How To Be Kind To Someone You Don't Like

When we don’t “like” someone, it’s often because we aren’t compatible with them or to them. It’s likely that our values, views, habits, passions, or priorities just don’t match.  When you notice that you don’t like someone, try this: “I’m noticing that I don’t like him/her. I wonder if it’s because we aren’t compatible.” I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice not wanting to spend time with certain people? How willing are you to give yourself the permission to be incompatible with others? When do you notice expecting others to change so that you will like them? When do you notice forcing yourself to change so that others will like you? How willing are you to dig a little deeper when you notice having resistance to another person? If you know you could use some support and accountability, email me to schedule a complimentary happy hour call: [email protected]   Thank you for investing your valuable time and energy into listening to the podcast. I’m so very grateful for you.  If you enjoyed this episode, you can “tip the bartender” by rating and reviewing the podcast. Your review makes it easier for others to find the podcast.  Don’t forget to hit the SUBSCRIBE button to be notified any time I pour out a new episode.    My new book Intentional Intoxication: How To Deliberately Distill The Different Life You Desire, is available on Amazon. You can imbibe on the entire book in one, short, intentionally happier hour: Intentional Intoxication Book   If you’re interested to know about how I can support you in overcoming the habit of escaping or chasing, I invite you to reach out to me by using the email below and we find a time to chat: [email protected]   For a quick shot of your life’s current level of intoxication, I invite you to complete the 10 Questions on my Intoxication Inventory: Intoxication Inventory