EP438 - Sex and Conflict: The 4-Minute Exercise

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from Sexology · host Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education

Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement.In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they recount decades of feeling lost and misunderstood, highlighting how a lack of emotional education contributed to sexual dissatisfaction and relational distance.Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill spent the first 30 years of their marriage living in disconnect. Their first sexual experience sent them into years of avoidance and pain. Dr Glenn was so determined to find out what went wrong that he went back to school & became a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Clinical Sexologist. But, it wasn't until he dug deep into emotional regulation that he discovered the source of all of their disconnect. From there, Dr Glenn & Phyllis created The Connection Codes- a framework to help couples connect emotionally and physically using their 4-minute exercise. In this episode, you will hear:· The Hills’ Personal Journey· Why Emotional Education is Critical for a Healthy Sex Life· The Impact of Emotional Wounding on Physical Intimacy· How Emotional Dysregulation Disrupts Sexual Desire and Connection· The “Four-Minute Tool” for Tuning Into Core Emotions· Co-Regulation and Building Emotional Safety With Your Partner· The Power of Naming Emotions Like Sadness, Hurt, and Joy· How Sexual Banter Can Foster Intimacy Outside the Bedroom· Practical Advice for Communicating Emotional Overwhelm Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.Free Erotica ChecklistBook an Appointment with Dr. Moali Connection CodesUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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