Episode 32 : Self-Trust Is the Main Character

Send us Fan MailLove Letters to the Self, the City and the Night (with GHOSTGIRL)This Valentine’s-week episode is a love letter — not to romance, but to self-trust, community and creative courage.Recorded on location at Odd Fellow Hall, Jen and Rachel are joined by Wichita-based DJ and producer GHOSTGIRL for a conversation that drifts from Galentine’s celebrations to late-night creativity, sensuality on your own terms and the power of building the rooms you wish existed.With red heart sunglasses firmly in place for a Valentine’s edition of This or That, this episode balances playfulness with depth — and reminds us that choosing yourself can be both soft and bold.✨ In This Episode, We Talk About:Why Galentine’s is more than an alternative to Valentine’s — it’s an act of intentional connectionHosting community-focused events and what it means to curate joyCreating safe, expressive spaces for women and femmesSensuality as authentic connection — not performanceNavigating social anxiety while building a public creative lifeVulnerability as the gateway to real communityFinding your people through music, art and shared energyWhy experimental synthpop feels like homeLetting your art be a love letter to the nightBuilding multi-day experiences and festivals rooted in belonging💗 This or That: Valentine’s Edition(Yes, with red heart sunglasses)Candlelight vs neon lightsGetting dressed up vs dressing for comfortHosting the party vs being the guestEqual parts chaos, honesty and laughter.🎶 About GHOSTGIRLGHOSTGIRL is a Wichita-based DJ and producer whose work blends synth-forward sounds with experimental textures and emotional depth. Rooted in community-building and self-authored expression, her work spans DJ sets, original music, curated events and collaborative festivals that center connection, inclusivity and creative freedom.🗓️ Upcoming Events & Projects💘 Galentine’s at Odd Fellow Hall 📍 Odd Fellow Hall 📅 February 20 ⏰ Doors at 7 PM | Event 8 PM–Midnight - Get Tickets HereAn all-women and femmes-forward Galentine’s celebration featuring:Multiple DJsLocal women-owned vendorsCurated cocktailsFood, art and community energy🔥 Valentine’s Night with ICT Pole 📅 February 14 A sensual, high-energy evening blending DJ sets, pole performances and embodied expression.🎧 New Music on the Way An upcoming experimental synthpop project featuring collaborations with local artists — music that lives somewhere between dance floor and midnight reflection.🎉 Mini Music Festival at Lion’s Lounge 📍 Lion’s Lounge 📅 April 18–19 (4/20 weekend) A two-day, genre-spanning festival featuring DJs, bands, rappers, vendors and a whole lot of community love.🥂 Final ToastThis episode is for anyone who has ever felt awkward, underestimated or unsure — and chose to show up anyway. For the artists, the hosts, the dancers, the curators and the community-builders. For love letters that aren’t about romance.Support the show