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EPISODE · Jun 13, 2026 · 22 MIN

People pleasing is keeping you stuck: here’s how to break free

from Sincerely, Self · host Lexi Benitez

Have you ever found yourself making decisions based on what everyone else wants instead of what feels right for you?In this solo episode of Sincerely, Self, Lexi opens up about her own struggle with people pleasing while planning her wedding and shares the powerful realizations she’s had about prioritizing other people’s opinions over her own happiness.From navigating family expectations to learning how to set healthier boundaries, this episode is a reminder that caring about others doesn’t mean abandoning yourself. Lexi dives into why so many empathetic people become people pleasers, how fear of judgment keeps us stuck, and practical ways to start trusting yourself again.If you’ve ever worried about disappointing people, felt responsible for everyone else’s feelings, or struggled to put yourself first, this conversation is for you.In This Episode:* Why people pleasing often comes from empathy* The wedding planning experience that opened Lexi’s eyes* How fear of judgment influences our decisions* The difference between kindness and self-sacrifice* Learning to stop carrying responsibility for everyone else’s emotions* Practical ways to build self-trust* How journaling can help you process difficult situations* Why your feelings and opinions matter* The importance of boundaries and self-respectYou are allowed to make decisions that are best for you. Being compassionate doesn’t require abandoning your own needs, dreams, or happiness.✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1 evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍 Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

Have you ever found yourself making decisions based on what everyone else wants instead of what feels right for you?In this solo episode of Sincerely, Self, Lexi opens up about her own struggle with people pleasing while planning her wedding and shares the powerful realizations she’s had about prioritizing other people’s opinions over her own happiness.From navigating family expectations to learning how to set healthier boundaries, this episode is a reminder that caring about others doesn’t mean abandoning yourself. Lexi dives into why so many empathetic people become people pleasers, how fear of judgment keeps us stuck, and practical ways to start trusting yourself again.If you’ve ever worried about disappointing people, felt responsible for everyone else’s feelings, or struggled to put yourself first, this conversation is for you.In This Episode:* Why people pleasing often comes from empathy* The wedding planning experience that opened Lexi’s eyes* How fear of judgment influences our decisions* The difference between kindness and self-sacrifice* Learning to stop carrying responsibility for everyone else’s emotions* Practical ways to build self-trust* How journaling can help you process difficult situations* Why your feelings and opinions matter* The importance of boundaries and self-respectYou are allowed to make decisions that are best for you. Being compassionate doesn’t require abandoning your own needs, dreams, or happiness.✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1 evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍 Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

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