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Oct 10, 2022 43 min

Ep. 44: Bringing our inner shadow to the light.

from Healing Myself Hosted by Scott and Shaté Hayes

It’s almost an instinct to hide what we perceive as ugly. But do you know that there is power in completely embracing who you really are? In today's episode we unpack how to deal with our “inner shadow” and overpower it with light. Because we can’t live in hiding forever, and perfection is a myth. WHAT TO LISTEN FOR: What is the inner shadow? [03:01] What are the things about you that you think are not ideal? What are you trying to hide? What does it mean to do “shadow work?” What does it mean to be “acceptable?” [06:11] Who decides what’s acceptable and what’s not? Was there a time where you said something and got unfavorable responses? Do you want to be acceptable to you and be your optimal self? What does “shadow work” entail? [10:16] Seeking help from professionals Abandoning the idea of perfectionism You can’t fix other people if you’re broken Projecting your inner shadow to others The journey towards acceptance [15:57] What the bible teaches us about accepting the non-ideal parts of us What does it look like to be able to pivot from your mistakes? How to live and not exist in fear Walking away from shame TO STAY CONNECTED: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify Playlist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Music for this moment. Follow @iamshate on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you'd like either of us to join your next panel or event, please email us at ⁠[email protected]⁠.

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Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation Danny Poelman Welcome to "Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation", the podcast where we break the chains of shame and societal expectations to create a safe space for self-healing, habit transformation, and personal growth. Hosted by a seasoned life coach, Danny Poelman DDS, with years of hands-on experience, this podcast is your guide to reclaiming your voice, embracing your story, and living life on your terms. In each episode, we dive deep into the topics that matter most to you—whether it's: -breaking free from unwanted habits like pornography -excessive people-pleasing -healing from past trauma -recovering from narcissistic abuse or religious/relational trauma -anxiety/depression -money mindset blocks -overcoming limiting beliefs We’re not afraid to talk about the things that are often considered taboo, because we believe that through honest, unfiltered conversations, real transformation happens. You’ll hear real Trauma Talks : With Russ Tellup rtellup Hi, I’m Russ Tellup, a Trauma-Informed Somatic Coach and Level 1 Brainspotting practitioner. In my podcast "Trauma Talks," I dive into the neuroscience of trauma, exploring somatic healing practices, Polyvagal Theory, and IFS (Internal Family Systems) parts work. I also occasionally address the complexities of narcissistic abuse, offering insights and tools for healing. Join me each week as we navigate the journey of recovery, resilience, and self-discovery together.

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