parties manipulate voters through fear, control, and intermittent reinforcement, maintaining a cycle of abuse and disillusionment. They propose solutions like embracing non-binary thinking, forming coalitions, and demanding real solutions to reclaim a sense of agency and accountability. Their insightful conversation aims to transform how we engage with politics, emphasizing flourishing and relationship-building over power and division.00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview00:52 Exploring the Toxicity of Politics01:25 Relationship Metaphors in Politics03:38 Gaslighting in Politics22:51 Political Narcissism and Abuse of Power29:01 Trauma Bonding with Political Parties31:46 Survivors’ Reactions to Crisis32:37 Parenting and Political Choices33:31 Attachment Theory and Politics35:51 Ingroup and Outgroup Dynamics38:09 Breaking the Cycle of Political Abuse40:50 Boundaries and Accountability in Politics45:45 Demanding Real Solutions from Politicians52:09 The Role of Media in Political Dynamics55:36 Optimism and Positive Directions01:02:07 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wemadethispolitical.substack.com