“Just ignore them” is terrible friendship advice

from Parent Pause · host Kim McCabe

“Just ignore them” may be some of the worst friendship advice we give our children.When a friend leaves them behind, the hurt isn’t trivial. It raises a much bigger question: do I still belong? In this Parent Pause, I’m thinking about how we can take that pain seriously without taking over, inflating the drama or rushing in with solutions.What did the adults in your life say when friendship hurt, and did it help?Thank you for pausing with me. Take care. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kimmccabe.substack.com/subscribe

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