How to Handle Overhelpers

We've all been there — someone swoops in to help before you've even asked, grabs something out of your hands, or insists on doing something for you when you were handling it just fine. It's well-meaning. It can also be exhausting.In this episode, Jenelle and Joy get into the messy, nuanced world of helping — when it's welcome, when it crosses a line, and how to handle it when it does. Drawing from their own lived experiences as people with disabilities, they unpack why our culture tends to put helpers on a pedestal, and what gets lost when the focus shifts from the person being helped to the person doing the helping.In this episode:Why everyone needs help sometimes — and why that's not a disability thing, it's a human thingHow apps like Be My Eyes flip the script on what "helping" can look like when it's actually mutualThe difference between helping someone and taking over for them (and why that distinction matters)Unsolicited touching, moved belongings, and other "helpful" behaviors that can feel anything butWhere the fear of being a burden comes from — and why it's worth examiningThe gap between good intentions and real impact, and how to have the repair conversation when harm happensPractical ways to set boundaries without feeling like you have to justify yourselfWhat it actually means to see someone as a whole person — not just their disabilityIf you've ever struggled to speak up when help crosses a line, or wondered how to offer support without overstepping, this one's for you.Resources: "How to Handle Overhelpers" on DoubleVisionBlog