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EPISODE · Feb 16, 2026 · 27 MIN

Making Friends Later in Life Series | Episode 4 Boundary Needs & The Friendship Reset — Stay Open Without Self-Abandoning

from Slightly Unsupervised · host Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder

Send us Fan MailMaking Friends Later in Life Series | Episode 4 Boundary Needs & The Friendship Reset — Stay Open Without Self-AbandoningBoundaries get a bad reputation — like they’re cold, harsh, or “pushing people away.” But in midlife friendships, boundaries aren’t walls… they’re how you stay open without losing yourself. In Episode 4 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk about why boundaries feel scary (especially for women raised to be agreeable, keep the peace, and not be “too much”), and why naming what you need is the fastest way to create emotionally safe, sustainable friendships. This episode is for the woman who wants connection — but refuses to self-abandon to get it. We get real about: Why most women aren’t struggling to meet people — they’re struggling to stay open without getting hurt againThe difference between boundaries and rejectionWhat “mutual effort” actually looks like (and what to do when you’re doing all the work)How to recognize other people’s boundaries early (so you don’t take it personally)Why consistency matters more than intensity in later-life friendshipsJennifer’s unforgettable boundary story about the guy who showed up late… and what it teaches about respectMini-Series Reminder Making Friends Later in Life is a short series from Slightly Unsupervised designed to help women rebuild real connection in midlife and beyond. Before we jump into “where to meet people,” we start with the real foundation: self-awareness, energy, boundaries, and emotional patterns — so friendship becomes natural instead of forced. 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective If this episode hit you in the feels (or made you laugh way too hard), we consider that a win. Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. And when you’re ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony™ at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan Mail Making Friends Later in Life Series | Episode 4 Boundary Needs & The Friendship Reset — Stay Open Without Self-Abandoning Boundaries get a bad reputation — like they’re cold, harsh, or “pushing people away.” But in midlife friendships, boundaries aren’t walls… they’re how you stay open without losing yourself. In Episode 4 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk about why boundaries feel scary (especially for women raised to be agreeable...

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