Episode 34 : Uncorked and 30

Send us Fan MailCheers to 30, messy growth and being slightly unhinged on purposeRachel turns 30 this week and we are absolutely uncorking for it.In this episode, we celebrate stepping into a new decade with clarity, confidence and just the right amount of chaos. We talk about lessons from our twenties, why boundaries hit different in your thirties and how “messy” might actually be the most polished thing about you.We also dive into our newly launched merch store (!!!), why 10% of our Messy is My Polish line supports Ballet Wichita and why building something bold requires being brave enough to start imperfectly.🥂 Birthday Energy: Rachel at 30Rachel reflects on:The growth between early 20s and nowWhy independence and strong friendships changed everythingLearning boundaries (even if it took a minute)Choosing clarity over chaosWhy 30 feels grounded, not scaryWe also share a very real-life moment from Galentine’s Night involving:A persistent strangerThree strategic “boops”And the art of handling awkwardness with humor instead of tears👕 Merch Launch: From Slightly Unhinged to Fully BrandedWe officially launched our merch store and talked through the heart behind both designs:🍷 Uncorked and Slightly UnhingedThis one is pure friendship energy.Inspired by how our wine nights started this podcastA nod to the freedom of being fully yourselfA celebration of boldness, silliness and spontaneityBecause sometimes being uncorked is the only way to start something new.💄 Messy is My PolishThis phrase was born during a “This or That” moment and immediately stuck.We talk about:Why perfection is overratedWhy messy growth is still growthHow every polished performance (hello Ballet Wichita) requires unseen mess behind the scenesWhy 10% of profits from this line go to Ballet WichitaYou cannot get polished without getting messy first.🎲 This or That: 30 EditionWe played a birthday-themed round including:Champagne toast vs tequila shotCrying in public vs rage journalingHeels vs sneakersBold lipstick vs bare faceOverdressed vs underdressedSpoiler: We would absolutely rage journal before crying in public. Every time.💎 Hits Different: “Opalite” by Taylor SwiftThis week’s Taylor Swift deep dive focuses on “Opalite” from Life of a Showgirl.Rachel shares:Why this is her favorite song from the album so farThe symbolism of Opal and OnyxHow the lyrics reflect serenity, growth and emotional clarityWhy this song feels uplifting and groundedJen reflects on:The contrast between heartbreak albums and this new eraChoosing presence over performance in relationshipsThe beauty of love that feels steady instead of chaoticWe love a poetic queen.🔮 What’s Coming NextWe’re excited to welcome:Kiah and Bella from Roaming Spirits Bar Women building bold businesses and shaking up the scene.Tracy from Groover Labs Community building, entrepreneurship and creative collaboration.If you’d like to be a guest on So THIS Happened, reach out. We love spotlighting bold stories and brave beginnings.Support the show