My kids have too much stuff!

I want to start with a confession. Sometimes my children’s stuff makes me feel slightly panicky. Not because I’m a tidy person - I’m really not - but because when every surface is covered, it can feel like everywhere in the house is asking something of me. In this Parent Pause, I talk about that feeling of being pressed in by toys, clothes, half-made projects and plastic things with missing bits, especially at this time of year when even more stuff arrives. I reflect on why it isn’t really about tidiness at all, but about bandwidth - how when our lives are already full, too much stuff becomes one more demand. I share what helped when decluttering felt too harsh, including a simple experiment of putting half the toys and books away for a while, and how that brought unexpected calm for all of us. This is an invitation to stop mounting an offensive against the mess, and instead ask a gentler question about what the space actually needs to feel easier.Thank you for pausing with me. Take care. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kimmccabe.substack.com/subscribe