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EPISODE · Jun 26, 2025 · 49 MIN

How to Stop Trying to Fit in as a Midlife Woman with Guest Vicki Holtom

from Midlife Unlimited · host Kate Porter

Join the Midlife Unlimited® conversation by sending Kate a textMidlife really is a time for rediscovering ourselves. We’ve had enough of not feeling enough… enough of trying to please others. Of constantly pretending to be someone we’re not – just because we feel we should behave in a certain way.We’re sick of conforming to stereotypes. Because quite frankly it’s blinking tiring worrying about how others are judging us. And as a result, hiding our quirks. Masking the true us. Diluting our brilliance… rather than letting the real woman we deserve to be shine through in her perfect imperfectionIf this resonates with you as a Gen X woman, join your host Kate Porter The Midlife Metamorphosis Coach® and her guest living nutrition and reiki practitioner and founder of AEB Wellness Vicki Holtom for Episode 034 as they talk about How to Stop Trying to Fit In as a Midlife Woman.Like Kate, Vicki is just getting started in Midlife,  and in this empowering episode the pair share their insights for how to stop conforming to societal pressure and celebrate us inside and out in our next phase.Vicki is on a mission to shake up the narrative on how we treat our bodies and our body image in Midlife. She shares with Kate how her metamorphosis journey from a tomboy troubled by “massive body image issues” to breaking free by stopping trying to fit in has been massively liberating as she’s escaped constant fear of judgment that was holding her back from being her unapologetically authentic self .Kate is honoured that Vicki also lifts the lid on the taboo of baby loss, sharing the story of how her son Adam’s passing has helped Vicky discover her why and drives her purpose to enjoy and embrace life.And tune in for Vicki’s top lesson’s learned for finding what gives you joy so that we can learn, grow and evolve in this great experiment that is life.Connect with Vickihttps://www.instagram.com/aebwellnesshttps://www.linkedin.com/in/vicki-holtom/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557059915024Support the showI'd love to hear from you - because Midlife Unlimited® is all about YOU!  https://buymeacoffee.com/kateporterSupport the show  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2417699/support https://www.facebook.com/groups/4035518246684901 https://midlifeunlimitedpodcast.buzzsprout.com for details of my award-winning 1-2-1 and MORE! group coaching program for Midlife women Connect with me  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kateporterofficial/https://www.facebook.com/skateporterhttps://www.instagram.com/kate_porter_official/https://www.youtube.com/@MidlifeUnlimitedHere's to to living Midlife Unlimited®b19c0276942dde98656f2638f9c7148efbf54ad9

Join the Midlife Unlimited® conversation by sending Kate a text Midlife really is a time for rediscovering ourselves. We’ve had enough of not feeling enough… enough of trying to please others. Of constantly pretending to be someone we’re not – just because we feel we should behave in a certain way. We’re sick of conforming to stereotypes. Because quite frankly it’s blinking tiring worrying about how others are judging us. And as a result, hiding our quirks. Masking the true us. Diluting our b...

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