EP41 - Nothing is Absolute

There are so many things that we do and be a part of because we think we have to. Everyone else is doing it to, so I should as well. Or you may think that if you don't want to do what someone else is doing then you will stand out or not be part of the cool crown or be judged for not believing what others believe. This is all false and you do not need to do things just because you think you have to. Take Christmas for example and what it means for you and why. This year I decided to not really participate much in the whole Christmas idea, some called my The Grinch, others said it was part of my grief. But for me the main reason of why we have Christmas is to celebrate the birth of Jesus (I am not a practicing religious person) so I am not going to be doing that. The celebration of bringing all your family together and giving gifts to each has become over extended to the point it has lost its whole point. I see where people just buy gifts for the sake of buying a gift, of where Christmas may be a time of feeling lonely for not having loved ones anymore. It can be stressful and cause a lot of pain and even financial stress and debt. For what purpose? Of course many will have a different effect and it will be a most magical time as well, so I know there will be two ends of the thought. But I believe that we all have a choice to decide in what we do and do not want to participate in, and not because we are just following what everyone else is doing. We all get a choice. We are all just energetic vibrational frequencies, so we get to decide where we match our energy to. __ I’ve burned through enough identities to stop believing in a final version of myself. For a long time, I stood in the middle of reality demanding answers. Reality laughed, lit a cigarette, and left me holding the blueprint. Now I trace the patterns in identity, belief and human behaviour, and talk about what I find. My Ego Says Hi holds all my old podcasts, alongside whatever comes next. Different versions of me speaking from different points in the same life. My books, Money Surge, Body Surge and Love Surge, explore the patterns, beliefs and behaviours that shape our relationships with money, our bodies and love. Together they form the Surge Trilogy, three 21-day protocols available as full audiobooks on Spotify. Money Surge https://open.spotify.com/show/0MnVWHQgPQiaQLgzWADVRd Body Surge https://open.spotify.com/show/1wyLX50IhCOaRMeuncGd6Z Love Surge https://open.spotify.com/show/14jYtxSRLHrd8cfOmDtvNU I write about identity, belief and human behaviour on Substack. My website brings together my writing, art, portfolio and systems. Writing & Essays https://annachitticksego.substack.com Portfolio & Systems https://annachittick.com