EPISODE · Aug 13, 2026 · 10 MIN
I Feel Anxious Around People — Social Anxiety Meditation
from Calming Anxiety | Guided Meditation, Sleep Hypnosis & Panic Attack Relief · host Martin Hewlett - Calming Anxiety
Overcoming Social Anxiety: Your 10-Minute Calm Down SwitchDo you ever find yourself standing outside a room, heart racing, rehearsing every possible mistake before you even walk in? In this session of Calming Anxiety, Martin Hewlett (Clinical Hypnotherapist and former Paramedic) guides you through a powerful 10-minute nervous system reset. Learn how to silence the "filter" of social anxiety and reconnect with your true, confident self using vagus nerve stimulation and clinical visualization. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:How to trigger your vagus nerve to stop a panic response instantly.Why the "rehearsing mind" is a false filter, not the truth.A paramedic’s perspective on high-pressure social environments.Practical tools to take up space in any room with confidence.Episode Chapters00:00 – Understanding the Social Anxiety Response01:09 – The 4-2-5 Breath: Activating the Vagus Nerve03:00 – Visualization: Finding Your True Self04:50 – The Truth About How Others Perceive You06:00 – Affirmations for Social Confidence08:06 – 3 Daily Caring Tips for Social Situations10:11 – Returning to the Present MomentAffirmations for ConnectionRepeat these internally to retrain your brain for any social setting: "I am calm in the presence of other people.""I do not need to be perfect to be worthy of connection.""Other people's opinions of me are none of my business.""I am allowed to take up space in any room I enter.""My presence is enough."3 Daily Caring Tips for Social AnxietyThe Two-Minute Rule: Arrive two minutes early. Let your nervous system acclimatize to the physical space before the room fills with people.Focus on One: Don't try to "work the room." Find one person, one genuine conversation, and let the crowd look after itself.The "What Went Right" Catalog: Your mind will naturally list your "failures." Counter this by naming three things that went fine—a smile, eye contact, or a sentence that landed.Go Deeper with Calming AnxietyIf you found peace in these ten minutes, there is so much more to explore:The Library: Access over 2,300 sessions designed to help you find your "perfect coffee break" for the soul.The Course: Ready to break the cycle? Join the Anxiety Circuit Breaker Course at calminganxiety.fm for 5 focused clinical hypnotherapy sessions.Support the Show: If this helped you, please Subscribe and Share this episode with someone who might be standing outside their own "door" today.In everything you do today, my friend. Be kind.👉 Click to subscribe and unlock ad-free episodes now!Support the Show:Ad-Free Listening: Enjoy Calming Anxiety without ads at https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/calming-anxiety--4110266/supportBuy Me a Coffee: Support hosting costs at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/calminganxietyhttps://calminganxietypodcast.substack.com/?r=6zm0sc&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistRate & Review: Leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help us reach more listeners!YouTube: Watch all episodes at https://www.youtube.com/c/calminganxiety?sub_confirmation=1 Social Media Support: For younger listeners struggling with social media stress, visit https://www.icanhelp.net/Backing Music: Chris Collins===================Affiliate links to the gear I use the items that give me a more tranquil life.=============================Items I use for a more relaxed way of life :)Organic Pure Hemp CBD Capsules - https://amzn.to/3Ready for More Calm?Thank you for listening to the Calming Anxiety Podcast, featuring guided meditation, mindfulness, and sleep hypnosis sessions with Martin Hewlett. Our mission is to provide you with proven tools for anxiety relief, stress reduction, and a path toward deep relaxation. Use this episode anytime you need to calm your mind and feel more at ease.
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